Brandon The Dom

Learn how to manhandle your submissive in the bedroom so she can feel your Dominance and intensify her pleasure in sex and BDSM play.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching📖 Enter the Dom Book: https://enterthedom.com/👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro (00:08) - What is manhandling? (02:45) - Why do submissives enjoy being manhandled? (04:21) - One key mindset for manhandling (05:55) - Best techniques for manhandling (20:45) - Tips for putting manhandling into practice (24:26) - Tips for the submissive being manhandled ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Manhandling Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/manhandling▶️ 7 Essential Behaviors of a Good Dominant in BDSM: https://youtu.be/X71KFnyNreo📖 Quick Guide to Becoming a Sexually Dominant Man: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dominant-sex📖 A Complete Guide to Dirty Talk for Doms: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dominant-dirty-talk

Learn the secret to taming brats, misconceptions about brats, different brats you might run into, effective strategies and mindsets for being a brat tamer, and example punishments for brats.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro (00:17) - What are brat submissives? (00:57) - Misconceptions about brats (03:31) - Why do submissives brat? (07:05) - How to tame brats (09:18) - Mindsets for brat taming (11:29) - Brat tamer punishment ideas ---RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Brat Tamer Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/brat-tamer▶️ 7 Essential Behaviors of a Good Dominant in BDSM: https://youtu.be/X71KFnyNreo📖 BDSM Punishments for Submissives: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-punishments📖 Enter the Dom Book: https://enterthedom.com/

Daygame & Dating Coach, Thomas Crown reviews my recent book, Enter the Dom: The No BS Book on Dominance. He gave Mario and I some in depth feedback about the book. The book is part self-help, part-BDSM introduction, and aims to help men discover their dominance and explore their sexual fantasies.We had a great idea for me to give my feedback and discuss the book as a podcast. I hope you enjoy the discussion.Follow - Thomas: https://thomascrownpua.com/- Thomas on X @ CrownDaygame- Mario on X @ MarioTheDom---👉 Get the Book: https://enterthedom.com/---MORE RESOURCES:▶️ 7 Essential Behaviors of a Good Dominant in BDSM: https://youtu.be/X71KFnyNreo▶️ Quick Guide to Becoming a Sexually Dominant Man: https://youtu.be/nvrmToZ8cdc▶️ What is a Pleasure Dom?: https://youtu.be/OGW7RinAn-o

Want to become a better Dominant? In this powerful and candid interview, three experienced Doms share real talk on what it truly means to lead in the bedroom—and beyond.We dive into:- The true essence of dominance- Common mistakes new Doms make- What to do your first time with a new submissive- How to step into a dominant mindset- Proven tools, tips, and techniques- Plus, some hilarious and eye-opening stories from the fieldThis conversation originally took place on @Andy_Wells channel and features myself, my co-author Mario Tubone, and Andy himself—three Doms with decades of combined experience.We're also talking about our new book: Enter the Dom: The No-BS Book on Dominance—a practical, no-fluff guide for anyone looking to deepen their dominant presence.Whether you're just starting out or looking to level up your power exchange dynamics, this is a must-watch.---👉 Get the Book: https://enterthedom.com/---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - - Intro (00:56) - - Introducing Mario Tubone and Brandon the Dom (03:56) - - What is Dominance and Submission mean to us? (09:33) - - Mistake the First Time Doms Make (10:39) - - What to Do Your First Time with a Submissive Woman (26:58) - - Intentions and caring for your submissive (36:12) - - Vulnerability & power as a Dom (48:23) - - How to try your first kinky things (01:03:33) - - Starting with dirty talk (01:12:47) - - Getting into a Dominant Mindset (01:15:24) - - Surrendering as a Dom (01:24:57) - - Building trust between the Dom and submissive (01:41:43) - - A healthy mindset for dating as a Dom (01:46:02) - - Enter the Dom Book ---MORE RESOURCES:▶️ 7 Essential Behaviors of a Good Dominant in BDSM: https://youtu.be/X71KFnyNreo▶️ Quick Guide to Becoming a Sexually Dominant Man: https://youtu.be/nvrmToZ8cdc▶️ What is a Pleasure Dom?: https://youtu.be/OGW7RinAn-o

Learn 5 techniques, risks and considerations for engaging in erotic choking (erotic asphyxiation) and how to safely incorporate it into sex and BDSM play with your submissive.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - - Intro (00:18) - - What is Erotic Choking? (01:12) - - Why do people enjoy Erotic Choking? (03:02) - - Risks of Erotic Choking (05:06) - - Where to Choke (06:49) - - Best Techniques for Erotic Choking (08:11) - - Level 1: Resting hands on chest (09:24) - - Level 2: Fantasy Choke (10:48) - - Level 3: Breath Choke (12:02) - - Level 4: Blood Choke (13:41) - - Level 5: Extreme breath play (14:22) - - Remember your goal (14:46) - - Medical considerations (15:34) - - Start softly (16:24) - - Time on, Time off (18:00) - - Communication (19:40) - - Passing out (20:51) - - Tips for the submissive ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Erotic Choking Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/choking▶️ Subspace: What Every Submissive Needs to Know About This Drug Like State: https://youtu.be/rt1-B_m-6yE▶️ Three Tools to Discover Your Turn-Ons: https://youtu.be/Hl4J7hWqk7M▶️ Spanking Guide: https://youtu.be/mqWq-_vYOnM🔗 Lola Jean: https://lolajean.com/

Want to start getting into the kink scene and community? Try a munch, a social gathering for kinky people. In this video, learn what happens at munches, what to talk about, how to act, and where to find them.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - - Intro (00:19) - - What is a munch? (02:16) - - What do you do at a munch? (04:36) - - What do you talk about at a munch? (06:03) - - Why attend a munch? (09:42) - - How am I supposed to act at a munch? (14:17) - - Getting into the kink community ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Munch Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-munch▶️ Sex Menu Video: https://youtu.be/3T92NUWDyDU📖 Free Sex Menu with 350+ Acts: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sex-menu

Learn the best techniques and positions for delivering an unforgettable spanking experience for your submissive.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - - Intro (00:45) - - Why do people enjoy spanking? (03:33) - - Where to spank (06:31) - - Best spanking positions (10:27) - - Best spanking techniques (15:20) - - Remember your goal (15:51) - - Warm up (17:28) - - Start at the appropriate intensity level (19:31) - - Find a Rhythm (20:18) - - Communication during spanking (22:22) - - Using sensual & erotic touch in between (23:51) - - Tips for the submissive being spanked ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Spanking Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/spanking▶️ Subspace: What Every Submissive Needs to Know About This Drug Like State: https://youtu.be/rt1-B_m-6yE▶️ Three Tools to Discover Your Turn-Ons: https://youtu.be/Hl4J7hWqk7M📖 Free Sex Menu with 350+ Acts: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sex-menu

If you think being a Pleasure Dom is just about giving orgasms, you're mistaken. In this video, I will reveal to you what a Pleasure Dom is, their psychology, nine sexy tools to use as a Pleasure Dom, how to be submissive for one, and an example scene for you to try.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - - Intro (00:20) - - What is a Pleasure Dom? (06:55) - - Why Be a Pleasure Dom? (08:34) - - Tool 1: Indulging Your Sub’s Kinks & Fantasies (09:22) - - Tool 2: Orgasm Control (11:22) - - Tool 3: Edging (12:16) - - Tool 4: Teasing (13:19) - - Tool 5: Sensation Play (14:15) - - Tool 6: Spanking (15:54) - - Tool 7: Toys (16:51) - - Tool 8: Tantric Sex (19:23) - - Tool 9: Overstimulation (21:12) - - When to use the tools (24:08) - - How to be a Submissive (28:28) - - Example Scene ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Pleasure Dom Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/pleasure-dom▶️ Subspace: What Every Submissive Needs to Know About This Drug Like State: https://youtu.be/rt1-B_m-6yE▶️ Overcoming Sexual Shame With Seven Powerful Tactics: https://youtu.be/OXaSErYnl50▶️ Three Tools to Discover Your Turn-Ons: https://youtu.be/Hl4J7hWqk7M▶️ Five Tools to Communicate Your Turn-Ons: https://youtu.be/uQdZ_dmdHxo📖 Free Sex Menu with 350+ Acts: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sex-menu📖 Tantric Touch: More Than Just a Pleasurable Massage: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/tantric-touch📖 Tantric Yoni Massage Guide: Pleasure Her Body Like She’s Never Felt Before: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/yoni-massage📖 BDSM Spanking Guide: Tips, Techniques, and Positions for Erotic Spanking : https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/spanking📖 A Complete Guide to Dirty Talk for Subs: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/submissive-dirty-talk

In this episode, Brandon the Dom will explain seven powerful tactics to help you overcome sexual shame and embrace your sexuality. If you struggle with feelings of shame around sex, this video is for you.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating---🔥 TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - - Intro (00:13) - - What is Shame? (02:05) - - Why do you feel shame for your sexual desires? (04:17) - - Are your sexual desires wrong? (08:16) - - My Experience with Sexual Shame (10:36) - - Tactic 1: Leave groups where sexual acts are shameful (13:04) - - Tactic 2: Join groups where sexual acts are accepted (15:52) - - Tactic 3: Journaling (16:34) - - Tactic 4: Digest your emotions (20:31) - - Tactic 5: Exposure (22:14) - - Tactic 6: Sexual Disclosure (24:47) - - Tactic 7: Stop praising and punishing yourself ---💯 FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:- Three Tools to Discover Your Turn-Ons: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/turn-ons- Five Tools to Communicate Your Turn-Ons: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/turn-on-communication- Get Free Advice: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice

Are you craving more dominance from your man in the bedroom? In this episode, Brandon the Dom reveals 5 psychology-based steps to naturally encourage and draw out his dominant masculine energy. Perfect for women who love their partner's caring nature but want him to take more control intimately. Learn how to create the right environment for his dominance to flourish without nagging or criticism.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating---🔥 TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - - Intro (02:04) - - Why He's Afraid to Be Dominant (06:56) - - Step 1: Express Your Desire for Dominance (09:08) - - Step 2: Give Him Opportunities to Lead (10:59) - - Step 3: Act Submissive to Polarize the Dynamic (12:58) - - Step 4: Be More Sexually Forward (14:21) - - Step 5: Encourage and Praise His Dominant Acts (17:00) - - Conclusion: Your Power as a Submissive ---💯 FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:- Three Tools to Discover Your Turn-Ons: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/turn-ons- Five Tools to Communicate Your Turn-Ons: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/turn-on-communication- Sex Menu Template: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sex-menu- Essential Behaviors for a Good Submissive: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/what-is-a-good-submissive- Quick Guide to Becoming a Sexually Dominant Man: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dominant-sex- Get Free Advice: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice

In this video, Brandon the Dom explains the concept of subspace in the BDSM scene, detailing its euphoric and trance-like nature. He discusses why subspace occurs, the risks involved, and how to achieve and safely transition out of it to avoid subdrop. Brandon also shares his personal updates and provides insights into related research studies, the complementary state of 'Domspace', and aftercare practices. ---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching---(00:00) - Introduction to Subspace (01:48) - What is Subspace? (02:26) - What does Subspace feel like? (04:26) - The Science Behind Subspace (09:10) - Can Doms Experience Subspace? (11:16) - How to Achieve Subspace (14:57) - Is Subspace Safe? (17:24) - Subdrop (18:50) - Aftercare ---Referenced Content:📖 What is a Good Dom? : https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/what-is-a-good-dominant📖 Subspace article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/subspace---More Help:👉 Get Free Advice: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching

In this episode, Brandon the Dom introduces the concept of a 'sex menu' as a powerful communication tool for couples to express their desires effectively. This framework involves creating a comprehensive list of sexual acts and using a rating system to indicate preference levels, alongside detailed notes to enhance clarity. It aims to foster open communication, consent, and exploration of new experiences in intimate relationships. Whether in monogamous or non-monogamous settings, the sex menu helps couples share and update their evolving desires and boundaries, while respecting each other's needs and fostering a non-judgmental environment. Viewers are encouraged to download a free template provided by Brandon, which includes 350 sexual acts, to begin crafting their personalized sex menu.---👉 Free Sex Menu with 350+ Acts: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sex-menu---(00:00) - Intro (00:24) - What is a Sex Menu? (01:18) - Benefits of a Sex Menu (02:54) - Exploring the Sex Menu Template (07:59) - Creating and Using Your Own Sex Menu (11:08) - Tips for Filling Out the Sex Menu (15:08) - Final Thoughts and Resources ---Referenced Content:📖 5 Tools to Communicate Your Fantasies and Turn Ons with Your Partner: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/turn-on-communication📖 Read the full article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sex-menu---More Help:👉 Get Free Advice: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching

In this episode, Brandon the Dom shares what to do if you're struggling in a sexually incompatible relationship. He explains why this occurring based on libidos being mismatched or having different sex drives, desires, or relationship structures you wish to pursue. He also shares questions to ask yourself and signs to look out for. Finally, he gives you three options so you can fix your sexual incompatibility and return to a thriving sex life.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating---(00:00) - Introduction (00:22) - What is Sexual Incompatibility (01:09) - Mismatched Libidos (02:01) - Different Desires (02:45) - Different Lifestyles (03:13) - Signs of Incompatibility (06:51) - Option 1: Stay in the relationship and work it out (14:10) - Option 2: Fulfill your needs outside of the relationship (17:34) - Option 3: You end the relationship ---Referenced Content:📖 3 Secret Tools to Discover Your Turn Ons: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/turn-ons📖 5 Tools to Communicate Your Fantasies and Turn Ons with Your Partner: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/turn-on-communication📖 A Practical Guide to Tantric Sex for Beginners: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/tantric-sex📖 Free Sex Menu with 350+ Acts: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sex-menu📖 Read the full article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sexually-incompatible-relationship---More Help:👉 Get Free Advice: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching

In this episode, Brandon the Dom shares how to assign sex homework or BDSM tasks to your submissive in order to improve your Dom sub dynamic and helping your submissive grow. He explains how to give tasks using systems, set deadlines, and creating the appropriate rewards and punishments for the homework tasks. Then he shares example task, rules, and rituals that can be done for sex homework for vanilla goals, sexual training, her self awareness, her self care, foreplay, getting her into submissive headspace, and making your life easier as a Dom.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating---(00:00) - Introduction (00:18) - What is Sex Homework (02:59) - Step 1: Understand your goals as partners (03:26) - Step 2: Give a task in the form of a system, not a goal (04:53) - Step 3: Set a deadline (05:18) - Step 4: Rewards and punishments (09:01) - Examples of Sex Homework Tasks ---Referenced Content:📖 7 Essential Behaviors of a Good Dominant in BDSM: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/what-is-a-good-dominant📖 3 Secret Tools to Discover Your Turn Ons: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/turn-ons📖 Free Sex Menu with 350+ Acts: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sex-menu📖 Read the full article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sex-homework---More Help:👉 Get Free Advice: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching

In this episode, Brandon the Dom addresses the common issue of sexual performance anxiety, explaining what it is, why it occurs, and providing effective strategies to overcome it. He discusses the psychological and physiological factors behind erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation, and emphasizes the importance of reframing beliefs and focusing on pleasure rather than performance. Brandon also shares his personal experiences and offers practical techniques, including mindfulness meditation, communication with partners, and Sensate Focus exercises, to help men get out of their heads and back into their bodies for a more satisfying sex life.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating------📖 Read the full article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sexual-performance-anxiety👉 Get Free Advice: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice

In this episode, Brandon the Dom explores the concept of attachment styles and their impact on relationships and intimate life. He explains the four types of attachment styles—secure, anxious, avoidant, and disorganized—detailing how each one is formed and its effects on adult behavior. Brandon also provides practical tools and strategies for developing a more secure attachment style, offering valuable insights for anyone looking to improve their emotional health and relationship dynamics.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating------📖 Read the full article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/attachment-style👉 Get Free Advice: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice

In this video, Brandon the Dom addresses the common fears of sharing intimate fantasies and desires with a partner, fearing judgment or rejection. He offers five practical tools to effectively communicate these turn-ons in a non-judgmental and open environment. These tools include desire statements, pillow talk, sexual bucket lists, sex menus, and sexual disclosure, each designed to foster trust, understanding, and vulnerability in the relationship. Brandon also emphasizes the importance of practicing these methods to build a strong, accepting container where both partners can openly share and explore their desires. ---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating------📖 Read the full article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/turn-on-communication👉 Get Free Advice: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice

In this episode, Brandon the Dom delves into the importance of understanding one's own desires and turn-ons. He introduces three tools to explore the erotic mind: an erotic journal, erotic quizzes, and a sexual disclosure with a trusted partner. Brandon covers the significance of Jack Morin's concept of the core erotic theme and explains how to use these tools to gain a deeper understanding of your turn-ons, which in turn allows better communication with your partner. ---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating---(00:00) - Introduction: Discovering Your Desires (00:22) - The Importance of Understanding Your Turn-Ons (01:04) - Exploring the Erotic Mind (02:54) - Tool 1: Keeping an Erotic Journal (09:12) - Tool 2: Taking Erotic Quizzes (14:39) - Tool 3: Sexual Disclosure (18:49) - Conclusion and Next Steps ---📖 Read the full article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/turn-ons👉 Get Free Advice: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice

In this episode, Brandon the Dom provides a comprehensive roadmap to developing sexual dominance in the bedroom. He explains why your partner may desire dominance and outlines specific acts you can perform, from low to extreme dominance, ensuring healthy communication and consent. Brandon covers how to start with basic acts like kissing and dirty talk, progressing to more skill-intensive acts, and the importance of sequencing, maintaining tension, and building confidence. Learn how to make your partner feel desired, safe, and loved while mastering the art of dominance.👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating(00:00) - Introduction to Sexual Dominance (00:23) - Understanding Her Desires (03:12) - Developing Your Sexual Dominance (04:32) - Universal Acts of Dominance (06:44) - Low Dominance Techniques (09:05) - Medium Dominance Techniques (10:59) - High Dominance Techniques (12:16) - Extreme Dominance Techniques (13:30) - Principles of Effective Dominance (14:18) - Building Confidence and Competence (17:01) - Sequencing (20:12) - Tension Management (23:03) - Conclusion and Further Guidance Resources:📖 Read the full article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/a-quick-guide-to-develop-sexual-dominance-for-men👉 Get Free Advice: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice

Join Brandon the Dom as he presents a comprehensive guide to Tantra, including its spiritual roots and practical applications for enhanced sex life and personal growth. Learn the key differences between traditional Tantra and Neo Tantra, explore the philosophies behind Tantra's practices, and discover the three essential pillars: eye contact, touch, and breath. Gain insights on integrating these principles into your intimate moments to deepen emotional connections, achieve heightened pleasure, and possibly reach a sense of divinity. Brandon also provides resources for further learning and offers free coaching sessions for personalized guidance.👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating(00:00) - Introduction to Tantra (00:31) - Understanding Tantra and Neo Tantra (02:38) - Philosophies Underlying Tantra (05:21) - Energy in Tantra (06:31) - The Three Pillars of Tantra (10:07) - Pillar 1: Eye Contact Practices (12:05) - Pillar 2: Touch Techniques (16:00) - Pillar 3: Breath Control (21:30) - Combining the Pillars (21:37) - Resources (25:01) - Next Steps 📖 Read the full article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/a-practical-guide-to-tantra-for-beginners👉 Get Free Advice: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice

In this episode, Brandon the Dom delves into evaluating long-term life partners. Drawing from his personal experiences, Brandon explores how to assess your partner's alignment with your life purpose. He outlines five stages of relationships—need fulfillment, mutual benefit, romantic trial period, engagement/resource trial period, and full commitment—highlighting the importance of aligning purposes for a successful partnership. Brandon also provides practical advice for both monogamous and non-monogamous relationships.(00:00) - Intro (00:21) - Personal Story: Marriage and the Book 'Sex at Dawn' (03:08) - The Importance of Purpose Alignment in Relationships (07:03) - Stages of a Relationship: Monogamous and Non-Monogamous Tracks (09:33) - Stage One: Need Fulfillment (11:24) - Stage Two: Mutual Benefit (13:27) - Stage Three: Romantic Trial Period (15:25) - Stage Four: Engagement or Resource Trial Period (16:20) - Stage Five: Full Commitment (17:17) - Challenges and Realities of Long-Term Commitment (18:33) - Final Thoughts 📖 Read the full article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/a-partner-in-life-is-a-partner-in-pursuing-purpose👉 Get Free Advice: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching 👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating

In this episode, Brandon the Dom discusses seven crucial behaviors that make a good submissive in a dominant-submissive (DS) relationship. These behaviors, which complement those required of a good Dom, include service towards the Dom's vision, respect and trust, challenging the structure when necessary, effective communication, play and servicing pleasure, openness to learning, and serving with intention and love. These practices aim to create a stronger, more cohesive dynamic between Dom and submissive, emphasizing teamwork and mutual growth. For more insights, visit brandonthedom.com.(00:00) - Introduction to Submissive Behaviors (01:17) - The Importance of Service (02:21) - Respect and Trust (03:55) - Challenging the Structure (05:25) - Effective Communication (07:18) - Play and Pleasure (09:15) - Commitment to Learning (10:22) - Serving with Intention and Love (11:42) - Conclusion and Further Resources 📖 Read the full article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/what-is-a-good-submissive👉 Get Free Advice: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching 👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating

In this episode, Brandon the Dom discusses seven crucial behaviors that make a good dominant in BDSM. Moving beyond basic consent and research, these behaviors delve into deeper concepts like leadership, responsibility, order, communication, awareness, education, and love. Brandon explains the importance of each behavior, offering insights and practical examples for both dominants and submissives to enhance their dynamics. He emphasizes creating trust, clear communication, and fostering growth while maintaining a healthy, safe, and consensual environment. (00:00) - Introduction to Dominance (01:40) - Leadership (04:24) - Responsibility (05:08) - Order and Structure (06:43) - Effective Communication (08:57) - Awareness in Dominance (10:32) - Educating and Creating Growth (11:50) - The Role of Love and Intention (12:51) - Conclusion 📖 Read the full article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/what-is-a-good-dominant👉 Get Free Advice: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating