ADOPTION STRUGGLES AND SUPPORT | Adoption Trauma, Safety, Peace of Mind, Biblical Encouragement, Respite, Journaling

Hi Neighbor, The right word at the right time by the right person has the power to not only change your mood, it can change your entire day. It’s an amazing feeling when that happens. Wouldn’t it be wonderful if you could do that for yourself without waiting for someone to do it for you? You can! Grab a pen and paper, and let’s explore how to tap into the power of affirmations through journaling. This is the third episode in a 7-part series on journaling. As discussed in Episode 71, one of my sources for affirmations is scripture. Another source is song lyrics, with a specific example provided in Episode 114. In your Daily Doable, notice the technique for using these journaling prompts. You can tap into the power of affirmations! Hope and healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. To reach out to me, email [email protected] Join our amazing Facebook Community. If this podcast has given you the courage and confidence to face storms in your life, the number one way you can thank me is to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts. Here is a short video to show you how.

Why do bad things happen in life? One might say, that’s just life. But I believe there is a deeper meaning to that question. Hi Neighbor!⁣ Today’s episode marks the second anniversary of this podcast. I want to thank those of you who have supported this podcast, many from the beginning. As I’ve gotten to know more of you over these past 2 years, there is one recurring theme for those adoptive parents who are facing the challenges that adoption can present. This can be summed up in 2 words: The Struggle. Are you a struggling adoptive parent? For those of us who have gone through The Struggle, it’s easy to see. Adoptive parents in The Struggle have lost the sparkle in their eyes. Consider this: Could it be the struggles you have gone through, have prepared you to encourage someone else? In this episode, let’s consider The Struggle and reframe that narrative. I would like to share a psalm of David, a story in the life of Paul, and a conversation with a queen to show you 3 ways to help someone restore the sparkle in their eyes. Hope and Healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. To reach out to me, email [email protected] Join our amazing Facebook Community. If this podcast has given you the courage and confidence to face storms in your life, the number one way you can thank me is to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts. Here is a short video to show you how.

Hi Neighbor, Do you find yourself reliving reruns in your life? Another way to put it is this, do you see yourself living out your version of Groundhog Day? Grab a pen and paper, and let’s explore this concept together. This is the second episode of a 7-part series on journaling. As we consider the concept of reliving reruns in our lives, I have some journaling prompts to help identify those thoughts that don’t serve you well. Hope and healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. To reach out to me, email [email protected] Join our amazing Facebook Community. If this podcast has given you the courage and confidence to face storms in your life, the number one way you can thank me is to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts. Here is a short video to show you how.

Hi Neighbor, How do you typically handle mental blocks? Have you tried unplugging? In this first of a 7-part series on journaling. I want to share how to get unstuck when your brain just won’t cooperate. Whether it’s finding answers or solving problems, sometimes we just need to UNPLUG. Here’s how. We’ll consider this concept with a jumble of the word JOURNAL. Journaling is my favorite go-to method for getting unstuck. But as you’ll see in this episode, there are other ways I use as well. Hope and healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. To reach out to me, email [email protected] Join our amazing Facebook Community. If this podcast has given you the courage and confidence to face storms in your life, the number one way you can thank me is to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts. Here is a short video to show you how.

Hi Neighbor, Welcome to another walking episode of Anchors of Encouragement. Today, I’m coming to you from my backyard studio. Based on three separate conversations I’ve recently had with adoptive parents, I want to share an important concept with you. The ONE thing adoptive parents NEED to know. It’s something that makes navigating the highs and lows of the adoption journey doable. To understand this concept and the power it affords us as adoptive parents, we’ll consider a story about a little bird and three passages from scripture: two from the Book of Matthew and one from the Book of Deuteronomy. Grab a pen and paper. I have a journaling exercise for you as part of your Daily Doable. Hope and healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. Let’s talk! To schedule a time for us to chat, reach out to me, [email protected] Join our amazing Facebook Community.

I wish the conversation you’re about to listen to had been available for me years ago, not because I like to hear myself speak. Conversations like this could have helped me navigate some of the challenges my wife and I faced in our adoption journey. Hi Neighbor, Returning on this episode of Anchors of Encouragement, is my neighbor from Alabama, Erich Nelson. Erich was first on the show in Episode 53. Erich is back today to discuss an important topic for adoptive parents and adopted children to understand – what it means to be stuck in survivor mode. You get to be a fly on the wall while Erich and I share our stories and struggles with survivor mode. Daily Doable: Listen, REALLY listen to this conversation and allow it to take you wherever it does, EVEN IF that place makes you feel uncomfortable. Hope and healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. Learn more about Erich’s The Dolifebig Project: Facebook and Instagram Join our amazing Facebook Community.

“To the world, you may be one person, but to one person, you may be the world.” ~Dr. Seuss Hi Neighbor, In this unplugged episode of Anchors of Encouragement, I share my reaction to the movie Sound of Hope: The Story of Possum Trot, brought to you by Angel Studios. This film is a mirror for so many of us on the adoption journey. As an adoptive parent myself, I saw my own story reflected in powerful ways. Adoption, whether private or through the foster system, presents similar challenges. You’ll laugh, you’ll cry, and most importantly, you’ll UNDERSTAND. Sound of Hope brings attention to the unseen battles adoptive parents face every day. It’s a peek behind the curtains, making you more sympathetic and supportive. Daily Doable: WATCH THIS MOVIE! If you’re an adoptive parent, it’s a Must-See. If you’re not, it’s still a Must-See. Understanding the adoption journey helps us all become better anchors of encouragement for families in need. Remember, YOU may be the world to ONE person. Hope and healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. Mentions in this episode: Listen to Dr. Kimberly Offutt’s story in Episode 132. Watch the Sound of Hope Trailer. Join our amazing Facebook Community.

How can I serve you better? Hi Neighbor, As an adoptive parent myself, I’ve walked the path filled with both joy and challenges. My mission is to share stories, offer biblical encouragement, and bring on experts to help you navigate this unique journey. I want to walk you home! That gets us to today’s question: How can I serve you better? In private conversations I’ve had with adoptive parents, they have told me. But I’ve never asked that question on the podcast. So, today I’m asking you, as an adoptive parent, how can I serve you better? See the 2 ways you can share your answers with me below. Hope and healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. Below are the 2 ways you can share your answers with me... Number 1: Send an email to me, [email protected] Number 2: Become a member of our amazing community. Click this LINK to join today.

Foster care is intended to be a temporary solution to what should be a temporary problem. The goal is always reunification. The focus is to find families that meet the needs of the child, rather than finding children that fit the needs of the family. The child comes first! Hi Neighbor, Joining me on this episode of Anchors of Encouragement is my neighbor from Atlanta, Dr. Kimberly Offutt. Dr. Kim is an inspirational speaker, author, child advocate, social worker, and adoptive parent. She has served at Bethany Christian Services for more than 20 years in various capacities in the child welfare field, advocating on behalf of children who are in foster care and available for adoption. When Dr. Kim started with Bethany Christian Services, she was responsible for recruiting families to be foster and adoptive parents. As a recruiter, the first person she recruited was herself! Have you ever considered fostering or adopting? Dr. Kim’s story is a testament to patience and love in adoption. Reflecting on adopting 4 children from foster care, she defies conventions and dispels myths about parenting and birth order. Tune in for her heartfelt insights. Hope and healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. I want to invite you to be a part of our amazing community. Click this LINK to join today.

I surprised my friends who went with me. Honestly, I surprised myself too because I never imagined that I would allow myself to do what I was about to do. I was anxious and I was nervous. And not to be overly dramatic, but in some respects, I was scared to death. However, I did it. And it was one of the most exhilarating forms of respite I've ever experienced. Hi Neighbor, Welcome to another unplugged episode of Anchors of Encouragement. In this episode, I would like to build on the concept of respite we first introduced in Episode 40. Respite is something that adoptive parents have told me is important to them as they navigate the challenges of adoptive parenting. Today’s story is about how I got out of my comfort zone by allowing a friend to lead me to respite and retreat. I did something I never would have entertained had it not been for her. Consider this story with me as we look at 3 ways to embrace the Anchor of Retreat. Hope and healing are on the way. Your Thrill-Seeking Neighbor, Tim P.S. Oops! After I had recorded and published this episode, I realized there was a 5th activity option. I had suppressed it because it caused as much if not more anxiety than the zip line, kayaking in an underground cavern. I can’t swim! I think you can see why I suppressed this option:) Episodes mentioned today: EP 40 – 7 Ways for Adoptive Parents to Find Support and Achieve Respite EP 71 – Sit With the Text? How the Psalms Can Help You Overcome Storms in Your Life Also, I want to invite you to be a part of our amazing community. Click this LINK to join today.

When it came time to say goodbye, I couldn’t get the words out. I gently rubbed his head one last time and walked away. Hi Neighbor, Welcome to a special memorial episode of Anchors of Encouragement. I want to share something deeply personal and touching with you today. There comes a time in every pet parent’s life when we must say goodbye to our beloved companions. This episode is my tribute to Amp, who brought so much joy and comfort into my life. I first mentioned Amp at the beginning of this podcast in Episode 5. As that story illustrates, he and I had a special connection. Take a moment to embrace the fur baby anchors in your life. Whether it’s a cat, dog, horse, or any other cherished pet, their unique ability to sense our emotions and provide comfort is truly invaluable. Let them be your anchor of encouragement, as Amp was for me. Hope and healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. Would you please consider leaving a review for the show? Here is a short video to show you how.

I couldn't sleep, so I’m up doing what I learned from Jonny to regulate myself. I never know the direction these quiet moments will take, but I know something positive always happens... and that’s what I want to share with you today. Hi Neighbor, Do you enjoy unexpected, positive surprises? I do! In this episode of Anchors of Encouragement, I share a story about why I value the anchor of solitude and hope you’ll consider embracing it too. We’ll also reflect on a passage from the book of Psalms and discuss solitude from episodes 5, 71, and 128. (see links below) Help, hope, and healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. Here are the links to the episodes referenced today. Ep 5 – 3 Benefits of Walking to Overcome Overwhelm and Stress EP 71 – Sit With the Text? How the Psalms Can Help You Overcome Storms in Your Life Ep 128 – 4 Simple Tips To Find Peaceful Sleep as an Adoptive Parent Also, I want to invite you to be a part of our amazing community. Click this LINK to join today.

Are you having trouble sleeping? You’re restless. You’re tossing and turning. Maybe you had too much caffeine that day. Maybe you have a busy calendar the next day and you’re concerned about everything you have to do. For adoptive parents, maybe it’s out of concern for your children. I know this can leave you anxious. Your mind is racing. You’re losing sleep. What can you do? Hi Neighbor, Are restless nights and racing thoughts keeping you up? You’re not alone. In this episode of Anchors of Encouragement, I share 4 practical tips to help you calm your mind and achieve that restful night’s sleep you crave. We’ll also look at inspiring scriptures from Psalm 77 and Proverbs 3. Grab a pen and paper. I’ll funnel these tips through the acronym CALM. Think of it as a mental massage for your mind. Help, hope, and healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. I also want to invite you to be a part of our amazing community. Click this LINK to join today.

How can adoptive parents prepare themselves for the challenges they will face in their adoption journeys? May I suggest it can be as simple as picking up sticks? Hi Neighbor, In this unplugged episode, I want to share 2 stories that will illustrate the concept of the Daily Doable and how it relates to adoptive parents and the storms they will face in their adoption journeys. I’m pulling back the curtain to share how I have been able to navigate the anxiety that adoptive parenting presented in my life. Grab a pen and paper and dive into the 5 ways to harness the power of the Daily Doable. While this won’t eliminate your storms, it will help you face them with courage and confidence. Help, hope, and healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. I also want to invite you to be a part of our amazing community. Click this LINK to join today.

Have you ever sent your future self a letter of encouragement? I did and it turned out to be the boost I needed at exactly the right time. Hi Neighbor, As I journaled through ideas for a new episode, I came across one idea in particular. As I explored it, I rediscovered an episode from early in this podcast. It contained a message that I needed to hear. Chances are if I needed to hear that message, there is someone out there who could benefit from it too. I would encourage you to grab a pen and paper, listen to the episode, and make a list of the things I talk about in the Daily Doable so that you can be encouraged and can encourage others as well. I See You! We were miles from where we started. At this point, we were tired but there was no turning back. Then I looked down and saw the encouragement we needed to finish. Help, hope, and healing are on the way. Your Neighbor,⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ Tim P.S. If this podcast has given you the courage and confidence to face storms in your life, the number one way you can thank me is to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts. Here is a short video to show you how.

Would he hate us for loving him this much? We didn’t know. Would he see this as the ultimate act of betrayal? We didn’t know. Would he embrace the help we had finally found for him? We didn’t know. What we did know was our son needed help, help our love couldn’t give him. Hi Neighbor, Today I want to take you back to the beginning. The beginning of this podcast with a story of one of the most difficult days in my life. In this encore episode, we’ll explore the theme: 5 Ways To Love a Child of Adoption Trauma. Looking back on that day, I realized how much anxiety my wife and I had been living with. We were overwhelmed, we couldn’t breathe, and we felt like we were drowning. As I’ve talked with many of you, it’s quite apparent how much anxiety you’re living with as well. There are so many things I’ve learned since that day about how to navigate the challenges of anxiety and adoption trauma. It’s my prayer that my story will give you Help, Hope, and Healing in your adoption journey. Your Neighbor,⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ Tim P.S. If this podcast has given you the courage and confidence to face storms in your life, the number one way you can thank me is to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts. Here is a short video to show you how.

“After you journal for a certain amount of time, you get into that comfortable practice with it, it starts to become your natural release.” ~Jonny Maudlin Hi Neighbor, Today, I would like to share a special encore episode where we’ll circle back to a conversation I had with my son Jonny about one of the tools he learned in residential. This tool was instrumental in Jonny liking himself again, and this tool is something I have adopted in my life and encourage you to practice too. It’s journaling! Journaling continues to help Jonny shape his life and navigate its ups and downs. So whether you’re hearing this for the first time or revisiting it, I’m excited for you to dive back into the insights and the transformative strategies of journaling. Hope and healing are on the way. Your Neighbor,⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ Tim P.S. If this podcast has given you the courage and confidence to face storms in your life, the number one way you can thank me is to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts. Here is a short video to show you how.

Have you ever said something out of anger or frustration? If you answered 'yes' I invite you to listen to this encore episode of Anchors of Encouragement, where I’ll share how you can get rid of your frustrations without saying a word. Hi Neighbor, I would like to share with you a special encore episode where we’ll circle back to the beginning and consider one of my 3 core anchors, self-awareness. It’s something I continue to use on a regular basis to help me navigate the storms of life. So whether you’re hearing this for the first time or revisiting it, I’m excited for you to dive back into the insights and the transformative strategies of becoming a paper tiger. I pray this episode helps you avoid saying things you will regret. Hope and Healing are on the way. Your Neighbor,⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ Tim P.S. If this podcast has given you the courage and confidence to face storms in your life, the number one way you can thank me is to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts. Here is a short video to show you how.

Are you an adoptive parent looking for hope and practical strategies to navigate the unique challenges of adoption? Would hearing from both a parent and a child about their journey through the adoption process and coming out stronger on the other side be helpful to you? If you answered 'yes' to any of these questions, I invite you to listen to this encore episode of Anchors of Encouragement, where my son Jonny and I share a powerful story that could provide the breakthrough you've been looking for. Hey Neighbor, You’re about to listen again to one of our most powerful episodes where I sit down with my Dad, Tim, to talk about the struggles, breakthroughs, and lessons learned on my path through adoption trauma. We dive into the life-changing concept of 10-10-10 and share the real and raw conversation adoptive families need to hear. Whether you caught it the first time or it’s new to you, this encore presentation is sure to bring valuable insights and perhaps be the anchor you need to stay steady in the storms of life. Let’s step back into this journey together and remember, no storm is too tough to weather with the right tools and support. Hope and Healing are on the way. Your Neighbor,⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ Jonny P.S. If this podcast has given you the courage and confidence to face storms in your life, the number one way you can thank me is to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts. Here is a short video to show you how.

It seemed like it would be the perfect spot to experience this moment, but I wasn't sure I would be allowed to go there. As it turned out, I was, and it was perfect. Hi Neighbor, Recently, I got to witness nature put on one of its most stunning shows – a total solar eclipse. It was a few moments of profound introspection. This episode of Anchors of Encouragement is all about that. I want to tell you about this amazing sight, how it almost didn’t happen, and how it ties back to memories and moments that are worth holding onto, including a special connection with my Mom. We'll also consider some passages from Psalm 19, and think about how something as everyday as the sky and something as rare as a total solar eclipse can be a source of encouragement and comfort. It’s a reminder that there is a Power much greater than any of us in control of it all. Ready for a moment of calm and a bit of soul-soothing? Hope and healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. In this episode, I also mention Episode 119 – Biblical Encouragement From the Anchor of Promise And I want to invite you to be a part of our amazing community. Click this LINK to join today.

“An early morning walk is a blessing for the whole day.” ~Henry David Thoreau Hi Neighbor, In this unplugged episode of Anchors of Encouragement, I want to share 3 reasons why I step away from my day-to-day activities and go for a walk. The simple act of walking can be a tremendous source of solace and strength. And I want to encourage you to walk for wellness too. You’ll realize benefits that will bless you throughout your entire day. Hope and healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. Speaking of benefits, check out Episode 5 – 3 Benefits of Walking to Overcome Overwhelm and Stress

In the challenges of life’s storms, where anxiety wears you down, where can you look to find your anchor amidst the chaos? May I suggest you look up to the sky to the anchor of promise. Hi Neighbor, Earlier this week, I experienced a vivid reminder of God’s faithfulness, a rainbow. In this episode of Anchors of Encouragement, I’ll share that story and tie it to the promises God made to people generations ago and to promises to us today. We’ll consider passages from Genesis 9, Deuteronomy 31, and Hebrews 13. Hope and healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. I want to invite you to be a part of our amazing community. Click this LINK to join today.

Have you ever found the wording in a Bible verse confusing and hard to understand? Well, I’ve been there. In this episode, I want to show you a simple way to not only understand the meaning of a Bible verse but also 3 ways to help you anchor to the text. Hi Neighbor, Today’s episode is based on a question from one of our listeners from Episode 99. If you have a question or comment for me, please send an email to [email protected] Struggling to understand Bible verses? In this episode of Anchors of Encouragement, I’ll share a simple way to grasp the meaning and connect with the text. Plus 3 powerful ways from Psalm 143 to anchor yourself to the text. Let's dive in! Hope and healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. Here’s my email address again: [email protected] Dive deeper into understanding Bible verses by comparing translations to find the wording that resonates with you. Utilize tools like the Blue Letter Bible app for easy comparison.

Have you ever felt so overwhelmed by life that words escape you and all you can do is cry? I’m here to assure you that every tear you shed speaks volumes to the God who created you. Hi Neighbor, Even in moments when your emotions are stretched to the breaking point and words fail you, rest assured that you’re not journeying through your struggles alone. In this episode of Anchors of Encouragement, we’ll consider 3 profound truths from Psalm 56 to give you biblical encouragement when life is tough. God hears your tears. Grab a pen and paper because I have a simple journaling exercise to share with you. Hope and healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. Here’s the passage from Psalm 56:8 to copy. “You keep track of all my sorrows. You have collected all my tears in your bottle. You have recorded each one in your book.” I also want to invite you to be a part of our amazing community. Click this LINK to join today.

Do you know an adoptive parent who is heartbroken? Feeling overwhelmed? Maybe this person can’t think straight, or maybe they are struggling with their faith. They might even feel lost, lonely, and afraid. Do you want to know how you can encourage this person? May I suggest you say a prayer? Hi Neighbor, In this episode of Anchors of Encouragement, I’ll share a powerful way to support adoptive parents who are feeling overwhelmed and struggling with their faith. We’ll do this by considering the song first introduced in Episode 114, “Brand New Day” by Lucy Thomas. We’ll also consider the biblical encouragement provided by passages from Psalm 42 and the book of Lamentations. Hope and healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. I also want to invite you to be a part of our amazing community. Click this LINK to join today. Brand New Day - Lucy Thomas - (Original Theme Song from Forthcoming TV Series) Music - Anton Fauve Lyrics - Roger Ellory Verse 1... There are times your heart is broken When the world just tears you down And you lose all sense of reason And your faith just can't be found Verse 2... When the clouds can get no darker And the wind just blows so cold You can know that there is hope now And you'll feel it in your soul Chorus... So say a prayer for the lost and lonely Say a prayer for those afraid Let 'em know the dark is lifting And tomorrow is a brand new day

On March 2nd, many years ago, a devastating tornado hit my hometown. As the anniversary approached, painful memories flooded back, but also valuable lessons. Hi Neighbor, Memories of tragedy can be overwhelming, but facing them head-on can lead to healing and growth. Join me in this unplugged episode of Anchors of Encouragement as I talk about the importance of processing difficult experiences by writing down your memories. This simple act can have a profound impact on your well-being. Hope and healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. To hear the rest of the story, check out Episode 16 – The $89,000 T-Shirt: How One T-Shirt Inspired and Healed a Broken Community Would you please consider leaving a review for the show? Here is a short video to show you how.

I’m imagining there is an adoptive parent reading this who is heartbroken and feeling overwhelmed. You can’t think straight. Maybe you’re struggling with your faith. You feel lost, lonely, and afraid. And you’re wondering, how can I ever get past this? I’m here to tell you I’ve been there, and I want you to know tomorrow is a brand new day. Hi Neighbor, In this episode of Anchors of Encouragement, I want to share a powerful message of hope and resilience for all those dark days in the adoptive parenting journey. I’ve had my share of dark days which I first spoke about in Episode 1. But through it all, I never entertained abandoning my faith. Don’t get me wrong, my faith took a hit. When times got tough, I leaned into my faith with passages such as John 6:66-68. I also relied on the tool my son Jonny learned in residential, journaling. We’ll consider that as I also highlight the impact of a touching song called “Brand New Day” by Lucy Thomas, which beautifully encapsulates the message of hope and encouragement. Hope and healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. Would you please consider leaving a review for the show? Here is a short video to show you how. Brand New Day - Lucy Thomas - (Original Theme Song from Forthcoming TV Series) Music - Anton Fauve Lyrics - Roger Ellory Verse 1... There are times your heart is broken When the world just tears you down And you lose all sense of reason And your faith just can't be found Verse 2... When the clouds can get no darker And the wind just blows so cold You can know that there is hope now And you'll feel it in your soul Chorus... So say a prayer for the lost and lonely Say a prayer for those afraid Let 'em know the dark is lifting And tomorrow is a brand new day

What is something that can cause you anxiety, but also reduce your anxiety? Answer: For me, it’s snow. Hi Neighbor, In this unplugged episode of Anchors of Encouragement, I want to share one of my favorite anxiety grounding techniques with you. It’s something I’ve been doing for years. I also share a happy memory of doing it when I was in college. Daily Doable: Identify those anxiety grounding techniques you can use whenever you need a break, whenever you need some respite. Hope and healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. Would you please consider leaving a review for the show? Here is a short video to show you how.

Some days are easier than others. Some days don't go as expected. What do you do when there is ONE curve ball after another thrown at you? I’ve discovered a lot of things are out of my control. But there’s ONE thing I can control, ONE thing I do almost every day. That ONE thing helps me to prepare for the unpredictability of any day. Hi Neighbor, To journal or not to journal? Five questions to consider. This is the fifth and final episode of this 5-part series about journaling. Question Number 5: Is There a Right or Wrong Way to Journal? Answer: Start where you are with what you have. In this episode, I want to consider 5 ways to get unstuck and start journaling today. Hope and healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. Did you miss Parts 1, 2, 3, or 4 in this series? You can listen to them here, Part 1 EP 108, Part 2 EP 109, Part 3 EP 110, and Part 4 EP 111. I also want to invite you to be a part of our amazing community. Click this LINK to join today.

It’s easy to get tripped up journaling. Trust me, I know. There are so many different ways you can journal, and you’re left wondering, “Is there a right or wrong way to do it?” I’m hoping by sharing my experiences, using the WRITE way, that will help liberate you and help you to choose the way or ways that are best for you. Hi, Neighbor. To journal or not to journal? Five questions to consider. This is the fourth of a 5-part series about journaling. Question Number 4: Is There a Right or Wrong Way to Journal? Answer: There’s only one way to journal, the WRITE way, W-R-I-T-E. In this episode, I want to consider with you 5 ways to journal the WRITE way. It’s my goal these ways will make journaling doable for you. Hope and healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. Did you miss Parts 1, 2, or 3 in this series? You can listen to them here, Part 1 EP 108, Part 2 EP 109, and Part 3 EP 110. Would you please consider leaving a review for the show? Here is a short video to show you how.

Those who know me know I love to draw. I’ve been doing it all my life, from scribbles on my grandma’s wallpaper to drawings of buildings. For almost 30 years, I was an architectural illustrator. I’ve drawn buildings located all over the world. From this podcast, you probably know I love to journal. I’ve been journaling for over 5 years. But there’s something about me I bet you didn't know. I have a confession to make. Whether it’s drawing or journaling, Every time I see a blank sheet of paper, I get intimidated. I know it might sound silly, but it’s true. Hi Neighbor, To journal or not to journal? Five questions to consider. This is the third of a 5-part series about journaling. Question Number 3: What Do I Write About? Answer: Write about anything you want. In this episode, I’ll share with you 3 things you can write about to make journaling easy, doable, and less intimidating. Hope and healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. Did you miss Parts 1 and 2 in this series? You can listen to them here, Part 1 EP 108 and Part 2 EP 109. I also want to invite you to be a part of our amazing community. Click this LINK to join today.

My dad had a heart attack at 45. It was scary. Thankfully, it was the warning kind of heart attack… This was a wake-up call for him and a wake-up call for me. Dad began riding an exercise bike, I began cycling. I understood this was a process. There were benefits to doing what I was doing. Just like I've experienced the benefits of cycling and later hiking. I've also experienced the benefits of something else I've talked about on this podcast, journaling. Hi, Neighbor. To journal or not to journal? Five questions to consider. This is the second of a 5-part series about journaling. Question Number 2: How Much Time Does Journaling Take? Answer: It actually takes less time than you might think. We will explore this question through stories about my Dad and son, Jonny, and how they have reacted to traumatic experiences. Learning from their stories, I incorporated those lessons into my own life. I believe this process will inspire you to journal too. Hope and healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. Did you miss Part 1 in this series? You can listen to it here. Would you please consider leaving a review for the show? Here is a short video to show you how.

At first, I wasn’t a believer. You might even call me a doubting Thomas. It wasn’t until I saw with my own eyes the power of this simple practice. Now I’m a believer too. Hi, Neighbor. To Journal or Not to Journal? Five questions to consider. This is the first of a 5-part series that I want to share with you about journaling. Question Number 1: What Are the Benefits of Journaling? In today's episode, we'll consider that question with 3 game-changing benefits that sealed the deal for me. I also mention Episode 47, where my son Jonny shares his story and discusses how journaling has been a significant source of support for him. It’s a powerful testimony to the power of journaling. Hope and healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. I want to invite you to be a part of our amazing community. Click this LINK to join today.

As an adoptive parent, do you ever second-guess yourself? What did I do wrong? Do you listen to critics and let them get you down? Have you responded to negative criticism and it didn’t go well? Hi, Neighbor. I’m here to tell you, don’t beat yourself up. In this episode, I’ll share 3 ways adoptive parents can navigate these challenges in their adoption journeys. Verses mentioned in this episode. “For our earthly fathers disciplined us for a few years, doing the best they knew how. But God’s discipline is always good for us so that we might share in his holiness.” Hebrews 12:10 “Do to others as you would like them to do to you.” Luke 6:31 I want to encourage you to use Luke 6:31 as a journaling prompt. Copy this verse and keep it front and center for those times of criticism and self-doubt. Hope and healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. Would you please consider leaving a review for the show? Here is a short video to show you how. Join our Facebook community at this link.

Do you worry about your children’s future? Will they make wise choices? Will they be successful? And most importantly, will they remain faithful? Hi Neighbor, I’m here to encourage you. Don’t give up! In this episode, I want to offer you some biblical encouragement with a time-tested proverb and share a personal story of how that was manifested in my life. Proverbs 22:6 NLT – “Direct your children onto the right path, and when they are older, they will not leave it.” Proverbs 22:6 NKJ – “Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it.” Be an anchor of encouragement for other adoptive parents searching for answers in their adoption journeys. Please leave a review for the podcast. It’s simple and will only take a few minutes. See the link below for a video on how to do it. Thank you! Hope and healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. Would you please consider leaving a review for the show? Here is a short video to show you how.

When my daughter was five, we got a letter from her birth mother at Christmas time saying, “I started thinking about grad school but then, you know, 9-11 happened and we invaded Iraq... I’m planning on joining the army. I’m going to be going off to officer training school and in case I don’t come back, I want to come and spend the weekend with you and meet my daughter.” Hi Neighbor, Joining me today is my neighbor from San Jose, Terri Marcroft. Terri is an adoptive mom and a passionate advocate of open adoption. You’ll hear Terri’s story and how it motivated her to create an organization to raise awareness of why adoption is the healthier solution to an unplanned pregnancy. Hope and healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. Would you please consider leaving a review for the show? Here is a short video to show you how. Terri’s Organization: Unplanned Good Terri’s Books: Pro-Family Pro-Adoption: A Christian’s Guide to Unplanned Pregnancy Options Pro-Choice Pro-Adoption: It's Time for a Loving, Positive Response to Unplanned Pregnancy Disclaimer: As is the case with anyone that I bring on the show to talk to you, I encourage take notes and listen to the information. Then do your due diligence and use what you can in your adoption journey to parent your child the best way you can. Some of the links I include in my emails may be affiliate links. That means that if you click on a link and make a purchase, I could earn a small commission. I will only promote products I believe in and think you will enjoy. Thank you for being in my community.

Hi, Neighbor, Welcome to a special behind-the-scenes episode of Anchors of Encouragement. Over the past several weeks, I’ve had the privilege to speak to many adoptive parents. Even though I am an adoptive parent, it’s my desire to get to know you better so that I can create content and episodes that speak to you. After these conversations, I realized I needed to update the description for this podcast. I want it to reflect what I heard you say you want to hear on this show, and that’s what I want to share with you in this episode. Here’s the new description for the podcast. Some of it will sound familiar, but some of it will sound a little different. Did you finally realize your dream of having a family only to have your happily ever after turn into a nightmare? Are you constantly second-guessing your parenting, anxious about whether your child will make good choices and remain faithful? Do you wish more than anything that your child would know Christ and just turn out "OK"? Have you neglected yourself to the point that it’s taken a personal toll on you? Hi Neighbor! Welcome to Anchors of Encouragement. I’m Tim Maudlin: Husband, Adoptive Parent, Disciple of Christ, and Ambassador of Encouragement. I too felt the joy of having a family of my own and I wished we could be like other families. But I found myself up late at night, anxious about my child's future and asking myself, "Why is this happening? Am I a failure as a parent?" It was only by grabbing a lifeline from God and my friends that I was able to navigate the challenges of adoptive life. And now I can't wait to share everything I've learned with you. My mission is to be your friend and encourager, to throw adoptive parents a lifeline, and offer biblical mindset support as you partner with Christ, providing stability as your anchor when you need it the most. If you’re ready for real and raw talk, with strategies and insights that lead to peace beyond comprehension so you not only survive but thrive in life’s storms, this podcast is for you. Hope and Healing are on the way! I'm here for you, neighbor! That’s the new description for this podcast, or maybe I should say the most current description. This is something that will continue to evolve as I get to know you better and understand what kind of content you want and need in this podcast. Daily Doable: I really want to hear from you. Listen and or read the description. Do these points that I'm making speak to you? If they do, let me know. If they don't, please let me know because it's my goal to create content that speaks to the challenges you're facing in your adoption journey. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. Send your comments and feedback to [email protected] Would you please consider leaving a review for the show? Here is a short video to show you how.

The most healing moment for me was actually getting my adoption file from the authorities and reading a letter from my birth mother about the teddy bear. It became abundant to me that the teddy bear was a symbol of her love, not a consolation prize. Hi Neighbor, Trauma can lie dormant for a long time, even decades. Unexpectedly, trauma can be triggered by the most seemingly innocent things. Joining me today, is my neighbor from Great Britain, Simon Benn. Simon is an adoptee. The insights that he shares from his journey, I believe, will not only help those of us who are adoptive parents but will help our adopted children as well. I want to encourage you to grab a pen and paper. There are so many nuggets in this episode, From the story about a teddy bear to a metaphor of a diamond. And then in the Daily Doable, Simon gives those of us who are adopted parents An amazing gift. Hope and healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. Would you please consider leaving a review for the show? Here is a short video to show you how. Simon Benn Contact Information: Podcast Website Instagram Facebook Disclaimer: As is the case with anyone that I bring on the show to talk to you, I encourage take notes and listen to the information. Then do your due diligence and use what you can in your adoption journey to parent your child the best way you can.