"But Jesus Drank Wine" & Other Stories That Kept Us Stuck

It's Christmas season, babe! 🎁✨ And if this time of year has ever felt like a lot, the hustle, the planning, the pressure, the trying-to-do-all-the-things, we get it. And we've been there. But what if Christmas didn't have to feel that way anymore? In this week's episode, we're sharing The 10 Best Things About an Alcohol-Free Christmas, the gifts of peace, presence, and actual JOY that come when we take alcohol off the table. From savoring real holiday magic with our kids… to waking up on Christmas morning feeling rested and alive… to actually tasting the cheese board (can we get an amen?)… This episode will give you a fresh vision of what's not only possible, but SO much better. Whether this is your first holiday season alcohol-free, or your 10th, or you're just sober-curious, this list will make you want to grab a cozy mocktail, light up your tree, and celebrate everything you're gaining this year. 🎄🩷 ✨ What You'll Learn in This Episode Why slowing down becomes your new holiday tradition How Christmas becomes more magical when you're actually present The underrated joy of hangover-free holiday travel Why kids get the BEST version of you when you're alcohol-free How Jesus takes up more space when wine doesn't 💌 Links & Resources: 🤝 Join our community: https://butjesusdrankwine.com/community 📖 Order your copy of Love Life Sober: A 40 Day Alcohol Fast to Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health, and Renew Your Mind https://amzn.to/42l7z9C 📲 Connect on Instagram: @butjesusdrankwine 🎥 Watch on YouTube: Come hang out with us HERE ! The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Have you ever looked in the mirror and felt stuck with your own body—in a similar way you've felt stuck with alcohol?That exhausting push-pull. The promises. The shame. The "why do I keep doing this?" on repeat. If that sounds familiar, this conversation is for you. For the woman who's tried willpower, plans, promises, and prayers—yet still feels stuck in the cycle of body image battles, emotional eating, and quiet self-criticism. Friend, you are not alone. And you are not broken. Leanne joins us to share her powerful story of moving from food addiction and shame to true healing—rooted in both neuroscience and the unshakable love of God. What once felt like a personal failure of discipline became a holy revelation: real change happens when we understand our nervous system, renew our minds, and invite God into the process with us. In this episode, we talk honestly about how self-image shapes our choices, why "knowing better" isn't the same as healing, and how faith and neuroscience beautifully work together to bring lasting freedom. Just like with alcohol, you'll hear how the breakthrough didn't come from trying harder—but from partnering with God differently. You'll also hear how Leanne learned to separate who she is from what she struggled with—and how that shift opened the door to peace, empowerment, and a new identity grounded in Christ. If you've ever wondered why you keep doing the very thing you swore you wouldn't—whether with food, alcohol, or anything else—this episode will remind you: you're not failing—you're in formation. And God isn't standing at a distance. He's right in the middle of your becoming. 📘 What You'll Learn in This Episode How Leanne's journey began with years of wrestling with food, shame, and body image Why understanding your nervous system can change everything about emotional eating The role of free will—and why God invites us into transformation rather than forcing it Why self-image work is essential for lasting change How neuroscience helps explain the patterns behind our behaviors Why healing requires both head knowledge and heart alignment The freedom that comes from separating your identity from your struggles How God's unconditional love becomes the foundation for real self-acceptance Why true transformation is always a partnership between you and God 💡 Mind–Body Renewal Practices to Try This Week Speak one truth about your identity in Christ every morning Pause and breathe when a craving hits and ask: "What is my nervous system needing right now?" Replace negative self-talk with: "This is who I was. This is who I'm becoming." Invite God into your healing with a simple daily prayer: "Renew my mind, Lord." Keep a small journal of "behavioral wins" to train your brain to notice progress Practice mirror gratitude—thank God for one part of your body each day 💌 Links & Resources You can learn more about Leanne's work at LeanneEllington.com and StresslessEating.com or follow Leanne on instagram @leanneellington. 🤝 Join our community: https://butjesusdrankwine.com/community 📖 Order your copy of Love Life Sober: A 40 Day Alcohol Fast to Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health, and Renew Your Mind https://amzn.to/42l7z9C 📲 Connect on Instagram: @butjesusdrankwine 🎥 Watch on YouTube: Come hang out with us HERE ! The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

​​This week, we're leaning into the season of Thanksgiving, and talking about how gratitude really does change everything. 🦃✨ We all know we "should" be grateful, but when life feels heavy, the kids are loud, or your to-do list is a mile long… does gratitude actually help? (Spoiler: yes! And science agrees with what Scripture said all along!) In this conversation, we unpack how gratitude is not just a feel-good exercise, it's a spiritual and neurological reset that can lower stress, boost dopamine and serotonin, and literally rewire your brain for joy. You'll hear how our own sober Thanksgivings shifted from chaotic to peaceful, why slowing down is the secret to rewiring your mind, and how gratitude becomes the bridge from striving to worship. Whether you're early in your alcohol-free exodus or simply craving more peace this holiday season, this episode will help you pause, breathe, and remember: You don't need more wine to feel joy—you need more wonder. 📘 What You'll Learn in This Episode Why gratitude is literally the antidote to anxiety (Philippians 4:6–8) The neuroscience behind how thankfulness rewires your brain for peace How alcohol trains your brain for "fast relief" and gratitude retrains it for lasting joy Practical ways to slow down, stay present, and practice gratitude daily Why gratitude transforms your relationship with God, and everyone else 💡 Tiny Tina Gratitude Practices Say "thank you, Lord for ___" at every stoplight this week 🚦 Write (or voice note) 3 things you're grateful for before bed Practice breath prayer: Jesus in. Me out. Share one "proof of progress" in the community—big or small Turn up Gratitude by Brandon Lake or Goodness of God and worship it out 🎶 Memorize Philippians 4:6–8 to anchor your thoughts in truth Look in the mirror and thank God for who you're becoming 💌 Links & Resources Join The January 2026 40-Day Alcohol Fast! https://butjesusdrankwine.myflodesk.com/januaryfast 📖 Books Mentioned: A Thousand Gifts by Ann Voskamp The Keeping Company Gratitude Journal Love Life Sober: A 40 Day Alcohol Fast to Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health, and Renew Your Mind Breath as Prayer By Jennifer Tucker. 🎧 Worship Songs Mentioned: Gratitude — Brandon Lake Goodness of God — Jenn Johnson 🤝 Join our community: https://butjesusdrankwine.com/community 📖 Order your copy of Love Life Sober: A 40 Day Alcohol Fast to Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health, and Renew Your Mind https://amzn.to/42l7z9C 📲 Connect on Instagram: @butjesusdrankwine 🎥 Watch on YouTube: Come hang out with us HERE ! The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

This week's episode is a little different. We're pulling back the curtain on one of our BJDW Community Masterclasses, the kind of deep, beautiful, heart-level conversations we host each month with special guests to encourage our community gals on the journey to freedom. We're joined by Sharon Hodde Miller, author of Free of Me and Gazing at God, to unpack the root of insecurity, and why we often feel insecure when we're standing on something shaky. Sharon shares how our culture has taught us to treat insecurity by focusing more on ourselves… when the real freedom comes from shifting our gaze to God. She talks about why self-focus is exhausting, what true biblical self-denial looks like (hint: it's not self-rejection), and how to spot when we've made something about us that was never meant to be. If you've ever found yourself striving for validation, wrestling with comparison, or feeling "not enough" in your faith, parenting, or purpose, this conversation is going to offer you so much encouragement!. 🙌 💡What You'll Learn in This Episode Why you sometimes feel insecure because you're standing on something insecure The two causes of insecurity and why self-focus is often the hidden one What the Bible really says when people bring their insecurities to God The difference between self-denial and self-rejection (and why it matters) How "self-focus" often masks pain or unhealed wounds What to do when insecurity or comparison starts spiraling How to gently re-center your gaze on God instead of yourself 💌 Links & Resources: Join The January 2026 40-Day Alcohol Fast! https://butjesusdrankwine.myflodesk.com/januaryfast Books by Sharon Hodde Miller: Free of Me: Why Life Is Better When It's Not About YouGazing at God: Discovering the Freedom of a God-Centered Life Sharon's First Podcast With Us: Free of Me: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-jesus-drank-wine-other-stories-that-kept-us-stuck/id1661252590?i=1000651035959 🤝 Join our community: https://butjesusdrankwine.com/community 📖 Order your copy of Love Life Sober: A 40 Day Alcohol Fast to Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health, and Renew Your Mind https://amzn.to/42l7z9C 📲 Connect on Instagram: @butjesusdrankwine 🎥 Watch on YouTube: Come hang out with us HERE ! The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Have you ever wondered why traditional recovery works for some people—but didn't quite fit for you? This week, we're pulling back the curtain with our friend and BJDW team member Heather whose journey to freedom started inside a rehab program that followed a 12-step model…and ended in a deeper, Jesus-led transformation. Heather opens up about what she learned, what didn't resonate, and how she found freedom—not just sobriety—through faith, community, and truth. If you've ever felt out of place in traditional recovery, or wrestled with words like powerless and alcoholic, this conversation is going to set something free inside you. 📘 What You'll Learn in This Episode: The parts of traditional recovery that helped Heather build early sobriety. The moments she knew she needed "something more" than meetings. Why labeling herself "powerless" didn't align with her identity in Christ. How she integrated her faith into a secular recovery space—and what changed when she stopped compartmentalizing. The difference between sobriety and freedom (and why one without the other still feels stuck). The emotional sobriety piece that's often missing in traditional models. How Jesus met her in unexpected places—from rehab groups to backyard birthday parties. Why community, not control, is what actually sustains transformation. 💌 Links & Resources: Join The January 2026 40-Day Alcohol Fast! https://butjesusdrankwine.myflodesk.com/januaryfast Previous Episodes Mentioned: Heather D's First Episode: From High-Achieving to Healing, Heather Dillion's Story God Doesn't Call You An Alcoholic, He Calls You His Beloved Daughter 🤝 Join our community: https://butjesusdrankwine.com/community 📖 Order your copy of Love Life Sober: A 40 Day Alcohol Fast to Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health, and Renew Your Mind https://amzn.to/42l7z9C 📲 Connect on Instagram: @butjesusdrankwine 🎥 Watch on YouTube: Come hang out with us HERE ! The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Today we're joined by one of the world's leading experts on teen drinking and prevention—Professor Rob Turrisi, a Penn State researcher whose 35+ years of work have shaped national programs through MADD (Mothers Against Drunk Driving) and schools across the U.S. In this important and hope-filled conversation, Professor Turrisi unpacks why teens start drinking, what actually works when it comes to prevention, and how parents can foster healthy, connected relationships that reduce risk and build trust. If you're a parent, mentor, teacher, or anyone who cares about the next generation, this episode offers both science and a compassionate look at what helps, what doesn't, and how small, everyday actions can have lifelong impact. 📘 What You'll Learn in This Episode: Why even "just a sip" matters more than you might think The number one thing parents can do to reduce harm to their teenagers How to discourage drinking without creating rebellion or shame The surprising truth about "supervised drinking" and why it backfires How early drinking affects brain development, liver health, and long-term outcomes The real statistics behind college drinking—and the 75 lives lost every weekend in the U.S. How to talk to your kids about peer pressure and what to say when they say "everyone's doing it" The five parenting practices that build resilience and connection: positive communication, modeling, gratitude, creating a welcoming environment, and shared decision-making Why delaying alcohol use is one of the greatest gifts we can give our teens 💌 Links & Resources: 🤝 Join our community: https://butjesusdrankwine.com/community 📖 Order your copy of Love Life Sober: A 40 Day Alcohol Fast to Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health, and Renew Your Mind https://amzn.to/42l7z9C 📲 Connect on Instagram: @butjesusdrankwine 🎥 Watch on YouTube: Come hang out with us HERE ! The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Today's episode is one of those that reminds us why we do this! We're joined by our beloved community member Margie, who shares her breathtaking story of redemption — a story marked by God's fingerprints in every moment, from early struggles with alcohol to the steady unfolding of peace, purpose, and true freedom in Christ. What began decades ago as a quiet search for belonging became a story of divine pursuit — one where God never stopped showing up, even when shame, anxiety, and vodka tried to take the lead. Margie opens up about the hard years, the miracle moments, and the countless little ways God met her — sometimes in spilled drinks, sometimes in worship songs, and always in love. Whether you're still in the messy middle or walking in freedom, this conversation will help you start spotting God's fingerprints in your own story, because He's closer than you think. 📘 What You'll Learn in This Episode: How Margie's lifelong relationship with alcohol began and how God patiently rewrote her story. The difference between striving for control and surrendering to grace. How worship, Scripture, and the BJDW community helped her break the cycle of shame and isolation. Why vulnerability is the bridge between stuck and free. What it really means to trust God's timing. How to look for God's way out, even when you miss it, and return to gratitude the next day. The freedom that comes when shame no longer silences your story. 💡 Tiny Tina Tip:If you're praying for God to help you in temptation — look for His fingerprints.They might show up in small interruptions, a worship lyric, or a gentle nudge from someone who loves you. Even if you miss them in the moment, thank Him the next day. He's always faithful. 💌 Links & Resources: 🤝 Join our community: https://butjesusdrankwine.com/community 📖 Order your copy of Love Life Sober: A 40 Day Alcohol Fast to Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health, and Renew Your Mind 📲 Connect on Instagram: @butjesusdrankwine 🎥 Watch on YouTube: Come hang out with us there! The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

We're celebrating something special today, Amber's one-year alcohol-free anniversary! 🩷 Amber is not only a beloved member of our But Jesus Drank Wine community, she's also part of our leadership team, guiding women toward freedom with compassion, wisdom, and grace. In this heartfelt and hope-filled conversation, Amber shares her powerful story, from binge drinking and endless moderation "rules" to finding peace, purpose, and freedom through Christ. She opens up about the fears she had around her marriage, motherhood, and social life… and how God met her in every single one of them. Whether you're just beginning to question your relationship with alcohol or already walking your own exodus, Amber's story will remind you that you're not alone, and surrender is where freedom begins. 📘 What You'll Learn in This Episode: The exhausting cycle of guilt, shame, and 3 a.m. wake-ups (and what finally broke it). Why moderation rules don't work — even for disciplined women — and what does. How faith-based support and community transformed her healing journey. The fear of losing her marriage, and how God made it even stronger without alcohol. What it's like to celebrate big milestones (like your 40th birthday!) sober and joy-filled. How planning ahead helped her stay grounded at parties, vacations, and social events. How her anxiety and prayer life completely changed when alcohol left the picture. What freedom looks like in marriage, motherhood, and everyday joy. 💌 Links & Resources: 🤝 Join our community: https://butjesusdrankwine.com/community 📖 Order your copy of Love Life Sober: A 40 Day Alcohol Fast to Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health, and Renew Your Mind 📲 Connect on Instagram: @butjesusdrankwine 🎥 Watch on YouTube: Come hang out with us there! The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

What if God already knows your every thought—and still loves you? In this Scripture meditation on Psalm 139:1–4, we begin our Fully Known, Fully Loved series with a reflection on God's deep, intimate knowledge of us. Using the Lectio Divina method, we'll gently meditate on the reality that God knows every word before we speak it, every move before we make it—and none of that scares Him away. In a world obsessed with self-discovery, these verses remind us of something even more powerful: Before we try to figure ourselves out… God already knows. And His love is unwavering. In this guided Christian meditation, you'll be invited to: • Reflect on what it means to be fully known by God • Consider how God sees and understands you with perfect love • Rest in the truth that His knowledge of you is not threatening—but comforting 📓 Download your FREE companion journal for the Fully Known, Fully Loved series https://jodieniznik.myflodesk.com/fullyloved This journal includes: • All the Scriptures for this series • Weekly reflection prompts • Space to record what God is revealing to you Here are some additional helpful links: You can find out more about me, Jodie, at http://www.jodieniznik.com/ Follow me on Instagram @jodieniznik Follow me on Facebook @JodieGNiznik Learn more about Scripture meditation and download a FREE Guided Scripture Meditation Journal here. Join my Monday email newsletter here, where I send links to the newest meditation every Monday morning. Find out more about my partner, Life Audio, at lifeaudio.com. Download FREE sample chapters from my Bible studies here. Entire Meditation Text:Psalm 139:1–6 (NLT) 1 O LORD, you have examined my heart and know everything about me. 2 You know when I sit down or stand up. You know my thoughts even when I'm far away. 3 You see me when I travel and when I rest at home. You know everything I do. 4 You know what I am going to say even before I say it, LORD. 5 You go before me and follow me. You place your hand of blessing on my head. 6 Such knowledge is too wonderful for me, too great for me to understand! Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

We're thrilled to welcome our new friend Jodie Niznik to the studio today! Jodie is the host of So Much More, a Scripture meditation podcast that helps women slow down, create space to listen to God, and move biblical truth from head knowledge to heart transformation. In this conversation, Jodie shares how Scripture meditation has become a lifeline for women who feel stuck in doing all the things, and why creating space to simply be with Jesus is often the missing piece for those breaking free from alcohol, people-pleasing, or performance. Whether you're just curious about taking a break from alcohol, walking your own exodus, or longing to deepen your relationship with Jesus, this episode will encourage you to slow down, listen, and start small. 📘 What You'll Learn in This Episode: Why head knowledge isn't enough, and how Scripture meditation moves truth from your mind to your heart and hands. The difference between Eastern "empty your mind" meditation and biblical "fill your mind" meditation. The brain science behind creating new grooves for peace instead of spirals of anxiety and craving. How to begin (even if you're busy or intimidated!) with just five minutes a day. Why slowing down is essential for real transformation, and simple ways to start. How to help your kids recognize God's voice and discern His leading. A sneak peek at the practices Jodie will teach live inside our community this October. 💌 Links & Resources: 🗓️ Join Jodie's Live Masterclass in the BJDW Community — October 21, 2025Learn and practice breath prayer, Lectio Divina, and the Examen with Jodie in real time by joining us inside the BJDW Community. 🎧 Listen to Jodie's Podcast — So Much MoreA weekly Scripture meditation podcast designed to help you slow down and experience God's peace. 📖 Order your copy of Love Life Sober: A 40 Day Alcohol Fast to Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health, and Renew Your Mind 📲 Connect on Instagram: @butjesusdrankwine 🎥 Watch on YouTube: Come hang out with us HERE! The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Whether you're asking "Do I drink to slow down?" or "How do I build healthier rhythms without adding more to-do lists," this episode is practical, encouraging, and full of real-life examples that'll give you ideas you can try this week. We're back with Lauren, this time digging into pace, rhythms, and how busyness intertwined with drinking and why alcohol felt like the only "off" switch 📘 What you'll learn in this episode Lauren's personal story: the fall that stopped her in her tracks, the cascade of overwhelm that followed, and how pace contributed to her drinking. Why hurry is spiritually dangerous, and how hurry and sin produce the same effect: cutting us off from God, others, and our own souls. The subtle trap: "I drink to slow down" — why it feels helpful in the moment and why it actually fuels worse sleep, anxiety, and overwhelm. Practical rhythm wins: Morning prayer + journaling, needlepoint Sabbath-ish screen breaks, shifting chores off Sundays, and asking "What can I offload?" The myth of productivity-as-worth: why busyness can be an avoidance strategy and how to start disentangling worth from to-do lists. Real hope for "boredom" fears: boredom at first is normal — it's not the same as peace — and the horizon of meaningful, non-alcoholic rest gets easier with practice. Lauren's other episodes: Lauren's Freedom From Alcohol Beginning Story Letting Go of Moderation As The Goal Resources Mentioned: The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry: How to Stay Emotionally Healthy and Spiritually Alive in the Chaos of the Modern World by John Mark Comer 🤝 Join our community: https://butjesusdrankwine.com/community 📖 Order your copy of Love Life Sober: A 40 Day Alcohol Fast to Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health, and Renew Your Mind 📲 Instagram: @butjesusdrankwine 🎥 We're on YouTube too—come hang out!The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

If you've ever wondered why certain patterns keep repeating, or how to stop passing pain down the line, this conversation is for you. This week we're joined by Gina Birkemeier, LPC—licensed professional counselor, international speaker, and award-winning author of Generations Deep: Unmasking Inherited Dysfunction and Trauma to Rewrite Our Stories Through Faith and Therapy. Gina specializes in generational trauma and the intersection of faith and psychology, bringing nearly two decades of clinical work (and her own story) to help people rewrite their narratives through the lens of faith, science, and hope. 📘 What you'll learn in this episode Invisible scripts & attachment: How early patterns (spoken and unspoken) shape identity, coping, and relationships—and how to name them. Curiosity over combat: Why shouting Bible verses at intrusive thoughts often backfires, and how to pull weeds (roots) before planting truth. After year one AF: Why sobriety can get harder once the behavior changes—because now you're facing the drivers beneath the drinking. Epigenetics ≠ destiny: Family history creates predisposition, not a prison. What rewiring looks like physiologically and spiritually. Repair with kids: How to apologize well, reopen connection, and invite ongoing feedback without sliding into shame. Inner-child work with Jesus: Meeting unmet needs with compassion when parents couldn't—or can't—do the repair. Faith + therapy together: How Scripture and nervous-system wisdom align ("be transformed by the renewing of your mind"). 💌 Resources & Links: Gina's Book: Generations Deep: Unmasking Inherited Dysfunction and Trauma to Rewrite Our Stories Through Faith and Therapy. 🤝 Join our community: https://butjesusdrankwine.com/community 📖 Order your copy of Love Life Sober: A 40 Day Alcohol Fast to Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health, and Renew Your Mind 📲 Instagram: @butjesusdrankwine🎥 We're on YouTube too—come hang out!The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Will people still like me? Will I be boring? Will I be left out? We've been there, and today our team joins us to share the real story of how friendships shift… and why the changes are ultimately a beautiful blessing.You'll hear honest fears, surprising blessings, and practical ways to navigate social life alcohol-free, without losing yourself (or your true people).📘 What you'll learn in this episode: From fear to freedom: The most common friendship worries (being "boring," losing invites, not fitting in) and what actually happened. Practicing new social firsts: Weddings, themed parties, girls' nights, how repetition makes it normal (and fun) to show up sober. Quality over quantity: Redefining friendship from "people I drink with" to mutual care, honesty, and presence. Vulnerability vs. lowered inhibitions: Why real connection requires trust, not cocktails, and how to build it. The ripple effect: How your "no" can give someone else permission to skip the drink too. Loosening your grip: Offering up friendships you're clinging to and watching God bring better-than-expected community. 🕊️ Scripture woven through: Romans 12:2 — Don't conform; be transformed. Ephesians 3:16–20 — God does immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine. Genesis 22 — Trusting God with what you love (Abraham & Isaac). 💌 Resources & Links:🤝 Join our community: https://butjesusdrankwine.com/community 📖 Order your copy of Love Life Sober: A 40 Day Alcohol Fast to Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health, and Renew Your Mind 📲 Instagram: @butjesusdrankwine 🎥 We're on YouTube too—come hang out! The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

For the first time ever, we recorded with the team in person—from our Leadership Retreat in Colorado Springs! Join us (plus Sam, Amber, Jill, Tracy, Kelsey, and Lauren) for a cozy, honest roundtable. We talk about the moment each of us got brave, how community breaks shame, and the surprising ways love, joy, and peace grow when alcohol isn't running the show. Whether you're just getting curious or already walking your own alcohol exodus, this one's rich with real-life stories, practical shifts, and Scripture-rooted encouragement. 📘 What you'll learn in this episode: From "stuck" to starting: Why the first step is the hardest, and how surrender (not control) actually moves you forward. Breaking shame in community: How saying it out loud with safe people dismantles isolation and accelerates healing (Romans 12:2 vibes). Everyday proof of change: Driving the rental car, offering to be DD, cooking dinner with joy, early mornings with God, what freedom looks like IRL. Finding real LJP (Love, Joy, Peace): The quiet practices that replace the evening pour—prayer, needlepoint/creative work, a walk, a mocktail, joyful movement, Scripture. The stories that kept us stuck: "I need it to relax," "I'll lose friends," "What if I can't change?"—and what God revealed on the other side. Marriage & friendships: Why connection deepens (not shrinks) when alcohol isn't mediating the relationship. A better-than-expected life: Ephesians 3:16–20 in action—how God keeps doing immeasurably more than we asked or imagined. 🕊️ Scripture woven through: Romans 12:2 — Don't conform; be transformed. Ephesians 3:16–20 — Immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine. 🤝 Join our community: https://butjesusdrankwine.com/community 📖 Order your copy of Love Life Sober: A 40 Day Alcohol Fast to Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health, and Renew Your Mind 📲 Connect on Instagram: @butjesusdrankwine 🎥 We're on YouTube too—come hang out! The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

We did it! This episode was recorded in person at our first Leadership Retreat in Colorado Springs, CO. We share the heart behind the weekend, how this ministry began, and what God is building through community. You'll also get a sneak peek at the next two episodes featuring stories from our leadership team, on life after alcohol and the "friendship shuffle." Whether you've been with us since Episode 1 or you're brand new, we hope this behind-the-scenes conversation makes you feel right at home with us. In this episode: Retreat highlights: worship around the fire (bear visit included 🐻), shared meals, prayer over every community member by name, and recording together for the first time. The origin story: how a cold email became a friendship, a podcast, and, surprise to us, a ministry. Why community matters: the difference between white-knuckling alone and growing together around Jesus (not wine). Work God has done: what freedom looks like years later, and why it keeps getting better. What's coming next: two team episodes on (1) the biggest life changes after alcohol and (2) navigating friendships as you grow. An invitation: pray with us as we plan our first in-person gatherings for the whole community. 📖 Order your copy of Love Life Sober: A 40 Day Alcohol Fast to Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health, and Renew Your Mind 🤝 Join our community: https://butjesusdrankwine.com/community 📲 Connect on Instagram: @butjesusdrankwine 🎥 We're on YouTube too—come hang out! The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Sign up for the September 40 Day Fast here: https://butjesusdrankwine.myflodesk.com/septemberfast In Week 6—the final week—of our 6-part Monday series walking through Love Life Sober: A 40 Day Alcohol Fast, we're covering Days 35–40. These last chapters are all about navigating real-life situations, confronting shame, and stepping fully into lasting freedom. From the workplace happy hour to vacation cocktails, from cultural pressures like "mommy wine time" to the quiet work of letting go of fixation—this week brings together everything you've learned and invites you to reflect on how far you've come. Whether you've been with us since Day 1 or you're just dropping in, this episode will leave you inspired, equipped, and ready to walk forward in confidence and joy—rooted in your identity in Christ. 📘 This week covers: 💼 Day 35: Alcohol and the OfficeHow to navigate workplace drinking culture with grace and confidence. ⛓️ Day 36: Breaking the Chains of ShameThe truth about shame, why it's not from God, and how to walk in freedom. 🍼 Day 37: Sobering Up to Mommy Wine CultureUnpacking the cultural messages around "wine mom" life—and how to create new narratives. ✈️ Day 38: Travel and Vacations Without AlcoholHow to enjoy every moment of your trip without needing a drink to make it "special." 🔓 Day 39: Fixated or Free?Moving from obsessing about not drinking to living in true, joyful freedom. 🌅 Day 40: Reflections on the JourneyLooking back on the fast, celebrating transformation, and setting your eyes on what's next. 💌 Resources & Links: 📣 Join the September 40 Day FastRegistration is open now for the next live-coached 40 Day Alcohol Fast starting September 8! Walk through the fast in real time with coaching, community, and the support you need to finish strong. 👉 Sign up here: https://butjesusdrankwine.myflodesk.com/septemberfast 📖 Order your copy of Love Life Sober: A 40 Day Alcohol Fast to Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health, and Renew Your Mind 🤝 Join our community: https://butjesusdrankwine.com/community 📲 Connect on Instagram: @butjesusdrankwine 🎥 We're on YouTube too—come hang out! The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Sign up for the September 40 Day Fast HERE! In Week 5 of our 6-part Monday series walking through Love Life Sober: A 40 Day Alcohol Fast, we're diving into Days 28–34—and this episode is full of aha moments, empowering truths, and vulnerable conversations to support your sober journey. Whether you're navigating emotional ups and downs, feeling disconnected from your values, or questioning what fun looks like without alcohol—this episode will meet you there. 📘 This week covers: 💁‍♀️ Day 28: Renewing Your ConfidenceWhy alcohol isn't the confidence booster we think it is—and how to build real confidence that sticks. ⚠️ Day 29: The Hidden Dangers of AlcoholWe unpack the truth about alcohol's effects on the body, brain, gut, and heart—plus how knowledge leads to freedom. 🚫 Day 30: The Myth of Clean WineSpoiler alert: there's no such thing. Clean wine is clever marketing, not truth. 🎉 Day 31: Redefining FunWhen chaos isn't fun anymore—how to rediscover joy, spontaneity, and peace on your own terms. 💬 Day 32: Filling the Gap & Embracing EmotionLearning to sit in discomfort, feel feelings, and meet God right in the middle of it. 💡 Day 33: Reclaiming Your ValuesWhat matters most to you? And how has alcohol pulled you away from it? This is your call to realign. 🤝 Day 34: Rediscovering True ConnectionHow sobriety deepens your relationships—with God, your people, and your purpose. 💌 Resources & Links: 📣 Join the September 40 Day FastRegistration is open now for the next live-coached 40 Day Alcohol Fast starting September 8! Walk through the fast in real time with coaching, community, and the support you need to finish strong. 👉 Sign up here: https://butjesusdrankwine.myflodesk.com/septemberfast 🎙️Past episodes mentioned: 10 Reasons Living Alcohol-Free Has Made Us More Confident Realigning with Your Core Values with Pastor David 📖 Order your copy of Love Life Sober: A 40 Day Alcohol Fast to Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health, and Renew Your Mind 🤝 Join our community: https://butjesusdrankwine.com/community 📲 Connect on Instagram: @butjesusdrankwine 🎥 We're on YouTube too—come hang out! The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

📣 Sign up for the September 40 Day Fast Here! In Week 4 of our 6-part series walking through Love Life Sober: A 40 Day Alcohol Fast, we're diving into Days 22–27—a powerful stretch of the fast that explores identity, grief, breaking generational cycles, and some surprising truths about alcohol, anxiety, and even biblical wine. Whether you're navigating this fast in real time or simply curious about how a 40-day alcohol break can deepen your faith, this episode offers honest stories, practical tools, and fresh encouragement for the journey. 📘 This week covers: 💔 Day 22: Grieving Your Old SelfLetting go of false identities and the "party girl" past can bring grief—but also space for God to reveal who you really are. 🕊️ Day 23: The Truth About TasteIf you think you'll never stop loving the taste of wine, think again. We unpack the neuroscience behind cravings and how taste buds (and hearts) truly change. 🌱 Day 24: The Joy of Leading by ExampleAre you the first in your family or friend group to take a break from drinking? You're not alone, and your obedience could ripple out further than you think. 🍷 Day 25: Jesus and WineDid Jesus really drink wine? And what does that mean for us today? We go behind the scenes on how this chapter (and podcast!) came to be. 🌈 Day 26: The Science of JoyAlcohol hijacks our dopamine—and with it, our joy. We explore how your brain rewires and joy returns in sobriety. ⚠️ Day 27: Alcohol and AnxietyIs alcohol easing your anxiety—or fueling it? We share stories, science, and hope for anyone stuck in the stress-drink-repeat cycle. 💌 Resources & Links: 📣 Join the September 40 Day Fast We start September 8! Walk through the fast with coaching, community, and daily encouragement. Sign up here 🎙️Past episodes mentioned: How Alcohol Hijacks Our Mental Health with William Porter 📖 Order your copy of Love Life Sober: A 40 Day Alcohol Fast to Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health, and Renew Your Mind 🤝 Join our community: https://butjesusdrankwine.com/community 📲 Connect on Instagram: @butjesusdrankwine 🎥 We're on YouTube too—come hang out! The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Sign up for the September 40 Day Fast here: https://butjesusdrankwine.myflodesk.com/septemberfast In Week 3 of our 6-part Monday series walking through Love Life Sober: A 40 Day Alcohol Fast, we're diving into Days 14–21—and this episode is rich with practical tools, mindset shifts, and grace-filled encouragement to support your alcohol-free journey. Whether you're mid-fast, gearing up for September's live-coached fast, or simply sober-curious, these reflections and real-life stories will help you renew your mind and stay the course. 📘 This week covers: 🧁 Day 14: Navigating Sugar CravingsWhy sugar hits so hard in early sobriety—and how to give yourself grace while blood sugar and dopamine rebalance. 🧠 Day 15: Exploring Alcohol Use ModelsDisease model? Learning model? Self-medication? Understanding different frameworks can help you name your story—and start changing it. 😴 Day 16: Sleep and SobrietyWe share how sobriety gave her the best sleep of her life (and why that matters more than we think). 😬 Day 17: "It's Not About You, It's About Them"What to do when others make your not-drinking... about them. Yep, we've been there. 🛑 Day 18: Setting BoundariesHow to say no without guilt—and protect your peace as you walk this path. 💃 Day 19: Joyful MovementFrom walks to Pilates, we explore how movement that feels good (not punishing) can become a new form of self-care. 🙏 Day 20: The Power of GratitudeMore than just a good habit—gratitude can rewire your brain and realign your heart with God. 🕊️ Day 21: Redefining Self-CareIt's not bubble baths. It's becoming the kind of woman who regularly returns to God for rest and renewal. 💌 Resources & Links: 📣 Join the September 40 Day FastRegistration is open now for the next live-coached 40 Day Alcohol Fast starting September 8! Walk through the fast in real time with coaching, community, and the support you need to finish strong. 👉 Sign up here 🎙️Past episodes mentioned: What Do I Tell My Girlfriends If I'm Not Drinking? 📖 Order your copy of Love Life Sober: A 40 Day Alcohol Fast to Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health, and Renew Your Mind 🤝 Join our community: https://butjesusdrankwine.com/community 📲 Connect on Instagram: @butjesusdrankwine 🎥 We're on YouTube too—come hang out! The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Sign up for the September 40 Day Fast here: https://butjesusdrankwine.myflodesk.com/septemberfast In Week 2 of our 6-part Monday series walking through Love Life Sober: A 40 Day Alcohol Fast, we're diving into Days 8–13—a powerful stretch focused on mindset, identity, and learning to renew your mind in Christ. If you've ever felt stuck in your thoughts, trapped by unhelpful labels, or frustrated that willpower isn't cutting it, this week is for you. We explore the truth behind the stories we tell ourselves—and how taking your thoughts captive, anchoring your identity in Jesus, and learning to recognize your triggers can begin to shift everything. Whether you're mid-fast, just getting started, or preparing for September's live-coached fast, these insights will help you move from shame to self-awareness, and from self-effort to spiritual renewal. 📘 This week covers: 🧠 Day 8: Take Every Thought CaptiveHow metacognition (thinking about your thinking) helps you stop letting lies lead—and start aligning your thoughts with God's truth. 🏷️ Day 9: Ditching the LabelWhy you don't need to call yourself an "alcoholic" to pursue freedom—and how unhelpful labels can limit what God wants to do. ⚠️ Day 10: The Willpower TrapWillpower runs out. Good news: Jesus doesn't. Why grace, habit change, and identity work better. 🙏 Day 11: Prime with PrayerHow prayer can move beyond performance and become your lifeline for connection, comfort, and clarity. 🔁 Day 12: Understanding Triggers and HabitsWhat's really happening underneath your urges to drink—and how to respond with wisdom, not autopilot. 🚫 Day 13: Overcome the Urge to DrinkThe HALT tool (Hungry, Angry, Lonely, Tired) and other tactical ways to pause and reset when cravings strike. 💌 Resources & Links: 📣 Join the September 40 Day FastRegistration is open now for the next live-coached 40 Day Alcohol Fast starting September 8! Walk through the fast in real time with coaching, community, and the support you need to finish strong. 👉 Sign up here 📖 Order your copy of Love Life Sober: A 40 Day Alcohol Fast to Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health, and Renew Your Mind 🤝 Join our community: https://butjesusdrankwine.com/community 📲 Connect on Instagram: @butjesusdrankwine You can find this episode on YouTube HERE. The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Sign up for the September 40 Day Fast here: https://butjesusdrankwine.myflodesk.com/septemberfast In this powerful opening to our six-part Monday series, we're diving into Love Life Sober: A 40 Day Alcohol Fast to Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health, and Renew Your Mind—starting with Days 1 through 7. Whether you're reading along, curious about taking a break, or preparing to join the September live-coached fast, this episode lays the foundation for a Spirit-led, grace-filled approach to changing your relationship with alcohol. We explore how to shift from striving to surrender, why curiosity matters more than willpower, and how to begin reframing your beliefs about alcohol through the lens of faith, neuroscience, and identity in Christ. You'll hear why you don't need to hit rock bottom to make a change, how to set feeling-based goals that align with your values, and what it looks like to move from white-knuckling to walking in freedom with God. This is the mindset shift that changes everything—and it all starts here. 📘 This week covers: 🌿 Day 1: Starting with GraceWhy you don't have to get it all right on Day 1—and how grace changes everything. 👭 Day 2: You're Not AloneYou're not the only Christian woman who struggles with this. And you don't have to walk this alone. ⛰️ Day 3: Rock Bottom Not RequiredYou don't have to lose it all to make a change. Sobriety can be a proactive and empowered choice. 🧠 Day 4: Renewing Your MindWhy this fast is about so much more than quitting alcohol—it's about transformation from the inside out. 🧬 Day 5: Cracking the CodeHow brain chemistry, habits, and identity all intersect—and what it means for your alcohol story. ⚔️ Day 6: The Battle in Our BrainsUnderstanding the real spiritual and neurological tug-of-war—and how to win with God. 🔍 Day 7: Find Your WhyHow to anchor your fast in God's purpose for your life—and keep going when it gets tough. 💌 Resources & Links: 📣 Join the September 40 Day FastRegistration is open now for the next live-coached 40 Day Alcohol Fast starting September 8! Walk through the fast in real time with coaching, community, and the support you need to finish strong. 👉 Sign up here 🎙️Past episodes mentioned: Episode 30: You Don't Have to Count Days Episode 45: You Don't Have to Say Forever 📖 Order your copy of Love Life Sober: A 40 Day Alcohol Fast to Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health, and Renew Your Mind 🤝 Join our community: https://butjesusdrankwine.com/community 📲 Connect on Instagram: @butjesusdrankwine 🎥 We're on YouTube too—come hang out! The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

What if the darkest chapters of your life became the very place where God's love met you most powerfully? In today's raw and redemptive episode, Cristina Baker shares her jaw-dropping testimony of addiction, trauma, homelessness, and the overwhelming grace of God that broke through it all. From growing up in chaos to nearly overdosing, Cristina recounts the moment she cried out to a God she didn't yet believe in—and how He answered her with love, rescue, and purpose. Now a speaker and the author of A Minute of Hope, Cristina knows firsthand the power of prayer and surrender. Her story will stir your spirit, shake your soul, and remind you that no one is too far gone for the love of Jesus. Cristina Baker has seen the power of prayer in her own life and knows God is listening and longs to hear our voices. After a 10-year battle with drug addiction, Cristina had a radical encounter with the love and power of God and immediately answered the call on her life to minister the Gospel. In her new book, A Minute of Hope: 100 Prayers for Staying Steadfast Through Challenges and Change, she offers 100 one-minute prayers for readers yearning to feel God's presence and experience His peace and strength. ✨ What You'll Learn in This Episode: How God can meet you in your lowest moment and radically change your life The difference between partial surrender and full surrender How prayer became her lifeline (and why it still is) Why vulnerability is the key to healing and freedom 💌 Resources & Links: 📘 Order Cristina's book:👉 A Minute of Hope: 100 Prayers for Staying Steadfast Through Challenges and Change 📣 Join the September 40 Day FastRegistration is open now for the next live-coached 40 Day Alcohol Fast starting September 8! Walk through the fast in real time with coaching, community, and the support you need to finish strong. 👉 Sign up here 📖 Order your copy of Love Life Sober: A 40 Day Alcohol Fast to Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health, and Renew Your Mind 🤝 Join our community: https://butjesusdrankwine.com/community 📲 Connect on Instagram: @butjesusdrankwine 🎥 We're on YouTube too—come hang out! The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

You don't need a rock bottom to change. Today we explore a powerful reframe: what if rock bottom isn't a place of shame or destruction, but a moment of surrender? A moment when you realize that Jesus is the Rock at the bottom, and that He's been there all along. This conversation dismantles the common story that things need to get "bad enough" before you're allowed to change your relationship with alcohol. We share vulnerable moments from our own journeys and unpack how letting go of the "I have to hit bottom" mindset can actually open the door to freedom, clarity, and deeper connection with God. Whether your life "looks fine" on the outside or you're wrestling with the quiet ache of disconnection, this episode invites you to choose better—not because you have to, but because you get to. Journaling Questions To Try: Is alcohol still serving me? Is alcohol helping me get closer to who God is calling me to be? Is this choice leading me toward peace or away from it? Am I waiting for things to get worse before I believe I'm allowed to want more? 💌 Resources & Links: I Surrender All by Priscilla Shirer Available on Amazon 📣 Join the September 40 Day FastRegistration is open now for the next live-coached 40 Day Alcohol Fast starting September 8! Walk through the fast in real time with coaching, community, and the support you need to finish strong. 👉 Sign up here 📖 Order your copy of Love Life Sober: A 40 Day Alcohol Fast to Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health, and Renew Your Mind 🤝 Join our community: https://butjesusdrankwine.com/community 📲 Connect on Instagram: @butjesusdrankwine 🎥 We're on YouTube too—come hang out! The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

This week, we're tackling one of the most important identity questions in the Christian sobriety space: Do we really need to call ourselves "alcoholics"? In this heartfelt and truth-packed episode, we dive into why we believe that label doesn't line up with our identity in Christ. We reflect on our own stories of what happened when we stopped letting shame define us. We explore what Scripture says about who we are in Jesus, why carrying labels from our past may keep us stuck, and how embracing our identity as beloved daughters of God opens the door to real transformation. We also get honest about generational patterns, the role of neuroplasticity in changing our behaviors, and the power of renewing our minds with God's Word. This conversation is an invitation to get curious, be intentional, and replace the world's labels with God's truth. What You'll Learn in This Episode: Why we don't use the labels "alcoholic" or "addict" How identity in Christ changes everything The difference between secular freedom and freedom in Jesus The impact of generational narratives on our self-identity How neuroplasticity and biblical truth work together in our healing Why it matters what we speak over ourselves Resources Mentioned:📘 Download our free "Who I Am in Christ" identity guide. 📖 Order your copy of Love Life Sober: A 40 Day Alcohol Fast to Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health, and Renew Your Mind 📲 Connect on Instagram: @butjesusdrankwine You can find this episode on YouTube HERE. The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show.

Moderating alcohol is exhausting. Let's talk about what's possible when you stop playing the game. In this listener-favorite list-style episode, we share the 10 best things about never having to moderate alcohol again, and trust us, it's more freeing than you think. From the relentless mental gymnastics ("Should I? Shouldn't I?") to the emotional fallout of breaking yet another promise to yourself, moderation often becomes more of a burden than a solution. So what happens when you stop trying to control your drinking and start living in true freedom? Spoiler alert: more headspace, less shame, deeper joy, better boundaries, and a whole lot more time for Jesus (and wildflowers ). What You'll Learn in This Episode: Why moderation takes more time, energy, and mental space than we realize The sneaky ways alcohol was stealing our joy—even in "small" amounts How living alcohol-free helps us show up more fully as moms, wives, and women of faith What shifts when you no longer have to plan, justify, or recover from drinking The role of curiosity, compassion, and truth in breaking the cycle How ditching moderation leads to deeper peace, clearer boundaries, and surprising laughter 🎧 Love our list-style episodes? Go back and listen to: Ep 15: The 10 Best Things About Never Having to Drink Again Ep 32: 10 Things We No Longer Spend Money On Ep 74: 10 Things We Wish Someone Had Told Us the First Year Ep 89: 10 Reasons Living Alcohol-Free Has Made Us More Confident Sign up for the September 40 Day Fast here: Order Christy's book: Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind Join the conversation in our community at But Jesus Drank Wine Community. Connect with us on Instagram! @butjesusdrankwine You can find this episode on YouTube HERE. The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Join the conversation in our community at BJDW Community! Episode 134. What if this is the summer it all changes—for the better? ☀️ Today we dive into what it means to experience summer without alcohol, and why that might be the very thing your soul is craving. Whether you're newly sober-curious, starting your first alcohol-free summer, or coming back to this journey after a break, this conversation is packed with grace, encouragement, and practical tools. We talk about everything from mom culture and rosé memes to airplane triggers, BBQ season, and how to handle your first AF vacation. Plus, why starting now (not in September) might just be the best decision you make all year. You'll walk away with encouragement, mindset shifts, and a whole new way of seeing summer, not as something to survive, but something to savor. What You'll Learn in This Episode: Why summer can be the time to start your sober journey How to spot your summer triggers & plan ahead How to prep for your first alcohol-free trip or poolside hang The problem of "I'll just wait until September" Why alcohol might be taking up more space than you think—and how to take it back The joy of sunsets, sparkling water, and technicolor memories Join our private, small-group coaching space, The Missing Peace, and get BJDW all-community access for free! BJDW Coaching Order Christy's book now available! Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine You can find this episode on YouTube HERE. The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

To help you reflect and dig deeper, we've created a free guided journaling booklet that goes hand-in-hand with this episode. You can download it here. Join the conversation in our community at BJDW Community Today we tackle a topic that hits close to home for many women of faith: Has wine—or any other comfort—become more important than your relationship with God? Using a biblical lens, they explore the concept of idolatry: anything that takes up too much of our time, energy, money, or mental space—ultimately distracting us from intimacy with Jesus. While idolatry may sound like an Old Testament word, the truth is, modern-day idols are everywhere. And for many of us, alcohol quietly takes up far more space than we realize. We share personal experiences and spiritual insights into how alcohol once affected our own walks with God—and how letting it go made space for peace, presence, and purpose. We also walk listeners through introspective questions and journal prompts designed to help you examine your own relationship with alcohol with grace, curiosity, and truth. If you've ever wondered why alcohol feels so important—or if life without it might feel more aligned with the life God has for you—this episode will guide you gently but boldly toward freedom. What You'll Learn in This Episode: What idolatry looks like in the modern world—and how alcohol fits in How to identify when something has taken God's place in your heart or habits The spiritual, emotional, and relational costs of holding on to alcohol Why curiosity and compassion matter more than shame in this process How to take the next step toward freedom, one brave question at a time Join our private, small-group coaching space, The Missing Peace, and get BJDW all-community access for free! https://butjesusdrankwine.com/coaching Order Christy's book now available! Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine You can find this episode on YouTube HERE. The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Join the conversation in our community at BJDW Community. We're re-releasing one of our most popular episodes—Episode 13: Did Jesus Drink Wine? With Pastor David—because some truths are worth hearing twice. Or ten times. This episode gets to the heart of a phrase many of us used to justify the habit: "But Jesus drank wine." It's not just the name of our podcast—it was a story that kept us stuck in a nightly-ish drinking cycle. So today, join us in the studio as they welcome a very special guest: Meade's pastor, David Walters, who joins us as our resident biblical scholar to tackle the burning question: Did Jesus really drink wine—and does it matter? David bravely and graciously unpacks this question and so many more, including: What does Scripture actually say about wine and drinking? What does it mean to "take our thoughts captive"? Why is the heart mentioned over 800 times in the Bible—and what does that have to do with the lies we believe? What are false idols, and how do they relate to alcohol or anything else we turn to for comfort? How do we uncover the deeper truth beneath the stories that keep us stuck? And yes… what do kids and CrossFit have to do with any of this? This episode is packed with spiritual depth, practical wisdom, and powerful applications for anyone on the journey to freedom—from alcohol, or anything else taking up too much space in your life. And don't miss the end of the episode—this week's "tiny TINA" might just be the most brilliant yet. Whether you're new to the pod or you've heard this one before, hit play with fresh ears. Because this might be the replay your heart needs right now. #ButJesusDrankWine #FreedomFromAlcohol #BiblicalTruth #FaithAndFreedom #TheMissingPeace #RenewYourMind #ChristianWomen #ReRelease Join our private, small-group coaching space, The Missing Peace, and get BJDW all-community access for free! https://butjesusdrankwine.com/coaching Order Christy's book now available! Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine You can find this episode on YouTube HERE. The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Join the conversation in our community at https://butjesusdrankwine.com/community. In this honest and insightful episode, we're joined by Blake Roberts (a returning guest!) and Jamie Haigh, founders of The Three Percent Co. and hosts of The 3% Podcast. Both licensed therapists and men of faith, Blake and Jamie share their personal and professional perspective on what's really going on inside the hearts and minds of men—and how women can walk with their husbands as they move toward emotional and spiritual wholeness. Together, they unpack the idea behind The 3%: a challenge for men to show up with just 3% more honesty than they currently are. Because for many men, even a small increase in vulnerability can be completely life-changing. As they open up about their own stories and the work they do with men every day, we talk about why so many men shut down emotionally, how generational patterns contribute to silence and shame, and why faith is central to healing. Most importantly, Blake and Jamie offer practical, compassionate insight for women who want to better understand and support the men in their lives—without fixing, forcing, or losing themselves in the process. If you're married to a man who struggles to open up, raising sons, or just wondering how to better understand what he's feeling but not saying—this episode will give you hope, tools, and a new perspective. What You'll Learn in This Episode: Why so many men struggle with vulnerability—and how it starts What The 3% Rule is and why it matters more than you think How safe, connected relationships help men open up and heal The role of faith in emotional transformation Practical ways to support a man without rescuing or pressuring him How to foster honest conversations and emotional growth in your home Resources: Here's the Gabor Maté video Blake mentions. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N2xdXVpyFoo Join our private, small-group coaching space, The Missing Peace, and get BJDW all-community access for free! https://butjesusdrankwine.com/coaching Order Christy's book now available! Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind Learn More about Coaching with Christy https://www.lovelifesober.co.uk/ Learn More about Coaching with Meade https://meadehollandshirley.com/ Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine You can find this episode on YouTube HERE. The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Join the conversation in our community at https://butjesusdrankwine.com/community. In this episode, we continue our deep dive into Dr. Lee Warren's 10 Commandments of Self-Brain Surgery, focusing on commandments 6 through 10. As freedom-from-alcohol coaches, we share how these powerful principles shape our approach to helping women break free from the overdrinking cycle. From prioritizing long-term well-being to understanding the transformative power of thoughts, we explore actionable steps—what we like to call Tiny Tinas—to help you take practical steps toward change. Throughout the conversation, we offer personal anecdotes, real-world applications, and insights on how to overcome the immediate discomfort that often comes with transformation. This episode is packed with advice for anyone looking to rewrite their story, not just in terms of addiction, but in breaking generational patterns, celebrating progress, and renewing your mind. Commandments 6-10: 6️⃣ I Must Love Tomorrow More Than I Hate How I Feel Right Now Hope is the key that pulls us forward. We talk about how focusing on the possibilities ahead can change your outlook on today's temporary discomfort, helping you take action toward a brighter future. 7️⃣ I Must Stop Making an Operation Out of Everything Life is hard, but not every challenge requires drastic measures. We discuss the importance of choosing humor, forgiveness, and simply moving forward—without making everything a major operation. 8️⃣ I Must Not Perpetuate—or Start—Harmful Generational Thought or Behavioral Issues in My Life or Family This is a game-changing commandment. It's all about breaking the cycle. You don't have to pass on trauma, shame, addiction, or fear. We explore how you can rewrite your family's story by making changes in your own life and actions. 9️⃣ I Must Believe That I'm Getting Better at What I'm Doing Growth is a fact, not a feeling. In this section, we dive into how consistency in doing the work—no matter how invisible it seems at first—leads to tangible growth. Trusting the process is key, even when progress feels slow. 🔟 I Must Understand That Thoughts Become Things Your thoughts are powerful. We discuss how focusing on what you want to create in your life can literally rewire your brain. When you start imagining a better life, you open the door to greater possibilities. As Scripture says, "God is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all we ask or imagine" (Ephesians 3:20). It's time to imagine the life you want. Key Takeaways: How to prioritize long-term well-being over short-term discomfort in the journey to freedom The importance of not overcomplicating life and learning to move on with grace Breaking harmful generational patterns and choosing a new path for yourself and your family Recognizing that growth is happening even when it's not immediately visible The power of focusing on positive thoughts to reshape your reality Scripture Reference: Ephesians 3:20 – "Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us." As we wrap up these commandments, we invite you to join our community of women committed to freedom from alcohol, using both neuroscience and faith to break free. And don't forget to check out my book, Love Life Sober, where I dive even deeper into the principles we've discussed here. Join the conversation in our community at https://butjesusdrankwine.com/community. Listen to Dr. Lee Warren's podcasts: The Self-Brain Surgery Podcast and Spiritual Brian Surgery with Dr. Lee Warren. Learn more about Dr. Lee Warren and subscribe to his substack here. Join our private, small-group coaching space, The Missing Peace, and get BJDW all-community access for free! https://butjesusdrankwine.com/coaching Order Christy's book now available! Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind Learn More about Coaching with Christy https://www.lovelifesober.co.uk/ Learn More about Coaching with Meade https://meadehollandshirley.com/ Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine You can find Part One on YouTube HERE. You can find this episode on YouTube HERE. The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Join the conversation in our community at https://butjesusdrankwine.com/community. In this special episode, we got to guest-host Dr. Lee Warren's Spiritual Self-Brain Surgery podcast to discuss the first five of his 10 Commandments of Self-Brain Surgery—powerful principles that combine neuroscience and faith to help you overcome challenges and break free from the destructive patterns in your life, including alcohol use. We dive into the intersection of neuroscience and spirituality, sharing how you can take charge of your thoughts, emotions, and actions to create lasting transformation. Using Dr. Lee's commandments as a guide, we explore how you can change your brain by changing your mind. Commandments 1-5: 1️⃣ I Must Relentlessly Refuse to Participate in My Own Demise You're either building your brain—or breaking it. Every thought, feeling, belief, and action either propels you forward or holds you hostage. This commandment emphasizes the choice to embrace life with each decision, fostering a mindset of resilience and growth. 2️⃣ I Must Believe That Feelings Are Not Facts; They Are Chemical Events in My Brain Emotions are signals, not truths. They're data, not destiny. We discuss how to honor your feelings without being controlled by them, and how to act on what's true, even when your emotions are telling you something different. 3️⃣ I Must Believe That Most of My Automatic Thoughts Are Untrue Your brain's default mode is not designed for joy or truth; it's built for survival. This means that many of your automatic thoughts are unreliable. We dive into how to challenge these thoughts and train your brain to align with your true mind—moving from survival mode to thriving. 4️⃣ I Must Believe That My Mind Is in Charge of My Brain This is a game-changer. You're not a victim of your neurochemistry. You can actually change it. We explore how taking control of your mind allows you to access hope, healing, and peace. Mind-over-brain is key to lasting transformation. 5️⃣ I Must Believe That Self–Brain Surgery Is Not a Metaphor; It is the Mechanism of Transforming My Life Self-brain surgery is real—it's not just a metaphor. Your thoughts are like a scalpel that can cut out toxic patterns and implant healthier ones. This principle is grounded in neuroplasticity and aligns with biblical renewal (Romans 12:2). We share how this concept works in both science and Scripture. Key Takeaways: How to stop sabotaging your own growth and choose life with every thought and action Why emotions are signals, not truths, and how to process them without letting them control you The importance of challenging automatic thoughts and rewiring your brain for joy and truth Understanding mind-over-brain control and its impact on your life The power of self-brain surgery and how it leads to true transformation Scripture Reference: Romans 12:2 – "Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind." We hope this episode inspires you to take charge of your thoughts and actions, and ultimately, to live a life free from the destructive patterns that hold you back. Join us next week as we continue with the next five commandments of self-brain surgery. Listen to Dr. Lee Warren's podcasts: The Self-Brain Surgery Podcast and Spiritual Brian Surgery with Dr. Lee Warren. Learn more about Dr. Lee Warren and subscribe to his substack here. Join our private, small-group coaching space, The Missing Peace, and get BJDW all-community access for free! https://butjesusdrankwine.com/coaching Order Christy's book now available! Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind Learn More about Coaching with Christy https://www.lovelifesober.co.uk/ Learn More about Coaching with Meade https://meadehollandshirley.com/ Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine You can find this episode on YouTube HERE. The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Disclaimer: This episode discusses topics including suicide and suicidal ideation, which may be distressing to some listeners. If you are experiencing emotional distress or feel unsafe, please know that help is available. If you are in immediate danger or need urgent support, call 911 (if in the United States) or your local emergency services immediately. For those in the United States, you can reach the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 988 (available 24 hours) or 1-800-273-8255. If you're located outside the United States, please consult your local crisis intervention resources or visit https://findahelpline.com for international hotline information. Your well-being matters, and you are not alone. Please consider seeking help from trusted friends, family, or mental health professionals if you need support. Join the conversation in our community at https://butjesusdrankwine.com/community. In this vulnerable and powerful conversation, we sit down with our dear friend and community leadership team member Heather Dillion to hear her story of stepping out of the darkness of alcohol and into the light of God's grace. Heather is a successful attorney, wife, and mom—but behind the scenes, she was quietly struggling for years. Heather shares how a high-pressure lifestyle and long-standing habits slowly eroded her peace, her joy, and her ability to show up fully in her own life. From early drinking in college to a deeply public rock bottom that led her to seek help, Heather speaks honestly about the unraveling—and the rebuilding—that followed. With the support of her family and community, and a deepening relationship with God, Heather began to heal. She opens up about her time in traditional rehab treatment, how she learned to regulate her emotions in healthy ways, and how community and faith became her anchors in the storm. Her story reminds us that there is zero shame in seeking help. This episode is for the woman who's silently struggling, the one who's managing everything on the outside but feeling broken inside. Heather's message is clear: freedom is possible, and Jesus is not afraid of your darkest moments. What You'll Learn in This Episode: How alcohol quietly became a barrier between Heather and the life she truly wanted The mental, emotional, and spiritual toll of trying to keep it all together Why hitting a low point became the very thing that opened the door to healing The role of faith, community, and professional support in her transformation Daily practices that help Heather experience peace and presence Encouragement for anyone who feels alone in their struggle Join our private, small-group coaching space, The Missing Peace, and get BJDW all-community access for free! https://butjesusdrankwine.com/coaching Order Christy's book now available! Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind Learn More about Coaching with Christy https://www.lovelifesober.co.uk/ Learn More about Coaching with Meade https://meadehollandshirley.com/ Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine You can find this episode on YouTube HERE. The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Join the conversation in our community at https://butjesusdrankwine.com/community. In this honest and hope-filled conversation, Christy and Meade welcome Jill, a beloved member of the But Jesus Drank Wine leadership team, to share her powerful story of breaking free from alcohol and drawing closer to God. After ten years of trying to moderate her drinking, Jill was inspired by Christy's sobriety story in the summer of 2023 and made the bold decision to stop drinking entirely. What followed was a journey of spiritual renewal, mental clarity, and deeper intimacy with God. Jill opens up about the subtle ways alcohol had taken hold of her life—emotionally, physically, and spiritually. She shares how it consumed her mental energy, fueled guilt and shame, and ultimately stood in the way of the peace and purpose she longed for. Through surrender, community, and daily obedience, Jill experienced true freedom—and now encourages others to do the same. This conversation is especially meaningful for women navigating caregiving, motherhood, and the pressure to "keep it together." Jill's courage to speak up and step out is a reminder that the cost of honesty is far outweighed by the gift of freedom. What You'll Learn in This Episode: Why moderation isn't always harmless—and what it might be costing you How alcohol can quietly become a spiritual and emotional burden What it means to truly surrender a habit to God The role of testimony and vulnerability in personal transformation Encouragement for women in the "sandwich generation" carrying invisible loads How community and faith walk hand-in-hand toward lasting sobriety Join our private, small-group coaching space, The Missing Peace, and get BJDW all-community access for free! https://butjesusdrankwine.com/coaching Order Christy's book now available! Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind Learn More about Coaching with Christy https://www.lovelifesober.co.uk/ Learn More about Coaching with Meade https://meadehollandshirley.com/ Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine You can find this episode on YouTube HERE. The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Join the conversation in our community HERE! In this empowering episode, Christy and Meade welcome author and speaker Laura Smith for a rich conversation about her latest book, Brave Woman, Mighty God. Laura—now a 15-time published author—shares her heart behind the book's message and reminds us that strength doesn't come from "girl power" but from God power. Together, they explore the stories of bold biblical women like Mary Magdalene, Sarah, and others who did mighty things—not because they were fearless, but because they were faithful. Laura unpacks how faith invites us to overcome hustle culture, live out our God-given purpose, and root our strength in Christ, not in performance. Drawing from both Brave Woman, Mighty God and her previous book The Urgency of Slowing Down, Laura encourages listeners to let go of burnout culture and embrace restorative spiritual rhythms. The conversation gets personal as the hosts reflect on their own struggle with hurry, the importance of screen sabbaths, and how true rest is found in presence with God, not productivity. This episode is filled with scripture, wisdom, and compassion for women who want to trust God more deeply—especially in seasons of waiting, struggle, or uncertainty. If you've ever doubted your calling, wrestled with comparison, or felt worn down by the world's demands, this conversation will meet you right where you are. What You'll Learn in This Episode: How biblical women inspire courage through their faith, not their perfection The dangers of hustle culture and the healing power of slowing down How to embrace rest as a spiritual practice, not just a productivity tool Why community is essential in walking out our faith and freedom What to do in seasons of waiting, and how to trust God's timing Join the conversation in our community at https://butjesusdrankwine.com/community. Join our private, small-group coaching space, The Missing Peace, and get BJDW all-community access for free! https://butjesusdrankwine.com/coaching Order Christy's book now available! Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind Learn More about Coaching with Christy https://www.lovelifesober.co.uk/ Learn More about Coaching with Meade https://meadehollandshirley.com/ Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine You can find this episode on YouTube HERE. The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Join the conversation in our community at https://butjesusdrankwine.com/community. In this episode, Christy and Meade welcome back Pastor David Walters for an honest and theologically rich conversation on one of the most frequently asked questions among believers: Is drinking alcohol a sin? Together, they explore what the Bible actually says about alcohol—and just as importantly, why we ask the question in the first place. Is it about seeking permission? Wanting to avoid conviction? Or genuinely desiring to obey God? Pastor David helps unpack the heart behind the question, reminding us that walking with Jesus is less about rule-following and more about relationship, wisdom, and surrender. Drawing from key scriptures—including Genesis, Psalms, Ephesians, Proverbs, Romans, and 1 Corinthians—this conversation touches on themes like purity, self-control, freedom, and the impact of our choices on others. Pastor David also addresses the difference between God's recorded voice (through Scripture) and His revelatory voice, and how we can tune our ears to both. This episode offers not just biblical insight, but also practical guidance for anyone who's evaluating their relationship with alcohol, wrestling with cultural messages, or simply wanting to hear God's voice more clearly in their everyday decisions. What You'll Learn in This Episode: What Scripture says—and doesn't say—about drinking alcohol The deeper motivations behind asking if something is a sin Why spiritual maturity requires discernment, not just rules How to tune into God's voice through Scripture and prayer The role of personal conviction, wisdom, and love for others in decision-making Other Pastor David Episodes: Episode 13: Did Jesus Drink Wine Or Not? Episode 24: What is Shame? Episode 51: Realigning with Core Values Episode 96: What does the Bible say about Moderation? Episode 104: Conquering Life's Temptations Join the conversation in our community at https://butjesusdrankwine.com/community. Join our private, small-group coaching space, The Missing Peace, and get BJDW all-community access for free! https://butjesusdrankwine.com/coaching Order Christy's book now available! Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind Learn More about Coaching with Christy https://www.lovelifesober.co.uk/ Learn More about Coaching with Meade https://meadehollandshirley.com/ Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine You can find this episode on YouTube HERE. The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Come hang out with Kelsey, Christy, and Meade in our community, here: https://butjesusdrankwine.com/community We are so excited to share Kelsey Green's testimony with you today. Kelsey is a beloved member of the But Jesus Drank Wine leadership team and someone who played a key role in laying the foundation of our community. In this episode, Kelsey shares her deeply personal journey of changing her relationship with alcohol and how her faith in Jesus Christ brought radical transformation to her life. She opens up about the hidden struggle behind her drinking, her early efforts to seek help, and the life-changing moment she discovered this very podcast—a moment that shifted everything. That encounter with faith led her back to Jesus, and into a life filled with peace, joy, and purpose like she'd never known before. As a mom of twin boys, Kelsey's story is a powerful testimony to the difference surrendering to Christ can make in every area of life. This conversation also explores the power of community, the beauty of real-life friendships formed through the BJDW podcast, and how vulnerability opens the door to true healing. If you're seeking freedom—from alcohol, shame, or the weight of trying to keep it all together—this episode is for you. What You'll Learn in This Episode: How Kelsey's sobriety journey began with honesty and a podcast The role of faith in breaking free from alcohol How motherhood and sobriety have shaped her relationship with Jesus The importance of vulnerability and grace in the healing process Why community and real connection are vital for long-term transformation How the presence of God brings peace, clarity, and lasting purpose Order Christy's book now available! Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind Learn More about Coaching with Christy https://www.lovelifesober.co.uk/ Learn More about Coaching with Meade https://meadehollandshirley.com/ Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine You can find this episode on YouTube HERE. The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Join the conversation in our community at https://butjesusdrankwine.com/community. Today, we sit down with Chris Janssen, MA, BCC, a board-certified results coach, author, and expert in performance and mindset. Chris shares her deeply personal journey with alcohol, from growing up in a non-drinking household to battling a secretive drinking habit in adulthood. She first got sober in 2007 but went back to alcohol during the pandemic, an experience that brought her to a deeper understanding of grace, community, and personal transformation. Chris discusses the themes of her book, Grace Yourself: How to Show Up for the Sober Life You Want, highlighting the role of self-compassion in recovery, how to navigate perfectionism, and why so many high achievers struggle with alcohol. She also offers practical tools for handling cravings, shifting toxic narratives, and finding a supportive community. Whether you're on your own sobriety journey or supporting a loved one, this episode offers encouragement and actionable steps for embracing a life of freedom and grace. What You'll Learn in This Episode: The importance of grace and self-compassion in the freedom from alcohol journey How to break free from perfectionism and self-sabotage Why high achievers are often drawn to alcohol and unhealthy coping mechanisms Practical tools for handling cravings and shifting negative narratives Connect with Chris: Website: www.chrisjanssencoaching.com Book: Grace Yourself: How to Show Up for the Sober Life You Want Order Christy's book now available! Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind https://a.co/d/fTvdTw6 Learn More about Coaching with Christy https://www.lovelifesober.co.uk/ Learn More about Coaching with Meade https://meadehollandshirley.com/ Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine You can find this episode on YouTube HERE. The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Join the conversation in our community at https://butjesusdrankwine.com/community. Stephanie Ziebell shares her personal journey to sobriety and faith, highlighting the transformation that came when she embraced God's grace. A wife, mother of four, attorney, and Christian sobriety advocate, Stephanie knows what it's like to wrestle with addiction and the internal conflict it brings. After years of struggling with alcohol, she found true freedom and now dedicates her life to helping others do the same. As the founder of Radiant in Battle, an Instagram community with nearly 40,000 followers, Stephanie provides faith-based encouragement and practical tools for those on the path to sobriety. Throughout this conversation, Stephanie opens up about the challenges of being stuck in the over-drinking cycle, the importance of honesty, and how finding a supportive community and turning to God led to a new, more fulfilling life. She discusses the internal battle of wanting to drink, the exhaustion it caused, and how sobriety has given her a fresh perspective on life. If you're navigating sobriety or supporting someone who is, this episode offers a powerful message of hope, resilience, and divine transformation. What You'll Learn in This Episode: The importance of honesty and vulnerability in overcoming addiction, and how Stephanie learned to let go of shame. How sobriety has allowed Stephanie to rediscover joy and clarity, and how she shifted from selfishness to selflessness. The role of community and support in recovery, and how finding like-minded people can make all the difference. How Stephanie has used her faith to transform past regrets into purpose, and the deep connection between faith and freedom from alcohol. Stephanie's story is a testament to the power of faith, community, and the strength we all have to overcome addiction and live a transformed life. Connect with Stephanie: Instagram: @radiantinbattle Order Christy's book now available! Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind https://a.co/d/fTvdTw6 Learn More about Coaching with Christy https://www.lovelifesober.co.uk/ Learn More about Coaching with Meade https://meadehollandshirley.com/ Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine You can find this episode on YouTube HERE. The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Join the conversation in our community at https://butjesusdrankwine.com/community. In this episode, we sit down with Blake Roberts, a licensed therapist, writer, podcast host, and speaker based in Nashville, TN. Blake specializes in helping men heal attachment wounds, foster healthy relationships, and learn to trust again. If you're looking for ways to support your husband—or any loved one—who is struggling with addiction, this is a must-listen. Blake offers invaluable insights into the healing process, the power of community, and how to move from self-protection to real connection. Blake shares his personal journey, from navigating a complicated upbringing and battling addiction to finding freedom through therapy, 12-step recovery, and faith. He opens up about key turning points in his life, including an intensive workshop for sex addiction, his decision to quit drinking, and his unexpected shift from pursuing ministry to becoming a therapist. Blake also introduces his latest project, Three Percent, a community he co-founded to help men develop honesty, vulnerability, and deeper connections. What You'll Learn in This Episode: How family dynamics shape our emotional and relational patterns The role of addiction, therapy, and faith in Blake's healing journey Why honesty and vulnerability are essential for recovery The impact of Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy on self-awareness The mission behind Three Percent and why men need safe spaces for authentic connection Connect with Blake: Substack: More to the Story Podcast: Three Percent Order Christy's book now available! Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind https://a.co/d/fTvdTw6 Learn More about Coaching with Christy https://www.lovelifesober.co.uk/ Learn More about Coaching with Meade https://meadehollandshirley.com/ Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine You can find this episode on YouTube HERE. The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Join the conversation in our community Here. In this heartfelt episode, ministry leader Ali Kennedy shares her deeply personal journey from struggling with alcohol to experiencing spiritual renewal and true freedom. Ali's struggle with alcohol began in her early teenage years and continued through college, marriage, and motherhood. Despite being in ministry, she wrestled with feelings of shame and internal conflict around her drinking—hiding a battle she thought she should have already won. The turning point came when she confessed her struggles to close friends, a moment that sparked a journey of surrender, healing, and faith-filled transformation. Throughout the conversation, Ali shares: How confession and vulnerability led to her breakthrough. The role of community and accountability in her healing process. The significance of the 40-day alcohol fast that changed her life. How sobriety brought unexpected mental clarity and personal growth. Ali is using her story to encourage other women navigating transition, faith, and personal growth. As a certified coach, author, and speaker, she equips women and families with biblical and practical resources to stay grounded in their faith in a world that constantly pulls them in different directions. Her story is one of grace, resilience, and radical honesty, reminding us that freedom is always possible—even for those in Christian leadership who feel like they should have it all together. If you're a ministry leader, a mom balancing faith and real-life struggles, or someone seeking hope in your own sobriety journey, this episode is for you. Connect with Ali Kennedy: 📩 Substack: AliKennedyLive📸 Instagram: @AliKennedyLive🌍 Website: www.AliKennedy.com Order Christy's book now available! Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine You can find this episode on YouTube HERE. The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE! Mel Robbins' Let Them philosophy has taken the self-help world by storm. But is it really the key to peace and freedom? Or is there something deeper—something better—that God calls us to instead? In today's episode, we break down where Let Them aligns with biblical wisdom… and where it misses the mark. Through real-life experiences and scriptural truths, we explore why true peace doesn't come from just "letting them" but from fully surrendering to Him. We also share how embracing God's guidance—not just detachment—was the key to breaking free from alcohol and finding lasting transformation. What You'll Learn: Why secular self-help can only take you so far – Letting go sounds freeing, but true freedom comes from surrendering to God, not just stepping back. The danger of 'following your heart' – Culture says to trust your feelings, but Scripture reminds us that the heart can be deceptive (Jeremiah 17:9). How sobriety and faith intersect – Relying on mindset shifts alone can keep you stuck, while Jesus offers true renewal. Forgiveness vs. detachment – Instead of just cutting people loose, Jesus calls us to a higher standard: forgiveness, love, and grace. Navigating relationships through faith – Healthy boundaries and biblical grace can coexist—here's how to strike that balance. If you've ever felt exhausted from trying to control people, situations, or outcomes—this episode is for you. True peace isn't found in letting go… it's found in letting Him lead. Press play, take a deep breath, and let's dive in. Note: The Let Them language was first attributed to Cassie Phillips. Christy's Substack: Why Let Them Misses The Mark – And Letting God Lead Changes Everything Order Christy's book now available! Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine You can find this episode on YouTube HERE. The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

The Lent Fast Starts This Wednesday!!!! Get more information and join us here Today we welcome Jo Hargreaves, a pastor, psychotherapist, writer, and speaker, to explore the intersection of faith, therapy, and mental health. As the voice behind The Faith-Filled Therapist, Jo is passionate about integrating theology and therapy, scripture and neuroscience, and ensuring that God remains at the center of conversations about mental and emotional well-being. Jo shares powerful insights into attachment theory, nervous system regulation, and emotional resilience, explaining how our earliest experiences shape the way we connect with God and others. She breaks down the science behind emotional regulation and how rewiring our brains through intentional practices can lead to lasting healing. Key takeaways from this episode include: Attachment theory helps explain our emotional responses and relational patterns. Nervous system regulation is essential for mental and emotional well-being. Compassion—both for ourselves and others—can transform our relationships. Faith and neuroscience are not in conflict; they beautifully complement each other. Self-reflection and a deeper understanding of our emotional patterns can lead to spiritual and psychological healing. Jesus offers a loving presence that creates safety, healing, and wholeness. Jo also speaks on compassion fatigue, especially for women who are constantly pouring into others. She emphasizes the importance of creating space for restoration and self-care, so we can continue to show up fully in our relationships. If you've ever wondered how mental health and faith intersect or how neuroscience and scripture can work together for personal transformation, this conversation is for you. Jo's wisdom, warmth, and faith-filled perspective offer a fresh take on healing—one that blends science, therapy, and the unshakable truth of God's love. Connect with Jo Hargreaves: Jo Hargreaves Therapy: https://johargreavestherapy.com/ Instagram: @TheFaithFilledTherapist Order Christy's book now available! Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade https://meadehollandshirley.com/ Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine You can find this episode on YouTube HERE. The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Join the Lent 40 Day Fast! More info right here! We start March 5th! Our friend Brandi Babb shares her powerful freedom-from-alcohol story—from her early days as a "good girl" who followed all the rules to confronting the painful realities of alcohol use disorder and the internal divide between her faith and her drinking. Brandi opens up about how her struggle with alcohol began at 21 and intensified after her father's passing. She reveals how alcohol slowly stole her sense of self, leading to a split life that masked deeper emotional wounds and feelings of shame. By learning to slow down and tune into her bodily sensations, Brandi discovered a new way to manage cravings and identify long-standing patterns born from trauma and discomfort. This practice of "orienting" herself in the present moment allowed her to reclaim control and gain clarity. Now alcohol-free for over six years, Brandi has transitioned into somatic coaching, using her personal experience to help others bridge the gap between emotional awareness and physical healing. In this episode, we explore how physical reactions to past injuries can manifest in unexpected ways and how reconnecting with our bodies is key to breaking unhealthy cycles. Brandi's story is a powerful reminder that recovery isn't about erasing our past—it's about embracing it with awareness, compassion, and a commitment to growth. If you're ready to dive into deeper emotional healing and learn practical tools for managing cravings and anxiety, this episode is a must-listen. Bonus: Interested in learning more from Brandi? She'll be joining the BJDW community on March 18th to lead a masterclass on using somatic practices to break free from alcohol. Join us here: butjesusdrankwine.com/community. You can also learn more about Brandi's work here. Order Christy's book now available! Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind Learn More about Coaching with Christy https://www.lovelifesober.co.uk/ Learn More about Coaching with Meade Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine You can find this episode on YouTube HERE. The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Join the Lent 40 Day Fast! More info right here! We start March 5th! Content Warning:This episode references sensitive topics, including sexual assault and trauma. We recognize that these subjects may be difficult or triggering for some listeners. Please take care of yourself while listening. If you or someone you know is in need of support, please seek help from a trusted resource or helpline. Listener discretion is strongly advised. Today, we welcome Dr. Lisa Stanton to share her powerful testimony. Lisa opens up about her parents' amicable divorce left an emotional void she didn't know how to process. On the outside, she appeared to have it all—private school, sports accolades, and academic success—but beneath the surface, she battled loneliness, perfectionism, and crippling social anxiety. Her struggle with alcohol began early, with an immediate pull toward problematic drinking, and was soon compounded by severe eating disorders. While excelling academically and professionally, she led a double life—outwardly achieving, inwardly unraveling. The weight of it all finally became unbearable during the pandemic, when she was faced with a choice: keep running or surrender. Lisa takes us through the moment she gave up control and turned back to faith, discovering a healing far deeper than she ever expected. She shares the daily practices that helped her break free from destructive cycles, the misconceptions about recovery she had to unlearn, and the profound peace that comes from living in alignment with God's purpose. Her story is a testament to the fact that no one is too far gone, and that true healing—both physical and spiritual—is possible for anyone ready to surrender. If you've ever struggled with addiction, perfectionism, or feeling like you have to have it all together, this episode is for you. You can get Lisa's book "52 Life-Changing Lessons I Learned in Recovery: A Journey Towards Sobriety, Honesty, and Radical Forgiveness" right here. Join the conversation in our community at https://butjesusdrankwine.com/community. Order Christy's book now available! Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine You can find this episode on YouTube HERE. The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE! Disclaimer: This episode discusses topics including suicide and suicidal ideation, which may be distressing to some listeners. If you are experiencing emotional distress or feel unsafe, please know that help is available. If you are in immediate danger or need urgent support, call 911 (if in the United States) or your local emergency services immediately. For those in the United States, you can reach the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 988 (available 24 hours) or 1-800-273-8255. If you're located outside the United States, please consult your local crisis intervention resources or visit https://findahelpline.com for international hotline information. Your well-being matters, and you are not alone. Please consider seeking help from trusted friends, family, or mental health professionals if you need support. In this raw and vulnerable episode, Kori Leigh courageously shares her personal journey through addiction, recovery, and the rediscovery of faith. Kori's story shatters the stereotypes of a dramatic "rock bottom"—revealing instead that her turning point was a quiet, insidious moment of clarity. Despite achieving outward success, she reached a point where the reality of an unmanageable relationship with alcohol became undeniable. Kori opens up about how childhood trauma and longstanding familial patterns contributed to her struggles with alcohol. Instead of remaining trapped in a cycle of self-destruction, she embarked on a transformative journey by embracing a 12-step program and turning to faith. Her commitment to sobriety has now spanned eight years, proving that freedom from alcohol is not about a single moment but about a continuous, intentional journey of healing. Reconnecting with God provided Kori with the courage to break generational cycles and embrace a life filled with hope and divine grace. Her story is a testament to the transformative power of faith, vulnerability, and self-examination, offering practical insights and heartfelt encouragement to anyone facing similar battles. Join us for an episode filled with honest reflections and uplifting encouragement as Kori Leigh's journey reminds us that even in the darkest moments, there is a path to healing and a future filled with hope – and a sober life beyond our wildest dreams! Join the conversation in our community at https://butjesusdrankwine.com/community. Order Christy's book now available! Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine You can find this episode on YouTube HERE. The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE! Christy chats with Jon Seidl, bestselling Christian author and founder of The Veritas Network, to discuss addiction, anxiety, and the road to true freedom. Jon has spent years in journalism, faith-based media, and nonprofit work with I Am Second, helping people tell their stories of transformation. But behind the scenes, he was silently battling anxiety, OCD, and alcohol dependency, even as he was a known Christian mental health advocate. Jon opens up about how cultural and personal pressures led him into alcohol dependency, despite his deep faith. He shares the moment he hit rock bottom, the role of therapy and spiritual surrender in his recovery, and the hard but necessary process of sanctification—how God refines us even through our failures. This episode also dives into the themes of Jon's upcoming book, Confessions of a Christian Alcoholic: A Candid Conversation on Drinking, Addiction, and How to Break Free. Jon doesn't just explore the struggles—he offers practical, faith-filled solutions for those struggling with alcohol. Resources Mentioned: The Veritas Daily: Jon's daily faith-based inspiration at TheVeritasDaily.com Join the conversation in our community at https://butjesusdrankwine.com/community. Order Christy's book now available! Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine You can find this episode on YouTube HERE. The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE! For some reason, sharing my alcohol story has always been easy for me. But today's podcast episode has been 42 years in the making. I've never told this story before. Today, I want to tell you all about how I rediscovered Jesus. It's a story of redemption, sobriety, and His unrelenting love that has shaped my life. This isn't a story of religious perfection; it's one of shame and brokenness and a profound reconnection with God that changed everything. Growing up, my mother's unwavering Christian faith was a constant in my life. She planted seeds of faith in my heart, even when I didn't fully realize it. When I went to college and ventured into early adulthood, those roots of faith began to feel distant. Life's demands and distractions pulled me away, and I drifted. Yet, I always felt a quiet, persistent call deep in my soul—a whisper that refused to let me go. In 2018, my world was upended. Losing my mom was a heartbreak I wasn't prepared for. That loss brought me to my knees. In my grief, I found myself turning back to the Bible, searching for comfort, answers, and—if I'm honest—a way to understand myself again. I didn't just read the words; I clung to them. Slowly, those seeds my mom had planted began to bloom. As I delved deeper into my faith, I wrestled with the tension between living in a performance-driven world and embracing the transformative power of grace. I'd spent so much of my life trying to prove myself—to be "good enough." But God met me in the messiness of my real life. Here's what I've come to know: being a Christian isn't about rules or rituals. It's about a deeply personal relationship with Jesus. It's about freedom—the kind that heals your heart and fills your life with purpose. It's about saying "yes" to grace when everything in you wants to cling to control. Sobriety has been a significant part of my faith journey. For me, giving up alcohol wasn't just about breaking a habit; it was about stepping into a life of clarity and intentionality, free from the things that clouded my connection to God. If you're navigating your own sobriety journey, wrestling with questions of faith, or simply searching for encouragement, know this: God's grace is big enough for your doubts and your struggles. He has good plans and He can redeem your story, just like He did for me. Resources Mentioned: Why We Can Trust The Bible, Suzy Silk, Church of the City New York https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/church-of-the-city-new-york/id1245313998?i=1000652522766 The Gospel of John - Savoring the Peace of Jesus in a Chaotic World by Melissa Spoelstra https://a.co/d/7VgMw5Z Have you experienced a moment where faith changed everything? Join the conversation in our community at https://butjesusdrankwine.com/community. Order Christy's book now available! Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine You can find this episode on YouTube HERE. The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE! Today Meade shares her deeply personal faith story. Through moments of vulnerability and profound honesty, Meade recounts her transformation from a life of struggles with alcohol to finding freedom and identity in her faith. Growing up, Meade believed that Jesus was only for the 'perfect,' which led her to distance herself from faith during her teenage and early adult years. Her story takes a pivotal turn as she describes a life-changing guided meditation session where she felt an undeniable encounter with Jesus. This experience sparked a journey of self-discovery, sobriety, and spiritual growth. Meade speaks candidly about how aligning her faith journey with the responsibilities of daily life has been both challenging and rewarding. She highlights the importance of seeking guidance, diving into scripture, and building a supportive community to sustain her faith. The episode delves into themes of shame, surrender, and the transformative power of worship music, showing how Meade's journey has been a relational process with Jesus, filled with curiosity, courage, and reconnection. Whether you're on your own faith journey, navigating sobriety, or simply curious about the transformative power of grace, this episode offers hope and encouragement. And to hear Meade's Freedom From Alcohol Story visit Episode 2 of the "But Jesus Drank Wine" Podcast here: Meade's Alcohol Story Order Christy's book now available! Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine You can find this episode on YouTube HERE The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE! Before you set your New Year's resolutions for diet and exercise, this is the podcast you need to hear. This week we are joined by Alisa Keeton, the visionary founder of Revelation Wellness, to reframe how we think about health, fitness, and faith. Alisa's holistic approach goes beyond traditional diet and exercise goals, offering a deeper understanding of how physical wellness intersects with mental, emotional, and spiritual growth. Alisa shares her journey from being a traditional fitness coach to creating a nonprofit that equips people to embrace their bodies as sacred vessels, loved by God. She challenges listeners to let go of cultural pressures and shift their health goals from superficial aesthetics to freedom, surrender, and alignment with God's purpose. This conversation is filled with practical tips and inspiring insights, including: The power of walking, hydration, and movement for nervous system regulation. How breathwork and stillness can reconnect you with your body and soul. Redefining exercise as an act of worship, not a means of punishment or control. Alisa also opens up about overcoming struggles with eating disorders, alcohol, and the relentless pursuit of perfection, encouraging listeners to embrace grace and freedom in their health journeys. Whether you're considering a fresh start for the new year or simply looking for a healthier mindset around wellness, this episode will inspire you to integrate faith and fitness in a way that's life-giving and sustainable. Order Christy's book now available! Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine You can find this episode on YouTube HERE The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

JOIN THE DRY JANUARY 40-DAY FAST HERE. Six weeks of coaching and community to kick-start your 2025 alcohol-free! Today we are joined by bestselling author William Porter, creator of Alcohol Explained, to break down the 8 Hurdles of Stopping Drinking. Drawing from his extensive research and personal experience, Porter offers invaluable advice for navigating the often-challenging path to sobriety. In this episode, we explore critical hurdles such as: Understanding and overcoming cravings Navigating social events without alcohol Developing effective coping mechanisms Finding joy and motivation through movement Recognizing the impact of alcohol on ambition The discussion also touches on the psychological barriers to sobriety, including the idolization of alcohol, the concept of fading effect bias (where memories of drinking are romanticized over time), and how to reframe your mindset through gratitude and a realistic understanding of alcohol's effects. Porter emphasizes the importance of confidence and resilience as the final and often most significant hurdle, equipping listeners with strategies to build a sustainable, alcohol-free life. This episode is packed with practical advice, powerful truths, and hope for anyone striving to break free from alcohol's grip. Whether you're just beginning your journey or are further along the path, Porter's insights provide encouragement and clarity for overcoming these hurdles. JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE! Order Christy's book now available! Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine You can find this episode on YouTube HERE The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.