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On this episode of The Viall Files we are joined by the legendary couple that is Daisy Fuentes & Richard Marx. After her first divorce Daisy was content with the life she had created for herself and thought she would never get married again, but she started singing a different tune when she met Richard and realized she had found the one person that was changing her mind. Richard has realized in his life, that true happiness comes when you aren't searching for it. They discovered that in being truly happy with themselves as individuals first, were they then able to to be the perfect partner for each other. So sit back, relax and get ready for some #couplegoals on todays show. " Your welcome to come into my life, your welcome to leave, just don't block the f-ing doorway " You guys nominated us and now it is time to vote, so please go to https://pca.eonline.com/pop-culture/the-pop-podcast-of-2020 and vote for The Viall Files as your favorite Pop Podcast Of 2020 for The E! People's Choice Awards. Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Masterclass: http://www.maasterclass.com/viall for 15% off an annual membership Bombas: http://www.bombas.com/viall for 20% off your first purchase Helix Sleep: http://www.helixsleep.com/viall for up to $200 off Bright Cellars: http://www.brightcellars.com/viall use the discount link to get your first 6 bottle box for 50% off Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @daiseyfuentes @therichardmarx See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Super fan Jason Ritter joins us today as we recap the first episode of Clare's season of The Bachelorette. Jason, armed with his journal filled with notes, was ready to dive in on night one of The Bachelorette with Nick. They break down their favorite contestants, including those who made a lasting impression, even if they went home night one, and all their thoughts on the premieres drama, especially that first interaction between Clare & Dale. Get ready for some predictions and theories on this ultimate recap breakdown. " I was super charmed by the origami stuff ." You guys nominated us and now it is time to vote, so please go to https://pca.eonline.com/pop-culture/the-pop-podcast-of-2020 and vote for The Viall Files as your favorite Pop Podcast Of 2020 for The E! People's Choice Awards. Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Rothys: http:// www.rothys.com/viall to check out all the amazing shoes and bags available right now. Bubs Naturals: http://www.bubsnaturals.com use promo code VIALL for 20% off. Theragun: http://www.theragun.com/viall to try Theragun risk-free for thirty days. Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @jason_ritter - Instagram @jasonritter - Twitter See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

People are sometimes nervous to talk about what turns them on in the bedroom, but letting your freak flag fly doesn't have to be an awkward conversation with the right person, as we discuss with our first caller. Our second caller approaches the concept of threesomes while being in a monogamous relationship, while our third caller knows how Nick feels about "friends with benefits" but has a question for him to try and find out if her situation is different. Lastly we speak with someone who has put herself in a love triangle between two friends and is trying to navigate how to make sure everyone knows what happened in the past, and what is happening now. "Own the things you like, someone will love you for it." You guys nominated us and now it is time to vote, so please go to https://pca.eonline.com/pop-culture/the-pop-podcast-of-2020 and vote for The Viall Files as your favorite Pop Podcast Of 2020 for The E! People's Choice Awards. THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Jenni Kayne: http://www.jennikayne.com use promo code VIALL for 20% Off. Article: http://www.article.com/viall to get $50 dollars off your first purchase of $100 or more. Manscaped: http://manscaped.com use promo code VIALL to get 20% off & free shipping Episode Socials: Viall Files @viallfiles Nick Viall @nickviall See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today we are joined by singer, songwriter Rachel Platten. Our conversation with Rachel today teaches us that you could think, you are the most woke person, only to actually realize, you don't really know much at all. Postpartum depression hit Rachel after the birth of her daughter and for a while kept it quiet but once she realized it is okay to say I am having a hard day, or I need help, her world actually started to take form, her writing once again took off, and her definition of being woke truly changed. So get ready for a conversation filled with honesty, laughs, and pop star love, as Nick and Rachel talk about her marriage, her crystals, her music, and that song that defined a campaign. " The surrender is incredible. " You guys nominated us and now it is time to vote, so please go to https://pca.eonline.com/pop-culture/the-pop-podcast-of-2020 and vote for The Viall Files as your favorite Pop Podcast Of 2020 for The E! People's Choice Awards. Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Theragun: http://www.theragun.com/VIALL to try risk-free for 30 days Jenni Kayne: http://www.jennikayne.com use promo code VIALL Natural Habits: http://www.nhoils.com use promo code KRISSY for 30% off. Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @rachelplatten See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On today's episode of Ask Nick we are joined by recording artist Jack J. First, Nick speaks with Jack as we go through what his own relationships have taught him about himself and how he is able to reflect on what he's learned to ensure he finds the right relationship at the right time. Jack's new single "You Lie" is a look at a past toxic relationship he experienced and we are so glad to welcome him as he uses that experience to help Nick out and share some different perspectives with today's callers. Our first caller is a woman who wants to know how to reassure her boyfriend of their relationship as he is about to leave to train in the police academy. Next, we speak to a woman who's recent breast reduction surgery has her feeling a bit insecure about men seeing her scars or thinking she is catfishing them on an app that shows her older photos. And finally, a boyfriend's form of communication is screaming- not talking- and Nick and Jack help her realize that he might not be as great as she says he is. "It's about the individual. It's not about the past. " You guys nominated us and now it is time to vote! So please go to https://pca.eonline.com/pop-culture/the-pop-podcast-of-2020 and vote for The Viall Files as your favorite Pop Podcast Of 2020 for The E! People's Choice Awards. THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: BRUUSH: http://www.bruush.com use promo code VIALL to get 15% off SHIP STATION: http://www.shipstation.com use promo code VIALL for a free 60 days RELIEF BAND: http://www.reliefband.com use promo code VIALL for 20% off Episode Socials: Viall Files @viallfiles Nick Viall @nickviall Jack J @Jvck.j See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today we discuss how making your house a home, especially now, can help with your mental health and make you feel all-around better in your space. You know our guest as the outgoing, fun-loving interior designer from Extreme Makeover: Home Edition, Michael Moloney. If you are looking for some design do's and don'ts then get ready because we are loading you up with them from outdoor spaces to kid's rooms to art and everything in between. We are spending so much time at home these days and making your home your sanctuary is so important. Nick didn't mind the free design advice for his new home either. Time to up light your mood on this episode of The Viall Files. "Drink up, and be careful." Make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: STITCH FIX: http://www.stitchfix.com/viall you'll get 25% off when you keep everything in your fix. BRUUSH: http://www.bruush.com use promo code VIALL for 15% off your Bruush and try it for 90 days risk free. NATURAL HABITS: http://www.nhoils.com use promo code KRISSY for 30% off. Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @michaelmoloneyofficial See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On today's episode of Ask Nick we are happy to have one of our 10 percenters join us for our first call: a hopeless romantic is trying to figure out how to move on, when out of the blue the girl he is seeing does a 180 and no longer wants to see him. We then speak with a woman who is trying to figure out how to get comfortable with role playing with her husband in the bedroom, while our next caller's husband is asking for butt stuff from her after his sex drive returned just after she gave birth. Finally, we speak with a woman who is excited to be moving in with her girlfriend, but her family is anything but supportive of their happiness. "Get a little weird. F*%$ it, you're married!" Go to https://pca.eonline.com/pop-culture/the-pop-podcast-of-2020 and nominate The Viall Files for The E People's Choice Awards for favorite podcast! THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: RITUAL: http://www.ritual.com/VIALL for 10% off during your first 3months. ECHELON: http://www.echelonfit.com/viall to try risk free for 30 days. ROTHYS: http://www.rothys.com/VIALL to check out all the amazing shoes and bags available right now. MODERN FERTILITY: http://www.modernfertility.com/VIALL for $20 off your fertility test Episode Socials: Viall Files @viallfiles Nick Viall @nickviall See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today on The Viall Files we are joined by actress and stand up comedian Esther Povitsky. Her comedy special Hot For My Name is out on CC.com and we decided to get Esther's hot takes on relationships, dating, friend zones, breakups, parents, sex positivity, talking dirty and so much more. She has a lot of thoughts on a lot of things, especially Nick, so strap in as Little Esther doesn't hold back. "It's so offensive that you run, I feel personally attacked." Make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: STORYWORTH: http://www.storyworth.com/viall for $10 off your first purchase CROSSROPE: http://www.crossrope.com/viall for $40 off the Get Fit Bundle plus FREE shipping BUBS NATURALS: http://www.bubsnaturals.com code: VIALL for 20% off AMAZON MUSIC: http://www.amazon.com/viall to try Amazon Music Unlimited for free for 30 days Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @esthermonster See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On today's episode of Ask Nick we dive right in with a caller who wants to know: when should you intervene in a friend's toxic relationship and how involved should you get? We then speak to someone who's boyfriend continually emotionally cheats on her and instead of asking herself, "is the relationship good for me?" is asking how to forgive him. Finances, effective communication, and everyday chores are the issues we face with a woman who feels like her partner is not giving as much as she does. And finally we have a caller that is dating her friend's brother- again- and it did not go well the first time. So how does she tell her friend now that it is happening again? "Time served is not a reason to be in a relationship." THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS:HIDRATE SPARK: http://www.hidratespark.com/viall to get FREE U.S. shipping RELIEF BAND: http://www.reliefband.com and use promo code VIALL to receive 20% off RITUAL: http://www.ritual.com/VIALL for 10% off during your first three months LIQUID IV: http://www.liquidiv.com and use code: VIALL to get 25% off BEST FIENDS: http://www.bestfiends.com Please go to https://pca.eonline.com/pop-culture/the-pop-podcast-of-2020 and nominate The Viall Files for The E People's Choice Awards for favorite podcast Episode Socials: Viall Files @viallfiles Nick Viall @nickviall See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On today's episode of The Viall Files we are joined by the star of Selling Sunset & Dancing With The Stars contestant Chrishell Stause. Nick and Chrishell cover all things you need to know about DWTS during this time and, of course, Carole Baskin. We also get into some of the antics that happen behind the scenes on Selling Sunset, how she feels about getting back out there to date, and what is showing up in her DM's. She has got some hot leads and some homes for sale too. "I should have asked her for some tips." Make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: BETTER HELP: BetterHELP.com/viallfiles for 10% off your first month. MASTERCLASS: masterclass.com/viall for 15% off an annual membership. BRUUSH: bruush.com use code VIALL at checkout for 15% your Bruush kit. HELLOFRESH: hellofresh.com/viallfiles80 use code viallfiles80 to get a total of $80 off your first month including free shipping on your first box. NOMINATE THE VIALL FILES FOR POP PODCAST OF 2020: https://pca.eonline.com/pop-culture/the-pop-podcast-of-2020 Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @crishell.stause See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It's Monday! On today's episode of Ask Nick we start with a woman whose boyfriend doesn't reciprocate oral sex and is looking for the right way to have the conversation with him to create a mutually satisfying and unselfish sex life. Next, we speak with someone who is struggling with navigating dating and how quickly the conversation turns to sex on dating apps. Our next caller will give you all the feels as Nick talks her through her first real love heartache and tries to help her figure out the best way to let go. Lastly, we help a woman talk through her confused feelings about a guy she is hooking up with but keeps putting in and out of the friend zone. Does she like actually him? Let's find out. "Him unwilling to go down on you is worse than him robbing banks." THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: NOOM: Noom.com/viall to sign up for your trial. ARTICLE article.com/viall for $50 off your first purchase of $100 or more. BUTCHER BOX: butcherbox.com/viall for TWO pounds of ground beef in every box for the life of their subscription. HELIX SLEEP: helixsleep.com/viall for up to $200 off ALL mattress orders. Episode Socials: Viall Files @viallfiles Nick Viall @nickviall See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On today's episode of The Viall Files we catch up with Victoria Fuller as she joins us for her FIRST EVER podcast. That is right; Victoria has never sat down to talk about her side of the drama on Peter's season of The Bachelor. And today we get to it. What's the real story with the woman from her hometown who accused her of being a home wrecker? How did the conversation really go outside of her parents house? And how about that Chase Rice date! We also take some time to go through those Chris Soules rumors and find out what she herself could not believe. She shares all of her thoughts while being vulnerable, honest, and fun today on Viall Files. We are so glad she chose us. "Sweetie, I am going on The Bachelor not Love Island." Make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: HIDRATE SPARK: hidratespark.com/viall for free us shipping on the new Hidrate Spark Steel Bottle DIPSEA: dipseastories.com/viall for a 30 day free trial EARNEST: earnest.com/viall to get a $100 cash bonus when you refinance a student loanEpisode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @Vlfuller See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Nikki Ferrell joins us this week as we discuss the final GOAT episode of this Bachelor summer season, Juan Pablo. As the woman who "won" Juan Pablo's heart, she had probably one of the most unique experiences on the show and never really had a chance to speak about how she was feeling about how she was treated, what people were saying about her, and how standing by her man was a decision she would not make again. Did he ever say more than I like you throughout the relationship? Does she still have texts saved from their break-up? What is her take on Clare's upcoming season? And what cast member came back during filming to try to talk her out of staying with Juan Pablo? Nikki is nothing if not completely honest with us, and we could not love it more. "What girl is like, 'ooh that's a sexy wink.' No one says that." Make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: TRUVANI: Text FILES to 64000 to get the full Protein Powder gift pack for just $29.99 ROTHY'S: rothys.com/viall to check out amazing shoes & bags right now Episode Socials: @ViallFiles @nickviall @nikki_ferrell See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of Ask Nick we start with a woman who has two challenges when it comes to sex and dating. She speaks with Nick about how to approach 1) discussing with her partners the fact that she is deaf and 2) her fear of vaginal penetration. Next, we speak with someone whose boyfriend is sending d*ck pics to other people when she is not around and collects nudes as a hobby. Racism is the topic of our next conversation, when a woman wants to bring her black love interest to a wedding with her family that she believes is racist. Finally, we chat with a daughter who is perhaps a little more concerned about her dad's dating patterns than she should be. "What you are willing to accept is far worse than dating." Make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: JENNI KAYNE: jennikayne.com use promo code VIALL for 20% off your first order ECHELON: echelonfit.com/viall COASTAL: coastal.com/viall for 50% off your first pair of glasses now until October 31st Episode Socials: Viall Files @viallfiles Nick Viall @nickviall See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today on The Viall Files we are joined by Constance Nunes, the definition of a badass. She has been making a name for herself in the automotive industry for years, but with season 2 of Car Masters: Rust to Riches out now on Netflix, she is reigniting the conversation of women taking charge in a male dominated industry. A self-proclaimed "glam girl wrenching in a boy's world," she sits down with us to talk about the assumptions people make about her, how people react to her work, and how being taken seriously has been something she's had to earn over and over again. We also dive deep into her DM's and the crazy that slides into them, and what she is looking for now in a man after separating from her husband. Get ready to feel empowered after this very down-to-earth conversation with a women whose nails will never get in the way of her skill. "I'm not a trailblazer. I'm a representative." Make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: HELLO FRESH: hellofresh.com/viallfiles80 use code viallfiles80 at check out for $80 off your first month, including free shipping on your first box THERAGUN: theragun.com/viall to try Theragun for a risk-free thirty-days NATURAL HABITS: nhoils.com use code KRISSY for 30% off Episode Socials: Viall Files @viallfiles Nick Viall @nickviall Constance Nunes @constance_nunes See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Lauren Zima re-visits The Viall Files today and joins Nick as they recap and talk all things Bachelor & Bachelorette. How much does Lauren really know? Is Chris giving her the gossip? Are there more texts from inside the bubble? And with all the things they have heard, how many scenarios can these two come up with for what is going to happen on the next season of The Bachelorette? Breaking down rumors, challenging the rules, clearing up some speculation, we cover it all on this episode of The Viall Files. It's a "choose your own adventure" kind of conversation we had a lot of fun with. "Saved By The Bell did a clue episode; I want that for this season of The Bachelorette."Make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: EMBARK: embarkvet.com use promo code VIALL for 15% of any Embark kit. RITUAL: ritual.com/viall for 10% off your first three months NATURAL HABITS: nhoils.com use promo code KRISSY at checkout for 30% off Episode Socials: @ViallFiles @nickviall @laurenzima See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this week's episode of Ask Nick we start with a simple story: girl meets boy, boy invites girl on a date, boy says his wife died, girl Googles and finds out he lied and she is very much alive. Then, we speak with a woman who is struggling with not feeling like a priority when her boyfriend would rather spend the weekend with friends than her. Next, someone is exhausted trying to get along with her boyfriend's family- and they've been together since she was 15. And finally, a couple have both had discretions in their relationship and keep telling each other half-truths instead of just being honest. "If I was married to someone and they were telling people I was dead I would want to know." Make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: SHIP STATION: Go to shipstation.com CODE: VIALL to try it FREE for 60 days BEST FIENDS: bestfiends.com BUTCHER BOX: Go to ButcherBox.com/VIALL for two pounds of ground beef in every box for the life of their subscription. Episode Socials: Viall Files @viallfiles Nick Viall @nickviall See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today we are having one of those tough but important conversations on The Viall Files. Nick is joined by guest Kevin Hines, a suicide survivor who jumped off The Golden Gate Bridge and lived to tell the story. This conversation is honest, inspirational, and educational when it comes to identifying signs of possible suicide ideations in yourself and those around you. Kevin shares his story, his immediate thoughts once his feet left that bridge, and how the experience has not only made him become a motivational speaker for suicide prevention and mental health but has motivated him to take his second chance at life at making sure that jumping off that bridge will never be an option. Committing to life is not always the easiest road; but as we learn in this episode, four words can make all the difference: "I Need Help Now." Normalizing and speaking about this topic is how less lives will continue to be impacted by suicide. "I immediately regretted it." Make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: HIDRATESPARK: hidratespark.com/viall for free US shipping HELIX SLEEP: helixsleep.com/viall for up to $200 off TRUVANI: Text FILES to 64000 to get the Protein Powder gift pick or $29.99Episode Socials: Viall Files @viallfiles Nick Viall @nickviall Kevin Hines @kevinhinesstory See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Open relationships and making sure the open lifestyle is being considered for the right reasons is the first conversation on today's episode of Ask Nick. Is making sure that you are the right person for your boyfriend a reason to open it up? Picking someone because they are great on paper- but there is no spark- is the next topic we tackle. Then, we speak with a woman who is dating a friend who is stable and whose company she enjoys, but who also isn't feeling a spark. Deciding between having a great companion or finding a great love is her dilemma. We then speak to a woman about the stereotypes she faces as a bi-sexual woman trying to date, and finally what to do when your friend drops you every time they get into a relationship. "That is not an entry level item." Thank you for sending in your questions, we love hearing from you. Send all your relationship questions to [email protected] and as always, make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode. THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: LIQUID IV: liquidiv.com CODE: VIALL to get 25% off ARTICLE: article.com/viall for $50 off your first purchase of $100 or more BRUUSH: bruush.com CODE: VIALL to get 15% off your Brüush kit Episode Socials: Viall Files @viallfiles Nick Viall @nickviall See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today we are joined by the talented, strong, and sex positive, Garcelle Beauvais. You may know her from Coming To America, The Jamie Foxx Show, Fresh Prince Of Bel Air, and most recently The Real Housewives Of Beverly Hills, but today we get a little more intimate with Garcelle as she and Nick jump right in talking about sex, and what men and women like- or dislike- in the bedroom. Her new podcast Going To Bed With Garcelle has all those sex positive conversations so on this episode she definitely doesn't shy away from being open and honest about her experiences; and neither does Nick. In addition to all that, Garcelle shares her perspective on speaking with your kids about sex, and dating after divorce, in quarantine, and in the public eye. So sit back (maybe check to see if the kids are around before turning up the volume) and find out why we were happy to jump into bed with Garcelle. "I like some thug talk." Make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: DIPSEA: dipseastories.com/viall for a 30 day free trial. THRIVE MARKET: thrivwemarket.com/viall for a free gift of your choosing, up to $22 in value Episode Socials: Viall Files @viallfiles Nick Viall @nickviall Garcelle Beauvais Instagram @garcelle Garcelle Beauvais Twitter @garcelleb See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today on Ask Nick we start with the question: what would you do if your friend was found kissing your boyfriend instead of her own? The answer to this situation may surprise you as we first try to help someone stuck in a friend group that has a secret about to bust it apart. We then speak to someone who received a DM from another girl her guy was seeing, exposing the hurtful things he was saying about her and giving her the confidence to walk away, but making her nervous to trust in the dating pool again. Friends with benefits- with a twist- is the next topic as our caller struggles to understand why he doesn't want a relationship with her and knowing that her current reality will ultimately come to an end. Lastly, we speak with a woman who is broken-hearted over the end of a long-term relationship she feels came out of nowhere. "This might sting a little bit." Thank you for sending in your questions, we love hearing from you. Send all your relationship questions to [email protected] and as always, make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode. THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: MODERN FERTILITY: modernfertility.com/VIALL to get $20 off your test! MASTERCLASS: masterclass.com/VIALL to get 15% off an annual membership! HIDRATE SPARK: hidratespark.com/VIALL for FREE US SHIPPING on the new HidrateSpark STEEL bottle today! Episode Socials: Viall Files @viallfiles Nick Viall @nickviall See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Pastor Miles McPherson is a Faith Leader, Author, and former NFL player that helps us continue the conversation around social narratives, racial reconciliation, and current global perspectives. On today's episode Nick has another honest and enlightening conversation learning how to have a "race consultation, rather than a race conversation." Pastor Miles' book The Third Option was written to break through the Us vs. Them culture that exists today and tries to explain how to bridge the divide we keep finding ourselves in. Lesson learned today? Honor what we have in common, and look at your blindspots. It's that simple. This educational and motivating conversation may just have you thinking a little different by the time it is over. "Don't be color blind. Be color brave." Make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. BOMBAS: bombas.com/viall for 20% off your first purchase STITCHFIX: stitchfix.com/viall to get 25% off when you keep everything in your Fix! COASTAL: coastal.com/viall Get free shipping, 30 day risk free returns, and 50% off until 10/31/2020 Episode Socials: Viall Files @viallfiles Nick Viall @nickviall Pastor Miles McPherson @milesmcpherson Check out all things Pastor Miles at Milesmcpherson.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Cathy Kelley re-visits The Viall Files today and joins Nick as they recap Jason Mesnick's GOAT episode of The Bachelor. Jason's season was the first in The Bachelor series Cathy ever watched, so she has a lot to say about it and also a special place in her fandom heart for it. Nick and Cathy talk through recent news on what is happening with the new season of the Bachelorette as well as what they would like to see the show get back to in reference to Jason's season. Influencer contestants, production quarantine theories, the right reasons, and more as they discuss all the optics surrounding the show today. Thank you for sending in your questions! We love hearing from you. Send your relationship questions to [email protected] and, as always, make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode. "I was like, an advocate for Myspace" THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: THERAGUN: theragun.com/viall to try Theragun RISK-FREE for 30 Days CROSSROPE: crossrope.com/viall to get up to $40 off Crossrope sets plus free shipping EARNEST: earnest.com/viall to get $100 cash bonus when you refinance a student loan Episode Socials: @ViallFiles @nickviall @cathykelley @catherinekelley on twitter See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of Ask Nick we cover a bunch of different topics. We start with a woman who wants the person she is dating to define their relationship and realizes that her insecurities are just a fear of rejection. Revenge is on the mind for our next caller after feeling racially oppressed by her previous relationship and is trying to find the most productive way to use the energy she has to find resolution. Then we speak with someone who is in a loving long-term relationship but is at a crossroads because she wants to have children in the future and her partner does not. Finally, a recently divorced mom of two goes on her first date and has a connection, but is disappointed when the relationship abruptly fizzles out. Thank you for sending in your questions! We love hearing from you. Send your relationship questions to [email protected] and, as always, make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode. "Have a bad date; tell your friends about it." THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: BEST FIENDS: https://bestfiends.com/ EMBARK: embarkvet.com CODE: VIALL to get $50 off your Dog Breed and Health kit. Episode Socials: Viall Files @viallfiles Nick Viall @nickviall See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On today's episode of The Viall Files we catch up with the infectious Jonathan Bennett. Yes, his hair looks sexy pushed back, but there is so much more we learn catching up with this pop culture icon. From Mean Girls to filming during Covid, Jonathan shares with us the honor he feels being a part of things that make people happy. He talks about how quarantine has made him appreciate his relationship even more and has only strengthened it, as well as how his positivity is sometimes challenged and the tools he uses to get himself over humps and back on track. Get ready for a fun conversation that will leave a smile on your face. "What's the shitty committee saying?" Make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode. And, as always, send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes. THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: RITUAL: ritual.com/VIALL HIDRATE SPARK: hidratespark.com/VIALL ARTICLE: article.com/VIALL MASTER CLASS: masterclass.com/VIALL Episode Socials: Viall Files @viallfiles Nick Viall @nickviall Jonathan Bennett @jonathandbennett Get Jonanthan's parody cookbook @ www.burncookbook.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Former Bachelorette Ali Manno (Fedotowsky) joins us on today's episode of The Viall Files as we talk through her experience on The Bachelorette and what really happened when tattoos, songs, and girlfriends tried to derail her love story. Nick and Ali talk about their very different experiences on the show and how the show has evolved as the seasons have gone on through the years; breaking the 4th wall, showing things they would not have in the past, and what that might look like going forward. However, the first topic of conversation between these two leads are the rumors about what is going on with Claire as Nick received some information from someone inside The Bachelor bubble just as he was walking into the studio. Having been in that position themselves, these two have a lot of ideas on how the next season of The Bachelorette could play out. One thing they agree on? They will certainly be watching. "This is my life." Make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode! THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: DIPSEA: dipseastories.com/viall BETTER HELP: betterhelp.com/viallfiles NATURAL HABITS ESSENTIAL OILS: nhoils.com CODE: sunday Episode Socials: @ViallFiles @nickviall @alifedotowsky See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On today's episode of Ask Nick we first speak with a frequent dater who is realizing that she is only seeing people that validate her ego instead of her heart. Then, Nick gives some advice to a woman who, because of her religious background, has not had many sexual experiences and is wondering if she is a-sexual or just doesn't know what turns her on…yet. Next, a husband's affair with a family friend has one of our callers trying to figure out her options and if she can continue to be with someone that she doesn't trust (and recognizing that starting over at 40 might be freeing!) Finally, The Viall Files has its first couple who moved to a new state and in together prior to the pandemic which has since forced their living situation to be the complete opposite of what they had planned. "You deserve to be with someone that you trust and didn't hurt you. " Thank you for sending in your questions, we love hearing from you. Send all your relationship questions to [email protected] and as always, make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode. THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: HELLO FRESH: hellofresh.com/viallfiles80 CODE: villafiles80 SHIP STATION: shipstation.com CODE: viall Episode Socials: Viall Files @viallfiles Nick Viall @nickviall See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What if just showing up for work one day changed your life as you knew it? How would you react? Today Nick is joined by author, motivational speaker, and host of Shark Week, Paul de Gelder. As a Royal Australian Navy clearance diver, Paul was in the water working one morning when a bull shark attacked him, resulting in the loss of his right hand and right leg. Nick's conversation with Paul covers the changes in your mindset when adapting to a new normal, the importance of facing your vulnerability, and the power of choice which can help you decide, "do I want a good life or a shit life?" Dating, overcoming, terminators and sharks; it's a conversation not to miss. "Going to the gym with one hand and one leg can really throw out your bench press and squats." Make sure you subscribe so you don't miss an episode and send your relationship questions to [email protected]. THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: ROTHY'S: rothys.com/viall ISSUU: issuu.info/viall THERAGUN: theragun.com/viall Episode Socials: Viall Files @viallfiles Nick Viall @nickviall Paul de Gelder @pauldegelder See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On today's episode of Ask Nick we are excited to be joined by Fran & Ria from The Chicks In The Office Podcast. The ladies and Nick take on some great topics to help give another perspective to your relationship questions. Dating Apps in quarantine is a hot topic these days and we talk to someone who is experiencing everything from being asked a survey at the end of a FaceTime date to struggling just to make the connection digitally versus in person. We also speak with a woman who is about to attend a wedding with her ex who left her for her best friend. And, lastly, a someone who is saving herself for marriage but after expressing her want to move in with her boyfriend her family is questioning whether or not she can stay true to her values. "It's easier to move out of an apartment than get divorced." Send your sex and relationship questions to [email protected]. THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: LIQUID IV: liquidiv.com CODE: VIALL MODERN FERTILITY: modernfertility.com/VIALL EMBARK: embarkvet.com CODE: VIALL Episode Socials: Viall Files @viallfiles Nick Viall @nickviall Chicks In The Office @chicksintheoffice Maria Ciuffo @mariaciuffo Francesca Mariano @francescamariano See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today we take a deep dive into Happiness with teacher, author, and lecturer Tal Ben- Shahar. He taught two of the largest classes in Harvard University's history, Positive Psychology and The Psychology of Leadership and shares his knowledge on these topics today. Nick and Tal breakdown happiness during quarantine, how it can relate to the amount of technology used in your life, the way resistance in a relationship and being known by your partner can actually lead to a deeper intimacy, and finally the best daily practices that set you up for a happier life. "Movies end where love begins." Be Sure To Subscribe So You Don't Miss An Episode & Send All Your Relationship Questions To [email protected] THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: HELIX SLEEP: helixsleep.com/viall EARNEST: earnest.com/viall Episode Socials: Viall Files @viallfiles Nick Viall @nickviall Tal Ben-Shehar @drtalbendhahar on Facebook For More Information on Tal and his Happiness Studies Academy visit www.talbenshahar.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Man Crushes & Life Changing Events With JP Rosenbaum On this episode of the Viall Files we are joined by one half of one of Bachelor Nations favorite couples, JP Rosenbaum. We take a little bit of time to talk about Ashley being on Brad's GOAT episode, what they did & did not watch of their seasons, how Ashley and JP continued to follow their career dreams once leaving the show and how they are handling quarantine with little ones running around, you may even hear a few of them during the podcast! JP also shares with us his journey with his health and how that life changing event gained him a perspective that brought him so much gratitude in places where he may not have recognized it before. It's a little Bachelor mixed with a little inspiration. "Just Do What JP Does." Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode! THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: LIQUID IV: liquidiv.com CODE: VIALL THRIVE MARKET: thrivemarket.com/VIALL Episode Socials: @ViallFiles @nickviall @_JPRosenbaum See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On today's Ask Nick: an affair that turned into a relationship after a divorce that is filled with games, no commitment, and a bunch of toxic behavior, someone who is happy single and wonders why people judge her for not being in a relationship, a couple playing house after only 5 months of dating and why their sexual relationship is suffering because of it, and a woman whose boyfriend is being groomed to take over her family's business before they have moved to the next step in their relationship. As always thanks for sharing your stories with us and keep sending them in to [email protected] we would love to hear from you. "Do they want me home making meatloaf every night?" THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: BEST FIENDS: bestfiends.com LUMIN: luminskin.com/viall HIDRATE SPARK: hidratespark.com/VIALL Episode Socials: Viall Files @viallfiles Nick Viall @nickviall See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Nick reconnects this week with his Dancing With The Stars Co-Star and friend Chris Kattan. Chris shares with us how an injury on SNL he kept out of the public eye affected his life for so many years, how his girlfriend is the one who defines all things in their relationship, and of course his time on SNL. It is a different side of Chris you may not be familiar with but you may just love his endearing side even more than his comic persona. "You get to introduce a world that hasn't been seen through characters." Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode! THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: HIDRATE SPARK: hidratespark.com/viall LUMINESS: trysilk.com/viall MASTER CLASS: masterclass.com/viall DIPSEA: dipseastories.com/viall EMBARK: embarkvet.com CODE: viall Episode Socials: Viall Files @viallfiles Nick Viall @nickviall Krissy Lindquist @thekrissylindquist Chris Kattan @chriskattanofficial See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Nick is joined by "Reality Steve" Carbone today because well … 2020! This conversation is something we never thought would happen but on the The Viall Files we always say that people can learn and grow, and hopefully come out better on the other side. Nick speaks bluntly with Steve, not only about the personal impact he has had on Nick's life but how spoilers have affected other cast members in their off-air real lives and in a very real way. Dropped videos, bad sources, being held accountable, and making some wrongs right are all topics we hit in this episode. So buckle up and make sure to catch some thoughts from Nick at the end of the episode as he reflects on the conversation. "…because you realized they're human?" Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss any episodes! THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: BETTER HELP: betterhelp.com/VIALLFILES STITCH FIX: stitchfix.com/VIALL CROSS ROPE: crossrope.com/VIALL Episode Socials: Viall Files @viallfiles Nick Viall @nickviall Krissy Lindquist @thekrissylindquist Steve Carbone @realitysteve See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On today's Ask Nick, we speak with a caller about faking orgasms in the past with a partner she is starting to be physical with again and how to communicate her current expectations of their sex life. The twist? This relationship is within her main *open* relationship. We also talk with a woman struggling her mother after she made racially insensitive remarks to her teenage daughter, and a wife who is misdirecting her need to try and forgive the woman her husband had an affair with instead of addressing her anger. We also chat with a guy who shouldn't be so available when the girl he likes is keeping him on the back burner. "Here I am, love me." Send all of your sex and relationship questions to [email protected]. THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: HIDRATE SPARK: hidratespark.com/viall ROTHY'S: rothys.com/viall ARTICLE: article.com/viall BOMBAS: bombas.com/viall Episode Socials: Viall Files @viallfiles Nick Viall @nickviall See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The iconic Candis Cayne joins us on this episode of the Viall Files to talk about her new documentary Disclosure on Netflix and her journey as a trail blazer in the transgender community. Nick and Candis have an open dialogue about what is appropriate to speak about, her life growing up, her career as an actress, and how she is helping to educate the entertainment community one project at a time. This conversation is important to hear, important to learn from, and important for understanding how to be a better ally. It's time to live your existence, without judging others. "Work a beat on a roller skate." Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode! THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: RITUAL: ritual.com.VIALL NOOM: noom.com/VIALL Episode Socials: Viall Files @viallfiles Nick Viall @nickviall Krissy Lindquist @thekrissylindquist Candis Cayne @candiscayne See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We are recapping the recap with the one and only, Trista Sutter. Trista and Nick go through how the rules of the show were established, how sex positivity has grown in the media and on the show, and, of course, talk about how being the first of an iconic franchise has affected her life 18 years later. It's a fun conversation with the woman who was there to see how everything started … even Chris Harrison's fashion. "It's a mouthwash marathon." Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode! THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: ISSUU: issuu.info/VIALL INTELLIWHITE: tryindiglow.com CODE: VIALL Episode Socials: @ViallFiles @nickviall @thekrissylindquist @tristasutter See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We are always so grateful for those of you that call in to share your stories with us because you never know how it can help someone else who is listening. This week we have some great conversations with a woman who overly romanticizes her relationship to a point where she doesn't even know her own needs anymore, a wife whose husband satisfies her in every aspect of their relationship except in the bedroom and is trying to evaluate if being in a sexless marriage is sustainable, a gentleman whose struggle with coming out about his sexuality has kept a close relationship to him in a state of confusion, and finally how different religious beliefs can put a strain on a relationship when you are not having the tough conversations around it. "The idea of someone doesn't deal with the substance of the relationship." Be sure to send your sex and relationship questions to [email protected] THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: SHIP STATION: ShipStation.com CODE: VIALL EMBARK: EmbarkVet.com CODE: VIALL HIDRATE SPARK: hidratespark.com/VIALL Episode Socials: Viall Files @viallfiles Nick Viall @nickviall See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Get ready to feel inspired as we are joined by motivational speaker, author, former NFL player, and founder of the non-profit RehabTime, Trent Shelton. Trent and Nick address talking to your kids about Black Lives Matter, as well as how your empathy, compassion and- most importantly- your example can impact change in the world. They have a motivational conversation about not comparing yourself with others and how a different way of thinking can have you embracing your uniqueness. Lastly, we speak about Trent's book Straight Up, coming out soon, and how its youth-focused message offers different perspectives but doesn't sugarcoat the truth. "If you trade in your uniqueness for someone else's identity you lose your power." Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode. THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: HELLO FRESH: hellofresh.com CODE: viallfiles80 LIQUID IV: liquidiv.com CODE: viall NATURAL HABITS: nhoils.com CODE: krissy Episode Socials: Viall Files @viallfiles Nick Viall @nickviall Krissy Lindquist @thekrissylindquist Trent Shelton @trentshelton @rehabtime See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week Nick is joined by his friend, Wells Adams, to recap this week's GOAT episode of The Bachelor. As "the guy who took forever to kiss Jojo," Wells talks through what it is actually like in that environment to try to be romantic, not being JoJo's type, "The Rose Boys", and, of course, Chad. Get ready because this conversation goes off the rails here and there providing some good laughs and context to some behind-the-scenes moments of the show. "Welcome to the rose garden." Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode! THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: HELIX SLEEP: helixsleep.com/VIALL INTELLIWHITE: tryindiglow.com CODE: VIALL Episode Socials: @ViallFiles @nickviall @thekrissylindquist @wellsadams See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of Ask Nick we are joined by host of The Bright Side podcast & television personality Kaitlynn Carter. Kaitlynn and Nick really jump into it when it comes to dating rumors, bi-sexuality, being on reality tv, trust, honesty, and falling in love, all before we talk to our callers this week. They then speak to a woman who is struggling in her interracial relationship with her boyfriend who is becoming a police officer, someone who sexts for money, likes it, and wants to make sure she communicates it properly to the next person she dates, and a quarantine dater who is trying to navigate through all the issues the current world is presenting while she explores a new relationship. "If you are going to be judgemental of me you're not the fit for me." Don't forget to send your sex and relationship questions to [email protected]. THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: LIQUID IV: liquidiv.com CODE: VIALL BEST FIENDS: bestfiends.com Episode Socials: Viall Files @viallfiles Nick Viall @nickviall Krissy Lindquist @thekrissylindquist Kaitlynn Carter @kaitlynn See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Are you fascinated by "Karen" culture? Well, we are and wanted to take a look into what is going on with this new pop culture phenomenon. Nick & Krissy are joined by Actor, Comedian, & Author Sarah Colonna, who may have played a "Karen" here and there on TV. We take a look at how this culture came about, the behavioral traits associated with it, how it is being used politically, and why it is sometimes better to just take a breath and walk away. Most importantly we send lots of love to everyone out there named Karen who might find it to be a difficult trending topic. "How dare you." Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode! THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: EACH AND EVERY: eachandevery.com/VIALL INTELLIWHITE: tryindiglow.com CODE: SHOW FUNCTION OF BEAUTY: functionofbeauty.com/VIALL Episode Socials: Viall Files @viallfiles Nick Viall @nickviall Krissy Lindquist @thekrissylindquist Sarah Colonna @sarahcolonna1 See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week Nick is joined by the one and only, Ben Higgins. They chat about why he decided to watch his Greatest Seasons Ever episode and why his fiancé will not, while sharing with us why it was so important for him to be able to speak with Olivia and why we should all send her some positive vibes. Nick and Ben also take some time to speak about curiosity in relationships and how being curious about uncomfortable subjects helps you grow and opens your world view. "Help and not hurt." Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode! THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: LUMINESS: trysilk.com/VIALL EMBARK: embarkvet.com CODE: VIALL UV CLEAN: getuvclean.com CODE: NICK See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week we are joined once again by holistic nutritionist and actual sister of the show Maria Viall. She talks about digestive health and how you may be cutting out food from your diet when you may not need to. On this episode we speak with someone who is finding that the power dynamics in her throuple are not working for her, a woman's who realized that during her first experience in dating the relationship was just long enough to cover the absence of his girlfriend, and how to find closure while you continue to work with an ex - and who asked your best friend to date. We'll find out why him being a narcissist doesn't really matter after it's over. "You don't have to be a narcissist to be a dick." Send you sex and relationship questions to [email protected] THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: CROSSROPE: crossrope.com/viall TRUE BOTANICALS: truebotanicals.com/viall SHIP STATION: shipstation.com CODE: VIALL WARBY PARKER: warbyparker.com/VIALL Episode Socials: Viall Files @viallfiles Nick Viall @nickviall Krissy Lindquist @thekrissylindquist Maria Viall @mariaviallhealth See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Have you ever taken an Enneagram Test and wanted some more insight about your results? Well, here ya go! This week we are joined by Jill Moran who is a certified Enneagram Guide. Throughout our conversation Jill explains the 9 personality types and how to use the results of the Enneagram to discover parts of yourself that you can expand on to grow and how to use that knowledge to improve your relationships by understanding each other's core traits. "I want to be seen but I don't want you to see me eat all." Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode! THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: INTELLIWHITE: tryindiglow.com CODE: SHOW BETTER HELP: betterhelp.com/viall EACH & EVERY: eachandevery.com/viall Episode Socials: Viall Files @viallfiles Nick Viall @nickviall Krissy Lindquist @thekrissylindquist Jillian Moran @jullthehuman_ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week Nick and Krissy are joined by Jared Haibon & Tanner Tolbert as we recap the Recap of Kaitlyn Bristowe's season. Friend of the show Brett Vergara also joins as we first take a deep dive into the casting of Matt James and the initiative the fans started for more diversity in The Bachelor franchise. Make sure to hang in there as Nick continues to drop more details of his and Kaitlyn's relationship before and during filming that you did not see. "That break-up was my best TV moment." Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode! THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: HIDRATE SPARK: hidratespark.com/viall NOOM: noon.com/viall ISSU: issu.info/viall RITUAL: ritual.com/viall See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of Ask Nick we speak with a woman whose husband is looking to create a college fetish in the bedroom, someone whose boyfriend is interested in a threesome with her best friend, and a conversation around masturbation affecting your sex life. We also tackle something people may be dealing with during this time; dating someone with whom you don't align politically and whose family may be racist. "Hey we're here, should we try to get weird?" Don't forget to send your sex and relationship questions to [email protected] THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: STORYWORTH: storyworth.com/viall MODERN FERTILITY: modernfertility.com/viall LUMIN: luminskin.com/viall UVCLEAN: getuvclean.com CODE: VIALL See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Tyler Merritt of The Tyler Merritt Project joins us today as we continue the conversation around Black Lives Matter. In 2018 Tyler released a video called "Before You Call The Cops." This video came about when he was walking across the street one day and realized that a white woman in her car was rolling up the windows and locking her doors because she saw him in the crosswalk. He shares with us every part of that memory from where he was going to what he was listening to on his headphones and it is eye opening. Two years since the birth of this video, it has become more viral and more relevant than ever. Join us for this conversation that will not only educate you but have you walk away with maybe some tears and a whole lotta love. "I did everything I could to make myself smaller..." Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode. THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: EMBARK: embarkvet.com CODE: VIALL HAWTHORNE: hawthorne.co See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It's time to recap the Recaps and we are excited to get to it this week with our guests Sean and Catherine. Sean Lowe's season was the first to kick off The Bachelor: The Greatest Seasons - Ever! We caught up with Sean and Catherine to discuss their lives now, their growing family, and who they have been in touch with from their season, but not before we tackle some Bachelor hot gos and cover the headlines hitting Bachelor Nation this week. "Time for a glow up." Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode! THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: SHIPSTATION: shipstation.com CODE: VIALL ARTICLE: article.com/viall See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of Ask Nick we discuss passing around nudes without consent, we talk to someone who found out her boyfriend was engaged to someone the entire time they were dating, what it means if your boyfriend is hiding nudes of exes on his computer, and how being bi-sexual and a Christian don't need to be mutually exclusive. Most importantly, we talk about following your gut. "The guy code thing is bullshit." Be sure to send your sex and relationship questions to [email protected]! THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: FIGS: wearfigs.com CODE: VIALL15 MODERN FERTILITY: modernfertility.com/VIALL For donations to the NAACP Legal Defense and Education Fund visit: naacpldf.org See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.