Cheating: When Love Lies

Some still believe that a wife’s role is to stay at home with her children, tend to her family, and be devoted to her husband. In Western culture these ideas are currently part of the Trad Wife movement. Trad stands for traditional wife. On this episode I welcome international matchmaker Florent Raimy, Founder of Edwige International. Florent’s matchmaking clients are wealthy men from all over the world who are seeking a traditional wife. So….how many of you are scratching your heads right now in disbelief that the traditional wife role still exists? And how many of you are thinking “finally- we’re going back to the way things should be.” Also, is this “one stays at home and the other one works” paradigm relevant to same-sex couples? Let’s hear what my guest has to say. Let’s find out what high net worth men from all over the world are looking for in a wife. Not all wealthy men, but some-and most definitely Edwige International clients. Is the Trad Wife a walk back into the fifties or a strut into the future? Be a guest on the show: [email protected]. IG is @cheatingwhenloveslies for highlights from all the shows. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sometimes an angry affair partner attacks her married lover, his wife and even his children. The affair partner will stalk, cyber stalk, physically attack or threaten her married lover’s wife, children, and extended family in order to taunt, threaten or intimidate them. These affair partners are sometimes called bunny boilers, based on the mentally unstable mistress character in the 80s hit movie Fatal Attraction. My guest Helen spent years facing down her own real life bunny boiler. Join marriage coach and Soulifywellness founder Beth Miller and me as Helen tells how hundreds of phone calls from her husband’s affair partner turned into full blown harassment. Then find out how Helen fought back against the abuse to reclaim her peace. To be a guest on the show please write to [email protected]. IG is @cheatingwhenloveslies for highlights from all the shows. Reach Beth: @soulifywellness www.soulifywellness.com www.freemarriageguide.com Please subscribe, like and share with anyone whose life has been upended by infidelity. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

There are times when your partner’s lies, deception, and gaslighting are so carefully crafted and meticulously masked, he not only fools you, he hoodwinks multiple women and your professionally trained relationship counselors. What happens when the full extent of his deception is revealed? Is it just another bad breakup, or are the implications much greater than that? My guest whose real name is Samantha experienced this level of deception. Samantha says the deception changed her outlook on life and deeply affected her family and friends. Has this happened to you? Could this ever happen to you? Be a guest on the show: [email protected] IG @cheatingwhenloveslies for highlights from all the shows. Please subscribe, like and share with anyone whose life has been upended by infidelity. Thank you! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Being blindsided by an affair or a divorce can bring you to your knees. Even the seemingly most powerful people who are typically in command of their careers and their lives can become petrified by fear and anxiety. This is exactly what happened to my guest Rob Malkani. Now Rob counsels people just like himself who were blindsided by divorce and sometimes the affairs that lead to them. Rob has taken all that he’s experienced and learned during the course of his own traumatic 7 year divorce to help others. Surprisingly, most of the people he counsels are those you’d never expect would need him the most. Be a guest on the show: [email protected] IG @cheatingwhenloveslies. Please subscribe, like and share with anyone whose life has been upended by infidelity. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

How many wives would choose to meet their husband's lover? Would you sit down and have a discussion with your spouse and his lover about their affair? What would you hope learn from that conversation? Perhaps something that could justify, rationalize or at least explain why your spouse cheated on you. This is what happened to my guest (let's call her Tiffany.) Tiffany confronted her husband, his lover and her husband. But when Tiffany told me how her husband's young lover described their affair, I thought "Wow - this husband really got duped!" Be a guest on the show: [email protected] IG @cheatingwhenloveslies for highlights from all the shows. Please subscribe, like and share with anyone whose life has been upended by infidelity. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

You meet a guy and he love bombs you. For anyone who doesn't know what that is, it's when a guy first meets you and showers you with compliments, gifts and attention, and tells you "I love you" though he barely knows you at all. You fall for this and you suddenly you're wrapped up in a faux romance that's often the precursor to emotional and sometimes physical abuse. This is what happened to my guest today whom we'll call Genevieve. But this was just the tip of the iceberg after years of cover ups and abuse that plagued Genevieve's relationship. Join me as we hear her story of how time and time again Genevieve believed her boyfriend and many other men she thought she knew, but discovered she really didn't know at all. Be a guest on the show: [email protected] @cheatingwhenlovelies. Please like, subscribe and share with anyone whose life has been upended by infidelity. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

On this episode we talk about fantasy: erotic fantasy worlds that men create in their minds inspired by scrolling social media. It's not about an addiction to porn, it's something else. A whole new world of fantasy that many men are addicted to despite the disastrous impact it has on marriages and partnerships. In my conversation with leading psychologist Dr. Jennifer Guttman we explore a whole new genre of cheating, that prior to social media, just did not exist. Be a guest on the show: [email protected] IG @cheatingwhenloveslies for highlights from all the shows. Please subscribe, like and share with anyone whose life has been upended by infidelity. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Imagine your husband’s former affair partner belongs to your church, is a mom at your kids’ school, a member of your club, or is even your neighbor. What if proximity means you could end up seeing her all the time? Would you avoid going to those places where she could be? Would you make yourself scarce when you know she might be around in order to save yourself from embarrassment or confrontation? Join me and Beth Miller, marriage counselor and founder of Soulifywellness to hear how after dreading the thought of running into her husband’s lover, Monica shows strength, conviction and dignity when she comes face-to-face with the woman who tore her world apart. Be a guest on the show: [email protected] IG @cheatingwhenloveslies for highlights from all the shows. Please subscribe, like and share with anyone whose life has been upended by infidelity. Reach Beth: @soulifywellness www.soulifywellness.com www.freemarriageguide.com See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Could you be paid to keep your affair silent? Would a big fat check keep you from exposing your affair when your married affair partner goes back to his wife? How much would it take to keep you quiet? See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Nice guys versus bad boys. Bad boys are the ones you fantasize about, you’re dying to date, and want to have sex with. Nice guys are safe because they’re trustworthy, faithful, and honest. “Not true,” says my guest Dr. Robert Glover, therapist, coach, speaker, and author of “No More Mr. Nice Guy.” Nice guys he says, are constantly holding up a facade of good and acceptable behavior to make people like them, while they hide parts of themselves they don’t want people to see. All this pretending makes nice guys dishonest. And dishonest people cheat. If all this is true does that mean we can’t trust the bad boys or the nice guys? Join me as Robert debunks the nice guy myth. Be a guest on the show: [email protected] IG @cheatingwhenloveslies for highlights from all the shows. Please subscribe, like and share with anyone whose life has been upended by infidelity. Reach Dr. Robert Glover: drglover.com nomoremrniceguy.com datingessentialsformen.com See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Deception, lies, and gaslighting. Are they the most hurtful part of an affair, or is it the sex and knowing that your partner may be madly in love with someone else? It’s different for every betrayed partner, but for my guest today whom we’ll call Lisa — she was tortured her husband’s lying. Lisa found out about her husband’s affair, and after she nabbed him, he promised to work on their marriage. What he said sounded great, but Lisa kept observing suspicious behavior and red flags that made her question if what her husband was saying was in fact was he was doing. Join me and relationship coach and founder of Soulify Wellness, Beth Miller to talk about what happens when a cheating partner says they’re committed to fixing the marriage, but acts with the same suspicious, inconsistent, red flag behavior they’ve always had. Lisa is here to share her story. Be a guest on the show: [email protected] IG @cheatingwhenloveslies for highlights from all the shows. Please subscribe, like and share with anyone whose life has been upended by infidelity. Reach Beth: @soulifywellness www.soulifywellness.com www.freemarriageguide.com See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

For President's Day we are featuring one of our favorite past episodes. My guest today lived his traditional family life and his ultimate affair fantasy. He had the suburban dream of a devoted wife and two small children, but the moment he stepped foot in the cosmopolitan city where he worked, he became a slick, handsome playboy with a stunning, sexy, lover. But slowly he noticed his lover started to change. Her attitudes and behaviors became disturbing. He became afraid of her. My guest talks about his guilt and deep self loathing for having this 16 year affair, and about his quandary: should he leave his affair partner who appeared to be falling apart? This is a guilt ridden, shamed and fragile man. Join me to hear his story. Be a guest on the show: Jillianhamilton [email protected] IG @cheatingwhenlovelies for show highlights. Please like, subscribe and share with anyone whose life has been upended by infidelity. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

You find out your spouse has been living a secret life with an affair partner for 4 years while you suffer in your barren, sexless marriage that you hold together for the kids. You immediately file for divorce. Now you’re free and you rediscover your sexuality and erotic fantasies with a new, sexy partner. Sounds dreamy right? Nope. For my guest whom we’ll call Laura, her new relationship became her biggest nightmare: so horrible, so unimaginably awful she’s convinced she can get never find love again. What happens when your new relationship starts to feel as traumatic as your soon-to-be-ex husband’s affair? Join me, marriage coach Beth Miller of soulifywellness and our guest Laura to find out. Be a guest on the show: [email protected] IG @cheatingwhenloveslies for highlights from all the shows. Please subscribe, like and share with anyone whose life has been upended by infidelity. Reach Beth: @soulifywellness www.soulifywellness.com www.freemarriageguide.com See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

A cheating husband who is remorseful, openly apologetic and more committed to his wife than ever: that’s just one of my guests today. My other guest is his wife who forgives her husband and believes that their marriage is finally a “real marriage” ever since he’s confessed, become sober and committed to intense therapy. But before this couple got here, the husband (whom we’ll call Greg) did something so outrageous, so manipulative and so underhanded to try and hide his affair, that it’s worthy of cinematic screenplay. In fact his wife Brenda (not her real name) said: You think you’ve heard just about every cheating story or affair cover up possible? Well just wait until you hear this. Be a guest on the show: [email protected] IG @cheatingwhenloveslies for highlights from all the shows. Please subscribe, like and share with anyone whose life has been upended by infidelity. Thank you! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Turn your mess into your message. My guest today also named Jillian did just that. Her boyfriend cheated on her from the beginning of their relationship to the bitter end. He had dozens of lovers (yes dozens) and is a self confessed sex addict-both of which shocked my guest and tore her world apart. But Jillian Romero Chaves, founder and CEO of the relationship app Clara for Daters took that mess and turned it into her message. Join me to hear her journey of turning heart break and betrayal into a unique and thriving relationship app. Clara for Daters is an app that you can use to radically transform and enhance how you date and evaluate your romantic relationships. Clarafordaters.com @clarafordaters Be a guest on Cheating: When Love Lies: [email protected] IG @cheatingwhenloveslies for highlights from all the shows. Please subscribe, like and share with anyone whose life has been upended by infidelity. Thank you! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

This week we are bringing back a fan favorite. You think you're in a committed relationship. You and your boyfriend are nesting with his daughter and living as a family in what feels like a dream. Then one day your boyfriend is killed in a tragic accident. Overcome with grief, you host his memorial service only to find out that several of the women attending are also in a relationship with your boyfriend. This real life tragedy happened to country music sensation, Stephanie Quayle. Stephanie shares her story in her album called “On The Edge.” Join me to hear this deeply emotional story of cheating, grief and betrayal that Stephanie has kept silent for more than 12 years. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/on-the-edge-with-stephanie-quayle/id1674241152 @stephaniequayle Be a guest on the show: [email protected] IG @cheatingwhenloveslies for highlights from all the shows. Please subscribe, like and share with anyone whose life has been upended by infidelity. Thank you! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

For years the buzzword was attracting, as in “you attract the partner you have in your life.” Then the term “manifesting” took over, and suddenly everyone was trying to manifest everything from a dream job to a faithful partner. But what if deep down your subconscious was on overdrive pulling you toward that person who awakens your childhood abandonment issues, triggers your trauma bond, and then eventually cheats on you! My guest today is relationship pattern expert, Dr. Sajad Vahedi. He helps clients to stop acting out toxic behaviors in a promising relationship by using what he calls a Schema Framework. This Schema Framework ends the toxic patterns, freeing clients to build healthy, intimate, infidelity free relationships. Dr. Vahedi wants to celebrate 2024! Go to his Instagram @drsajadvahedi to find out about limited complimentary sessions he’s making available to Cheating: When Love Lies listeners. Be a guest on the show: [email protected] IG @cheatingwhenloveslies for highlights from the shows. Please subscribe, like and share with anyone whose life has been effected by infidelity. Thank you! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Think about the chaos that ensues from any love triangle. Is it two people vying for one person’s love, or (at times) is it a melodrama that distracts people from their legitimate life problems? How many times is an affair, whether we are a cheater or a betrayed partner, just a means of distracting ourselves from real hurt and pain in other parts of our lives? My guest Sandy may be emblematic of this. Sandy invests so much time and energy into her live-in cheating boyfriend even though something immeasurably more important in her life demands her full attention. Is Sandy chasing love or just a dramatic distraction to ease her deep pain? Be a guest on the show: [email protected] IG @cheatingwhenloveslies for highlights from all the shows. Please subscribe, like and share with anyone whose life has been upended by infidelity. Thank you See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Tom "The Suit" Forst has been touring the world as what one critic calls a "blues ass-kicker" for decades. He's traveled the world without his wife as a blues musician and before that as "a suit" in the corporate world. Because of this, Tom has an up close and personal view of how tempting cheating and affairs on the road can be. In our talk, Tom gets vulnerable, raw, and very real as he shares anecdotes about life on the road, and reveals how infidelity has at times become a theme in his music. Fans of Tom "The Suit" Forst will also hear snippets from his latest album the "World Of Broken Hearts". Be a guest on the show: [email protected] IG @cheatingwhenloveslies for highlights from all the shows. Please subscribe, like and share with anyone whose life has been upended by infidelity. Thank you! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Josh and Sharon are two formerly married people whose spouses cheated on them. Before they were married, Sharon’s husband covered up the truth about his debts and failing finances. Then after they married, her husband started an affair with a woman he invited to Sharon’s baby shower. Josh’s wife had an affair after 17 years of marriage. He was devastated and disillusioned by this infidelity, and yet his marriage counselors told him he had no grounds to leave the mariage. Josh and Sharon both lived through the pain of an affair, but just like the blessings of the Holiday season, they unexpectedly found joy and hope after one of the most heartbreaking experiences of their lives. Their stories are a true holiday inspiration! Be a guest on the show: [email protected] IG @cheatingwhenloveslies for highlights from all the shows. Please subscribe, like and share with anyone whose life has been upended by infidelity. Thank you! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

You've cheated. You've done the deed. Whether that's sleeping with, having oral sex with, or hiding an emotional affair with a person outside of your relationship, you've done it: you've created the time and space to have an affair. Now you lie incessantly to cover it up. Your conscience is telling you that you've got a decision to make. Do you come clean, or do you deny, deny, deny the affair at all costs? On this episode I welcome Marie Murphy who is a relationship coach with a PhD in the sociology of sexuality. Dr. Murphy uses a unique, individualized and non - judgmental approach to help her clients answer the question: Should you tell your partner if you've cheated on them? See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

What if you’re often the side piece - time after time the other woman. First you have an affair with your husband’s work colleague. Then you cheat on your husband with someone you meet in an alcohol recovery group. Next you find yourself sleeping with the husband of a couple that hosting you in their home as a guest. And on and on. What’s going on here? My guest whom we’ll call Jen has actually lived through all of this. Jen shares her long history as an affair partner whether she was cheating on her own husband or (when divorced) with someone else’s. It an adult life spent as the other woman. Join me to hear Jen’s story. Be a guest on the show: [email protected] IG @cheatingwhenloveslies for highlights from all the shows. Please subscribe, like and share with anyone whose life has been upended by infidelity. Thank you! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Can Oral Sex With Your Partner Make Affairs Less Tempting? What does this very intimate act say about the level of masterful communication you share or don’t with your partner? My guest, holistic life and relationship coach Alby James says giving and receiving oral sex is a clue into how much and your partner respect each other. Alby talks about oral sex, intimacy and how to achieve masterful communication based on his 16 year experience as a physical and emotional healer. Staying faithful- what’s oral sex got to do with it? Be a guest on the show: [email protected] IG @cheatingwhenloveslies for highlights from all the shows. Please subscribe like and share with anyone you know who’s been effected by infidelity. Thank you! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

We all took the week off to celebrate Thanksgiving with our families and friends, so we’ve brought back a favorite episode from the early days of CWLL. Imagine a lavish life with a wealthy husband where you feel secure that you and your children will be taken care of forever. Imagine the thrill of first-class vacations to your family's luxurious homes in the most exotic places. Imagine your husband spoiling you with expensive jewels and clothes. Imagine all this with a husband you're only mildly attracted to. On the other hand, what if you're a single mom, struggling financially to make ends meet - wondering from month to month how you're going to survive. Would you accept the proverbial man on a white horse coming to rescue you financially and emotionally? Even if that man is married? Even if you don't love him, or can barely bring yourself to have sex with him? Most women (at least publicly) say they would never find themselves in either circumstance, but given either situation what would you do? Lisa, my guest on this episode experienced not one, but both of these circumstances. Find out what she did to make it through. Be a guest on the show: [email protected] IG @cheatingwhenloveslies for highlights from all the shows. Please subscribe like and share with anyone you know who’s been affected by infidelity. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Tony and Nicole were secret lovers who became a couple after they cheated on and eventually left their spouses. They have that super passionate kind of love that takes you over, and you cannot deny. But what does an affair cost your children and the spouse you’ve left behind? They say, “he’ll never leave his wife” or “she’ll never leave her husband” but Tony did and Nicole did - right before Thanksgiving. Be a guest on the show: [email protected] IG @cheatingwhenloveslies for highlights from all the shows. Please subscribe like and share with anyone you know who’s been affected by infidelity. Thank you! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

This week we are bringing back one of our favorite episodes. When I was growing up a "hall pass" was the thing you needed in middle school in order to leave class and go to the bathroom. That's not what a "hall pass" is anymore. Today's definition is a lot sexier. According to my guest, a "hall pass" let's you cheat without begin called a cheater. Lets you explore without having to explain. Lets you have sex with someone else without exiting your relationship. It's time to get schooled on the "hall pass" with my guest relationship coach and top selling author Stacey Herrera. You can find Stacey at: https://twitter.com/StaceyNHerrera https://medium.com/@staceyherrera https://staceyherrera.com See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Finding your soulmate. Isn’t that the holy grail of love and relationships? It’s when you find the person who just gets you and wildly turns you on. Once we’re convinced that they’re the ONE, we marry them, or build a committed partnership with them, then swear nothing will ever tear us apart. Well — not so fast says my guest, author John P. Weiss. John is a celebrated writer and has a sizable following for his blog posts and essays about life and love. Combine that with John’s experience as a former police chief who witnessed firsthand some of the ugliest displays of cheating and affairs, and you’ve got John’s unique, eye-opening perspective on love and fidelity. IG @johnpweiss Books: What Life Should Be About: Elegant Essays on the Things That Matter, An Artful Life - Inspirational Stories and Essays for the Artist in Everyone, The Cartoon Art of John P. Weiss. @cheatingwhenlovelies To be a guest: [email protected] See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

I remember once a famous LA doctor said to me, Jillian everything seems so important until you get sick, then once you’re sick the only thing that matters is getting better. This was the situation for my guest and her husband who was so ill, he was often hospitalized. His wife believed he was receiving the best possible care, but something happened at the hospital that threatened to end their decades long marriage and broke her trust in him. I have the upmost respect for so many in the medical profession that keep us healthy and alive. So when I heard this story of deceit and misconduct inside the hospital —I just couldn’t believe it. Follow me on IG @cheatingwhenlovelies Want to be a guest? [email protected] Please subscribe and share! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

A woman comes into your husband’s life and captures his heart. Your husband and his new lover share emotional and physical intimacy and he can’t seem to leave this other woman’s side. His affair threatens your marriage, family, peace and serenity. This is what happened to my guest whom we’ll call Karen, whose hated for the other woman became enormous. How would you handle that hatred? Would you seek revenge, become depressed, or find a way to forgive? Join me to find out why Karen couldn’t live in hatred one day longer, and what she did to turn it all around. Follow me on IG @cheatingwhenlovelies. Want to be a guest? [email protected] Find relationship coach and Owner of Soulify Wellness Beth Miller at: http://www.facebook.com/soulifywellness/ http://www.facebook.com/soulifywellness/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCiHRjsv0neY3wWVlHLlMJJw See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

This week due to technical difficulties we are bringing back one of our favorite episodes. We’ve got lots of new guests and topics coming up! IG @cheatingwhenlovelies E-mail: jillianhamiltonpodcast.com Imagine you're a bride, and your fiancé invites a woman you barely know to your wedding under the guise that they're "just friends." He and his "friend" disappear from the reception for almost 2 hours and no one knows where they are. It's not surprising that shortly after the wedding this bride's marriage ends. According to John, my guest today, his girlfriend (this former bride and divorcee) became a cheater: an emotional cheater. John claims she was never a truly present and giving partner because everything she went through made her too guarded. John says that instead of nurturing their relationship, his girlfriend poured her affection, cuddles and kisses in another direction. She was so consumed with this "other" that John felt neglected and emotionally cheated on. What's surprising is that this "other" who stole the couples' intimacy away was his girlfriend's ... dog? On this episode my guest John and I discuss his unique perspective on emotional cheating. John also tells an incredible story of how a bride was forced to live out a cheating nightmare on her wedding day. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

On this episode, we meet Viveca (not her real name) who explains how she had a four year affair with a married man whose wife paid Viveca to do work in their home, and also asked her to babysit the couples’ daughter. It sounds astounding, but it was a Viveca’s ability to hide in plain sight that helped her keep her passionate affair going. How did she do this? How could she do this? Join me to find out. If you’d like to be a guest. [email protected] Follow us @cheatingwhenlovelies See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

About two years ago, a guy friend said to me “I know my best friend and he would never cheat on his wife. He just wouldn’t do it.” Because of this podcast I’m sworn to secrecy, so I couldn’t tell him that his best buddy was a flagrant philanderer who had cheated many times with many different women in both emotional and sexual affairs. As wives, husbands, partners, family members, and best friends, we can’t imagine that someone we know would ever have an emotional or physical affair. This is why it is not uncommon that I hear from betrayed partners, “I was blindsided when I found out!” This is what happened to my guest Shea. Shea is her real name because with the support of Shea’s husband, they decided together that appearing on Cheating: When Love Lies would be a part of Shea’s healing. Beth Miller, relationship coach and owner of Soulifywellness is back to share her relationship expertise. Do you think that your partner would never ever cheat on you? Well, so did Shea. @cheatingwhenlovelies @soulifywellness https://www.facebook.com/groups/infidelityaffairsupportforwomen/?ref=share_group_link (https://www.facebook.com/groups/ infidelityaffairsupportforwomen/?ref=share_group_link) See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

You catch your husband red-handed with the person you least suspect. How do you react? Do you break down in tears, or get angry and verbally attack your husband or his lover? My guest whom we’ll call Avery, faced this very situation when she caught her husband with another woman. Her husband was cheating with the one person Avery never thought would interfere in her marriage. How Avery reacted to what she saw was surprising and unexpected. Join relationship expect Beth Miller and me to find out what one wife did when she caught her husband pants down. — @cheatingwhenlovelies —JillianHamilton.online —@soulifywellness —soulifywellness.com See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

You meet the man of your dreams and you fall madly in love. He’s from another country, and his homeland is far from yours. One day he gets his dream job abroad and you agree to follow him to a foreign country, then back to his homeland to start a family. Years later the relationship starts to fall apart and he winds up having an affair. This is what happened to my guest whom we’ll call Susan. When Susan decides she wants to leave her cheating husband, she soon finds out that the worst part about following him wasn’t leaving her homeland, her parents or giving up her own career, but something far, far worse than she ever could have imagined. Joining Susan and me is Beth Miller, owner of Soulify Wellness. Beth’s 12 week program teaches women how to transform themselves in order to transform their lives and relationships. Using Beth’s Soulify Wellness method, Lee and many women explore memories and unprocessed emotions which are often the real reasons for the unhealthy patterns and communication issues in a marriage or partnership. Find Beth at: www.freemarriageguide.com/ www.instagram.com/soulifywellness/ www.facebook.com/soulifywellness/ www.soulifywellness.com https://www.facebook.com/groups/infidelityaffairsupportforwomen Share your own story at Jillianhamilton.online. Follow, subscribe and share @cheatingwhenlovelies See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

The man you’ve fallen in love with is another woman’s husband. As much as you try to resist the lure of his flirtation, eventually you succumb to his charm and start an affair. Your relationship with this married man feels deeply emotional, sexy and passionate. But when his wife finds out about you, the affair turns into a tumultuous saga involving you, your affair partner, his wife, his children, and your family. This is what happened to my guest whom we’ll call Nicole. The affair starts to spiral out of control and you’re going down with it. Then one day you and your affair partner’s wife uncover a painful truth that bonds you as confidantes and allies. As a wife, could you ever befriend your husband’s lover? See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

I discovered this week’s guest, best selling international author Christopher K. Lopez on Medium, where he publishes his top-rated articles about relationships. According to Christopher, what does love have to do with cheating?He says successful men like him can have women as either the main event, options, or back ups. But he also says that there is a way for women to earn what he calls the privilege of exclusivity. Join Christopher and me as we explore the question, “Do Men Cheat On Women They Love? @cheatingwhenlovelies www.Christopherklopez.com/book www. Christopherklopez.com @i_made_it_then_i_didnt See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Your husband has an affair which leads you to ask for a divorce. But it’s what you discover after you file for divorce that shocks you and has you facing a moral dilemma. Your husband’s been unfaithful and now you’re divorcing him, so what’s the use in trying to learn even more about his philandering ways - why torture yourself? My guest whom we’ll call Gail uncovered disturbing facts about her husband after his affair destroyed their marriage. Now Gail is facing a dilemma: should she warn her husband’s new girlfriend about his abusive and toxic behavior? Once you file for divorce are the effects of infidelity really over?Answer this episode’s listener question on IG @cheatingwhenlovelies. Find relationship coach and Owner of Soulify Wellness Beth Miller at: http://www.facebook.com/soulifywellness/ http://www.facebook.com/soulifywellness/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCiHRjsv0neY3wWVlHLlMJJw Find me @CheatingWhenLoveLies and JillianHamilton.online See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

As we wrap up vacation we bring you another favorite episode from the past. Look forward to new episodes coming soon. Gaslighting is a term we often hear, but would you know when and if it was happening to you? ??For those who don't know what gaslighting is, it's when someone tries to convince you that something they said or did never occurred. The gaslighter denies the reality of what you know happened, then makes you question yourself and what you know to be true.?? My guest today whom we'll call Wende (that's not her real name) was gaslighted throughout her nine year relationship, so she never really knew for sure if her partner cheated on her. I have my own point of view as to whether or not Wende's partner cheated, but I'll let you listen and decide what you think was really going on behind all that gaslighting.?? It will amaze you to learn what Wende's job is. It reminded me that love can sometimes obscure the most obvious of truths. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

We are still on vacation so please enjoy one of our favorite past episodes. On this episode we talk about fantasy: erotic fantasy worlds that men create in their minds inspired by scrolling social media. It's not about an addiction to porn, it's something else. A whole new world of fantasy that many men are addicted to despite the disastrous impact it has on marriages and partnerships. In my conversation with leading psychologist Dr. Jennifer Guttman we explore a whole new genre of cheating, that prior to social media, just did not exist. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

We are on vacation this week, so we are revisiting one of my favorite episodes from last summer. A mature married man who's been with his wife for 20 odd years decides to go off and have an affair with a hot young 20 or 30- year-old. Nothing newsworthy there. In fact, some more cynical types might say it's commonplace. But what about a mature married woman in her 40s or 50s having an affair with a married 20 or 30 something? It feels like she'd be tarred and feathered on Twitter. There's a double standard for women. On this episode we're going to talk to a mature married woman (we'll call Lisa) about her torrid affair with her married, much younger, hottie neighbor. Was it all she expected it to be? Lisa is not her real name is and her voice has been altered. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Emotional abuse comes in many forms: withholding affection, withholding sex, withholding money, and the particularly torturous one – gaslighting. That’s when your partner tries to convince you that what you’re feeling, thinking and seeing, and that you know to be true, well isn’t. You’re told you’re too sensitive and all your suspicions are just a figment of your imagination. With no money, no family and no support, my guest survived this and more emotional abuse. Margot is so confident in what she’s accomplished that she’s asked me not to disguise her voice or change her name. This is one badass woman. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

What if your husband’s affair partner is not only obsessed with your husband, but she’s also obsessed with you! She does everything in her power to lure your husband — like “mini dates,” disguised as dog walks, calls and incessant texts. But she also wants to know you so badly, she infiltrates your home and your online world to get as close to you as she possibly can. It’s intrusive. It’s bizarre. It’s creepy. And it all happened to my guest whom we’ll call Lee. Joining Lee and me is Beth Miller, owner of Soulify Wellness. Beth’s 12 week program teaches women how to transform themselves in order to transform their lives and relationships. Using Beth’s Soulify Wellness method, Lee and many women explore memories and unprocessed emotions which are often the real reasons for the unhealthy patterns and communication issues in a marriage or partnership. Find Beth at: www.freemarriageguide.com/ www.instagram.com/soulifywellness/ www.facebook.com/soulifywellness/ www.soulifywellness.com https://www.facebook.com/groups/infidelityaffairsupportforwomen See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

What have I learned about infidelity in since starting Cheating: When Love Lies? I get asked this question a lot, and recently listeners have written in to ask my own views on infidelity. What do I consider cheating? Who cheats more men or women? Should everyone get a hall pass? These and so many other questions. So on this episode, I’ve asked my friend, actor and podcast host Brendan Fitzgibbons to interview me. Brendan is the host of the podcasts Spiritual Assholes and Hammered Heroes. Brendan is hilarious and quick witted —the perfect person to have an informative but lively conversation about my experience on Cheating: When Love Lies. Brendan made it so great to be a guest on my own podcast. Check it out! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It’s hard to think of a more demoralizing and debilitating situation than this: your husband has an affair, and his affair partner gets pregnant. But wait — it gets worse because you were pregnant around the same time his lover was pregnant. This is what happened to my guest Carly. Will Carly choose to save her marriage and embrace her husband’s lover’s child? What would you do? Find Beth at: www.freemarriageguide.com/ www.instagram.com/soulifywellness/ www.facebook.com/soulifywellness/ www.soulifywellness.com https://www.facebook.com/groups/infidelityaffairsupportforwomen See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

You’re having an affair and you think your kids don’t know it? Well think again. My guest today is an extraordinary young woman who wrote in to share her story after listening to an earlier Cheating: When Love Lies episode called “When Your Kids Find Out You Cheated.” In that episode a woman in her 50s, told us how in her teens, she discovered her mother was having an affair. This episode’s guest (we’ll call her Tina) lived a similar situation when she discovered her own father was having an affair. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

So many times we hear how people, both women and men hesitate to leave a relationship even when bad things happen. But not my guest — award winning host of the podcasts “Dying For Sex” and “Near Death,”actress and singer Nikki Boyer. Nikki made a split second decision to leave her cheating boyfriend and never looked back. But she’s still talking about him, even today 20 years later. Ummm? Was she too hasty in her decision to leave or right to immediately cut her cheating boyfriend loose! @Nikkiboyer IG and Twitter The Real Nikki Boyer Tik Tok NikkiBoyer FB See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Your husband is sending gifts to another woman who is a stripper. This situation raises so many questions. Does my husband frequent strip clubs? How extravagant are these gifts? Is this a full blown affair? Why did he choose a stripper over me? My guest today is a wife we’ll call Kathy who has lived this predicament. Joining Kathy and me is Beth Miller, owner of Soulify Wellness. Beth is an integral part of Kathy’s support system as she tries to comprehend her husband’s relationship with the stripper. Beth’s 12 week program teaches women how to transform themselves in order to transform their lives and relationships. Using Beth’s Soulify Wellness method, Kathy and many women explore memories and unprocessed emotions which are often the real reasons for the unhealthy patterns and communication issues in a marriage or partnership. http://www.facebook.com/soulifywellness/ http://www.facebook.com/soulifywellness/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCiHRjsv0neY3wWVlHLlMJJw See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

On this episode we have a panel discussion with two ladies whose marriages were scorched by infidelity along with their relationship coach Beth Miller. Beth’s 12 week program teaches women how to transform themselves in order to transform their lives and relationships. Using Beth’s Soulify Wellness method, my two guests, Anne and Marie explore memories and unprocessed emotions which are often the real reasons for the unhealthy patterns and communication issues in a marriage or partnership. Anne and Marie share intimate details of why they believe their husbands had affairs and why they find it so incredibly difficult to know how to move forward after betrayal. Beth facilitates our chat by offering professional insight into why my guests and so many betrayed women act as they do. Beth Miller Soulify Marriage Saver Program. www. soulifywellness.com See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

You're a devoted husband with a loving, committed and intelligent wife. You want to family; a traditional American dream with a wife, kids, and a cozy home. But secretly you're in love with another man. You and he have an emotional, passionate and sexy love affair that you can't seem to put aside. For my guests today, Mark and David (not their real names or voices) this was their life, until more than a decade after they met, their lives were changed forever. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

You’re a husband. A good guy, a strong provider and a very present dad. Despite that, your wife goes out and cheats on you. You struggle to hold your marriage together and somehow you manage to. But what happens if once again your wife’s behavior starts to get well, weird. Do you still trust her, investigate or leave? This episode’s guest, Harrison Scott Key answers this question in his new book called “How To Stay Married-The Most Insane Love Story Ever Told.” Find out what happens when a man of deep faith questions whether to preserve the bonds of holy matrimony or leave his wife’s affairs, deceit and emotional abuse behind. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.