The Consent and Queer Sex Episode
A human sexuality podcast.
They Talk Sex · Elle Stanger
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Show Notes
Have you ever accidentally or knowingly pushed on someone’s boundaries? We all have, so how do we communicate our needs and heal our harm? Let’s talk about queerness, flirting, sex, and accountability in trauma and relationships with writer Clementine Morrigan.
1:00 meet your guest
5:00 examples of how consent can be confused
6:00 queer imposter syndrome
10:00 verbal consent doesn’t work for everyone
13:00 i identify a traumatized, nice to meet you
16:00 knowing your own triggers is quite helpful
20:00 crossing men’s boundaries
23:00 drinking, drugs, and consent
27:00 taking a pause is necessary and sometimes sexy
31:00 how to communicate when you’re tied up?
36:00 subs gotta use their safe words when they need ‘em
40:00 intent matters and is relevant
45:00 kids and modeled consent
50:00 penetration isn’t inherent to sex play
53:00 sex without penetration is sex
58:00 reflections of how we messed up before
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