Girl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship Stories

What "kind of woman" gets into threesomes and gang bangs? Do "good girls" even grow up to enjoy sex? These questions once lived in Casey Donatello's mind. Little could she have imagined she'd one day delve into the swinger's community and hotwifing. Today the sex-positivity advocate is passionate about play she once considered taboo and "dirty." Casey is equally passionate about busting related stereotypes and sharing related wisdom. You'll hear about: Casey's friend's sexual experience that put her off of sex early on How that very thing later became her fetish What she's learned about threesome, gang bangs and her desires How she met her husband (and why she was so hesitant at first) Hotwifing basics Tips for delving into hotwifing, swinging or any fantasy More! Explore the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest! IG: @GirlBonerMedia TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio FB: @MyGirlBoner augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner patreon.com/girlboner Produced by August McLaughlin

Pamela Madsen was a happily married mother of two with a successful career when she felt drawn to an erotic experience that made her jaw (and clothes) drop. The experience launched a life-changing journey of sexual exploration that continues today — her "nutrition," as she calls it. Some of the topics you'll hear about: Sexological bodywork and massage Erotic self-pleasure trans states Incongruent desire in a relationship Sexual self-embracement for eating disorder healing Female sexuality Sexual empowerment D/S dominance/submission and sensation play Learn more about Back to the Body: Sensuous Retreats for Women. Explore the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest! IG: @GirlBonerMedia TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio FB: @MyGirlBoner augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner patreon.com/girlboner Produced by August McLaughlin

Lala didn't realize she could experience one orgasm, much less multiple, until she had the "best sex [of her] life" with her now husband – so why aren't serial Os her favorite? Lora found her way to multiple Os using one of the most popular sex toys among women. (The same didn't work for August...) And Yuval and Court are proof that O after O isn't just a "female experience." In this Girl Boner episode, you'll hear these stories plus related tips, multiple orgasm myths, busted, and more! Learn more from Lala, Yuval and Court. Download the Couply App here: https://couply.page.link/afternoondelight Stock up on lube at The Pleasure Chest! IG: @GirlBonerMedia TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio FB: @MyGirlBoner augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner patreon.com/girlboner Produced by August McLaughlin

For years, Leah Carey felt equal parts shut down and obsessed re: sex. Meanwhile, she chose terrible partners. Then in her 40s, during her final session with a therapist, she revealed a long held sexual secret. Leah's admission marked the start of what would become an across-the-country sexual awakening adventure. She eventually landed on desires that surprised her and began transforming her life into helping other women find similar healing. Learn more from Leah: leahcarey.com Save 50% on a Beducated annual pass: https://beducate.me/pd2406-august Get a free TENGA Egg Lovers with your iroha SVR purchase here. Stock up on lube at The Pleasure Chest! IG: @GirlBonerMedia TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio FB: @MyGirlBoner augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner patreon.com/girlboner Produced by August McLaughlin

EF Dodd dated a guy from a distance in pre-FaceTime days. Jenay had a relationship that started in Idaho and ended with him overseas. And both women found ways to keep things spicy, challenges and all. (And yes, dirty talk played an important role!) This episode also features Dr. Megan Fleming's thoughts for a listener who feels uncomfortable, yet curious, about dirty talk, and August's favorite tip. To learn more about EF and her latest novel, Almost Perfect, visit efdoddwrites.com. For more from Jenay, check out her podcast, My Naked Mindset. Register for Afternoon Delight here! Explore the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest! IG: @GirlBonerMedia TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio FB: @MyGirlBoner augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner patreon.com/girlboner Produced by August McLaughlin

Women's sexuality educator Jordan D'Nelle went from not realizing orgasms were a thing or possible with a partner to finding orgasmic bliss in incredible ways and places. Her steamiest experiences taught her a ton about sex, pleasure and her body – lessons she pays forward. Learn more from Jordan: https://jordandnelle.com Register for Afternoon Delight here! Explore the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest! IG: @GirlBonerMedia TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio FB: @MyGirlBoner augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner patreon.com/girlboner Produced by August McLaughlin

Can an orgasm change your life? Is it ever too late to invite a sexual awakening? As a special wrap up to the year, August shares a conversation she had with colleague and friend, Lynn Brown Rosenberg, at the Residence 11 Desire Summit in Los Angeles. Register for Afternoon Delight (with early bird pricing) here! Order Lynn's memoir, My Sexual Awakening at 70 on Amazon. Explore The Pleasure Chest holiday gift guides! IG: @GirlBonerMedia TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio FB: @MyGirlBoner augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner patreon.com/girlboner Produced by August McLaughlin

Intimacy coach Lee Noto didn't realize she'd been longing for surrender until a crush turned into far more. Author Liz Asch fell away from her queer expression, then gradually reclaimed it. And that growth led to more than squirting. Yes, this week's Girl Boner replay is a juicy one… You'll also hear about Afternoon Delight – a live, interactive podcast event August is co-hosting with three wonderful colleagues in February. Register (with early bird pricing) here! Learn more about Lee Noto: leenoto.com Becomethehighpriestess.com Learn more about Liz Asch and Your Salt on My Lips: lizasch.com/salt-lips Explore The Pleasure Chest holiday gift guides! IG: @GirlBonerMedia TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio FB: @MyGirlBoner augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner patreon.com/girlboner Produced by August McLaughlin

When Jennifer Silva Redmond asked her fiancé, Russel, "What would you do if you could do anything?," his response and the decision that followed changed the course of their lives. Since then, she's learned a great deal about intimacy, sex, her body and herself while living and loving at sea. You'll also learn: How Jennifer's hippy-like upbringing made bodies okay (at first) The impact LA's acting culture had on her body image How she moved past faking orgasms Benefits of trying a sex toy or position you don't love Jennifer's advice for choosing an ideal partner and bolstering the relationship Check out Jennifer's memoir, Honeymoon at Sea, on Amazon. Find more of her writing on her substack. Build your bedroom collection at The Pleasure Chest! And get free toy cleaner with any Le Wand purchase by 11/30. IG: @GirlBonerMedia TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio FB: @MyGirlBoner augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner patreon.com/girlboner Produced by August McLaughlin

Jenay Leger and Court Vox have had different sexual self-discovery journeys with powerful common threads — including an illuminating ho-phase. Learn what their spicy escapades revealed about their desires and kinks, plus tips for making the most of your own sexual exploration. You'll also learn a simple way to play with power dynamics in a relationship, how Dominant and Submissive (D&S) experiences can vary from media depictions and how a crying kink can play out. Learn more from Jenay by listening to My Naked Mindset. Find her Self-Love Journal on Amazon. Learn more from Court or sign up for his SACRED retreat or workshops at bodyvox.com. Or follow along at @thebodyvox on Instagram and Facebook. Build your pleasure collection at The Pleasure Chest! IG: @GirlBonerMedia TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio FB: @MyGirlBoner augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner patreon.com/girlboner Produced by August McLaughlin

Yuval Mann is an erotic intelligence mentor who helps people use their sexual expression as "a vehicle of individual and collective evolution." Early on, though, he was barely allowed to interact with girls, much less embrace his sexual desires. His journey from the Israeli army to the global fetish and kink scene taught him about pleasure, intimacy and so much more. You'll hear about: His sexual awakening, after growing up as an Orthodox Jew A relationship that helped heal some of his sex-related shame What he discovered at his first sex party A hot triad relationship on Paradise Island Tips for exploring in your own sex life Learn more from Yuval here, and check out his Sensual Alchemy community on Telescope. Explore The Pleasure Chest's latest specials! And their special Bondage and Restraints Collection. Note: This episode features a man who grew up in Israel. It was finalized before the Israel-Hamas war broke out, bringing profound tragedy. Like so many, I'm thinking of those who are most affected with deep heartache and care. Credible aid organizations you can donate to: https://www.npr.org/2023/10/13/1205235922/help-israel-gaza-humanitarian-organizations IG: @GirlBonerMedia TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio FB: @MyGirlBoner augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner patreon.com/girlboner Produced by August McLaughlin

Long before Dr. Joy became a groundbreaking relationship expert, she gleaned harmful messages about sëxuality. Her journey into ethical non-monogamy and polyamory shed light on important truths, while invited lesson-rich challenges and benefits she continues to cherish. Today Joy helps others cultivate authentic, pleasure-rich lives and relationships, no matter the style. And her work continues to reveal myths so many of us learn about intimacy, ways they damage (supposedly) ethical non-monogamous relationships, and the wonderfulness that can unfold when we unlearn them. In addition to Joy's personal journey into non-traditional partnerships, you'll learn: Myths about ENM, involving cheating and jealousy How new relationship energy (NRE) can play out for poly folks A practice she recommends for determining your own best relationships style Learn more from Dr. Joy: joyberkheimer.com Explore The Pleasure Chest's latest specials! More Girl Boner fun: IG: @GirlBonerMedia TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio FB: @MyGirlBoner augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner Produced by August McLaughlin

Treva Brandon Scharf was in her early 40s when she set her sights on becoming a single mother. Little could she have anticipated what would unfold in her fertility journey, from spicy escapades to frustrating challenges – much less the major love life shift that would follow. After CK Love learned of a partner's betrayal, she set out on a journey to connect with her sensual self — something she hadn't realized needed more healing. And both women have found their way to a deeper sense of self, fulfilling relationships and sexy sparks we can all learn from. (CK's story was originally released in February, 2022.) Learn more from Treva here and from CK here. Explore The Pleasure Chest's latest specials! More Girl Boner fun: IG: @GirlBonerMedia TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio FB: @MyGirlBoner augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner Produced by August McLaughlin

Alana McKenzie Page was stunned when a surprise, supposed-to-be-sexy date turned out to be...very much not. Krystal Casey realized that the very thing she strove to protect her kids had entered her home. Both women found their way from blindsiding challenges to immense pleasure and fulfillment – in and outside of the bedroom. This episode touches on a few difficult topics, with mentions of abuse, addiction and death (in the second story). It's also rich with light, encouragement, sex lessons learned…and a few laughs! As always, please take care while listening. Check out Alana's book, The Art of Feminine Seduction: How To Reclaim Power In Dating, Sex, and Love, and download Krystal's Ignite Your Spark toolkit. National Domestic Abuse Hotline: 800-799-7233 National Sexual Abuse Hotline: 1-800-656-4673 If you're concerned about your sexual thoughts or behaviors, click here for resources via Johns Hopkins Bloomberg School of Public Health. Explore The Pleasure Chest's latest specials! Save 25% at Beducated here. More Girl Boner fun: IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner Produced by August McLaughlin

Mariah Freya grew up feeling pretty comfortable about bodies. Then her teens brought rockiness that stood in the way of her sexual empowerment. After years of off-and-on low libido in adulthood, she encountered a workshop that changed…everything. Mariah's sexual awakening set her on a path of spicy exploration and eventually to co-founding Beducated. Save 25% at Beducated here. Check out The Pleasure Chest's latest specials! And their Anal August top picks here. More Girl Boner fun: IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner Produced by August McLaughlin

Arielle Greenberg realized very early on that her sexuality didn't match up with the masses. Her story sheds light on what it means to be a fetishist, the erotic potential of roleplaying, what a "stability fetish" involves, myths about kinky folks and more! You'll also hear about Arielle's new book, Superfreaks: Kink Pleasure and The Pursuit of Happiness. Check out The Pleasure Chest's latest specials! More Girl Boner fun: IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner Produced by August McLaughlin

A seemingly perfect date gone very wrong, powerful sex that involved no nakedness or penetration and a listener question on hands-free orgasms! A few things you'll learn about in the episode: Why we need to take care of ourselves after breakups The importance of feeling, rather than ignoring, our feelings The importance of feeling in your body, aka embodiment A simple breathing/energetic sex exercise A throw-back "think-gasm" story Hands-free orgasms tips Learn more about Samantha Skelly's breath work and download the Pause Breathwork app at pausebreathwork.com/app. Learn more about GS Youngblood at gsyoungblood.com. Check out The Pleasure Chest's latest specials! More Girl Boner fun: IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner Produced by August McLaughlin

Imagine being raised by a father who was nicknamed the "king of porn." Now imagine that it's the 1970s, and your dad attracts attention from the FBI because of his renowned and very spicy filmmaking. Perhaps too much for many of us to imagine… But for Gerard Damiano Jr., it's a walk down memory lane. Gerard Damiano Sr's film, Deep Throat, is the most famous adult film of all time – one known for bringing triple-X films into the mainstream and gleaning a ton of controversy. And this year marks the film's 50th anniversary. During the filming, abuse played out in the personal life of the film's star, Linda Lovelace, so you'll hear about that in this episode, too. You'll also hear: Gerard's take on the film as far as female sexuality and sex-positivity Why Gerard and his sister remain proactivity sensitive about Lovelace's experiences Why the clitoris and female orgasm focus in Deep Throat were especially revolutionary How you can see or support the film Learn more: https://damianofilms.com https://throatvote.org @deepthroatmovie Check out The Pleasure Chest's latest specials! More Girl Boner fun: IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner Produced by August McLaughlin

Joe was in his mid-30s when he had sex for the first time, while working through his fears with a surrogate partner. That healing work opened the door to not only sexual pleasure and romance, but to surprising benefits throughout his life. This episode touches on eating disorders. Please take care while listening. Interested in appearing in Joe's upcoming podcast, Pan Talk? Send an email to: [email protected] More stories about sex/love addiction, including different takes on the terminology: Hooked on Love and Lust or Dating Apps: How Two Women Moved Forward https://augustmclaughlin.com/love-sex-dating-apps/ Sex Addiction and Self-Acceptance: An Interview with Erica Garza https://augustmclaughlin.com/women-sex-addiction-girl-boner/ Resources Joe recommends (Find more in the blog post/transcript!) Sex Surrogate Partner Therapy by Vena Blanchard DHS: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CIc70zBY3SY International Professional Surrogates Association: surrogatetherapy.org Ecstatic Sex: A guide to the pleasures of Tantra by Ma Ananda Sarita Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-first Century by Barbara Carrellas Check out The Pleasure Chest's latest specials! More Girl Boner fun: IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner Produced by August McLaughlin

What if you're not sure what gender identity or label suits you? Or you're cisgender want to date someone who's trans or nonbinary? How can cisgender folks become better allies? In this bonus episode, you'll hear August's conversation with Rae McDaniel, sex therapist, speaker, DEI consultant and author of Gender Magic: Live Shamelessly, Reclaim Your Joy, & Step into Your Most Authentic Self. You'll learn about the book, related themes and Rae's answers to thoughtful listener questions! Follow Rae on Instagram: @theraemcdaniel More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner @GirlBonerMedia Produced by August McLaughlin

Author Elisa Magagna (E.C. Stilson) was once exorcised for having premarital sex, admid a spree of harmful messages. Since then, she's learned to embrace her sexuality and pleasure of many kinds – through a journey that's involved time as a homeless street musician, having five kids, finding true love and, a most recently, navigating a terminal illness. Elisa's story sheds light on ways to manage during difficult times, the importance of keeping sexy sparks ignited when life gets tough and more. While you'll hear about some difficult topics in this episode, it also includes a lot of joy and laughter. Learn more about Elisa's work + order her books: ecwrites.net Follow her on Facebook: @realecstilson Check out The Pleasure Chest's latest specials! IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner Produced by August McLaughlin

When Mischa Byruck went to Burning Man in 2017, for the first time he felt as though "he wanted to be seen, naked, exhibitionistically, sexually." He couldn't have imagined just how that would play out…or where his dip into a particular sexy public display would lead. Topics touched on in his story include rope bondage, a surprising and welcomed orgasm, homoerotic play and more! You'll also learn why exhibitionism is often considered part of female sexuality, reasons many people (of any gender) enjoy it and what Mischa most hopes to accomplish with his work as a men's sexual integrity coach. Learn more about Mischa's work and sign up for his (all gender) group and individual offerings: evolve.men Beyond Consent IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner Produced by August McLaughlin

Big Os that blew our minds! And then some... As shared with August at an event co-hosted by Sex-Positive Los Angeles called Donuts and Orgasm Stories – featuring Erin, Joe, Heidi, Norma, AP, Rachel and Kelsey, plus one of August's own. Highlights include: A brussels sprouts-gasm Before and after menopause climaxes A first orgasm after years of sex-phobia The sexiness of "messiness" and safe exploration Leaning into your intuition for more pleasure What donuts and orgasms have in common SPLA on Instagram: @SexPosLA Check out The Pleasure Chest's latest specials! IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner Produced by August McLaughlin Event recordings featured in this episode were engineered by Makenzie Mizell.

Elizabeth Anne Wood's mother, Judy, had been enjoying her sexual prime (that started in her 50s) when she was diagnosed with terminal cancer. Elizabeth's memoir, Bound: A Daughter, a Domme, and an End-Of-Life Story, explores the last eight months of Judy's life and highlights the importance of sex-positivity. In this Girl Boner Radio episode, you'll hear: A few of Elizabeth's childhood memories, including the "pecker head story" How Judy began to embrace kink, BDSM and Domme life How BDSM helped Judy navigate aspects of her cancer treatment What was missing, sexuality-wise, from Judy's care How Elizabeth and Judy found moments of pleasure amid hardship Elizabeth's relationship with Judy (and her ashes) since her death Check out The Pleasure Chest's latest specials! IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner Produced by August McLaughlin

Sex advice from three awesome sex workers, including the personal experiences behind them! Inspired by a listener email and dedicated to LL's mom. Daisy Ducati @daisyducati NatsHoney @natshoney Steph Sia @strippedbysia Check out The Pleasure Chest's latest specials! More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio This episode was produced by August McLaughlin and Makenzie Mizelle @sidneylaneishere

Edwina started running sex toy parties nearly 30 years ago – and she's seen a lot of change in the toys and people's opinions about them. In this week's episode, she shares some of her wildest and most meaningful memories – basically a fun walk down Sex Toy Memory Lane! Plus tips for choosing the right toy for your needs or desires. You'll also hear: Tips for getting started with sex toys A dildo story that put tears in August's eyes Toy recommendations for clitoris bliss and longer-lasting erections Why Edwina "bought" her daughters their first orgasms Advice for raising pleasure-aware kids Check out The Pleasure Chest's latest specials! Are you ready to feel more energized, focused, and supported? Go to lairdsuperfood.com/girlboner and add nourishing, plant-based foods to fuel you from sunrise to sunset. More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio

Vulnerability coach Rina Trevi grew up in Russia, with a lot of sexual repression. A journey into sky-diving, sex work, BDSM and Tantric massage in the U.S. and Thailand helped her reclaim her sexual self and inspired her to help others find similar pleasure and healing. You'll also learn: How BDSM may help heal trauma (and IRL examples) The role fantasies can play in fetishes and sexual healing How acting on a fantasy helped Rina heal a childhood wound How to safely and intentionally use vulnerability for better sex Speaking with Rina brought August's 2018 conversation with Kasia Urbaniak, who teaches women to reclaim their power, to her mind. So this episode also includes a throwback segment featuring "best of" highlights – and tips for feeling a greater sense of agency in tricky situations. Check out The Pleasure Chest's latest specials! Are you ready to feel more energized, focused, and supported? Go to lairdsuperfood.com/girlboner and add nourishing, plant-based foods to fuel you from sunrise to sunset. IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio

Can orgasms make or break a relationship? Learning to make sex pleasurable (for her) helped save Susan Bratton's marriage and sex life. A toxic relationship led Emmi Fortin to her lengthiest climax, and kept her stuck on a poor-fit partner. You'll also learn: How to experience hot, breakup-level sex without the heartache Clitoris tips for maximum bliss Why Emmi decided to openly write about her intimate experiences How Susan shifted from dissociation to presence during sex Ways to bridge an orgasm gap (which are common for women and vulva owners in relationships with cis-men) Tips for experiencing "female orgasms" from PIV sex Susan's expanded orgasm experience (which she teaches) A Tantric exercise that helped ease body shame How a photoshoot spurred intense self-pleasure Check out Emmi's memoir + watch the trailer: Who is Your Red Dress? Download Susan's Sex Life Bucket List Check out The Pleasure Chest's latest specials! More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio

Some spicy escapades are wilder than fiction! Have you ever had sex with a stranger, sex in a surprising place or and discovered a kink in public? Romance authors Karina Kennedy, Nana Malone and Sky Warren have, respectively. Hear about their experiences, some related advice and what to expect from their steamy books. Get a bonus clip with more tips: patreon.com/girlboner The erotic story, written by Sky Warren, was performed by voice over artist Rosa Delgado: [email protected] This episode is slightly updated from the original, which was released in August, 2021. Check out The Pleasure Chest's latest specials! More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio Twitter: @AugstMcLaughlin girlboner

https://augustmclaughlin.com/ashleigh-swing/Ashleigh Renard met her husband at 21 and, for years, thought she had an ideal life and marriage. When the pair decided to spice things up through sex parties and the swinging lifestyle, she faced ongoing problems for the first time. Today, Ashleigh helps other couples keep monogamy hot, no parties or partner swapping required. So in addition to her personal journey, you'll hear a few smart ways to accomplish just that. Learn more about Ashley and order her memoir, Swing: a Memoir of Doing it All: ashleighrenard.com/links Check out The Pleasure Chest's latest specials! More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio Twitter: @AugstMcLaughlin girlboner

Emily Gindlesparger was eight years into a relationship when her partner admitted having a crush on someone else. Her responsive tailspin of anxiety, jealousy and self-doubt led to curiosities about her own true desires and gradually stepping into them. You'll also learn: How she and her partner navigated aspects of ethical non-monogamy, such as new relationship energy (NRE) How embracing her queerness helped her feel more connected to her femininity Takeaways from one of her standout sexual experiences How (and why) she decided to come out to her parents about her polyamory Her advice on pursuing desires Learn more about Emily: emilygindlesparger.com Order her memoir, Please Make Me Love Me Check out The Pleasure Chest's Rookie Gift Guide! More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio Twitter: @AugstMcLaughlin

Princessa Natasha Strange grew up on a farm in Oregon in the 70s, with no access to pop culture. Early on, she learned how to respond to schoolyard bullies in ways that foretold her future. Her turbulent road to becoming a professional Dominatrix and femme-centric BDSM coach has been well worth it. And she has a lot to say about embracing your desires and cultivating confidence. You'll also learn: Common motivations for cross-dressing When Natasha felt she was "selling herself" (hint: it wasn't during sex work) How she became trauma-informed and why she's passionate about working with femmes How Natasha makes "anti-aging" decisions around things like Botox Why she has a "fear boner" around her upcoming offerings A recent time when August felt embarrassed, then realized she was just being herself A smart way to build confidence — can roleplaying help? An announcement about show changes, from August Learn about Natasha and power exchange here and check out her book, coaching and courses here. Check out The Pleasure Chest's Rookie Gift Guide! More #GirlBoner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio Twitter: @AugstMcLaughlin

https://augustmclaughlin.com/mara-pup/Domina Mara, Professional Dominant and filmmaker, and her pup join August for another round of Sex Questions With…! Learn about Mara's career, the pair's Dominant/pup relationship and the group's answers to steamy questions from listeners and the boardgame, "You Don't Know My Life." Highlights include the "birds and the bees," a squirting and multiple orgasm experience, extraordinary sex toys, lessons learned the hard way and more! Explore Miss Mara's work: DominaMara.com YouTube.com/DominaMara Instagram.com/MaraDomina Twitter.com/MaraDomina Check out The Pleasure Chest's Pleasure Personality Gift Guides! thepleasurechest.com Makenzie Mizell engineered the recording session for this episode. More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio

Gwendolyn J. Bean had only dated women when her dating desires shifted. Amber Cantorna grew up in a conservative Christian home then fell in love with her female college roommate. You'll hear: Gwendolyn and Amber's coming out stories Their contrasting experiences regarding loved ones' acceptance Advice for managing loneliness around your sexual orientation or desires Who to come out to and when Rewards of sexuality/self-acceptance you can look forward to You'll also learn about Gwendolyn's erotica story in The Big Book of Orgasms, Volume 2, and what Amber most hopes readers will glean from her latest nonfiction book, Unashamed: A Coming Out Guide for LGBTQ Christians. The interview with Amber Cantorna featured in this episode was released in full in May, 2019. SPECIAL OFFERS: Save 35% on the Vesper 2, elegant vibrator necklace and support Girl Boner at the same time (via a commission) here. Check out The Pleasure Chest's Pleasure Personality Gift Guides! thepleasurechest.com Save 15% on awesome goodies + support a great cause at musamasala.com. MORE GIRL BONER FUN: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio

August is joined by friend and colleague, Makenzie Mizell, to discuss times they made sex or dating experiences awkward. You'll also hear about listeners' "OMG" dates and Makenzie's latest (and spicy!) ventures. Topics touched on include bodily functions, a gay 'ol pickup line, a myth about female sexuality and male desires and more! You'll also hear about sexy gift ideas, available at The Pleasure Chest. Learn more about Makenzie's latest + support their work: periodpodcastnetwork.com onlyfans.com/sidneylane Save 15% on awesome goodies + support a great cause at musamasala.com! Save 35% on the Vesper 2, elegant vibrator necklace and support Girl Boner at the same time (via a commission) here. More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio August on Twitter: @AugstMcLaughlin

Ever felt like you should be sex-ready when you're not? Or self-conscious about performing well in bed? Dr. Alison Ash is no stranger to pressure around sex and helps many folks find their way to more fun and fulfilling experiences. She also recently married her partner, Sebastian, and their love story is one for the books. You'll learn: How the couple met and got engaged How they figured out their non-monogamy/monogamy styles during lockdowns Ways pressure has cropped up in their own relationship Dr. Aly's advice about scheduling sex (and a better alternative) How sex-related pressure crops up in long-term relationships Ways to reduce pressure for more fun, pleasure and connection! . For info on Dr. Aly's Sexual and Emotional Initmacy Skills Mastercourse, visit www.TurnON.love/intimacy Instagram: @TurnON.love Save 15% on awesome goodies + support a great cause at musamasala.com! This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/GIRLBONER and get on your way to being your best self. Save 35% on the Vesper 2, elegant vibrator necklace and support Girl Boner at the same time (via a commission) here. More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio August on Twitter: @AugstMcLaughlin Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0

Midway into their first dinner together, EF Dodd's date pulled out something shocking. Kelly Reynolds got way more than she bargained for on a first date – and less than she deserved for a second. You'll also learn about the importance of creating sexy stories, in real life and fiction, and Kelly and EF's new, spicy books! Save 40% on the new Crave Vesper (elegant vibrator necklace) and support Girl Boner at the same time here. August will get a small commission if you use that link. Sponsor specials: Explore Prostate Toys for Movember at The Pleasure Chest: thepleasurechest.com More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio August on Twitter: @AugstMcLaughlin Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0

Niba went on a creepy date that could have gone far worse. Erik recalls being sexually assaulted by a ghost, and shares info about spectrophilia: sexual encounters with ghosts. Back by popular demand, in honor of Halloween! This episode mentions sexual assault and trauma. Please take care of yourself, first and foremost. Sponsor specials: Explore Kinktober goodies at The Pleasure Chest: thepleasurechest.com Athletic Greens is offering you a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D AND 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase: athleticgreens.com/GIRLBONER Please seek approval from your doctor or dietitian before starting a supplement, especially if you have a medical condition or take other supplements. More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio August on Twitter: @AugstMcLaughlin Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0

Ask Girl Boner! It's been a while since August fielded your sex questions, so she asked Ashley Cobb, sex-pert, writer and "your favorite friend in filth," to help her answer a few of your steamiest. You'll learn about: Toy alternatives when vibrators feel too intense Toys for clitoris and G-spot play Why some people enjoy being choked during sex Tips for a safe choking experience Ashley's "try it once" experience with choking What to do if you aren't comfortable with a partner's fetish Surprising and underrated kinks Check out Ashley's 30 Day Sex Challenge: sexwithashley.com/product-page/the-30-day-sex-challenge Sponsor specials: This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp. When you want to be a better problem solver, therapy can get you there. Visit BetterHelp.com/GIRLBONER today to get 10% off your first month. Athletic Greens is offering you a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D AND 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase: athleticgreens.com/GIRLBONER Please seek approval from your doctor or dietitian before starting a supplement, especially if you have a medical condition or take other supplements. More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio August on Twitter: @AugstMcLaughlin Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0

When Tia Lynn found herself judging her dance instructor's sexy moves, she knew she wanted to dig deeper. Investigating her beliefs helped her recognize the sexual expression she truly desired. In this episode, you'll learn: What Tia learned about sex while growing up in Utah The basics of shadow work What it was like for her to explore threesomes, sex parties and non-monogamy Different variations of ethical non-monogamy Tips for boosting your sexual confidence What Tia loves most about coaching women Throwback clips on confidence, featuring Skirt Club's CEO Genevieve LeJeune and entrepreneur, Rubi Skilton Tia's top pleasure tip that you can implement today! Tia Lynn on Instagram: @sexybizbabe Download Tia's free workshop, "5 Steps to Mind-blowing Sex" Sponsor specials: Explore Kinktober goodies at The Pleasure Chest: thepleasurechest.com Athletic Greens is offering you a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D AND 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase: athleticgreens.com/GIRLBONER Please seek approval from your doctor or dietitian before starting a supplement, especially if you have a medical condition or take other supplements. More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0

Jade Chang Sheppard was nearing 40 when she started wondering if she was living life to the fullest, including sexually. Was monogamy really her best option? Was she actually bi? Or kinky? What was group sex like? Rather than seeing the exploration and life changes that followed as a crisis or breakdown, she's embraced it all as a revolution. You'll also learn: Ways ideas about female sexuality vs male sexuality can get in the way of exploring your kinks or fantasies (and what to do about that) How to invite a sexual or mid-life awakening of your own Why Jade started her company, Scarlet Society Sponsor special: Athletic Greens is offering you a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D AND 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase: athleticgreens.com/GIRLBONER Seek approval from your doctor or dietitian before starting a supplement, especially if you have a medical condition or take other supplements. More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0

John Kim and Vanessa Bennett are therapists and coauthors of, It's Not Me, It's You: Break the Blame Cycle. Relationship Better. They're also a couple, who met at a time when neither was anticipating life changing love. Learn how they came together, what made the start of their relationship rocky, how they navigate sexual desire and flirting differences and what they want us all to know about relationships. Instagram: @theangrytherapist @vanessasbennett Sponsor offers: Check out the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest! Free, discreet shipping through September: thepleasurechest.com Athletic Greens is offering you a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D AND 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase: athleticgreens.com/GIRLBONER Seek approval from your doctor or dietitian before starting a supplement, especially if you have a medical condition or take other supplements. More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0

To celebrate With Pleasure's release anniversary, August shares her behind-the-scenes conversation with coauthor Jamila M. Dawson, LMFT from last year. You'll also hear pleasure practices of people featured in the book in their own voices - from solo play and feeling present during sex to relaxing ways to ease into intimate time. Keep listening after the episode for a special bonus from the archive! Learn more about the interviewees' work: Jamila on Instagram: @jamila.thesextherapist Jazz: jazzgoldman.com Taylor: taylorliannechandler.com Kimleigh: kimleighsmith.com Jean: seeksafely.org This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp. When you want to be a better problem solver, therapy can get you there. Visit BetterHelp.com/GIRLBONER today to get 10% off your first month. Athletic Greens is offering you a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D AND 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase: athleticgreens.com/GIRLBONER Please seek approval from your doctor or dietitian before starting a supplement, especially if you have a medical condition or take other supplements. More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0

Lynn Sally was always a bit of a wild child, but she also went to a Catholic high school where sex education was virtually MIA. Today she's an author, scholar and burlesque performer, known as Dr. Lucky. Learn about her journey into the artform that celebrates and explores female sexuality, examines gender roles and more – plus empowering ways to benefit from stripping in your own life. Neo-Burlesque: Striptease as Transformation by Lynn Sally Check out the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest! Free, discreet shipping through September: thepleasurechest.com This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp. When you want to be a better problem solver, therapy can get you there. Visit BetterHelp.com/GIRLBONER today to get 10% off your first month. Athletic Greens is offering you a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D AND 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase: athleticgreens.com/GIRLBONER August recommends seeking approval from your doctor or dietitian before starting any supplement, especially if you have a medical condition or take other supplements. More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio

Tika Thorton grew up in S. Los Angeles, where she was swept into a world of sex trafficking and manipulation. Today she's an advocate who helps fellow survivors and fights to end the human trafficking crisis. Hear Tika's story, as well as insights for a listener who wanted to support his girlfriend as she manages her own sexual trauma. Tika's TEDx Talk Human trafficking resource guide Domestic Violence Support + hotline: 800.799.SAFE (7233) The interview featured in this episode was recorded in 2017. Hear the full, unedited version and August and Dr. Megan's thoughts for listener, Jeff, via patreon.com/girlboner Athletic Greens is offering you a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D AND 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase: athleticgreens.com/GIRLBONER August recommends seeking approval from your doctor or dietitian before starting any supplement, especially if you have a medical condition or take other supplements. More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0

Eleanor grew up learning that sexual pleasure is intended only for marriage. Now in her late 40s and peri-menopausal, she's experienced surprising changes in her sexual desires. Meanwhile, she's making way for body confidence and empowerment for her daughters – with hopes that they won't experience the shame or related difficulties she did earlier on. Explore the latest Pleasure Chest specials: thepleasurechest.com Athletic Greens is offering you a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D AND 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase: athleticgreens.com/GIRLBONER August recommends seeking approval from your doctor or dietitian before starting any supplement, especially if you have a medical condition or take other supplements. More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0

Pretty often, disinterest in sex has little to do with actual sex. August shares five ways to boost your desire, guiding with excerpts from past interviews and an excerpt from her Girl Boner book. This episode features insights from: JoEllen Notte Robyn Goldberg, RD Pamela Joy Jamila M. Dawson, LMFT Athletic Greens is offering you a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D AND 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase. Just visit: athleticgreens.com/GIRLBONER Visit magicspoon.com/GIRLBONER to grab a variety pack of Magic Spoon, and use the promo code GIRLBONER at checkout to save $5. More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0

A woman who invented a product to make oral play more fun, an almost psychedelic oral sex experience, why some folks aren't comfortable with oral and tips for upping the ante if you enjoy it! August shares highlights from past interviews on all-things-oral, plus related tips and excerpts from her Girl Boner book. This episode features Melanie Cristol, founder and CEO of Lorals, authors Lauren Emily and Beverly Diehl and Dr. Megan Fleming. Support Beverly as she navigates breast cancer treatment: caringbridge.org/visit/bevscancerbattle2022 Athletic Greens is offering you a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D AND 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase. Just visit: athleticgreens.com/GIRLBONER Visit magicspoon.com/GIRLBONER to grab a variety pack of Magic Spoon, and use the promo code GIRLBONER at checkout to save $5. Explore the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest: thepleasurechest.com More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0

Amanda had dated more than 100 men before acknowledging her addiction to longing for unavailable mates. With the help of therapy, she was able to break-up with longing and end the virgin identity that had defined much of her adulthood. Today the accomplished writer has a lot to say about "saving sex" – or different parts of it – including potential benefits of her own path, one thing she wishes she could change and why voluntarily celibate folks are worthy of respect. Follow Amanda on Instagram @amandajmccracken and check out her podcast, The Longing Lab. Athletic Greens is offering you a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D AND 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase. Just visit: athleticgreens.com/GIRLBONER Visit magicspoon.com/GIRLBONER to grab a variety pack of Magic Spoon, and use the promo code GIRLBONER at checkout to save $5. Explore the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest: thepleasurechest.com More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0

Did you know that horniness is one of hundreds of reasons folks feel motivated to have sex? It's not even the most common. Understanding your own desire and creating what sex and relationship therapist Cyndi Darnell calls your erotic template can help you cultivate an erotically charged sex life, whether you're single or partnered. Learn about common libido myths, the difference between responsive and spontaneous desire, the role somatics can play in desire challenges and more. Save 30% on your copy of Sex When You Don't Feel Like It: The Truth About Mismatched Libido and Rediscovering Desire at cyndidarnell.com/books. Visit magicspoon.com/GIRLBONER to grab a variety pack of Magic Spoon, and use the promo code GIRLBONER at checkout to save $5. Explore the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest: thepleasurechest.com More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0