The Trans Issues and Kink Episode
A human sexuality podcast.
They Talk Sex · Elle Stanger
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Show Notes
Let’s get elbow deep in complex topics like kink, neurodiversity, trauma healing and trans gender issues. Writer Cosima bee Concordia aka “Bimbo Theory” joins me here and you can find her on Patreon too.
1:00 her new IG is @bimbo.theory
3:00 what is kink?
7:00 ADHD and sluggish cognitive tempo
9:00 lists and timers can be helpful for ADHD
13:00 moral panic around trans people
15:00 informed consent models
18:00 on “pegging the patriarchy”
22:00 Greek men had rules for how they were allowed to have anal sex
25:00 on pegging
30:00 I want leather education!
33:00 BDSM book recommendation - “Leathersex”
36:00 blood play and risk
40:00 submissives and service-topping
45:00 nicknames and pet names
49:00 r*pe-role play
53:00 eroticized taboos
56:00 examples of many types of kink play
59:00 resources for cis people dating newly-transitioned folks
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