The Patrick Madrid Show

Patrick answers listener questions and tackles such topics as: what to do if the cremated remains are split between locations and some are in a medallion, at what point does a concerning would-be Catholic know that Catholicism is true, is it okay to celebrate Santa Claus, and what is an intention Explosion at Nuclear Airbase Just 150 Miles From Moscow Biden Admin Waives Supreme Court Review in Key Transgender Fight Denise - Family member was cremated and split between two graves, and was put into medallions. What should I do? Dusty - I am discerning joining the Church. At what point would I know that Catholicism is true? Barbara - How do you celebrate Santa Claus? Noel - I told a Mormon friend about all the witnesses to the Catholic Church, opposed to there just being one Joseph Smith Matt - I am giving my Godson a Lego confessional set. How do I respond to people who ask why do Catholics need to go to confession? Tori – In regards to Natural Family Planning (NFP), from what I read, if you don't have a grave reason to avoid the possibility of having a baby, then you shouldn't. Could you clarify what a grave reason is? Diane - I lost my husband in 2020. Is there a good book for my 3-year-old grandchild about death and heaven? Juan - What is an 'intention' when praying the Rosary?

Patrick answers listener questions about if a Catholic and a Muslim should get married, how to talk to my adult child about how she shouldn’t be living with her boyfriend, how to deal with irreverence during Mass and what are the proper channels to go throw to complain about something that is happening at your church Major win for Catholic doctors fighting Biden’s transgender mandate after appeal deadline passes Mark – My son is going to propose to a Muslim girl and they want to raise their future kids in a bi-religious home. Tina – There was a caller yesterday who said it was okay to sleep around. You didn't mention that God forbids adultery. Julio – My stepdaughter is living with her boyfriend. What is my responsibility here? Nun who wowed The Voice of Italy leaves the faith and becomes a waitress in Spain Diane - Julio should talk to the boyfriend and tell him to man up and marry his daughter Jacob - How to deal with irreverence during mass? New convert and not sure if my priest is doing things correctly

Patrick answers listener questions about the Last Supper, how to talk to someone living in sin, does there need to be a crucifix on the altar at Mass, and he shares the news of a new video game where you get to play as Jesus Mary - What do you think about 3 priests from Ireland who sing. Do you think they are serving two masters? Alice - Did Jesus have to eat holy communion? Rose Mary - Niece is married twice and divorced twice and is now living with a man. She says she is good Christian, but I know she’s living in sin. What can I say to her? Denny - Does there need to be a crucifix on the altar at mass? Les – I think it’s wrong that a priest can't tell the police if someone has confessed to a murder in confessional? A new video game lets users play as Jesus Christ Aiden 9-years-old - If God knew we were going to be great sinners and might go to hell, why did he create us in the first place?

Patrick answers listener questions about the Seal of Confession, did St. Anne have pain during child birth, should I attend a wedding of a multiple divorced Catholic who is not practicing her faith, and is it okay to make a cartoon of Jesus Andrew - My family has distanced themselves from me for past mistakes. I’m better now, how can I reconnect? Skip – Can a priest require the penance of a confession to be to report the crime to the police? Keith - Did St Anne have pain in child birth? Erica - Should I attend the wedding of a Catholic who doesn't practice her faith and is getting married for 3rd time? Marteen - I have a Jesus magnet where you can change His clothes. Is that disrespectful?

Patrick helps a listen take their first steps into coming back to the faith and he answers listener questions about dealing with grief, are advent candles related to the 3 magi and he comments on how being a father changes a man’s brains according to before and after MRI scans Fatherhood changes men’s brains, according to before-and-after MRI scans When fathers are involved in the faith life, such as going to Mass and praying at dinner, the children are much more likely to have an active faith life in their adulthood Aaron – I left Catholicism to be a Presbyterian. I want to come back. How do I make that connection? Patrick comments on the passing of Christine McVie Les - Going to funeral of 13-year-old girl. What can I say to the family? Are there any resources could I give to them? Patrick recommends “Making Sense Out of Suffering” by Peter Kreeft Sandra - My husband did not participate in faith and now my kids don't follow their faith Marilyn - Commandment is keep the Sabbath holy. Should we be going to mass on Saturday? Is it required for a Catholic who has died to have a Catholic funeral Mass? E Frank - Are advent candles related to the 3 magi?

Patrick shares and comments on audio of a trans person using a dog clicker to “train” her family into using “her correct pronouns” Patrick continues explaining the history of advent candles Timothy – Should the Chalice on the altar at mass sit on top of the corporal? How many corporals should be there? Rayo – I’m looking for guidance and encouragement as I’m going through a tough time and not sure why God allows such suffering Ted - Should we be fasting on Friday to end abortion? Matt - What does it mean to be not of this world and how do I work towards this? Patrick shares and comments on audio of a trans person using a dog clicker to “train” her family into using “her correct pronouns”

Patrick answers listener questions about how to guide your kids back to the faith, is Martin Luther a Saint, why don’t Catholic’s go straight to God instead of going to confession, and is meditation okay Emma - Is Mary Omnipresent? Christina - I'm a Psychiatrist and it sounds like this transgirl is trying to use conversion therapy on others-this is supposed to be a bad thing for gay people but it’s okay for us? Thai Buddhist temple left empty after all its monks test positive for meth Debbie - Is Martin Luther a saint? Christine - Friend wants to know why Catholic's don't go straight to God. Also my kids left the faith and I don’t know what I can do? Ken - Looking for new charity to donate money to this year. Any suggestions? James - What do Catholics think of meditation?

Patrick starts the show off by encouraging us to pay it forward and he comments on the outsized joy one receives when they perform small acts of kindness Susan - Kids going on field trip to Mormon church and it makes me uneasy. Should I be concerned? Robert – I paid for someone else’s groceries. I let her know I was down on my luck too. Mark - How I shared God with a gas station girl that needed encouragement and now she is back to faith Patrick shares the story of a beggar at a gas station that left a memorable impact on his life

Patrick and Cyrus consider the many ways in which popular culture has changed so much so that the things that were commonplace and universally known 30-40 years ago are completely unknown to kids today Christy – I wish I would have waiting longer to give my kids cell phones. Christy - Why are the Ten Commandments different for different faiths? Patrick responds to an email about SSPX Jessica - Did you teach your kids Spanish? I am trying to teach mine and am looking for advice. John - What are the ramifications in the Respect for Marriage Act for hospitals and other catholic institutions? Sam - Our Church was closed and sold but there were rules that it would not become a bar.

Patrick answers listener questions about the Sign of the Cross, what it means to be a Godfather, why do we classify churches as cathedrals or basilicas, are we doing the Sign of the Cross too much, should I raise my hands in church, and is it okay to adopt an embryo that is frozen and abandoned by in vitro fertilization? Ross - Should we be making the sign of the cross at the beginning of mass? When did that start? Dave - Can I be a Godfather to child if their parents aren't really serious about teaching the faith? Noah - Why do we classify churches as cathedrals and basilicas? What does that mean and where does it come from? Danielle - In Church during communion when the bells ring, should we be bowing? What about the Sign of the Cross? Mike - How do we participate in mass properly? Should I raise my hands? Arianna - Is it okay to adopt an embryo that is frozen and abandoned by in vitro fertilization? Ana – I’ve been away from the Church since 2008. How can I catch up with everything I’ve missed? James – I’m dealing with some crosses and not sure if I should seek spiritual or physical therapy

Patrick answers listener questions about being buried, confession, and what is the difference between forgiveness and reconciliation Patrick comments on the lack of cursive handwriting being taught in schools Nancy - How important is the position your body when you are buried? Mick – Since we ask for forgiveness of sins during mass, then why do we need confession? Donna - If I eat meat on Friday, do I have to go to confession before communion? Martin - If you haven't been married in the Catholic Church, can you still go to confession? Patrick recommends “Annulments and the Catholic Church: Straight Answers to Tough Questions” by Edward Peters Pat - Kids are getting dumbed down by not learning cursive. They won't be able to understand our history since many documents were written in cursive. 57-Year-Old Unconscious Dead Man Describes His Resuscitation As If He Was Watching It Barbara – What is the difference between forgiveness and reconciliation?

Patrick continues the conversation about forgiveness and how we are called to forgive, even in terrible circumstances Vito – If you forgive but don’t forget, does that mean you have not really forgiven? Anita - We have to keep forgiving. If you cut yourself, it creates a scar and heals. Every time you look at it, you remember, but the scare does fade Sam - I have forgiven my mom but I go through a cycle where the hurt resurfaces - what should I do to make sure I don't pass this to my kids? Cynthia – I had a hard time forgiving my father

Patrick answers listener questions about forgiveness, if lesbians can be groomsmen at a Catholic wedding, and if I should let me kids visit their father who is a problematic relationship Sylvia – When a person says “I forgive but won’t forget” they really are not forgiving at all Patrick shares and comments on James 3:1 “Not many of you should become teachers, my fellow believers, because you know that we who teach will be judged more strictly” Patrick recommends the movie “The Last Rites of Joe May” Gabriel - Son is asking his lesbian friends to be in his Catholic wedding. Is this okay? Frances - How can I handle my children spending time with their father when he is going off the deep end and doing questionable stuff?

Patrick answers listener questions about tattoos, if he thinks it’s a good idea to take kids to a Planned Parenthood so they can see how awful it is, what is the Church’s teaching on sex and gender and he shares audio on “How to Debunk Transgender Madness in 2 Minutes” Mom Refused Doctors’ Suggestion to Abort Two of Her Quadruplets, Now They're All Healthy Mystery Of Kung Fu Icon Bruce Lee’s Death May Finally Be Solved Christina - Is it okay to have tattoos? Joe - Parents should take their daughters should check out planned parenthood and prolife centers so kids have an idea beforehand the difference between death and life George - What is the Church teaching on sex and gender? I want to have charitable conversation about this. Patrick comments on the shooting at Club Q and how the shooter does not fit the narrative that was first put out by the for-profit media

Danielle - Follow up-we should be teaching the values of saving sex for marriage not just assuming that they will get pregnant Katie – It is a horrible idea to take kids to visit Planned Parenthood. Listening to Relevant Radio has turned me into a Prolife Catholic! Angela – I’ve ordered the “Godless Delusion” book multiple times. I gave it to several people and I love it. Everyone should get it. Michael – Question about how to talk about the structure of the Church

Patrick answers listener questions about guardian angels and fallen angels, healing crystals, St. Joseph’s connection to white lily, and how does salvation differ between catholic and Protestantism Jody - Is my guardian angel just as powerful as Lucifer and other fallen angels? Mayra - Daughter's Christmas list includes healing crystals. Is that kind of stuff against our faith? Paul - Why does St Joseph always have a white lily? Kate - Looking to buy a bass guitar for my daughter for Christmas. What is a good one to start her out with? Gaby - Did all the Jewish people automatically go to heaven? Ramona – What is the best book about the life of St Augustine? Patrick recommends “The Confessions” by St. Augustine. Patrick recommends “Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions” by Gregory Koukl and “Socratic Logic: A Logic Text using Socratic Method, Platonic Questions, and Aristotelian Principles” by Peter Kreeft, and “How to Do Apologetics: Making the Case for Our Faith” by Patrick Madrid Dawn - How does salvation differ between catholic and Protestantism? Robert - What is the Church teaching on blessing people in line who are not receiving communion? Thomas – I’m near the end of my life and never finished RCIA, can I still get last rites?

Special Guest Host Fr. Matthew Spencer helps us prepare for Thanksgiving and Advent and takes listener questions about Angels, how to improve your prayer life, and if it’s okay to look for signs of God in your everyday life Preparing for Advent and Christmas with gratitude Our spiritual lives are mostly unextraordinary. Most of us will not see “signs,” but the spiritual life isn’t about those extraordinary experiences Fr. Matthew reflects on today’s statement from Pope Francis saying that “consolation is a tremendous gift for the spiritual life.” Diane - Husband was in the hospital, and twice he almost died but I heard a voice saying he would be okay, I felt peace. Julie - I’m not sure what Pope Francis means about seeking it. If God wants to talk to you he will. Ashley - Who was the first angel to have a prayer? Bill – Is it true that when we pray, God doesn't change the circumstance, but rather, he is changing us? Yocasta - How can I improve my prayer life this Advent?

Special Guest Host Fr. Matthew Spencer answers listener questions about if St. Padre Pio really heard the confession of the devil, what to do if you have desolation in your prayers, and how should I react to gossip in my parish? Nancy - Is it true St. Padre Pio heard the confession of the devil? Monica - My second husband died and I’m concerned about his soul Carolina - What to do if you have desolation in your prayers for years? Donna - Someone gossiped that my parish priest might be gay. Should I bring it up to him? Patricia – My father is terminally ill and going off oxygen. Is it okay to take him off this life supporting machine?

Special Guest Host Fr. Matthew Spencer answers listener questions about death bed conversions, why some people are afraid of going to confession, and is it okay to not invite my daughter to Thanksgiving because she has a drinking problem Anne - My sister is away from the church and dying from cancer. She won't go to confession but she does say the Rosary. What can I do to help her? Don’t be afraid of confession Esteban – I’m struggling with homosexuality. I want to go back to the Church and I’m missing the Eucharist. What can I do? Maggie - My daughter has a drinking problem and she gets nasty. We decided not to allow her to Thanksgiving this year. Is that sinful? Suzy - Jesus told the thief on the cross he was going to heaven but Jesus went to hell first. Where did the good thief go? Matt – A priest at a funeral invited everyone up to communion. Should I have corrected him?

Special Guest Host Fr. Matthew Spencer reflects on the recent meetings of the USCCB conferences and focuses much of the hour on the importance of marriage preparation Marriage Preparation Gayle – Some topics, such as retirement, were not discussed when we went through marriage prep as older adult Gerry – There are different methods of Natural Family Planning and we found some of them conflict with each other. Kevin – Maybe people are not getting married in the Church because there’s more glitz and glamor getting married in scenic spots like beaches. Also, I got a vasectomy against my wishes. What should I do? Dave - Marriage Prep is important. I didn't have it and we got divorced.

Special Guest Host Fr. Matthew Spencer reflects on mental health and euthanasia and takes listener questions about sin, euthanizing pets, consecrating yourself to Mary, and how to explain perpetual virginity to new Catholics FIFA and the World Cup Mental health and euthanasia Jonah - Is it a sin to buy groceries on Sunday? Jennifer - Is euthanasia okay for pets? (30:00) Consecrating yourself to Mary Fr. Matthew recommends “33 Days to Morning Glory: A Do-It-Yourself Retreat In Preparation for Marian Consecration” Cynthia - How can I explain perpetual virginity of Mary to new Catholics?

Special Guest Host Fr. Matthew Spencer answers listener questions about if Mary can work directly with our soul, did Catholics rule out limbo, is it a sin to not talk to my husband Amazon Alexa Is a 'Colossal Failure,' On Pace To Lose $10 Billion This Year David - Why is Church quiet on moral issues like abortion and sexuality? Why are believers of Christ not voting morally? Mary - Can Mary work directly with our soul? Rey - Did Catholics rule out purgatory in 1970's? Joseph - I think listening devices will be required soon by government like the book “1984” Dave – I had four separate occasions while praying the rosary when I smelled roses Email - Is it a sin to not talk to my husband? Ashley - We found, in an old monstrance, particles of the Eucharist. What should we do?

Special Guest Host Fr. Matthew Spencer reflects on the Solemnity of Our Lord Jesus Christ, King of the Universe E-Frank - Is it acceptable to receive the Eucharist without fasting one hour? Fr. Spencer explains the 5 Steps of the Examen World population reaches 8 billion – Are we in danger of running out of resources? Rebecca – Will God forgive at end of life or do we also need good works? Fake Meat – Now meatless oysters are an option Protestants think saved by works but do good deeds. how to explain to them that we believe same thing?

Special Guest Host Fr. Matthew Spencer reflects on praying and living a spiritual life The Most Important Conversation in Marriage Is Prayer by Edward and Beth Sri Sam – We are so afraid to kill oysters, but we kill babies in womb. Why are we so unbalanced? Frank – Are works required for salvation? Jim - Church should change their policy on Priests. They should be able to marry. Jim - Eastern Catholic priests can marry - why is that okay?

Special Guest Host Fr. Matthew Spencer answers listener questions about dealing with depression, if it’s ever okay to use birth control, are there YouTube videos of real exorcisms, and how can I argue the pro-life stance in the case of incest or rape Lynn – I’m going through grief and depression after losing my mom and I need advice Colleen - Is it ever appropriate to use an IUD or birth control? Mark - I think we might be married in heaven - what are your thoughts on this? Mary - Should we have our property blessed? There was an accident and someone died. Sandy - Is it possible that a video of a real exorcism could be on YouTube? Eileen - My relative, a member of SSPX, says if there is not a Latin Mass available he is not obligated to go to Mass. Anna - How can I argue the pro-life stance in the case of incest or rape

Special guest host Ken Hensley Ken starts the show by sharing his story of being a protestant pastor who gave up his old life to walk the faith as a Catholic Tom (21:43) - Romans 4: How do you interpret that chapter? I think we are saved by faith alone. Emma - Hearing your story was so cool! What happened to your father? Amy - How do they determine what will go into a sermon in the protestant faith? David - The Podcast you have is amazing! I learn so much from you! Thanks so much!

Special guest host Ken Hensley Ken expands on a topic from the first hour about “faith alone” and how he came to abandon Sola Scriptura R.J. (24:39) - What are your thoughts on the Chosen Series? Mary - Did you ever try to reach out to Lee Strobel for Case for Christ. It would be great if you could convert him? David - Luther believed that we were dung hills covered in snow. My thought is God gave us manure to help us grow. The bad things in our life are supposed to help us grow. John (46:14) - Protestants say that you can't be saved by works, but accepting Jesus on faith is kind of a “work” itself right? George – We worship God in three persons but Jesus has only two natures?

Special guest host Ken Hensley Nancy - I'm going to the Holy Land and it is offering for us to renew our baptismal vows in the Jordan River. Can we do that? Ken expands on a topic from the first two hours about “faith alone” and how he came to abandon Sola Scriptura (02:57) Noah - I read a prayer asking God to save the departed souls from the fires of hell. How does that work with the Catholic Church teaching that souls in hell not being able to go to heaven? Giovanni - Why are Baptists so specific about the form of Baptism if it is Just a symbol?

Patrick explains conditional baptism and how to validly baptize someone who is dying when it’s not possible to baptize them in the normal way Patrick starts the show off responding to an email from the daughter of an elderly father dying with dementia who had never been baptized. Terri (18:35) – Can you baptize someone if there is no water where you are? Donald (26:37) - Is a baptism still valid if the priest is in mortal sin? Mary (31:36) – Is it okay for my local Catholic School to put on Les Misérables? Alex - I recently converted to the Faith. I didn't have a certificate of my baptism. Was my confirmation in the Catholic Church valid? Zack - Today's reading: Who is the King holding the scroll in his right hand? Who is the Lamb?

Patrick answers listener questions about getting married outside of the Church, did Adam and Eve feel pain before the fall, does a previous marriage need to be annulled if it was done outside of the Church, and can a Catholic widow date a non-Catholic who is divorced but going through RCIA? Steve (00:44) - My daughter is getting married outside the Church. She is not confirmed. What should I do? Tim – (18:45) Did Adam and Eve feel pain before the fall? Did Jesus feel pain? Gwen (23:39) - Why does a previous marriage need to be annulled if it was done outside the Catholic Church? Terrence - Last Friday’s reading, the word “Progressive” was used. What is your take on it? Mary - Catholics maybe should explain to their kids the ground rules of getting married in this family, and if they go outside the Church for marriage that is not allowed. Denise - Can a Catholic widow date a non-Catholic divorced person who is going through RCIA? Is dating considered adultery. Kay - Can I attend a Catholic wedding where both people are Catholic but one is non-practicing anymore?

Patrick answers listener questions about going to a same-sex “wedding,” what are the different Rites of the Church and why do they exist, are Greek orthodox baptism valid, and if it’s okay for the Mass orchestra to sound like Rock and Roll? Caesar - My niece is getting married to a woman. We are all Catholic but I don’t know what I should do? Michelle (09:45) - What are the different Rites of the Church and why do they exist? George (18:29) - I bought a calendar with Rogation Days. What are Rogation Days? Angela - What day does the Sabbath fall on? Susan - Are Greek orthodox baptisms valid? Bill - What are your thoughts on the Mormon Church accepting same sex marriage? Raphael - The Mass here has an orchestra with a snare drum. It doesn't seem right. What should I do? Lynn - My nephew is not living as a Catholic and married a man. They are having a baby via in vitro with another family member and are having a baby shower. Can we attend? Leo - How should I reach out to politicians in respect to the Respect for Marriage Bill? Maribel - Why does the priest wash his hands after communion but the Eucharistic ministers don't? Peter - What are your thoughts on “Donor Egg Adoption?” Chris - How do Catholics traditionally celebrate the Feast of Christ the King?

Patrick answers listener questions about if Holy Water is really real, how to talk meaningfully, yet concisely, about Advent, what is the difference between the soul and spirit, what to do with broken blessed rosaries, what is the Catholic understanding of “original sin,” and how to evangelize to older ex-Catholics Raul - My friends tell me that Holy Water is not real. What should I say? Vanessa - As a college student, I was asked to speak about Advent. How can I do this in a way that is concise and meaningful? Evangeline - What is the difference between the soul and spirit? Michelle - What should I do with blessed broken Rosaries? Jake - I run a rosary company that fixes and disposes of rosaries. I find that if you give them to a priest they will sometimes bury the rosaries in a grave site. Joshua - What should I do when evil tries to temp or intimidate me? Aida - Why is Emanuel not used as often as the name Jesus in the bible? Jonathan - I have the understanding that we lost the ability to choose. Could you explain what is the Catholic point of view on Original Sin? Erica - We are visiting a family who are no longer Catholic. How can we prepare in case we have a chance to evangelize, especially since they are getting older? Anna - I am living with someone who is unfaithful and abusive. We are not sacramentally married and I don't know if I should get married to him or if would should separate. What should I do?

Patrick answers listener questions about why more protestants don’t convert to Catholicism, how do you know if someone is ready for confirmation, how do you pick your confirmation saint, and which Dr. Scott Hahn book is the best to start with? Patrick opens the show by responding to a former protestant who has converted to Catholicism and asks why more people don’t become Catholic after learning more about their faith Patrick recommends “Surprised by Truth” Barbie - What Scott Hann book could you recommend for someone who has never read his work? Ryan - How do Protestants argue against purgatory? Cole (8-years-old) - How do you know if someone is ready for first confession? Terry - How can a Parent help his child pick a confirmation saint? Lucas - Can we support our local Catholic Book Store that is run by a SSPX person or should we buy books off of Amazon?

Patrick answers listener questions about why statues of Mary would ever be weeping or sorrowful, how to teach young people about “spiritual warfare,” and he reads and comments on a tweet by Fr. Peter Totleben about “evangelizing catechesis” Mary - Regarding people falling away from the Church, my son in-law's family fell away from the Church because of its teaching on divorce. Teresa - Are there statues where our Mother Mary is weeping? Isn’t she in Heaven with Jesus? Why would she be sorrowful? Patrick reads and responds to a tweet from Fr. Peter Totleben @FrTotleben about “evangelizing catechesis” and what that structure should be Anne - I teach confirmation: How can I teach the students about Spiritual Warfare in an age appropriate way? Vincent – How did God come into being? Patrick recommends “Theology for Beginners” by Frank Sheed Devin – I think Jesus did miracles to show people that He is God

Patrick’s opening monolog gives a fascinating background look at how he learned apologetics long before doing apologetics and how, when he was listening to protestant radio for years, without even realizing it, was being prepared for his work with sharing the faith. This captivating reminiscence was filled with intriguing details about his life long journey to being a radio host. BJ – I caught a protestant program that was talking about Catholicism and they were getting it all wrong. Should Patrick Madrid reach out to them to set them straight? Brent - How does experientialism, emotionalism, and intellectualism work together when practicing our faith? Ken (44:45) - How do I explain and defend the Rosary to protestants?

Patrick answers listener questions about why we say “Amen” instead of “I believe”, what happens to the souls of unborn babies, did the Pope really say divorced and remarried Catholics can receive the Eucharist, and what exactly are “Gregorian Masses for the dead?” Donna - Why do we say Amen instead I believe? Linda - Who is Joyce Rupp and is she a good person? She’s a nun, but she doesn’t wear a habit. What is the difference between genuflecting and curtsey? Manuela (22:56) - What happens to the souls of unborn babies and can Parents get Baptism of desire for them? Cindy – There are Neo-Catechumens in our Church. Are they approved by the Vatican? LuAnn (31:33) - My friend is divorced and remarried. She says the Pope said it was okay for her to receive the Eucharist. Can you provide clarity to this? Judy - Can you explain Gregorian Masses for the Dead. Why are they not said by diocesan priests? Mark - My friend is 7th Day Adventist and we are doing the bible in a year coarse. He said that Jesus in the Eucharist is a 'Sacred Symbol'.

Patrick answers listener questions about which books can help someone defend their faith, if it’s okay to baptize someone who is in hospice and might not be able to respond, is it permitted to seek out another diocese when it comes to confirmation, and why do Catholics think they need to be married in a Catholic Church? Joseph – What book can I read that will help me be able to defend my faith and even persuade non-believers who are highly intellectual? Patrick recommends reading Fr. Robert Spitzer Patricia - My elderly father is in ICU. Can I baptize him? Can we choose comfort care over lifesaving interventions? Jim – Who said, “'there are more souls in hell due to immorality?” What constitutes giving your life for another? David – The term “Queen of Heaven” is always referred to in the context of idols in the bible. Why do Catholics use it as a title for Mary? Jane (22:27) - Can I seek out a diocese that we like better for Confirmation? Ken - Why don't protestant theologians become Catholic with all the information they have? Patrick recommends “The Spirit and Forms of Protestantism” Australian government says vaccine risk too high for people under 30 Martin (41:17) - Why do Catholics need to be married in the Catholic Church?

Patrick speaks about the importance of confession and comments on the various excuses Catholics give for avoiding confession Patrick responds to an email from a Mormon listener who asks why Patrick “condemns” the idea of LDS having various levels or kingdoms of Heaven Scott - How do I respond to people who object to God being loving with all the bad things that happen in the Old Testament? When was the last time you went to Confession? Patrick shares a story about a Vatican seminar that looks at why people avoid confession Mike - I go to the same priest for confession and it really helps me make better confessions Jim - How is spreading of ashes of the deceased different from relics of saints traveling the world in an exhibit?

Patrick continues the conversation about confession from the first hour and he answers listener questions about where in the bible it says we should confess our sins to a priest, if we should be looking for spiritual direction while in a confessional, and he responds to an email that says this show is all “doom and gloom” (00:19) Where in the bible does it say we are supposed to confess to a priest? Lynn - Is confession the appropriate time to look for spiritual direction or should we be considerate of others in line for the sacrament? Jude - Confessing our sins to each other and a lot of people confess their sins to a bartender. Cynthia - My protestant friend has a dead person's ashes but really wants the urn that the ashes are in. How do I explain to him that he shouldn't just dump out the ashes? Patrick shares news of a new book of prayers for laypeople ministering to the sick will be out soon Sam - Is it okay to pray to someone who is not an official Saint declared by the Church? Chris - Is someone falls into mortal sin, do the good things they did before falling into sin matter anymore (assuming they repent of their sin)? Patrick responds to an email that describes him as all “doom and gloom” Steve - How do I defend the real presence of Christ in the Eucharist to a protestant friend of mine? Tim - Why does it say two thieves reviled Jesus in Matthew and Mark, but in Luke there was a Good Thief?

Patrick answers listener questions about how to responds to a Catholic who says they talk directly to God and they don’t need confession, and he helps a listener whose husband is a Lutheran but they have been attending a Catholic church for many years but he hasn't converted yet. Man who lived in Charles de Gaulle airport for 18 years dies in airport How to Protect Your Wine From Heat, Power Outages and Earthquakes Rose (14:34) - What do you say to someone who says they talk directly to God, when it comes to confession? Amanda - What do you think about the Legionaries of Christ in America? David - I think we need to start baptizing people a lot earlier in RCIA Kris (44:54) - How do I progress a relationship with someone who is a non-practicing Catholic? Ronny - Can you explain the passage that says “Confess your sins to one another?” Why is that referring to a priest specifically? Maria - My Husband was baptized Lutheran, but never formally joined the Catholic Church even though he attends Mass. What should we do? Kris - How do I progress a relationship with someone who is a non-practicing or fallen-away Catholic? Patrick recommends “The ABC’s to Finding a Good Husband” by Steve Woods

Patrick answers listener questions about forgiveness and mercy, plenary indulgences, did Jesus really suffer if He knew He was going to heaven, and how to deal with loneliness. Lisa - Proposition 1 on CA: How can I not pay the abortion tax in Proposition 1? Steve - What are your views on pro-progressive people? Patrick shares an anonymous email about forgiveness and mercy Carl - Do we need to go to a Catholic Cemetery to get an indulgence in the month of November? Patrick responds to an email about loneliness and how Relevant Radio is saving her life Sunny – My friend wants to come into the Church, but he doesn’t know if he’s been properly baptized Chuck - A friend says that Jesus' suffering was not a big deal for Christ since He knew he was going to heaven. How do I respond to this? Patrick recommends “A Doctor at Calvary: The Passion of Our Lord Jesus Christ As Described by a Surgeon” by by Pierre Barbet Leo - Should an unconfirmed catholic wait to join the Church fully before doing apologetics? Francisco - Thank you Patrick for all you have done for me over the course of time and thanks to Relevant Radio too.

Joe asks Patrick, "how do I pray for our leaders in the political system when they are so corrupt?"

Patrick answers listener questions about if there are different levels in heaven, what does it mean when people say they will pray for someone, and he helps two different callers who are struggling in their marriages Colin - Are there different levels in heaven? Jonny - My wife wants a separation because of a lot of arguing. A priest told us to get another Boyfriend and Girlfriend respectively and go our separate ways. What do you think? Patrick recommends www.helpourmarriage.org Mark - What does it mean when people say they will pray for someone? Lou - I heard a homily that included the word “sexual orientation” when talking about people who were destitute or mentally ill. Is that okay? Rafael - I am also struggling with my marriage. I was using pornography. Do you have any advice or resources for me? Patrick recommends www.dads.org Thomas - Can an elderly couple get their marriage blessed but not legally get married? Dan - What was the Book about the Jesuit Order and the issues with it?

Patrick answers listener questions about the Brown Scapular, how to get young people to listen to the show, and he shares a survey that reveals that 42% of Gen Z has been diagnosed with a mental health condition and he offers suggestions on how to help them Laura – Comment about the power of the Brown Scapular Sandra - My 25-year-old son is away from the faith but he listens to your show. Can you talk about why faith is important? Cindy - I benefit a lot from Relevant Radio. How can I get the word out about the good work being done by this network? Cynthia - As a Catholic, can I listen to Evangelicals? David - Relevant Radio has helped my life and marriage Patrick shares a survey that reveals that 42% of Gen Z diagnosed with a mental health condition

Patrick answers listener questions about Opus Dei, plenary indulgences, and he talks with a mom who shares how her son’s anxiety was helped by going to confession Patrick - My 17-year-old son was having anxiety and going to counseling. We started going to church and he got to confession and it’s helped a lot. Mary Ann - What is Opus Dei and when did it start? “Ordinary Work, Extraordinary Grace: My Spiritual Journey in Opus Dei” by Scott Hahn Patrick responds to an email from a Catholic who feels alone because his family isn’t Catholic Lisa - Did the Pope this year extend the indulgence that you can get through November? Can you get a plenary indulgence for going to Mass? Lynn - Have you heard of the Diary of Elizabeth Kindle? How do you think we can spread this in our own churches?

Patrick answers listener questions about forgiveness, abortion in the Bible, how can Saint Michael be a Saint and an Angel, and can the wedding party be the only ones to receive the Eucharist at their wedding Mass? Abby - I was sexually abused as a child from my father, and am working on forgiving him. If I die before I can forgive him, will I go to hell? Margaret – I love the Relevant Radio app! Is Enoch 69:12 about abortion? Emma 11-years-old - How is Saint Michael a Saint but also an Angel? Mary - Couple wanted to be the only ones to receive the Eucharist at their wedding Mass. Is that okay?

Patrick starts the show by responding to an anonymous email asking for guidance. She’s a young mom with young children and just entering the Catholic faith. She asks, “How do I know I’ll be a good Catholic when I’m leaving behind the faith I grew up with?” Patrick responds to an email from a woman going through medical procedures that have limited the marital relations between her and her husband. Patrick offers support and guidance. Patrick shares the story of two trapped South Korean miners who survived on instant coffee for 9 days before being rescued Patrick shares the percentages, by country, who say it is necessary to believe in God to be moral

Patrick answers listeners questions, such as: Can someone get to Heaven without going through Jesus; Is there a way for someone with diabetes to fast; and how can we be made in the “image and likeness” of God? Bella – Can someone get to Heaven without going through Jesus? Patrick responds to an email asking how we can be made in the “image and likeness” of God? Judy – My husband died after a long difficult marriage Jenny – We should pray and fast before voting today Joseph - InQUIZition: what do you consider a passing grade? I got about 60 percent right in your book. Janelle - Is there a way for someone with diabetes to fast? Nora – There is a new Netflix documentary called Vatican Girl. What are your thoughts on it? it seems to be painting the Vatican in a poor light.

Patrick answers listener’s questions about non-Catholic’s going to Heaven, can God create someone as powerful or more powerful than He is, did Jesus have any brothers or sisters, and can the souls in purgatory pray for the living? Todd – My wife has no interest in being Catholic. Can she still go to Heaven? Parker 11-years-old - Can God create someone as powerful or more powerful than He is? Irma - My son told me that the bible said Mary had other children than Jesus. How do I respond to this? Patricia – Can the souls in purgatory pray for us? Melissa - Can someone who received the last rights, but otherwise lived a bad life, go to heaven?

Patrick answers listener questions about a priest breaking the seal of confession, what are the 5 non-negotiables regarding voting, and he helps a 13-year-old how to respond when he’s pressured by kids at school about his beliefs Email from John – My old Pastor broke the seal of confession and chastised me in public for my sins. What should I do about it? Patrick recommends “Excommunication and the Catholic Church” by Ed Peters Maria – Question about the steward who was fired and then changed the amount owed to his employer so that he could be welcome in homes when he would soon be put out of the master’s house Ed - I am teaching my granddaughter prayers, but with one of them she doesn't want to say the word “hell.” What should I do? Nancy - Comment on passage about Giving Alms: I think the steward had originally padded the bill and charged them extra so when he learned that he would be fired he adjusted to the proper amount. Florida Bans Puberty Blockers and Transgender Surgery for Minors Chris - Could you talk about the 5 non-negotiables regarding the election coming up? Joshua 13-years-old - Two girls at school ask me why is it wrong to be gay. How do I respond? Shannon – My priest told me that not all priests will give an apostolic pardon, why is that?