Thee Heauxsome Show

Kam and Cai talk with filmmakers Contessa Gayles and richie reseda about their film ‘Songs From The Hole’, which channels the creative process of former incarcerated rapper and film collaborator JJ’88. We discuss: the prison industrial complex, the damaging effects of the patriarchy, as well as the importance of community, love, and humanization of incarcerated individuals.

Thank you for 29 episodes of Heauxsome Black Girl podcast 🤎💖

Hey Heauxs! On this episode: Kam talks about turning 25 and what that means for her, as well as societal pressure to have everything together. They also discuss Amanda Seales, how ADHD and Autism has affected the way they date, create friendships, and how they maneuver in the world. They also get into Kendrick Lamar and have a dialogue about Black men and how they continue to protect predators and allow others to bastardize hip hop and Black spaces. Time Stamps: 6:40 What Do I Have To Show For 25?7:30 I’m In My Disciplined Era10:15 I Felt My Frontal Lobe Develop11:06 I Don’t Care About A Lot of Things Anymore11:37 Uncle Ruckus Be Making Some Points13:00 Amanda Seales14:11 ADHD/ Autism in Black Women19:38 Using Sex Appeal As A Way To Mask Neurodivergency21:40 Shannon Sharpe23:45 Neurodivergency Information Is Behind A Paywall29:13 Kam Is A Maximalist, I Am A Minimalist32:42 Girl, Look At This Nigga!36:04 Kendrick Has Sex Appeal37:15 We Not Making Fun of Domestic Violence, We Making Fun of OUR Domestic Violence40:25 Black Men Allow People To Bastardize Hip Hop42:25 Kendrick… Why You Collab with Kodak?46:00 Men Shouldn’t Complain??49:19 STOP Assigning Traits To Gender54:09 Black Men Should Be Able To Experiment With Their SexualityAUDIO AVAILABLE ON APPLE PODCASTS AND SPOTIFY! Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/heauxsome-black-girl/id1660368046Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6MJIoLHhjjOPDfHKBtrrcl?si=sw4jsuIrRACe7EHlFDyDfwPATREON EPISODES WILL DROP THE END OF EVERY MONTH ($10/month) : https://www.patreon.com/HeauxsomeBlackGirl?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorDownload Dimensional here: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/dimensional-personality-test/id1520060596Stay Heauxsome! 💖🤎

Hey Heauxs! We are back with a special 4/20 episode🤎🫶🏽 Here we discuss: perception, dating while podcasting, Chris Brown/Quavo beef, the “fake deep” accusations, the recent beef in the podcast community, Drake’s AI diss, and more! 03:06 We Are Regular Bitches 05:06 I Don’t Wanna Be Famous 06:00 I Fear Being Sexually Assaulted…09:30 I’m Done Healing, I Need To Fuck Sum 10:38 Broke Celibacy Rule Number One11:34 I’m Mentally Ill, Babe 12:47 Chris Brown/Quavo/Saweetie 15:25 YG Look Like a Teddy Graham 16:16 We Have Similar, But Different Types 23:24 Drake 26:33 Whitney Had Too Much Faith In The Children 32:08 Hear Me Out 35:43 My Next Man Can Only Have Two Likes 36:29 Are You SURE You Wanna Date A Podcaster? 39:20 What Makes You Feel Sexy? 41:26 Self Love Is Also Discipline and Structure

Hey Heauxs! As a way to honor the one year anniversary of “We All Want To Be Picked, Sis”, Kam and Caila are giving y’all an hour and a half of content, reflecting on things they no longer resonate with from that episode, as well as their new way of thinking. Both hosts provide insight into their backgrounds and journeys: Kam opens up about a recent therapy session where she finally got an understanding of her attachment style. Caila reflects on her dating life within the last year, as well as her experiences with grief, and both hosts also tackle the desirability aspect of being podcasters, as well as their childhoods and their personal experiences with “love”. They also reflect on music from 2012-2019, reminisce on their MB FAN days, and give their thoughts on the recent J. Cole/Kendrick controversy. #takewhatuneed 🤎💖

Hey Heauxs! First of all, make sure y’all tune into our last episode ‘Katt Williams’ Daughters’— an exclusive, raw, uncut, and juicy episode available on Patreon for $10🥰😝🤎💖: https://www.patreon.com/HeauxsomeBlackGirl?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorOn this episode: Kam and Caila are joined by Kam’s work partner in crime, Lil, to discuss workplace microagressions, anti intellectualism, and the collapse of critical thinking in this day and age. Caila talks about her college experience and gives real life examples explaining how college is a luxury. They also chat about posting partners, Twitter debates, and end the episode with their #HearMeOut segment.Follow Lil on IG: https://www.instagram.com/lil2crafty_Kam: https://www.instagram.com/theeonlykam.ri Cai: https://www.instagram.com/caithecurator PODCAST: https://www.instagram.com/heauxsomeblackgirl AUDIO AVAILABLE ON APPLE PODCASTS AND SPOTIFY! Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/heauxsome-black-girl/id1660368046Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6MJIoLHhjjOPDfHKBtrrcl?si=sw4jsuIrRACe7EHlFDyDfw

On this episode: Kam and Cai discuss the dating scene and their difficulties dating with the type of men they like. They also unpack the heavy bigotry that they notice amongst Black men and question why so many of them hold traditional values that do not serve them. In their #DimensionalHeaux segment they discuss their love languages, what they bring to relationships, as well as their love styles using the app. In #InternetHeaux, topics range from the hypersexualization of AD’s body, Draya Michele, as well as Black natural haircare myths.Follow them on IG: Kam: https://www.instagram.com/theeonlykam.ri Cai: https://www.instagram.com/caithecurator PODCAST: https://www.instagram.com/heauxsomeblackgirl AUDIO AVAILABLE ON APPLE PODCASTS AND SPOTIFY! Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/heauxsome-black-girl/id1660368046Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6MJIoLHhjjOPDfHKBtrrcl?si=sw4jsuIrRACe7EHlFDyDfwPATREON EPISODES WILL DROP THE END OF EVERY MONTH ($10/month) : https://www.patreon.com/HeauxsomeBlackGirl?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorDownload Dimensional here: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/dimensional-personality-test/id1520060596Stay Heauxsome! 💖🤎

In this episode: Kam and Caila are joined by certified sex coach and podcaster, Jody PrHOEvocative for a very Heauxsome discussion filled with laughs, self reflection, and vulnerability. The ladies discuss Black women’s unique journey towards embracing their sexualities, sexual shame in Black households, and Jody’s experience in owning her own sensuality and body. They also highlight the different types of sex appeal, cringy eras, civil rights leaders they would fuck, lying to men, and they also push for a #StruggleDick movement. Follow Jody on IG: https://www.instagram.com/jodyprhoevocativeFollow them on IG: Kam: https://www.instagram.com/theeonlykam.ri Cai: https://www.instagram.com/caithecurator PODCAST: https://www.instagram.com/heauxsomeblackgirl AUDIO AVAILABLE ON APPLE PODCASTS AND SPOTIFY! Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/heauxsome-black-girl/id1660368046Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6MJIoLHhjjOPDfHKBtrrcl?si=sw4jsuIrRACe7EHlFDyDfwPATREON EPISODES WILL DROP THE END OF EVERY MONTH ($10/month) : https://www.patreon.com/HeauxsomeBlackGirl?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorDownload Dimensional here: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/dimensional-personality-test/id1520060596Stay Heauxsome! 💖🤎

Did you Heauxs miss us?Kam and Caila are back and better than everrrrr, Period! In this episode, both hosts introduce new segments: #AuntieDiaries, #ThrowbackHeaux, #DimensionalHeaux, #ShootYaShot, and #HeauxOfTheWeek. They also discuss their rebrand and new changes coming to the podcast, as well as their ‘controversial’ #FreeTheHeauxs rollout, public perception, and their own personal creative ventures. Kam opens up about her ADHD diagnosis and her newfound experience with medication while navigating adulthood. Both hosts also highlight their new journey towards sexual abstinence and analyze relationships in classic Black films as adults. Kam also ‘shoots her shot’ at a special someone ✨👀 Follow them on IG: Kam: https://www.instagram.com/theeonlykam.ri Cai: https://www.instagram.com/caithecurator PODCAST: https://www.instagram.com/heauxsomeblackgirl PATREON EPISODES WILL DROP THE END OF EVERY MONTH ($10/month) : https://www.patreon.com/HeauxsomeBlackGirl?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorDownload Dimensional here: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/dimensional-personality-test/id1520060596Stay Heauxsome! 💖🤎

In this Season One finale: Kam and Caila give themselves their flowers and open up about what podding has taught them throughout the year, where they are going moving forward, and they embrace the "messy" narrative. They also discuss Perc dick, their online stalkers, and their experiences being walking, physical triggers for many 'creative' bitches and niggas.

In this episode: Kam and Caila laugh about adulthood and their urges to die, divesting from the creative scene, and their struggles with transitioning into adulthood. They also share their thoughts on holding men down in jail/prison, Jada Pinkett Smith's press run tour, shaving difficulties, and are later joined by Uncle Muk to chat about his art show, his thoughts on relationships, and he shares his #HearMeOut with them.

No outline this episode, Heauxs! Kam and Caila share their recent experience at CultureCon and their run-in with Scottie Beam! They also chat about the messiness of the Philly creative scene (per usual), discuss their results from the Game of Desire quiz, and dive into what they personally think sex appeal is. Kam and Caila also open up more about what kind of men they like, the duality of their friendship, as well as Kam's flaws when it comes to dating and friendships. Subscribe to our Patreon: https://patreon.com/HeauxsomeBlackGirl?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=join_link Follow us on Instagram! Kam: theeonlykamri Cai: caithecurator

In this episode: Kam opens up about the positives and negatives she’s experienced since podcasting, the way it has impacted her mental health and sanity, and how she’s been adjusting to being in the creative space. Kam and Caila also discuss the ways in which both of them have been treated by fellow peers, their anger and frustration with them, difficulties dealing creatives both romantically and professionally, and the double standard that exists between men and women in podcasting when it comes to discussing sex.Subscribe to us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/HeauxsomeBlackGirl?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorTHEE OFFICIAL HEAUXSOME PLAYLIST:Spotify > https://spotify.link/IMwrGUYPDDbAPPLE >Read Kam’s recent Op-Ed > https://medium.com/@kamri/respectability-will-never-save-black-women-8451ae141595

In this lighthearted episode: Kam and Caila are joined by special guests Ler and Lionel to discuss hairy, stank, and permed coochie, oral sex, DM culture, Kam's Instagram crush, their personal lives, and the balance that exists between Ler and Lionel.

In this episode: Kam and Caila discuss how adulthood has been treating them, their upcoming personal ventures, problematic Black civil rights leaders, the Black feminist movement, and the rampant misogynoir in the Black Panther Party. They also chat about Victoria Monet’s new album and end the show with their #HearMeOut segment. Stay Heauxsome! 🤎💖Our PATREON > https://www.patreon.com/HeauxsomeBlackGirl?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorOUR HEAUXSOME PLAYLIST > https://spotify.link/A4yXW8yxXCb

In this episode: Philly designer, Eve (eve._clothing) chats with Kam and Caila about some of the inspiration behind her designs, her personal fashion takes, privilege in academia, her experiences as a Temple student, Cardi B, and more! Subscribe to our Patreon for uncut, exclusive content! > https://patreon.com/HeauxsomeBlackGirl?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=join_link

In this episode: Kam and Caila discuss life, generational trauma and its effects on DNA, their thoughts on motherhood, and how colorism and featurism have impacted them in their personal lives. They also get into their #InternetHeaux segment & discuss Doja Cat's recent tweets, cancel culture, parasocial relationships, and the "real woman" vs trans woman debates.Episode 12 is exclusively on Patreon! https://patreon.com/HeauxsomeBlackGirl?Heauxsome Playlist:Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2ZWVlvlnXY2qXBPnV5Uhoz?si=695e8e6d34804fc0

Kam and Caila are joined by cartoonist and friend Dave to discuss his animation 'Northside', his creative process when it comes to drawing Black woman animations, his early beginnings, and they also tap into their #InternetHeaux segment where all three address mean comments, and chat about Issa Rae's legacy and of course... sex!

In this episode: Kam and Caila discuss what “emotional support coochie” is, discuss their anxiety surrounding new sexual partners, how they communicate during sex, and share their thoughts on Lizzo, Jacky Oh’s tragic death, and female predators in the Black community!

On this episode: Kam and Caila discuss aging in the Black community, Summer Walker’s new EP, their dark sense of humor, and provide their perspective on whether or not they consider Nipsey Hussle and Aaliyah are “legends”. They also introduce their new #HearMeOut segment!