The Patrick Madrid Show

Patrick answers questions about gag gifts being offensive, if Catholic guilt is a bad thing, and why wasn’t the book of Enoch included in the bible? Patrick responds to an email about the song Staying Alive U.S. Senate passes bill to bar federal employees from using TikTok on government-owned devices Laura – Is it funny or not to have a wine glass that says “Holy Water” on it? Patrick comments about “trembling in awe” at the Holy Wall Clint - I take my shoes off in the church to show respect to God. I also think we should bow to the bible which is the word of God. Mary - On Facebook, there is a religious organization showing a picture of Our Lady who looks like someone in an “adult” magazine. Is there anything I can do about it? Jen - Can you explain the story of Enoch and why was his book is not included in the bible? Maria – Is Catholic guilt a bad thing? Patrick recommends “The Catechism of the Catholic Church”

Patrick answers questions about if cheating is allowed when no one will know, what do the Jewish people believe about Heaven, what does “Least in the Kingdom are greater than John the Baptist” mean, why was tithing required in the Old Testament but isn’t now, and can you baptize yourself? Ann - My 16-year-old grandson wanted to cheat on something and said no one would know. When I told him God would know, he shrugged me off. What should I do? Joe - What do the Jewish people believe about heaven? Judy - Least in the kingdom are greater than he. What does that mean? Was anyone baptized after John was in jail until Pentecost? Jerry - Why was Matthew 17:21 missing from some bibles since the 1960s? Robert - What should I do if I have a vision about Jesus? Frank - Can you baptize yourself? Why in the Old Testament did they need to tithe, but we don't need to? What does it mean to be Orthodox? Patrick shares and comments on the beautiful Anima Christi Prayer

Patrick answers listener questions about if Mary was sinless, what is the best way to interpret scripture, and how can I discern the difference between human emotions with that of authentic encounters with God Was Mary sinless? Gina - Do you have book recommendations for my son about the Catholic Church and History? He is a senior in High school. Patrick recommends “The Founding of Christendom: A History of Christendom” by Warren Carroll Mike - How do I best interpret scripture? Should I only use the scripture or are other sources needed to interpret the word of God? Joseph – How do I discern the difference between emotions versus authentic encounters with God? Charles - What do you think about buying out of print Catholic books from a schismatic group? Andrea - I heard priests are getting discouraged with their vocation. They bring us the Eucharist, so how can we help our priest feel less discouraged?

Patrick shares examples from his life where he now realizes God was talking to him and guiding him Sharon – How can I listen to God’s voice? Kip - If she looks back on her life, she may see Jesus prompting her to listen to Relevant Radio. Fred - What is it called when we pray before nativity scenes?

Patrick answers questions such as, why do Catholics worship Jesus more than God, it it okay to chew gum before communion, is it okay to attend a baby shower for an unwed mother, and is it okay to space out the time between having children Kevin – I feel like I have an evil presence inside me. What do I do? Yolie – Does the Holy Spirit speak through your conscience? Christian - Why do Catholics worship Jesus more than God? Patrick recommends “Theology for Beginners” by Frank Sheed Patrick shares an email from a listener who’s been listening to him from his first broadcast Madonna - In conversation with God on the Relevant Radio app talked about a similar thing to what you mentioned today! Patrick responds to an email from a listener who needs to chew gum before communion. Is that a mortal sin? Can I attend a baby shower for an unwed mother? Shannon – Is it okay to space out the time between having children? Sandy - What is the difference in the history of the Catholic and Orthodox churches?

Patrick answers questions about the movie Father Stu, Pascal’s Wager, is watching the sexy parts of a movie a sin, are then any wholesome streaming services, and he shares what he would like for Christmas Patrick comments on an article saying that the root of the pro-life movement is anti-Semitism Dominic - I think the west is also responsible for what is going on in Russia. Elon Musk shadow bans an account that tracks his jets location Ale - Just watched the movie Father Stu. Can I pray to him for Miracles even though he is not a saint? Is watching the sexy parts of movies or shows a sin? Tina - Why would anyone want to pray to a priest who had a movie made of him. No one knows anything about Father Stu. John - Can you explain Pascal's Wager? Patrick - Do you know of any good wholesome streaming services?

Patrick answers questions about non-married couples cohabiting, if it’s okay to work at a company that promotes puberty blockers, and if there is a Church approved apparition called “Our Lady of Pride” Madeline - My friend is living with her boyfriend and they just got engaged. She is not going to communion because of the situation. What should I do if I'm asked to be a bride's maid? Patrick responds to an email about working in a hospital that promotes puberty blockers. As a devout Catholic, can I work at this hospital? Janet - My friend is nondenominational and considering living with her boyfriend. How do I talk with her about this? Tim – In the gospel last Sunday, John asked Jesus if he was the savior. Why did he need to ask Jesus this? Brandon - My sister is living with her boyfriend and she wants me to help with some things in her home. Is this okay for me to do? Missy - Are all Marian apparitions approved by the Catholic Church? We have a statue called 'Our lady of Pride' with a rainbow flag around her. What can I do about this?

Patrick answers questions about the transfiguration in the gospel of John, how early can I put up my Christmas tree, is it okay to buy bad books to throw them away, and can I go to my godson’s non-denominational wedding? Aurora – Question about the transfiguration in the gospel of John: Why was it Elijah and Moses who appeared? Cyrus asks Patrick when he puts up his Christmas tree Anna - Can I go to communion to a priest who is not in the state of Grace? Dustin - I bought a book against God just so I could throw it away. Was that okay? Rose - My godson is getting married in a non-denominational Church. Can I go?

Patrick answers questions about praying novena, having funeral masses for non-Catholics, do priests have an obligation to do funeral Masses, and why was the paten taken away from Mass? Sarah - Why do you need to say 15 prayers a day for the Saint Andrew Novena? Kate - Can you have a funeral Mass at a Catholic Church if you are not Catholic? Kathy - I learned, this weekend, that the owner of a bakery I go to does witchcraft. Should I tell others about this? Pete - Does the priest have an obligation to do funeral Masses? Donna – What is the purpose of the paten and why was taken away? Christina - Christmas Festival didn't talk about Mary and Joseph. Can I try to bring the Christmas story back? Mary - Communion in the hand: I respect your opinion on this but I don't think it is disrespectful for people to receive in the hand. Didn’t the early church give communion in the hand? Gabriel - My ex and I had a baby out of wedlock. Do I need to invite my ex to the child's baptism? Jim - What is the difference between receiving on an unconsecrated hand or an unconsecrated tongue?

Patrick answers questions about Our Lady of Guadalupe, is having a Consecration to Mary putting Jesus in the back seat, what is a “Sick Box” and what should I do with it, and how was it that Jesus was born from a virgin woman Harold - Comment about Our Lady of Guadalupe; a lot of people that are not Mexican feel they cannot participate, but Our Lady came to change the hearts people in America Lisa - How can I justify my Consecration to Mary and not have it affect my relationship with God. It feels like I’m putting Mary before God. Robert - If Mary was full of grace, how in Ex 6:8 was Stephen also full of grace? Does it mean he didn’t have sin? Barbie – I was given a sick box that looks like a tabernacle. I’m not sure what to do with it. Margaret – I have an 80-year-old friend that has fallen away from the faith and doesn't know what to tell him. What resources do you recommend? Aaron – How was it that Jesus was born from a virgin woman?

Patrick answers listener questions about why slavery isn’t condemned in the 10 Commandments, is it bad to hang a Christmas tree upside down, is it okay to switch up the mysteries of the Rosary, why are there so many different religions, and is it okay to write or highlight in the bible Patrick commends on the growing numbers of people who have “died suddenly” Alicia - Is it bad to have an upside down Christmas tree? Jody – Why didn't God add slavery to the 10 Commandments? Henry - Uncertain about the implantation of the Synod of Synodality which allowed people who were not catholic to comment and make suggestions Ester – Why would a Catholic school send me Dream Catchers as a thank you gift? Teresa - Okay to switch mysteries for the Rosary? Ava 10-years-old - Why are there so many different religions? Pat - How do you do a consecration to Mary? Do you do it with a brown scapular first? Boule - Is it okay to write or highlight the bible? Is the book “The Four Agreements” compatible with Catholic teaching

Patrick answers listener questions about overcoming addiction, is it okay to have kids write down their sins, and how do I show family members I love them but I don’t condone their homosexual lifestyles LA Hate Crimes Highest in 19 Years, Jews Targeted in 74% of Religiously Motivated Crimes Calib – How do I find the right program to overcome alcoholism? Brian – Struggled with addiction and has been sober for many years Regina – There are people living in my house that are living in sin and have different beliefs then me. What can I do? Retired Navy SEAL, Chris Beck, made famous after coming out as trans announces detransition: 'Destroyed my life' If you get paid through Venmo, PayPal or other apps, preparing your taxes may be a little more confusing than usual Joan – While teaching CCD, is it okay to have kids write down their sins? Heidi – How can we talk to my niece and nephew that we love them but we do not condone their actions or lifestyles? Jose - Is the Tilma from Our Lady of Guadalupe is real? How do we dispel rumors that it is fake?

Patrick starts the show reminiscing about last night’s Family Rosary Across America and how important it is to pray every day Bill - Are Protestants invincibly ignorant? William - What is the difference between the Protestant and Catholic view of Communion? Patrick recommends “The Hidden Manna” by Fr. James T. O'Connor Lydia - Some younger women were wondering if they could wear sandals to Church. How do I explain it is not reverent? Paul - At Mass yesterday the priest talked about the Gospel of Thomas and how Anne was also immaculately conceived. Matthew – Do you have any hand-size book recommendations I could hand out for evangelizing? Patrick recommends Pillar of Fire, Pillar of Truth at Catholic Answers Abraham - What is your opinion on tambourines at Mass? James - Can people in purgatory pray for each other?

Patrick answers listener questions about what is the Churches teaching on gun ownership, is it okay to attend a protestant wedding, do reindeer have any biblical significance, and who was the first saint in Heaven? Matthew - What is the Church teaching on gun ownership? Christina - My daughter started putting pronouns on her social media. How do I talk to her about this? Mary - Niece getting married in a protestant church but was baptized Catholic. Can I attend? Emily - Do Reindeer have any biblical significance in Christmas? Evan 12-years-old - Did St. Dismas go to heaven at the same time as Jesus? Who is the first saint in heaven? Where did Elijah go in his chariot since heaven was not opened? George - At Mass, a transgender was giving out communion. Is that okay? Darren - Would it be scandal to share pronouns on social media? Should the laity have a spiritual adviser? Susan - What is the difference between Noves Ordo and Latin Right Baptism?

Patrick answers listener questions about how to celebrate Christmas with family members who are non-believers, are Adam and Eve in Heaven or hell, and how can we function as good Catholics in a society controlled by bad political leaders Michael – A friend of mine, who is sick, wanted me to send her some healing information. Carol - How can my adult son change some things that he is not happy with in his kids’ Catholic school? Denise - I am a Eucharistic minister. How do we know the heart of someone who is giving out communion? Rose - Should we say 'for thine is the kingdom...' at the end of the Our Father prayer? Carol - How can I celebrate Christmas with family who are nuns? Ellen - Many of my neighbors are lapsed Catholics. How can I encourage them to go back to Church? Jerry - What is your take on the German synod? Araceli - Are Adam and Eve in heaven or hell? Luke - Is there a “Theology of work” book? Dan - How can I manage my frustration in the society we live in when we have such bad political leaders?

Special Guest Host Ken Hensley Ken starts the show with a focus on baptism and eternal life Marline - Is it correct for me to think that Mary was born without sin but could still have chosen to sin later on in life? Ronald – My sister says she is “filled with the Holy Spirit” and knows everything there is to know about God. What is this “feeling” that some Protestants have? Is it the Holy Spirit? Steven - Why did it take so long for the church to make the Immaculate Conception dogma? What is the biblical evidence?

Special Guest Host Ken Hensley Diana - I just learned about the novena for Saint Andrew. Can I join in now since I am late? Andres - Did a Mass I went to last night count for the obligation to go to Mass today? Attending Mass on the vigil of the holyday fulfills our obligation. Back in 1953, Pope Pius XII helpfully defined “vigil” for us as “not before 4 PM,” which is why we can fulfill our Sunday obligation by attending Mass on Saturday evening at 4:00 or later Water and Spirit appear throughout scripture beginning on the very first page of the bible

Special Guest Host Ken Hensley Ken shares his conversion story and the importance of the Sacrament of Baptism Kate - What made you change your mind about infant baptism? Don - What is the history of the development of the Catechism?

Patrick starts the show off with the good news that the U.S. Catholic population shows growth Diana - I offended a client and her daughter who is non-binary, by calling her by her proper pronouns. She is no longer a client. What can I do? Julia - Salvation outside the Catholic Church: can spiritual people who are not members of the church be saved? USCCB Catholic Education Chair Speaks Out on ‘Confused Catholic Schools’ Embracing ‘Sinful’ Gender Ideology Report Reveals Sharp Rise in Transgender Young People in the U.S. Julia called back – Do people like Mr. Rogers go to heaven? Lee Ann - My son's daughter is going to confirmation and I would like to give her some information on the faith. Agnes - How do good angels fight the bad angels out of hell without getting hurt?

Patrick answers listener questions and tackles such topics as: how can we bless our adult Children since they are grown up, what proof do we have that the Catholic Church was founded by Christ, is it a sin to go to a Hindu temple during their holidays, and are Adam and Eve historical or symbolic figures Hundreds of Texas churches seek approval to leave the United Methodist Church Veronica - How can we bless our adult Children since they are grown up? Aaron - What proof do we have that the Catholic Church was founded by Christ? Patrick recommends “The Fathers Know Best” published by Catholic Answers and “The Four Witnesses” by Rod Bennett Cristina Fernandez, Argentina VP, found guilty of fraud Anna - Is it a sin to go to a Hindu temple during their holidays? Victoria - Does God have a gender? If not, why do we call God Him? Terry - If Adam is perfect, perfect body and soul, perfect will, why did he commit original sin? Charges Dropped Against ‘Red Rose Rescue’ Priest Who Counsels Women Against Abortion David - What is happening in America is what was happening in the Soviet Union. Maggie - Mr. Rodgers waited till they would let him talk about God to be on the show. Why do we call Saint Joseph Lord in a prayer during daybreak? Tess - If Adam and Eve are historical or symbolic figures?

Patrick answers listener questions and tackles such topics as; how did Adam and Eve’s son, Seth, start a family, if Judas was born to betray Christ, how do we not fall in line with Protestants on predestination, and did Matthew and Mark have some passages omitted in the 60s. Tess – How did Adam and Eve’s son, Seth, start a family? Jimmy - You should also mention Leviticus 18:20 when talking about the gay marriage issue. Steve - Elderly parent with 3 children but they have slipped away from the faith. What resources can I give them? Patrick suggests they have them Text PATRICKMADRID to 84576 David – What are your thoughts on the USA fulfilling prophecies about Babylon? Bonnie - Follow up to being saved outside the Church: Romans 10: 9 seems to answer the question of being saved outside the Church. What are your thoughts? Mark - Genesis and Cane and Able: why don't you reference Gen 5: 4 when talking about them? Noah – I feel like I can’t watch movies anymore because there is so much violence and sex everywhere? I don't want to fall into scrupulosity. Bob - If Judas was born to betray Christ, how do we not fall in line with Protestants on predestination? Ray – Did Matthew and Mark have some passages omitted in the 60s.

Patrick answers listener questions and tackles such topics as: Highly Influential ‘Long COVID’ Paper Now Under Investigation For ‘Data Errors’ How much should we honor the saints before it becomes superstitious? What is a good Catholic Missal which I can get for a family member for Christmas? What is the minimum you have to do to go to hell? Mark 6: 3-4: Why couldn't Judas and Simon be Mary’s sons? I’m attracted to someone half my age. Is this okay? Marisol 7-years-old - How can Saint Nicholas be alive because you need to be dead to be a saint?

Patrick answers listener questions and tackles such topics as: who made God, why do I need confession if I can simply confess directly to God, and is it a sin to presume that God will forgive my sins A Very Mariani Christmas Dolores – Comment on the age difference in dating from the last hour. I dated an older man when I was young. There was a seven-year difference with us. I think you gave great advice. Jenny – Who made God? Stanly - Sins of Presumption: I feel guilty for confessing a sin that I knew God would forgive. Am I being presumptuous about God's mercy? Alex - I think we can just confess our sins to God. Laura –My 5-year-old granddaughter said, when I grow up I want to marry a Girl. The mom said, it's your choice. What should I do? David - The thing that will send someone to hell is not accepting Jesus as your Lord and savior Marie - Kids that are not baptized will cross themselves at Church. Is that Okay?

Patrick answers listener questions and tackles such topics as: how to reconcile with your spouse after infidelity, should young people date and does age matter when dating, and where exactly is purgatory in the bible? Sandra - I cheated on my husband and want to reconcile with him. What should I do? Ray - I don't want to use contraceptives in my marriage, but my wife does want to use them. What should I do? Maria - How do I talk with a friend who is trying to convert Catholics to the Protestant faith. What should I do about this? Patty – Our teenage granddaughter, who is a Junior, is looking to date an 8th grader. We don't want her to date him. What should we do? Bob 14-years-old - Where in the bible does it talk about purgatory?

Patrick answers listener questions and tackles such topics as: are dream catchers okay to have, how do I talk with my daughter about interacting with non-Christians, can we bury our first communion certificate and baptism with us when we die, and what can I do if my family spread the ashes of a loved one in the ocean? Patrick shares his new hobby, watching Peter Santenello’s YouTube channel Celi - The Priest said some woke things at Mass. How should I handle this? Molly - Do you have a Book recommendation on Saint Francis Xavier Patrick recommends “A Biography of St. Francis Xavier” by Fr. James Broderick Mary – Are Prosperity Totas and dream catchers okay for me to have? Eve – How do I talk with my daughter about interacting with non-Christians. Rosemary - My grandson, senior at a Catholic high school, is supposed to come up with a new Sacrament for his project. Is that okay? Sharon - Mary was dedicated to the temple, so at what point did they decide to marry her? Jean - Can we bury our first communion certificate and baptism with us when we die? Mary – A non-Catholic family member spread the ashes of another family in the ocean. What should I do about this?

Patrick answers listener questions and tackles such topics as: Kanye West, can someone be “un-baptized,” is it a sin for the penitent to disclose what was said in confession, is it okay to wear a caecilian horn, are Bollywood movies okay to watch, what is the difference between NFT and taking birth control, what is the difference between the church and the Kingdom of God, and is Marijuana okay to use? Tattoos of Kanye West removed at London studio after anti-Semitic remarks Belgians increasingly ask to be “un-baptized” Patrick shares how he has been called to live a Holy life and the importance of being committed to Jesus Brian - Is it a sin for the penitent to disclose what was said in confession? Jan - Two young women bring in food and eat during Mass. I what should I do? Major advertisers back on Twitter that journos said wouldn’t “last the weekend” Diana - My husband wears a crucifix and a caecilian horn. Is that okay? Mary - Is it wrong to watch Bollywood movies since they are Hindu? How China’s Police Used Phones and Faces to Track Protesters Mary - What is there a difference between Natural Family Planning (NFP) and the Birth Control Pill? David – What is the difference between the Church and the Kingdom of God? Pat - Freemasons and Marijuana: I know someone who is Catholic and a Freemason. Also a priest told my girlfriend that Marijuana was okay in the same way as alcohol?

Patrick answers listener questions and tackles such topics as: what to do if the cremated remains are split between locations and some are in a medallion, at what point does a concerning would-be Catholic know that Catholicism is true, is it okay to celebrate Santa Claus, and what is an intention Explosion at Nuclear Airbase Just 150 Miles From Moscow Biden Admin Waives Supreme Court Review in Key Transgender Fight Denise - Family member was cremated and split between two graves, and was put into medallions. What should I do? Dusty - I am discerning joining the Church. At what point would I know that Catholicism is true? Barbara - How do you celebrate Santa Claus? Noel - I told a Mormon friend about all the witnesses to the Catholic Church, opposed to there just being one Joseph Smith Matt - I am giving my Godson a Lego confessional set. How do I respond to people who ask why do Catholics need to go to confession? Tori – In regards to Natural Family Planning (NFP), from what I read, if you don't have a grave reason to avoid the possibility of having a baby, then you shouldn't. Could you clarify what a grave reason is? Diane - I lost my husband in 2020. Is there a good book for my 3-year-old grandchild about death and heaven? Juan - What is an 'intention' when praying the Rosary?

Patrick answers listener questions about if a Catholic and a Muslim should get married, how to talk to my adult child about how she shouldn’t be living with her boyfriend, how to deal with irreverence during Mass and what are the proper channels to go throw to complain about something that is happening at your church Major win for Catholic doctors fighting Biden’s transgender mandate after appeal deadline passes Mark – My son is going to propose to a Muslim girl and they want to raise their future kids in a bi-religious home. Tina – There was a caller yesterday who said it was okay to sleep around. You didn't mention that God forbids adultery. Julio – My stepdaughter is living with her boyfriend. What is my responsibility here? Nun who wowed The Voice of Italy leaves the faith and becomes a waitress in Spain Diane - Julio should talk to the boyfriend and tell him to man up and marry his daughter Jacob - How to deal with irreverence during mass? New convert and not sure if my priest is doing things correctly

Patrick answers listener questions about the Last Supper, how to talk to someone living in sin, does there need to be a crucifix on the altar at Mass, and he shares the news of a new video game where you get to play as Jesus Mary - What do you think about 3 priests from Ireland who sing. Do you think they are serving two masters? Alice - Did Jesus have to eat holy communion? Rose Mary - Niece is married twice and divorced twice and is now living with a man. She says she is good Christian, but I know she’s living in sin. What can I say to her? Denny - Does there need to be a crucifix on the altar at mass? Les – I think it’s wrong that a priest can't tell the police if someone has confessed to a murder in confessional? A new video game lets users play as Jesus Christ Aiden 9-years-old - If God knew we were going to be great sinners and might go to hell, why did he create us in the first place?

Patrick answers listener questions about the Seal of Confession, did St. Anne have pain during child birth, should I attend a wedding of a multiple divorced Catholic who is not practicing her faith, and is it okay to make a cartoon of Jesus Andrew - My family has distanced themselves from me for past mistakes. I’m better now, how can I reconnect? Skip – Can a priest require the penance of a confession to be to report the crime to the police? Keith - Did St Anne have pain in child birth? Erica - Should I attend the wedding of a Catholic who doesn't practice her faith and is getting married for 3rd time? Marteen - I have a Jesus magnet where you can change His clothes. Is that disrespectful?

Patrick helps a listen take their first steps into coming back to the faith and he answers listener questions about dealing with grief, are advent candles related to the 3 magi and he comments on how being a father changes a man’s brains according to before and after MRI scans Fatherhood changes men’s brains, according to before-and-after MRI scans When fathers are involved in the faith life, such as going to Mass and praying at dinner, the children are much more likely to have an active faith life in their adulthood Aaron – I left Catholicism to be a Presbyterian. I want to come back. How do I make that connection? Patrick comments on the passing of Christine McVie Les - Going to funeral of 13-year-old girl. What can I say to the family? Are there any resources could I give to them? Patrick recommends “Making Sense Out of Suffering” by Peter Kreeft Sandra - My husband did not participate in faith and now my kids don't follow their faith Marilyn - Commandment is keep the Sabbath holy. Should we be going to mass on Saturday? Is it required for a Catholic who has died to have a Catholic funeral Mass? E Frank - Are advent candles related to the 3 magi?

Patrick shares and comments on audio of a trans person using a dog clicker to “train” her family into using “her correct pronouns” Patrick continues explaining the history of advent candles Timothy – Should the Chalice on the altar at mass sit on top of the corporal? How many corporals should be there? Rayo – I’m looking for guidance and encouragement as I’m going through a tough time and not sure why God allows such suffering Ted - Should we be fasting on Friday to end abortion? Matt - What does it mean to be not of this world and how do I work towards this? Patrick shares and comments on audio of a trans person using a dog clicker to “train” her family into using “her correct pronouns”

Patrick answers listener questions about how to guide your kids back to the faith, is Martin Luther a Saint, why don’t Catholic’s go straight to God instead of going to confession, and is meditation okay Emma - Is Mary Omnipresent? Christina - I'm a Psychiatrist and it sounds like this transgirl is trying to use conversion therapy on others-this is supposed to be a bad thing for gay people but it’s okay for us? Thai Buddhist temple left empty after all its monks test positive for meth Debbie - Is Martin Luther a saint? Christine - Friend wants to know why Catholic's don't go straight to God. Also my kids left the faith and I don’t know what I can do? Ken - Looking for new charity to donate money to this year. Any suggestions? James - What do Catholics think of meditation?

Patrick starts the show off by encouraging us to pay it forward and he comments on the outsized joy one receives when they perform small acts of kindness Susan - Kids going on field trip to Mormon church and it makes me uneasy. Should I be concerned? Robert – I paid for someone else’s groceries. I let her know I was down on my luck too. Mark - How I shared God with a gas station girl that needed encouragement and now she is back to faith Patrick shares the story of a beggar at a gas station that left a memorable impact on his life

Patrick and Cyrus consider the many ways in which popular culture has changed so much so that the things that were commonplace and universally known 30-40 years ago are completely unknown to kids today Christy – I wish I would have waiting longer to give my kids cell phones. Christy - Why are the Ten Commandments different for different faiths? Patrick responds to an email about SSPX Jessica - Did you teach your kids Spanish? I am trying to teach mine and am looking for advice. John - What are the ramifications in the Respect for Marriage Act for hospitals and other catholic institutions? Sam - Our Church was closed and sold but there were rules that it would not become a bar.

Patrick answers listener questions about the Sign of the Cross, what it means to be a Godfather, why do we classify churches as cathedrals or basilicas, are we doing the Sign of the Cross too much, should I raise my hands in church, and is it okay to adopt an embryo that is frozen and abandoned by in vitro fertilization? Ross - Should we be making the sign of the cross at the beginning of mass? When did that start? Dave - Can I be a Godfather to child if their parents aren't really serious about teaching the faith? Noah - Why do we classify churches as cathedrals and basilicas? What does that mean and where does it come from? Danielle - In Church during communion when the bells ring, should we be bowing? What about the Sign of the Cross? Mike - How do we participate in mass properly? Should I raise my hands? Arianna - Is it okay to adopt an embryo that is frozen and abandoned by in vitro fertilization? Ana – I’ve been away from the Church since 2008. How can I catch up with everything I’ve missed? James – I’m dealing with some crosses and not sure if I should seek spiritual or physical therapy

Patrick answers listener questions about being buried, confession, and what is the difference between forgiveness and reconciliation Patrick comments on the lack of cursive handwriting being taught in schools Nancy - How important is the position your body when you are buried? Mick – Since we ask for forgiveness of sins during mass, then why do we need confession? Donna - If I eat meat on Friday, do I have to go to confession before communion? Martin - If you haven't been married in the Catholic Church, can you still go to confession? Patrick recommends “Annulments and the Catholic Church: Straight Answers to Tough Questions” by Edward Peters Pat - Kids are getting dumbed down by not learning cursive. They won't be able to understand our history since many documents were written in cursive. 57-Year-Old Unconscious Dead Man Describes His Resuscitation As If He Was Watching It Barbara – What is the difference between forgiveness and reconciliation?

Patrick continues the conversation about forgiveness and how we are called to forgive, even in terrible circumstances Vito – If you forgive but don’t forget, does that mean you have not really forgiven? Anita - We have to keep forgiving. If you cut yourself, it creates a scar and heals. Every time you look at it, you remember, but the scare does fade Sam - I have forgiven my mom but I go through a cycle where the hurt resurfaces - what should I do to make sure I don't pass this to my kids? Cynthia – I had a hard time forgiving my father

Patrick answers listener questions about forgiveness, if lesbians can be groomsmen at a Catholic wedding, and if I should let me kids visit their father who is a problematic relationship Sylvia – When a person says “I forgive but won’t forget” they really are not forgiving at all Patrick shares and comments on James 3:1 “Not many of you should become teachers, my fellow believers, because you know that we who teach will be judged more strictly” Patrick recommends the movie “The Last Rites of Joe May” Gabriel - Son is asking his lesbian friends to be in his Catholic wedding. Is this okay? Frances - How can I handle my children spending time with their father when he is going off the deep end and doing questionable stuff?

Patrick answers listener questions about tattoos, if he thinks it’s a good idea to take kids to a Planned Parenthood so they can see how awful it is, what is the Church’s teaching on sex and gender and he shares audio on “How to Debunk Transgender Madness in 2 Minutes” Mom Refused Doctors’ Suggestion to Abort Two of Her Quadruplets, Now They're All Healthy Mystery Of Kung Fu Icon Bruce Lee’s Death May Finally Be Solved Christina - Is it okay to have tattoos? Joe - Parents should take their daughters should check out planned parenthood and prolife centers so kids have an idea beforehand the difference between death and life George - What is the Church teaching on sex and gender? I want to have charitable conversation about this. Patrick comments on the shooting at Club Q and how the shooter does not fit the narrative that was first put out by the for-profit media

Danielle - Follow up-we should be teaching the values of saving sex for marriage not just assuming that they will get pregnant Katie – It is a horrible idea to take kids to visit Planned Parenthood. Listening to Relevant Radio has turned me into a Prolife Catholic! Angela – I’ve ordered the “Godless Delusion” book multiple times. I gave it to several people and I love it. Everyone should get it. Michael – Question about how to talk about the structure of the Church

Patrick answers listener questions about guardian angels and fallen angels, healing crystals, St. Joseph’s connection to white lily, and how does salvation differ between catholic and Protestantism Jody - Is my guardian angel just as powerful as Lucifer and other fallen angels? Mayra - Daughter's Christmas list includes healing crystals. Is that kind of stuff against our faith? Paul - Why does St Joseph always have a white lily? Kate - Looking to buy a bass guitar for my daughter for Christmas. What is a good one to start her out with? Gaby - Did all the Jewish people automatically go to heaven? Ramona – What is the best book about the life of St Augustine? Patrick recommends “The Confessions” by St. Augustine. Patrick recommends “Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions” by Gregory Koukl and “Socratic Logic: A Logic Text using Socratic Method, Platonic Questions, and Aristotelian Principles” by Peter Kreeft, and “How to Do Apologetics: Making the Case for Our Faith” by Patrick Madrid Dawn - How does salvation differ between catholic and Protestantism? Robert - What is the Church teaching on blessing people in line who are not receiving communion? Thomas – I’m near the end of my life and never finished RCIA, can I still get last rites?

Special Guest Host Fr. Matthew Spencer helps us prepare for Thanksgiving and Advent and takes listener questions about Angels, how to improve your prayer life, and if it’s okay to look for signs of God in your everyday life Preparing for Advent and Christmas with gratitude Our spiritual lives are mostly unextraordinary. Most of us will not see “signs,” but the spiritual life isn’t about those extraordinary experiences Fr. Matthew reflects on today’s statement from Pope Francis saying that “consolation is a tremendous gift for the spiritual life.” Diane - Husband was in the hospital, and twice he almost died but I heard a voice saying he would be okay, I felt peace. Julie - I’m not sure what Pope Francis means about seeking it. If God wants to talk to you he will. Ashley - Who was the first angel to have a prayer? Bill – Is it true that when we pray, God doesn't change the circumstance, but rather, he is changing us? Yocasta - How can I improve my prayer life this Advent?

Special Guest Host Fr. Matthew Spencer answers listener questions about if St. Padre Pio really heard the confession of the devil, what to do if you have desolation in your prayers, and how should I react to gossip in my parish? Nancy - Is it true St. Padre Pio heard the confession of the devil? Monica - My second husband died and I’m concerned about his soul Carolina - What to do if you have desolation in your prayers for years? Donna - Someone gossiped that my parish priest might be gay. Should I bring it up to him? Patricia – My father is terminally ill and going off oxygen. Is it okay to take him off this life supporting machine?

Special Guest Host Fr. Matthew Spencer answers listener questions about death bed conversions, why some people are afraid of going to confession, and is it okay to not invite my daughter to Thanksgiving because she has a drinking problem Anne - My sister is away from the church and dying from cancer. She won't go to confession but she does say the Rosary. What can I do to help her? Don’t be afraid of confession Esteban – I’m struggling with homosexuality. I want to go back to the Church and I’m missing the Eucharist. What can I do? Maggie - My daughter has a drinking problem and she gets nasty. We decided not to allow her to Thanksgiving this year. Is that sinful? Suzy - Jesus told the thief on the cross he was going to heaven but Jesus went to hell first. Where did the good thief go? Matt – A priest at a funeral invited everyone up to communion. Should I have corrected him?

Special Guest Host Fr. Matthew Spencer reflects on the recent meetings of the USCCB conferences and focuses much of the hour on the importance of marriage preparation Marriage Preparation Gayle – Some topics, such as retirement, were not discussed when we went through marriage prep as older adult Gerry – There are different methods of Natural Family Planning and we found some of them conflict with each other. Kevin – Maybe people are not getting married in the Church because there’s more glitz and glamor getting married in scenic spots like beaches. Also, I got a vasectomy against my wishes. What should I do? Dave - Marriage Prep is important. I didn't have it and we got divorced.

Special Guest Host Fr. Matthew Spencer reflects on mental health and euthanasia and takes listener questions about sin, euthanizing pets, consecrating yourself to Mary, and how to explain perpetual virginity to new Catholics FIFA and the World Cup Mental health and euthanasia Jonah - Is it a sin to buy groceries on Sunday? Jennifer - Is euthanasia okay for pets? (30:00) Consecrating yourself to Mary Fr. Matthew recommends “33 Days to Morning Glory: A Do-It-Yourself Retreat In Preparation for Marian Consecration” Cynthia - How can I explain perpetual virginity of Mary to new Catholics?

Special Guest Host Fr. Matthew Spencer answers listener questions about if Mary can work directly with our soul, did Catholics rule out limbo, is it a sin to not talk to my husband Amazon Alexa Is a 'Colossal Failure,' On Pace To Lose $10 Billion This Year David - Why is Church quiet on moral issues like abortion and sexuality? Why are believers of Christ not voting morally? Mary - Can Mary work directly with our soul? Rey - Did Catholics rule out purgatory in 1970's? Joseph - I think listening devices will be required soon by government like the book “1984” Dave – I had four separate occasions while praying the rosary when I smelled roses Email - Is it a sin to not talk to my husband? Ashley - We found, in an old monstrance, particles of the Eucharist. What should we do?

Special Guest Host Fr. Matthew Spencer reflects on the Solemnity of Our Lord Jesus Christ, King of the Universe E-Frank - Is it acceptable to receive the Eucharist without fasting one hour? Fr. Spencer explains the 5 Steps of the Examen World population reaches 8 billion – Are we in danger of running out of resources? Rebecca – Will God forgive at end of life or do we also need good works? Fake Meat – Now meatless oysters are an option Protestants think saved by works but do good deeds. how to explain to them that we believe same thing?

Special Guest Host Fr. Matthew Spencer reflects on praying and living a spiritual life The Most Important Conversation in Marriage Is Prayer by Edward and Beth Sri Sam – We are so afraid to kill oysters, but we kill babies in womb. Why are we so unbalanced? Frank – Are works required for salvation? Jim - Church should change their policy on Priests. They should be able to marry. Jim - Eastern Catholic priests can marry - why is that okay?