Connected Families Podcast

In this episode, listen in as Brendon and Naomi Yoder share how they’ve maintained faith through multiple hardships, including the loss of their infant daughter, Taliyah. They describe modeling authentic faith by letting their children witness their reliance on God during difficult times and recount moments how God shows up consistently during their darkest hours. The episode concludes with the Yoder children sharing Bible verses that reveal their understanding of heaven as a real place where their sister awaits them. Key Points: How to model authentic faith through life’s challenges Ways to navigate grief with children Finding resurrection hope amid family trauma and loss Experiencing God’s presence in unexpected ways during dark times Mentioned in this podcast: Blog post: My Child’s Loved One Died; What Do I Do Now? Hebrews 4:15-16 John 11:38-43 (story of Lazarus) John 16:33 Ephesians 4:1-3 1 Thessalonians 4:16-17 Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting! Help other parents find the show–take a moment to rate and review. This podcast was made possible by members of The Table, whose monthly support creates a ripple effect of change for generations to come. We’d love to have you take a seat at The Table! Guest Bio: Brendon and Naomi Yoder are Connected Family Certified Parent Coaches. They are parents to three wonderful kids, ages 12, 10, and 8. They found Connected Families early in their parenting journey. They are missionaries with Wycliffe Bible Translators, and Naomi is a full-time homeschool mom. © 2025 Connected Families .stk-mnmecce-inner-blocks{justify-content:center !important;}.stk-mnmecce {background-color:#FFFFFF !important;padding-top:0px !important;padding-right:0px !important;padding-bottom:0px !important;padding-left:0px !important;}.stk-mnmecce:before{background-color:#FFFFFF !important;}.stk-mnmecce-container{background-color:#f5efe4 !important;box-shadow:0px 2px 20px 0px #1e3f5233 !important;}.stk-mnmecce-container:before{background-color:#f5efe4 !important;}.stk-mnmecce .stk-block-hero__content{min-height:500px !important;} .stk-i5xt0oi {margin-bottom:0px !important;} .stk-fesa03w-container{margin-top:0px !important;margin-right:0px !important;margin-bottom:0px !important;margin-left:0px !important;} .stk-242ot6m .stk-img-wrapper{width:96% !important;height:500px !important;}.stk-242ot6m .stk-img-wrapper img{object-position:20% 44% !important;}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-242ot6m .stk-img-wrapper{height:300px !important;}} .stk-8uzjndr {align-self:center !important;}.stk-8uzjndr-container{max-width:450px !important;min-width:auto !important;} .stk-y8unfgx .stk-block-heading__text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-4, #1e3f52) !important;}Your Monthly Support Changes the Trajectory of Families Worldwide .stk-07buoch {margin-bottom:12px !important;} Join The Table, our monthly donor community, and become part of a dedicated group committed to spreading the same hope and healing you’ve experienced to countless families worldwide. .stk-fgqmb1x {margin-bottom:12px !important;} Predictable support helps us plan effectively and reach more struggling families with life-giving resources. .stk-uzdugp0 .stk-button-group{flex-direction:row !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-uzdugp0 .stk-button-group{flex-direction:row !important;}}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-uzdugp0 .stk-button-group{flex-direction:row !important;}} .stk-zvbilgt , .stk-zvbilgt .stk-button{width:100% !important;}.stk-zvbilgt {flex:1 0 var(--stk-button-group-flex-wrap, 0) !important;}.stk-zvbilgt .stk-button{min-height:0px !important;padding-top:9px !important;padding-right:9px !important;padding-bottom:9px !important;padding-left:9px !important;background:#c24827 !important;}.stk-zvbilgt .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;font-weight:600 !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-zvbilgt .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;}}LEARN MORE

Is your child struggling with emotional regulation, sitting still, or the feel of their clothing? These challenges could be linked to retained primitive reflexes. In this episode, Lynne Jackson, Connected Families Co-Founder and occupational therapist, explores this topic with Connected Families Certified Parent Coaches Amy Nyvall and Courtney Dewey. They explain how these automatic movement patterns should naturally integrate during infancy but can remain active, causing developmental challenges. They also share their families’ success stories and practical, playful integration strategies. Lynne, Amy, and Courtney mention an abundance of resources to help you learn more and provide reassurance that it’s never too late to address retained primitive reflexes. Key Points: What are primitive reflexes, and what purpose do they play in development The typical timeline for integrating reflexes How retained reflexes can cause trouble in a child’s everyday functioning What to do first if you’re wondering if your child has a retained reflex Mentioned in this podcast: Sensitive & Intense Kids online course Connected Families Framework Reflex Integration Through Play and Exercise Kokeb McDonald website Brain Balance Centers Disconnected Kids by Dr. Robert Melillo Family Hope Center Healing Your Child’s Brain by Matthew and Carol Newell Vision Therapy Occupationaltherapy.com Harkla Clinic Romans 15:13 Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting. This podcast was made possible by members of The Table, whose monthly support creates a ripple effect of change for generations to come. We’d love to have you take a seat at The Table! Love this episode? Take a moment to rate and leave a review! Guest Bio: Amy Nyvall is a Connected Families Certified Parent Coach who lives near Portland, Oregon, where she homeschools her kids ages 14,11, and 9 and leads a vibrant Charlotte Mason Education Community. Contact Amy at [email protected] or learn more about her here: https://connectedfamilies.org/coaches/amy-nyvall/. Amy is available for coaching and speaking on the Connected Families Framework. Courtney Dewey, a Connected Families Certified Parent Coach, combines her knowledge of strengths-based leadership with the Connected Families Framework to help parents recognize the gifts of God in themselves and their children. She helps foster compassionate, connected relationships between struggling parents and children. You can contact her for coaching at [email protected] or here: https://connectedfamilies.org/coaches/joe-and-courtney-2/ © 2025 Connected Families .stk-9wxcn30-inner-blocks{justify-content:center !important;}.stk-9wxcn30 {background-color:#FFFFFF !important;padding-top:0px !important;padding-right:0px !important;padding-bottom:0px !important;padding-left:0px !important;}.stk-9wxcn30:before{background-color:#FFFFFF !important;}.stk-9wxcn30-container{background-color:#f5efe4 !important;box-shadow:0px 2px 20px 0px #1e3f5233 !important;}.stk-9wxcn30-container:before{background-color:#f5efe4 !important;}.stk-9wxcn30 .stk-block-hero__content{min-height:500px !important;} .stk-39t45ef {margin-bottom:0px !important;} .stk-njol41k-container{margin-top:0px !important;margin-right:0px !important;margin-bottom:0px !important;margin-left:0px !important;} .stk-rh6qlm8 .stk-img-wrapper{width:96% !important;height:500px !important;}.stk-rh6qlm8 .stk-img-wrapper img{object-position:20% 44% !important;}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-rh6qlm8 .stk-img-wrapper{height:300px !important;}} .stk-wr6siy5 {align-self:center !important;}.stk-wr6siy5-container{max-width:450px !important;min-width:auto !important;} .stk-cmv47be .stk-block-heading__text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-4, #1e3f52) !important;}Your Monthly Support Changes the Trajectory of Families Worldwide .stk-c64mhyy {margin-bottom:12px !important;} Join The Table, our monthly donor community, and become part of a dedicated group committed to spreading the same hope and healing you’ve experienced to countless families worldwide. .stk-71508wk {margin-bottom:12px !important;} Predictable support helps us plan effectively and reach more struggling families with life-giving resources. .stk-fpvd5o4 .stk-button-group{flex-direction:row !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-fpvd5o4 .stk-button-group{flex-direction:row !important;}}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-fpvd5o4 .stk-button-group{flex-direction:row !important;}} .stk-ywyl5jc , .stk-ywyl5jc .stk-button{width:100% !important;}.stk-ywyl5jc {flex:1 0 var(--stk-button-group-flex-wrap, 0) !important;}.stk-ywyl5jc .stk-button{min-height:0px !important;padding-top:9px !important;padding-right:9px !important;padding-bottom:9px !important;padding-left:9px !important;background:#c24827 !important;}.stk-ywyl5jc .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;font-weight:600 !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-ywyl5jc .stk-button__inn

Have you ever asked your child to do a simple task, only to be met with an explosive reaction? In this episode, we interview Lydia Rex, Connected Families Certified Parent Coach, about Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA), also known as Pervasive Drive for Autonomy. Lydia will help you step into your child’s shoes and understand how you may accidentally trigger your child’s nervous system. She also shares insights from her experience as a mom and parent coach on how you can adjust your communication style if your child struggles with demands and the loss of autonomy. Key points: What is PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance/Pervasive Drive for Autonomy), and how it affects children’s nervous systems How the Connected Families Framework supports children with demand avoidance Practical tools for parenting children who struggle with demands The importance of focusing on long-term heart change rather than immediate compliance Mentioned in this podcast: Sensitive & Intense Kids online course Power of Questions online course Hebrews 4:15 Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting! Help other parents find the show–take a moment to rate and review. This podcast was made possible by members of The Table, whose monthly support creates a ripple effect of change for generations to come. We’d love to have you take a seat at The Table! © 2025 Connected Families Guest Bio: Lydia Rex is a registered nurse turned Trust-Based Relational Intervention (TBRI) practitioner and parent coach to families with young kids, especially those who have sensory needs or developmental trauma. No stranger to challenges in the parenting journey, Lydia offers empathy, encouragement, and a deep commitment to walking alongside parents with the Connected Families Framework. It’s her joy to see God’s grace healing the hearts of parents and children. Lydia, her husband Kyle, and their two kids live in Iowa, where they enjoy homeschooling, outdoor activities, and reading lots of books. Laura Way felt like she was drowning as a young mom overseas. She really feels that God provided Connected Families for her when she needed it most. She’s thrilled to be on the team to help offer hope & help to others! Laura and her husband live in Florida with their two elementary-aged daughters. In her free time, Laura loves to read in her hammock or have coffee with friends. .stk-b21qjts {margin-bottom:39px !important;}.stk-b21qjts-container{background-color:#f5efe4 !important;}.stk-b21qjts-container:before{background-color:#f5efe4 !important;}.stk-b21qjts-container:hover{box-shadow:0px 2px 20px #99999933 !important;}.stk-b21qjts .stk-block-card__image{width:361px !important;height:100% !important;}.stk-b21qjts .stk-block-card__image img{transform:scale(0.87) !important;object-position:20% 28.999999999999996% !important;}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-b21qjts .stk-block-card__image{height:291px !important;}.stk-b21qjts .stk-block-card__image img{object-fit:contain !important;}} .stk-lxwdad6 .stk-block-heading__text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-4, #1e3f52) !important;}SPECIAL MARCH OFFER EXTENDED THROUGH FRIDAY APRIL 4TH! .stk-q7h9u1f .stk-block-text__text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-4, #1e3f52) !important;}Join The Table at a suggested donation of $35 a month in March and enjoy FREE access to our popular Sensitive & Intense Kids online course PLUS a free enrollment to share with another family. .stk-1574b8y .stk-button{background:#c24827 !important;}.stk-1574b8y .stk-button:hover:after{background:#f5efe4 !important;opacity:1 !important;}.stk-1574b8y .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;color:var(--theme-palette-color-8, #ffffff) !important;font-weight:600 !important;}.stk-1574b8y .stk-button:hover .stk-button__inner-text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-3, #293241) !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-1574b8y .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;}}I WANT TO JOIN THE TABLE!

In this episode of the Connected Families podcast, we explore how to calm a dysregulated child with insights from Certified Connected Families Parent Coaches Alan and Corrie Thetford. Together they share how they evolved from demanding immediate calm to modeling self-regulation, creating playful learning opportunities, and viewing emotional outbursts as chances to experience God’s grace. NOTE: This content is for every parent. Even if your kids don’t seem to fall into the category of sensitive and intense, the concepts that we teach are helpful for all families because everyone encounters big emotions, sensitivities and challenging behavior at some point. Key points: Shifting from control to connection Biblical foundation for parenting Four-step approach to teaching self-regulation Reframing conflict as opportunity Mentioned in this podcast: Join The Table Monthly Donor Community Sensitive & Intense Kids Online Course Connected Families Website Parent Coaching Services Zones of Regulation Philippians 1:6 Philippians 2:13 Psalm 103 Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting! Take a moment to rate and review! *This podcast was made possible by members of The Table, whose monthly support creates a ripple effect of change for generations to come. We’d love to have you take a seat at The Table!* Guest Bio: Alan and Corrie have four children and are Certified Connected Families Parent Coaches as well as instructors for CF coaches-in-training. They are passionate about multiplying the gospel by helping families transform power struggles and conflicts into opportunities for gospel messages. © 2025 Connected Families .stk-khpp7j2{margin-bottom:39px !important}.stk-khpp7j2-container{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-4,#1e3f52) !important}.stk-khpp7j2-container:before{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-4,#1e3f52) !important}.stk-khpp7j2-container:hover{box-shadow:0px 2px 20px rgba(153,153,153,0.2) !important}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-khpp7j2 .stk-block-card__image{width:100% !important;height:250px !important}} .stk-ign5o73 .stk-block-heading__text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-6,#e4eff5) !important}Do you have a child with EXTRA needs? .stk-y2flxp8{margin-bottom:12px !important}.stk-y2flxp8 .stk-block-text__text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-8,#ffffff) !important}Parenting isn’t easy, but when you’ve got an extra INTENSE or SENSITIVE child with big feelings… it’s even harder. .stk-ndq7htp .stk-block-text__text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-8,#ffffff) !important}The Sensitive and Intense Kids online course will equip you to parent well, even with these unique kiddos. .stk-0o2h2xl .stk-button{background:var(--theme-palette-color-1,#ee6c4d) !important}.stk-0o2h2xl .stk-button:hover:after{background:var(--theme-palette-color-2,#98c1d9) !important;opacity:1 !important}.stk-0o2h2xl .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;font-weight:600 !important}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-0o2h2xl .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important}}LEARN MORE

In this bonus episode of the Connected Families podcast, host Stacy Bellward and Executive Director Anna Braasch announce the launch of The Table, a new monthly donor community aimed at providing sustaining support for Connected Families resources. Together they highlight the growing global reach of Connected Families, with more parents engaging with their Christ-centered resources and an increasing number of Certified Parent Coaches worldwide. The episode emphasizes how Connected Families’ tools foster deeper connections with God and within families. This is your invitation to join The Table. Will you pull up a seat and join us? Mentioned in this podcast: Join The Table Monthly Donor Community Contact Us Guest bio: Anna Braasch has been with the Connected Families team since 2013 and has served as Executive Director since 2015. She is passionate about expanding the Connected Families’ vision of “turning the hearts of parents to their children and the hearts of the disobedient to the wisdom of the righteous” (Luke 1:17). You can read more about Anna and the rest of the Connected Families team on our Ministry Team page. *This podcast was made possible by members of The Table, whose monthly support creates a ripple effect of change for generations to come. We’d love to have you take a seat at The Table!* © 2025 Connected Families .stk-wgmf6hc {margin-bottom:39px !important;}.stk-wgmf6hc-container{background-color:#f5efe4 !important;}.stk-wgmf6hc-container:before{background-color:#f5efe4 !important;}.stk-wgmf6hc-container:hover{box-shadow:0px 2px 20px #99999933 !important;}.stk-wgmf6hc .stk-block-card__image{width:361px !important;height:100% !important;}.stk-wgmf6hc .stk-block-card__image img{transform:scale(0.87) !important;object-position:20% 28.999999999999996% !important;}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-wgmf6hc .stk-block-card__image{height:291px !important;}.stk-wgmf6hc .stk-block-card__image img{object-fit:contain !important;}} .stk-6vys629 .stk-block-heading__text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-4, #1e3f52) !important;}SPECIAL MARCH OFFER EXTENDED THROUGH FRIDAY APRIL 4TH! .stk-5wlkqya .stk-block-text__text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-4, #1e3f52) !important;}Join The Table at a suggested donation of $35 a month in March and enjoy FREE access to our popular Sensitive & Intense Kids online course PLUS a free enrollment to share with another family. .stk-un1jdxy .stk-button{background:#c24827 !important;}.stk-un1jdxy .stk-button:hover:after{background:#f5efe4 !important;opacity:1 !important;}.stk-un1jdxy .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;color:var(--theme-palette-color-8, #ffffff) !important;font-weight:600 !important;}.stk-un1jdxy .stk-button:hover .stk-button__inner-text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-3, #293241) !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-un1jdxy .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;}}I WANT TO JOIN THE TABLE!

If you’ve got a child who complains about the volume of the microwave or who won’t venture into the living room without turning off the overhead lights, this conversation on sensory sensitivities is for you! Listen in as Stacy Bellward interviews Lynne Jackson (Occupational Therapist and Connected Families Co-Founder) Together they dig into parenting sensitive and intense children, focusing on sensory processing challenges. Lynn emphasizes trusting parental intuition and explains how sensory issues can be potential gifts when managed well. Mentioned in this podcast: Sensitive & Intense Kids Online Course Sensory Questionnaire (Free PDF) Join the Table Community Blog post: Solve That After-School Crabbiness Connected Families Parent Coaching Galatians 6:2 Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting! Take a moment to rate and review! *This podcast was made possible by members of The Table and other donors whose monthly support creates a ripple effect of change for generations to come. We’d love to have you take a seat at The Table! Guest Bio: Lynne Jackson, OTR is one of the Co-Founders of Connected Families. As a parent coach and mom of three intense kids herself, Lynne has walked alongside hundreds of parents to encourage and bring hope. She is also a research enthusiast and loves leaning into the brain science and research to better equip parents and caregivers. Most importantly, as a follower of Christ, she brings biblical wisdom, abundant grace, and a “no shame” policy. © 2025 Connected Families .stk-7rxnma2 {margin-bottom:39px !important;}.stk-7rxnma2-container{background-color:#f5efe4 !important;}.stk-7rxnma2-container:before{background-color:#f5efe4 !important;}.stk-7rxnma2-container:hover{box-shadow:0px 2px 20px #99999933 !important;}.stk-7rxnma2 .stk-block-card__image{width:361px !important;height:100% !important;}.stk-7rxnma2 .stk-block-card__image img{transform:scale(0.87) !important;object-position:20% 28.999999999999996% !important;}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-7rxnma2 .stk-block-card__image{height:291px !important;}.stk-7rxnma2 .stk-block-card__image img{object-fit:contain !important;}} .stk-rfy72au .stk-block-heading__text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-4, #1e3f52) !important;}SPECIAL MARCH OFFER EXTENDED THROUGH FRIDAY APRIL 4TH! .stk-34y1kzu .stk-block-text__text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-4, #1e3f52) !important;}Join The Table at a suggested donation of $35 a month in March and enjoy FREE access to our popular Sensitive & Intense Kids online course PLUS a free enrollment to share with another family. .stk-dceg5pa .stk-button{background:#c24827 !important;}.stk-dceg5pa .stk-button:hover:after{background:#f5efe4 !important;opacity:1 !important;}.stk-dceg5pa .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;color:var(--theme-palette-color-8, #ffffff) !important;font-weight:600 !important;}.stk-dceg5pa .stk-button:hover .stk-button__inner-text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-3, #293241) !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-dceg5pa .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;}}I WANT TO JOIN THE TABLE!

If you feel like you’ve “tried empathy” and you’re not a fan of the results, tune into this conversation about what empathy is and why you need more of it in your life. In this episode of the Connected Families podcast, where host Stacy Bellward and Heidi Eaton (Podcast Manager) have a transparent conversation about the role of empathy in parenting. Together they explore the challenges parents face in nurturing empathy, acknowledging that it might not always come naturally. Key points: Empathy is a skill we can learn, not a talent we’re born with. A calm brain is essential for true empathy. Caring about feelings doesn’t mean agreeing with behavior. Mentioned in this podcast: Blog post: Why Little (and Not-So-Little) Kids with Big Emotions Benefit From Big Empathy Podcast: Ep. 193: Agape Love: The Surprising Time Your Child Needs It Most Video: “Feeling Understood Was All He Needed” Sensitive & Intense Kids online course Connected Families Parent Coaching Romans 12:15 Hebrews 4:15 Raising An Emotionally Intelligent Child by Dr. John Gottman Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting! Take a moment to rate and review! *This podcast was made possible by members of The Table and other donors whose monthly support creates a ripple effect of change for generations to come. We’d love to have you take a seat at The Table!* Guest Bio: Heidi Eaton and her family have experienced the transformational power of the Connected Families messages for many years. She loves being on this team and spreading hope and intention to other parents. Heidi and her husband Tim have 3 children and have been married for over 20 years. When Heidi is not managing the podcast, she loves spending time in nature and baking. © 2025 Connected Families .stk-9jpnf86 {margin-bottom:39px !important;}.stk-9jpnf86-container{background-color:#f5efe4 !important;}.stk-9jpnf86-container:before{background-color:#f5efe4 !important;}.stk-9jpnf86-container:hover{box-shadow:0px 2px 20px #99999933 !important;}.stk-9jpnf86 .stk-block-card__image{width:361px !important;height:100% !important;}.stk-9jpnf86 .stk-block-card__image img{transform:scale(0.87) !important;object-position:20% 28.999999999999996% !important;}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-9jpnf86 .stk-block-card__image{height:291px !important;}.stk-9jpnf86 .stk-block-card__image img{object-fit:contain !important;}} .stk-5gx2pd1 .stk-block-heading__text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-4, #1e3f52) !important;}SPECIAL MARCH OFFER EXTENDED THROUGH FRIDAY APRIL 4TH! .stk-d7ral0o .stk-block-text__text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-4, #1e3f52) !important;}Join The Table at a suggested donation of $35 a month in March and enjoy FREE access to our popular Sensitive & Intense Kids online course PLUS a free enrollment to share with another family. .stk-nmwcq9u .stk-button{background:#c24827 !important;}.stk-nmwcq9u .stk-button:hover:after{background:#f5efe4 !important;opacity:1 !important;}.stk-nmwcq9u .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;color:var(--theme-palette-color-8, #ffffff) !important;font-weight:600 !important;}.stk-nmwcq9u .stk-button:hover .stk-button__inner-text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-3, #293241) !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-nmwcq9u .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;}}I WANT TO JOIN THE TABLE!

*This resource was made possible by members of The Table, whose monthly support creates a ripple effect of change for generations to come. We’d love to have you take a seat at The Table!* For followers of Jesus, soul care isn’t optional. For burned-out or overwhelmed parents, it offers a rare lifeline. In this podcast, Stacy Bellward chats with Connected Families certified parent coaches Taylor Irby and Amy Nyvall about the vital importance of spiritual self-care while parenting. Through both challenging “valley” seasons and smoother periods, they emphasize that nurturing one’s relationship with God isn’t about fixing problems but creating space to receive His presence. Whether through simple practices like prayer during shower time or scripture reading, maintaining spiritual groundedness is essential – especially when parenting sensitive and intense children. Key takeaways: Connecting with Jesus first is key to effective parenting. Developing practical soul-care habits brings peace amid chaos. Reframing challenges as growth opportunities deepens reliance on God. Mentioned in this podcast: Sensitive & Intense Kids course Connected Families Parent Coaching Book reference: Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer Lectio Divina app (here is one example) Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting! Take a moment to rate and review! *This resource was made possible by members of The Table, whose monthly support creates a ripple effect of change for generations to come. We’d love to have you take a seat at The Table!* Guest Bio: Amy Nyvall and her husband, Andrew, have been married for 16 years and live among the fir trees outside Portland, Oregon. They enjoy outdoor adventures as much as possible and have a blast homeschooling their three intensely creative, adventurous, and active children. In her spare time, you’ll find Amy encouraging moms and homeschoolers, learning alongside the kids, or slipping away to read from a stack of her own books. Amy is passionate about creating a family culture that equips our children to be prepared to serve the Lord in the days ahead. She is a Connected Families Certified Parent Coach and has personal experience and knowledge in the sensitive and intense space. You can connect with her for parent coaching at: [email protected]. Taylor Irby is a mother to 5 kids, and she understands the struggles parents face. Every day she faces ADHD, autism, anxiety, developmental delays, and adoption trauma. She too has sat in the trenches and searched the world for answers. Taylor read book after book and got excited over methods that were short-lived. That is when she hit the wall of desperation and sought parent coaching through Connected Families. Taylor ultimately became a coach through their training program to help others like her. She has seen a transformation in her home through working with a framework that has changed not only her children’s behavior but their hearts as well. You are not alone on this parenting journey. There is hope, and you can enjoy your children, build that relationship you have wanted, and see behavior change. You can learn more about Taylor at taylorirbycoaching.com and on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/taylor.irby.5 and Instagram @taylorirbycoaching © 2025 Connected Families .stk-ggwunil-inner-blocks{justify-content:center !important;}.stk-ggwunil {background-color:#FFFFFF !important;padding-top:0px !important;padding-right:0px !important;padding-bottom:0px !important;padding-left:0px !important;}.stk-ggwunil:before{background-color:#FFFFFF !important;}.stk-ggwunil-container{background-color:#f5efe4 !important;box-shadow:0px 2px 20px 0px #1e3f5233 !important;}.stk-ggwunil-container:before{background-color:#f5efe4 !important;}.stk-ggwunil .stk-block-hero__content{min-height:500px !important;} .stk-5isxcuy {margin-bottom:0px !important;} .stk-yidzq6k-container{margin-top:0px !important;margin-right:0px !important;margin-bottom:0px !important;margin-left:0px !important;} .stk-jbom16w .stk-img-wrapper{width:96% !important;height:500px !important;}.stk-jbom16w .stk-img-wrapper img{object-position:20% 44% !important;}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-jbom16w .stk-img-wrapper{height:300px !important;}} .stk-bp0f4bc {align-self:center !important;}.stk-bp0f4bc-container{max-width:450px !important;min-width:auto !important;} .stk-uy7magk .stk-block-heading__text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-4, #1e3f52) !important;}Your Monthly Support Changes the Trajectory of Families Worldwide .stk-l4bkc97 {margin-bottom:12px !important;} Join The Table, our monthly donor community, and become part of a dedicated group committed to spreading the same hope and healing you’ve experienced to countless families worldwide. .stk-z0jl2hy {margin-bottom:12px !important;} Predictable support helps us plan effectively and reach more struggling families with life-giving resources. .stk-fo5qk3r .st

Have you thought of leading a small group through one of the Connected Families video courses? This episode will answer your questions. Small groups help combat parental isolation and create supportive communities for lasting family transformation. Host Stacy Bellward discusses the opportunity to lead Connected Families small groups with guests Pam Thompson (Certified Parent Coach) and Jacquie Danz (Small Group Coordinator). Together they discuss the benefits of small groups and answer frequently asked questions. Key Points: Leading a group is simplified to facilitating discussion and playing videos No expertise required – content is provided by Connected Families experts Cost savings: Individual course is $140 vs. $55 per household in groups Groups provide accountability and deeper learning through community Full support provided to leaders through Connected Families resources Mentioned in this podcast: Sensitive & Intense Kids online course Union Gospel Mission (Seattle) Ministry Partnerships page Contact Us Pam Thompson coaching info Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting! Take a moment to rate and review! Guest Bio: Pam Thompson is a licensed Family and Early Childhood Educator and a Connected Families Certified Parent Coach. She is a mom of two young adult children and “like a mom” to two young adults who have experienced extensive trauma. Because of her education and experiences, she especially enjoys encouraging and supporting parents of young children, parents of young adult children, parents of kids from hard places, and teachers. Jacquie Danz is the Marketing & Small Group Coordinator at Connected Families. She first discovered Connected Families over a decade ago and now enjoys being part of the team sharing Connected Families with everyone. In her spare time, she enjoys exploring coffee shops with her husband, reading anything she can get her hands on, and spending time with her lovely teenage daughters. .stk-10bcafb{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-2,#98c1d9) !important}.stk-10bcafb:before{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-2,#98c1d9) !important}.stk-10bcafb > .stk-separator__bottom{transform:scaleX(-1) !important} .stk-3e8feca{align-self:center !important} Take the course that was made for your family. Got a child with extra big emotions? We get it. And we want to support and equip you. Raising an intense and sensitive child isn’t easy, but it can be filled with hope. .stk-2a0ab1b .stk-button{background:var(--theme-palette-color-1,#ee6c4d) !important}.stk-2a0ab1b .stk-button:hover:after{background:var(--theme-palette-color-4,#1e3f52) !important;opacity:1 !important}.stk-2a0ab1b .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;color:var(--theme-palette-color-8,#ffffff) !important;font-weight:600 !important}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-2a0ab1b .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important}}LEARN MORE .stk-73b78bd{align-self:center !important}

Dr. Nicole Wilke is back in this episode to explore another layer of building resilience in kids–affirming character development. Dr. Wilke shares practical wisdom on speaking healing words to our children and fostering resilience through appropriate levels of challenge and support. In addition, Stacy highlights how you can use the ABC’s of Affirmation tool to practice what the Bible and brain science teach us about resilience. Key Takeaways: Creating margin and proper rhythms can help you speak more wisely Challenges build resilience when paired with appropriate support Focus on one character trait at a time as a family Model the character you want to see, including confession when you fall short Affirm success and help your children understand the “why” behind character development Mentioned in this podcast: ABC’s of Affirmation PDF download Dr. Wilke’s book: Overcoming: What Scripture and Science Say About Resilience Ep 201 | Overcoming: How Adversity, Challenges & Childhood Trauma Can Shape Our Children in Positive Ways Proverbs 12:18 James 1:12 Galatians 6:9 Galatians 5:22 1 Thessalonians 5:18 Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting! We are a listener-supported podcast. Donate today to keep Christ-centered resources coming your way! Love what you hear? Take a moment to share this episode with a friend. Guest Bio: Nicole Wilke, Ph.D., is a researcher, missionary, author, and marriage and family therapist dedicated to improving care for vulnerable children and families globally. She currently serves as Director of the Christian Alliance for Orphans’ Center on Applied Research for Vulnerable Children and Families, bridging research and practice to improve care for vulnerable children and families around the globe. Her passion for this work stems from her family’s experience with adoption and fostering. Having lived on four continents, Nicole currently resides with her family in Peru, where they work to improve the system for children in alternative care. © 2025 Connected Families .stk-0h61yf8-container{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-4,#1e3f52) !important}.stk-0h61yf8-container:before{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-4,#1e3f52) !important} .stk-4xm43zp .stk-block-heading__text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-2,#98c1d9) !important}The Quick Guide for Parenting .stk-xalr7d2 .stk-block-text__text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-8,#ffffff) !important}It’s parenting made clear with biblical wisdom to better equip you to lead your family with grace. .stk-o8vwhnp .stk-button{background:var(--theme-palette-color-1,#ee6c4d) !important}.stk-o8vwhnp .stk-button:hover:after{background:var(--theme-palette-color-2,#98c1d9) !important;opacity:1 !important}.stk-o8vwhnp .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;font-weight:600 !important}.stk-o8vwhnp .stk-button:hover .stk-button__inner-text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-8,#ffffff) !important}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-o8vwhnp .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important}}GET THE GUIDE .stk-u7gsapb{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-4,#1e3f52) !important}.stk-u7gsapb:before{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-4,#1e3f52) !important} @media screen and (min-width:690px){.stk-wkx419a{flex:1 1 33.3% !important}} @media screen and (min-width:690px){.stk-p6r6v82{flex:1 1 66.7% !important}} .stk-f4ilyr3 .stk-block-heading__text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-2,#98c1d9) !important}The Quick Guide for Parenting .stk-m0q034p .stk-block-text__text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-8,#ffffff) !important}It’s parenting made clear with biblical wisdom to better equip you to lead your family with grace. .stk-0rrdzb3 .stk-button{background:var(--theme-palette-color-1,#ee6c4d) !important}.stk-0rrdzb3 .stk-button:hover:after{background:var(--theme-palette-color-2,#98c1d9) !important;opacity:1 !important}.stk-0rrdzb3 .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;font-weight:600 !important}.stk-0rrdzb3 .stk-button:hover .stk-button__inner-text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-8,#ffffff) !important}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-0rrdzb3 .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important}}GET THE GUIDE

Got questions about marriage? Feeling like, “My marriage is broken”? Join Jim and Lynne Jackson as they candidly answer real questions about marriage from parents like you. They touch on everything from balancing time for one another with parenting to avoiding “parenting” your spouse and navigating your differences. Jim and Lynne share share their journey of learning to drop judgments, connect intentionally, and maintain hope through difficult seasons. Listen in for some laughs, encouragement, and wisdom for doing life together. Mentioned in this podcast: Blog post: How I Avoided a Full-blown Affair Blog post: Family Meetings The On-Purpose Person by Kevin McCarthy Power of Questions online course Discipline That Connects With Your Child’s Heart book Sensitive & Intense Kids online course Romans 15:13 Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting! Help others discover our podcast–take a second to rate the show and leave a review. *This podcast was made possible by members of The Table, whose monthly support creates a ripple effect of change for generations to come. We’d love to have you take a seat at The Table!* Guest bio: Jim and Lynne Jackson are the Co-Founders of Connected Families in Plymouth, MN. With over 50 combined years of professionally helping families and a love for working in the church, Jim and Lynne have been dedicated to bringing reliable, God-centered, research-based parenting resources to all families since 2002. © 2025 Connected Families .stk-ovz7i73-inner-blocks{justify-content:center !important;}.stk-ovz7i73 {background-color:#FFFFFF !important;padding-top:0px !important;padding-right:0px !important;padding-bottom:0px !important;padding-left:0px !important;}.stk-ovz7i73:before{background-color:#FFFFFF !important;}.stk-ovz7i73-container{background-color:#f5efe4 !important;box-shadow:0px 2px 20px 0px #1e3f5233 !important;}.stk-ovz7i73-container:before{background-color:#f5efe4 !important;}.stk-ovz7i73 .stk-block-hero__content{min-height:500px !important;} .stk-sfg84io {margin-bottom:0px !important;} .stk-4ec9q2i-container{margin-top:0px !important;margin-right:0px !important;margin-bottom:0px !important;margin-left:0px !important;} .stk-zuus4zm .stk-img-wrapper{width:96% !important;height:500px !important;}.stk-zuus4zm .stk-img-wrapper img{object-position:20% 44% !important;}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-zuus4zm .stk-img-wrapper{height:300px !important;}} .stk-0n71pl0 {align-self:center !important;}.stk-0n71pl0-container{max-width:450px !important;min-width:auto !important;} .stk-x9ip2dr .stk-block-heading__text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-4, #1e3f52) !important;}Your Monthly Support Changes the Trajectory of Families Worldwide .stk-nx75hod {margin-bottom:12px !important;} Join The Table, our monthly donor community, and become part of a dedicated group committed to spreading the same hope and healing you’ve experienced to countless families worldwide. .stk-ur1l9qk {margin-bottom:12px !important;} Predictable support helps us plan effectively and reach more struggling families with life-giving resources. .stk-xtrdkmn .stk-button-group{flex-direction:row !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-xtrdkmn .stk-button-group{flex-direction:row !important;}}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-xtrdkmn .stk-button-group{flex-direction:row !important;}} .stk-wc4ss3c , .stk-wc4ss3c .stk-button{width:100% !important;}.stk-wc4ss3c {flex:1 0 var(--stk-button-group-flex-wrap, 0) !important;}.stk-wc4ss3c .stk-button{min-height:0px !important;padding-top:9px !important;padding-right:9px !important;padding-bottom:9px !important;padding-left:9px !important;background:#c24827 !important;}.stk-wc4ss3c .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;font-weight:600 !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-wc4ss3c .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;}}LEARN MORE

**Content warning: this podcast discusses mental health issues, including suicide.** Whether you’re dealing with tantrums or teen anxiety, you won’t want to miss this honest, down-to-earth conversation with Josh and Rachel Keller (Connected Families Certified Parent Coaches) as they dive deep into the topic of building resilience in children. As therapists and educators, they share practical wisdom on why kids aren’t naturally resilient and need to learn this essential life skill. Key takeaways: Why the common phrase “kids are resilient” can be misleading How to help children process difficult emotions in healthy ways Practical strategies for building resilience while maintaining connection The spiritual component of developing resilience Why protecting kids from all hardship can backfire Mentioned in this podcast: Free PDF – ABC’s of Affirmation Galatians 5:19-26 Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting! Become a Connected Families Donor today, and link arms with others who are passionate about building relational and spiritual health in every family and the future body of Christ. Take a moment to rate the podcast and help other parents discover the Connected Families Framework. Guest Bio: Josh and Rachel are a married duo from Central Minnesota. They believe that teenagers are a wonder to behold, not a problem to be fixed. They have been married for 15 years, with three kids, one dog, a bunny, and a bird. After becoming CF Certified Parent Coaches, they launched The Freedom Center MN, a mental health practice in Willmar, MN. .stk-5tv0bnl{border-top-left-radius:0px !important;border-top-right-radius:0px !important;border-bottom-right-radius:0px !important;border-bottom-left-radius:0px !important;overflow:hidden !important;border-style:solid !important;border-top-width:0px !important;border-right-width:0px !important;border-bottom-width:0px !important;border-left-width:0px !important;padding-top:0px !important;padding-right:0px !important;padding-bottom:0px !important;padding-left:0px !important;margin-right:25px !important;margin-bottom:25px !important;margin-left:25px !important} .stk-plgfka3{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-2,#98c1d9) !important;overflow:hidden !important}.stk-plgfka3:before{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-2,#98c1d9) !important}.stk-plgfka3-container{padding-top:0px !important;padding-right:0px !important;padding-bottom:0px !important;padding-left:0px !important}@media screen and (min-width:690px){.stk-plgfka3{flex:1 1 calc(30.6% - var(--stk-column-gap,0px) * 1 / 2 ) !important}} @media screen and (min-width:690px){.stk-yzugxp5{flex:1 1 calc(69.4% - var(--stk-column-gap,0px) * 1 / 2 ) !important}} .stk-edn5ik8 .stk-block-text__text{font-size:26px !important;color:var(--theme-palette-color-3,#293241) !important}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-edn5ik8 .stk-block-text__text{font-size:26px !important}}Whether you’re just learning the Four Messages of the Framework or have been at it for years, the Parenting Reminders Bundle can help you parent the way you want to parent! .stk-pyyderp{margin-top:0px !important} .stk-27vmf6b{margin-top:20px !important}.stk-27vmf6b .stk-button{padding-right:30px !important;padding-left:30px !important}.stk-27vmf6b .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:20px !important}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-27vmf6b .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:20px !important}}GET YOUR BUNDLE NOW!

You won’t want to miss parent coaches Chad Hayenga and Katie Johnson exploring the meaningful practice of blessing your kids. They unpack what “blessing” meant throughout the Bible and what your heart needs to receive so that you can bless your children. And, of course, they offer plenty of ideas about when and how you can start practicing blessing your kids today. Mentioned in this podcast: Blog post: How to Speak Blessings Over Your Child FREE PDF: The ABC’s of Affirmation Ephesians 1:3 Mark 10 Hebrews 11:20-21 Psalm 103 1 Thessalonians 5:15 Numbers 6:24-26 Philippians 2 Luke 2:52 Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting! Become a Connected Families Donor today, and link arms with others who are passionate about building relational and spiritual health in every family and the future body of Christ. Take a moment to rate the podcast and help other parents discover the Connected Families Framework. Guest Bio: Katie Johnson is a Connected Families Certified Parent Coach living in Madison, WI, with her family. After receiving her M.Ed. from Valparaiso University, she worked for many years in education and is now on the homeschool journey with her three young children. Find out more about Katie and parent coaching here. .stk-y1ba8oh-container{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-4,#1e3f52) !important}.stk-y1ba8oh-container:before{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-4,#1e3f52) !important} .stk-7t92dzs .stk-block-heading__text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-2,#98c1d9) !important}The Quick Guide for Parenting .stk-yutb2wi .stk-block-text__text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-8,#ffffff) !important}It’s parenting made clear with biblical wisdom to better equip you to lead your family with grace. .stk-b192yxk .stk-button{background:var(--theme-palette-color-1,#ee6c4d) !important}.stk-b192yxk .stk-button:hover:after{background:var(--theme-palette-color-2,#98c1d9) !important;opacity:1 !important}.stk-b192yxk .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;font-weight:600 !important}.stk-b192yxk .stk-button:hover .stk-button__inner-text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-8,#ffffff) !important}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-b192yxk .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important}}GET THE GUIDE .stk-homxrbq{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-4,#1e3f52) !important}.stk-homxrbq:before{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-4,#1e3f52) !important} @media screen and (min-width:690px){.stk-jb37gxl{flex:1 1 33.3% !important}} @media screen and (min-width:690px){.stk-k56k91r{flex:1 1 66.7% !important}} .stk-iph6hyn .stk-block-heading__text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-2,#98c1d9) !important}The Quick Guide for Parenting .stk-mwnd56b .stk-block-text__text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-8,#ffffff) !important}It’s parenting made clear with biblical wisdom to better equip you to lead your family with grace. .stk-a0i79jr .stk-button{background:var(--theme-palette-color-1,#ee6c4d) !important}.stk-a0i79jr .stk-button:hover:after{background:var(--theme-palette-color-2,#98c1d9) !important;opacity:1 !important}.stk-a0i79jr .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;font-weight:600 !important}.stk-a0i79jr .stk-button:hover .stk-button__inner-text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-8,#ffffff) !important}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-a0i79jr .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important}}GET THE GUIDE

Does your child get discouraged? Does it feel like your child’s misbehavior seems to drown out the positive things you might notice? There is science behind the power of affirmation. You can learn to shine a bright spot on the small things that go well and begin to unravel this cycle of discouragement in your child. And it will bring encouragement to you as a parent, too! In today’s podcast, Lynne Jackson (Co-Founder of Connected Families) shares a powerful and practical tool she created called the ABC’s of Affirmation. Mentioned in this podcast: FREE PDF: Downloadable ABC’s of Affirmation I Was a Critical Parent: 7 Steps I Took to Find a More Loving Way Is There “Miracle Grow” for Good Behavior? (The ABC’s of Affirmation) Learn more about “The Table” community at Connected Families Grace and Truth For Moms (online course) Connected Families Framework How Your Thoughts Change Your Brain, Cells, and Genes What Your Brain Needs to Know About Neuroplasticity Corrie Thetford, Lydia Rex (Certified Connected Families Parent Coaches) Dr. Alan Kazdin Philippians 4:8 Romans 12:2 2 Corinthians 10:5 1 Thessalonians 4:9 1 Thessalonians 5:11 How have you used the ABC’s of Affirmation with your kids? We’d love to hear your stories! And don’t forget to check out our website for more great resources! Need more encouragement or help? Please contact us; we are here for you! Guest Bio: Lynne Jackson is one of the Co-Founders of Connected Families. As a parent coach and mom of three intense kids herself, Lynne has walked alongside hundreds of parents to encourage and bring hope. She is also a research enthusiast and loves leaning into the brain science and research to better equip parents and caregivers. Most importantly, as a follower of Christ, she brings biblical wisdom, abundant grace, and a “no shame” policy. .stk-ejao3tq-inner-blocks{justify-content:center !important;}.stk-ejao3tq {background-color:#FFFFFF !important;padding-top:0px !important;padding-right:0px !important;padding-bottom:0px !important;padding-left:0px !important;}.stk-ejao3tq:before{background-color:#FFFFFF !important;}.stk-ejao3tq .stk-block-hero__content{min-height:500px !important;} .stk-rts0d8r {box-shadow:0px 2px 20px #99999933 !important;margin-bottom:0px !important;} .stk-9gpp0b1-container{margin-top:0px !important;margin-right:0px !important;margin-bottom:0px !important;margin-left:0px !important;} .stk-h45fkkg .stk-img-wrapper{width:100% !important;height:635px !important;}.stk-h45fkkg .stk-img-wrapper img{transform:scale(0.96) !important;object-fit:contain !important;}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-h45fkkg .stk-img-wrapper{height:300px !important;}} .stk-rlnzb50 {align-self:center !important;}.stk-rlnzb50-container{max-width:549px !important;min-width:auto !important;} .stk-3h42j8v {align-items:flex-start !important;max-width:1500px !important;min-width:auto !important;padding-top:0px !important;padding-right:0px !important;padding-bottom:0px !important;padding-left:0px !important;margin-right:0px !important;margin-bottom:0px !important;display:flex !important;}.stk-3h42j8v .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:47px !important;color:var(--theme-palette-color-4, #1e3f52) !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-3h42j8v .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:47px !important;}}Transform Your Next Group Gathering What if your next gathering left parents feeling equipped, encouraged, and hopeful? That’s exactly what Connected Families workshops do. Led by CF Certified Parent Coaches, these sessions bring practical, biblical wisdom on topics like discipline and sibling conflict straight to your community. Learn more and book a speaker today. .stk-1ijoicu .stk-button{background:var(--theme-palette-color-1, #ee6c4d) !important;}.stk-1ijoicu .stk-button:hover:after{background:var(--theme-palette-color-2, #98c1d9) !important;opacity:1 !important;}.stk-1ijoicu .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;color:var(--theme-palette-color-8, #ffffff) !important;font-weight:600 !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-1ijoicu .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;}}Bring Hope To Your Community

In this episode, Connected Families staff discuss the scriptures and spiritual practices that have helped them stay connected to God in the past year. They also share their vision for the coming year and their commitment to providing “bite-sized” encouragement to overwhelmed parents. Listen in for a few simple ideas on staying centered on your Good Shepherd as you lead your family with grace. Mentioned in this podcast: Tell me more about The Table Personal Retreat Guide Hosea 11:4 1 Peter 1:22 1 Peter 4:10 1 Peter 4:8 Isaiah 30:21 Psalm 91 Silence and Solitude by Ruth Haley Barton Lynne’s Scripture Card box Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting. Your donation fuels the work to transform families. Give a gift to Connected Families today! Take a moment to rate the podcast and help others find it. .stk-pjckwtp-container{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-4,#1e3f52) !important}.stk-pjckwtp-container:before{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-4,#1e3f52) !important} .stk-38xumq1 .stk-block-heading__text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-2,#98c1d9) !important}The Quick Guide for Parenting .stk-emmzwa4 .stk-block-text__text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-8,#ffffff) !important}It’s parenting made clear with biblical wisdom to better equip you to lead your family with grace. .stk-pc40nx9 .stk-button{background:var(--theme-palette-color-1,#ee6c4d) !important}.stk-pc40nx9 .stk-button:hover:after{background:var(--theme-palette-color-2,#98c1d9) !important;opacity:1 !important}.stk-pc40nx9 .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;font-weight:600 !important}.stk-pc40nx9 .stk-button:hover .stk-button__inner-text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-8,#ffffff) !important}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-pc40nx9 .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important}}GET THE GUIDE .stk-zxle8yp{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-4,#1e3f52) !important}.stk-zxle8yp:before{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-4,#1e3f52) !important} @media screen and (min-width:690px){.stk-hi3dkx5{flex:1 1 33.3% !important}} @media screen and (min-width:690px){.stk-5hi81qz{flex:1 1 66.7% !important}} .stk-wpyhuoz .stk-block-heading__text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-2,#98c1d9) !important}The Quick Guide for Parenting .stk-wci6x93 .stk-block-text__text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-8,#ffffff) !important}It’s parenting made clear with biblical wisdom to better equip you to lead your family with grace. .stk-lr1n64g .stk-button{background:var(--theme-palette-color-1,#ee6c4d) !important}.stk-lr1n64g .stk-button:hover:after{background:var(--theme-palette-color-2,#98c1d9) !important;opacity:1 !important}.stk-lr1n64g .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;font-weight:600 !important}.stk-lr1n64g .stk-button:hover .stk-button__inner-text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-8,#ffffff) !important}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-lr1n64g .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important}}GET THE GUIDE

In this episode on calming for kids, Lynne Jackson (Connected Families Co-Founder) and Lydia Rex (Connected Families Certified Parent Coach) talk with Stacy about what role parents play in helping their kids calm down. This conversation especially has sensitive or intense kids in mind, and the principles shared are paired with practical examples and stories from parents who’ve tested the ideas. Plus, we’ve got a free PDF for you: 50 Calming Activities (with ideas for engaging each of the senses). Mentioned in this podcast: 50 Calming Activities PDF Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting. Did you find this episode helpful? Share it with a friend, and leave us a review! Your donation fuels our work! Donate to Connected Families today. .stk-580ptox{margin-bottom:39px !important}.stk-580ptox-container{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-4,#1e3f52) !important}.stk-580ptox-container:before{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-4,#1e3f52) !important}.stk-580ptox-container:hover{box-shadow:0px 2px 20px rgba(153,153,153,0.2) !important}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-580ptox .stk-block-card__image{width:100% !important;height:250px !important}} .stk-a2gs6u1 .stk-block-heading__text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-6,#e4eff5) !important}Do you have a child with EXTRA needs? .stk-mj1743l{margin-bottom:12px !important}.stk-mj1743l .stk-block-text__text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-8,#ffffff) !important}Parenting isn’t easy, but when you’ve got an extra INTENSE or SENSITIVE child with big feelings… it’s even harder. .stk-i6fn9y3 .stk-block-text__text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-8,#ffffff) !important}The Sensitive and Intense Kids online course will equip you to parent well, even with these unique kiddos. .stk-bjv3qno .stk-button{background:var(--theme-palette-color-1,#ee6c4d) !important}.stk-bjv3qno .stk-button:hover:after{background:var(--theme-palette-color-2,#98c1d9) !important;opacity:1 !important}.stk-bjv3qno .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;font-weight:600 !important}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-bjv3qno .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important}}LEARN MORE

In this podcast we chat with Danika Delello, who shares how desperate she was for help when dealing with her strong-willed child’s frequent, lengthy tantrums. She talks about switching her parenting mindset from an obedience-focused approach to one based on connection and grace through the Connected Families Framework. Danika relates how this shift allowed her to be present in a loving, affectionate way during her child’s difficult meltdowns and gave her insight into her own relation to God. We know you’ll relate to and feel encouraged by this mom’s journey to joy and connection. Mentioned in this podcast: Give the gift of connection to other families through a year-end financial gift to Connected Families Discipline That Connects With Your Child’s Heart book Consequences That Actually Work – free ebook Sensitive & Intense Kids online course Ep. 197 | The Flourishing Family: Don’t Settle for Merely Surviving Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting! Rate the podcast! It just takes a second and it helps other parents discover the show. Guest Bio: Danika Delello and her husband Jared live in central Virginia, where she homeschools their three children. They love hiking in the Blue Ridge Mountains, playing board games, and reading copious amounts of books. They always seek to become more like Jesus and be a family that exemplifies him to others. .stk-8858963-container{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-8, #ffffff) !important;background-image:url(https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/10/Transracial-fam-of-3.jpg) !important;}.stk-8858963-container:before{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-8, #ffffff) !important;opacity:0.3 !important;} .stk-8ae3bab {max-width:1500px !important;min-width:auto !important;padding-top:0px !important;padding-right:0px !important;padding-bottom:0px !important;padding-left:0px !important;margin-right:auto !important;margin-bottom:0px !important;margin-left:-38px !important;}.stk-8ae3bab .stk-img-wrapper{width:28% !important;} .stk-1df61d6 .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:50px !important;font-weight:900 !important;font-family:"Lato", Sans-serif !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-1df61d6 .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:50px !important;}}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-1df61d6 .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:36px !important;}}Give Connection this Year .stk-4d2b93b {max-width:452px !important;min-width:auto !important;}.stk-4d2b93b .stk-block-text__text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-3, #293241) !important;}Small connections create lasting love and trust. Your gift supports Christ-centered connection and transformation in families for generations to come. .stk-ab82036 .stk-button-group{flex-direction:row !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-ab82036 .stk-button-group{flex-direction:row !important;}}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-ab82036 .stk-button-group{flex-direction:row !important;}} .stk-1ca5b61 .stk-button{background:#9b111e !important;}.stk-1ca5b61 .stk-button:hover:after{background:#556b2f !important;opacity:1 !important;}.stk-1ca5b61 .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;color:var(--theme-palette-color-8, #ffffff) !important;font-weight:600 !important;}.stk-1ca5b61 .stk-button:hover .stk-button__inner-text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-8, #ffffff) !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-1ca5b61 .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;}}DONATE NOW

If you imagine your most recent parenting fail, do you cringe or just laugh? Do you wallow in shame or regret? Today, we’re talking with Dijea Young about moving beyond regret into hope. She shares experiences as a mom to 8, grandmother, and Certified Connected Families Parent Coach and explains helpful strategies for transforming regrets into opportunities, particularly during the holidays. Mentioned in this podcast: Episode 91 | How Can I Better Parent My Adult Children? Episode 119 | Grandparenting Through a New Lens Episode 184 | How to Be a Great Grandparent to Your Grandkids and Their Parents Episode 205: Holidays Boundaries & Expectations with Family Dan Pink: The Power of Regret Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting! Your donation fuels our work. Make a donation to Connected Families today! Take a moment to rate and review! Guest Bio: Dijea Young is a teacher, mother of eight, and grandma. For over 35 years, she has served children and families in a variety of roles. Now as a Certified Parent Coach, she combines her professional training and personal experience to help parents and grandparents nurture relationships across generations. For more information about Dijea or her services, visit www.Room4HopeCoaching.com or email [email protected] .stk-7e18vhi-container{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-8, #ffffff) !important;background-image:url(https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/10/Transracial-fam-of-3.jpg) !important;}.stk-7e18vhi-container:before{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-8, #ffffff) !important;opacity:0.3 !important;} .stk-6l3g82k {max-width:1500px !important;min-width:auto !important;padding-top:0px !important;padding-right:0px !important;padding-bottom:0px !important;padding-left:0px !important;margin-right:auto !important;margin-bottom:0px !important;margin-left:-38px !important;}.stk-6l3g82k .stk-img-wrapper{width:28% !important;} .stk-6p4c95b .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:50px !important;font-weight:900 !important;font-family:"Lato", Sans-serif !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-6p4c95b .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:50px !important;}}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-6p4c95b .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:36px !important;}}Give Connection this Year .stk-19ic1b6 {max-width:452px !important;min-width:auto !important;}.stk-19ic1b6 .stk-block-text__text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-3, #293241) !important;}Small connections create lasting love and trust. Your gift supports Christ-centered connection and transformation in families for generations to come. .stk-jg6q0a7 .stk-button-group{flex-direction:row !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-jg6q0a7 .stk-button-group{flex-direction:row !important;}}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-jg6q0a7 .stk-button-group{flex-direction:row !important;}} .stk-pnmcxj3 .stk-button{background:#9b111e !important;}.stk-pnmcxj3 .stk-button:hover:after{background:#556b2f !important;opacity:1 !important;}.stk-pnmcxj3 .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;color:var(--theme-palette-color-8, #ffffff) !important;font-weight:600 !important;}.stk-pnmcxj3 .stk-button:hover .stk-button__inner-text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-8, #ffffff) !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-pnmcxj3 .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;}}DONATE NOW

In today’s episode, Connected Families Co-Founder Jim Jackson interviews Stephen Freeman, a father of five, who shares how Connected Families impacted his parenting approach. Through coaching and practical tools, Stephen learned to see challenging behaviors differently and developed a deeper understanding of both parenting and God as Father. Mentioned in this podcast: Parent Coaching Give the gift of connection this Christmas! Give to Connected Families today. Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting! Guest Bio: Stephen Freeman has been married to his wife Caroline for 13 years, and they have 3 biological kids and 2 bonus kids spanning from 15 to 1. They live in Jacksonville, Florida, and have been helped by the Connected Families framework for the last 5 years. Stephen is the founder of Kairos Digital, a marketing agency that helps good organizations do great things, and is a deacon and teacher at Awaken Church. .stk-5c4gb99-container{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-8, #ffffff) !important;background-image:url(https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/10/Transracial-fam-of-3.jpg) !important;}.stk-5c4gb99-container:before{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-8, #ffffff) !important;opacity:0.3 !important;} .stk-slwky4s {max-width:1500px !important;min-width:auto !important;padding-top:0px !important;padding-right:0px !important;padding-bottom:0px !important;padding-left:0px !important;margin-right:auto !important;margin-bottom:0px !important;margin-left:-38px !important;}.stk-slwky4s .stk-img-wrapper{width:28% !important;} .stk-twmjdoc .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:50px !important;font-weight:900 !important;font-family:"Lato", Sans-serif !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-twmjdoc .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:50px !important;}}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-twmjdoc .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:36px !important;}}Give Connection this Year .stk-wbrc03d {max-width:452px !important;min-width:auto !important;}.stk-wbrc03d .stk-block-text__text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-3, #293241) !important;}Small connections create lasting love and trust. Your gift supports Christ-centered connection and transformation in families for generations to come. .stk-1tfgi9j .stk-button-group{flex-direction:row !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-1tfgi9j .stk-button-group{flex-direction:row !important;}}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-1tfgi9j .stk-button-group{flex-direction:row !important;}} .stk-11zz42s .stk-button{background:#9b111e !important;}.stk-11zz42s .stk-button:hover:after{background:#556b2f !important;opacity:1 !important;}.stk-11zz42s .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;color:var(--theme-palette-color-8, #ffffff) !important;font-weight:600 !important;}.stk-11zz42s .stk-button:hover .stk-button__inner-text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-8, #ffffff) !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-11zz42s .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;}}DONATE NOW

If you’re not satisfied with what your parenting looks like today, maybe becoming a better mom or dad is more about reframing what you already do than finding new tips and tricks that “work” with your kids. In this episode, Connected Families Co-founders Jim and Lynne Jackson discuss the powerful practice of transforming discouraging mental “tapes” into grace-filled, constructive thoughts aligned with biblical truth. The Jacksons share practical examples of common negative thoughts like “This is just too much!” or “I shouldn’t have to deal with this!” and offer redemptive reframes that lead to greater connection with your kids and make room for God’s transforming work in your family. Mentioned in this podcast: The Blessing by John Trent, Gary Smalley, and Kari Trent Stageberg John 10:10 2 Corinthians 10:5 Romans 15:13 Isaiah 62:2 Ephesians 1 & 2 Check out the Connected Families website for more resources to support your parenting! Become a Connected Families Donor today, and link arms with others who are passionate about building relational and spiritual health in every family and the future body of Christ. Take a moment to rate the podcast and help other parents discover the Connected Families Framework. Guest bio: Jim and Lynne Jackson are the Co-Founders of Connected Families in Plymouth, MN. With over 50 combined years of professionally helping families and a love for working in the church, Jim and Lynne have been dedicated to bringing reliable, God-centered, research-based parenting resources to all families since 2002. .stk-n3g0m8x-container{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-8, #ffffff) !important;background-image:url(https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/10/Transracial-fam-of-3.jpg) !important;}.stk-n3g0m8x-container:before{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-8, #ffffff) !important;opacity:0.3 !important;} .stk-tykcxoc {max-width:1500px !important;min-width:auto !important;padding-top:0px !important;padding-right:0px !important;padding-bottom:0px !important;padding-left:0px !important;margin-right:auto !important;margin-bottom:0px !important;margin-left:-38px !important;}.stk-tykcxoc .stk-img-wrapper{width:28% !important;} .stk-y3ogzhb .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:50px !important;font-weight:900 !important;font-family:"Lato", Sans-serif !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-y3ogzhb .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:50px !important;}}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-y3ogzhb .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:36px !important;}}Give Connection this Year .stk-pjk4np9 {max-width:452px !important;min-width:auto !important;}.stk-pjk4np9 .stk-block-text__text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-3, #293241) !important;}Small connections create lasting love and trust. Your gift supports Christ-centered connection and transformation in families for generations to come. .stk-huq39zr .stk-button-group{flex-direction:row !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-huq39zr .stk-button-group{flex-direction:row !important;}}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-huq39zr .stk-button-group{flex-direction:row !important;}} .stk-8cx458j .stk-button{background:#9b111e !important;}.stk-8cx458j .stk-button:hover:after{background:#556b2f !important;opacity:1 !important;}.stk-8cx458j .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;color:var(--theme-palette-color-8, #ffffff) !important;font-weight:600 !important;}.stk-8cx458j .stk-button:hover .stk-button__inner-text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-8, #ffffff) !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-8cx458j .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;}}DONATE NOW

Wondering how you can set holiday boundaries and expectations for family gatherings? Are you looking forward to celebrating Christmas with family but dreading unsolicited advice from well-meaning relatives? You are not alone. Changes in your daily routines, travel, lack of sleep, and large gatherings set the stage for parenting challenges. Sometimes, other adults in your family may scrutinize these difficult situations. This may lead to comments or questions that don’t feel supportive. On today’s podcast, Chad Hayenga (Director of Education & Equipping) and Jenna Williams (Connected Families Certified Parent Coach) join Stacy Bellward (podcast host) for a conversation about navigating the holidays with relatives. They specifically address how you can respond when grandparents or other family members criticize you (or your children). Role-playing possible scenarios, Jenna and Chad bring humor and practical wisdom to you just in time for holiday gatherings. In this podcast, you’ll discover: proactive strategies to intentionally prepare your family for upcoming gatherings, including evaluating your own expectations, having conversations with your children, and even having conversations with grandparents about their expectations roleplays to help you navigate criticism, unhelpful comments, or harsh discipline by grandparents or other relatives that you can model humility and the value of connection to your parents and kids during holiday gatherings and difficult situations We hope you have been encouraged by today’s podcast, and we look forward to getting to know you. Please check out our website, and don’t forget to reach out if you need help. It is a joy to walk with you as you parent your kids in God’s grace and truth! Mentioned in this podcast: Connected Christmas Bundle with your gift of $35 Discipline That Connects in the Classroom Live Webinar – Register Today Connected Families Parent Coaching Connected Families Certified Parent Coach Program Connected Families Framework Unsolicited Advice? 4 Ways to Respond (Connected Families FREE PDF) Guest Bio: Jenna Williams and her husband, Sam, have been married for ten years. They live in Colorado Springs, CO, and have three amazing children ages 3-7. Jenna is a registered nurse by trade and works in a postpartum unit. She is also a Connected Families Certified Parent Coach and loves caring for and supporting families! Connected Families has been a true blessing for her and her family, and she is excited to share that blessing with others. You can find her on Instagram @jennawilliams0411. .stk-a228w4w-container{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-8, #ffffff) !important;background-image:url(https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/10/Transracial-fam-of-3.jpg) !important;}.stk-a228w4w-container:before{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-8, #ffffff) !important;opacity:0.3 !important;} .stk-2lbeg3z {max-width:1500px !important;min-width:auto !important;padding-top:0px !important;padding-right:0px !important;padding-bottom:0px !important;padding-left:0px !important;margin-right:auto !important;margin-bottom:0px !important;margin-left:-38px !important;}.stk-2lbeg3z .stk-img-wrapper{width:28% !important;} .stk-jo4l6gb .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:50px !important;font-weight:900 !important;font-family:"Lato", Sans-serif !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-jo4l6gb .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:50px !important;}}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-jo4l6gb .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:36px !important;}}Give Connection this Year .stk-q36zwt6 {max-width:452px !important;min-width:auto !important;}.stk-q36zwt6 .stk-block-text__text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-3, #293241) !important;}Small connections create lasting love and trust. Your gift supports Christ-centered connection and transformation in families for generations to come. .stk-pzhdgua .stk-button-group{flex-direction:row !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-pzhdgua .stk-button-group{flex-direction:row !important;}}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-pzhdgua .stk-button-group{flex-direction:row !important;}} .stk-03cuks5 .stk-button{background:#9b111e !important;}.stk-03cuks5 .stk-button:hover:after{background:#556b2f !important;opacity:1 !important;}.stk-03cuks5 .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;color:var(--theme-palette-color-8, #ffffff) !important;font-weight:600 !important;}.stk-03cuks5 .stk-button:hover .stk-button__inner-text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-8, #ffffff) !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-03cuks5 .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;}}DONATE NOW

Today we chat with Leah Sutterlin, an adoptee, adoptive mom, and adoption advocate, about being an adoptee. Leah shares how early separation affected her later relationships and attachment style and discusses the identity struggles she experienced growing up. She also explains how her parents’ supportive approach allowed her to openly process grief and embrace her adoption story. Listen in to gain insight to support adoptees in your life! Mentioned in this podcast: An Adoptee’s Perspective: What’s It’s Like to Be Adopted & How to Help Connected Christmas Bundle – New Resource available with your gift of $35 to Connected Families Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting! Give a gift to Connected Families today and give the gift of connection to families looking for hope. Rate the podcast–it only takes a second and helps other families find the show! Guest Bio: Leah Sutterlin has worked for several organizations in the adoption and foster care space, including the National Council For Adoption and the Christian Alliance for Orphans (CAFO). She is an adult adoptee currently residing in Sunnyvale, California, who tries to raise awareness about the value adoption can bring to families. .stk-75h0mz2-container{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-8, #ffffff) !important;background-image:url(https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/10/Transracial-fam-of-3.jpg) !important;}.stk-75h0mz2-container:before{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-8, #ffffff) !important;opacity:0.3 !important;} .stk-9enakjl {max-width:1500px !important;min-width:auto !important;padding-top:0px !important;padding-right:0px !important;padding-bottom:0px !important;padding-left:0px !important;margin-right:auto !important;margin-bottom:0px !important;margin-left:-38px !important;}.stk-9enakjl .stk-img-wrapper{width:28% !important;} .stk-sgbyt0s .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:50px !important;font-weight:900 !important;font-family:"Lato", Sans-serif !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-sgbyt0s .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:50px !important;}}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-sgbyt0s .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:36px !important;}}Give Connection this Year .stk-oyzc0li {max-width:452px !important;min-width:auto !important;}.stk-oyzc0li .stk-block-text__text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-3, #293241) !important;}Small connections create lasting love and trust. Your gift supports Christ-centered connection and transformation in families for generations to come. .stk-amywkgf .stk-button-group{flex-direction:row !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-amywkgf .stk-button-group{flex-direction:row !important;}}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-amywkgf .stk-button-group{flex-direction:row !important;}} .stk-9vejbu1 .stk-button{background:#9b111e !important;}.stk-9vejbu1 .stk-button:hover:after{background:#556b2f !important;opacity:1 !important;}.stk-9vejbu1 .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;color:var(--theme-palette-color-8, #ffffff) !important;font-weight:600 !important;}.stk-9vejbu1 .stk-button:hover .stk-button__inner-text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-8, #ffffff) !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-9vejbu1 .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;}}DONATE NOW

Listen in as Connected Families Co-Founder Lynne Jackson and Christina Spaeth-Harrer, pediatric occupational therapist, share their expert insights on improving family sleep. From managing bedtime routines to incorporating sensory-friendly activities, Christina and Lynne offer practical tools for common sleep challenges. They also discuss the importance of emotional connection and integrating faith to build healthy sleep habits. You’ll feel equipped and encouraged to help your family rest well. Mentioned in this podcast: Transform Bedtime Struggles into Nighttime Snuggles (Sleep Ebook) – Free Download Psalm 46:10 Why We Sleep by Matthew Walker Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting! We invite you to join the transforming work God is doing in families across the globe. Donate to Connected Families today! Got a second? Rate the podcast on your favorite listening platform! Guest Bio: Christina Spaeth has over 20 years of experience providing sleep consultation, holistic, sensory integration, developmental, and aquatic occupational therapy. She has worked in a variety of settings, including clinics, schools, group homes, foster care and home care, and private practice with children and adults. Christina lives in Minnesota with her husband and three children. You can learn more about the services she provides on her website.

Are you a teacher working to create a nurturing classroom environment while managing behavior well? Whether you teach in a school or volunteer at church, this conversation is for you. Dr. Cindy Wilson, Partnership Program Manager at Connected Families, and Maggie Rocke, a kindergarten teacher, and Connected Families Certified Parent Coach, join us to explore how to effectively apply the Connected Families Framework in the classroom. Maggie shares practical applications for the classroom while Dr. Wilson explains how the 4 messages of the Framework can build resilience in students and address underlying issues they may experience. We’re excited for you to hear how the Connected Families Framework can transform classrooms. Mentioned in this podcast: Discipline That Connects in the Classroom LIVE webinar December 2nd – Register today–it’s FREE! Ministry Partnership Program – Register for a Discovery Session to learn more Framework Posters PDF (5 posters in all) ABCs of Affirmation Matthew 12:34 Galatians 6:1 Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting! Give a gift to Connected Families and support transformation in families around the world. Help others discover the Connected Families Podcast–take a second to rate the show on your favorite platform. Guest Bio: Cindy Wilson, PhD., CFLE, is a Certified Connected Families Parent Coach and a Certified Family Life Educator with 20+ years in ministry and academia. She helps churches and other organizations integrate the Connected Families Framework into their communities. Cindy lives in Florida with her husband of 31 years. They have three adult children, one son-in-law, one grandson, and a farm full of animals. Cindy’s specialties include leading parenting workshops on the Connected Families Framework and other topics, training children’s ministry volunteers, helping churches integrate trauma-informed practices into their ministries, and organizing church-based foster care ministries. You can find out more at http://www.familylifesolutions.org. Maggie Rocke is a Connected Families Certified Parent Coach and teaches kindergarten at a Christian school. This is her 11th year in the classroom, having previously taught kindergarten, special education, and preschool. She loves utilizing the Connected Families Framework in the classroom and encouraging other teachers to do the same. She and her husband have an 8-year-old and a 6-year-old at home.

Dr. Nicole Wilke joins us to talk about what it takes to raise kids who can overcome everything from daily challenges to childhood trauma. Nicole discusses nurturing resilience by reframing challenges positively and the importance of fostering your child’s connection with God. She emphasizes modeling resilience for your kids and integrating resilience-building moments into your daily conversations and chores. Listen in to grow your understanding and feel equipped to help your kids become “overcomers” ready to face life’s challenges. Mentioned in this podcast: Overcoming: What Scripture & Science Say About Resilience by Dr. Nicole Wilke & Dr. Amanda Hiles Howard Connected Families Partnership Program Free webinar: Discipline That Connects in the Classroom Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting! Were you inspired by this podcast? Donate to Connected Families today! Take a moment to rate and review! Guest Bio: Nicole Wilke, Ph.D., is a researcher, missionary, author, and marriage and family therapist dedicated to improving care for vulnerable children and families globally. She currently serves as Director of the Christian Alliance for Orphans’ Center on Applied Research for Vulnerable Children and Families, bridging research and practice to improve care for vulnerable children and families around the globe. Her passion for this work stems from her family’s experience with adoption and fostering. Having lived on four continents, Nicole currently resides with her family in Peru, where they work to improve the system for children in alternative care. .stk-4octfrp-container{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-4,#1e3f52) !important}.stk-4octfrp-container:before{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-4,#1e3f52) !important} .stk-ynh6qxz .stk-block-heading__text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-2,#98c1d9) !important}The Quick Guide for Parenting .stk-vruc5s5 .stk-block-text__text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-8,#ffffff) !important}It’s parenting made clear with biblical wisdom to better equip you to lead your family with grace. .stk-ih6q0qp .stk-button{background:var(--theme-palette-color-1,#ee6c4d) !important}.stk-ih6q0qp .stk-button:hover:after{background:var(--theme-palette-color-2,#98c1d9) !important;opacity:1 !important}.stk-ih6q0qp .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;font-weight:600 !important}.stk-ih6q0qp .stk-button:hover .stk-button__inner-text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-8,#ffffff) !important}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-ih6q0qp .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important}}GET THE GUIDE .stk-2z9h6w0{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-4,#1e3f52) !important}.stk-2z9h6w0:before{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-4,#1e3f52) !important} @media screen and (min-width:690px){.stk-ev2juvl{flex:1 1 33.3% !important}} @media screen and (min-width:690px){.stk-99rzynf{flex:1 1 66.7% !important}} .stk-2m5mobq .stk-block-heading__text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-2,#98c1d9) !important}The Quick Guide for Parenting .stk-jhfgna6 .stk-block-text__text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-8,#ffffff) !important}It’s parenting made clear with biblical wisdom to better equip you to lead your family with grace. .stk-g8hm9ac .stk-button{background:var(--theme-palette-color-1,#ee6c4d) !important}.stk-g8hm9ac .stk-button:hover:after{background:var(--theme-palette-color-2,#98c1d9) !important;opacity:1 !important}.stk-g8hm9ac .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;font-weight:600 !important}.stk-g8hm9ac .stk-button:hover .stk-button__inner-text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-8,#ffffff) !important}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-g8hm9ac .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important}}GET THE GUIDE

Join us for a powerful conversation with Jim and Lynne Jackson about raising resilient children. They encourage you to focus on the process and long-term perspective of building character and identity rather than focusing on the result of the task at hand. Whether you’re dealing with homework struggles or life’s bigger challenges, you’ll feel equipped with hope and purpose to nurture resilience in your children. Mentioned in this podcast: Blog post: Know a Child Who Gives Up Easily? James 1 Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting! Were you encouraged by this podcast? Donate to Connected Families today! Take a moment to rate and review! Guest Bio: Jim and Lynne Jackson are the Co-Founders of Connected Families in Plymouth, MN. With over 50 combined years of professionally helping families and a love for working in the church, Jim and Lynne have been dedicated to bringing reliable, God-centered, research-based parenting resources to all families since 2002. .stk-uqwuc6e{border-top-left-radius:0px !important;border-top-right-radius:0px !important;border-bottom-right-radius:0px !important;border-bottom-left-radius:0px !important;overflow:hidden !important;border-style:solid !important;border-top-width:0px !important;border-right-width:0px !important;border-bottom-width:0px !important;border-left-width:0px !important;padding-top:0px !important;padding-right:0px !important;padding-bottom:0px !important;padding-left:0px !important;margin-right:25px !important;margin-bottom:25px !important;margin-left:25px !important} .stk-gsnov7c{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-2,#98c1d9) !important;overflow:hidden !important}.stk-gsnov7c:before{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-2,#98c1d9) !important}.stk-gsnov7c-container{padding-top:0px !important;padding-right:0px !important;padding-bottom:0px !important;padding-left:0px !important}@media screen and (min-width:690px){.stk-gsnov7c{flex:1 1 calc(30.6% - var(--stk-column-gap,0px) * 1 / 2 ) !important}} @media screen and (min-width:690px){.stk-nxnpzq0{flex:1 1 calc(69.4% - var(--stk-column-gap,0px) * 1 / 2 ) !important}} .stk-zhu0ql7 .stk-block-text__text{font-size:26px !important;color:var(--theme-palette-color-3,#293241) !important}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-zhu0ql7 .stk-block-text__text{font-size:26px !important}}Whether you’re just learning the Four Messages of the Framework or have been at it for years, the Parenting Reminders Bundle can help you parent the way you want to parent! .stk-2t6ai9r{margin-top:0px !important} .stk-zp497u3{margin-top:20px !important}.stk-zp497u3 .stk-button{padding-right:30px !important;padding-left:30px !important}.stk-zp497u3 .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:20px !important}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-zp497u3 .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:20px !important}}GET YOUR BUNDLE NOW!

You may have heard our exciting news: The Connected Families podcast has reached an amazing milestone – two million listens! 🎉 We’re touched by how many of you have tuned in from across the US and around the world over the past five years. Thank you for listening and sharing with others who could use a little parenting encouragement. Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting! Were you encouraged by this podcast? Donate to Connected Families today! Take a moment to rate and review!

Author and artist Ruth Chou Simons chats about life with God, and her first children’s book, Home Is Right Where You Are. Ruth shares insights on pursuing God’s grace daily and passing it on to our children, emphasizing the importance of reminding kids that their true home is with Jesus. She explains how you can have meaningful faith conversations, using her book as a starting point, and encourages you to nurture your heart with God’s grace to guide your children toward their home in God. Mentioned in this podcast: Home is Right Where You Are Foundations – Family devotional by Ruth & Troy Simons Ephesians 2:8-10 Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting! Your donation makes this podcast possible. Make a donation to Connected Families today! Take a moment to rate the show and help others discover The Connected Families podcast! Guest Bio: Ruth Chou Simons is a Wall Street Journal bestselling and award-winning author of several books and Bible studies, including her new children’s book, Home is Right Where You Are, Beholding and Becoming, TruthFilled and Now and Not Yet. She is an artist, entrepreneur, podcaster, and speaker, using each of these platforms to sow the Word of God into people’s hearts. Through social media, and her online shop at GraceLaced.com, Simons shares her journey of God’s grace intersecting daily life with word and art. Ruth and her husband, Troy, are grateful parents to six boys—their greatest adventure. https://ruthchousimons.com https://www.instagram.com/ruthchousimons/ https://www.instagram.com/gracelaced/ https://www.facebook.com/gracelaced https://www.pinterest.com/gracelaced/ gracelaced.com .stk-4jfw2ql{border-top-left-radius:0px !important;border-top-right-radius:0px !important;border-bottom-right-radius:0px !important;border-bottom-left-radius:0px !important;overflow:hidden !important;border-style:solid !important;border-top-width:0px !important;border-right-width:0px !important;border-bottom-width:0px !important;border-left-width:0px !important;padding-top:0px !important;padding-right:0px !important;padding-bottom:0px !important;padding-left:0px !important;margin-right:25px !important;margin-bottom:25px !important;margin-left:25px !important} .stk-ics3xae{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-2,#98c1d9) !important;overflow:hidden !important}.stk-ics3xae:before{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-2,#98c1d9) !important}.stk-ics3xae-container{padding-top:0px !important;padding-right:0px !important;padding-bottom:0px !important;padding-left:0px !important}@media screen and (min-width:690px){.stk-ics3xae{flex:1 1 calc(30.6% - var(--stk-column-gap,0px) * 1 / 2 ) !important}} @media screen and (min-width:690px){.stk-ztge2ey{flex:1 1 calc(69.4% - var(--stk-column-gap,0px) * 1 / 2 ) !important}} .stk-sj1fyzz .stk-block-text__text{font-size:26px !important;color:var(--theme-palette-color-3,#293241) !important}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-sj1fyzz .stk-block-text__text{font-size:26px !important}}Whether you’re just learning the Four Messages of the Framework or have been at it for years, the Parenting Reminders Bundle can help you parent the way you want to parent! .stk-d12rlp3{margin-top:0px !important} .stk-9ei5q7t{margin-top:20px !important}.stk-9ei5q7t .stk-button{padding-right:30px !important;padding-left:30px !important}.stk-9ei5q7t .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:20px !important}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-9ei5q7t .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:20px !important}}GET YOUR BUNDLE NOW!

In this episode, Jim and Lynn Jackson, co-founders of Connected Families, chat with Dr. David and Amanda Erickson from Flourishing Homes and Families about their new book, The Flourishing Family: A Jesus-Centered Guide to Parenting with Peace and Purpose. The Ericksons share their journey of integrating Christ-centered theology with modern neuroscience to provide a holistic approach to parenting. They explore gospel-centered gentle parenting (while addressing common misconceptions) and reframe discipline as discipleship. Practical insights help parents build trust-based relationships with children. Mentioned in this podcast: The Flourishing Family: A Jesus-Centered Guide to Parenting with Peace and Purpose Ep. 108 | Kids and Misbehavior: Is It Sin? Or Something Else? Ep. 96 | Doctrine of Grace in Parenting Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting! Your donation fuels our listener-supported podcast. Make a donation to Connected Families today! Did you find this episode helpful? Share it with a friend! Guest Bio: Dr. David and Amanda Erickson are the founders of Flourishing Homes & Families, a ministry that educates, empowers, and equips Christian parents to lead their families through parenting principles rooted in Jesus’ teachings. With David’s background in theology and Amanda’s love for child development, they’re passionate about helping parents find harmony at the intersection of Jesus-centered theology and modern neuroscience. David previously served as a pastor and spent fourteen years as a seminary theology professor. In 2023, he became president of Jacksonville College, where he guides the faculty and staff in preparing students to lead Jesus-centered lives that transform churches, communities, and the world. A former foster mom and pastor’s wife, Amanda is an artist with a free spirit and can often be found watercolor painting, sipping coffee on her front porch swing, making up silly songs for her two boys and dogs, and hiking the woods near their home on a little farm in East Texas. Website: flourishinghomesandfamilies.com Instagram: @flourishinghomesandfamilies Facebook: flourishinghomesandfamilies Ready to dive in and learn more about the Framework? Our 8-session online course, Discipline That Connects With Your Child’s Heart will guide you through each level of the Framework. If you’re looking for a grace-filled way to parent, this course is for you! .stk-m4h6bec-inner-blocks{row-gap:0px !important}.stk-m4h6bec{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-3,#293241) !important;background-image:url(https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/05/Optimized-Dad-Kissing-Crying-Daughters-Cheek.jpg) !important;padding-top:0px !important;padding-right:0px !important;padding-bottom:0px !important;padding-left:0px !important}.stk-m4h6bec:before{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-3,#293241) !important;opacity:0.3 !important}.stk-m4h6bec-container{background-color:#00000080 !important}.stk-m4h6bec-container:before{background-color:#00000080 !important}.stk-m4h6bec .stk-block-hero__content{max-width:35% !important;margin-right:auto !important;margin-left:0px !important}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-m4h6bec .stk-block-hero__content{max-width:259px !important}}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-m4h6bec .stk-block-hero__content{max-width:205px !important}} .stk-d1nw02m .stk-block-heading__text{color:#FFFFFF !important}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-d1nw02m .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:23px !important}}.stk-d1nw02m.stk-block-heading{white-space:normal !important;overflow-wrap:break-word !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;max-width:100% !important}Parent with Confidence Discipline with Love .stk-8brn6q7 .stk-block-text__text{font-size:18px !important;color:#FFFFFF !important}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-8brn6q7 .stk-block-text__text{font-size:18px !important}}Take the 8-session online course Discipline That Connects With Your Child’s Heart . .stk-4t7o0oh .stk-button{background:var(--theme-palette-color-1,#ee6c4d) !important}.stk-4t7o0oh .stk-button:hover:after{background:var(--theme-palette-color-2,#98c1d9) !important;opacity:1 !important}.stk-4t7o0oh .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;color:var(--theme-palette-color-8,#ffffff) !important;font-weight:600 !important}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-4t7o0oh .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:16px !important}}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-4t7o0oh .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:14px !important}}REGISTER NOW!

In this episode, Jim and Lynne Jackson talk with Ruth Wharton about the transformative power of “do-overs.” They unpack how this practice mirrors the gospel by encouraging us to give ourselves grace, seek forgiveness, and mend relationships. They share the simple steps involved and how do-overs grow and evolve as your children do. By modeling grace and humility through do-overs, you can start to transform the culture in your home today. Mentioned in this podcast: Discipline That Connects online course – Register Today! Romans 2:4 Acts 3:19 1 John 1:9 2 Corinthians 7:10 Romans 10 Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting! We are a listener-supported podcast. Make a donation to Connected Families today! Help others find grace-filled parenting tools! Share this episode with a friend or rate the show on your favorite platform. Guest Bio: Based in Malvern, Worcestershire, Ruth Wharton is the first Connected Families Certified Coach in the UK. She is a mum of five and has a background in primary school teaching. She works part-time for a local charity supporting people with autism. Ruth worked alongside her husband for twelve years as they looked after 60 teenage boys in an English boarding school. She is passionate about parenting with grace and unconditional love. The Connected Families Framework has united her and her husband in the challenge of simultaneously raising our teenagers and toddlers. She’s loved seeing the benefits of connected parenting shape each of her children to become more confident, happy, and emotionally secure. You can find out more about coaching with Ruth at: https://connectedfamilies.org/listings/ruth-wharton/. Ready to dive in and learn more about the Framework? Our 8-session online course, Discipline That Connects With Your Child’s Heart will guide you through each level of the Framework. If you’re looking for a grace-filled way to parent, this course is for you! .stk-ivtuspv-inner-blocks{row-gap:0px !important}.stk-ivtuspv{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-3,#293241) !important;background-image:url(https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/05/Optimized-Dad-Kissing-Crying-Daughters-Cheek.jpg) !important;padding-top:0px !important;padding-right:0px !important;padding-bottom:0px !important;padding-left:0px !important}.stk-ivtuspv:before{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-3,#293241) !important;opacity:0.3 !important}.stk-ivtuspv-container{background-color:#00000080 !important}.stk-ivtuspv-container:before{background-color:#00000080 !important}.stk-ivtuspv .stk-block-hero__content{max-width:35% !important;margin-right:auto !important;margin-left:0px !important}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-ivtuspv .stk-block-hero__content{max-width:259px !important}}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-ivtuspv .stk-block-hero__content{max-width:205px !important}} .stk-ev3qg45 .stk-block-heading__text{color:#FFFFFF !important}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-ev3qg45 .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:23px !important}}.stk-ev3qg45.stk-block-heading{white-space:normal !important;overflow-wrap:break-word !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;max-width:100% !important}Parent with Confidence Discipline with Love .stk-od9kq6x .stk-block-text__text{font-size:18px !important;color:#FFFFFF !important}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-od9kq6x .stk-block-text__text{font-size:18px !important}}Take the 8-session online course Discipline That Connects With Your Child’s Heart . .stk-uirh8w7 .stk-button{background:var(--theme-palette-color-1,#ee6c4d) !important}.stk-uirh8w7 .stk-button:hover:after{background:var(--theme-palette-color-2,#98c1d9) !important;opacity:1 !important}.stk-uirh8w7 .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;color:var(--theme-palette-color-8,#ffffff) !important;font-weight:600 !important}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-uirh8w7 .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:16px !important}}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-uirh8w7 .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:14px !important}}REGISTER NOW!

When faced with your child’s misbehavior, it’s tempting to focus on their weaknesses: poor emotional regulation, lack of self-control, or dishonesty. But what if you could see beneath these struggles to recognize the God-given strengths hidden within? At Connected Families, we affectionately refer to these strengths as “gifts-gone-awry.” Listen in as Connected Families Co-Founder Lynne Jackson sits down with 22-year-old Lucy Browning and her parents, Ted and Jill. Together, they share how identifying and nurturing Lucy’s “gifts gone awry” transformed her challenging behaviors into shining strengths that now bless others. Their story will encourage and inspire you. Mentioned in this podcast: Lucy’s Graduation Speech – Chaska High School 2020 (speech begins at 21:11) Luke 16:1-8 Sibling Conflict online course Parent Coaching Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting! Your donation makes the podcast possible. Make a donation to Connected Families today! Help others find grace-filled parenting resources – Take a moment to rate and review! Guest Bio: Ted and Jill raised their three daughters in Minnesota, where Jill is an elementary school teacher, and Ted is a mechanical engineer. They are adjusting to life as empty nesters this fall. Their eldest daughter, Lucy, graduated from Wheaton College last spring and now lives in the Washington, DC, area. The Brownings are all about road trips and enjoy a good podcast! Ready to dive in and learn more about the Framework? Our 8-session online course, Discipline That Connects With Your Child’s Heart will guide you through each level of the Framework. If you’re looking for a grace-filled way to parent, this course is for you! .stk-qkc8q9w-inner-blocks{row-gap:0px !important}.stk-qkc8q9w{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-3,#293241) !important;background-image:url(https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/05/Optimized-Dad-Kissing-Crying-Daughters-Cheek.jpg) !important;padding-top:0px !important;padding-right:0px !important;padding-bottom:0px !important;padding-left:0px !important}.stk-qkc8q9w:before{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-3,#293241) !important;opacity:0.3 !important}.stk-qkc8q9w-container{background-color:#00000080 !important}.stk-qkc8q9w-container:before{background-color:#00000080 !important}.stk-qkc8q9w .stk-block-hero__content{max-width:35% !important;margin-right:auto !important;margin-left:0px !important}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-qkc8q9w .stk-block-hero__content{max-width:259px !important}}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-qkc8q9w .stk-block-hero__content{max-width:205px !important}} .stk-utokee7 .stk-block-heading__text{color:#FFFFFF !important}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-utokee7 .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:23px !important}}.stk-utokee7.stk-block-heading{white-space:normal !important;overflow-wrap:break-word !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;max-width:100% !important}Parent with Confidence Discipline with Love .stk-i6ls3zo .stk-block-text__text{font-size:18px !important;color:#FFFFFF !important}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-i6ls3zo .stk-block-text__text{font-size:18px !important}}Take the 8-session online course Discipline That Connects With Your Child’s Heart . .stk-kib6ng4 .stk-button{background:var(--theme-palette-color-1,#ee6c4d) !important}.stk-kib6ng4 .stk-button:hover:after{background:var(--theme-palette-color-2,#98c1d9) !important;opacity:1 !important}.stk-kib6ng4 .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;color:var(--theme-palette-color-8,#ffffff) !important;font-weight:600 !important}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-kib6ng4 .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:16px !important}}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-kib6ng4 .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:14px !important}}REGISTER NOW!

Have you ever noticed bad behavior increasing the more you attempt to quell it in your child? You might be facing a situation of payoffs, accidental rewards or misplaced “focus fertilizer.” In this episode, Chad Hayenga and Jim Jackson unpack how parents often react and unintentionally reward undesired behavior. They demonstrate how shifting from frustrated reactions to genuine engagement can transform challenging moments into opportunities for connection and growth. Mentioned in this podcast: Discipline That Connects online course – Join or Lead a Small Group! Discipline That Connects online course – Special Pricing for Individuals James 1:19 James 3:13 Romans 2:4 Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting! We are a listener-supported podcast. Make a donation to Connected Families today! Take a moment to share this episode with a friend, or rate the show on your favorite listening platform. Guest Bio: Jim and Lynne Jackson are the Co-Founders of Connected Families in Plymouth, MN. With over 50 combined years of professionally helping families and a love for working in the church, Jim and Lynne have been dedicated to bringing reliable, God-centered, research-based parenting resources to all families since 2002. Chad Hayenga joined Connected Families in 2005. He is married to Carma and has three adult daughters and two sons-in-law. Chad oversees coaching and the Parent Coach Certification Program, which continues to grow in its reach across North America and worldwide. Ready to dive in and learn more about the Framework? Our 8-session online course, Discipline That Connects With Your Child’s Heart will guide you through each level of the Framework. If you’re looking for a grace-filled way to parent, this course is for you! .stk-51hwbdj-inner-blocks{row-gap:0px !important}.stk-51hwbdj{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-3,#293241) !important;background-image:url(https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/05/Optimized-Dad-Kissing-Crying-Daughters-Cheek.jpg) !important;padding-top:0px !important;padding-right:0px !important;padding-bottom:0px !important;padding-left:0px !important}.stk-51hwbdj:before{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-3,#293241) !important;opacity:0.3 !important}.stk-51hwbdj-container{background-color:#00000080 !important}.stk-51hwbdj-container:before{background-color:#00000080 !important}.stk-51hwbdj .stk-block-hero__content{max-width:35% !important;margin-right:auto !important;margin-left:0px !important}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-51hwbdj .stk-block-hero__content{max-width:259px !important}}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-51hwbdj .stk-block-hero__content{max-width:205px !important}} .stk-5y4jdyf .stk-block-heading__text{color:#FFFFFF !important}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-5y4jdyf .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:23px !important}}.stk-5y4jdyf.stk-block-heading{white-space:normal !important;overflow-wrap:break-word !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;max-width:100% !important}Parent with Confidence Discipline with Love .stk-k8r25z4 .stk-block-text__text{font-size:18px !important;color:#FFFFFF !important}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-k8r25z4 .stk-block-text__text{font-size:18px !important}}Take the 8-session online course Discipline That Connects With Your Child’s Heart . .stk-y3lt8w4 .stk-button{background:var(--theme-palette-color-1,#ee6c4d) !important}.stk-y3lt8w4 .stk-button:hover:after{background:var(--theme-palette-color-2,#98c1d9) !important;opacity:1 !important}.stk-y3lt8w4 .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;color:var(--theme-palette-color-8,#ffffff) !important;font-weight:600 !important}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-y3lt8w4 .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:16px !important}}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-y3lt8w4 .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:14px !important}}REGISTER NOW!

Showing love is easy when your child is doing well, but what does it look like to extend selfless agape love to a child who is misbehaving? Listen in as Jim and Lynne Jackson, Connected Families Co-Founders, share about receiving God’s unconditional love and effectively passing it on to your child (in the midst of struggles!). This conversation is packed with scripture and practical tools to encourage and equip you. Mentioned in this podcast: Discipline that Connects with Your Child’s Heart book Discipline that Connects online course – Register Now! Small Groups – Join a Discipline That Connects small group Free PDF – 20 Phrases that Communicate Empathy to Our Kids Romans 5:8 Romans 2:4 Hebrews 4:15-16 John 14:16 Luke 15:11-32 Ephesians 3:20 Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting!Your donation fuels our work. Make a donation to Connected Families today!Help others find the encouragement they need by sharing this episode with a friend or rating the podcast. Guest Bio: Jim and Lynne Jackson are the Co-Founders of Connected Families in Plymouth, MN. With over 50 combined years of professionally helping families and a love for working in the church, Jim and Lynne have been dedicated to bringing reliable, God-centered, research-based parenting resources to all families since 2002. Ready to dive in and learn more about the Framework? Our 8-session online course, Discipline That Connects With Your Child’s Heart will guide you through each level of the Framework. If you’re looking for a grace-filled way to parent, this course is for you! .stk-x4cry04-inner-blocks{row-gap:0px !important}.stk-x4cry04{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-3,#293241) !important;background-image:url(https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/05/Optimized-Dad-Kissing-Crying-Daughters-Cheek.jpg) !important;padding-top:0px !important;padding-right:0px !important;padding-bottom:0px !important;padding-left:0px !important}.stk-x4cry04:before{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-3,#293241) !important;opacity:0.3 !important}.stk-x4cry04-container{background-color:#00000080 !important}.stk-x4cry04-container:before{background-color:#00000080 !important}.stk-x4cry04 .stk-block-hero__content{max-width:35% !important;margin-right:auto !important;margin-left:0px !important}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-x4cry04 .stk-block-hero__content{max-width:259px !important}}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-x4cry04 .stk-block-hero__content{max-width:205px !important}} .stk-txjrwqp .stk-block-heading__text{color:#FFFFFF !important}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-txjrwqp .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:23px !important}}.stk-txjrwqp.stk-block-heading{white-space:normal !important;overflow-wrap:break-word !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;max-width:100% !important}Parent with Confidence Discipline with Love .stk-98ikek0 .stk-block-text__text{font-size:18px !important;color:#FFFFFF !important}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-98ikek0 .stk-block-text__text{font-size:18px !important}}Take the 8-session online course Discipline That Connects With Your Child’s Heart . .stk-jvsgpxm .stk-button{background:var(--theme-palette-color-1,#ee6c4d) !important}.stk-jvsgpxm .stk-button:hover:after{background:var(--theme-palette-color-2,#98c1d9) !important;opacity:1 !important}.stk-jvsgpxm .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;color:var(--theme-palette-color-8,#ffffff) !important;font-weight:600 !important}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-jvsgpxm .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:16px !important}}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-jvsgpxm .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:14px !important}}REGISTER NOW!

Expanding on last week’s episode, Josh and Rachel Keller use role-plays to show how you can engage in a difficult conversation with your child. They offer insights for choosing a time and place that will help foster meaningful dialogue and highlight the importance of listening and empathy as you enter the conversation. If you’re feeling unsure about the weighty or awkward conversations you need to have, this episode will give you a boost in confidence and some practical ideas for a great, connected conversation with your child. Mentioned in this podcast: Ep. 191: How to Talk to Your Child About Difficult Topics (Part 1) The Power of Questions online course – Less Arguing. More Wisdom. Discipline That Connects With Your Child’s Heart online course Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting! Every donation, whether big or small, empowers another family to parent with confidence and lead with grace. Make a donation to Connected Families today! Take a second to rate the show or share this episode with a friend. We’re so grateful if you do! Guest Bio: Josh and Rachel are a married duo from Central Minnesota. They have been married for 15 years, with three kids, one dog, a bunny, and a bird. After becoming CF Certified Parent Coaches, they launched The Freedom Center MN, a mental health practice in Willmar, MN. .stk-nqpnr1z-inner-blocks{justify-content:center !important}.stk-nqpnr1z{background-image:url(https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2022/08/BW-father-and-daughter-questions-scaled.jpg) !important;padding-top:64px !important;padding-right:64px !important;padding-bottom:64px !important;padding-left:64px !important}.stk-nqpnr1z-container{background-color:#00000080 !important}.stk-nqpnr1z-container:before{background-color:#00000080 !important}.stk-nqpnr1z .stk-block-hero__content{min-height:500px !important;max-width:80% !important;margin-right:auto !important;margin-left:auto !important}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-nqpnr1z .stk-block-hero__content{max-width:100% !important}} .stk-wuqv3xg .stk-block-heading__text{color:#FFFFFF !important}Less arguing. More wisdom. .stk-bztl25t .stk-block-text__text{color:#FFFFFF !important}That’s what you get with the Power of Questions online course. .stk-75wt9s0 .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:50px !important}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-75wt9s0 .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:50px !important}}$35 .stk-je7gtdx .stk-button{background:var(--theme-palette-color-1,#ee6c4d) !important}.stk-je7gtdx .stk-button:hover:after{background:var(--theme-palette-color-2,#98c1d9) !important;opacity:1 !important}.stk-je7gtdx .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;color:var(--theme-palette-color-8,#ffffff) !important;font-weight:600 !important}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-je7gtdx .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important}}LEARN MORE

Whether it’s swearing, sex, racism, or a loved one’s choice, talking about difficult topics is a requirement of parenting. Listen in as Josh and Rachel Keller, MA, LPCC (Connected Families Certified Parent Coaches), join us to share practical ideas for approaching difficult conversations with kids of all ages. In their light-hearted and humorous way, they encourage us to reflect, embrace the awkward, and lead with curious questions. You’ll feel encouraged and equipped for your next tough conversation. And don’t miss next week’s episode, where Josh and Rachel roleplay awkward and challenging conversations. Mentioned in this podcast: Ep. 174 | Want to Connect with Your Teenager? Philippians 1:6 Proverbs 18:2 Proverbs 18:13 The Power of Questions online course: Less Arguing. More Wisdom. Discipline That Connects online course Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting! Every donation, whether big or small, empowers another family to parent with confidence and lead with grace. Make a donation to Connected Families today! Take a second to rate the show or share this episode with a friend. We’re so grateful if you do! Guest Bio: Josh and Rachel are a married duo from Central Minnesota. They have been married for 15 years and have three kids, one dog, a bunny, and a bird. After becoming CF Certified Parent Coaches, they launched The Freedom Center MN, a mental health practice in Willmar, MN. .stk-widoorx-inner-blocks{justify-content:center !important}.stk-widoorx{background-image:url(https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2022/08/BW-father-and-daughter-questions-scaled.jpg) !important;padding-top:64px !important;padding-right:64px !important;padding-bottom:64px !important;padding-left:64px !important}.stk-widoorx-container{background-color:#00000080 !important}.stk-widoorx-container:before{background-color:#00000080 !important}.stk-widoorx .stk-block-hero__content{min-height:500px !important;max-width:80% !important;margin-right:auto !important;margin-left:auto !important}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-widoorx .stk-block-hero__content{max-width:100% !important}} .stk-5klenqx .stk-block-heading__text{color:#FFFFFF !important}Less arguing. More wisdom. .stk-3a4lr49 .stk-block-text__text{color:#FFFFFF !important}That’s what you get with the Power of Questions online course. .stk-o9xb387 .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:50px !important}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-o9xb387 .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:50px !important}}$35 .stk-n20x5io .stk-button{background:var(--theme-palette-color-1,#ee6c4d) !important}.stk-n20x5io .stk-button:hover:after{background:var(--theme-palette-color-2,#98c1d9) !important;opacity:1 !important}.stk-n20x5io .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;color:var(--theme-palette-color-8,#ffffff) !important;font-weight:600 !important}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-n20x5io .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important}}LEARN MORE

Three dads and parent coaches talk about power struggles and how to break the patterns of judgment and defensiveness that get us stuck in power struggles with our kids. Chad Hayenga, Jim Jackson, and Alan Thetford team up to discuss how you can shift from a mindset of control to one of grace and teamwork. Jim shares a personal story about realizing he was a “power-hungry dad,” and the group roleplays how you could shift away from power-struggle parenting in a common interaction about screens and chores. Mentioned in this podcast: Ep 173 – “Become the Self-Aware Parent You Want to Be” The Power of Questions online course Quick Guide for Parenting cards Acts 1:8 Colossians 1:9-14 Proverbs 15:1 Ephesians 6:4 Ephesians 3:17-19 Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting! Your donation fuels our work. Make a donation to Connected Families today! Help others find our podcast–take a moment to rate the show! Guest Bio: Jim Jackson and his wife Lynne co-founded Connected Families in 2002 when they were becoming increasingly dissatisfied with the parenting resources available to them as young parents. In addition to raising his three children, Jim has experience working with high-risk teens, parent coaching, and leading parenting workshops. Alan Thetford and his wife Corrie have four children. They are Connected Families Certified Parent Coaches and instructors for CF coaches-in-training. They are passionate about multiplying the gospel by helping families transform power struggles and conflicts into opportunities for gospel messages. You can learn more about them on the podcast they host, “Building Wise Families.” or on their website. .stk-853fsxa-inner-blocks{justify-content:center !important}.stk-853fsxa{background-image:url(https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2022/08/BW-father-and-daughter-questions-scaled.jpg) !important;padding-top:64px !important;padding-right:64px !important;padding-bottom:64px !important;padding-left:64px !important}.stk-853fsxa-container{background-color:#00000080 !important}.stk-853fsxa-container:before{background-color:#00000080 !important}.stk-853fsxa .stk-block-hero__content{min-height:500px !important;max-width:80% !important;margin-right:auto !important;margin-left:auto !important}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-853fsxa .stk-block-hero__content{max-width:100% !important}} .stk-goitxl5 .stk-block-heading__text{color:#FFFFFF !important}Less arguing. More wisdom. .stk-o01nfb0 .stk-block-text__text{color:#FFFFFF !important}That’s what you get with the Power of Questions online course. .stk-8kqzs3s .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:50px !important}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-8kqzs3s .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:50px !important}}$35 .stk-2nq3ytp .stk-button{background:var(--theme-palette-color-1,#ee6c4d) !important}.stk-2nq3ytp .stk-button:hover:after{background:var(--theme-palette-color-2,#98c1d9) !important;opacity:1 !important}.stk-2nq3ytp .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;color:var(--theme-palette-color-8,#ffffff) !important;font-weight:600 !important}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-2nq3ytp .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important}}LEARN MORE

What if you could stop arguments before they started? If you’re curious about how to stop arguing with your child, you’ll want to listen to this podcast. Stacy Bellward and Sara Paine are passionate that wise questions can stop you from arguing with your child. After all, Stacy even co-authored an online course on it. Today, they discuss one game-changer question in particular and share how this question can transform parent-child interactions by fostering curiosity, empathy, and connection. They also highlight the ways questions can change brain patterns. Through role-plays, they demonstrate how this approach can work with kids of any age, showing how it can diffuse tension and promote cooperation in everyday situations. Mentioned in this podcast: 4 Types of Wisdom Growing Questions – FREE PDF Power of Questions online course Matthew 20:32 Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting! Your donation fuels our work. Make a donation to Connected Families today! Take a moment to share this episode with a friend or leave a review on your favorite listening platform. Guest Bio: Sara Paine is a Certified Connected Families Parent Coach and has worked with kids of varying backgrounds for over 15 years. She is a credentialed teacher and a certified wellness coach. As a mom of 3 kids through both birth and adoption, it is her pleasure to tackle the challenges faced by families with young, sensitive, and intense kids. You can find out more about parent coaching with Sara here. .stk-ozx0dif-inner-blocks{justify-content:center !important}.stk-ozx0dif{background-image:url(https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2022/08/BW-father-and-daughter-questions-scaled.jpg) !important;padding-top:64px !important;padding-right:64px !important;padding-bottom:64px !important;padding-left:64px !important}.stk-ozx0dif-container{background-color:#00000080 !important}.stk-ozx0dif-container:before{background-color:#00000080 !important}.stk-ozx0dif .stk-block-hero__content{min-height:500px !important;max-width:80% !important;margin-right:auto !important;margin-left:auto !important}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-ozx0dif .stk-block-hero__content{max-width:100% !important}} .stk-ztwy3pa .stk-block-heading__text{color:#FFFFFF !important}Less arguing. More wisdom. .stk-h3920m5 .stk-block-text__text{color:#FFFFFF !important}That’s what you get with the Power of Questions online course. .stk-5imhdgp .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:50px !important}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-5imhdgp .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:50px !important}}$35 .stk-fyg2mib .stk-button{background:var(--theme-palette-color-1,#ee6c4d) !important}.stk-fyg2mib .stk-button:hover:after{background:var(--theme-palette-color-2,#98c1d9) !important;opacity:1 !important}.stk-fyg2mib .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;color:var(--theme-palette-color-8,#ffffff) !important;font-weight:600 !important}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-fyg2mib .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important}}LEARN MORE

This week, we chat with Joel and Mindy Bolitho, an Australian couple who’ve experienced transformation through the Framework. They talk about significant moments in their journey and how they spread the word about Connected Families in their community. Connected Families’ Director of Development, Adel Irwin, also joins the conversation to highlight the upcoming Week of Sharing (August 1-7) and how you can get involved. Mentioned in this podcast: Text the keyword “parenting” to 50155 to give to Connected Families Become a Volunteer Advocate to spread the word about Connected Families during the Week of Sharing August 1-7 How has Connected Families impacted your family? Share your story here. Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting! Guest Bio: Joel and Mindy Bolitho live in Australia with their two wonderful daughters, who are in primary school and high school. Mindy recently earned her BS and works as a counselor in the drug and alcohol field, while Joel works as a Disability Support Worker. They also breed miniature schnauzers and have 10 chooks, which keep them busy and delightfully entertained. .stk-g0mrzs2-inner-blocks{justify-content:center !important}.stk-g0mrzs2{background-color:#FFFFFF !important;padding-top:0px !important;padding-right:0px !important;padding-bottom:0px !important;padding-left:0px !important}.stk-g0mrzs2:before{background-color:#FFFFFF !important}.stk-g0mrzs2 .stk-block-hero__content{min-height:500px !important} .stk-bgoqycs{box-shadow:0px 2px 20px #99999933 !important;margin-bottom:0px !important} .stk-6pijwon-container{margin-top:0px !important;margin-right:0px !important;margin-bottom:0px !important;margin-left:0px !important} .stk-0l1t4z7 .stk-img-wrapper{width:100% !important;height:500px !important}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-0l1t4z7 .stk-img-wrapper{height:300px !important}} .stk-w2w7asj{align-self:center !important}.stk-w2w7asj-container{max-width:630px !important} .stk-6qiud90{margin-bottom:25px !important}.stk-6qiud90 .stk-block-heading__text{color:var(u002du002dtheme-palette-color-4,#1e3f52) !important}Do you find bedtime, screen use, chores, and meals to be sources of frustration instead of connection? The Healthy Rhythms for Daily Life online courseis designed to help you break free from the chaos and establish predictable daily rhythms that work for your family. With thoughtful, Biblical insights and practical, science-based ideas, you’ll learn how to grow connection, wisdom, and health in your kids. .stk-5mtg8sn .stk-button{background:var(u002du002dtheme-palette-color-1,#ee6c4d) !important}.stk-5mtg8sn .stk-button:hover:after{background:var(u002du002dtheme-palette-color-2,#98c1d9) !important;opacity:1 !important}.stk-5mtg8sn .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;color:var(u002du002dtheme-palette-color-8,#ffffff) !important;font-weight:600 !important}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-5mtg8sn .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important}}ENROLL TODAY!

Perhaps your child always sits politely at the table and eats their Brussels sprouts, but for the rest of us, especially with a food-sensitive child or two, food struggles in families are real. Today we talk to Emily Meade, RD, LD, a dietitian who wants to help us recapture some of the connection and joy that can happen in the kitchen and around the table. Emily discusses the importance of teaching children that their bodies are uniquely created by God, and she shares strategies for encouraging kids to try new foods without pressure. She also gives plenty of practical tips for meal planning and involving children in food prep to grow connection, wisdom, and life skills in the kitchen. Mentioned in this podcast: FREE Energy Bites recipe you can make with your kids Healthy Rhythms mini course – Register today! 1 Corinthians 6:19-20 Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting! Your donation to Connected Families fuels our work. Make a donation to Connected Families today! Help other parents find our podcast by leaving a quick review on your favorite listening platform. Guest Bio: Emily Meade is a wife and mama to three amazing kids, ages 6, 4, and 1-year-old. In addition to being home raising her children, Emily is also able to stay in practice as a Registered Dietitian doing one-on-one nutrition coaching part-time with a company called The Kôr Method. Emily enjoys cooking, gardening, staying active, serving at church, and spending time with her family. .stk-pa2878k-inner-blocks{justify-content:center !important}.stk-pa2878k{background-color:#FFFFFF !important;padding-top:0px !important;padding-right:0px !important;padding-bottom:0px !important;padding-left:0px !important}.stk-pa2878k:before{background-color:#FFFFFF !important}.stk-pa2878k .stk-block-hero__content{min-height:500px !important} .stk-4bszxua{box-shadow:0px 2px 20px #99999933 !important;margin-bottom:0px !important} .stk-5v9d35i-container{margin-top:0px !important;margin-right:0px !important;margin-bottom:0px !important;margin-left:0px !important} .stk-ja8kc4m .stk-img-wrapper{width:100% !important;height:500px !important}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-ja8kc4m .stk-img-wrapper{height:300px !important}} .stk-fudy0ph{align-self:center !important}.stk-fudy0ph-container{max-width:630px !important} .stk-ea35ihm{margin-bottom:25px !important}.stk-ea35ihm .stk-block-heading__text{color:var(u002du002dtheme-palette-color-4,#1e3f52) !important}Do you find bedtime, screen use, chores, and meals to be sources of frustration instead of connection? The Healthy Rhythms for Daily Life online courseis designed to help you break free from the chaos and establish predictable daily rhythms that work for your family. With thoughtful, Biblical insights and practical, science-based ideas, you’ll learn how to grow connection, wisdom, and health in your kids. .stk-3t7s0ew .stk-button{background:var(u002du002dtheme-palette-color-1,#ee6c4d) !important}.stk-3t7s0ew .stk-button:hover:after{background:var(u002du002dtheme-palette-color-2,#98c1d9) !important;opacity:1 !important}.stk-3t7s0ew .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;color:var(u002du002dtheme-palette-color-8,#ffffff) !important;font-weight:600 !important}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-3t7s0ew .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important}}ENROLL TODAY!

What if chores weren’t a constant struggle in your household? Join Connected Families Certified Parent Coaches Marni Love and Corrie Thetford as they discuss the Happiness Trifecta and how it can transform the way chores are done at your house. The Happiness Trifecta is a group of brain chemicals you can tap into to make chores more enjoyable for your kids. Corrie, Marni, and our host, Stacy Bellward, share many stories about being playful and working as a team to boost these chemicals in our kids’ brains. They also highlight the need to understand each child’s unique challenges and the importance of celebrating a job well done. Mentioned in this podcast: Healthy Rhythms for Daily Life mini-course How Can I Identify Anxiety in My Child? | Ep. 99 Advocating for Your Sensitive or Neurodiverse Child | Ep. 123 Help! Homeschooling Is Overwhelming | Ep 93 Empowering Your Differently Wired Child | Ep 124 Ephesians 2:10 Colossians 3:23-24 Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting! Your donation fuels our work. Make a donation to Connected Families today! Take a moment to rate and review! Guest Bio: Marni Love is a former public school teacher who has been a home educator for 14 years. She is a Homeschool Mentor, a Certified Connected Families Parent Coach, and an instructor for CF coaches-in-training. Marni enjoys spending time with her husband, Eric, and their three sons in the beautiful mountains and beaches of Northern California. You can connect with her through her website, marnilove.com. Corrie Thetford and her husband Alan have four children and are Connected Families Certified Parent Coaches as well as instructors for CF coaches-in-training. They are passionate about multiplying the gospel by helping families transform power struggles and conflicts into opportunities for gospel messages. You can find out more about them at buildingwisefamilies.com. .stk-7b324gb-inner-blocks{justify-content:center !important}.stk-7b324gb{background-color:#FFFFFF !important;padding-top:0px !important;padding-right:0px !important;padding-bottom:0px !important;padding-left:0px !important}.stk-7b324gb:before{background-color:#FFFFFF !important}.stk-7b324gb .stk-block-hero__content{min-height:500px !important} .stk-h4fs1j7{box-shadow:0px 2px 20px #99999933 !important;margin-bottom:0px !important} .stk-6emrkyj-container{margin-top:0px !important;margin-right:0px !important;margin-bottom:0px !important;margin-left:0px !important} .stk-cd410wv .stk-img-wrapper{width:100% !important;height:500px !important}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-cd410wv .stk-img-wrapper{height:300px !important}} .stk-papmzeh{align-self:center !important}.stk-papmzeh-container{max-width:630px !important} .stk-zb6k5ma{margin-bottom:25px !important}.stk-zb6k5ma .stk-block-heading__text{color:var(u002du002dtheme-palette-color-4,#1e3f52) !important}Do you find bedtime, screen use, chores, and meals to be sources of frustration instead of connection? The Healthy Rhythms for Daily Life online courseis designed to help you break free from the chaos and establish predictable daily rhythms that work for your family. With thoughtful, Biblical insights and practical, science-based ideas, you’ll learn how to grow connection, wisdom, and health in your kids. .stk-3eyi0kt .stk-button{background:var(u002du002dtheme-palette-color-1,#ee6c4d) !important}.stk-3eyi0kt .stk-button:hover:after{background:var(u002du002dtheme-palette-color-2,#98c1d9) !important;opacity:1 !important}.stk-3eyi0kt .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;color:var(u002du002dtheme-palette-color-8,#ffffff) !important;font-weight:600 !important}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-3eyi0kt .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important}}ENROLL TODAY!

If you’re struggling with screens and boundary setting with your kids, tune into this interview with Brittany and Kevin Hoffman. Their home has transformed as they’ve learned to ask questions, listen, and point to the bigger YES. If you’re not sure what it means to point to the bigger YES, this episode is for you. Kevin and Brittany share how the Healthy Rhythms course shaped their approach to managing screen time for their five children and the ways they adjusted their own screen habits as a result. They also chat about how they use family meetings to explore the “bigger yes” with their kids. Kevin and Brittany acknowledge that managing screen time is an ongoing process that keeps evolving as kids get older, but their guiding principles stay the same. Mentioned in this podcast: FREE Outdoor Activities PDF Healthy Rhythms mini-course Connected Families Week of Sharing – Find out how you can get involved! Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting! Your donation fuels our work. Make a donation to Connected Families today! Take a moment to rate and review and help other parents find the Connected Families Podcast! Guest Bio: Kevin and Brittany met in Vacation Bible School when they were three years old, started dating at fifteen, and have been married for thirteen years. They have five children (ages 10, 10, 8, 6, and 2), one of whom joined their family through foster care. Kevin is a trial attorney, and Brittany finds daily uses for her Master of Education while homeschooling. They are natives of New Jersey by birth and have been permanently transplanted to Virginia Beach, Virginia, where they attend Trinity Church. Connected Families has been a significant influence on their ever-evolving journey through parenting, which they define as the mission field of making disciples at home. .stk-yutpnl2 {background-color:#FFFFFF !important;padding-top:0px !important;padding-right:0px !important;padding-bottom:0px !important;padding-left:0px !important;}.stk-yutpnl2:before{background-color:#FFFFFF !important;}.stk-yutpnl2 .stk-block-hero__content{min-height:500px !important;align-items:center !important;display:flex !important;} .stk-9w1mwka {background-color:linear-gradient(to top, #e6e9f0 0%, #eef1f5 100%) !important;}.stk-9w1mwka:before{background-image:linear-gradient(to top, #e6e9f0 0%, #eef1f5 100%) !important;} .stk-icwgb4c-container{margin-top:0px !important;margin-right:0px !important;margin-bottom:0px !important;margin-left:0px !important;}@media screen and (min-width:690px){.stk-icwgb4c {flex:var(--stk-flex-grow, 1) 1 calc(55.1% - var(--stk-column-gap, 0px) * 1 / 2 ) !important;}} .stk-qtzwynq .stk-img-wrapper{width:100% !important;height:750px !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-qtzwynq .stk-img-wrapper{aspect-ratio:3/4 !important;width:100% !important;}.stk-qtzwynq .stk-img-wrapper img{object-fit:contain !important;}}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-qtzwynq {margin-bottom:-70px !important;}.stk-qtzwynq .stk-img-wrapper{width:100% !important;height:530px !important;}} .stk-ok93jxi-container{margin-top:32px !important;margin-right:32px !important;margin-bottom:32px !important;margin-left:32px !important;}.stk-ok93jxi {align-self:center !important;}.stk-ok93jxi-inner-blocks{justify-content:center !important;}@media screen and (min-width:690px){.stk-ok93jxi {flex:var(--stk-flex-grow, 1) 1 calc(44.9% - var(--stk-column-gap, 0px) * 1 / 2 ) !important;}}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-ok93jxi {align-self:center !important;}.stk-ok93jxi-container{max-width:321px !important;min-width:auto !important;margin-right:auto !important;margin-left:auto !important;}} Driver’s Training for Social Media We’re experiencing the biggest communication shift in history—and most of us haven’t had guidance. Until now. If you want a clear roadmap for today’s digital world, less screen time, more meaningful offline moments, and a media plan that truly works… this course is for you. Learn More & Register! Related PostsDeveloping a Screen Plan For Your Family | Ep. 132How to Limit Screen Time with Healthy Habits & a Bigger YESLet Creation Declare the Glory of God to Your Kids: Tips To Get Your Kids Outside MoreWhat Do You Do with a Minecraft Addiction?

Two grandmothers, Dijea Young and Cindy Stonestreet (who also happen to be Connected Families Certified Parent Coaches) chat about the role of play in grandparenting and how they’re learning to be great grandmothers. Cindy and Dijea share personal stories about respecting their adult children’s parenting decisions and finding common ground, even in challenging relationships. They emphasize the power of intentional, joyful play in communicating love to their grandchildren and share examples of coaching grandchildren through conflicts. If you know a grandparent who would love to build more connection with their children and grandchildren, consider sharing this conversation with them. Mentioned in this podcast: Parenting Reminders Bundle Deuteronomy 4:9 Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting! Your donation fuels our work. Make a donation to Connected Families today! Take a moment to rate and review! Guest Bio: Dijea Young is a teacher, mother of eight, and grandma. For over 35 years, she has served children and families in a variety of roles. Now as a Certified Parent Coach, she combines her professional training and personal experience to help parents and grandparents nurture relationships across generations. For more information about Dijea or her services, visit www.Room4HopeCoaching.com or email [email protected] Cindy Stonestreet, a grandmother of five, ages 3-8, has been involved with Connected Families for five years. As a result of seeking a Christ-centered and better way to discipline, she took the Discipline that Connects course, followed by parent coaching, and is a Certified Parent Coach. Cindy and her husband, Steve, are blessed to have full days, 2-3 times a week, with their grandkids. Cindy’s desire is to continually grow, little by little, as she implements the Connected Families Framework with her children, their spouses, and her grandkids. They live in Charleston, West Virginia, where Cindy is a full-time CRNA at Women and Children’s Hospital. .stk-s9r9ldj{border-top-left-radius:0px !important;border-top-right-radius:0px !important;border-bottom-right-radius:0px !important;border-bottom-left-radius:0px !important;overflow:hidden !important;border-style:solid !important;border-top-width:0px !important;border-right-width:0px !important;border-bottom-width:0px !important;border-left-width:0px !important;padding-top:0px !important;padding-right:0px !important;padding-bottom:0px !important;padding-left:0px !important;margin-right:25px !important;margin-bottom:25px !important;margin-left:25px !important} .stk-cjyw71b{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-2,#98c1d9) !important;overflow:hidden !important}.stk-cjyw71b:before{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-2,#98c1d9) !important}.stk-cjyw71b-container{padding-top:0px !important;padding-right:0px !important;padding-bottom:0px !important;padding-left:0px !important}@media screen and (min-width:690px){.stk-cjyw71b{flex:1 1 calc(30.6% - var(--stk-column-gap,0px) * 1 / 2 ) !important}} @media screen and (min-width:690px){.stk-bekqzwp{flex:1 1 calc(69.4% - var(--stk-column-gap,0px) * 1 / 2 ) !important}} .stk-p58j45a .stk-block-text__text{font-size:26px !important;color:var(--theme-palette-color-3,#293241) !important}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-p58j45a .stk-block-text__text{font-size:26px !important}}Whether you’re just learning the Four Messages of the Framework or have been at it for years, the Parenting Reminders Bundle can help you parent the way you want to parent! .stk-kmp3z97{margin-top:0px !important} .stk-x08o46y{margin-top:20px !important}.stk-x08o46y .stk-button{padding-right:30px !important;padding-left:30px !important}.stk-x08o46y .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:20px !important}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-x08o46y .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:20px !important}}GET YOUR BUNDLE NOW!

Chris Coursey, author of 4 Habits of Raising Joy-Filled Kids, joins us to discuss why joyful kids are joyful and what you can do. Do you feel like you’re often focused on problems and operating out of fear of what may happen? Chris explains how joy can give families the strength to navigate difficulties and overcome fear. He shares a personal story of overcoming fear-based parenting and unpacks the first habit of raising joy-filled kids: attunement. Chris emphasizes that taking care of yourself nurtures your joy and directly benefits the entire family. Listen in and learn how to grow joy in your home! Mentioned in this podcast: We’d love to hear from you! Send the podcast a birthday greeting. Free PDF – Child Led Play and the Framework 4 Habits of Joy-Filled Kids book Parenting Reminders Bundle – CF stickers, word art, and a magnet Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting. Your donation fuels our work. Make a donation to Connected Families today! Take a moment to rate and review! Guest Bio: For over 30 years, Chris has been developing and practicing brain-based solutions to train people, families, and communities to make relationships work. Chris started his career specializing in severe trauma and abuse and also pastored a small congregation in Michigan for several years. Chris is a published author with over ten books in print, including The Joy Switch. He co-authored his most recent book, The 4 Habits of Joy-Filled People. Chris enjoys spending time with his wife, Jen, and their two sons, Matthew and Andrew. In addition to studying, writing, jogging, and exercising, he enjoys the outdoors and is one of the rare people who actually likes the snow in Michigan. Website: https://thrivetoday.org/Podcast: https://thrivetoday.buzzsprout.com/The 4 Habits Books: https://thrivetoday.org/4-habits-series/ .stk-u8u4vi9{border-top-left-radius:0px !important;border-top-right-radius:0px !important;border-bottom-right-radius:0px !important;border-bottom-left-radius:0px !important;overflow:hidden !important;border-style:solid !important;border-top-width:0px !important;border-right-width:0px !important;border-bottom-width:0px !important;border-left-width:0px !important;padding-top:0px !important;padding-right:0px !important;padding-bottom:0px !important;padding-left:0px !important;margin-right:25px !important;margin-bottom:25px !important;margin-left:25px !important} .stk-te5rhls{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-2,#98c1d9) !important;overflow:hidden !important}.stk-te5rhls:before{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-2,#98c1d9) !important}.stk-te5rhls-container{padding-top:0px !important;padding-right:0px !important;padding-bottom:0px !important;padding-left:0px !important}@media screen and (min-width:690px){.stk-te5rhls{flex:1 1 calc(30.6% - var(--stk-column-gap,0px) * 1 / 2 ) !important}} @media screen and (min-width:690px){.stk-6kgbml8{flex:1 1 calc(69.4% - var(--stk-column-gap,0px) * 1 / 2 ) !important}} .stk-4i0yfix .stk-block-text__text{font-size:26px !important;color:var(--theme-palette-color-3,#293241) !important}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-4i0yfix .stk-block-text__text{font-size:26px !important}}Whether you’re just learning the Four Messages of the Framework or have been at it for years, the Parenting Reminders Bundle can help you parent the way you want to parent! .stk-tqxfpkn{margin-top:0px !important} .stk-q51wp3p{margin-top:20px !important}.stk-q51wp3p .stk-button{padding-right:30px !important;padding-left:30px !important}.stk-q51wp3p .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:20px !important}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-q51wp3p .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:20px !important}}GET YOUR BUNDLE NOW!

Today, we talk with Joy Wendling, Connected Families Certified Parent Coach and founder of Created to Play, about helping kids come to love God wholeheartedly. Faith can sometimes feel serious or heady, but God is also the God of play, and He created children to learn best through play. Stacy and Joy discuss the significance of modeling a joyful faith. Together, they share ideas for making God relatable through play with your kids. They emphasize how to bring God into everyday moments and ways to use scripture to gently guide and encourage your kids. Mentioned in this podcast: Parenting Reminder Bundle – Get Yours Today! Podcast Episode 102, “How to Be a More Playful Parent” with Joy Wendling Deuteronomy 6 Psalm 16:11 Zephaniah 3:17 John 10:10 Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting! Your donation fuels our work. Make a donation to Connected Families today! Take a moment to rate and review! Guest Bio: Enthusiastic. Passionate. Profound. Joy Wendling is a family pastor, writer, speaker, podcaster, certified parent coach, and founder of Created to Play. She has over 20 years of experience in children, youth, and family ministry and a Master’s degree in Youth, Family, and Culture from Fuller Theological Seminary. Her idea of relaxing is gazing at the mountains from her island home with an ice-cold Diet Coke and a good book. Joy lives in the Pacific Northwest and enjoys laughing and playing with her five daughters and husband. Get to know her better at createdtoplay.com and on her Playfully Faithful Parenting podcast. .stk-rzjy7a1{border-top-left-radius:0px !important;border-top-right-radius:0px !important;border-bottom-right-radius:0px !important;border-bottom-left-radius:0px !important;overflow:hidden !important;border-style:solid !important;border-top-width:0px !important;border-right-width:0px !important;border-bottom-width:0px !important;border-left-width:0px !important;padding-top:0px !important;padding-right:0px !important;padding-bottom:0px !important;padding-left:0px !important;margin-right:25px !important;margin-bottom:25px !important;margin-left:25px !important} .stk-i1vu85z{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-2,#98c1d9) !important;overflow:hidden !important}.stk-i1vu85z:before{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-2,#98c1d9) !important}.stk-i1vu85z-container{padding-top:0px !important;padding-right:0px !important;padding-bottom:0px !important;padding-left:0px !important}@media screen and (min-width:690px){.stk-i1vu85z{flex:1 1 calc(30.6% - var(--stk-column-gap,0px) * 1 / 2 ) !important}} @media screen and (min-width:690px){.stk-8z541gi{flex:1 1 calc(69.4% - var(--stk-column-gap,0px) * 1 / 2 ) !important}} .stk-elf13na .stk-block-text__text{font-size:26px !important;color:var(--theme-palette-color-3,#293241) !important}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-elf13na .stk-block-text__text{font-size:26px !important}}Whether you’re just learning the Four Messages of the Framework or have been at it for years, the Parenting Reminders Bundle can help you parent the way you want to parent! .stk-f4ewt39{margin-top:0px !important} .stk-d6vu92c{margin-top:20px !important}.stk-d6vu92c .stk-button{padding-right:30px !important;padding-left:30px !important}.stk-d6vu92c .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:20px !important}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-d6vu92c .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:20px !important}}GET YOUR BUNDLE NOW!

Two therapists chat about the benefits of play and how to incorporate play therapy into your family’s routine. The end goal: More connection with your child and a more regulated child. It’s a win-win! In this podcast episode, Lynne Jackson, occupational therapist and Co-Founder of Connected Families, interviews Marlee Thomson, a mental health therapist and Connected Families Certified Parent Coach. They discuss the brain science behind play and how it can develop connection and trust between you and your child. Marlee explains how you can incorporate “special playtime,” highlighting how your undivided attention and delight can nurture your child’s identity. Incorporating the Connected Families Framework every step of the way, Lynne and Marlee encourage you to begin this practice with the goal of being present rather than striving for perfection. Mentioned in this podcast: Free PDF from Marlee Quote from parent coach Patty Wipfler, “Feelings that are felt fully are feelings that evaporate afterward.” Psalm 147:11 Psalm 73:21-26 “Fix your face” podcast: Ep. 174 | Want to Connect with Your Teenager? Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting! Your donation fuels our work. Make a donation to Connected Families today! Take a moment to rate and review! Guest Bio: Marlee Thomsen is an LCSWA who lives and works as a mental health therapist and Connected Families Certified Parent Coach in Durham, NC. She is working towards becoming a Registered Play Therapist and is growing in her love for play therapy. In particular, she is passionate about teaching parents play skills and walking through the Connected Families framework with them to enhance the parent-child relationship. Additionally, she has experienced the impact of the Connected Families framework in her own family as she raises two toddler boys alongside her husband.

We chat with Lindsay Fauver, a mom from the Connected Families community, about her parenting journey with a child who experiences anxiety, sensory challenges, and challenging behaviors. Lindsay shares how she has gained new understanding and tools to support her child and stay calm when her daughter escalates. She also emphasizes the persistence required to implement positive changes and the role of scripture in sustaining her. If you’re feeling overwhelmed with parenting, you’ll find plenty of hope and practical ideas in this interview with a mom who’s been there. Mentioned in this podcast: Are You Micromanaging Your Kids? Here’s How to Stop | Ep. 177 Authentic Community for Dads | Ep. 179 100 Truth Phrases PDF – a free resource Grace & Truth for Moms online course Connected Families Connection Questions (Campfire Questions) Sensitive & Intense Kids online course Parenting Coaching Isaiah 30 James 1 Psalm 103:8 1 John 3:19 Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting! Your donation fuels our work. Make a donation to Connected Families today! Take a moment to rate and review! Guest Bio: Lindsay Fauver is a photographer by trade and a theologian at heart. She is deeply passionate about participating with the great Artist as she works to build a foundation of “belonging and becoming” with her little people, clients, and students. Lindsay loves writing, peonies, Pilates, design, earrings, and anything by the water. She longs for the day when her story of surrender is told in its fullness by the One who will permanently wipe away her tears. .stk-zmoucld-inner-blocks{justify-content:center !important;}.stk-zmoucld {background-color:#FFFFFF !important;padding-top:0px !important;padding-right:0px !important;padding-bottom:0px !important;padding-left:0px !important;}.stk-zmoucld:before{background-color:#FFFFFF !important;}.stk-zmoucld .stk-block-hero__content{min-height:500px !important;} .stk-xm0pqjg {box-shadow:0px 2px 20px #99999933 !important;margin-bottom:0px !important;} .stk-b8g5msy-container{margin-top:0px !important;margin-right:0px !important;margin-bottom:0px !important;margin-left:0px !important;} .stk-tzow0hj .stk-img-wrapper{width:100% !important;height:635px !important;}.stk-tzow0hj .stk-img-wrapper img{transform:scale(0.96) !important;object-fit:contain !important;}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-tzow0hj .stk-img-wrapper{height:300px !important;}} .stk-9keja60 {align-self:center !important;}.stk-9keja60-container{max-width:549px !important;min-width:auto !important;} .stk-pfal082 {align-items:flex-start !important;max-width:1500px !important;min-width:auto !important;padding-top:0px !important;padding-right:0px !important;padding-bottom:0px !important;padding-left:0px !important;margin-right:0px !important;margin-bottom:0px !important;display:flex !important;}.stk-pfal082 .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:47px !important;color:var(--theme-palette-color-4, #1e3f52) !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-pfal082 .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:47px !important;}}Transform Your Next Group Gathering What if your next gathering left parents feeling equipped, encouraged, and hopeful? That’s exactly what Connected Families workshops do. Led by CF Certified Parent Coaches, these sessions bring practical, biblical wisdom on topics like discipline and sibling conflict straight to your community. Learn more and book a speaker today. .stk-qmt5fyg .stk-button{background:var(--theme-palette-color-1, #ee6c4d) !important;}.stk-qmt5fyg .stk-button:hover:after{background:var(--theme-palette-color-2, #98c1d9) !important;opacity:1 !important;}.stk-qmt5fyg .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;color:var(--theme-palette-color-8, #ffffff) !important;font-weight:600 !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-qmt5fyg .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;}}Bring Hope To Your Community

In this meaningful conversation, we talk to dads Matt Norman (author and President & CEO of Norman & Associates) and Jim Jackson (Connected Families Co-Founder) about their experiences with authentic, vulnerable community. Matt shares his personal journey of seeking more meaningful connections while balancing the demands of marriage, parenting, and his career. He describes the evolution of his small group, which started as a way to socialize and study but grew into a space for supportive and sensitive sharing. Jim emphasizes the power of asking questions and genuinely seeking to understand others, rather than just offering opinions or advice. Both men reflect on the positive impact their authentic community has had on their personal growth, relationships, and even their children’s development. Mentioned in this podcast: Grace & Truth for Moms online course – register today! Equimundo’s 2023 State of American Men survey data Daniel 3 Galatians 6 Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting! We’re a listener-supported podcast. Make a donation to Connected Families today! Don’t forget to take a moment to rate and review the podcast! Guest Bio: Matt Norman coaches and advises executives on how to build great people and culture. He is President & CEO of Norman & Associates, which offers custom coaching and consulting in the areas of talent strategy, personal effectiveness, planning, and goal alignment. Norman & Associates is also the largest North American provider of Dale Carnegie learning programs which help people improve how they communicate, lead, influence, and work together. He’s also the award-winning author of Four Patterns of Healthy People, and Lead with Influence: A Proven Process to Lead without Authority. Matt loves being a husband and father of three, enjoying shared activities like skiing, mountain biking, trail running, and music. You can find his articles on personal and organizational effectiveness at http://mattnorman.com. .stk-48p81eu-inner-blocks{justify-content:center !important;}.stk-48p81eu {background-color:#FFFFFF !important;padding-top:0px !important;padding-right:0px !important;padding-bottom:0px !important;padding-left:0px !important;}.stk-48p81eu:before{background-color:#FFFFFF !important;}.stk-48p81eu .stk-block-hero__content{min-height:500px !important;} .stk-iwhha6v {box-shadow:0px 2px 20px #99999933 !important;margin-bottom:0px !important;} .stk-i1r0do3-container{margin-top:0px !important;margin-right:0px !important;margin-bottom:0px !important;margin-left:0px !important;} .stk-916bo2f .stk-img-wrapper{width:100% !important;height:635px !important;}.stk-916bo2f .stk-img-wrapper img{transform:scale(0.96) !important;object-fit:contain !important;}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-916bo2f .stk-img-wrapper{height:300px !important;}} .stk-if0pf5g {align-self:center !important;}.stk-if0pf5g-container{max-width:549px !important;min-width:auto !important;} .stk-1i0eghl {align-items:flex-start !important;max-width:1500px !important;min-width:auto !important;padding-top:0px !important;padding-right:0px !important;padding-bottom:0px !important;padding-left:0px !important;margin-right:0px !important;margin-bottom:0px !important;display:flex !important;}.stk-1i0eghl .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:47px !important;color:var(--theme-palette-color-4, #1e3f52) !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-1i0eghl .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:47px !important;}}Transform Your Next Group Gathering What if your next gathering left parents feeling equipped, encouraged, and hopeful? That’s exactly what Connected Families workshops do. Led by CF Certified Parent Coaches, these sessions bring practical, biblical wisdom on topics like discipline and sibling conflict straight to your community. Learn more and book a speaker today. .stk-u54hcgi .stk-button{background:var(--theme-palette-color-1, #ee6c4d) !important;}.stk-u54hcgi .stk-button:hover:after{background:var(--theme-palette-color-2, #98c1d9) !important;opacity:1 !important;}.stk-u54hcgi .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;color:var(--theme-palette-color-8, #ffffff) !important;font-weight:600 !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-u54hcgi .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;}}Bring Hope To Your Community

What do you do when you disagree with your partner about how to parent? Perhaps it is even causing a rift in your family. You feel strongly about how to parent your kids but feel stuck on knowing how to encourage your co-parent to see things the way you do.  You are not alone! It is a very common struggle for many parents. Whether you are single parenting with an ex-spouse, married, or caring for grandchildren, this can be an emotionally charged topic. Tensions over different parenting styles and philosophies can create stress in your relationship with your co-parent and affect your kids, too. You and your partner may both have good intentions, but your parenting ideals and how to implement them might be different. In this podcast, we’re going to tackle this challenging topic. Stacy Bellward is joined by Jim and Lynne Jackson (Co-founders of Connected Families) to discuss their experience as parents with very different personalities. You’ll discover how Jim and Lynne navigated their parenting differences, and what kept them connected in the process. You can create an atmosphere of safety and connection for your co-parent and your children by using the Connected Families Framework, asking curious questions, focusing on your own heart, and looking for the best in each other. Your family environment can be a place where everyone is safe to learn and grow in grace and empathy for one another. In this podcast, you’ll learn: the power of the Connected Families Framework in your relationship with your partner, or co-parent questions you can ask your partner that invite conversation, connection, and openness instead of criticism how to get to a nonjudgmental place where you can see your partner’s underlying strengths as a parent offering grace and avoiding catastrophizing, knowing that God is working on behalf of your kids no matter the situation Mentioned in this podcast: Connected Families Framework Discipline That Connects online course Trash, Truth, Treasure (blog post) Connected Families New Serenity Prayer (download) Want to learn more? What’s the Best Way to Handle Shared Parenting? How to Parent Together When You’re Total Opposites .stk-4b91534{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-5,#e8e8e8) !important;padding-top:0px !important;padding-right:0px !important;padding-bottom:0px !important;padding-left:0px !important}.stk-4b91534:before{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-5,#e8e8e8) !important}.stk-4b91534-container{box-shadow:7px 5px 30px rgba(72,73,121,0.15) !important}.stk-4b91534 .stk-block-hero__content{min-height:500px !important;align-items:center !important;display:flex !important} .stk-5f8d87a{margin-bottom:0px !important}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-5f8d87a-column{--stk-col-order-1:2 !important;--stk-col-order-2:1 !important}} .stk-1c8f233{align-self:center !important}.stk-1c8f233-container{max-width:450px !important} .stk-2625cef .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:55px !important;color:var(--theme-palette-color-4,#1e3f52) !important}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-2625cef .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:50px !important}}You need consequences that work. .stk-01f6543 .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:35px !important;color:var(--theme-palette-color-4,#1e3f52) !important}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-01f6543 .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:35px !important}}You need consequences that work. Because your kids aren’t perfect. Neither are you. That’s why you need a plan for discipling your kids in the hard moments. .stk-a1e8c1b .stk-block-text__text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-1,#ee6c4d) !important;font-weight:600 !important}Read the FREE ebook, Consequences That Actually Work. .stk-93edb84-container{margin-top:0px !important;margin-right:0px !important;margin-bottom:0px !important;margin-left:0px !important} .stk-b9ab6cd .stk-img-wrapper{height:750px !important}.stk-b9ab6cd .stk-img-wrapper img{object-fit:contain !important}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-b9ab6cd .stk-img-wrapper{width:100% !important;height:500px !important}.stk-b9ab6cd .stk-img-wrapper img{object-fit:contain !important}}

Listen in as we talk with Chad Hayenga (Connected Families Director of Education and Equipping) about parental anxiety and micromanagement, and how these can negatively impact your relationship with your child. Chad and Stacy (podcast host) discuss common scenarios that trigger anxiety in parents and the resulting cycle that can leave the child feeling discouraged and resentful. The conversation is filled with practical ideas for moving out of the cycle of anxiety and into new patterns of belief and ways of relating to your child. Whether your child is about to graduate from high school, or just starting to have responsibilities of his own, you’ll find wisdom and encouragement for today in this episode. Mentioned in this podcast: Sign up for our weekly Parenting Tips email Grace & Truth for Moms online course Are You Micromanaging Your Kids? 1 Peter 5:7 Philippians 4:6-8 100 Truth Phrases PDF Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting! We are a listener-supported podcast. Donate to Connected Families today! Your donation fuels our work. Did you find this episode helpful? Share it with a friend, or take a moment to rate and review! .stk-csospkl-inner-blocks{justify-content:center !important;}.stk-csospkl {background-color:#FFFFFF !important;padding-top:0px !important;padding-right:0px !important;padding-bottom:0px !important;padding-left:0px !important;}.stk-csospkl:before{background-color:#FFFFFF !important;}.stk-csospkl .stk-block-hero__content{min-height:500px !important;} .stk-cfu8cb3 {box-shadow:0px 2px 20px #99999933 !important;margin-bottom:0px !important;} .stk-y2nbv4z-container{margin-top:0px !important;margin-right:0px !important;margin-bottom:0px !important;margin-left:0px !important;} .stk-zt2lo05 .stk-img-wrapper{width:100% !important;height:635px !important;}.stk-zt2lo05 .stk-img-wrapper img{transform:scale(0.96) !important;object-fit:contain !important;}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-zt2lo05 .stk-img-wrapper{height:300px !important;}} .stk-gy3dswc {align-self:center !important;}.stk-gy3dswc-container{max-width:549px !important;min-width:auto !important;} .stk-worsvxr {align-items:flex-start !important;max-width:1500px !important;min-width:auto !important;padding-top:0px !important;padding-right:0px !important;padding-bottom:0px !important;padding-left:0px !important;margin-right:0px !important;margin-bottom:0px !important;display:flex !important;}.stk-worsvxr .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:47px !important;color:var(--theme-palette-color-4, #1e3f52) !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-worsvxr .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:47px !important;}}Transform Your Next Group Gathering What if your next gathering left parents feeling equipped, encouraged, and hopeful? That’s exactly what Connected Families workshops do. Led by CF Certified Parent Coaches, these sessions bring practical, biblical wisdom on topics like discipline and sibling conflict straight to your community. Learn more and book a speaker today. .stk-rpn5bj9 .stk-button{background:var(--theme-palette-color-1, #ee6c4d) !important;}.stk-rpn5bj9 .stk-button:hover:after{background:var(--theme-palette-color-2, #98c1d9) !important;opacity:1 !important;}.stk-rpn5bj9 .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;color:var(--theme-palette-color-8, #ffffff) !important;font-weight:600 !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-rpn5bj9 .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;}}Bring Hope To Your Community

Start teaching your kids the first steps toward reconciliation and restoration by using “make it right” consequences in their relationships. Parent coach Amy Nyvall shares personal stories illustrating how she has taught her kids to take responsibility for their actions and restore relationships when they’ve done something wrong. Amy emphasizes the importance of creating space for both parents and children to process emotions and think through how to resolve conflicts. Throughout the conversation, Amy and Stacy discuss the Connected Families Framework and how focusing on restoration rather than punishment helps children develop wisdom and strengthen relationships. Mentioned in this podcast: Episode 112: Daily Sensory Rhythms to Bring Peace to Your Home Matthew 5:23-24 Galatians 6:1 Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting. Got a minute? Rate and review the podcast. We are a listener-supported podcast! Donate to Connected Families today. Guest Bio: Amy and her husband, Andrew, have been married for 16 years and live among the fir trees outside Portland, Oregon. They enjoy outdoor adventures as much as possible and have a blast homeschooling their three intensely creative, adventurous, and active children. In her spare time, you’ll find Amy encouraging moms and homeschoolers, learning alongside the kids, or slipping away to read from a stack of her own books. Amy is passionate about creating a family culture that equips our children to be prepared to serve the Lord in the days ahead. She is a Connected Families Certified Parent Coach and has personal experience and knowledge in the sensitive and intense space. You can connect with her for parent coaching at: [email protected]. .stk-mr56jth-container{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-4,#1e3f52) !important}.stk-mr56jth-container:before{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-4,#1e3f52) !important} .stk-fqaonrc .stk-block-heading__text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-2,#98c1d9) !important}The Quick Guide for Parenting .stk-9ync24o .stk-block-text__text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-8,#ffffff) !important}It’s parenting made clear with biblical wisdom to better equip you to lead your family with grace. .stk-9gb0ic6 .stk-button{background:var(--theme-palette-color-1,#ee6c4d) !important}.stk-9gb0ic6 .stk-button:hover:after{background:var(--theme-palette-color-2,#98c1d9) !important;opacity:1 !important}.stk-9gb0ic6 .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;font-weight:600 !important}.stk-9gb0ic6 .stk-button:hover .stk-button__inner-text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-8,#ffffff) !important}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-9gb0ic6 .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important}}GET THE GUIDE .stk-f3ut2lx{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-4,#1e3f52) !important}.stk-f3ut2lx:before{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-4,#1e3f52) !important} @media screen and (min-width:690px){.stk-5ssnz6b{flex:1 1 33.3% !important}} @media screen and (min-width:690px){.stk-kw40pq9{flex:1 1 66.7% !important}} .stk-9tb8u3q .stk-block-heading__text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-2,#98c1d9) !important}The Quick Guide for Parenting .stk-itu1yj8 .stk-block-text__text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-8,#ffffff) !important}It’s parenting made clear with biblical wisdom to better equip you to lead your family with grace. .stk-rmficks .stk-button{background:var(--theme-palette-color-1,#ee6c4d) !important}.stk-rmficks .stk-button:hover:after{background:var(--theme-palette-color-2,#98c1d9) !important;opacity:1 !important}.stk-rmficks .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;font-weight:600 !important}.stk-rmficks .stk-button:hover .stk-button__inner-text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-8,#ffffff) !important}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-rmficks .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important}}GET THE GUIDE