The Compulsive Sexual Behaviors Episode
A human sexuality podcast.
They Talk Sex · Elle Stanger
Audio is streamed directly from the publisher (static1.squarespace.com) as published in their RSS feed. Play Podcasts does not host this file. Rights-holders can request removal through the copyright & takedown page.
Show Notes
Clinician and author Silva Neves explains common misconceptions about so-called “sex addiction” and gives help to folks navigating distressing concerns about their own sexualities.
4:00 Lack of sexuality training with sex workers
7:30 sex addiction type treatment is shaming of people
9:40 why “sex addiction” is not an accurate term
11:00 your body doesn’t withdraw from lack of sex, and can’t OD on sex
19:00 trauma and attachment
20:00 non-monogamy
25:00 sex positivity includes body positivity
Fetishes, poly, kinky, sex workers, disability, queer, asexual all need to be included in sex therapy
27:00 what sex-positive really means
29:00 asexuality is real
31:00 conversion “therapy”
36:00 How to share a trauma story with partners
40:00 porn doesn't make people violent
47:00 relational trauma is common
51:00 what is digisesxuality?
53:00 what is chemsex?
59:00 how to surf your emotions
1:11:00 monogamy is a christian concept
FIND YOUR GUEST: https://silvaneves.co.uk
FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com
See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows
Sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com
Condoms and Lube can be found on Condomania.com - code THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order!
Need a waterproof blanket? Sponsored by Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX
Looking for quality vibes? Get 15% off at LoveCrave.com
Thanks for rating and reviewing this podcast :)