Voices Against Violence

In schools all over the country students experience sexual harassment and assault which often go unchecked because administrators fail to respond in meaningful ways. In this episode, we explore this issue, discuss how schools can better support all students, and why prevention education is so important for the safety of young people.

Sexual harassment is often disguised as 'just a joke' but harmful gender norms and misogyny are the root of sexual violence. Join Charity and Kristen as they discuss how misogyny can lead to mass violence and how we can hold perpetrators accountable.

Kristen and Charity break down hidden red flags in the fairy tales we know and love. This conversation explores how those ingrained narratives affect how we see ourselves and influence our views on relationships today.

On this episode we discuss the Courtney Stodden documentary, explore the predatory nature and inherent grooming that happens when adults prey on minors, and how to revamp our response to victims from shaming and blaming to one of supporting survivors.

Join Kristen and Charity for a thoughtful conversation about one of the most severe outcomes of domestic violence: murder-suicides. In this episode, we unpack how power and control can escalate to fatal violence, explore why data on these tragedies is so difficult to track, examine what’s missing from the conversation and what can be done to recognize risk and support those impacted.

On this episode, join Kristen and Charity as they dive into some frightening domestic violence statistics, how teams look to protect their players from accusations, and how the aggression that many players and fans alike display can impact their partners. This episode is our first episode available on YouTube as a video episode!

On this episode of Voices Against Violence, we jump into an important discussion of workplace boundaries. From protecting your sanity to protecting your pens, setting boundaries at the workplace can make the difference between dreading your day job and being yourself in the office! Tune in to hear Kristen and Charity's tips and red flags to watch out with boundaries.

In this episode, we dive into the staggering prevalence of sexual violence on dating apps and how the companies that own these apps have failed to protect their users. Tune in to hear some shocking statistics, what safety policies should look like, and a few tips on how to keep yourself safe when dating online.

The tragic story of Gabby Petito sparked a national conversation about domestic violence, law enforcement response, and media influence—but there’s still more to uncover. In this Part 2 episode, we continue the discussion, diving deeper into what happened after Gabby’s case gained worldwide attention, the policy changes that followed, and the lessons we can’t afford to ignore.How has the case impacted domestic violence awareness, police training, and public perception? What gaps still exist, and how can we ensure that other victims don’t go unheard? Join us as we analyze the long-term impact of this case and what it means for survivors everywhere.

The Gabby Petito case captivated the nation, sparking crucial conversations about domestic violence, media coverage, and the realities survivors face every day. With the release of the latest documentary, we take a deeper look at what Gabby’s story reveals about intimate partner violence, the warning signs that were missed, and what needs to change to protect more lives.In this episode of Voices Against Violence, we explore the broader implications of her case, from law enforcement response and public awareness to the media's role in shaping the conversation. Join us as we discuss what we can all learn from this tragedy and how we can better support survivors before it's too late.

From celebrity scandals to political decisions, the way domestic violence, sexual assault, and abuse are covered in the news has a huge impact on public perception, survivor support, and policy change. In this episode of Voices Against Violence, we break down recent headlines, discuss how media narratives influence public opinion, and explore the real-life consequences of these stories for survivors.Are celebrity scandals making people take abuse less seriously? How do political shifts impact funding and protections for survivors? And what can we do to ensure survivor voices remain at the center of the conversation? Tune in as we unpack the cultural and political ripple effects of today's biggest stories.

Not all activism happens on a big stage—sometimes, the most powerful acts of feminism happen in everyday moments. In this episode of Voices Against Violence, we discuss micro acts of feminism and how small, intentional actions challenge the patriarchy and create real change.From calling out sexism in conversations to supporting survivors and advocating for policy change, we’ll explore how feminism is more than just a movement—it’s a daily practice that makes the world safer and more equitable for everyone.

Valentine’s Day is often seen as a celebration of love, but for many, it can be a painful reminder of unhealthy or abusive relationships. In this episode of Voices Against Violence, we explore what healthy love looks like, how to recognize red flags, and why Valentine’s Day can be especially difficult for survivors.We’ll also discuss ways to support loved ones in unhealthy relationships and how to redefine love beyond romantic partnerships—because love should always be safe, respectful, and free from harm.

Valentine’s Day is a time for love, but not all love stories are what they seem. In this episode of Voices Against Violence, we’re joined by special guest Pamela Hernandez, an expert in personal safety and fraud prevention, to discuss the rising trend of romance scams.From red flags to watch out for to tips on protecting yourself or loved ones, we’re diving into how scammers exploit emotions and technology to take advantage of victims. Learn how to spot the signs, avoid the traps, and empower yourself to stay safe in today’s digital world.Whether you’re dating online or know someone who is, this episode is packed with practical advice and insights to help you navigate modern love with confidence.

February is Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month, and in this episode of Voices Against Violence, we’re shining a spotlight on this critical issue. With 1 in 3 teens experiencing dating violence, it’s more important than ever to start the conversation.Join us as we explore the warning signs of unhealthy relationships, how to support teens experiencing abuse, and the importance of fostering respect, boundaries, and safety in relationships. Whether you’re a parent, educator, or teen, this episode offers actionable insights and resources to help create a future free from dating violence.

The viral TikTok trend We Listen, We Don’t Judge has taken over social media, encouraging people to share personal confessions while the listener reacts without judgment. But when it comes to domestic violence, is listening without judgment always the right approach?In this episode of Voices Against Violence, we explore how this trend, while well-intentioned, could be harmful when used in the wrong context. Survivors need to be heard—but they also need accountability, action, and safety. When does "not judging" cross the line into ignoring red flags or excusing harmful behavior? And how can we foster real support for survivors instead of silence?Update 1/31/2025 - This episode of Voices Against Violence we prerecorded prior to the events of this week. We want to acknowledge the aviation tragedy that happened Wednesday night in Washington D.C and give our deepest condolences to those impacted.

In this episode of Voices Against Violence, we dive into the critical topic of stalking awareness. Stalking is a dangerous and often misunderstood form of violence that affects millions of people every year. We discuss the behaviors that constitute stalking, its devastating impact on victims, and how awareness and action can help prevent it. Join us as we explore the importance of recognizing stalking and supporting those who experience it.

When survivors recant their stories, it can leave many people wondering why. In this episode, we delve into the complexities behind recanting, exploring the fear, pressure, and emotional toll survivors face. Understanding this issue is essential to supporting survivors and addressing domestic violence effectively.

From gender-based harassment to the increase stats of misogyny, this episode dives deep into the societal forces perpetuating inequality and harm. We discuss how these attitudes fuel domestic violence and what can be done to challenge and change them.

In this episode, we explore the misconceptions and overlooked truths about domestic violence. Drawing from the experiences of survivors and advocates, we share the vital insights people wish they had known—insights that could change how we view, respond to, and prevent domestic violence.

In this special episode, we’re diving into your questions! From social media submissions to conversations with our team in the community, we’re tackling the topics you’re most curious about. Whether it’s about our mission, how we operate, or how you can get involved, we’ve got the answers.Tune in to hear us address everything you’ve been wondering—and maybe a few surprises along the way! This episode is all about connecting with you and sharing more about the work we’re so passionate about.Don’t miss it!

At the core of domestic violence lies a deliberate attempt to maintain power and control over another person. This episode dives into the power and control wheel, exploring how abusers use tactics like intimidation, isolation, and manipulation to exert dominance. Gain insights into the psychological impact of these dynamics and how they perpetuate cycles of abuse.

Domestic violence doesn’t discriminate, it impacts individuals of all genders. This episode shines a spotlight on male survivors, breaking down the stigma and addressing the unique challenges they face in seeking help and support. Discover how we can create a more inclusive conversation and ensure all survivors feel seen, heard, and empowered.

While counseling can be an excellent tool for many struggles, it is not always safe or effective for addressing domestic violence. In this episode, we discuss the limitations and risks of traditional counseling in abusive relationships, especially where power and control dynamics are involved. Learn why alternative interventions may be critical in ensuring survivor safety and fostering real change.

Domestic violence often hides in plain sight, masked by fear, shame, or manipulation. In this episode, we explore how to identify the subtle and overt warning signs of abuse. Whether it’s physical, emotional, financial, or psychological abuse, understanding the red flags can make all the difference in helping someone in need. Tune in to learn how to recognize these signs and provide meaningful support.

In episode 8 of Voices Against Violence, we dive into the glitzy yet often problematic world of reality TV relationships. From love triangles to controlling behaviors disguised as "romantic gestures," we explore the red flags that are too often overlooked or sensationalized for the sake of drama. Tune in as we discuss the subtle and not-so-subtle signs of unhealthy relationships portrayed on screen and their potential influence on real-life perceptions of love and conflict.

In Episode 7 of Voices Against Violence, we explore the growing role of technology in domestic violence cases. While technology has connected us in powerful ways, it has also become a tool for abusers to exert control, track, and intimidate survivors. From cyberstalking to controlling digital communication, we dive into the ways technology is being misused and what can be done to protect those at risk. Join us as we shed light on the intersection of tech and abuse, and provide resources for navigating these challenges.

In Episode 6 of Voices Against Violence, we focus on the critical topic of talking to youth about domestic violence. As uncomfortable as these conversations may seem, they are essential in raising awareness, preventing future abuse, and empowering young people to recognize the signs of unhealthy relationships. Our discussion explores practical approaches to opening the dialogue with teens and young adults, providing tools and resources to educate the next generation on this crucial issue.

In Episode 5 of Voices Against Violence, we dive into the high-profile world of celebrity scandals involving domestic violence. While these stories often make headlines, they also highlight the deep-rooted issue of domestic abuse in all walks of life. We discuss the media's role, public perception, and how these high-profile cases can impact awareness and advocacy for survivors everywhere. Tune in for an eye-opening conversation on what happens behind the scenes and what it means for the broader fight against domestic violence.

In this episode of Voices Against Violence, we dive into the critical topic of how not all abuse is physical. While many associate domestic violence with visible bruises or injuries, abuse can also leave deep, lasting scars that aren’t so easily seen. We explore the emotional and psychological abuse that many survivors face, discussing how manipulation, control, isolation, and intimidation can be just as damaging as physical harm.Join us as we talk about the warning signs of non-physical abuse, its profound impact on mental health, and why recognizing it is so important in the journey to break the cycle of violence. Whether you or someone you know may be experiencing this kind of abuse, this episode aims to offer insight, hope, and ways to seek help.Tune in for an eye-opening conversation that sheds light on the forms of abuse that too often go unnoticed.

In this episode, we tackle some of the most common myths surrounding domestic violence. From misconceptions about who can be a victim to the false belief that leaving is easy, we break down the barriers that keep these harmful myths alive. Listen as we share expert insights and survivor stories to shed light on the truth and help dispel the misinformation that surrounds domestic violence.Tune in for a myth-busting conversation that will change the way you view domestic violence—and empower you to stand with survivors and spread awareness.

In this episode of Voices Against Violence, we dive deep into the crucial role our community plays in prevention and support. We discuss practical ways you can help spread awareness, advocate for survivors, and aid in preventing abuse. From educational initiatives to simple acts of support, learn how you can make a lasting impact on the lives of survivors and join the movement to end domestic violence. Tune in to discover how together, we can create a safer and more compassionate community.

Welcome to the Pilot Episode of the Harmony House Voices Against Violence Podcast — a dedicated space crafted to educate, empower, and serve as a voice for all survivors of domestic violence, past, present, and future. Our goal is to provide an extensive range of resources and insightful content that not only informs but also inspires action and advocacy. Through in-depth discussions, compelling interviews, and engaging topics, we aim to shed light on the crucial issues surrounding domestic violence, offer support, and amplify the voices of survivors.Join us as we work together to create a supportive community, drive change, and ensure that every survivor's story is heard.