131: Coaching with Christy: Emotional Regulation, Sibling Rivalry and Parenting A Complex Child

In this episode of the Peaceful Parenting Podcast, I sit down with Christy, a mother of two boys, for a coaching episode. 

We discuss the challenges Christy has faced with her older son, Jay, in terms of emotional regulation, sibling rivalry, and self-deprecating behavior. We talk about Christy's nurturing approach and understanding towards Jay's needs and I offer strategies to improve their relationship.

The importance of one-on-one time, being neutral during sibling fights, and indirect discussions about feelings are highlighted as well.

We talk about:

• [3:30] Christy’s intro and background

• [5:35] What PDA means

• [8:00] What Jay’s struggles look like 

• [10:05] Handling meltdowns

• [12:45] How to handle when your child's response turns to self harm

• [15:10] How Jay responds to empathy

• [20:55] Understanding their sibling dynamic

• [23:40] How is 1:1 and special time

• [30:25] Focusing on prevention

• [44:55] Part 2: Check In

• [46:25] Update on sibling rivalry

• [48:05] Special time update

• [53:25] Handling verbal lashing out 

• [57:35] How to address him calling his brother names

• [59:30] How has his self talk improved

 

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