"But Jesus Drank Wine" & Other Stories That Kept Us Stuck

JOIN THE DRY JANUARY 40-DAY FAST HERE. Six weeks of coaching and community to kick-start your 2025 alcohol-free! Today we welcome Lauren, a beloved member of our leadership team and a former coaching client of Christy's who shares her inspiring journey to freedom from alcohol. Lauren reflects on her past struggles with moderation and the moment she decided to take alcohol off the table indefinitely. She explains how this decision was pivotal in gaining mental clarity, emotional peace, and a deeper with Jesus. Her honesty about the challenges of cultural norms and the unexpected blessings of sobriety offers a relatable and encouraging perspective for any gal on a similar path. Packed with insights, warmth, and festive spirit, this episode is a beautiful reminder of the peace and freedom that comes with letting go of what holds you back and embracing a faith-filled, alcohol-free life. JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE! Order Christy's book now available! Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine You can find this episode on YouTube HERE The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

JOIN THE DRY JANUARY 40-DAY FAST HERE. Six weeks of coaching and community to kick-start your 2025 alcohol-free! Does Christmas Day have you feeling the pull of a mimosa at brunch, even though you've made it through the season without alcohol? Or perhaps you've been mindfully drinking and now feel drained, wishing to approach today differently but unsure how to begin. Wherever you are on this Christmas Day, we're here to cheer you on with love and practical advice. In this episode, think of us as your supportive girlfriends showing up for a festive pep talk, helping you align your day with your intentions—not what alcohol might dictate. Together, we'll guide you through tools and strategies to help you celebrate this Christmas Day your way: Practical Tips for a Joyful, Alcohol-Free Holiday Shift expectations and embrace the present moment. Reflect on the progress you've made (yes, even the small wins count!) and celebrate the meaningful gifts of your alcohol-free lifestyle. Learn the power of a firm decision to eliminate the mental tug-of-war of "Should I or shouldn't I?" Your AF Christmas Hack Discover how to create a sense of relief and joy without the headache or regret alcohol often brings. We'll explore the transformative power of mindfulness and curiosity to understand how alcohol truly makes you feel—especially during the week between Christmas and New Year's. This festive episode is packed with encouragement, humor, and actionable insights to help you make this Christmas your most memorable—and merriest—one yet. 🎁 Wishing you all the joy, peace, and love of the season. You've got this! Note this episode originally aired on December 25 2024. JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE! Order Christy's book now available! Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine You can find this episode on YouTube HERE The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

JOIN THE DRY JANUARY 40-DAY FAST HERE. Six weeks of coaching and community to kick-start your 2025 alcohol-free! Today, we are joined by the inspiring Anna Mathur, a renowned mental health advocate, bestselling author, and host of The Therapy Edit podcast, which has amassed over 3 million downloads. Anna is passionate about making therapy accessible to everyone and delivers life-changing insights through her Instagram, books, and substack, The Frazzled Mums Club. The episode also highlights Anna's journey toward an alcohol-free life and how her faith has been a transformative anchor throughout her mental health journey. She shares how embracing vulnerability and addressing her fears has unlocked greater clarity and joy in her life. Anna offers relatable wisdom on facing fears like people-pleasing, mourning friendships that no longer serve us, and accepting the uncomfortable truth that not everyone will like you. These topics resonate deeply with anyone who has felt the sting of rejection or the weight of unrealistic expectations, especially on an alcohol-free journey. Anna's advice is grounded in her personal experiences and unique approach to mental health, offering practical tools for managing anxiety, overcoming overwhelm, and fostering deeper self-acceptance. Whether you're struggling with people-pleasing or simply want to hear an extremely relatable journey of ditching alcohol sprinkled with tons of mental health wisdom, this episode is for you. Follow Anna on Instagram @annamathur. Grab her new book, The Uncomfortable Truth: Change Your Life by Taming 10 of Your Greatest Fears, for more of her brilliant insights, and follow her substack here. ​​https://annamathur.substack.com/ JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE! Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind Pre-order now and join us for 6 weeks of coaching through the book in our community. Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine You can find this episode on YouTube HERE The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

JOIN THE DRY JANUARY 40-DAY FAST HERE. Six weeks of coaching and community to kick-start your 2025 alcohol-free! Today we explore the joy and clarity of life without alcohol, sharing personal stories and tips for thriving in alcohol-free social settings. From milestone moments to everyday experiences, we uncover how this lifestyle enhances connection and presence. What You'll Discover: Alcohol-Free Milestones Made Memorable Date Nights: Strengthen your connection with your partner in meaningful ways. Weddings & Birthdays: Celebrate without intoxication—just pure connection and joy. Sporting Events & Concerts: Embrace the energy and excitement of these events with a clear head. Vacations & Theater Performances: Experience the world and the arts like never before. Building Healthier Relationships Through Better Communication Why listening and empathy are key to deeper relationships. How body language, tone, and trust create stronger connections. Tips for resolving conflicts with honesty and respect. Living alcohol-free isn't just about skipping drinks—it's about being fully present for life's moments and building richer connections with others. Life without alcohol opens the door to unforgettable experiences and deeper relationships. Start exploring the possibilities today! Note: This episode originally aired on April 8, 2024. JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE! Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind Pre-order now and join us for 6 weeks of coaching through the book in our community. Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine You can find this episode on YouTube HERE The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Today we welcome back Karla Adkins to share her inspiring journey of freedom from alcohol, faith, and transformation. Karla's story is one of resilience and hope, offering a candid look at her struggles with alcohol, shame, and vulnerability—and how she found freedom through faith and sharing her inspiring story. Karla reflects on her initial reluctance to share her experiences with liver failure publicly. Hearing how her story touched others gave her the courage to keep sharing, creating a ripple effect of hope for women struggling to control their drinking. Karla dives deep into the challenges of confronting shame, the healing power of vulnerability, and the transformation that comes from building a personal relationship with Jesus. She recounts her battle with liver failure and cirrhosis, her wake-up call to surrender her life to God, and the profound shift from seeing faith as a religion to experiencing it as an intimate relationship. Together, Christy, Meade, and Karla explore the misconceptions surrounding sobriety and the subtle but dangerous grip alcohol can have on our lives. Karla emphasizes the importance of understanding its impact—not just on our bodies but on our relationships and spiritual health. Karla's testimony highlights how vulnerability can lead to healing—not just for the person sharing, but for everyone who hears it. She encourages listeners to view fear as an opportunity for growth and to take the leap toward freedom, no matter how uncertain the path may seem. Her gratitude for the chance to share her journey shines through, offering a beacon of hope for anyone facing their own struggle with alcohol. Today's episode is a reminder that no struggle is too great, and no story is too small to make an impact. Listen to Karla's first episode with us, here. Get Karla's book, "And She Came Tumbling Down" here. JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE! https://butjesusdrankwine.com/community Get Christy's Book: Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind http://lovelifesober40dayfast.com Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine You can find this episode on YouTube HERE The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Today, we welcome back Pastor David for his fifth appearance on the podcast! Pastor David shares his profound wisdom and practical advice on a topic that resonates with everyone: temptation. Whether it's alcohol, unhealthy habits, or other areas of life, temptation is something we all face—but it's not something we have to face alone. Pastor David starts by unpacking the critical distinction between temptation and sin, drawing from powerful biblical insights in the book of James and Jesus' own experience in the wilderness. He emphasizes that temptation does not come from God and that it's a distortion of our God-given desires. By understanding the roots of temptation, we can gain clarity and strength to overcome it. The conversation delves into the three primary categories of temptation and how they show up in our lives. Pastor David sheds light on how these challenges often stem from a deeper longing for connection and belonging and how recognizing these underlying desires can be the first step toward freedom. Throughout the episode, Pastor David and the hosts offer actionable strategies for conquering temptation. From fleeing tempting situations to using Scripture as a weapon against cravings, the discussion provides you with a roadmap for navigating moments of weakness. One powerful takeaway is the importance of speaking God's word aloud—reminding ourselves of His promises and His provision for a way out when we feel overwhelmed. Pastor David offers a message of hope and encouragement, emphasizing that true freedom is found in understanding our identity in God. Whether you're struggling with addiction or simply seeking guidance for daily challenges, this episode is packed with practical wisdom and spiritual tools to help you live a life rooted in faith. If you've ever wrestled with temptation and wondered how to break free, this conversation will leave you inspired and equipped to take the next step. Other Pastor David Episodes: Episode 13: Did Jesus Drink Wine Or Not? Episode 24: What is Shame? Episode 51: Realigning with Core Values Episode 96: What does the Bible say about Moderation? Episode 104: Conquering Life's Temptations JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE! Get Christy's Book: Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine You can find this episode on YouTube HERE The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

We are unbelievably honored to chat with Dr. Lee Warren—a renowned neurosurgeon, Iraq war veteran, acclaimed author, and speaker—to explore the powerful ways neuroscience and Scripture intersect to bring hope and healing. Dr. Warren's story is a remarkable journey through intense personal challenges, including the heartbreaking loss of his son, Mitch, and his experiences serving in Iraq, all of which have shaped his perspective on resilience, faith, and personal transformation. Dr. Warren shares insights from his best-selling books, "I've Seen the End of You" and "Hope is the First Dose," offering a window into his unique approach to overcoming trauma. In this episode, he unpacks the principles behind what he calls "self-brain surgery" or self-directed neuroplasticity—explaining how our minds can be actively reprogrammed to transform thought patterns, heal from pain, and unlock profound spiritual growth. Together, we dive into his "treatment plan" for navigating life's inevitable hardships and discuss the life-changing role of hope and supportive communities in the healing process. Dr. Warren also answers pressing questions from our community, including how alcohol impacts the brain and negatively affects our physical and mental health. Tune in for an episode that will leave you with a renewed perspective on resilience, a deeper understanding of your brain's potential, and practical tools to face life's toughest moments with courage and faith. Get Dr Warren's new book, "Hope is the first Dose" here. Subscribe to Dr Warren's substack, "Self-Brain Surgery" here. JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE! Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind Pre-order now and join us for 6 weeks of coaching through the book in our community. Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine You can find this episode on YouTube HERE The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Today we're diving deep into why Jesus was our missing piece (peace) in the journey to true freedom from alcohol and why self-help alone can only take us so far. We share openly about our own paths, recounting how we once sought relief and connection in alcohol but ultimately found it empty and unfulfilling. Over time, we realized that no amount of worldly solutions could fill the void we were trying to soothe. Instead, we discovered that true peace, joy, and connection come from surrendering to Jesus. Through Him, we found freedom from the shame, anxiety, and constant searching that once defined our lives. We're not talking about religious rules or dogma here; we're talking about a personal relationship that transforms everything. We encourage listeners to start where they are, even if they're unsure of their faith, and to explore what a journey with Jesus might look like. Whether through reading the Bible, opening up in prayer, or simply having an honest conversation with God, we believe there's incredible power in inviting Jesus into freedom from alcohol. Join us as we share the personal stories and transformative experiences that have shown us why Jesus is truly the missing peace. We hope this conversation brings hope, encouragement, and the gentle nudge to explore a path to peace, not in isolation, but in the arms of a Savior who loves us fully. JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE! Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind -order now and join us for 6 weeks of coaching through the book in our community. Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine You can find this episode on YouTube HERE The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

We're thrilled to introduce our friend Ericka Andersen—a freelance writer, mom of two, lover of Jesus, and passionate sobriety advocate from Indianapolis. Ericka's story is one of incredible resilience: a journey from the grips of alcohol addiction to celebrating over four years of sobriety, all while staying deeply rooted in her faith. In this episode, we dive into her unique perspective on addiction, faith, and self-discovery—a conversation that's both eye-opening and beautifully relatable. Ericka opens up about her journey, sharing her early experiences with alcohol and the complicated generational ties that shaped her relationship with drinking. From the pressures of high school and college parties to the "work hard, play hard" culture as a young professional in Washington, DC, she explains how she found herself in a cycle that seemed normal but left her feeling deeply conflicted. Even while meeting every marker of outward success, Ericka quietly struggled, constantly questioning her drinking habits, the strain they placed on her spiritual life, and the toll on her well-being. She also discusses the strength she found in supportive communities and the importance of creating safe spaces for honest conversations about alcohol and faith. With the holiday season around the corner, Ericka offers heartfelt advice for anyone wrestling with sobriety during a time full of social gatherings and expectations. From staying grounded in faith to embracing community support, her message is a reminder that freedom from alcohol isn't just possible—it can lead to a fuller, more joyous life. You can connect with Ericka on Instagram at @ericka_andersen or visit her website at sobrietycurious.com for more insights and resources on living alcohol-free. Tune in for this inspiring conversation that promises to bring hope, clarity, and encouragement to anyone on the journey toward sobriety. JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE! Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind Order now and join us in the community. Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine You can find this episode on YouTube HERE The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE! Pop the AF bubbly because today, we're raising a glass to 100 amazing Mondays with But Jesus Drank Wine! We can hardly believe we've hit this milestone, and we couldn't have done it without every single one of you tuning in, sharing, and growing with us week after week. This celebration is all about YOU, the community that's made BJDW such a beautiful journey! In this centennial episode, we're counting down our top 10 favorite moments, packed with unforgettable memories and game-changing conversations. From life-changing interviews that had us all in awe to the down-to-earth, laugh-out-loud moments that remind us why we do this every Monday, we're giving you a front-row seat to the best of BJDW. Of course, this milestone wouldn't be complete without a massive shoutout to the BJDW community. Your stories, support, and genuine connection have truly become the heartbeat of this podcast. We're so grateful for the inspiring conversations you bring to our online space, for your encouragement, and for every DM, comment, and share that reminds us we're all in this together. This episode is our way of saying THANK YOU for being on this ride with us and for helping us grow into something far bigger than we ever imagined. So whether you've been with us since day one or just joined the BJDW family, this episode is a celebration of everything we've built together. It's proof that real, honest conversations, a supportive community, and a whole lot of laughter can truly change lives—ours included. Here's to the next 100 episodes and beyond! 🎉 Episodes We Revisit in This Celebration: Pastor David – Episodes 13, 24, 52 and 96 William Porter – Episode 44 Dr. Curt Thompson – Episode 75 Bob Goff – Episode 68 Transforming Our Podcast into a Community – Episode 82 Jess Connolly – Episode 25 Christy Boulware – Episodes 19 and 85 Karla Adkins – Episode 27 Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind Pre-order now and join us for 6 weeks of coaching through the book in our community. Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine You can find this episode on YouTube HERE The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Today we are joined by the amazing Dupe Witherick, the powerhouse behind Thrive Alcohol Free, and author of "Cocktail of Clarity." Dupe opens up about her personal and professional transformation, sharing how she made alcohol a non-factor in her life and how she's now on a mission to help women break free from the societal pressure to drink. Dupe's story is so relatable—she spent over 20 years in the corporate world, navigating the challenges and booze-filled culture that came with it. But during the pandemic, something shifted. She embarked on a 21-day alcohol break inspired by her church's fast, and that simple break became the start of a life-changing journey. Dupe shares some of the real, practical steps that helped her thrive without alcohol—like how she fell in love with non-alcoholic drinks that don't feel like a compromise, and how reconnecting with hobbies brought more fulfillment into her life. Plus, she's not just talking about the emotional and mental benefits—Dupe gets real about the physical changes, too. From better sleep to clearer skin, there's a whole world of well-being that comes with saying goodbye to alcohol. Get ready for an episode packed with actionable takeaways, from tips on how to approach alcohol-free living to insights on how to rediscover your passions and live a more vibrant life. Whether you're just beginning to question your relationship with alcohol or you're deep into your journey, Dupe's story is bound to resonate with you. Check out Dupe's "30 Passions and Hobbies: Ideas to Make Alcohol Insignificant' here. You can learn more about Dupe at thrivealcoholfree.com. JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE! Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind Pre-order now and join us for 6 weeks of coaching through the book in our community. Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine You can find this episode on YouTube HERE The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

So, you've started your alcohol break, and instead of feeling like a million bucks, you're wondering why you're not glowing with joy and running around town with a ton of energy just yet?! Trust us, we've been there, and today's podcast episode is just for you! In this episode, we get real about what it's like in the early stages of quitting alcohol—you know, the part where it feels more "meh" than magical. We totally get it! Breaking free from booze isn't always easy, and sometimes, it's downright hard. But here's the thing: the freedom you're craving is so worth the journey. We dive into why it's normal not to feel amazing right away and share some truths about how sticking with it leads to the good stuff—like better sleep, deeper joy, and lasting peace. Sounds dreamy, right? It's real, we promise! But we're also talking about the hard parts—the moments when you wonder, "Is this even working?" (Spoiler: it is!). We chat about why pushing through the tough days matters and how a simple mindset shift can make all the difference. Instead of seeing this as something you have to do, what if you approached it with curiosity? This episode isn't just about quitting alcohol—it's about rediscovering your joy, reclaiming your health, and finding the peace you deserve, one day at a time. JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE! Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind Pre-order now and join us for 6 weeks of coaching through the book in our community. Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine You can find this episode on YouTube HERE The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Today we chat with Tabbin Almond to explore her profound journey to sobriety and the transformative power it holds—both personally and professionally. Her new book, Bottling Up Trouble: How Alcohol is Harming Your Business and What to Do About It, opens up about her early life surrounded by alcohol, her fast-paced career in advertising, and the pivotal moments that led her to change her life. Tabbin's has a passion for creating change in workplace culture, where alcohol is often woven into the fabric of socializing and stress management. She provides insightful analysis on how these environments encourage excessive drinking, often at the expense of employee well-being, productivity, and mental health. Tabin's book offers a compelling call to action for businesses to reexamine their relationship with alcohol, advocating for inclusive policies that support healthier lifestyles. Tabbin emphasizes that a shift in corporate attitudes towards alcohol not only boosts employee health but also cultivates a more supportive, productive, and vibrant workplace culture. Whether you're on your own path to sobriety, navigating the pressures of an alcohol-centric career, or looking to inspire change in your workplace, this episode offers actionable insights, heartwarming stories, and a fresh perspective on the transformative power of choosing an alcohol-free life. You can order Tabbin's book here. JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE! Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind Pre-order now and join us for 6 weeks of coaching through the book in our community. Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine You can find this episode on YouTube HERE The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

This week on the podcast we welcome our resident Biblical scholar, Pastor David Walters, to dive deep into the complex relationship between faith and alcohol consumption. Together, we explore not only the personal challenges of finding satisfaction in earthly things but also the broader implications of how these choices intersect with Christian values and community practices. Pastor David sheds light on the concept of moderation and how, while it is often seen as a balanced approach, it may not always lead to true satisfaction, especially when it comes to alcohol. We address the tension between grace and responsibility, particularly within Christian communities where drinking has become normalized. We also explore the historical context of alcohol consumption in Christianity, raising important questions about the balance between grace and personal responsibility. David emphasizes that while grace is a gift, it doesn't give us free rein to indulge in anything we desire. Instead, grace calls us to live lives that are beneficial, constructive, and aligned with God's will—seeking not only our own good but the good of others. Other Pastor David Episodes: Episode 13: Did Jesus Drink Wine Or Not? Episode 24: What is Shame? Episode 51: Realigning with Core Values Episode 96: What does the Bible say about Moderation? Episode 104: Conquering Life's Temptations JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE! Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind Pre-order now and join us for 6 weeks of coaching through the book in our community. Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine You can find this episode on YouTube HERE The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Sherry Hoppen stops by the BJDW studio to share her powerful journey of addiction and recovery, highlighting the pivotal role that surrendering to God and finding a supportive community has played in her healing process. She opens up about the challenges of addressing alcohol use disorder within the church, shedding light on the shame and stigma that often hinder open conversations. Sherry emphasizes the need for more resources and understanding within faith communities. Throughout the episode, Sherry stresses that surrendering to God and connecting with a supportive community is vital for a successful recovery from the drinking cycle. Her ministry, She Surrenders, provides the necessary faith-based support for women on the path to recovery. Sherry also discusses how writing a breakup letter to alcohol can serve as a powerful tool to resist temptation and remain committed to sobriety. You can learn more about Sherry and her incredible ministry at https://www.shesurrenders.com/ JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE! Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind Pre-order now and join us for 6 weeks of coaching through the book in our community. Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine You can find this episode on YouTube HERE The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Today, we're chatting about the transformative power of playfulness. We explore how a lack of play often signals underlying anxiety—and how humor, play, and creativity can be powerful antidotes to stress. We share lots of practical ways to invite more fun and lightheartedness into your alcohol-free life. By exploring the surprising link between play and natural dopamine release, we reveal how activities like dancing, singing, and even being silly with your kids can provide the mood boost we often seek in alcohol. Through personal stories and reflections, we emphasize how reconnecting with our playful selves relieves stress, deepens our relationships, and enhances our well-being. This episode highlights how play is a secret superpower that creates a lasting sense of well-being. Tune in to learn practical tips for incorporating more play into your daily routine, how to reclaim joy through small, simple actions, and why playfulness is key to living an alcohol-free life that is not only manageable but genuinely fun. Whether you're on an alcohol-free journey or simply seeking more happiness in your everyday life, this episode is packed with inspiration, laughter, and actionable insights. JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE! Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind Pre-order now and join us for 6 weeks of coaching through the book in our community. Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine You can find this episode on YouTube HERE The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind Pre-order now and join us for 6 weeks of coaching through the book in our community. We had the incredible privilege of inviting early readers to share their personal experiences with Love Life Sober: A 40-Day Alcohol Fast and how the book has impacted their sobriety journeys. Each woman opened up about her own struggles with alcohol, the challenges of recovery, and how the blend of neuroscience and biblical insights in the book provided both practical tools and spiritual guidance. What made this conversation so powerful is how these women highlighted the unique structure of the book, which combines scientific insights with Scripture, addressing the often-overlooked struggles Christian women face with alcohol. It was amazing to hear how the actionable steps and faith-based approach truly resonated with them. Through their stories, we underscored the transformative power of faith and the critical role of having compassionate support throughout the process. If this conversation speaks to you, we would love to invite you to begin your own journey. When you preorder Love Life Sober at lovelifesober40dayfast.com, you'll receive an exclusive invitation to join us for three months in the BJDW community, along with six weeks of free coaching to guide and support you. Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine You can find this episode on YouTube HERE The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Today, we are honored to welcome Caroline Beidler—an inspiring author, dedicated recovery advocate, and the visionary behind the Circle of Chairs Substack. Caroline shares her powerful story, taking us on a profound journey through her struggles with addiction and trauma, and revealing how she transformed these challenges into a beacon of hope for others on the path to healing and recovery. Caroline opens up about her powerful books, "Downstairs Church: Finding Hope in the Grit of Addiction and Trauma Recovery" and "You Are Not Your Trauma: Uproot Unhealthy Patterns, Heal the Family Tree," shedding light on her mission to lead women towards profound healing and lasting recovery. The conversation dives deep into the intricate link between trauma and addiction, exploring the often-overlooked impact of intergenerational trauma and how these deep-rooted issues can shape our lives. Listeners will gain invaluable insights into the critical role of community, faith, and actionable daily rhythms in the recovery process. Caroline passionately advocates for greater understanding, compassion, and empathy towards those facing addiction, urging a shift away from judgment and stigma. This episode is more than just a discussion—it's a heartfelt call to action. Caroline challenges each of us to reclaim our power, break free from the chains of trauma and addiction, and foster transformative change within ourselves and our communities. You can purchase Caroline's new book, "You Are Not Your Trauma: Uproot Unhealthy Patterns, Heal the Family Tree" here and you can follow her on instagram @carolinebeidler_official. You can also follow Caroline's substack, Circle of Chairs, here. JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE! Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind Pre-order now and join us for 6 weeks of coaching through the book in our community. Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine You can find this episode on YouTube HERE The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Today Anne Nicely shares her powerful journey from battling alcohol addiction to finding freedom and purpose through her faith in Jesus Christ. Anne candidly recounts her early experiences growing up in a small Kentucky town, where her father's severe addiction deeply impacted her life. Despite vowing never to follow in his footsteps, Anne found herself caught in a cycle of binge drinking that left her overwhelmed with guilt, shame, and anxiety. She reflects on the pivotal moments that led her to surrender her life to Christ, the transformative power of vulnerability, and the role that sharing her struggles with others played in the freedom story. Anne emphasizes the importance of community and the necessity of being honest about one's struggles, noting that it was through listening to the stories of others and immersing herself in the Word that she found the strength to quit drinking for good. She shares how she initially kept her decision to quit drinking private, relying on podcasts and sermons to keep her grounded in her early days of sobriety. Anne's testimony is a powerful reminder of God's grace and the freedom that comes from fully surrendering to His will. You can follow Anne on instagram at @The_Bright_Eyed_Sober_Girl. JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE! Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind Pre-order now and join us for 6 weeks of coaching through the book in our community. Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine You can find this episode on YouTube HERE The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Today, we welcome Amy Betters-Midtvedt, author of the newly released You'll Make It (And They Will Too): Everything No One Talks About When You're Parenting Teens. Amy brings a wealth of experience as a mother of five, ranging from ages twelve to twenty-two, and shares candid stories about the complexities of raising teenagers in today's world. Throughout the discussion, Amy offers insightful strategies for maintaining strong connections with teens, even when faced with challenging situations like mental health struggles or questioning their faith. She emphasizes the significance of curiosity, intentionality, and grace, while also sharing her personal journey through experiences such as guiding a child through an eating disorder and supporting another during bouts of anxiety. Amy's conversation is not just about surviving the teenage years but also thriving as a family. Her book, filled with wisdom, prayers, and actionable advice, is a must-read for any parent feeling overwhelmed or isolated in their journey. Whether you're grappling with how to communicate effectively with your teen, looking for ways to celebrate their unique qualities, or need reassurance that you're not alone, this episode offers both comfort and practical tips for every parent's toolkit. You can get Amy's book right here: You'll Make It (and They Will Too): Everything No One Talks About When You're Parenting Teens JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE! Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind Pre-order now and join us for 6 weeks of coaching through the book in our community. Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine You can find this episode on YouTube HERE The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

In today's episode, we're diving into all the little and big ways that ditching alcohol has seriously boosted our confidence. We're chatting about how those small things—like actually remembering to wash off your mascara or not forgetting to leave money from the tooth fairy—make us feel more self-assured and on top of our game. And we're also getting into the bigger stuff, like setting boundaries and learning to be totally okay with the fact that we can't control what others think of us. These changes have helped us feel clearer, stronger, and more like the women we've always wanted to be. As we chat today, we're highlighting how alcohol tricks us into thinking it's boosting our confidence by lowering our inhibitions, but in reality, it's just chipping away at our self-worth and making us second-guess ourselves. By living alcohol-free, we've stopped that cycle of doubt and started fully embracing our decisions with clarity and self-trust. It's a whole new level of genuine confidence that doesn't come with the regrets that alcohol often leaves behind. We know you all love our list-of-10 episodes, so we hope you enjoy this one! And don't forget—you can always join the conversation in the BJDW community. We meet every week to talk about the episodes, share prayer requests, and just hang out as women who love Jesus (or are curious about Him) and are either living alcohol-free or looking to break free from it. JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE! Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine You can find this episode on YouTube HERE The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. #ChangingPerceptions #NoShame #AlcoholAndDrugs #SubjectiveLabels #getconnected #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #sobriety #alcoholfree #soberliving #alcoholfreelife #thisnakedmind #lovelifesober #imnotsoberimfree #getconnected #grayareadrinking #butjesusdrankwine #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #christianandsober #christianity #authenticliving #journeytosobriety #wineandotherstories #vulnerabilityinrecovery #grief #mindset #Godsplan #opportunities #feedingoursouls #choice #newneuralpathways #self-compassion #Jesus #freedom Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Join us for an inspiring and heartfelt conversation with our friend, Em Tyler, as she shares her powerful journey of transitioning from New Zealand back to the UK, leaving behind a life she cherished. Em opens up about the deep grief of feeling unfinished in New Zealand and grappling with why God led her there only to bring her back. In this episode, we chat with Em about the power of transforming her mindset, choosing to focus on the good and the new opportunities God has in store for her. She passionately talks about feeding our souls with God's truth and dwelling on things that are good, lovely, and admirable. Learn how taking our thoughts captive and creating new neural pathways can change our lives. Em shares her insights on self-compassion, kindness in our inner dialogue, and seeing Jesus as a compassionate coach. Be inspired to focus on the next right thing, trust in God's guidance, and embrace the freedom of not having to be the hero of your own life. This conversation is a must-listen for anyone seeking encouragement and practical wisdom for navigating life's challenges with faith and positivity. To connect with Em, visit her website, listen to her Go + Grow with Em Tyler podcast and follow her on IG and FB @helloemtyler JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE! Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. #ChangingPerceptions #NoShame #AlcoholAndDrugs #SubjectiveLabels #getconnected #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #sobriety #alcoholfree #soberliving #alcoholfreelife #thisnakedmind #lovelifesober #imnotsoberimfree #getconnected #grayareadrinking #butjesusdrankwine #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #christianandsober #christianity #authenticliving #journeytosobriety #wineandotherstories #vulnerabilityinrecovery #grief #mindset #Godsplan #opportunities #feedingoursouls #choice #newneuralpathways #self-compassion #Jesus #freedom Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

In this inspiring episode, former New Age practitioner and author, Caroline Dooner, joins us for a third time (check out episodes #57 & 58 for her first two appearances with us) as she opens up about her incredible journey of healing and the profound shift in her perspective on life. She candidly discusses her previous belief that controlling and healing every aspect of her life was necessary, a mindset that ultimately became overwhelming and daunting. Caroline shares about a pivotal moment in her life—a significant dental health challenge—that led her to surrender to God's plan. This experience helped her realize that healing doesn't require perfection. Instead, it calls for trust and peace in the Lord. This newfound understanding brought a profound shift in her approach to healing and life. Join us as we chat with Caroline about the difference between her work before and after her spiritual conversion, emphasizing how God's guidance now plays a central role in her life. She discusses her journey of embracing change, finding authenticity, and surrendering to God's plan. Caroline also shares how she has overcome internal chaos, navigated misunderstandings, and dealt with unpopularity by staying true to herself. Throughout our conversation, Caroline highlights the importance of embracing nuance, asking questions, and finding joy in nature. She emphasizes the value of disconnecting from technology to reconnect with oneself and the world around us. To connect with Caroline visit her website, follow her on IG @carolinedooner and check out her fascinating and hilarious substack, Problematic at carolinedooner.substack.com. And grab a copy of both of her books The F It Diet and Tired as F. JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE! Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. #ChangingPerceptions #NoShame #AlcoholAndDrugs #SubjectiveLabels #getconnected #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #sobriety #alcoholfree #soberliving #alcoholfreelife #thisnakedmind #lovelifesober #imnotsoberimfree #getconnected #grayareadrinking #grayareadrinking #butjesusdrankwine #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #christianandsober #christianity #authenticliving #journeytosobriety #wineandotherstories #vulnerabilityinrecovery Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Get ready for an eye-opening discussion with Jessica Lahey, the acclaimed author of 'The Addiction Inoculation,' as we chat with her about the complex world of substance use among children and teenagers. Jessica tackles the pervasive myths and misconceptions head-on, illuminating the real facts parents need to know. Discover why delaying the introduction of drugs and alcohol is crucial in lowering the risk of developing substance use disorders. Jessica shatters the all-too-common belief that 'everyone is doing it,' backing her arguments with solid evidence. She shares practical advice on how to have those tough but necessary conversations about the dangers of substance use, highlighting the critical role of understanding genetic risks. This episode isn't just about debunking myths—it's about empowering parents with accurate information and strategies for proactive parenting in a culture that often normalizes dependency. Learn the importance of ongoing, open dialogues with your children, the impact of social media on youth drinking, and the effectiveness of prevention programs. Join us for a conversation that emphasizes the power of informed, honest communication and the importance of modeling healthy behaviors to raise resilient, well-informed kids. To learn more about Jessica and the work she does, visit her website and follow her on IG/Threads @teacherlahey JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE! Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. #ChangingPerceptions #NoShame #AlcoholAndDrugs #SubjectiveLabels #getconnected #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #sobriety #alcoholfree #soberliving #alcoholfreelife #thisnakedmind #lovelifesober #imnotsoberimfree #getconnected #grayareadrinking #grayareadrinking #butjesusdrankwine #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #christianandsober #christianity #authenticliving #journeytosobriety #wineandotherstories #vulnerabilityinrecovery #substanceuse #addiction #parenting #teenagers #myths #misconceptions #prevention #communication #youth #socialmedia Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Fear and anxiety are rampant in our world, weighing us down and leading to profound physical consequences. Our misaligned priorities and superwoman tendencies often lead us to believe that hustle is honorable when it's actually harmful. For Christy Boulware, a severe panic and anxiety disorder diagnosis was the wake-up call she needed. Today, our conversation delves into the critical importance of community, discipleship, and faith in overcoming fear and anxiety while celebrating the audio release of Christy's powerful book, "Nervous Breakthrough: Finding Freedom from Fear and Anxiety in a World That Feeds It." Together, we explore the impact of unresolved pain and the importance of identifying what we can and cannot control. We also chat about the challenges of parenting in the digital age, emphasizing the need for intentional communication with teenagers. By taking small actions, we can significantly impact our lives and live more intentionally in a technology-driven world. Order Christy's book, Nervous Breakthrough" (now also available on audible!) here. JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE! Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. #ChangingPerceptions #NoShame #AlcoholAndDrugs #SubjectiveLabels #getconnected #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #sobriety #alcoholfree #soberliving #alcoholfreelife #thisnakedmind #lovelifesober #imnotsoberimfree #getconnected #grayareadrinking #grayareadrinking #butjesusdrankwine #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #christianandsober #christianity #authenticliving #journeytosobriety #wineandotherstories #vulnerabilityinrecovery Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Hadley Sorensen, a mother of three, lifelong runner, and writer, shares her journey from social drinking to sobriety. Her book, The Dirty Truth on Social Drinking: "Everything in Moderation" and Other BS, debunks common myths about alcohol consumption and explores the concept of 'gray area drinking.' Hadley discusses the societal pressures that fueled her drinking habits, the challenges of quitting, and how her last hangover two and a half years ago marked the beginning of a new, beautiful life. She now uses her social media platform to inspire others to realize that anyone can quit drinking at any time, for any reason—no rock bottom required. Hadley explores the profound impact of alcohol on personal and family life, the strategies to break free from dependency, and the importance of questioning societal norms around drinking. Her insights from the book offer a relatable perspective on sobriety, emphasizing the positive changes it brings, such as improved relationships and mental clarity. This heartfelt conversation sheds light on the struggles with alcohol and celebrates the victories of living a sober life, providing hope and motivation for those on a similar path. To learn more about Hadley, visit her website, order her book and connect with her on IG @hadley_sorensen JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE! Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. #ChangingPerceptions #NoShame #AlcoholAndDrugs #SubjectiveLabels #getconnected #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #sobriety #alcoholfree #soberliving #alcoholfreelife #thisnakedmind #lovelifesober #imnotsoberimfree #getconnected #grayareadrinking #grayareadrinking #butjesusdrankwine #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #christianandsober #christianity #authenticliving #journeytosobriety #wineandotherstories #vulnerabilityinrecovery Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

In this heartfelt and inspiring episode, Wendy Speake ministers to women's hearts through her unique blend of storytelling and biblical life application. Wendy, author of multiple books including "The 40-Day Sugar Fast" and "The 40-Day Social Media Fast," shares her journey from hearing God's call at 18 to becoming a creative storyteller and Bible teacher. We chat about turning to God in times of struggle, the power of fasting, and the importance of replacing unhealthy desires with a deeper desire for God. We discuss how fasting can be a powerful tool for redirecting our focus toward God. The conversation also highlights the concept of feasting on God's word, with Wendy sharing insights from her book, "The 40-Day Feast," which encourages listeners to deepen their relationship with God through intentional time in His word. She emphasizes that increasing our desire for spiritual nourishment and God's presence is more effective than simply trying to eliminate unhealthy desires. Wendy's approach, whether on stage or on the page, combines the power of God's word with personal testimony, meeting women in their common struggles and pointing them towards the transformative power of God's Word and the faithful nearness of His Holy Spirit. Tune in to hear Wendy's inspiring journey and gain valuable insights on turning your struggles into opportunities for spiritual growth and intimacy with God. Check out Wendy's Books here: The 40-Day Sugar Fast: Where Physical Detox Meets Spiritual Transformation The 40-Day Social Media Fast: Exchange Your Online Distractions for Real-Life Devotion The 40-Day Feast: Taste & See the Goodness of God's Word The 40-Day Sugar Fast: Where Physical Detox Meets Spiritual Transformation JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE! Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. #ChangingPerceptions #NoShame #AlcoholAndDrugs #SubjectiveLabels #getconnected #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #sobriety #alcoholfree #soberliving #alcoholfreelife #thisnakedmind #lovelifesober #imnotsoberimfree #getconnected #grayareadrinking #grayareadrinking #butjesusdrankwine #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #christianandsober #christianity #authenticliving #journeytosobriety #wineandotherstories #vulnerabilityinrecovery Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

After a year of podcasting, we kept receiving requests for more ways to connect with our "readers." We felt the Lord leading us to create a community where our listeners could engage with each other on a deeper level. Through our research, we realized there wasn't a dedicated community for Christian or Jesus-curious women on an alcohol-free journey. While there were many support groups for women quitting alcohol, none brought in our ultimate source of hope, Jesus. So, we founded a unique, women-only community to help women move beyond their struggles with alcohol, supported by faith and fellowship. Our community has flourished beyond our expectations. With weekly connection calls, expert-led masterclasses, and a dedicated Bible study, we've built strong bonds with the women who join us each week to pray, love, and support each other. We've tried to convey the essence of this community in brief podcast snippets, but we felt it was time to dedicate an entire episode to our members. We invited them to share what this community means to them, expecting maybe a couple of responses. However, we were overwhelmed by the number of women who showed up and their heartfelt testimonials. If you're interested in joining our BJDW community, follow this link to connect with us : JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE! Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. #ChangingPerceptions #NoShame #AlcoholAndDrugs #SubjectiveLabels #getconnected #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #sobriety #alcoholfree #soberliving #alcoholfreelife #thisnakedmind #lovelifesober #imnotsoberimfree #getconnected #grayareadrinking #grayareadrinking #butjesusdrankwine #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #christianandsober #christianity #authenticliving #journeytosobriety #wineandotherstories #vulnerabilityinrecovery Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE! Heather Creekmore joins us to delve into the intricate topic of body image and its profound impact on women, heightened by the pervasive influence of diet culture. Drawing from her personal journey, Heather shares her struggles with body image and how she found liberation from disordered eating patterns. She challenges the notion of exercise solely as a means for weight loss, advocating for joyful movement and finding pleasure in physical activity. Heather encourages listeners to adopt a more nuanced and intuitive approach to health, letting go of rigid black-and-white thinking to embrace holistic well-being. In a vulnerable conversation with Christy and Meade, Heather further explores the pressures women face to conform to societal beauty standards, exacerbated by social media's influence. They discuss the importance of self-acceptance and the detrimental impact of media portrayal on young girls' body image. Heather shares insights from her books, 'Compared to Who?' and 'Aging Gratefully,' underscoring the significance of inner beauty and the freedom attained by shifting perspective. Tune in to gain valuable insights from Heather Creekmore's journey and her empowering perspective on body image, diet culture, and finding true freedom in Christ. To learn more about Heather and the work she does you can find her at: www.improvebodyimage.com and purchase her books here: New body image workbook "40-Day Body Image Workbook" New book on aging "Aging Gratefully: A 30 Day Devotional on Aging" Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. #ChangingPerceptions #NoShame #AlcoholAndDrugs #SubjectiveLabels #getconnected #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #sobriety #alcoholfree #soberliving #alcoholfreelife #thisnakedmind #lovelifesober #imnotsoberimfree #getconnected #grayareadrinking #grayareadrinking #butjesusdrankwine #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #christianandsober #christianity #authenticliving #journeytosobriety #wineandotherstories #vulnerabilityinrecovery Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE! Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Order Christy's New Book, Love Life Sober, here. In this insightful episode, Michelle Myers, co-founder of She Works His Way, delves into the significance of community and finding contentment in Christ. Michelle emphasizes that work is not confined to a job title; rather, it encompasses anything a believer does that requires effort. She underscores the importance of unity and love among believers, advocating for seeking God first and finding rest in Him. Sharing her personal journey of learning to be content, Michelle encourages listeners to make Jesus the focal point of their lives. Michelle also introduces a practical approach to self-assessment and well-being through regular check-ins in four key areas: spiritual, physical, emotional, and relational. She presents a simple evaluation tool using the colors red, yellow, and green to help individuals gauge their status in each area. By asking specific questions, we can gain valuable insights into our overall well-being and pinpoint areas needing attention. Michelle highlights the necessity of prioritizing spiritual health and its influence on other aspects of our lives, while also stressing the value of vulnerability and community support during these evaluations. Key Takeaways ~ Redefining Work: Understanding work as any effort a believer undertakes, not just a job title. Community and Unity: Emphasizing the need for unity, love, and mutual support among believers. Finding Rest in God: Encouraging the practice of seeking God first and resting in His presence. Contentment in Christ: Sharing personal experiences of learning to be content with Jesus as the focus. Self-Assessment Tool: Introducing a simple red, yellow, and green evaluation method to monitor well-being. Four Key Areas: Regularly checking in on spiritual, physical, emotional, and relational health. Spiritual Health Priority: Highlighting the impact of spiritual well-being on other areas of life. Vulnerability and Support: Emphasizing the importance of community and vulnerability in personal growth. Discussion Questions: 1. How can redefining work change your perspective on daily tasks and responsibilities? 2. In what ways can you cultivate unity and love within your community of believers? 3. What practices help you seek God first and find rest in Him amidst a busy life? 4. How can you implement the red, yellow, and green evaluation tool in your daily routine? 5. What steps can you take to prioritize your spiritual health and its impact on other areas of your life? 6. How can vulnerability and community support play a role in your self-assessment journey? Tune in to hear Michelle Myers' profound insights and practical advice on fostering contentment, unity, and holistic well-being in your life. To learn more about Michelle and her work, you can connect with her at: sheworkshisway.com patreon.com/sheworkshisway facebook.com/sheworkshisway instagram.com/sheworkhisway You can find this episode on YouTube HERE Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. #ChangingPerceptions #NoShame #AlcoholAndDrugs #SubjectiveLabels #getconnected #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #sobriety #alcoholfree #soberliving #alcoholfreelife #thisnakedmind #lovelifesober #imnotsoberimfree #getconnected #grayareadrinking #grayareadrinking #butjesusdrankwine #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #christianandsober #christianity #authenticliving #journeytosobriety #wineandotherstories #vulnerabilityinrecovery Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

In today's episode, we're honored to host Christopher Cook, an author, coach, and pastor, who courageously shares his path of profound healing and transformation. His journey, shaped by the trauma of his mother's battle with cancer, her passing, and his own health diagnosis that deeply rattled him, offers profound insights into our capacity, through Christ, for resilience and renewal. Christopher emphasizes the imperative of addressing the broken and crushed spirit, illuminating the path to heart transformation and renewal. He introduces us to the transformative SEED method—Secure, Examine, Expose, and Decide—a profound blueprint for renewing the mind and reclaiming one's inner peace and purpose. Christopher highlights the significance of surrender as not merely capitulation, but a courageous act of yielding to a process of confrontation and metamorphosis. Anchoring ourselves to the vine, Jesus Christ, and daily surrendering to His divine guidance, Christopher underscores the profound power of fixing our focus on God as the compass guiding our journey of healing and restoration. We also chat about the transformative power of vulnerability and community, inviting listeners to embrace daily actions and say yes to God's leading as they embark on their own journey of renewal. Ultimately, Christopher reminds us that the goal of transformation extends beyond personal happiness, aspiring instead to become agents of profound change and stewarding our lives for God's glory. Come alongside us as we explore the transformative force of anchoring our gaze on God, guiding us toward healing from the marks of our past. You can find Christopher Cook on Instagram @wintodaychris and buy his book, "Healing What You Can't Erase: Transform Your Mental, Emotional, and Spiritual Health from the Inside Out," right here on Amazon. Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Order Christy's New Book, Love Life Sober, here. Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy You can find this episode HERE on YouTube The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. #ChangingPerceptions #NoShame #AlcoholAndDrugs #SubjectiveLabels #getconnected #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #sobriety #alcoholfree #soberliving #alcoholfreelife #thisnakedmind #lovelifesober #imnotsoberimfree #getconnected #grayareadrinking #grayareadrinking #butjesusdrankwine #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #christianandsober #christianity #authenticliving #journeytosobriety #wineandotherstories #vulnerabilityinrecovery Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Today, we welcome the beautiful (inside and out) Brittany Estes, a renowned life coach, speaker, and author, to the podcast. In this captivating episode, Brittany shares her poignant journey of overcoming false narratives about worth and embracing a life of freedom and authenticity. Brittany delves into the transformative power of identifying and challenging the lies we often internalize about ourselves. Drawing from her acclaimed book Flip the Script, she illuminates the profound impact of replacing negative self-talk with God's truth. Brittany emphasizes the crucial role of parents in demonstrating healthy beliefs and behaviors for their children, stressing the significance of doing the inner work to liberate them from the chains of self-doubt and insecurity. From body image issues to the pervasive belief of not being enough, Brittany provides practical tools and invaluable insights to empower listeners to cultivate a positive, truth-filled mindset and embrace their inherent worth. Join us as we explore the transformative power of gratitude, the importance of acknowledging the impact of our words and actions on others, and the liberating journey of flipping the script to embrace a life of freedom. Whether you're a parent striving to model healthy beliefs for your children or an individual yearning to break free from the chains of self-doubt, this episode provides a roadmap to reclaiming your truth and living a life filled with hope and truth. You can find Brittany Estes on instagram at @jbrittanyestes and you can order "Flip The Script, Make Your Move From Broken To Brilliant" here. JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy You can find this episode HERE on YouTube The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. #ChangingPerceptions #NoShame #AlcoholAndDrugs #SubjectiveLabels #getconnected #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #sobriety #alcoholfree #soberliving #alcoholfreelife #thisnakedmind #lovelifesober #imnotsoberimfree #getconnected #grayareadrinking #grayareadrinking #butjesusdrankwine #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #christianandsober #christianity #authenticliving #journeytosobriety #wineandotherstories #vulnerabilityinrecovery Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Allison Barber shares her profound journey to sobriety, shedding light on the complex evolution of her relationship with alcohol. Growing up as a rule follower, Allison felt the societal pressure to conform and fit in, leading her to question why she couldn't simply be a "normal drinker." However, amidst this struggle, she discovered the empowering truth that she had the freedom to choose – not only whether to drink or not, but also how to break free from the grip of alcohol's influence. This newfound agency went beyond the decision of whether to drink, empowering her to break free from alcohol's grip and take charge of her life. Through embracing personal responsibility, she transcended victimhood and paved her own path towards becoming the empowered woman she longed to be. With introspection and faith as her compass, she found solace in the profound realization that God was redeeming her story, transforming her struggles into a source of strength and resilience. She encourages our listeners to understand how being an observer of one's life can lead to empowerment and the ability to make small but meaningful changes. Allison offers so much hope to women who feel stuck by encouraging them to have the freedom to take personal responsibility and make change. You can find out more about Allison here. JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy You can find this episode on YouTube HERE The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. #getconnected #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #sobriety #alcoholfree #soberliving #alcoholfreelife #thisnakedmind #lovelifesober #imnotsoberimfree #getconnected #grayareadrinking #grayareadrinking #butjesusdrankwine #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #christianandsober #christianity #authenticliving #journeytosobriety #wineandotherstories #vulnerabilityinrecovery Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE Join us for a deeply moving episode as we welcome our dear friend Rina Bowring to the podcast. As a fellow alcohol-freedom coach, Rina brings a wealth of wisdom and vulnerability to our conversation, sharing her unique journey of overcoming alcohol addiction and postpartum rage. Rina recounts her early struggles with alcohol, using it to feel liberated and accepted. However, as she transitioned into motherhood, her relationship with alcohol spiraled into a destructive cycle, prompting her to confront the harsh reality of her addiction. With unwavering determination, Rina embarked on a journey of self-discovery, navigating the turbulent waters of postpartum rage and finding peace and hope with Jesus in sobriety. Rina underscores the transformative power of self-reflection and the importance of embracing vulnerability in the journey towards healing. She shares invaluable insights on the role of faith in finding solace and strength amidst trials and emphasizes the profound impact of choosing authenticity and connection in motherhood. From the pitfalls of societal expectations to the liberating power of self-care, Rina's journey is a testament to the resilience we can access when we bring God along on this freedom journey. Special note- Coach Rina will soon be offering a connection call in the community for anyone in Australia or surrounding timezones. For more information and to join us email [email protected] Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Connect with us on Instagram! @butjesusdrankwine @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy You can find this episode HERE on YouTube The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. #ChangingPerceptions #NoShame #AlcoholAndDrugs #SubjectiveLabels #getconnected #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #sobriety #alcoholfree #soberliving #alcoholfreelife #thisnakedmind #lovelifesober #imnotsoberimfree #getconnected #grayareadrinking #grayareadrinking #butjesusdrankwine #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #christianandsober #christianity #authenticliving #journeytosobriety #wineandotherstories #vulnerabilityinrecovery #rinabowring Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE In this episode, we are honored and humbled to present our conversation with psychiatrist, speaker and author Dr. Curt Thompson. Known around BJDW as, "the teacher Meade is most-likely to reference on the podcast for the depth and breadth of the impact his work has had on her life," Curt, connects our intrinsic desire to be known with the need to tell truer stories about ourselves — showing us how to form deep relationships, discover meaning and live integrated creative lives. Join us for a profound exploration of the intersection between neuroscience and the biblical narrative as we delve into the human experience of suffering and the formation of durable hope. Our discussion begins with a reflection on the importance of naming and understanding suffering. We delve into the complexities of the human experience, acknowledging the difficulties of receiving love and mercy amidst pain. Curt emphasizes the transformative power of community in navigating suffering, highlighting the need to bring our whole selves into relationships for healing and growth. Curt sheds light on the limitations of control and the unpredictability of influence in relationships, offering insights into the connection between anxiety and the fear of isolation. He invites us into the significance of being present in the body, providing practical strategies for shifting from a mind-centered approach to an embodied experience, thus fostering deeper connections and resilience. Our conversation continues into the role of anger in the healing process, emphasizing the importance of expressing and releasing this emotion constructively. Finally, Curt delves into the concept of forming durable hope through suffering, illuminating how our experiences shape our anticipation of the future and our capacity to embrace life's challenges with resilience and faith. Through a rich tapestry of neuroscience and biblical wisdom, our chat with Curt offers profound insights into the human condition, inviting listeners to embrace vulnerability, cultivate resilience, and discover enduring hope amidst life's trials. You can learn more about Dr. Curt Thompson at www.curtthompsonmd.com, follow him on instagram @curtthompsonmd and get his newest book: The Deepest Place: Suffering And The Formation Of Hope. To learn more about the incredible work of Curt's non-profit, The Center for Being Known, and to learn more about joining a Confessional Community, go to https://www.thecbk.org/ JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy YouTube: Dr. Curt Thompson 00:00 Introduction: Exploring Freedom from Alcohol 00:52 Special Guest: Dr. Curt Thompson's Impactful Journey 01:53 Discovering Personal Freedom and Transformation 06:30 The Interplay of Neuroscience and Faith 13:08 Understanding Suffering and Embracing Community 23:38 The Challenge of Receiving Love and Mercy 28:03 Exploring the Threshold of Change and Patient Care 29:20 Introducing the But Jesus Drank Wine Community 30:22 Diving Deep into Anxiety and Isolation 36:33 Embracing Embodiment and Physical Awareness 44:32 The Power of Durable Hope in Suffering 52:02 Closing Thoughts and Resources The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. #ChangingPerceptions #NoShame #AlcoholAndDrugs #SubjectiveLabels #getconnected #staycurious #sobriety #alcoholfree #soberliving #alcoholfreelife #thisnakedmind #lovelifesober #imnotsoberimfree #getconnected #grayareadrinking #butjesusdrankwine #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #christianandsober #christianity #authenticliving #journeytosobriety #wineandotherstories #vulnerabilityinrecovery Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

We hear you, our dear readers, that our list episodes are among your favorites and they happen to be favorites of ours too. For today's insightful conversation, we are diving deep into the transformative journey of living alcohol-free, sharing our lists of the ten invaluable lessons we wish we'd known in our first year of "sobriety." 1. Friendship Shuffle: We candidly explore the challenges and blessings of reshaping friendships and social circles after embracing sobriety, highlighting the importance of surrounding oneself with supportive individuals. 2. Temporary Nature of Cravings: We discuss the temporary nature of cravings and discomfort in the initial stages of sobriety, emphasizing that these feelings do pass and are worth enduring for the long-term benefits. 3. Embracing Emotions: We underscore the importance of allowing oneself to feel emotions fully, recognizing that numbing feelings with alcohol only delays true healing and growth. 4. Understanding Moderation: We share insights into the realization that even those who appear to moderate their alcohol consumption may be struggling internally, challenging common perceptions of moderation. 5. Heightened Awareness and Appreciation: We reflect on how sobriety brings about a heightened awareness and appreciation for life's simple joys, fostering a deeper connection with oneself and the world around them. 6. Impact on Children: We discuss the profound impact of our choices on our children, inspiring us to lead by example and prioritize health and well-being. 7. Absence of Desire: We discuss the eventual absence of desire for alcohol, highlighting the freedom and empowerment that come with breaking free from dependency. 8. Expanding Lives: We share how their lives have expanded and become more fulfilling without alcohol, embracing new opportunities and experiences with open arms. 9. Importance of Vulnerability and Connection: We emphasize the power of vulnerability and connection in the journey of sobriety, advocating for honest communication and support networks. 10. Navigating Relationships: We also touch on the challenges of navigating relationships with partners who still drink, offering insights on fostering understanding and compromise. We hope to encourage you to approach sobriety with openness and curiosity, embracing the transformative possibilities of an alcohol-free life. Through our shared experiences and wisdom, we hope to inspire others to embark on their own journey towards a healthier, more fulfilling lifestyle. JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy YouTube 00:00 Introduction to the Podcast: Exploring Freedom from Alcohol 01:08 Diving into the 10 Things I Wish I Knew in My First Year Alcohol-Free 02:10 The Friendship Shuffle: Navigating Relationships in Sobriety 06:44 Embracing the Challenges and Joys of Sobriety 10:35 The Transformative Power of Sobriety on Perception and Relationships 13:32 Moderation Myths and the Journey to True Freedom from Alcohol 18:20 Feeling More Alive: The Emotional Awakening of Sobriety 21:56 The Observant Eyes of Children: Learning and Growing Together 24:52 Embracing Vulnerability and Connection in Sobriety 26:01 The Surprising Space and Time Sobriety Unlocks 27:54 Expanding Your World Beyond Alcohol 31:38 The Transformative Power of Sobriety on Personal Growth 35:49 Navigating Relationships in Sobriety 37:50 Finding Ease and Joy in a Sober Life 40:41 The Struggle with Sobriety: A Path to Learning and Growth 45:43 Closing Thoughts: The Journey of Sobriety The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. #ChangingPerceptions #NoShame #AlcoholAndDrugs #SubjectiveLabels #getconnected #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #sobriety #alcoholfree #soberliving #alcoholfreelife #thisnakedmind #lovelifesober #imnotsoberimfree #getconnected #grayareadrinking #grayareadrinking #butjesusdrankwine #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #christianandsober #christianity #authenticliving #journeytosobriety #wineandotherstories #vulnerabilityinrecovery Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE We are thrilled to announce our very first BJDW Community book, "The Gospel of John: Savoring the Peace of Jesus in a Chaotic World." To kick off this exciting venture, we've invited the brilliant author Melissa Spoelstra to join us on the podcast, where she shares her wisdom on how we can learn more about anchoring ourselves in peace amidst life's chaos. Together, we explore the rich tapestry of John's gospel, delving into its profound significance and uncovering hidden treasures within its pages. We look closer at the transformative narrative of the wedding at Cana, where Jesus initiates His supernatural ministry. Melissa invites us to ponder the timeless wisdom encapsulated in Mary's poignant directive, "Do whatever He tells you," urging us to adopt a posture of obedience and trust in every aspect of our lives. Melissa opens up about her own journey of falling in love with the Word of God and crafting insightful Bible studies that resonate with seekers of truth. With heartfelt authenticity, she underscores the importance of seeking intimacy with Jesus as the cornerstone of finding enduring peace, regardless of external circumstances or fleeting counterfeits. As we unpack the concept of peace as a person—Jesus Himself—Melissa offers practical strategies for slowing down, listening to God's voice, and savoring moments of intimacy with Him. Join us as we share our personal reflections and strategies for cultivating peace in the midst of life's storms. From the significance of worship as a balm for worry to the transformative power of obedience and surrender, we pray this episode gives you hope and encouragement for navigating life's challenges with grace, resilience, and unwavering trust in the Prince of Peace. You can learn more about Melissa's ministry at melissaspoelstra.com, follow her on instagram @melissa.spoelstra, and get her Gospel of John study right HERE. Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade You can find this episode HERE on YouTube 00:00 Introduction: Unveiling the Journey to Sobriety and Faith 00:30 Meet Melissa Spoelstra: A Journey of Faith and Teaching 02:46 Melissa's Personal Journey: From Rural Texas to Theology and Beyond 07:55 Exploring the Stories That Keep Us Stuck 11:26 Finding Peace in Jesus: Insights from the Book of John 16:11 Savoring Intimacy with Jesus in Times of Pain 22:06 Practical Steps to Finding Peace and Combatting Nighttime Temptations 24:12 Introducing the But Jesus Drank Wine Community 25:31 Embracing Quiet and Intentionality 25:54 The Journey from Trying to Training 26:10 Finding Peace and Making Choices 27:42 The Power of Obedience and Its Impact 28:35 The Significance of Jesus's First Miracle 32:49 Personal Stories of Transformation 34:26 The Freedom Found in Obedience 35:26 The Essence of Worship and Its Effects 39:24 Exploring the Gospel of John 45:38 Closing Thoughts and Encouragement The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. #ChangingPerceptions #NoShame #AlcoholAndDrugs #SubjectiveLabels #getconnected #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #sobriety #alcoholfree #soberliving #alcoholfreelife #thisnakedmind #lovelifesober #imnotsoberimfree #getconnected #grayareadrinking #grayareadrinking #butjesusdrankwine #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #christianandsober #christianity #authenticliving #journeytosobriety #wineandotherstories #vulnerabilityinrecovery Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE This week's episode is a heart-to-heart with the inspiring Toni Collier, founder of Broken Crayons Still Color, a global women's organization dedicated to guiding individuals through brokenness toward healing and hope. Toni is a seasoned speaker, podcast host, and author who shares her profound insights on navigating life's challenges with grace and resilience. In our chat, Toni gets real about the struggles we all face. She dives into the truth that hiding our pain only prolongs our healing journey, stressing the importance of opening up and finding support in our communities. Toni certainly doesn't shy away from the tough stuff and even though we delve into brokenness, loss, and addiction in this episode, we felt incredibly uplifted and encouraged by Toni's story and message. She shares how embracing gratitude and a posture of hope can transform our perspective and lead us closer to Christ. This episode will encourage you, dear listener, to embrace your brokenness and embrace the healing process by surrounding yourself with a supportive community that champions vulnerability and authenticity. We hope after you listen to this episode that you are reminded that no matter who you are or what you've been through, you can be restored and redeemed. That yes, even broken crayons, still color. You can follow Toni on Instagram at @tonijcollier and buy her book, "Brave Enough to Be Broken" here and her children's book, "Broken Crayons Still Color" here. Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade You can find this episode HERE on YouTube 00:00 Welcome to Our Journey: Unveiling Freedom from Alcohol 00:34 Introducing Toni: From Brokenness to Beacon of Hope 01:14 Toni's Tale: A Journey Through Darkness to Divine Purpose 06:54 The Power of Broken Crayons: Transforming Pain into Purpose 12:11 Embracing Vulnerability: The Path to True Strength 15:06 Community and Healing: Leaving No Stone Unturned 20:09 The Healing Journey: Embracing Hope as Our Compass 23:16 Introducing the But Jesus Drank Wine Community 24:18 Exploring Gratitude and Grief 24:53 Navigating Divorce and Finding New Beginnings 26:18 The Coexistence of Grief and Gratitude 29:35 Confronting Alcohol Use in Times of Grief 30:27 The Journey to Sobriety and Self-Discovery 31:24 Embracing Community and Accountability 38:24 Living Intentionally Above the 50 Percent Line 39:59 God's Heart Towards Addiction and Recovery 43:04 Tiny Tina Town: Embracing a Replenishment Cycle 46:11 Closing Remarks and Community Engagement The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. #ChangingPerceptions #NoShame #AlcoholAndDrugs #SubjectiveLabels #getconnected #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #sobriety #alcoholfree #soberliving #alcoholfreelife #thisnakedmind #lovelifesober #imnotsoberimfree #getconnected #grayareadrinking #grayareadrinking #butjesusdrankwine #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #christianandsober #christianity #authenticliving #journeytosobriety #wineandotherstories #vulnerabilityinrecovery Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE In this episode we dive into the realm of alcohol-free experiences, sharing personal anecdotes and insights into navigating various social situations sans alcohol. We talk about the many milestone alcohol-free firsts, such as date nights, weddings, birthdays, sporting events, vacations, concerts, and theater/ballet performances. We discuss the joys and benefits of alcohol-free date nights, highlighting enhanced connection and presence. We share our experiences attending weddings without alcohol, focusing on celebration and connection over intoxication. From intimate gatherings to extravagant parties, we explore the possibilities of enjoying birthdays without alcohol. Discovering the excitement of sports events without the influence of alcohol, we emphasize the camaraderie and energy of the experience. Exploring new destinations with a clear mind, we reflect on the beauty of alcohol-free vacations. Attendees of live music events can still have a blast without alcohol, as we discuss the electrifying atmosphere and memorable moments. Experiencing the magic of the arts without alcohol, we delve into the immersive nature of theater and ballet performances. We also shift gears reflecting on what we've learned from many alcohol-free experiences, highlighting the cornerstone of healthy relationships: effective communication. We address the importance of listening and empathy in effective communication. We also explore the impact of body language and tone of voice on communication. We emphasize the significance of trust and rapport in fostering meaningful connections. And we talk through strategies for addressing conflicts through open and honest communication. All of which was made available to us as a gift of experiencing life free from booze. This episode concludes with encouragement to explore alcohol-free experiences and prioritize effective communication in relationships. Tune in next time for more insightful discussions and practical tips on living a fulfilling, alcohol-free lifestyle. Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade You can find this episode HERE on YouTube 00:00 Welcome to Our Journey: Exploring Freedom from Alcohol 00:30 Diving into Alcohol-Free Firsts: Celebrations and Challenges 01:34 The Power of Proof of Progress (POP) in Sobriety 03:49 Navigating Social Situations Alcohol-Free: Date Nights to Weddings 08:00 Celebrating Milestones and Holidays Without Alcohol 16:17 Introducing the But Jesus Drank Wine Community 17:19 Exploring Alcohol-Free Vacations: A New Perspective 20:24 Experiencing Culture and Entertainment Sober: Concerts to Ballet 29:42 Reflecting on the Journey and Encouraging Curiosity 32:36 Closing Thoughts and Encouragement The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. #ChangingPerceptions #NoShame #AlcoholAndDrugs #SubjectiveLabels #getconnected #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #sobriety #alcoholfree #soberliving #alcoholfreelife #thisnakedmind #lovelifesober #imnotsoberimfree #getconnected #grayareadrinking #grayareadrinking #butjesusdrankwine #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #christianandsober #christianity #authenticliving #journeytosobriety #wineandotherstories #vulnerabilityinrecovery Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE From the moment we cracked open the pages of her book, "Free Of Me, Why Life Is Better When It's Not About You," we knew we needed Sharon Hodde Miller's wisdom on this pod, and we're incredibly grateful she accepted our invitation. In a world saturated with the "me" mentality, Sharon shines a light on the pervasive impact of self-centeredness across every facet of our lives. It's a message that infiltrates our friendships, marriages, and even our faith, fracturing each in unique yet profound ways. Pursuing self-improvement often leaves us joyless, our souls diminished, trapped in the cycle of perpetual insecurity. Sharon helps us unpack the intricacies of "image management," exposing its corrosive effect on relationships, where individuals are reduced to mere reflections of our own self-image. Through personal anecdotes and profound insights, she guides us through the labyrinth of toxic thought patterns, offering tangible strategies rooted in God's attributes for healing and restoration. Sharon challenges us to shift our gaze away from ourselves, unveiling a path of profound healing and freedom in loving God and others. Together, we explore the delicate balance between self-care and self-neglect, emphasizing the inherent worth of embracing our identity as beloved daughters of God. We also have a candid chat about the ebbs and flows of waiting seasons, urging us to embrace humility and openness to the transformative work of the Holy Spirit. It's a journey that promises growth, refinement, and, ultimately, freedom from the suffocating grip of self-preoccupation. Join us as we embark on this transformative expedition towards a life liberated from the confines of self. You can follow Sharon on Instagram at @sharonhmiller. Check our her books on Amazon: The Cost of Control by Sharon H. Miller Free of Me by Sharon H. Miller Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade You can find this episode HERE on YouTube The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. #ChangingPerceptions #NoShame #AlcoholAndDrugs #SubjectiveLabels #getconnected #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #sobriety #alcoholfree #soberliving #alcoholfreelife #thisnakedmind #lovelifesober #imnotsoberimfree #getconnected #grayareadrinking #grayareadrinking #butjesusdrankwine #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #christianandsober #christianity #authenticliving #journeytosobriety #wineandotherstories #vulnerabilityinrecovery Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE Today, we delve into the complex dynamics of secret drinking, shedding light on the underlying desires for relief and connection in the face of life's demands. Together we share our experiences of feeling constantly needed by others yet yearning for moments of solace and self-reconnection. Through our reflections, we highlight the transformative power of curiosity and self-compassion in navigating the journey toward freedom from hidden struggles. Meade vulnerably shares her struggle with constantly feeling needed by others, highlighting the desire for moments of solace and self-reconnection amidst the demands of motherhood, marriage, and friendship. Through her journey, she uncovers the underlying desire for relief from the pressures of everyday life and the tension of always being in demand. Christy echoes Meade's sentiments, emphasizing the importance of recognizing the internal conflict and discomfort that often precede secret drinking. She shares personal experiences of navigating the urge to seek solace in alcohol, acknowledging the societal norms that sometimes trivialize or even glamorize such behavior. Together, we challenge the stigma surrounding secret drinking and offer compassionate insights into the complexities of seeking relief and connection in unhealthy ways. Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy You can find this episode on YouTube HERE The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. #ChangingPerceptions #NoShame #AlcoholAndDrugs #SubjectiveLabels #getconnected #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #sobriety #alcoholfree #soberliving #alcoholfreelife #thisnakedmind #lovelifesober #imnotsoberimfree #getconnected #grayareadrinking #grayareadrinking #butjesusdrankwine #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #christianandsober #christianity #authenticliving #journeytosobriety #wineandotherstories #vulnerabilityinrecovery Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE Get ready for an incredible episode as we sit down with the one and only Bob Goff, a true inspiration in living life to the fullest. Bob, the adventurous soul behind "Love Does," "Everybody Always," and "Undistracted," joins us to share his wisdom on embracing the journey, dreaming big, and showing yourself some grace along the way. Get ready to be uplifted, inspired, and ready to tackle your dreams head-on! In this heartfelt conversation, Bob encourages us to take that first step, even if we're not fully equipped. With personal anecdotes from his adventures, he emphasizes the importance of deep roots and understanding our unfulfilled needs. Bob's message of grace over self-accusation resonates deeply as he urges us to be kind to ourselves and extend that kindness to others, especially in unexpected places. As we journey through navigating mistakes and challenges, Bob's practical wisdom shines through, offering a strategy for handling missteps and reminding us to focus on what comes next. From playful farm adventures to embracing childlike faith, Bob's stories inspire us to live with anticipation, curiosity, and resilience. His personal journey of leaving behind a successful legal career serves as a powerful reminder to break free from limitations and embrace change for a more purpose-driven life. Connect with Bob on instagram @bobgoff and at bobgoff.com. Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy YouTube: Bob Goff 00:00 Introduction to the Podcast and Guest Bob Goff 00:31 Bob Goff's Impact and Achievements 03:36 Exploring Freedom from Alcohol and Big Dreams 04:23 Bob Goff on Starting Journeys and Embracing the Unknown 12:42 Navigating Mistakes and Learning from Them 22:13 Creating a Supportive Community for Sobriety and Faith 23:36 The Joy of Play and Fun in Life 24:53 Embracing a Childlike Faith 26:18 The Power of Curiosity and Learning 29:16 Living Beyond Your Capabilities 33:59 Engaging Deeply with Life and Others 37:02 Being Present and Creative with Family 41:27 The Impact of Authentic Relationships 42:35 Looking Forward to New Learning Adventures 44:00 Closing Thoughts and Resources The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. #ChangingPerceptions #NoShame #AlcoholAndDrugs #SubjectiveLabels #getconnected #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #sobriety #alcoholfree #soberliving #alcoholfreelife #thisnakedmind #lovelifesober #imnotsoberimfree #getconnected #grayareadrinking #grayareadrinking #butjesusdrankwine #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #christianandsober #christianity #authenticliving #journeytosobriety #wineandotherstories #vulnerabilityinrecovery Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE Fresh off of Meade's in-person Atlanta AF (alcohol-free) gals meet-up, we are talking all about the transformative power of meaningful connections. Providing avenues for support and camaraderie, both in-person meetups and online communities can foster meaningful connections. We discuss how prayer serves as a valuable tool in both finding and nurturing friendships, guiding individuals towards like-minded relationships and strengthening existing bonds. Being genuine and true to oneself is paramount in attracting compatible friends and cultivating deep, meaningful relationships. We expand on the importance of seeking positive environments where feeling comfortable and uplifted facilitates the meeting of like-minded women and forges genuine connections. Intentionality is critical and being deliberate in how you spend your time and the activities you engage in can lead to opportunities for meeting new people and forming connections. Confidence and practice are essential in navigating the transition to an alcohol-free lifestyle and building new friendships, empowering you to engage authentically with others. Periodically reassessing and adjusting social circles allows for the cultivation of deeper, more meaningful friendships and fosters a supportive social network. More fulfilling relationships and a deeper sense of connection with close friends comes as a result of prioritizing authenticity over the size of your social circle as well as embracing vulnerability fostering trust and openness in relationships. And as always, embracing discomfort and embracing change are integral parts of personal growth, paving the way for meaningful connections and enriched experiences. Finally, drawing inspiration from Jesus' example in friendship, we stress the importance of surrendering to God's timing in cultivating authentic connections. Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy You can find this episode HERE on YouTube The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. #ChangingPerceptions #NoShame #AlcoholAndDrugs #SubjectiveLabels #getconnected #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #sobriety #alcoholfree #soberliving #alcoholfreelife #thisnakedmind #lovelifesober #imnotsoberimfree #getconnected #grayareadrinking #grayareadrinking #butjesusdrankwine #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #christianandsober #christianity #authenticliving #journeytosobriety #wineandotherstories #vulnerabilityinrecovery Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE Today's episode is an inspiring and powerful story from Kristen McAvoy, sobriety influencer and founder of Sober Girl Tribe. From party girl days in college to Covid isolation struggles, Kristen opens up about her decade-long struggle with addiction to alcohol, later compounded by Xanax use. Her journey began in college, where she sought freedom and rebellion, slowly drifting away from her Christian faith, ultimately leading to excessive drinking to cope with social anxiety. Despite facing consequences, Kristen's addiction continued into the corporate world, with a dangerous combination of alcohol and Xanax. She recounts the escalating severity of her addiction, reaching a point where she felt the need for the prescription drug to cope with debilitating anxiety. Kristen shares a pivotal moment when her parents intervened, leading her to a rehab in Florida. Despite initial resistance, the experience became a turning point, and she eventually embraced sobriety. She emphasizes the crucial role of community in her recovery, citing the support of fellow recovering individuals and her strong faith. What started as a simple instagram account, Sober Girl Tribe, designed to encourage and inspire others in the sobriety journey has evolved into a thriving online community where Kristen considers it a privilege to walk alongside those struggling with addiction, emphasizing the importance of reaching out for help, finding a supportive community, and practicing patience and self-compassion. Today's conversion serves as a testament to the transformative power of "recovery" in the freedom from alcohol journey and highlights the strength and resilience gained through navigating the path to sobriety. You can find Kristen and her adorable mini-goldendoodle Maggie over on the 'gram @sobergirltribe Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy You can find this episode on YouTube HERE The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. #ChangingPerceptions #NoShame #AlcoholAndDrugs #SubjectiveLabels #getconnected #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #sobriety #alcoholfree #soberliving #alcoholfreelife #thisnakedmind #lovelifesober #imnotsoberimfree #getconnected #grayareadrinking #grayareadrinking #butjesusdrankwine #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #christianandsober #christianity #authenticliving #journeytosobriety #wineandotherstories #vulnerabilityinrecovery Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Join Meade and Christy as they delve into the second part of their conversation centered on the importance of community with the launch of the But Jesus Drink Wine Community, exploring the intersection of faith, personal growth, and community support. From the challenges of outgrowing friendships to the impact of FOMO on social media, they offer insights on living intentionally and embracing change. Learn about the transformative power of Meade's P.E.A.C.E. method and the importance of drawing near to God while engaging with others in meaningful dialogue. This episode is your guide to navigating life's transitions with grace and authenticity. Takeaways: Creating a community for Jesus-curious/Jesus followers and those on an alcohol-free journey is important for support and connection. Outgrowing friendships is a natural part of personal growth and should be celebrated. FOMO and comparison on social media can lead to feelings of lack and discontentment. It is important to explore other possibilities and challenge the shoulds in order to live with intentionality. Use Meade's P.E.A.C.E. method (Pause, Exhale, Allow, Consider, Engage) to navigate emotional charges and discomfort. Consider other possibilities and don't assume what others think. Don't base actions on others' opinions. Allow yourself to feel and explore different perspectives. Living differently can be a superpower and lead to personal growth. Be the first to make a change and inspire others. Draw near to God and engage with the community. JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Find this episode on YouTube HERE! Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. #ChangingPerceptions #NoShame #AlcoholAndDrugs #SubjectiveLabels #getconnected #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #sobriety #alcoholfree #soberliving #alcoholfreelife #thisnakedmind #lovelifesober #imnotsoberimfree #getconnected #grayareadrinking #grayareadrinking #butjesusdrankwine #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #christianandsober #christianity #authenticliving #journeytosobriety #wineandotherstories #vulnerabilityinrecovery Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE Today we're excited to announce the launch of the But Jesus Drink Wine Community, born from the heartfelt requests of our valued listeners highlighting the need for connection with those who are following Jesus/those who are curious about Jesus and those on an alcohol-free journey. This conversation centers around some of the hardest, yet most rewarding growth "we get to do" on the sobriety journey and the importance of doing it alongside those traveling similar paths. In this conversation, we first address the complex feelings of fitting in and the discomfort of outgrowing friendships. We emphasize the need to acknowledge and celebrate personal growth and the process of pruning in friendships. We also discuss the impact of FOMO and comparison on social media and the importance of exploring other possibilities beyond the "shoulds" with social invitations. In this conversation, we're also digging into how to navigate emotional charges and discomfort and Meade shares her tried-and-true P.E.A.C.E. method. We emphasize the need to consider other possibilities and not assume what others think. We also highlight the importance of not basing actions on others' opinions and allowing oneself to feel and explore different perspectives. The conversation explores the power of living differently and being the first to make a change. This episode concludes with a discussion on drawing near to God and engaging with the community. Takeaways: Creating a community for Jesus-curious/Jesus followers and those on an alcohol-free journey is important for support and connection. Outgrowing friendships is a natural part of personal growth and should be celebrated. FOMO and comparison on social media can lead to feelings of lack and discontentment. It is important to explore other possibilities and challenge the shoulds in order to live with intentionality. Use Meade's P.E.A.C.E. method (Pause, Exhale, Allow, Consider, Engage) to navigate emotional charges and discomfort. Consider other possibilities and don't assume what others think. Don't base actions on others' opinions. Allow yourself to feel and explore different perspectives. Living differently can be a superpower and lead to personal growth. Be the first to make a change and inspire others. Draw near to God and engage with the community. Chapters: 1. Introduction and Announcement 2. Launching the But Jesus Drink Wine Community 3. Creating a Community for Jesus Followers and Jesus-Curious 4. Feeling Left Out and Fitting In 5. Growth and Pruning in Friendships 6. Acknowledging the Discomfort of Letting Go 7. Navigating FOMO and Comparison on Social Media 8. Challenging Shoulds and Invitations 9. Embracing Other Possibilities 10. Meade's P.E.A.C.E. Method: Navigating Emotional Discomfort 11. Considering Different Perspectives 12. Liberating Yourself from Others' Opinions 13. Cultivating Curiosity and Allowance 14. Embracing Uncomfortable Spaces 15. Harnessing the Power of Living Differently 16. Leading Change and Inspiring Others 17. Questioning the Desire to Conform 18. Inside Out Transformation: Journeying toward Authenticity 19. Drawing Near to God in Community Engagement Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy You can find this episode on YouTube HERE The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. #ChangingPerceptions #NoShame #AlcoholAndDrugs #SubjectiveLabels #getconnected #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #sobriety #alcoholfree #soberliving #alcoholfreelife #thisnakedmind #lovelifesober #imnotsoberimfree #getconnected #grayareadrinking #grayareadrinking #butjesusdrankwine #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #christianandsober #christianity #authenticliving #journeytosobriety #wineandotherstories #vulnerabilityinrecovery Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

In today's episode, we dive headfirst into a fiery discussion surrounding conventional beliefs about alcoholism. We boldly reject the notion that it's a disease, championing instead personal responsibility and an exploratory mindset as the keys to freedom from alcohol. We challenge the widely-held belief that people genuinely enjoy the taste of alcohol, attributing it to nothing more than conditioning and desensitization. Additionally, we explore the daunting challenges of moderation and unpack the societal pressures that often accompany drinking habits. Together, we shine a spotlight on the importance of embracing new approaches and taking deliberate steps to break free from the drinking cycle. Our message is clear: it's time to question societal norms and beliefs. Join us as we navigate this candid conversation and empower listeners to reclaim control over their lives. JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy You can find this episode on YouTube HERE #getconnected #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #sobriety #alcoholfree #soberliving #alcoholfreelife #thisnakedmind #lovelifesober #imnotsoberimfree #getconnected #grayareadrinking #grayareadrinking #butjesusdrankwine #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #christianandsober #christianity #authenticliving #journeytosobriety #wineandotherstories #vulnerabilityinrecovery The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. 14:11 Introduction 14:18 The Magical Third Door 14:26 Introducing the But Jesus Drank Wine Community 14:35 Join the Sisterhood 14:53 Exclusive Community Benefits 15:06 Guest Expert Sessions and Q&A's 15:15 Join Now 15:18 Closing Remarks Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Recently, we were both blessed with opps to attend two different retreats. Meade was a participant in a retreat with her coach, Bob Goff, at The Oaks Center. Christy hosted a retreat for alcohol-free ladies in the Cotswolds. Today's convo has us reflecting and sharing all the details of both retreat experiences, each with its unique charm and kicks off with us highlighting the beauty of our locations and the transformative power of being in like-minded communities. Christy, recounting her retreat, emphasizes the magical atmosphere created by a group of women free from alcohol. She muses about the depth of connections formed in the absence of alcohol that leads to vulnerable and meaningful conversations. Christy, highlighting the emotional impact of bidding farewell to newfound friends, punctuates the importance of cultivating authentic connections. Other highlights include the gorgeous grounds and location; the activities – who knew pilates could create so much laughter; the delectable eats prepared by a private chef; and the overall value of being in-person, in community. Meade shares her experience from her retreat led by Bob Goff, an influential Christian author, speaker and coach. She expresses the joy of attending a retreat without the responsibilities of hosting or leading, allowing her to be present and practice "following;" something that doesn't come easily to leaders yet is necessary, ultimately, to leading well. Further, she reflects on the value of surrounding oneself with like-minded individuals who share similar values and aspirations. Sharing other key takeaways from the retreat, Meade, highlights the value of: Being present and vulnerable Considering who and what we allow to influence us Dreaming big and setting intentions Curiosity Vulnerability Allowing others to love and care for you Today's convo centers on the experiences of two women on two different retreats with the common theme of connecting deeply when alcohol is not a part of the equation and it underscores the importance and transformative power of living aligned with how God created us to live – in community. The book Meade mentioned: Seven Primal Questions The song Meade referenced: Honey in the Rock by Brooke Ligertwood The Psalm referenced: Psalm 81 LEARN MORE ABOUT THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE. Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy You can find this episode on YouTube: HERE 00:01 Introduction to the Podcast 00:29 The Importance of Audio Quality in Podcasting 01:10 Podcast Goals and Aspirations 01:48 Recapping Recent Retreat Experiences 02:43 Christy's Retreat Experience 05:26 The Power of Connection in Alcohol-Free Environments 09:02 Mead's Retreat Experience 14:08 The Impact of Living Aligned with Your Values 15:21 The Power of Influence and Choosing Your Circle 18:09 Living Counter Culturally and Embracing Difference 19:48 The Shift in Perception and Living Authentically 20:11 The Power of Retreats and Community 20:43 The Joy of Shared Meals and New Friendships 21:15 The Struggles of Cooking and the Comfort of Familiarity 21:53 The Charm of Accents and the Beauty of Diversity 22:37 The Importance of Finding Your Tribe 25:57 The Value of Curiosity, Presence, and Vulnerability 28:19 The Power of Dreaming Big and Setting Intentions 30:19 The Importance of Allowing Others to Love and Care for You 33:18 The Joy of Music and the Power of Song 34:20 Closing Remarks and Final Thoughts #getconnected #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #sobriety #alcoholfree #soberliving #alcoholfreelife #thisnakedmind #lovelifesober #imnotsoberimfree #getconnected #grayareadrinking #grayareadrinking #butjesusdrankwine #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #christianandsober #christianity #authenticliving #journeytosobriety #wineandotherstories #vulnerabilityinrecovery The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

In this heartfelt conversation, Susan Larkin, fellow alcohol and life transformation coach, shares her journey of grappling with alcohol as a Christian woman. The discussion unfolds within the context of her Christian faith, shedding light on the complexities and challenges faced by individuals navigating the freedom from alcohol journey in Christian community. As a Christian, Susan initially adhered to the belief that Christians don't drink. However, as life unfolded, social situations introduced alcohol, challenging her perception. This shift led to a hidden struggle with overdrinking and was exacerbated by the stigma associated with drinking in Christian communities. Susan highlights her experience as a gray-area drinker, where she couldn't relate to the traditional "alcoholic" but struggled with overdrinking, leading to a cycle of shame and hiding. She shares her experience seeking help within the Christian community, including confiding in her pastor and attending AA meetings. Candidly recounting her attempt to control her alcohol intake by drawing a line on the bottle, Susan reflects on the frustration of constantly breaking self-imposed limits and the desire to be a "normal drinker." She describes the moment she had a breakthrough related to her relationship to alcohol when she focused on how she wanted to feel – alive! Susan shares her experiences during a vacation and a birthday, challenging common narratives about "data points" or what we refer to in our coaching as "growth points," encouraging others not to discount their alcohol-free achievements. Susan also reflects on a poignant moment when she felt God's kindness, understanding, and lack of judgment, transforming the guilt associated with overdrinking and illuminating the compassionate character of God. Challenging the perception of alcohol as a "people problem," Susan highlights its addictive nature and explores the need for an awakening in the church regarding alcohol-related discussions. Our conversation with Susan serves as a powerful narrative of faith, struggle, and self-discovery, offering valuable insights for anyone navigating similar challenges within the intersection of alcohol use and Christianity. You can learn more about Susan and the work she does here and you can find her over on the 'gram @drinklesswithsusan. You can find this Episode on YouTube HERE LEARN MORE ABOUT THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy #getconnected #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #sobriety #alcoholfree #soberliving #alcoholfreelife #thisnakedmind #lovelifesober #imnotsoberimfree #getconnected #grayareadrinking #grayareadrinking #butjesusdrankwine #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #christianandsober #christianity #authenticliving #journeytosobriety #wineandotherstories #vulnerabilityinrecovery The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Today's episode has us saying no more pussy-footing around a chat about self-care, and has us diving into the common misconceptions of self-care, especially as it relates to the largely secular sober-verse. While the world, online influencers and brilliant marketers have us believing self-care is solely about indulging in luxurious activities and pampering ourselves, we are challenging this narrative and emphasizing the need to consider our future selves based on what truly nourishes and fills us up. We highlight the importance of creating space for self-care and why it necessarily involves activities such as stillness, quiet, and rest. We also chat about why true self-care is only possible with soul-care as the foundation and how the nourishment of our souls through connecting with God in prayer and reading the Bible, is what truly allows us to show up ready to serve others. We could've had a whole episode on rest as a crucial ingredient in self-care (and we'll no doubt do a part 2 all about it) for now though, we invite you to explore what rest means to you and to consider ways to incorporate it into your routine. This conversation underscores the necessity of reframing the cultural idea of self-care and then practicing it as a means to recharge, avoid burnout and live free from alcohol with Godly purpose and intention. You can find this Episode on YouTube HERE LEARN MORE ABOUT THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy #getconnected #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #sobriety #alcoholfree #soberliving #alcoholfreelife #thisnakedmind #lovelifesober #imnotsoberimfree #getconnected #grayareadrinking #grayareadrinking #butjesusdrankwine #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #christianandsober #christianity #authenticliving #journeytosobriety #wineandotherstories #vulnerabilityinrecovery The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.