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The Episode We Almost Deleted
Abbey and Liam discuss red flags in non-monogamy, before the episode takes an unexpected turn...Evolving Love Links:Website | Instagram | Substack This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

Conscious Monogamy with Christina & Andrew
Together for fifteen years and parents to three children, Andrew and Christina’s relationship is a wonderful example of consciously choosing monogamy.In this conversation we cover the role of independence in romantic relationships, exploring compersion in a monogamous context, maintaining the erotic connection over time, what constitutes an infidelity in their relationship, flirting, honesty and trust, what monogamous couples and non-monogamous couples can teach each other and so much more.Evolving Love Links:Website | Instagram | Substack This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

Our First Play Party
In today’s episode we discuss our first play party experience in New York, eating sushi off naked bodies, human candelabras, play party nerves, etiquette of group play environments and so much more…Evolving Love Links:Website | Instagram | Substack This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

Opening Up: Things We Wish We'd Known
In today’s episode we discuss things we wish we knew before opening up our relationships. We cover managing the misconceptions of others, savoring the first experiences, triggers in solo dating, planning and preparation before opening up, the non-monogamy escalator and so much more.Evolving Love Links:Website | Instagram | Substack This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

Living An Examined Life with "Normalizing Non-Monogamy"
In today’s episode we chat with Emma and Fin from the “Normalising Non-Monogamy” podcast. We discuss the common denominators in successful non-monogamous relationships, building community and support networks, their opening up journey, exploring the importance of self and the individual, the role of kindness in non-monogamy, mistakes and growth, their OCD and ADHD diagnoses, the importance of living an examined life, opening your relationship together or separately and so much more.Evolving Love Links:Website | Instagram | SubstackGuest Links:WebsitePodcastCommunity This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

Is Dave Grohl Non-Monogamous?
In today’s episode we wade into pop culture to discuss Dave Grohl and his recent public statement….Website | Instagram | SubstackWomen's Retreat - 25th-27th October 2024 This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

Parenthood Is Not Only For The Monogamous
In today’s episode we discuss our non-monogamy before and after parenthood, feeling protective during pregnancy, maintaining our erotic connection through the early stages of parenthood, the freedom of exploring before parenthood and so much more.Website This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

Negging & Unicorns
This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.comIn today’s Premium episode we discuss “negging” as a form of relating, privacy and dating, the responsibility of vouching for lovers, safety for unicorns, ethics of unicorn hunting, “Dragons”, “Bulls” and so much more!To listen to the full episode and watch the video become a Paid subscriber to access my complete writing archive, full podcasts and bonus content.

Polyamorous for 50 Years: Kathy Labriola
Kathy Labriola is an author, nurse, counsellor, and hypnotherapist. Kathy is author of four books on consensual nonmonogamy: The Jealousy Workbook, Love in Abundance: A Counselor's Advice on Open Relationships, The Polyamory Break-up Book, and Polyamorous Elders: Aging in Open Relationships. She has also provided affordable mental health services to alternative communities for the past 30 years. Kathy has been polyamorous for over 50 years and lives with her two husbands in Berkeley, California.In today’s episode we discuss the importance of intergenerational conversation, whether she still struggles with particular emotions after 5 decades of polyamory, stigma against polyamorous grandparents, sex as an aging person, developing your own code of ethics, non-monogamy as an orientation, class and non-monogamy, advice for younger non-monogamous people, polyamorous elders and so much more.Guest Links:kathylabriola.com Evolving Love Links:WebsiteSubstack This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

Ep. 51 - Life Modelling, Spicy Texts & The Art of Curiosity
This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.comIn today’s Premium episode, we discuss our recent creative adventures, erotic texting, an evening of life modelling and much more!To listen to the full episode and watch the video become a Paid subscriber to access my complete writing archive, full podcasts and bonus content.

Ep. 50 - Creativity & Non-Monogamy with Multiamory
Today’s episode features Jase, Emily and Dedeker from the renowned Multiamory podcast. With hundreds of episodes, millions of downloads around the world, and a thriving community Multiamory has been featured in numerous publications, including NPR, Vice, Huffington Post, Cosmopolitan, and Elle.In today’s episode we discuss Emily’s recent transition back to non-monogamy from a long term monogamous relationship, the history of Dedeker, Jase and Emily’s own romantic relationship, connections between creativity and non-monogamy, links between communication styles and music, how the success of Multiamory has impacted their own personal dating lives, Jase and Dedeker finding non-monogamous community in Japan, and so much more. Guest Links:Multiamory WebsiteMultiamory BookDedeker’s CoachingEvolving Love Links:WebsiteSubstack This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

Ep. 49 - Evolving Love Live at NFSA
This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.comIn today’s episode we share our debut live show on the 26th July 2024 at the National Film and Sound Archives of Australia. We field questions from the audience and guests Molly Roden Winter, Marie Thouin, Lawrence (Our Secret Spot) & Fernanda (Polycurious Podcast)It was an evening full of vulnerability, laughter & raucous conversations.To unlock the Full Show with Video and Audio, consider supporting Evolving Love and becoming a Premium Subscriber.Guest Links:Molly Roden WinterMarie ThouinFernanda (Polycurious)Lawrence (Our Secret Spot)

Can Compersion Be Selfish? With Dr. Marie Thouin
Dr. Marie Thouin is a leading expert and scholar on compersion in consensual non-monogamy. She has authored two pioneering research studies, the first-ever encyclopedia entry on compersion, and has recently authored the first-ever scholarly book on compersion “What is Compersion?Wether you are new to the concept of compersion or well versed, this conversation has something for everyone and raises some interesting questions and food for thought along the way. In this episode we discuss “What is Compersion?”, perceived and real fears, do we really need compersion?, is compersion selfish, reciprocal altruism and kin altruism, can you learn compersion, Liam proposes a new scientific study that involves refractory periods and compersive behaviours, Liam and I unpack our own experiences and so much more…Guest Links:"What is Compersion?" BookWebsiteInstagram This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

Ep. 47 - Salsa, Non-Monogamy & Dancer Daddy Doms
This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.comOn this weeks Premium Episode, Abbey reflects on her recent Salsa dancing night, drawing parallels between the world of dance and non-monogamy. Dancer Daddies, power dynamics, vulnerability, a dance with a lover and so much more…Evolving Love Podcast Live Tickets

Ep. 46 - Alex Alberto - "Entwined" & Coming Out At Thanksgiving
Alex Alberto is a queer and polyamorous storyteller and educator. They grew up in Montreal and currently live in upstate New York. Alex is the author of the genre-blending memoir, Entwined: Essays on Polyamory and Creating Home. They co-founded Quilted Press, a collective of independent authors who reshape traditional narratives of love, family, and identity. You can connect with Alex on Instagram and TikTok (@thatalexalberto), and learn more about their work at alexalberto.com In today’s discussion with Alex we talk intimately about Alex’s journey with identity, their upstate NY polycule, weaponizing metamour relationships, their journey into parenthood Alex’s unique and special bond with their partner Don, the concept of feeling “de-countried”, growing up French speaking and how it impacted their gender identity and the powerful Thanksgiving story of coming out as polyamorous to Don’s parents.Guest Links:InstagramWebsiteTik TokEvolving Love Links:26th July 2024: Evolving Love Live at National Film & Sound Archives of AustraliaWebsite This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

Ep. 45 - Would You Rather...
This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.comIn todays episode we answer your “Would You Rather” questions that were submitted on Instagram.* “Be monogamous for the rest of your life or have to eat a bowl of worms every morning?”* “You never date someone again…. or Liam never date someone again?”* “Date someone with a hot body or a great personality?”Evolving Love Podcast Live Tickets

Ep. 44 - Casey Calvert - Adult Industry Star Gets Personal About Non-Monogamy
Casey Calvert is an award-winning Adult director, writer, performer, and content creator. An eleven-year veteran of the industry, she won Director of the Year and Best Screenplay at the 2023 XBiz Awards - the "Golden Globes" of porn.In today’s wide ranging conversation we discuss Casey’s own journey in non-monogamy and polyamory, porn stars’ approaches to monogamy, parasocial relationships, dating as a famous adult actress, the recent shifts in her marriage and the process of disentanglement, directing realistic porn, controversy with the title “Primary”, expressing eroticism in her personal life and so much more.Guest Links:Casey's InstagramCasey’s TwitterCasey’s WebsiteGuest Links:Evolving Love Project Links:Live Podcasthttps://www.evolvingloveproject.com/https://evolvingloveproject.substack.com/ This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

Ep. 43 - Bouldering Babes, Hillsong & Fantasy Scripts
This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.comIn todays Premium “Ask Us Anything” episode we answer your questions and discuss Hillsong, “The Idea of You” and so much more.Questions include:* “Does it ever get tiring making the ENM thing your whole world?”* “Do you actively look for people to connect with, or does it happen organically?”* “How do you communicate you want more than friends with benefits?”* “How do you and Liam get back into dating other people, after you have had a break from it?Evolving Love Project Website

Ep. 42 - The Love Languages Test
This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.comIn todays episode we take the Love Languages Test LIVE on the podcast and discuss the questions and our answers in real time…To Unlock the Full Video episode, become a Premium subscriber!Show Links:Take The Love Languages Test!Evolving Love Podcast Live Tickets

Ep. 41 - Chloe Caldwell On Her Acclaimed Novella "WOMEN"
To celebrate the re-release of her cult classic Queer novel, “WOMEN”, we are overjoyed to be joined by writer Chloe Caldwell.Named one of Cosmopolitan UK's Best Erotic Novels of All Time, WOMEN intimately explores one young writer’s whirlwind and whiplash affair as she falls deeply in love with a woman for the first time.In WOMEN, Caldwell lays bare the fierce obsession of addictive love, and asks the question: what, if anything, can who we love teach us about who we are?Chloe’s essays have appeared in the New York Times, Vice, New York Magazine’s “The Cut”, Nylon and more.Originally published by Short Flight/Long Drive books in 2015 on a limited print run, WOMEN quickly found a wide and dedicated audience. Emily Ratajkowski and Lena Dunham have cited it as one of their favorite books of all time, and Cheryl Strayed has called the book “magic.”In this discussion we discuss Chloes own experiences with non-monogamy, Chloe navigating her Queer identity, pre menstrual dysphoric disorder, power play and dynamics and so much more…Guest Links:Website:https://www.chloesimonne.com/Buy WOMEN-Evolving Love Project Links:Website:https://www.evolvingloveproject.com/Podcast & Writing:https://evolvingloveproject.substack.com/Extra Resources:Menstruality Podcast ft. Chloe Caldwellhttps://www.redschool.net/podcast/32Couplets: A Love Storyhttps://www.maggiemillner.com/ This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

Ep. 40 - "Are The Kids Ok?" - Dr. Eli Sheff on Polyamorous Families & Parenting
Dr. Eli Sheff is one of a handful of global academic experts on polyamory, and the foremost academic expert on children in polyamorous families. Specializing in diversity and underserved populations, Sheff is an expert witness, relationship consultant, public speaker, and author.Her first book, The Polyamorists Next Door: Inside Multiple-Partner Relationships and Families was released in 2014 and details Sheff’s findings from the first 15 years of the Polyamorous Families Study. Stories from the Polycule: Real Life in Polyamorous Families (2015), Sheff’s second book, is an edited collection of stories from people in polyamorous families. Sheff’s third book, When Someone you Love is Polyamorous: Understanding Poly People and Relationships, is a brief introduction to polyamory using empirical evidence to start a conversation.Dr. Sheff has given scores of radio, podcast, print, and television interviews with sources from The New York Times, ABC News and CNN to The Atlantic, New York and Shape magazines.You can find Dr. Sheff’s work here:Guest Links:Website:https://elisabethsheff.com/-Evolving Love Project Links:Website:https://www.evolvingloveproject.com/Podcast & Writing:https://evolvingloveproject.substack.com/ This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

Ep. 39 - Cheating & Infidelities in Non-Monogamy
This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.comOn today’s Premium Video episode, Abbey and Liam reflect on Ashley Madison, the ethics of cheating, what constitutes infidelity in a non-monogamous relationship & more.Premium Episodes are now Video Episodes!!!To Unlock the Full Video episode, become a Premium subscriber!

Ep. 38 - Stewart & Molly Roden Winter - The World's Most Famous Polyamorous Couple?
To celebrate the Australian release of her New York Time’s Best Selling Memoir “More”, we are joined once again by Molly Roden Winter. With her today, we also have the fortune of being able to speak with her husband Stewart!Since Molly joined us on Episode 23 of the Evolving Love podcast, she has quickly become a leading voice in non-monogamous discourse. “More” and Molly have appeared everywhere from the New York Times, Time Magazine, Savage Lovecast, The Washington Post, Wall St Journal and The Guardian.As you will hear from this candid and at times raucous interview, Molly and Stewart have a remarkable connection and ability to deeply interrogate the way they move through the world.We discuss parenting, the mixed receptions to the book, privilege, humour & sex, and Stewart and Liam’s upcoming polyamorous music soundtrack collab.Guest Links:https://www.mollyrodenwinter.com/Buy “More” in Australia here:Buy “More” Worldwide here:-Evolving Love Project Links:Website:https://www.evolvingloveproject.com/Podcast & Writing:https://evolvingloveproject.substack.com/-Episode Cover Photo by Caroll Taveras for Telegraph Magazinehttps://www.carolltaveras.com/ This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

Ep. 37 - Filling The Cup
This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.comOn today’s Premium Video episode Abbey and Liam reflect on New Relationship Energy, Erotica, relationship gratitude and so much more.To Unlock the Full Video episode, become a Premium subscriber!

Ep. 36 - Lina Dune "Ask A Sub" on Fake Doms, Unicorn Hunting & The Ethics of Kink
Lina Dune is a 24/7 collared submissive, kink writer, podcast host and a fairy sub-mother to all who seek her advice.She is the voice, writer, and Meme-Queen behind the wildly popular “Ask A Sub” - an online platform and community that explores mindful and consensual kink.In this conversation we talk about her journey into Kink, Subspace, fake doms, red flags, unicorn hunting, couples privilege, the balance of feminist principles and submission, heteronormative scripts, the shame voice and so much more.-Guest Links:Website:https://www.askasub.com/Podcast:Ask A SubInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/askasub2.0Twitter:https://twitter.com/AskASubPatreon:https://www.patreon.com/askasub-Evolving Love Project Links:Website:https://www.evolvingloveproject.com/Podcast & Writing:https://evolvingloveproject.substack.com/ This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

Ep. 35 - Ask Us Anything - Vetoes, Parenting & Therapy
This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.comOn today’s Premium episode Abbey and Liam asked for anonymous questions to be submitted on Instagram.Question topics include non-monogamy and parenting, partners and vetoes, balancing different desires within the relationship, advice for broaching non-monogamy with a partner, therapy and more.www.evolvingloveproject.comInstagram

Ep. 34 - Andrew Gurza on Disability, Queerness & Acceptance
Andrew Gurza is an award winning Disability Awareness Consultant whose written work has been featured on BBC, CBC, Daily Xtra, Gay Times UK & Huffington PostAs a host, Andrew presents the award winning “Disability After Dark” which shines a light on Disability stories and sexuality. He was nominated for a Canadian Podcast Award, a Queerty Award and was chosen as an honouree at the 2020 Webby Awards.Andrew has appeared on Dan Savage’s Savage Love and Cameron Esposito’s Queery. He has spoken all over the world on sex, disability and what it means to be Queer and Disabled.-Guest Links:Website:https://www.andrewgurza.com/Podcast:Disability After DarkInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/andrewgurza6Twitter:https://twitter.com/andrewgurza6Patreon:https://www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark-Evolving Love Project Links:Website:https://www.evolvingloveproject.com/Podcast & Writing:https://evolvingloveproject.substack.com/ This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

Ep 33 - Body Counts, Anniversaries & Podcast Bros
This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.comOn today’s Premium episode Abbey and Liam reflect on their nine year wedding anniversary, the emergence of “podcast bros”, the concept of “body counts” and more!www.evolvingloveproject.comInstagram

Ep. 32 - Tyson Yunkaporta on "Right Story, Wrong Story" and Indigenous Approaches to Relationships
In today’s episode we talk with Tyson Yunkaporta. Tyson is an Indigenous scholar who belongs to the Apalech Clan from Far North Queensland. He is the founder of the Indigenous Knowledge Systems Lab at Deakin University in Melbourne, and author of the acclaimed book “Sand Talk – How Indigenous Thinking Can Save The World”, and most recently “Right Story, Wrong Story”. His work focuses on applying Indigenous methods of inquiry to resolve complex issues and explore global crises.Our conversation with Tyson is a wide ranging journey and flows in many different directions. We talk about the relationship structures of Indigenous communities, his honest reflections and critiques on his own award- winning books. He also shares personal reflections on his own relations hip structure, age gaps within relationships and power dynamics, and much more.You can buy Tyson’s books at this link below:Right Story, Wrong Storyhttps://www.textpublishing.com.au/books/right-story-wrong-story-adventures-in-indigenous-thinkingSand Talkhttps://www.textpublishing.com.au/books/sand-talk This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

Ep. 31 - Is Non-Monogamy "Hard Work"?
This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.comOn today’s Premium episode Abbey and Liam discuss whether non-monogamy is “hard work”, open phone policies and secrative monogamous behaviours, Abbey accepting a role starring opposite Theo James, Liam touring with Emily Ratajkowski, and much more!

Ep.30 - Kyron Kruger - Fetish Wear, Masculinity & Authenticity
Kyron Kruger is a fetish model and kinkster. He is known widely for his creative work that explores latex fetish wear, and he is seen collaborating with Australia’s best photographers & creatives.In this episode we talk to Kyron about how he found his way into the world of BDSM, his ability to honour his fetishes alongside his masculinity, assumed compatibilities, the future of the sex industry and AI, the economics of being a creative in the sex industry, and so much more.You can find Kyron’s work here:Instagram: @King_kruger_ This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

Ep. 29 - Jealous Rage
This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.comOn today’s Premium episode Abbey and Liam discuss the story featured in Abbey’s most recent article. To unlock full access to this episode you can upgrade at the link at the bottom of this post.

Ep.28 - Elle McAlpine - "Poor Things" Intimacy Coordinator on Consent, Boundaries & Holding Space
In this episode we talk with Intimacy Coordinator Elle McAlpine.Elle is fresh from working on the 11 x Oscar-nominated film “Poor Things” which stars Emma Stone in the leading role. We discuss how she became an intimacy coordinator, all things consent, boundaries and holding space for actors, cast and crew on Movie and Television sets.You can find out more about Elle’s work at:https://www.ekintimacy.com/Premium Episodes:To gain access to the Premium feed and full episodes, you can subscribe at:https://evolvingloveproject.substack.com/Contact Us:To get in contact, reach out to us at [email protected] This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

Ep. 27 - You Asked...We Answered
This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.comOn today’s Premium episode we asked the Evolving Love Project community to submit anonymous questions to Instagram.Premium Episodes:To gain access to the Premium feed and full episodes, you can subscribe at:https://evolvingloveproject.substack.com/Contact Us:To get in contact, reach out to us at [email protected]

Ep. 26 - Dr. Christopher Ryan on "Sex at Dawn", "Civilized to Death" and Non-Monogamy
In this episode we talk with New York Times Best-Selling Author Dr. Christopher Ryan.We discuss "Sex at Dawn", "Civilized To Death", psychedelics, the current state of Polyamorous discourse, Ryan's appearance on Australian TV & being invited to the 100th Birthday of the creator of LSD.Guest Links:https://chrisryan.substack.com/https://chrisryanphd.com/Premium Episodes:To gain access to the Premium feed and full episodes, you can subscribe at:https://evolvingloveproject.substack.com/Contact Us:To get in contact, reach out to us at [email protected] This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

Ep. 25 - Behind The Curtain
In this episode we discuss Evolving Love Project, reminisce and look ahead to the exciting things on the horizon for Evolving Love.Premium Episodes:To gain access to the Premium feed and full episodes, you can subscribe at:https://evolvingloveproject.substack.com/Contact Us:To get in contact, reach out to us at [email protected] This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

Premium: Ep. 24 - The Catfish
This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.comOn today’s Premium episode we recount one of our wildest stories from our journey in non-monogamy. A wild adventure of catfishing, travels, trust and non-monogamy.To gain access to the Premium feed and full episodes, you can subscribe at:https://evolvingloveproject.substack.com/

Ep.23 - Molly Roden Winter & Her Acclaimed Polyamorous Memoir "More"
In this episode we talk with New York Times Best-Selling Author Molly Roden WinterWe cover a wide range of topics including non-monogamy and motherhood, writing her acclaimed polyamorous memoir “More”, “stealthing”, Ashley Madison and so much “More”…Premium Episodes:To gain access to the Premium feed and full episodes, you can subscribe at:https://evolvingloveproject.substack.com/Guest Links:https://www.mollyrodenwinter.com/Contact Us:To get in contact, reach out to us at [email protected] This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

Premium: Ep. 22 - Let's Play A Game
This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.comOn today’s Premium episode we play a game, drawing inspiration from the New York Times article “36 Questions That Lead To Love”.Will we fall deeper and more madly in love? What does the perfect non-monogamous day look like? Who is Abbey’s dream Scientist dinner date? Listen and find out!To gain access to the Premium feed and full episodes, you can subscribe at:https://evolvingloveproject.substack.com/

Ep. 21 - Acceptable Sins with Biblical Scholar Dr. Constantine R. Campbell
“Can you be a Christian and also be Non-Monogamous?”In this episode we talk with Biblical Scholar Dr. Constantine R. Campbell.We cover a wide range of topics including Non-Monogamy & The Bible, sin and morality, moving away from Evangelical Christianity & Christian hedonism.To gain access to the Premium feed and full episodes, you can subscribe at:evolvinglovepodcast.substack.comGuest Links:https://www.constantinecampbell.info/Contact Us:To get in contact, reach out to us at [email protected] This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

Premium: Ep. 20 - Eye Of The Storm: PMS & Non-Monogamy
This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.comOn today’s Premium episode we discuss Premenstrual Syndrome (PMS) and how it shows up in our Non-Monogamy and relationship. We share about our frustrations when compersion is absent and discuss how we navigate the tensions that arise.To gain access to the Premium feed and full episodes, you can subscribe at:evolvingloveproject.substack.com

Ep. 19 – Plot, Scheme & Dream: Poly Cheerleaders & Non-Monogamous Mothers
On today’s episode we plot, scheme, dream what Non-Monogamy will look like for us in 2024. We discuss Poly cheerleaders, the taboo of infidelity in Non-Monogamy, the joys of dating Non-Monogamous mothers, online dating, reconnecting with old flames and more!evolvingloveproject.substack.com@evolvingloveproject This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

Ep. 18 - Our National TV Debut
On today’s episode we discuss our recent appearance on national television in Australia. We talk about the process of filming our short documentary for Channel 10's "The Project", and unpack the reactions and comments that we have received since the show aired.To get in contact, reach out to us at [email protected] @evolvingloveproject evolvingloveproject.com This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

Ep. 17 - Megan from "Amory Podcast" & Her Journey from Monogamy to Polyamory
In this episode we talk with Megan Bhatia from the popular Amory Podcast. Megan is a Self-Love and Relationship Coach living in Costa Rica with her husband and children.Megan shares her story of being featured in American Vogue, polyamorous living arrangements, learning how to date again after monogamy & metamour relationships. To get in contact, reach out to us at [email protected] @evolvingloveproject evolvingloveproject.comGuest Links:Amory Podcast:https://amorypodcast.com/Vogue Article:https://www.vogue.com/article/the-rise-of-consensual-non-monogamy This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

Ep. 16 - The Milf Hunter
In today’s episode we discuss how the TV Show White Lotus relates to non-monogamy, we invite an anti-polyamorous Instagram commenter onto our podcast, infidelity, our recent dating experiences and Abbey’s run in with the “Milf Hunter”. To get in contact, reach out to us at [email protected] @evolvingloveproject evolvingloveproject.comRetreat Link:https://www.evolvingloveproject.com/retreats This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

Ep. 15 - Jessica Fern & David Cooley on "Polywise"
Jessica Fern is the author of "Polysecure". She is a psychotherapist, public speaker, and trauma and relationship expert. With David Cooley, Jessica co-authored her new book "Polywise".David Cooley is a professional restorative justice facilitator, diversity and privilege awareness trainer, and bilingual cultural broker. In this episode Jessica and David share about their own experiences with opening up, their thoughts on attachment and codependency, psychedelics and polyamory and their new book, Polywise. To get in contact, reach out to us at [email protected] @evolvingloveproject evolvingloveproject.comGuest Links:Jessica Fernhttps://www.jessicafern.com/David Cooley:https://www.restorativerelationship.com/ This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

Ep. 14 - Dr Joli Hamilton - Polyamorous Stigma, Parenting & the Jealousy Triangle
Dr. Joli Hamilton is the relationship coach for couples who color outside the lines. She is a research psychologist, TEDx speaker, best-selling author, and AASECT certified sex educator. Joli also co-hosts the Playing with Fire podcast with her anchor partner, Ken. Joli’s been featured in The New York Times, The Atlantic, Vogue, and NPR. In this episode we discuss polyamorous stigma, parenting young adults, dating as a relationship expert & the jealousy triangle. To get in contact, reach out to us at [email protected] @evolvingloveproject evolvingloveproject.comGuest Links:@drjoli_hamiltonhttps://www.jolihamilton.com/Playing With Fire Podcast This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

Ep. 13 - Clementine Morrigan - Trauma Informed Polyamory & Breakups in the Age of Cancel Culture
Clementine Morrigan is a controversial figure, a powerhouse, a writer, and a socialist. She’s been making zines since the year 2000 and is the author of several books including Fucking Magic, Sexting and Trauma Magic. She is also one half of the Fucking Cancelled podcast. In this episode we discuss Clementine's work focusing on Trauma Informed Polyamory, breakups in the age of cancel culture, the importance of extending grace to those with different points of view and her powerful & popular Instagram page. To get in contact, reach out to us at [email protected] @evolvingloveproject evolvingloveproject.comGuest Links:@clementinemorriganhttps://www.clementinemorrigan.com/https://www.fuckingcancelled.com/ This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

Ep. 12 - Solo Dating, Abbey's Non-Monogamous Retreat & Mainstream Dating Apps
In today’s episode we discuss Liam solo dating in New York City, Abbey's upcoming women’s retreat, our ELP gatherings & Abbey venturing out onto mainstream dating apps. We also take some time to browse hinge together in real time!Find out more about the ELP Retreat at:https://www.evolvingloveproject.com/retreatTo get in contact reach out to us at [email protected]@evolvingloveproject This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

Ep. 11 - Ange Lavoipierre - Non-Monogamy in the Public Eye
In today’s episode we speak with ABC Journalist and Comedian Ange Lavoipierre. We discuss Polyamory in the public eye, coming out as Non-Monogamous, ADHD and Polyamory & more! See Ange in action at:Vivid Sydney: Monogamy: The Natural Way to Love?https://www.vividsydney.com/event/ideas/monogamy-the-natural-way-to-loveSchmeitgeist Podcast:https://www.abc.net.au/everyday/programs/schmeitgeistFind on Socials at:@angelavoipierreTo get in contact reach out to us at [email protected]@evolvingloveproject This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe