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199. What Are You Gaining from Staying Where You Are?
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199. What Are You Gaining from Staying Where You Are?

The Subconscious Expert · Rebecca Haydon, Mindset Coach & NLP Trainer

October 1, 202429m 51sExplicit

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Show Notes

Are you an ambitious female entrepreneur who feels stuck, even though you’re doing all the right things? You have big goals, but something keeps holding you back from taking the action you know will move your business forward.

In this episode, we’re tackling secondary gain, the subconscious benefits you’re getting from staying exactly where you are. Whether it’s avoiding failure, protecting yourself from judgment, or even receiving attention and love, these hidden emotional payoffs could be the reason you haven’t hit your next level yet.

I’ll walk you through how secondary gain shows up in business, and most importantly, how we break through these subconscious blocks. We’ll explore practical tools like reframing, visualisation, and timeline therapy so you can finally release the patterns that are keeping you safe but stuck and step into the success you’re ready for.


Topics Covered on Secondary Gain:

  1. What is secondary gain from a subconscious and neuroscience perspective?
  2. How secondary gain may affect your ability to receive love, attention, and connection
  3. Common secondary gains entrepreneurs experience in business
  4. Subconscious techniques to identify and move through secondary gain
  5. Exercises to uncover your own secondary gain



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