Evolving Love

Jessica Fern is the author of "Polysecure". She is a psychotherapist, public speaker, and trauma and relationship expert. With David Cooley, Jessica co-authored her new book "Polywise".David Cooley is a professional restorative justice facilitator, diversity and privilege awareness trainer, and bilingual cultural broker. In this episode Jessica and David share about their own experiences with opening up, their thoughts on attachment and codependency, psychedelics and polyamory and their new book, Polywise. To get in contact, reach out to us at [email protected] @evolvingloveproject evolvingloveproject.comGuest Links:Jessica Fernhttps://www.jessicafern.com/David Cooley:https://www.restorativerelationship.com/ This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

Dr. Joli Hamilton is the relationship coach for couples who color outside the lines. She is a research psychologist, TEDx speaker, best-selling author, and AASECT certified sex educator. Joli also co-hosts the Playing with Fire podcast with her anchor partner, Ken. Joli’s been featured in The New York Times, The Atlantic, Vogue, and NPR. In this episode we discuss polyamorous stigma, parenting young adults, dating as a relationship expert & the jealousy triangle. To get in contact, reach out to us at [email protected] @evolvingloveproject evolvingloveproject.comGuest Links:@drjoli_hamiltonhttps://www.jolihamilton.com/Playing With Fire Podcast This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

Clementine Morrigan is a controversial figure, a powerhouse, a writer, and a socialist. She’s been making zines since the year 2000 and is the author of several books including Fucking Magic, Sexting and Trauma Magic. She is also one half of the Fucking Cancelled podcast. In this episode we discuss Clementine's work focusing on Trauma Informed Polyamory, breakups in the age of cancel culture, the importance of extending grace to those with different points of view and her powerful & popular Instagram page. To get in contact, reach out to us at [email protected] @evolvingloveproject evolvingloveproject.comGuest Links:@clementinemorriganhttps://www.clementinemorrigan.com/https://www.fuckingcancelled.com/ This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

In today’s episode we discuss Liam solo dating in New York City, Abbey's upcoming women’s retreat, our ELP gatherings & Abbey venturing out onto mainstream dating apps. We also take some time to browse hinge together in real time!Find out more about the ELP Retreat at:https://www.evolvingloveproject.com/retreatTo get in contact reach out to us at [email protected]@evolvingloveproject This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

In today’s episode we speak with ABC Journalist and Comedian Ange Lavoipierre. We discuss Polyamory in the public eye, coming out as Non-Monogamous, ADHD and Polyamory & more! See Ange in action at:Vivid Sydney: Monogamy: The Natural Way to Love?https://www.vividsydney.com/event/ideas/monogamy-the-natural-way-to-loveSchmeitgeist Podcast:https://www.abc.net.au/everyday/programs/schmeitgeistFind on Socials at:@angelavoipierreTo get in contact reach out to us at [email protected]@evolvingloveproject This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

In this episode we talk to Australia’s Leading Men’s Sex Coach, Cam Fraser. We discuss Purity Culture, Sex Eduction & Stepping away from Toxic Masculinity.https://cam-fraser.com/Australia’s leading Men’s Sex Coach, current Deputy Chair of the Society of Australian Sexologists, and one of Lovehoney’s resident Sexperts, Cam is a Sex Coach, Relationship Counsellor, Sexologist and Tantric Yoga Teacher.Cam hosts a weekly men’s health podcast called Men, Sex & Pleasure and has a contributed to numerous print and digital publications as an expert on sexuality and masculinity.https://cam-fraser.com/podcast/To get in contact reach out to us at [email protected] @evolvingloveproject evolvingloveproject.com This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

In today’s episode we have a conversation with Lawrence and his partner Michelle. Lawrence is the co-owner of Australia's premier Sex club - "Our Secret Spot" in Sydney. This conversation is wide ranging and covers all things sex clubs, parenting and Non-Monogamy & being a public figurehead of Non-Monogamy in Australia. To get in contact reach out to us at [email protected] Support us on Patreonhttps://www.patreon.com/evolvingloveproject@evolvingloveproject evolvingloveproject.com This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

In today’s episode we discuss a recent UK Vogue article on polyamory, whether people are as monogamous as they claim to be, mono/poly relationships, the importance of sexual health testing and whether New Relationship Energy is always a positive. To get in contact reach out to us at [email protected] Support us on Patreon https://www.patreon.com/evolvingloveproject @evolvingloveproject evolvingloveproject.com This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

In today’s episode we are joined by Compersion Researcher Dr. Marie Thouin. We discuss the three main pillars of Compersion, how to cultivate Compersion, jealousy and envy, metamour relationships and how they affect Compersion and Marie’s ongoing quest to add the word Compersion to the dictionary!To get in contact reach out to us at [email protected] @evolvingloveproject evolvingloveproject.com This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

In today’s episode we discuss, coming out to our family, non-monogamy and parenting, our relationship to masturbation, and the role of perfectionism in Abbey being her best Domme self.To get in contact reach out to us at [email protected] @evolvingloveproject evolvingloveproject.com This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

In todays episode we share a conversation with our dear friends Haley and Sol from New York City. We discuss their approach to non-monogamy, our lingerie dinner party, dating during the time of Covid, creative expression in sex positive communities and play parties for the adventurous.To get in contact reach out to us at [email protected] @evolvingloveproject evolvingloveproject.com This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

In our fourth episode we will be answering questions from our listeners, including; What are the etiquettes behind dating somebody who is already in an established relationship, how to meet other non-monogamous people, our approaches to jealousy and envy, and a story about what happens when your Ipad accidentally syncs up with your partner's naughty messages. To get in contact reach out to us at [email protected] @evolvingloveproject evolvingloveproject.com This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

In todays third episode we discuss what our ideal non-monogamous relationship configuration might look like, our first date fail, recognizing people on alternative dating apps & our sexual orientations and how they show up in our non-monogamy. To get in contact reach out to us at [email protected] evolvingloveproject.com This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

In this second episode we will be responding to questions submitted to us after our pilot podcast. How do we reconnect physically and emotionally as a couple after being with other partners? Are we both inherently non-monogamous by nature? How much detail do we share with each other about our other connections? Join us as we respond to these questions and much more!To get in contact reach out to us at [email protected] This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

In this pilot episode of the Evolving Love Podcast we will be discussing our approach to opening up our relationship 8 years ago, the influence of patriarchy and possession in relationships, Will Smith at the Oscars, stigmas around non-monogamy and the excitement of the sexual unknown.Premium Episodes:To gain access to the Premium feed and full episodes, you can subscribe at:https://evolvingloveproject.substack.com/Contact Us:To get in contact, reach out to us at [email protected] This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe