6 Things Emotionally Healthy Couples Don’t Do
This Complex Life · Marie Vakakis
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Show Notes
There’s a lot of advice about what to do to build a strong relationship. But what about the things emotionally healthy couples don’t do?
Join me, Marie Vakakis, a therapist, mental health, and relationships educator. In this episode, I explore six common habits that can damage trust, connection, and communication—and why avoiding them can make a big difference.
Key takeaways:
- Sarcasm, eye-rolling, and small put-downs erode trust over time.
- Name-calling and labelling create emotional distance.
- Venting to friends instead of addressing issues can reinforce resentment.
- The silent treatment damages trust and communication.
- Forgetting milestones isn’t about the big gestures—it’s about showing care.
- Expecting one person to meet all emotional needs puts too much pressure on a relationship.
If any of these sound familiar, you’re not alone—and it’s never too late to shift unhelpful patterns.
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