158. Divorce, FAFSA & College Costs – How to Get It Right, with Vicki Vollweiler

Paying for college is stressful—add divorce to the mix, and it gets even more complicated. In this episode, Karen sits down with college planning expert Vicki Vollweiler to unpack what divorcing parents need to know about the FAFSA process, financial aid, and protecting both your future and your child’s dreams.

Vicki brings her unique expertise at the intersection of personal finance, college planning, and post-divorce parenting to help families avoid costly mistakes and missed opportunities.

Whether your child is 3 or 17, this is an essential listen for any parent going through divorce.

What You’ll Learn:

• Why FAFSA rules have changed—and how they impact divorced parents

• Who should fill out FAFSA—and why it’s not always the custodial parent

• The financial impact of remarriage on aid eligibility

• Key differences between FAFSA and CSS Profile

• How and when to use 529 plans vs. loans

• Why college planning should start during divorce (not after)

• What to do if a parent refuses to participate in the aid process

• Why honors programs can be a hidden financial win

• How to negotiate for more aid and appeal award letters

Key Takeaways:

“Don’t put your head in the sand because you don’t want to deal with the money. With planning, families can save tens—and sometimes hundreds—of thousands of dollars.”

• Start thinking about college costs during your divorce—not after

• Include financial aid participation clauses in your divorce agreement

• Appeal and negotiate financial aid packages—you can ask for more

• Consider honors programs and in-state schools as cost-saving strategies

• Proactive planning saves the most money (and stress)

Resources from Vicki Vollweiler:

• College Financial Prep – Free 15-minute consultations available

• Upcoming Book + Workbook for Divorced & Widowed Parents (stay tuned!)

• Online courses, workshops, and soon: a book club for parents navigating this journey

Have Questions? Email us at [email protected] or visit mydivorcesolution.com

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