Brandon The Dom
73 episodes — Page 1 of 2
BDSM Q&A: Biting, Dominant Power, Self Worth as Men, and Practicing Asserting Wants
Tantric Breathing for Sex: A Simple Tool for Deeper Intimacy and Pleasure
Cock Worship: 10 Principles to Worship Your Man
Why Grief Can Kill—or Intensify—Your Sexual Desire
Stop Believing the Illusion of Total Control
Ep 68BDSM Q&A: Intense Sexual Feelings, Dom Drop, Truth About 24/7 Dynamics, Communication in BDSM
In this special video, I'm addressing your burning questions from the Red Room Forums and YouTube comments section, offering more detailed responses than a quick reply. Stay tuned for practical insights on navigating complex dynamics and fostering stronger connections in bdsm dynamics and relationships.---👉 Join Community: https://www.brandonthedom.com/red-room👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro (00:24) - Q1: Dealing With Intense Sexual Feelings (04:00) - Q2: Dom Drop (08:38) - Q3: Truth About 24/7 Dynamics (16:24) - Q4: Why So Much Communication in BDSM ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:📖 Subdrop: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sub-drop📖 Subspace: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/subspace📖 Traits of a Good Dom: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/what-is-a-good-dominant▶️ Feburary Q&A: https://youtu.be/A2UV9c1aaIM
Ep 67The Submission That Isn't: Identifying Topping from the Bottom
Are you struggling with topping from the bottom in your D/s dynamic? Learn what topping from the bottom really means, why it happens, and how Dominants and submissives can rebuild trust, improve communication, and create deeper, more satisfying power exchange relationships.---👉 Join Community: https://www.brandonthedom.com/red-room👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro (00:16) - What Is Topping From the Bottom? (03:32) - What Isn’t Topping From the Bottom (07:06) - Topping From the Bottom vs. Bratting (08:13) - Why Do Submissives Top From the Bottom? (15:59) - How to Address Topping From the Bottom (16:27) - What the Dom Can Do (24:54) - What the Submissive Can Do ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Topping Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/topping-from-the-bottom📖 Brat Taming: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/brat-tamer📖 BDSM Scene Crafting : https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-scene📖 Trauma Support: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/trauma-support 📖 Building Trust: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/building-trust 📖 Boundaries & Limits: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-limits 📖 Difficult Conversations: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/difficult-conversations📖 Power Exchange: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/power-exchange📖 Submissive Mindset: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/submissive-mindset
Ep 66Tantric Touch: More Than Just a Pleasurable Massage
Want to deepen intimacy and pleasure through touch? Tantric Touch enhances connection with intentional, mindful techniques for sensual intimacy, deeper bonding, and experiencing pleasure beyond goal-driven sex.---👉 Join Community: https://www.brandonthedom.com/red-room👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Touch Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/tantric-touch📖 Tantric Eye Gazing for Sex: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/tantric-eye-gazing📖 Tantric Breathing for Sex: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/tantric-breathing📖 Tantric Sex Guide: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/tantric-sex📖 Tantric Yoni Massage: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/yoni-massage
Ep 65Service Top: An Overlooked Role (Which Can Make You A Better Dom)
What does it mean to be a Service Top in BDSM? Discover how giving from the Top can be just as fulfilling as receiving, why Dominants should learn to serve too, and how genuine service deepens trust, pleasure, and connection.---👉 Join Community: https://www.brandonthedom.com/red-room👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro (00:15) - What Is a Service Top? (03:50) - Why Be of Service as a Top? (05:29) - Why Be of Service as a Dom? (07:23) - How to Be of Service as a Top ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Service Top Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/service-top📖 Pleasure Doms: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/pleasure-dom📖 Service Submissive: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/service-sub📖 Dominant Archetypes: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/types-of-doms📖 Dominant Mindset: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dominant-mindset📖 Boundaries & Limits: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-limits
Ep 64BDSM Q&A: Discipline Without Punishment, Praise Kinks, Trust Building & Attachment Styles in D/s
In this special video, I'm addressing your burning questions from the YouTube comments section, offering more detailed responses than a quick reply. Stay tuned for practical insights on navigating complex dynamics and fostering stronger connections in bdsm dynamics and relationships.---👉 Join Community: https://www.brandonthedom.com/red-room👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro (00:16) - Q1: Trust Building After Harm (06:52) - Q2: Discipline Without Punishment (12:02) - Q3: Giving Spiritual Praise (15:51) - Q4: Opposite Attachment Styles in D/s Dynamics ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:📖 Trust Building: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/building-trust📖 Discipline: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/discipline📖 Subdrop: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sub-drop📖 Praise: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/praise-kink📖 Subspace: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/subspace📖 Attachment Styles: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/attachment-style📖 Tantric Eye Gazing: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/tantric-eye-gazing
Ep 63Supporting a Traumatized Partner in BDSM & Sex
How can you support a partner with trauma while exploring sex or BDSM safely and lovingly? Learn trauma-informed ways to build trust, create emotional safety, and help your partner reconnect with their body, pleasure, and power.---👉 Join Community: https://www.brandonthedom.com/red-room👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Free Sex Menu with 350+ Acts: https://www.brandonthedom.com/resources/sex-menu-template---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro (00:17) - What Is Trauma? (02:36) - How Trauma May Manifest in BDSM (05:33) - How Trauma Impacts Pleasure (06:14) - How Trauma Impacts Power Exchange (07:35) - How to Support a Partner with Trauma (10:02) - Stage 1: Safety & Stabilization (16:59) - Stage 2: Remembrance and Mourning (18:57) - Stage 3: Reconnecting and Integrating (28:27) - Stage 4: Consolidation and Resolution ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Trauma Support Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/trauma-support📖 Dom Sub Relationship: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dom-sub-relationship📖 Shame: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/shame📖 Sexual Performance Anxiety: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sexual-performance-anxiety📖 Subdrop: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sub-drop📖 Praise: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/praise-kink🔗 Trauma-Informed Consensual Kink: https://www.instagram.com/traumainformedkink🔗 The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture: https://amzn.to/47cfOIJ🔗 Attachment Disturbances in Adults: Treatment for Comprehensive Repair: https://amzn.to/3J21zNr🔗 PESI: https://www.pesi.com/🔗 NAMI Family Support Groups: https://www.nami.org/support-education/support-groups/nami-family-support-group/
Ep 62How to Navigate Age Gap Relationships (and Other Power Imbalances)
What is an age gap relationship, and can it really work? Explore the dynamics, benefits, and potential risks of age gap relationships, and learn how informed consent, communication, and mutual respect can make them fulfilling and nurturing for both partners.---👉 Join Community: https://www.brandonthedom.com/red-room👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro (00:16) - What Are Age Gap Relationships? (01:59) - Why Would Someone Want to Be in an Age Gap Relationship? (02:34) - Why a Younger Person Might Want to Engage in an Age Gap Relationship (04:30) - Why an Older Person Might Want to Engage in an Age Gap Relationship (06:36) - Mutual Intentions and Considerations (07:26) - How to Mitigate the Risks of Power Imbalance (09:09) - Fallacy of Age Equals Maturity (11:36) - Fallacy of Power Imbalances Leading to Exploitation (13:07) - How to Engage in an Age Gap Relationship (18:41) - How to Express Concerns About Age Gap Relationships ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Age-Gap Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/age-gap-relationships📖 Dom Sub Relationship: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dom-sub-relationship📖 Difficult Conversations: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/difficult-conversations
Ep 61Make Roleplay Hotter, Easier, and Less Awkward
What makes roleplay sex so exciting? Discover how erotic roleplay engages your most powerful sexual organ—the brain—while helping you explore taboo desires, deepen intimacy, and have a lot more fun in and out of the bedroom.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dominant Dirty Talk Masterclass: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dominant-dirty-talk-masterclass---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro (00:15) - What is Sexual Roleplay? (01:02) - Why People Roleplay (03:45) - How to Roleplay (05:44) - Levels of Roleplay (08:36) - What To Do When It Feels Awkward (09:23) - Returning to Reality ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Roleplay Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/roleplay-sex📖 Dom Sub Relationship: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dom-sub-relationship📖 Primal Play: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/primal-play📖 Public Play: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/public-sex📖 Shadow Play: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-play📖 Dealing with Shame: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/shame
Ep 60Discipline Isn’t Punishment: The Secret to a Thriving D/s Relationship
Ever wondered how discipline can make your BDSM dynamic stronger and more erotic? Discover how expanding your understanding of discipline—beyond just punishment—creates structure, accountability, and deeper connection for both Dominant and submissive.---👉 Free Sex Menu with 350+ Acts: https://www.brandonthedom.com/resources/sex-menu-template👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro (00:16) - What is Discipline? (01:43) - Discipline vs. Punishment (02:44) - Why Use Discipline? (04:47) - Step 1: Start with Self-Discipline (06:20) - Step 2: Give the Dynamic a Purpose (09:52) - Step 3: Create a Code of Conduct (13:59) - Step 4: Use the Accountability Triangle (14:50) - Rewards (16:49) - Punishment (19:54) - Feedback (24:31) - Step 5: Adjusting the Code of Conduct ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Discipline Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/discipline📖 Brat Taming: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/brat-tamer📖 Praise: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/praise-kink📖 Rewards: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-rewards📖 Punishments: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-punishments📖 Situationships: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/situationship📖 Difficult Conversations: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/difficult-conversations
Ep 59Tantric Eye Gazing: A Practice Far More Vulnerable Than Sex
What if deeper intimacy could begin with a single gaze? Eye gazing is a powerful Tantric practice that helps couples and individuals build connection, trust, and presence by simply looking into each other’s eyes. Learn the difference between eye gazing and staring, why it’s so transformative, and how to start your own practice—solo or with a partner.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro (00:22) - What is Tantric Eye Gazing? (02:12) - Eye Gazing vs. Staring (03:12) - Why Engage in Eye Gazing (07:28) - How Does This Improve Your Relationship and Sex Life? (08:46) - How to Engage in Tantric Eye Gazing (09:33) - How to Eye Gaze with a Partner (13:15) - How to Eye Gaze on Your Own ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Eye Gazing Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/tantric-eye-gazing📖 Tantric Breathing for Sex: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/tantric-breathing📖 Tantric Touch for Sex: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/tantric-touch📖 Tantric Sex Guide: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/tantric-sex
Ep 58Predicament Bondage: Turning Submission into an Exhilarating Game
Curious about predicament bondage? Discover how this unique form of BDSM combines restraint, creativity, and psychology to create thrilling challenges where the submissive must choose between pain, pleasure, or surrender.---👉 Free Sex Menu with 350+ Acts: https://www.brandonthedom.com/resources/sex-menu-template👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro (00:15) - What Is Predicament Bondage? (02:01) - Why Do People Enjoy Predicament Bondage? (03:59) - How to Design Predicament Bondage (04:29) - Risk Management & Safety (08:27) - Motivations (09:51) - Strategies (13:28) - Tips for the Submissive ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Predicament Bondage Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/predicament-bondage📖 Light Bondage: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/light-bondage📖 Pleasure Dom: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/pleasure-dom📖 Praise: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/praise-kink📖 Rewards: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-rewards📖 Punishments: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-punishments
Ep 5710 Unexpected Benefits of Dom-Sub Relationships
Ever wondered what makes a Dom sub relationship so powerful? This video explores the potential benefits of power exchange within BDSM dynamics, from deeper intimacy to hotter passion. I discuss how these relationships can lead to personal growth and offers valuable relationship advice for those curious about this kink lifestyle.---👉 Free Sex Menu with 350+ Acts: https://www.brandonthedom.com/resources/sex-menu-template👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro (00:11) - What Are Dom/sub Relationships? (03:37) - Who Actually Has the Power in the Relationship? (06:08) - Benefit 1: Needs Are Met. Boundaries Are Respected. (08:54) - Benefit 2: You Establish Consent for Everything (12:04) - Benefit 3: Shared Purpose & Values (13:47) - Benefit 4: Clearly Defined Roles (16:28) - Benefit 5: Knowing What You're Supposed To Do (17:51) - Benefit 6: Becoming New Versions of Yourself (19:31) - Benefit 7: Exploration of Identity (21:17) - Benefit 8: Polarity & Erotic Tension (23:34) - Benefit 9: Intimacy Through Vulnerability (24:43) - Benefit 10: Sex in the Foreground ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Dom sub Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dom-sub-relationship📖 Shadow Play: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-play📖 Situationships: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/situationship📖 Praise: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/praise-kink📖 Rewards: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-rewards📖 Punishments: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-punishments📖 Difficult Conversations: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/difficult-conversations📖 Bratting: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/brat-tamer📖 Building trust: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/building-trust📖 Public Play: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-play-party📖 Cockwarming: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/cockwarming📖 Free Use: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/free-use-kink
Ep 56Your First BDSM Party: Here's What to Expect
Ever wondered what really goes on at a BDSM Play Party? Learn how to survive your first event, turn nerves into confidence, and have an unforgettable night of kink, connection, and fun—without feeling lost or overwhelmed.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Play Party Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-play-party📖 Munch: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-munch📖 Subspace: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/subspace📖 Subdrop: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sub-drop📖 Sample vetting: https://flogandflow.com/resources/safety/
Ep 55Is a Free Use Kink Really Just Unlimited Sex?
Curious about free use kink? Discover what it is, how it works, why people enjoy it, and the rules of consent that make it both thrilling and safe. Learn how to explore free use kink responsibly in this guide.---👉 Free Sex Menu with 350+ Acts: https://www.brandonthedom.com/resources/sex-menu-template👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro (00:09) - What is a Free Use Kink (03:49) - Types of Free Use (04:41) - Why Do People Enjoy Free Use? (06:28) - How to Engage in Free Use (09:58) - Free Use Scenarios to Try ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Free Use Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/free-use-kink📖 Limits & Boundaries: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-limits📖 Degradation: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/degradation-kink📖 Public Play: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/public-sex📖 Light Bondage: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/light-bondage
Ep 54Types of Doms: Which One Are You Meant to Be?
Curious about which Dom you are—or could become? Explore the different types of Doms in BDSM, from classic Masters to sensual Pleasure Doms, and learn how to find or craft a persona that fits your true desires.---👉 Free Sex Menu with 350+ Acts: https://www.brandonthedom.com/resources/sex-menu-template👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro (00:15) - What is a Dom? (02:36) - Types of Doms (08:45) - How to Create Your Own Dominant Persona (11:59) - Step 1: Understand Yourself (12:22) - Understanding Your Desires (15:56) - Understanding Your Personality (17:50) - Understanding Your Values (18:58) - Step 2: Decide What You Do (19:15) - Choosing Activities (20:23) - Choosing the Energy in Your Behavior (21:39) - Choosing Your Tools & Toys (23:21) - Step 3: Craft How You Look (23:57) - Craft Your Wardrobe (24:49) - Craft Your Environment ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Types of Doms Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/types-of-doms📖 Degradation: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/degradation-kink📖 Primal Play: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/primal-play📖 Pleasure Dom: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/pleasure-dom📖 Brat Tamer: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/brat-tamer📖 Light Bondage: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/light-bondage📖 Orgasm Control: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/orgasm-control
Ep 53How to Set Boundaries and Limits in BDSM
What’s the difference between BDSM limits and boundaries—and why do they matter so much? Learn how to confidently set, communicate, and honor your BDSM limits and boundaries to create safer, hotter, and more connected power exchange dynamics.---👉 Free Sex Menu with 350+ Acts: https://www.brandonthedom.com/resources/sex-menu-template👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro (00:16) - BDSM Limits vs. Boundaries (02:41) - Why Have Limits and Boundaries in BDSM? (05:07) - How to Discover Your BDSM Limits (07:46) - How to Set Boundaries (10:15) - Set Boundaries for What You Can Control ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Limits Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-limits📖 Difficult Conversations: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/difficult-conversations📖 Ethical Non-monogamy: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/ethical-non-monogamy
Ep 52Praise Kink: The Deeper Intimate Power Play You’re Not Talking About
What if praise could unravel you more than pain? In this video, we explore the psychology behind the praise kink and how affirmation play can deepen intimacy in your D/s relationships. Discover the emotional intelligence involved in this BDSM dynamic and how it contributes to personal growth and healthy relationships. ---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro (00:10) - What is a Praise Kink? (01:13) - Praise Kink vs. Words of Affirmation (02:15) - Why People Might Have a Praise Kink (05:12) - Risks of a Praise Kink (06:26) - Praise vs. Intimacy-Deepening Praise (12:01) - How to Stop Seeking External Validation ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Praise Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/praise-kink📖 Degradation: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/degradation-kink
Ep 51Why BDSM Play Is More Than Just Kinky Fun
What if BDSM play is more than just kink? Explore how BDSM play can become a powerful tool for psychological growth, shadow integration, and deeper self-awareness through role play.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro (00:14) - What is BDSM Play? (01:09) - Play as Cognitive Development (03:27) - Play as Integrating the Shadow (05:45) - Why Use BDSM Play to Explore Your Shadow (08:50) - How to Engage in BDSM Play ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 BDSM Play Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-play📖 Primal Play: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/primal-play 📖 Pleasure Dom: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/pleasure-dom📖 Degradation: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/degradation-kink 📖 Traits of a good Dom: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/what-is-a-good-dominant📖 Dominant Mindset: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dominant-mindset
Ep 5013 Ways to Engage in Public Play & Sex
Curious how to explore your kinks in public without getting caught? This guide to public play and public sex shows you how to stay discreet, ethical, and wildly turned on—anywhere.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro (00:12) - What is Public Play? (01:20) - Why do people enjoy orgasm control? (03:21) - 16 Ways to Practice Orgasm Control (08:41) - Important considerations for orgasm control ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Public Play Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/public-sex📖 Bondage: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/light-bondage📖 Service Submission: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/service-sub📖 Punishments: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-punishments📖 Degradation: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/degradation-kink📖 Munches: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-munch
Ep 49Light Bondage for Beginners (Without Learning Rope!)
Curious about bondage but not ready for rope? Discover light bondage for beginners—safe, sexy ways to restrain your partner without needing knots. Learn fun, easy techniques using everyday items and build trust and intimacy in your BDSM play.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro (00:18) - What is Bondage? (02:38) - Why Do People Enjoy Bondage? (04:35) - Risks & Safety (08:14) - Ways to Perform Bondage (09:53) - Types of Light Bondage for Beginners ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Bondage Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/light-bondage📖 Subspace: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/subspace📖 Manhandling: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/manhandling
Ep 48How To Train a Service Sub in BDSM
What if the most powerful kind of submission didn’t involve ropes, pain, or punishment—but quiet devotion? This deep dive into the world of the service sub explores the psychology, practices, and emotional intimacy behind acts of service in Dom/sub dynamics. Discover how small tasks become sacred rituals and why this underrated role holds transformative potential for both Dominants and submissives.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro (00:27) - What is a Service Sub? (02:30) - Why Might Someone Enjoy Being a Service Sub? (05:26) - Why Might Someone Enjoy Being Served? (07:12) - Creating Tasks for Service Subs (10:52) - Addressing the Service Submissive’s Needs (13:27) - Training a Service Sub (14:44) - Correcting Mistakes (15:58) - Aftercare for Service Submission (16:48) - Principles for Being a Service Sub ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Service Sub Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/service-sub📖 Building Trust: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/building-trust 📖 Bratty Subs: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/brat-tamer📖 Pleasure Doms: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/pleasure-dom📖 Sex Homework: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sex-homework📖 Punishments: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-punishments
Ep 47How to Have Difficult Conversations with Your Partner
Need to have a talk with a partner? This guide explores the art of navigating difficult conversations, with proven tools for improving communication skills, and creating deeper connections—whether in serious or casual relationships.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro (00:13) - Why are difficult conversations so hard? (02:44) - How to Have Difficult Conversations (03:36) - Step One: Prepare Yourself (05:50) - Step Two: Setting the Stage (11:23) - Step Three: Create a Container (16:36) - Step Four: Having the Conversation (24:16) - Bonus: Difficult Conversations in Situationships ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Conversation Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/difficult-conversations📖 Ethical Non-Monogamy: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/ethical-non-monogamy📖 Situationships: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/situationship📖 Building Trust: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/building-trust
Ep 46Degradation Kink: A Misunderstood Dark Art in BDSM
What draws people to degradation kink, and how can something so taboo become deeply healing? This article unpacks the psychology, purpose, and ethical practice of degradation kink in BDSM, including how it differs from humiliation and objectification. Learn how to engage in these dark arts with intention, consent, and care—for both Dominants and submissives.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro (00:23) - What is Degradation (01:40) - Degradation vs Humiliation vs Objectification (03:53) - Why Might a Submissive Want to Engage in These Types of Play? (06:46) - Why Might a Dom Want to Engage in These Types of Play? (11:52) - Those Using Degradation to Cause Harm (15:44) - How to Engage in Degradation (17:49) - Ways to Engage in Degradation Play ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Degradation Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/degradation-kink📖 Sexual Shame: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/shame📖 Brat Tamer: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/brat-tamer📖 Primal Play: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/primal-play📖 Face Fucking: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/face-fucking📖 Dom Mindset: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dominant-mindset
Ep 45Master the Dominant Mindset: 3 Keys to Authentic Power in the Bedroom
Want to step into a truly dominant mindset without feeling like you're just playing a role? Discover how embracing your authentic desires, removing shame, and learning to take control will transform your confidence and give your submissive exactly what she craves.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro (00:16) - Three Keys (01:01) - Key 1: Identifying Your Desires (07:57) - Key 2: Removing Shame (11:29) - Key 3: Ask For Your Desires (15:15) - Learning to Take (18:17) - Learning to Accept (21:02) - Learning to Serve (24:17) - Learning to Allow ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Dom Mindset Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dominant-mindset📖 Sexual Shame: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/shame📖 Traits of a Good Dom: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/what-is-a-good-dominant📖 Spanking: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/spanking📖 Brat Tamer: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/brat-tamer📖 Quick Guide to Becoming a Sexually Dominant Man: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dominant-sex
Ep 44Primal Play: Learn to Have Sex Like an Animal
Ever felt the urge to growl, bite, or pin your partner down in a wild, uninhibited frenzy? Primal play is a raw and instinctual form of BDSM that strips away rules and protocol, letting your animalistic desires take over. Whether you're into rough sex, consensual non-consent (CNC), wrestling for dominance, or simply craving deep, carnal connection—this guide explores everything you need to unleash your wild side.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro (00:28) - What is Primal Play? (01:17) - Primal Play vs Pet Play vs Furries (02:45) - Primal vs Rough Sex vs CNC (04:47) - Primal Play vs Dominance and Submission (05:46) - Primal Play vs Tantra (06:29) - Psychology of Primal Play (10:48) - Risks of Primal Play (12:14) - Ways to engage in Primal Play ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Primal Play Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/primal-play👉 Free Sex Menu with 350+ Acts: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sex-menu📖 Sex Menu is the Best Communication Tool for Sex: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sex-menu📖 Biting: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/biting📖 Manhandling: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/manhandling📖 Hair Pulling: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/hair-pulling📖 Choking: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/choking📖 Spanking: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/spanking📖 Face Slapping: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/face-slapping📖 Face Fucking: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/face-fucking
Ep 4316 Ways to Practice Orgasm Control
Curious about orgasm control? This video goes beyond a simple edging technique, exploring how dominance and submission can be heightened with techniques like forced orgasms and orgasm denial. Learn how to intensify pleasure with these bdsm practices. ---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:📩 Pleasure Maximization Scene Download: https://www.brandonthedom.com/resources/example-bdsm-scene🔥 Orgasm Control Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/orgasm-control📖 Subspace: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/subspace📖 Pleasure Doms: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/pleasure-dom📖 Ethical Non Monogamy: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/ethical-non-monogamy
Ep 42Do You Want a Dom, a Top, or Just Some Rough Sex?
Do you actually want a Dom, a Top, or just rough sex? Many people use the word "Dominant" without defining their desires, leading to frustration and disappointment. Learn the differences between rough sex, kinky play with a skilled Top, and power exchange with a Dom—helping you clarify what you want and communicate it effectively.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro (00:23) - Common Mistake (02:09) - Difference between Dom, Top, and rough sex (02:17) - How to Be a Trustworthy Dom (04:25) - Wanting Rough Sex (05:04) - Wanting a Top (06:00) - Wanting a Dom (07:35) - What do you actually want? ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dom-vs-top-vs-rough-sex📖 Quick Guide to Becoming a Sexually Dominant Man: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dominant-sex📖 Biting: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/biting📖 Manhandling: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/manhandling📖 Hair Pulling: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/hair-pulling📖 Choking: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/choking📖 Spanking: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/spanking📖 Face Slapping: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/face-slapping📖 Face Fucking: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/face-fucking
Ep 41Secrets to Building Trust in D/s (And Any Relationship)!
Explore the two sides of trust in Dom/Sub dynamics. Understand how to be trustworthy and how to trust your partner, creating a fulfilling and secure D/s relationship.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro (00:01) - What is trust? (01:38) - Why Is Trust Important in D/s Relationships? (02:17) - How to Be a Trustworthy Dom (08:40) - How to Be a Trustworthy Submissive (13:54) - How to Be Trusting (18:22) - How to Start Trusting as a Submissive (20:53) - How to Start Trusting as a Dom ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Trust Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/building-trust📖 5 Tools to Communicate Your Sexual Turn Ons: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/turn-on-communication📖 10 Hidden Benefits of a Dom Sub Relationship (Beyond Just Hot Sex): https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dom-sub-relationship📖 Your Greatest Fear In A Relationship: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/relationship-fear
Ep 40How to Find a Good Sub (Advice from 3 BDSM Doms)
Advice from 3 experienced Doms, including @Andy_Wells , Mario, and myself, for Doms focusing on the search for a compatible sub. Learn key elements of dominance and submission, ensuring a safe and fulfilling dynamic. ---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Get the Book: https://enterthedom.com/👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:▶️ How to Find a Dom (Advice from 3 BDSM Doms): https://youtu.be/g_1Z1fivEi8▶️ How to Be a Better Dominant (Advice from 3 BDSM Doms): https://youtu.be/Rg9XLPG3vjQ▶️ Consent, Trauma, & Healing in BDSM: https://youtu.be/h4plNnW82vw▶️ What Happens When Kindness Meets Power? (Advice from a Pro Domme): https://youtu.be/5x-7xxPipf8
Ep 395 Principles for BDSM Rewards for Submissives
Has your submissive been a good girl? Need a way to encourage and appreciate her for her efforts? Learn about BDSM rewards for submissives including the 5 principles of rewards, the different systems and levels of rewards, and different types of rewards with examples.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro (00:17) - What are BDSM Rewards? (01:33) - Why reward a submissive? (03:06) - Principle 1: Internal vs. External Motivation (05:11) - Principle 2: The Reward Must Be Something They Want (06:06) - Principle 3: The Reward Must Be Given Enthusiastically (06:55) - Principle 4: Let Your Submissive Know the Rewards in Advance (07:20) - Principle 5: Explain Why They Are Being Rewarded (08:08) - Timing of Rewards (11:32) - Levels of Rewards (13:51) - Examples of Rewards ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:📩 81 Ways to Punish Your Submissive: https://www.brandonthedom.com/resources/bdsm-punishment-ideas🔥 Reward Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-rewards📖 Punishment Guide: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-punishments📖 Brat Taming: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/brat-tamer📖 Service Submission: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/service-sub
Ep 387 Principles for BDSM Punishments for Submissives
When a submissive breaks a rule, what is the best course of action? This video explores BDSM punishments for submissives including the 7 principles of punishments, the different levels of punishment and how to choose the correct one, and different types of punishments with examples.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro (00:17) - What are BDSM Punishments? (01:06) - Why Punish a Submissive? (02:16) - Principle 1: Check Yourself First (03:33) - Principle 2: The Punishment Should Match the Crime (04:05) - Principle 3: Let Your Submissive Know the Punishments in Advance (04:58) - Principle 4: Be Prompt in Administering Punishments (05:56) - Principle 5: Be Firm Yet Understanding (06:37) - Principle 6: Explain Why They Are Being Punished (07:41) - Principle 7: Punish from a Place of Love (08:26) - Levels of Punishment (12:43) - Types of Punishments ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:📩 81 Ways to Punish Your Submissive: https://www.brandonthedom.com/resources/bdsm-punishment-ideas🔥 Punishment Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-punishments📖 Brat Taming: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/brat-tamer📖 Spanking Guide: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/spanking
Ep 37Why Cockwarming Might Be Your New Favorite Thing!
Explore the world of BDSM and discover how subtle acts can be incredibly fulfilling. This video delves into the concept of cockwarming, emphasizing that not every act needs to be high dominance or aggressive. Learn how to incorporate this simple act into your dynamic.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro (00:15) - What is cockwarming? (01:10) - Why do people enjoy cockwarming? (03:03) - How to engage in cockwarming (04:19) - Tips & techniques for cockwarming ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Cockwarming Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/cockwarming▶️ Quick Guide to Becoming a Sexually Dominant Man: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dominant-sex▶️ Face f*cking: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/face-fucking
Ep 36How to Find a Good Dom (Advice from 3 BDSM Doms)
Advice from 3 experienced Doms, including @Andy_Wells, Mario, and myself, for submissives focusing on the search for a compatible Dom. Learn key elements of dominance and submission, ensuring a safe and fulfilling dynamic. ---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Get the Book: https://enterthedom.com/👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro (00:41) - Green flags in Doms (04:21) - Starting slow (08:03) - Discussing play beforehand (16:14) - Meeting the submissive at their level (22:19) - Having humility as a Dom (33:03) - Understanding the intention behind desires (43:20) - Feeling safe with the Dom (47:58) - Asserting yourself as a submissive (52:30) - Handling trauma triggers (56:22) - Separating kink and sex (01:05:38) - Aftercare (01:10:07) - The Overconfident Dom ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:▶️ How to Be a Better Dominant (Advice from 3 BDSM Doms): https://youtu.be/Rg9XLPG3vjQ▶️ Consent, Trauma, & Healing in BDSM: https://youtu.be/h4plNnW82vw▶️ What Happens When Kindness Meets Power? (Advice from a Pro Domme): https://youtu.be/5x-7xxPipf8
Ep 35What Happens When Kindness Meets Power? (Advice from a Pro Domme)
This video features an interview with @domme_claire , a professional dominatrix, and @Andy_Wells , discussing dominance and how it can be used to help others. The conversation highlights a philosophy of kindness, care, and building up submissives through positive leadership. ---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:▶️ How to Be a Better Dominant (Advice from 3 BDSM Doms): https://youtu.be/Rg9XLPG3vjQ▶️ Consent, Trauma, & Healing in BDSM: https://youtu.be/h4plNnW82vw
Ep 34Two Must-Ask Questions for Better Sex
These two deceptively simple questions will change your sex life and drastically improve your chances of finding fulfillment in your pleasure.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro (01:36) - Question 1: Who is in control? (04:56) - Question 2: For whom is this intended for? (12:28) - Challenges in answering these questions ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Question Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/two-must-ask-questions-for-better-sex📖 Brat Taming: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/brat-tamer📖 Sex Menu: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sex-menu
Ep 33Face Fucking Guide: Techniques and Positions for Aggressive Oral Sex
For those who enjoy rough sex or BDSM power play, traditional oral sex can be turned up a few notches to become face f**king. This article will take you through how to (safely) have sex with your partner’s face and make it pleasurable for the both of you.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro (00:15) - What is Aggressive Oral Sex? (01:59) - Why do people enjoy Aggressive Oral Sex? (03:12) - Risks of Aggressive Oral Sex (04:26) - Positions for Aggressive Oral Sex (08:44) - Tips & Techniques for Aggressive Oral Sex (13:38) - Tips for the submissive ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Oral Sex Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/face-fucking📖 Quick Guide to Becoming a Sexually Dominant Man: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dominant-sex📖 Biting: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/biting📖 Manhandling: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/manhandling📖 Hair Pulling: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/hair-pulling📖 Choking: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/choking📖 Spanking: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/spanking📖 Face Slapping: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/face-slapping
Ep 32Ethical Non Monogamy: A Practical Guide to Having Multiple Partners
Curious about ethical non monogamy? Learn what ethical non monogamy (ENM) is, why someone would want to share or have multiple partners, and how to practice ENM for multiple happy relationships.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro (00:14) - What is Ethical Non Monogamy (02:05) - Myths about ENM (04:57) - Spectrum of ENM (06:45) - Popular types of ENM (09:49) - My journey into ENM (17:09) - Common reasons why people choose ENM (20:38) - How to Practice Ethical Non Monogamy (21:30) - Desires (22:40) - Boundaries (24:41) - Capacity (31:10) - Communication ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Ethical Non Monogamy Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/ethical-non-monogamy▶️ How to Stop Having Unfulfilling Situationships: https://youtu.be/tTXShBAz4yE▶️ Sexual Incompatibility: https://youtu.be/yo4uXe5Gt00📖 Investigation of Consensually Nonmonogamous Relationships: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/28346120/📖 How to Have Difficult Conversations with Your Partner: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/difficult-conversations
Ep 313 Pillars to Structure the Perfect BDSM Scene
Want to craft a great BDSM scene? These 3 foundational pillars will equip you with an easy to use formula for you to create scenes that will help Doms and subs reach the heights of pleasure and depths of subspace.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro (00:15) - Secret to great scenes (01:24) - Planning a scene vs winging it (02:51) - Pillar 1: Goal (08:08) - Pillar 2: Sequencing (11:45) - Pillar 3: Perfect Moments (12:37) - Perfect Moments: Intention (18:03) - Perfect Moments: Energy (22:22) - Perfect Moments: Action ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Scene Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-scene📖 Spanking: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/spanking📖 Quick Guide to Becoming a Sexually Dominant Man: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dominant-sex📖 Sex Menu: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sex-menu📖 Bootstrapping a D/s Dynamic: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dom-sub-dynamic📖 BDSM Punishments for Submissives: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-punishments📖 Dom Sub Contract: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dom-sub-contract▶️ Subspace: https://youtu.be/rt1-B_m-6yE▶️ Sexual performance anxiety: https://youtu.be/iOllLdevh30
Ep 30Biting During Sex Tips & Techniques
Today's episode is a guide on biting during sex, focusing on safety and technique. Learn how to ensure a positive experience with these sex education tips for achieving mutual pleasure. This step-by-step guide provides crucial safety tips for those interested in exploring BDSM.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro (01:14) - Why do people enjoy biting during sex? (03:37) - Risks with biting (04:52) - Where to bite (06:19) - Techniques for biting (10:49) - Goal of biting (11:25) - Start low and slow (12:58) - Timing your bites (14:15) - Hickeys from biting (14:59) - Tips for the submissive ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Biting Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/biting📖 Quick Guide to Becoming a Sexually Dominant Man: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dominant-sex📖 Manhandling: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/manhandling📖 Hair Pulling: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/hair-pulling📖 Choking: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/choking📖 Spanking: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/spanking📖 Face Slapping: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/face-slapping
Ep 29How to Stop Having Unfulfilling Situationships
Tired of unfulfilling situationships? Learn the simple (but sometimes hard to do) practice to build a more fulfilling relationship.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro (00:19) - What is a situationship? (01:41) - Why you have anxiety in the relationship (02:29) - Breaking down relationship needs (04:05) - The need for monogamy (05:45) - The need to feel special (06:21) - How to build a fulfilling relationship ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Situationship Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/situationship▶️ 3 Ways to Fix a Sexually Incompatible Relationship: https://youtu.be/yo4uXe5Gt00▶️ Attachment Styles Explained: https://youtu.be/hri5rLcckao
Ep 28Face Slapping Tips for Rougher Sex & Safe BDSM Play
Today's video offers guidance on incorporating face slapping into rough play, focusing on safety and technique. Learn how to ensure a positive experience with these sex education tips. This step-by-step guide to face slapping provides crucial safety tips.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro (00:54) - Why do people enjoy face slapping? (02:33) - Risks with face slapping (05:28) - Face Slapping Technique (08:42) - Goal of face slapping (09:52) - Practice with spanking first (10:26) - Remove jewlery (11:07) - Start close to their face (12:39) - Place your hand on the other cheek (13:54) - Tips for the submissive ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Face Slapping Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/face-slapping📖 Quick Guide to Becoming a Sexually Dominant Man: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dominant-sex 📖 Manhandling: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/manhandling▶️ Hair Pulling: https://youtu.be/O3i5mQ8UPFo▶️ Choking: https://youtu.be/mnfS7X2HjXQ📖 Spanking: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/spanking
Ep 277 Techniques To Last Longer In Bed
Cumming to quickly? Want to increase the amount of time you have intercourse? This video will breakdown everything you need to know about lasting longer during in the bedroom including the one must know concept of PNR and 7 techniques that will take from ejaculating in mere minutes to lasting as long as you'd like.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 7 Techniques Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/how-to-last-longer-during-sex▶️ Sexual Performance Anxiety video: https://youtu.be/iOllLdevh30▶️ Manhandling video: https://youtu.be/1clm-HrogxI▶️ Erotic Choking video: https://youtu.be/mnfS7X2HjXQ📖 Spanking: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/spanking📖 Quick Guide to Becoming a Sexually Dominant Man: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dominant-sex
Ep 26Consent, Trauma, & Healing in BDSM
Can BDSM be healing for those who have experienced their consent being abused? @Andy_Wells and I discuss navigating consent, helping women through bad past experiences, speaking up for needs, and how men can be judged and shamed in the bedroom too.---👉 Get the Book: https://enterthedom.com/---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro (00:41) - Using BDSM to regain power from trauma (06:28) - Exploring new boundaries (18:20) - Learning to say no game (21:43) - Past experiences of saying no (26:15) - Speaking up for your needs (28:31) - When acts are traumatic vs not (36:50) - Doms can't read minds (47:03) - Creating safety (50:13) - Being judged as a man in the bedroom (01:03:15) - Standing up for your values (01:09:15) - Introducing your partner to new sex acts ---MORE RESOURCES:▶️ How to Be a Better Dominant (Advice from 3 BDSM Doms): https://youtu.be/Rg9XLPG3vjQ▶️ 7 Essential Behaviors of a Good Dominant in BDSM: https://youtu.be/X71KFnyNreo▶️ Quick Guide to Becoming a Sexually Dominant Man: https://youtu.be/nvrmToZ8cdc
Ep 25Hair Pulling During Sex Guide: Tips & Techniques
Today we're diving into the world of hair pulling and sex, but we're focusing on proper techniques. Learn how to make hair pulling a pleasurable experience, not a painful one. Explore the best way to achieve mutual pleasure with these sex education tips.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching📖 Enter the Dom Book: https://enterthedom.com/👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro (00:38) - Why do people enjoy hair pulling during sex? (02:00) - Risks of hair pulling during sex (03:05) - Where to pull hair to avoid damage (03:44) - Hair pulling techniques (24:26) - Tips for using hair pulling during sex ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Hair Pulling Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/hair-pulling▶️ Manhandling video: https://youtu.be/1clm-HrogxI▶️ Erotic Choking video: https://youtu.be/mnfS7X2HjXQ
Ep 24How to Deal with Sub Drop Physically, Mentally, and Emotionally
Feeling down after a scene? You might be experiencing sub drop, a common occurrence in the BDSM world. This video helps you understand the feelings associated with sub drop and offers simple tips on how to navigate it with your dominant and submissive partner. ---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching📖 Enter the Dom Book: https://enterthedom.com/👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro (00:13) - What is sub drop? (01:41) - What does sub drop feel like? (03:12) - How to deal with sub drop (03:40) - Physical remedies for sub drop (08:47) - Mental remedies for sub drop (13:05) - Emotional remedies for sub drop ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Sub Drop Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sub-drop▶️ Subspace: What Every Submissive Needs to Know About This Drug Like State: https://youtu.be/rt1-B_m-6yE▶️ 7 Essential Behaviors for a Good Submissive in BDSM: https://youtu.be/c7OY-RzF0RM