Trying Not to Care

You might have seen me recently crying on Tiktok over my imposter syndrome. While I was in California, I found myself in a few uncomfortable situations that ultimately led to me doubting myself and my abilities. In today's episode, I talk about my struggles with imposter syndrome, what happened in California, where imposter syndrome comes from, as well as how to overcome imposter syndrome.SOCIALS AND LINKSInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe hereRevolve, Amazon Storefront and more: LTXIf you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google FormTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfBusiness Inquiries - [email protected]

In today's episode, I am talking about why girls have such a bad reputation when it comes to friendships. I have heard so many people, especially men, say girls are so much drama and they're always fighting with their friends. In my opinion, I think the reason why girls have more friendship fallouts is because we have higher expectations for our friends than guys do. Today I'm talking about Healthy friendships I currently have Comparing my boyfriend and his friendships to mine Why guy friendships and girl friendships are so different Not allowing disrespect in friendships When to cut ties and end a friendship SOCIALS AND LINKSInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe hereRevolve, Amazon Storefront and more: LTXIf you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google FormTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfBusiness Inquiries - [email protected]

Do you find yourself being jealous and unhappy when others succeed? Listen to this episode. In today’s episode, I talk about why we struggle to be happy for others and how to actually be supportive when others do good. SOCIALS AND LINKSInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe hereRevolve, Amazon Storefront and more: LTXIf you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google FormTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfBusiness Inquiries - [email protected]

ARIES RISE!!!!! It’s officially April and my birthday week. With my birthday coming up, I wanted to talk about previous birthdays where I felt underappreciated by the people in my life. Birthdays can be really hard, especially when you don’t have many friends and feel very overwhelmed. Over the years, I’ve found myself upset over the lack of plans and birthday wishes because all I wanted was to be celebrated. In today’s episode, I talk about celebrating yourself and how you can’t expect others to show up for you if you’re not willing to show up for yourself. SOCIALS AND LINKSInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe hereRevolve, Amazon Storefront and more: LTXIf you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google FormTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfBusiness Inquiries - [email protected]

Every year around my birthday, I spiral because I am overly aware of the fact that I am getting older. I used to be so excited for my birthday, and now I dread it because I am afraid of getting older. In today's episode, I talk about the fears of aging, backhanded compliments, beauty standards, and why I am no longer attaching a negative meaning to aging. SOCIALS AND LINKSInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe hereRevolve, Amazon Storefront and more: LTXIf you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google FormTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfBusiness Inquiries - [email protected]

Stop minimizing what you want out of fear of what others think.SOCIALS AND LINKSInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe hereRevolve, Amazon Storefront and more: LTXIf you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google FormTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfBusiness Inquiries - [email protected]

How to stop being bothered by others actions and perception of you. Why you should to stop taking things so personally.Mikayla's episode that inspired me: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5cYgbiocg2UuWhvncuXSwm?si=8hdF6u9NQvuXf7Ky13otPgSOCIALS AND LINKSInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe hereRevolve, Amazon Storefront and more: LTXIf you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google FormTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfBusiness Inquiries - [email protected]

YOUR GIRL HAS BEEN IN A FUNK. In an attempt to make myself feel better, here are some questions to ask yourself next time you're in a funk.What’s taking up the majority of your time?Who are you spending time with?Are you spending more time in your head or in the moment?What are your current habits?Are you listening to your body and your needs?What is something you can do right now to feel relieved or feel happy?SOCIALS AND LINKSInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe hereRevolve, Amazon Storefront and more: LTXIf you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google FormTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfBusiness Inquiries - [email protected]

ADVICE SESSION #7!!!This episode covers: Going back to an ex after they left you Being “too sad” or “too much” for people What to do if your partner thinks other people are attractive What to do if your ex is treating their new partner better How to be happy alone when all your friends are in relationships Dealing with being ghosted and rejected Being the best version of yourself If you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google FormSOCIALS AND LINKSInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe hereRevolve, Amazon Storefront and more: LTXTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfBusiness Inquiries - [email protected]

In this week's episode, we're talking about the different ways to say and show your love for someone. I am constantly hearing people say, "if he wanted to he would" or "he doesn't love you if he doesn't do this." Although there might be some truth behind those statements, in today's episode I talk about why it's not that simple and how everyone expresses their love differently.SOCIALS AND LINKSInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe hereRevolve, Amazon Storefront and more: LTXTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfIf you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google Form

Today we're talking about self-care that goes so much deeper than throwing on a face mask or going for a walk. In today's episode, I talk about 10 non-physical things that you can do to take care of yourself. SOCIALS AND LINKSInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe hereRevolve, Amazon Storefront and more: LTXTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfIf you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google Form

With February being the month of love, I want to focus the next few episodes on self-love. In today’s episode, I talk about the harm that comes from losing yourself in a relationship as well as the process of learning to be alone and love yourself after a breakup.SOCIALS AND LINKSInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe hereRevolve, Amazon Storefront and more: LTXTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfIf you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google Form

Quick mini vent sesh!!! Today's episode is a reminder that you're allowed to be angry and advocate for yourself when someone disrespects you. Standing up for yourself DOES NOT MAKE YOU A BAD PERSON. SOCIALS AND LINKSInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe hereRevolve, Amazon Storefront and more: LTXTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfIf you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google FormBusiness Inquiries: [email protected]

I CAN'T BELIEVE IT'S BEEN 2 YEARS OF TRYING NOT TO CARE. With it being the 2 year anniversary of this podcast, I'm sharing my story of how hard work and being delusional got us here. I I talk about why being delusional works, how your thoughts control your reality, and going after what you want. SOCIALS AND LINKSInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe hereRevolve, Amazon Storefront and more: LTXTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfIf you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google FormBusiness Inquiries: [email protected]

The truth about big friend groups and why I think the best people have less friends. In today's episode, I talk about the misconception that people with little to no friends are bad and don't know how to maintain healthy friendships. I strongly believe a big reason why people struggle to maintain friendships is because they don't allow their friends to walk all over them. These people would rather stick up for themselves and risk losing those friends than stay in friendships with people who don't respect them. I also talk about my experience in and out of a large friend group and why I think these types of friendships can bring out the worst in people.SOCIALS AND LINKSInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe hereRevolve, Amazon Storefront and more: LTXTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfIf you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google FormBusiness Inquiries: [email protected]

HAPPY 2024!!!!!! I'm so excited to spend another year with you, besties 🥹 In today's episode, I talk about getting out of your own way. I used to carry around the BIGGEST victim mentality and make excuses for why things weren't working out for me. Today, we're taking accountability and discussing 8 things that will help you GET OUT OF YOUR OWN WAY SO YOU CAN LIVE THE LIFE YOU DESERVE! 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍SOCIALS AND LINKSInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe hereRevolve, Amazon Storefront and more: LTXTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfIf you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google FormBusiness Inquiries: [email protected]

NEW YEAR NEW ME As the year comes to a close, it's time to start thinking about who we want to be and what we want our lives to look like in 2024. In today's episode, I talk about goal setting, your diet, how to plan your glow up guide and things I will be doing to help me glow up in 2024. This episode covers:- Life updates- Setting unrealistic goals- Your diet is more than what you eat - Planning your glow up guide: How I want to feel, My mindset, My hobbies, My goals, My habits - Things I'll be focusing on in 2024: My Style, Spirituality, Self Care, Food and BodySPONSORTo get 60% off, plus 20% off your next two months, go to greenchef.com/60TNTC and use code 60tntcSOCIALS AND LINKSInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe hereRevolve, Amazon Storefront and more: LTXTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfIf you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google FormBusiness Inquiries: [email protected]

As the year comes to a close, I've been reflecting on goals of mine that I have and haven't accomplished. While doing this, I've realized that I tend to put much more emphasize on what I haven't completed than what I have. In today's episode, I talk about:- Looking at things with a negative perspective- Scarcity vs Abundance mindsets - 5 realistic ways to redirect your thinking SPONSORSThis episode is sponsored by ZocDoc Go to Zocdoc.com/TRYINGNOT and download the Zocdoc app for FREETo get 30 days of full access for free go to dipseastories.com/TNTCSOCIALS AND LINKSInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe here Revolve, Amazon Storefront and more: LTXTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfIf you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google FormBusiness Inquiries: [email protected]

Here are some gentle reminders for those days that you can't get out of your head.1. Time heals everything.2. It's okay if not everyone likes you. You don't like everyone. 3. You've never had an original thought. Negative thinking and intrusive thoughts happen to so many people. 4. When one door closes, another door opens. 5. Small steps make big changes. 6. Them succeeding does not mean you're failing. 7. Nobody thinks about you as much as they think about themselves. So don't worrying what people think about you. SPONSORS This episode is sponsored by Uncommon GoodsTo get 15% off your next gift: https://www.uncommongoods.com/podcast/tntcThis episode is sponsored by BetterHelp -Give online therapy a try: get 10% off your first monthSOCIALS AND LINKSInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe here Revolve, Amazon Storefront and more: LTXTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfIf you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google FormBusiness Inquiries: [email protected]

STOP BEING DESPERATE!! If you find yourself begging for partners to treat you right, double-texting your friends for a response, or chasing fame and success, listen to this episode.In today’s episode, I talk about my own experience and how I reeked of desperation as I chased relationships, friendships, and money. Let today’s episode be a reminder that you don’t chase; you attract. ✨✨✨✨SPONSORS For Green Chef’s best deal of the year, get $250 off with code tntc250To get 30 days of full access for free go to dipseastories.com/TNTCSOCIALS AND LINKSInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care Instagram TikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTok Youtube: Subscribe here Revolve, Amazon Storefront and more: LTXTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfIf you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google FormBusiness Inquiries: [email protected]

Now that I'm in my mid to late 20s, I have been stressing a little bit about my "timeline." What my next moves are—if I'm going to have kids, if I'm going to get married, if I'm going to buy a house—the list goes on. The best way that I cope with these stressors is by talking through them with all of you. Today I'm throwing it back to a TNTC community favorite! Last year, I did an episode about navigating your 20s, and so many of you told me that you found it helpful. In today's episode, I talk about what it's really like to be in your 20s and how to navigate the not-so-perfect parts of it. This episode is sponsored by Uncommon Goods To get 15% off your next gift: https://www.uncommongoods.com/podcast/tntcThis episode is sponsored by ZocDoc Go to Zocdoc.com/TRYINGNOT and download the Zocdoc app for FREE♡MY SOCIALS♡Instagram: personal, podcastTikTok: personal, podcastYoutubeRevolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTXTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfIf you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google FormBusiness Inquiries: [email protected]

Sometimes when we get upset, we don't know entirely why because what we're upset over seems so insignificant. But a lot of the time, the reason we're upset is because things that we've struggled with in the past resurface. In today's episode, I talk about why I think it's important to understand why things trigger you the way they do. I talk about my experience with being bullied over how I smell, growing up with parents who fought, being told I eat too much, anxiety over being late, friends mistreating me, and managing others emotions. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp -Give online therapy a try: get 10% off your first monthThis episode is sponsored by Uncommon Goods - To get 15% off your next gift: https://www.uncommongoods.com/podcast/tntc♡MY SOCIALS♡Instagram: personal, podcastTikTok: personal, podcastYoutubeRevolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTXTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfIf you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google FormBusiness Inquiries: [email protected]

Welcome to another advice session! In today's episode I answer some of your questions. This episode covers: - How to handle mood swings - Figuring out if someone likes you back- How to get over a crush - How to stop being codependent - How to face failures - Comparing yourself to older adults - How to deal with social anxiety when hanging out with new people- Whether you should send that long paragraph to someone If you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google Form or reply to the Q&A under this episode on Spotify. This episode is sponsored by DipseaTo get 30 days of full access for free go to dipseastories.com/TNTC♡MY SOCIALS♡Instagram: personal, podcastTikTok: personal, podcastYoutubeRevolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTXTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfBusiness Inquiries: [email protected]

For the girls who want to form habits and feel good but don't want to commit to 75 hard or 75 soft. After finishing 75 hard, I fell off a little bit with my routine, and I decided I wanted to get back into it. I miss working towards something and feeling as good as I did doing 75 hard. I don't want to commit to another 75 days, and I don't believe that challenge aligns well with my current lifestyle. With that being said, I have decided to start my own self-improvement challenge that will run for 30 days. Listen now to learn more!This episode is sponsored by Green ChefGet 60% off plus free shipping at Green Chef with code 60tntc ♡MY SOCIALS♡Instagram: personal, podcastTikTok: personal, podcastYoutubeRevolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTXTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfIf you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google FormBusiness Inquiries: [email protected]

Listen to this episode if you find yourself basing your value on what others think. In today's episode, I talk about my experience with past relationships and how I allowed how they treated me to determine my worth. This episode is sponsored by ZocDoc -Go to Zocdoc.com/TRYINGNOT and download the Zocdoc app for FREE♡MY SOCIALS♡Instagram: personal, podcastTikTok: personal, podcastYoutubeRevolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTXTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfIf you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google FormBusiness Inquiries: [email protected]

It's no secret that I love fall. I love fall fashion, fall activities, seasonal food, pumpkin spice coffee and even the weather. But once Halloween passes and the temperature drops below 60, I find myself being affected by seasonal depression. During the fall and winter, I struggle a lot mentally. I have an extremely hard time getting out of bed, staying motivated, socializing...and my energy is at an all-time low. In today's episode, I explain what seasonal depression is, my experience with it, how to improve your mental health during the fall and winter as well as some products to buy that can help combat seasonal depression. This episode is sponsored by DipseaTo get 30 days of full access for free go to dipseastories.com/TNTCproducts mentioned in this episode: https://www.amazon.com/shop/influencer-b74cda50/list/WJX7FHF9OC9X?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsflist_aipsfinfluencer-b74cda50_PQC55KSYNSZ5V4168DR3♡MY SOCIALS♡Instagram: personal, podcastTikTok: personal, podcastYoutubeRevolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTXTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfIf you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google FormBusiness Inquiries: [email protected]

For the majority of my life, I was under the impression that I got my period and that was it. I had no idea about the four phases of the menstrual cycle and how those phases affect our body. Recently I've been learning more about the menstrual cycle as well as cycle syncing and I wanted to share what I've learned so far with you! I also share my experience with birth control, my thoughts on periods and my period care essentials. Products mentioned: Stardust period tracker appperiod care essentials linkPMS stickThis episode is sponsored by BetterHelp -Give online therapy a try: get 10% off your first month ♡MY SOCIALS♡Instagram: personal, podcastTikTok: personal, podcastYoutubeRevolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTXTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfIf you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google FormBusiness Inquiries: [email protected]

As much as I love hot girl fall, I want to be hot every single season. In today's episode, I talk about 5 things that I believe not only make someone attractive but also magnetize others to them. In this episode I cover: - Confidence- Being present - Not being open with everyone - Sticking to your word - Taking care of yourself Try the Peloton App today for free for 30 days: https://www.onepeloton.com/home-trial New paid memberships only, starting at $12.99/mo after trial, unless canceled. Terms apply.♡MY SOCIALS♡Instagram: personal, podcastTikTok: personal, podcastYoutubeRevolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTXTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfIf you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google FormBusiness Inquiries: [email protected]

GET TO KNOW ME! I love to share my thoughts and advice with you on this podcast but very rarely do I share much information about myself. In today's episode, I'm answering 26 questions about me, so you and I can get to know me better. Ava's episode that inspired today's ep: https://open.spotify.com/episode/6tgxac7JAw68eFH4hertPF?si=DLvZ3K87RnqTcGnVTzDaJQIf you want to ask yourself or the people in your life these questions: https://psychcentral.com/blog/imperfect/2016/04/26-question-to-help-you-know-yourself-betterThis episode is sponsored by BetterHelp -Give online therapy a try: get 10% off your first monthThis episode is sponsored by DipseaTo get 30 days of full access for free go to dipseastories.com/TNTC♡MY SOCIALS♡Instagram: personal, podcastTikTok: personal, podcastYoutubeRevolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTXTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfIf you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google FormBusiness Inquiries: [email protected]

In today's episode, I talk about my experience with comparing my time in the podcast space to others. As I've compared my journey to others, I've noticed that the only time I find myself doubting my abilities is when I'm putting them up against others. In this episode, I talk about comparison and its negative effects on you, Bevy Smith's "Take a Note, Give a Note" and how the only real competition you have is yourself. Watch How to Discover Your Authentic Self -- at Any Age | Bevy Smith | TEDThis episode is sponsored by Liquid IV - Get 20% off anything you order when you go to https://www.liquid-iv.com and use code TNTC at checkout.This episode is sponsored by ZocDoc -Go to Zocdoc.com/TRYINGNOT and download the Zocdoc app for FREE♡MY SOCIALS♡Instagram: personal, podcastTikTok: personal, podcastYoutubeRevolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTXTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfIf you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google FormBusiness Inquiries: [email protected]

If you’re worried about what others think, listen to this episode. After seeing a video of two women (who run a podcast) making fun of aspiring creators for posting online, I decided it was time for me to talk about the topic myself. I started this podcast with nothing. I just quit my job, I didn’t have a huge online presence, and I had no idea how or if Trying Not to Care would work. I looked at other podcasters who already had a huge following and loyal listeners. In doing that, I almost allowed the comparison of my show to theirs, to stop me from pursuing my spot in the podcast community. In today’s episode, I talk about not allowing what others are doing/thinking to steer you away from doing what you want, why it’s not embarrassing to put yourself out there and how to fake it until you make it. Everyone is a "faux-fluencer" before they become an influencer. You have to start somewhere. This episode is sponsored by Proactiv To get 20% off your first order go to Proactiv.com and use code TNTC This episode is sponsored by Petoton Ready to give it a go? Take the Peloton Tread home for 30 days worry-free. https://www.onepeloton.com/home-trial♡MY SOCIALS♡Instagram: personal, podcastTikTok: personal, podcastYoutubeRevolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTXTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfIf you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google FormBusiness Inquiries: [email protected]

Here's a glimpse into my morning and night routine! Social media is filled with so many aesthetically pleasing morning and night routines which are fun to watch, but they're not always realistic. Not everyone has time to have a dedicated routine! But in today's episode I share how you can build a routine that is beneficial and works for you. This episode is sponsored by DipseaTo get 30 days of full access for free go to dipseastories.com/TNTC♡MY SOCIALS♡Instagram: personal, podcastTikTok: personal, podcastYoutubeRevolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTXTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfIf you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google FormBusiness Inquiries: [email protected]

We've all heard of "pick me" girls or girls who refer to themselves as not like "the other girls." After watching a video of a girl talk about her disinterest in Taylor Swift, I started thinking about why some women try so hard to separate themselves from others. In today's episode I talk about why some girls refuse to share similar interests and opinions as other girls and why I personally love being like "other girls." ♡MY SOCIALS♡Instagram: personal, podcastTikTok: personal, podcastYoutubeRevolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTXTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfIf you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google FormBusiness Inquiries: [email protected]

Recently I’ve noticed that I’ve been falling back into not so great habits of mine and honestly I’ve been struggling a little. When this happens, I know that the only way to get through it is to work through it. In today’s episode I talk about some things that I’ve done and am currently doing that make my life more enjoyable. By making an effort to do these things, I am much less frustrated, am more positive, more motivated, more grateful and more present. Let me know some of you favorite things to do that help you when you’re feeling down and need to feel better! This episode is sponsored by ZocDoc -Go to Zocdoc.com/TRYINGNOT and download the Zocdoc app for FREEGet 20% off anything you order when you go to https://www.liquid-iv.com and use code TNTC at checkout.♡MY SOCIALS♡Instagram: personal, podcastTikTok: personal, podcastYoutubeRevolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTXTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfIf you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google FormBusiness Inquiries: [email protected]

I’ve been a little behind on advice sessions and wanted to get one out there for my besties who are lacking motivation or inspiration. In today's episode, I answer your questions about Lowering your screen time Staying consistent Being afraid of failure Changing career paths Change Spending time alone Motivation to workout If you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google FormThis episode is sponsored by DipseaTo get 30 days of full access for free go to dipseastories.com/TNTCThis episode is sponsored by BetterHelp -Give online therapy a try: get 10% off your first month♡MY SOCIALS♡Instagram: personal, podcastTikTok: personal, podcastYoutubeRevolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTXTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfIf you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google FormBusiness Inquiries: [email protected]

Lately I've been reflecting on past experiences of mine where someone has hurt me. There's been plenty of times where I've fought fire with fire and tried to get even, but it never got me far. We've all heard the saying, hurt people hurt people but what if instead of hurting others back, we grow and heal instead? In today's episode I talk about breaking the cycle and getting better instead of bitter. I talk about why people hurt people, being the bigger person, letting your ego get in the way and turning negative experiences into positive ones. ♡MY SOCIALS♡Instagram: personal, podcastTikTok: personal, podcastYoutubeRevolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTXTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfIf you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google FormBusiness Inquiries: [email protected]

Positive self talk is so important but it can only do so much when you don't believe the words you're saying. In today's episode I talk about why your affirmations aren't working and things you need to stop saying to yourself. The words you speak become the house you live in. Listen to Leo's episode here!♡MY SOCIALS♡Instagram: personal, podcastTikTok: personal, podcastYoutubeRevolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTXTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfIf you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google FormBusiness Inquiries: [email protected]

In my early twenties, I felt extremely lost and confused. I had no idea what I was supposed to be doing with my life. I felt like everyone had it figured out while I wasted away. Now at 26, I can confidently and proudly say I know what my purpose is. In this episode I talk about how to find your purpose and why you may be struggling with finding it. I go over ways to discover it as well as reasons why you're delaying it. This episode is sponsored by DipseaTo get 30 days of full access for free go to dipseastories.com/TNTCThis episode is sponsored by ZocDoc -Go to Zocdoc.com/TRYINGNOT and download the Zocdoc app for FREE♡MY SOCIALS♡Instagram: personal, podcastTikTok: personal, podcastYoutubeRevolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTXTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfIf you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google FormBusiness Inquiries: [email protected]

It's very easy to beat yourself up/judge yourself for things that have happened in your past. As someone who has difficulty letting go of past mistakes, this episode is a gentle reminder to me and you to not hold the past over your head. It's not fair to blame yourself for things that have happened to you or things that you've done. Instead of shaming yourself by saying "I should have known better" congratulate your growth and say "now I know better." This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp -Give online therapy a try: get 10% off your first month♡MY SOCIALS♡Instagram: personal, podcastTikTok: personal, podcastYoutubeRevolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTXTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfIf you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google FormBusiness Inquiries: [email protected]

With the Fourth of July and summer events, drinking may be a hot topic of discussion within you and your friend group. I wanted to put out an episode where I talk about the pressure of drinking alcohol and why you shouldn't drink if you don't want to. In this episode I talk about alcohol being so normalized, being pressured into drinking as well as hangxiety and tips to avoid/manage it. Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get $5 off off your Starter Pack (that’s over 40% off) with promo code TNTC at lumedeodorant.com/TNTC! #lumepodGet 20% off anything you order when you go to https://www.liquid-iv.com and use code TNTC at checkout.♡MY SOCIALS♡Instagram: personal, podcastTikTok: personal, podcast YoutubeRevolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTXTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfIf you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google FormBusiness Inquiries: [email protected]

In today's episode I talk about 5 things that I think make someone unattractive. We all can see when someone is physically attractive but I truly believe someone's behavior and how they treat others also influence this. I go over talking negatively about others, being insecure, being negative/complaining, competition and following trends. Through talking about how these 5 things make someone unattractive, I hope that it encourages listeners to want to better themselves. This episode is sponsored by Dipsea To get 30 days of full access for free go to dipseastories.com/TNTCThis episode is sponsored by Julie You can go to JULIECARE.CO to learn more or find Julie at your nearest CVS, Target,or Walmart today♡MY SOCIALS♡Instagram: personal, podcastTikTok: personal, podcastYoutubeRevolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTXTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfIf you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google FormBusiness Inquiries: [email protected]

Forget about hot girl summer, it's healed girl summer. This summer we're putting ourselves first, embracing who we are, leaving bad company and FOMO behind, and doing what we want. In this episode I talk about - putting yourself first- listening to your body - embracing your body, hair and skin- spending time with good company - letting go of FOMO- doing things alone - less imaging and more doingThis episode is sponsored by BetterHelp -Give online therapy a try: get 10% off your first monthGet better sleep now with Blissy and use TNTC to get an additional 30% off at blissy.com/TNTC ♡MY SOCIALS♡Instagram: personal, podcastTikTok: personal, podcastYoutubeRevolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTXTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfIf you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google Form

The feel good episode of your dreams. Today I talk about the little things in life that I love so much. I think gratitude is so important and I want this episode to remind you to find joy in the little things. Ava’s episode that inspired today’s ep!! https://open.spotify.com/episode/1qr21lSPTbFJJ4pf0KYaHn?si=5-KOJVdoR0aopbQt8-ZJxQThis episode is sponsored by Dipsea -To get 30 days of full access for free go to dipseastories.com/TNTCThis episode is sponsored by Tinder -On Tinder, it starts with a Swipe. Download Tinder today and explore all of the possibilities for yourself. https://apps.apple.com/us/app/tinder-dating-new-people/id547702041♡MY SOCIALS♡Instagram: personal, podcastTikTok: personal, podcastYoutubeRevolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTXTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfIf you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google Form

ADVICE ON BEING IN YOURS 20SIn today's episode, I answer your questions on how to navigate your 20s. This episode covers:- Feeling like you're behind in your 20s. Not being "on track" because you aren't doing conventional things like getting married, buying a house and having kids.- Finding the courage to move out and live alone for the first time.- How to manage personal finances and save money.- Becoming comfortable in your own skin as your body changes.- Finding a good balance between your alone time and spending time with friends.If you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google FormTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfLINK TO MERCH: https://tryingnottocare.com/passwordMERCH IS AVAILABLE 06/01 BUT ADD YOUR EMAIL FOR A CHANCE TO WIN A FREE HOODIE!!!!This episode is sponsored by Julie -You can go to JULIECARE.CO to learn more or find Julie at your nearest CVS, Target,or Walmart today.This episode is sponsored by Tinder -On Tinder, it starts with a Swipe. Download Tinder today and explore all of the possibilities for yourself. https://apps.apple.com/us/app/tinder-dating-new-people/id547702041♡MY SOCIALS♡Instagram: personal, podcastTikTok: personal, podcastYoutubeRevolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTX

In today's episode I talk about setting boundaries and sticking to them (despite others being unhappy about it.) We often get push back when we set boundaries, especially in friendships and relationships, which is why it's important to be clear with your expectations and stand your ground. I talk about my experience in past relationships, learning that it's okay for others to not understand how you feel, walking away when a boundary has been crossed, the difference between boundaries and walls and figuring out what's important to you and your values. LET ME KNOW WHAT YOU THINK! ♡This episode is sponsored by Tinder -On Tinder, it starts with a Swipe. Download Tinder today and explore all of the possibilities for yourself. https://apps.apple.com/us/app/tinder-dating-new-people/id547702041Get better sleep now with Blissy and use TNTC to get an additional 30% off at blissy.com/TNTCMENTAL HEALTH RESOURCES:988 Suicide & Crisis LifelineLifeline Chat and TextSAMHSA’s National Helpline♡MY SOCIALS♡Instagram: personal, podcastTikTok: personal, podcastYoutubeRevolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTXTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfIf you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google Form

How to take control of your life when you're feeling stuck and unsatisfied. I give you a list of things that I believe get in the way of living your best life: 1. Adjusting your screentime + what you're consuming during that screentime 2. Working a job that you hate 3. Staying in your comfort zone 4. Engaging with people and things that don't serve you5. Letting others tell you who you are6. Neglecting your needs LET ME KNOW WHAT YOU THINK! ♡This episode is sponsored by Tinder -On Tinder, it starts with a Swipe. Download Tinder today and explore all of the possibilities for yourself. https://apps.apple.com/us/app/tinder-dating-new-people/id547702041This episode is sponsored by ZocDoc -Go to Zocdoc.com/TRYINGNOT and download the Zocdoc app for FREEMENTAL HEALTH RESOURCES:988 Suicide & Crisis LifelineLifeline Chat and TextSAMHSA’s National Helpline♡MY SOCIALS♡Instagram: personal, podcastTikTok: personal, podcastYoutubeRevolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTXTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfIf you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google Form

Listen to this if you're in a slump. In today's episode I talk about navigating life through the highs and lows, realistic ways to get out of a funk and finding balance between work and rest. This episode is sponsored by Tinder -On Tinder, it starts with a Swipe. Download Tinder today and explore all of the possibilities for yourself. https://apps.apple.com/us/app/tinder-dating-new-people/id547702041This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp -Give online therapy a try: get 10% off your first monthMENTAL HEALTH RESOURCES:988 Suicide & Crisis LifelineLifeline Chat and TextSAMHSA’s National Helpline♡MY SOCIALS♡Instagram: personal, podcastTikTok: personal, podcastYoutubeRevolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTXIf you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google Form

Listen to this if you’re struggling with your mental health. To kick off Mental Health Awareness Month, we are talking about 6 things that can improve your mental health. This episode is sponsored by Tinder -On Tinder, it starts with a Swipe. Download Tinder today and explore all of the possibilities for yourself. https://apps.apple.com/us/app/tinder-dating-new-people/id547702041This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp - Give online therapy a try: get 10% off your first month MENTAL HEALTH RESOURCES: 988 Suicide & Crisis LifelineLifeline Chat and TextSAMHSA’s National Helpline♡MY SOCIALS♡Instagram: personal, podcastTikTok: personal, podcast YoutubeRevolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTXIf you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google Form

I have been struggling hard with Coachella FOMO which got me thinking about the fear of missing out and why it happens. In today's episode I talk about FOMO, what it feels/looks like, the reasoning behind why it happens and how we can avoid it by turning it into the joy of missing out. This episode is sponsored by Blissy - Get better sleep now with Blissy and use TNTC to get an additional 30% off at blissy.com/TNTCThis episode is sponsored by Tinder -On Tinder, it starts with a Swipe. Download Tinder today and explore all of the possibilities for yourself. https://apps.apple.com/us/app/tinder-dating-new-people/id547702041Follow along on my socials:INSTAGRAM: my main account + podcast IGTIKTOK: lilbabyaries + podcast tiktokYOUTUBE: ashleycorbo444If you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode topic ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google Form

Listen to this episode if you are someone who overshares a lot. I talk about the reasons behind why we overshare, why we feel regretful and embarrassed for sharing too much and why oversharing isn't a bad thing. This episode is sponsored by ZocDoc -Go to Zocdoc.com/TRYINGNOT and download the Zocdoc app for FREEThis episode is sponsored by Tinder - On Tinder, it starts with a Swipe. Download Tinder today and explore all of the possibilities for yourself. https://apps.apple.com/us/app/tinder-dating-new-people/id547702041Follow along on my socials:INSTAGRAM: my main account + podcast IGTIKTOK: lilbabyaries + podcast tiktokYOUTUBE: ashleycorbo444If you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode topic ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google Form