Gayish Podcast

Mike fucks up, there’s a gayta throw down, and we have legit famous people on. This episode IS special! BenDeLaCreme and Jinkx Monsoon join us to talk about Drag Race fans, drag as an art form, intolerance within the LGBTQ+ community, and The Jinkx and Dela Holiday Special, available on now on Hulu or jinkxanddela.com. In this episode: News- 1:39 || Main Topic (Holiday Specials)- 10:43 || Guests (BenDeLaCreme and Jinkx Monsoon)- 24:41 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:02:08 Gayish is a weekly podcast about gay stereotypes. We've been featured in Buzzfeed, Oprah Magazine, Esquire, Queerty, and more. We're available on all platforms and at gayishpodcast.com. Support us at patreon.com/gayishpodcast.

You are not alone in feeling alone. Whether it’s not dating, having no roommates, being socially isolated, or general gay singleness, we talk about all the ways gays are experiencing aloneness. And why it’s important to talk about. In this episode: News- 2:18 || Main Topic (Alone)- 13:19 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:27:26 On Monday, Fucking Dan's Patreon bonus segment sheds some like on solo polyamory and how it's not the paradox you might think it is.

Do you at least LIKE Lucy? The boys are joined by Drew Mackie and Glen Lakin from the podcast Gayest Episode Ever to talk about sitcoms. From the old classics like Golden Girls and Cheers, to the new Saved by the Bell, we take a look at the lasting impact sitcoms have had on television, gay culture, and our hearts. In this episode: News- 4:29 || Main Topic (Sitcoms)- 17:44 || Guests (Gayest Episode Ever)- 30:25 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:09:51 More with Gayest Episode Ever will be posted on Monday's bonus Patreon segment.

We blame you, Gap Bridgers, for this episode. Our genuine discussion of hunting leads to conversations about daddy issues, Pink Pistols, lesbian bars, and farms. In this episode: News- 2:08 || Main Topic (Hunting)- 15:49 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:17:02 On Monday, Patreon members will get to hear(?) our weird segment about gay porn hunting. Join at www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.

Chosen Family is important to LGBTQ people year-round, but especially during holidays like Thanksgiving. We invite the guys from the podcast Minoritea Report to join our chosen family this episode. In this episode: News- 2:11 || Main Topic (Chosen Family)- 13:13 || Guests (Minoritea Report)- 20:21 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:04:04 For ad-free episodes a day early, visit www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.

Welcome to Splash Mountain! It’s time for bukkakes! Featuring the most uncomfortable Mike has ever been on a Momsplaining. Thank you to Patreon member Keith Zeller for requesting this topic. In this episode: News- 1:27 || Main Topic (Bukkake)- 16:14 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:04:29 For more info on the Gap Bridger tier, where one of the benefits is selecting your own episode topic, go to patreon.com/gayishpodcast.

It’s our 200th Episode Reunion Special with a Mike and Kyle Q&A, fun announcements, and special guests like Davey Wavey, Pup Amp, Ma Johnson, and many more! In this episode: Welcome & Surprises- 1:30 || Main Topic (Q&A, Announcements & Guests)- 10:21 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:40:05 See the new Patreon benefits and tiers we announced during the episode at patreon.com/gayishpodcast.

Lisa Rinna has lost it. Dorinda is disgusting. No one likes Lisa Vanderpump. We get into some hot, juicy goss, but in a way that you don’t have to know the deets of reality TV or the Real Housewives of Cityname to understand. Guest David Yontef from the podcast Behind the Velvet Rope joins us to dish on the stereotypes. In this episode: News- 3:37 || Main Topic (Reality TV)- 17:00 || Guest (David Yontef)- 25:10 || Gayest & Straightest- 56:12 To get some dish that was too hot for the regular episode, and find out which Real Housewife David slams, go to patreon.com/gayishpodcast.

Mike and Kyle talk/drink their anxieties/innuendos on the night of the 2020 U.S. presidential election in what turns out to be a not-so-shrinked Shrinkage.

The gayest city in Florida. The Florida man (but make it gay). Florida’s importance in the US presidential election. Top surgery. These are some of the many exciting, Florida-specific topics Mike and Kyle talk about on this swing-worthy episode. In this episode: News- 1:31 || Main Topic (Florida)- 19:30 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:04:26 On Monday, Fucking Dan will tell us about the horrifying Purple Pamphlet that was put out by the government in Florida. www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.

The Debt Free Guys from the Queer Money podcast join us to talk about how, unfortunately, gay culture and debt go hand in hand, and some tips on what to do about it. In this episode: News- 2:29 || Main Topic (Debt)- 13:13 || Guests (David and John from Queer Money)- 21:17 || Gayest & Straightest- 57:41 To support us while getting early, ad-free episodes, go to patreon.com/gayishpodcast.

Thanks to Patreon member Jamie Pugh for requesting this episode topic. What is masculinity? How much of it is societally constructed vs. inherent in nature? We give our take on masculinity and talk about our experiences with gendered expectations. In this episode: News- 3:55 || Main Topic (Masculinity)- 16:35 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:16:58 For details on how you can pick an episode topic, go to patreon.com/gayishpodcast.

Documentarians David France (Oscar-nominated for “How to Survive a Plague”) and Daniel Karslake (“For the Bible Tells Me So”) each share what their films can teach us about today. We also discuss their latest films: France’s “Welcome to Chechnya” (www.welcometochechnya.com) and Karslake’s “For They Know Not What They Do" (www.fortheyknow.org). In this episode: News- 4:40 || Main Topic (Documentaries)- 15:54 || Guest #1 (Daniel Karslake)- 20:14 || Guest #2 (David France)- 45:02 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:21:50 In the bonus segment coming Monday, Kyle talks about his own documentary that he's been working on recently. Go to patreon.com/gayishpodcast to learn more.

It gets wet & wild & slippery & history & condoms & spit & Heath Ledger & backwards hat kinda crazy on our last livestream of 2020. In this episode: News- 12:30 || Main Topic (Lube)- 23:42 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:13:58 On Monday's bonus segment.... well, just wait. It's going to be a Gayish first, and we can't wait for you to see it. Make sure you go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast for access.

We asked our bisexual listeners to share their stories, and you delivered! This episode features some of the voicemails and emails we received, plus our usual rigamarole talking about topics like gayta (bita???), history, and stereotypes about bisexuals. In this episode: News- 4:30 || Main Topic (Bisexuals)- 15:10 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:08:02 If you want to support us (and also get ad-free episodes a day early), go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.

Coaches are sexy/terrifying for gay kids. Mike and Kyle talk about all aspects of coaches, from childhood P. E. to gay coaches in sports. Plus, we’re joined by Brian Falduto, host of The Gay Life Coach Podcast, to give Kyle a much-needed life coaching session. In this episode: News- 5:37 || Main Topic (Coaches)- 18:03 || Guest (Brian Falduto)- 56:28 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:16:02 On Monday, you can hear the Patreon bonus segment about a completely different kind of coach: a poppers coach. Go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast to see how to get early episodes and bonus content.

Y’know, poker is actually kinda gay. In this episode: News- 5:58 || Main Topic (Poker)- 17:59 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:12:39

Booping the snoop. Hitting the he-spot. Wailing on the walnut. Whatever you want to call it, we’re talking about prostates in all their splendor. In this episode: News- 8:16 || Main Topic (Prostate)- 20:27 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:19:34 In the bonus Patreon segment, Fucking Dan tells us that maybe everyone has a prostate. Kinda. For this plus hours and hours of other bonus content, go to patreon.com/gayishpodcast.

Is Selena Gomez an A-list celebrity? The war between Mike and Kyle begins. In this episode: News- 5:25 || Main Topic (Celebrity)- 14:48 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:25:10 On what may be the longest and most enjoyable Patreon segment to date, we talk about when gay celebrities came out, including our coming out-birthday twins.

Interracial gay couples have two strikes against them before the leave their home in the morning. We talk race and relationships with Marko and Tony Critelli, an interracial married gay couple and hosts of the podcast Relationsh!t. In this episode: News- 4:34 || Main Topic (Interracial Relationships)- 26:27 || Guests (Marko and Tony Critelli from Relationsh!t)- 31:21 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:15:23 On Monday's bonus episode, the actual, genuine conversation with had with Marko and Tony during the break! We did it right this time! That and more bonus stuff available at patreon.com/gayishpodcast.

Are there gay swingers? We sure hope so, although per usual we have no idea. Suggested to us by a Patreon supporter, we take a look at "the lifestyle" in typical Gayish fashion. In this episode: News- 1:22 || Main Topic (Swingers)- 17:04 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:03:01 On the bonus segment coming Monday, Fucking Dan gives us an update on the Palm Springs Sex Hotel we went to with Davey Wavey in Episode 144.

We talk American football with Cyndi Butz-Houghton aka Butz from the podcast My Gay Life. She shares her thoughts on football lesbians, lingerie football, being bad at softball, and trans women in sports. In this episode: News- 3:44 || Main Topic (Football)- 17:25 || Guest (Butz)- 28:27 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:00:51 On the bonus segment coming Monday, we'll have more with Butz on why women's football mascots are better than men's and other topics we didn't get to on the main episode.

Eggplant. Water spurts. Peach, peach, peach. Devil emoji. We talk about the studies on sexters vs. non-sexters, the bizarre history of sexting, and emoji misunderstandings. In this episode: News- 2:34 || Main Topic (Sexting)- 14:49 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:12:20 On the bonus segment, coming soon, we'll read tips from the internet on sexting and debate their efficacy.

Get to know us! Take a listen to some of our favorite clips and guests so you can hear what the podcast is all about. We bring research studies, news stories, history, personal experience and expert guests to the table when we discuss our topics. Episodes come out weekly on Thursdays (we rarely miss a week). Join the Gayish Agenda!

Ma Johnson joins us to play a game of “Rodeo Term or Sex Act.” Also, the gay rodeo, bareback, Willie Nelson, Lil Nas X, and lots of talk about gay cowboys. In this episode: News- 1:31 || Main Topic (Rodeo)- 17:31 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:01:30

Kris & Shana from the Bad Queers podcast join us to talk about intersectionality, the sassy black woman affectation, and their experience of racism and sexism within the queer community. In this episode: News- 2:42 || Main Topic (Intersectionality)- 20:52 || Guests (Kris & Shana)- 27:00 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:11:47

Asexuals! This is the moment you’ve been waiting for! We talk about the meaning, the history, the studies, and the made-up stereotypes about asexual people. Ace, aro, gray, demi; we love all of you (in a predominantly non-sexual way). In this episode: News- 8:25 || Main Topic (Asexual)- 25:07 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:04:03 If you're able, please support the victims of a brutal vehicular attack through Go Fund Me. Both were non-binary people protesting for BLM in Seattle. Diaz Love: https://www.gofundme.com/f/diaz-love-support-fund Summer Taylor: https://www.gofundme.com/f/summer-taylor-support-fund On the bonus segment coming on Monday, we talk about asexual animals, because yes, they're real. Probably. Get bonus segments, early access to episodes, and more at www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.

In this live streamed episode, we talk about all the celebrities and synonyms and orgasms you need to know about associated with #thatfreeballinglife. In this episode: News- 3:05 || Main Topic (Freeballing)- 9:30 || Gayest & Straightest- 50:00 In the Patreon bonus segment, Fucking Dan tells us about the origins of the phrase "going commando." For all the bonus content we have to offer, go to patreon.com/gayishpodcast.

As requested by Patreon member Tipsy McStumbles (obvi a Gayish listener), we talk about gay baiting, i.e. queerbaiting. What is it? Does Nick Jonas qualify? What does Urban Dictionary think? And what does it have to do with breast cancer? In this episode: News- 5:19 || Main Topic (Gay Baiting)- 23:35 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:06:52 If you want some gayish rewards, including the opportunity to pick your own episode topic, go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast

We follow up on episode 139 (Surrogacy) to see what it’s like so far for gay dads raising their newborn baby. Joseph, Brandon, and baby Topher Peters-Mathews join us to talk about Fathers’ Day. In this episode: News- 2:33 || Main Topic (Fathers' Day)- 22:21 || Guests (the Peters-Mathews Family)- 35:49 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:06:00 On the Patreon bonus segment, you'll hear how Joseph felt about his sermon being used in the Gay White Privilege episode. Support us and get bonus stuff at the same time: www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.

Todd Masterson, known on Instagram as @gayfatfriend, shares how Instagays like Matt Dempsey feel about his account. Plus, Mike and Kyle get uncomfortably personal. In this episode: News- 2:33 || Main Topic (Fat)- 19:34 || Guest (Todd Masterson)- 1:13:09 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:31:01 On Monday's bonus segment, fat shaming. To access this segment, plus tons of bonus content, go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.

You are not exempt from white privilege just because you’re gay. Information for "Dear White People" artist: Mwende “FreeQuency” Katwiwa is a Kenyan, Immigrant, Queer Womxn storyteller. www.freequencyspeaks.com IG: @MwendersInSuspenders TWITTER: @freeqthamighty Facebook: search FreeQuency aka FreeQ tha Mighty Please consider donating to support the artist: Venmo: @mwende-Katwiwa Cash app: $mkatwiwa PayPal: PayPal.me/FreeQuency Featured Audio: “Your Assignment” speech by Andre Taylor from Not This Time (www.notthistime.global) Making Gay History, Season 1: Episode 1: Sylvia Rivera (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/season-1-episode-1-sylvia-rivera/id1162447122?i=1000376583256) Making Gay History, Season 2: Episode 1: Marsha P. Johnson and Randy Wicker (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/season-2-episode-1-marsha-p-johnson-and-randy-wicker/id1162447122?i=1000382091397) “Dear White People” by FreeQuency, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MTIihYVAmRQ “Sermon: Pentecost 2020” by Rev. Joseph Peters-Mathews (https://www.sthildastpatrick.org/index.php/2020/05/may-31st-the-day-of-pentecost/) “Imagine” by Mike Johnson (John Lennon cover) Additional Homework Assignments: Marsha P. Johnson & Sylvia Rivera pushed out of gay rights movement (https://www.washingtonpost.com/history/2019/06/12/transgender-women-heart-stonewall-riots-are-getting-statue-new-york/) Barbara Smith: Why I Left the Mainstream Queer Rights Movement (https://www.nytimes.com/2019/06/19/us/barbara-smith-black-queer-rights.html) Intersectionality Matters!, Stonewall 50: Whose Movement Is It Anyway? (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/5-stonewall-50-whose-movement-is-it-anyway/id1441348908?i=1000443083481) Harvard’s Project Implicit Test (https://implicit.harvard.edu/implicit/) 13TH (https://www.netflix.com/title/80091741)

This episode has everything: anal probes, Marvin the Martian, Britney Spears, Chuck Tingle, and we reveal which of the hosts is most likely to be an alien. In this episode: News- 3:44 || Main Topic (Aliens)- 14:13 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:07:07 On Monday's bonus segment, Fucking Dan shares the details of his new favorite competition and life goal, Intergalactic Power Bottom. For other fun bonus things, go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.

Move over tops, bottoms, and sides. We finally talk about that #VersLife. In this episode: News- 5:55 || Main Topic (Versatile)- 19:01 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:01:17 On Monday's bonus segment, Fucking Dan talks about the many definitions of "switch," and it's not the same as versatile.

Special. Sex Education. Glee. We talk about these shows and more when we discuss disability representation in the media with Andrew Gurza from the podcast Disability After Dark. #PP4CP In this episode: News- 3:10 || Main Topic (Disability)- 19:30 || Guest (Andrew Gurza)- 26:10 || Gayest & Straightest- 55:30 Coming Monday on our Patreon bonus segment, Fucking Dan shares his personal experiences. For bonus content, go to patreon.com/gayishpodcast.

The many sexual orientations of Little Richard.

No, really. How are you doing?

On this supes butch livestream, we talk about monster trucks! But no really. We really talk about monster trucks. Like, the history of monster truck rallies, famous monster trucks, personal monster truck experiences. It’s so str8. (Sorry this is a day late!) In this episode: News- 1:33 || Main Topic (Monster Trucks)- 17:44 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:14:40 In one of Kyle’s favorite Patreon segments, fucking Dan talks about gendered kids’ toys and Friends. For bonus content, go to patreon.com/gayishpodcast.

In these difficult times, so many ads and articles start with the phrase “in these difficult times,” and it really bums me out. Instead, let’s talk about the fun you can have with camming, even in these difficult times. In this episode: News- 3:08 || Main Topic (Camming)- 15:04 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:04:23 Thank you to our sponsor, Taimi! Download the Taimi app for LGBTQ chatting, hanging out (virtually), and dating.

We do our best to cover the monumental topic of AIDS and end up calling Mike’s Mom for reinforcement. Thank you to Patreon member Steve Hartman for requesting this topic. In this episode: News- 1:50 || Main Topic (AIDS)- 13:40 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:09:49 To see how you can pick an episode topic, visit our Patreon page for levels and rewards: www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.

Special guest, Amp Somers (aka Pup Amp) from the podcast Watts Your Safeword, shares the basics of rubber as a kink. Bring your lube and a couple of friends, because we’re getting into it. In this episode: News- 1:40 || Main Topic (Rubber)- 21:19 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:01:24 On Monday, we'll post the pop culture references (mainly KimK) that didn't make the cut to the final episode. Bonus content, episode, and other cool shit at patreon.com/gayishpodcast

“How did we fuck this up so much?” asks Mike during this monumental Gayish first. But whatever, it’s our THIRD BIRTHDAY so we re-talk about threesomes! In this episode: News- 11:28 || Main Topic (Threesomes)- 25:47 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:05:30 Monday’s bonus segment is FREE as our birthday gift to you. I don’t know what to say about it other than idk y’all. Check it out at www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.

It’s a hot mess of a quarantined livestream where we talk about, and (regrettably) make each other, cocktails. In this episode: News- 7:19 || Main Topic (Cocktails)- 20:03 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:23:53 On Monday, you'll get to hear the Q&A we did after the livestream where we answer your gayish questions! Go to patreon.com/gayishpodcast for bonus content and more stuff.

Open up, it’s time for open relationships! Mike and Kyle share gayta and our personal experiences with open relationships. Plus, our married friends Keegan and Tom talk about opening up their relationship after 12 years of monogamy. In this episode: News- 2:54 || Main Topic (Open Relationships)- 13:36 || Guests (Keegan & Tom)- 37:51 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:06:17 On Monday, get ready, because Keegan and Tom talk about hooking up with one of the Gayish people... but which one? This bonus segment, and more, available at patreon.com/gayishpodcast.

A magically delicious episode about gay leprechauns and leprechaun dicks. In this episode: News- 4:22 || Main Topic (Leprechauns)- 19:14 || Gayest & Straightest- 59:45 On Monday's Patreon segment, surprise, surprise, we talk about dicks again. Bonus content and other fun things available at patreon.com/gayishpodcast.

Ma Johnson joins us to talk about gay icon Dolly Parton. Why is she a gay icon? Do we care? In this episode: News- 9:06 || Main Topic (Dolly Parton)- 23:38 || Guest (Ma Johnson)- 25:41 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:05:09 On Monday, you'll get to hear the unedited version of Ma Johnson's life update, which I cut down heavily for the main episode. Get it at www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.

Guest Kevin Gerdes from the podcast LGBT Stories joins us to talk about the closet and the pressure to come out. In this episode: News- 1:00 || Main Topic (The Closet)- 10:24 || Guest (Kevin Gerdes)- 21:12 || Gayest & Straightest- 56:46. On Monday's bonus segment, Mike explains where the phrase "coming out of the closet" came from, and Kyle is actually interested.

Butt plugs: a hole new world. In this episode: News- 5:37 || Main Topic (Butt Plugs)- 17:38 || Gayest & Straightest- 59:31. Coming Monday on our Patreon bonus segment... well, you don't wanna miss it. Trust us. www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.

Who is your authentic self? Justin Michael Williams joins us to help us uncover a different style of meditation and figure out what is going on with that neuronal orgy in our heads. In this episode: News- 1:10 || Main Topic (Meditation)- 15:43 || Justin Michael Williams- 23:13 || Gayest & Straightest- 58:26 On Monday, Mike and Kyle talk gay meditation retreats. Are they sexy? Are they cool? Are we going to speculate due to lack of first-hand knowledge? Find out on the bonus segment, which will be available at www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.

In this episode about Star Trek—er, I mean, science fiction, we cover Orson Scott Card, Star Trek, LGBT representation in sci-fi, Star Trek, the characters of Star Trek, and lots of specific references to Star Trek. In this episode: News- 6:51 || Main Topic (Sci Fi)- 19:25 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:12:22 Then, on the bonus segment, Fucking Dan tells us about sci fi sex workers (comes out Monday!). Go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast to get access to that segment and all the other bonus segments.