The Patrick Madrid Show

Cale Clark fills in for Patrick Madrid and dives into an engaging discussion that crosses time zones and centuries. Starting with a personal anecdote about a memorable reading mix-up at his grandmother's funeral, Cale illuminates the beauty and depth of the Book of Proverbs. (02:25) He transitions into a fascinating exploration of the connections between the Old and New Testaments, highlighting the roles of David and Solomon in biblical history and typology. Discover how these ancient texts foreshadow the coming of Jesus as the new Moses and the greater Son of David, and learn about the intriguing concept of the Queen Mother in both the Old Testament and the context of the Blessed Virgin Mary. Prepare for a journey through scripture that will enrich your understanding of faith and tradition. Gabriel - How would you respond to the reform theology claim that appeals to ultimate authority using circular reasoning? (39:34)

Today, with special guest host Cale Clarke, we tackled a compelling issue out of the Diocese of San Diego. They've just banned homeschool groups from using parish property, while allowing rentals to non-Catholic schools. With homeschooling on the rise—up 130% in San Diego—it’s causing tension. Should sacramental prep be parish-bound, or can it be home-led? Brianna - Can I be the Maid of Honor for my sister who is not Catholic and is marrying a lapsed Catholic outside of the Church? (01:26) San Diego diocese bans homeschool groups on parish properties (10:07) Elisa - I'm a homeschooling mom. My daughter is 10 years old and has down syndrome and it's so difficult to enroll he in schools. (22:10) Thomas – This is going to make this school year much more difficult for us (32:28) Joe - Started at a catholic school and had to leave. My wife and I now homeschool. I think there are points on both sides we need to look at. (39:06) Max (11-years-old) - I am home schooled, and I do most of my activities at the church

Special guest host Cale Clarke explores the profound themes of vanity and meaning as articulated in the Book of Ecclesiastes. He discusses how the pursuit of wisdom, pleasure, wealth, and prestige often falls short in providing true fulfillment and how an eternal perspective, centered on God's commandments, offers the real solution. Plus, you'll hear about some intriguing insights from Bishop Conley on Catholic education and homeschooling. (01:40) Life Hacks (19:45)

Special Guest Host Fr. Matthew Spencer shares his incredible month-long journey in Rome. From attending the general chapter meetings for the Oblates of St. Joseph to an awe-inspiring personal encounter with Pope Francis in the historic Sala Clementina, it was truly unforgettable. We also discussed the mesmerizing art of St. Peter's Basilica and how beauty can be such a powerful tool for evangelization. (00:30) Melissa - Our Daughter has had some children using NFP. Now she wants to do artificial contraceptives to prevent kids. How do I talk with her about this? I used to use artificial contraceptives and am not sure if I should tell her that sin of mine from my past. (19:48) Ronnie - Some of Pope Francis’ teachings are confusing regarding homosexuality. (29:05) Maria - My husband and I were asked to have his brother, who is going through alcohol treatment, to live with us. I was thinking about the golden rule and in the readings that day were about that. Could that be a sign that we are supposed to take in my brother? (40:18)

Special guest host Fr. Matthew Spencer has an enlightening reflection about Adam and Eve's state in the Garden of Eden. He explores the theological concept of "Oh, happy fault," discussing how Adam and Eve's sin led to the possibility of redemption and eternal bliss through Jesus Christ. He delves into the beauty of the Easter proclamation and reflected on the transformative power of God's grace. Email - Are Catholics who don't visit a European/Mexico City shrine second-class Catholics? (01:15) Ted - What is the role of a Deacon? Should they be doing homilies? (04:04) Moses - My son has alopecia and has hair loss. Can he wear a hat in Mass? (11:17) Deacon Sean - I think that Deacons have a role in preaching even though they are mainly called to serve the Church. (22:40) Chris - I think women really should use head coverings in order to show a greater depth of humbleness. (28:54) Email - Can you please tell me why our Apostles Creed says Jesus was “buried”. (37:13) Fr. Matthew talks about death and heaven (28:48) Sue - I was at the NEC and I didn't go to Mass but I was moved by the spirit to go to communion. Was it a sin to miss Mass? (42:21) Ralph - Son with hair issue: I think if he wears a barrette it could help. We wear those in the Knights of Columbus. (48:26)

Special guest host Fr. Matthew Spencer shares his recent dental experience and the unexpected ways pain can transform into a profound reflection on how we handle suffering in our own lives. Fr. Matthew shares insights on how distractions and focusing on good works can help us bear our personal crosses with more grace. He also explores the idea of finding God in everyday moments and the lessons that can emerge from seemingly mundane experiences. So, whether you have a fear of the dentist or you're looking for ways to alleviate life's pains, this episode offers both practical and spiritual wisdom that's sure to stay with you. Gary - I thought that you had to be at Mass before the offertory on Sundays to receive communion. (00:53) Mary - How do I respond to a protestant who says there is proof in Luke 19 that Mary had other children? (07:40) Email – Can non-Catholics receive absolution at confession? (13:36) Fr. Matthew shares his recent adventure in a dentist chair and how what happed to him relates to the wisdom of the Church (18:28) Stan (email) – How can I live with hope in the present moment? (27:07) Nancy - I remember that the readings would make us ready for communion. (30:41) Ann - When you are in labor, you have to think about what is ahead and not on the suffering you are going through at the moment (34:09) Cindy - My great-grandma was involved in magic. What can I do to remove myself and my family from that? (36:56) Gloria - When you have a newborn, can you miss Mass and if so how many Sundays can you miss? (42:19) Emma - Why can babies be baptized but an older child needs to take classes before being baptized? (45:32)

Special Guest Host Cale Clarke dives into the fascinating world of the Shroud of Turin, exploring its historical journey, the latest scientific evidence, and its significance for Christians. Thousands are lining up at a recent exhibit, showing the immense interest in this ancient artifact. From pollen analysis to the unique imprints on the shroud, this discussion is mind-blowing. Historical evidence points to authenticity of The Shroud of Turin (03:13) Teresa - I was disappointed by the show on Netflix about miracles which said that the Should of Turin was disproved. (35:06)

Special Guest Host Cale Clarke has the phenomenal Jen Fulwiler as a guest. Jen is a stand-up comic, best-selling author, and a former atheist turned Catholic. They dive deep into her incredible journey from atheism to Catholicism, sparked by the love for her child and an encounter with Relevant Radio. Jen shares how she self-produced her comedy tour during the pandemic, her family’s initial skepticism about her religious conversion, and the profound impact of the Eucharist on her faith. Jen Fulwiler, stand-up comic and author, joins Cale Clarke to talk about God, comedy and raising a family (03:39) Nello - Did any of the Eucharistic Miracles have an effect on Jen coming into the Church? (30:03) Julie - When you and your husband were converting. were you debating a lot with each other? (34:40) Carrie - I started following Jen's Instagram and I love what you do. If you ever make it to California, you will have fans. (40:47) Rosemary - I love Jen so much! Something about your voice is so engaging! Your comedy will get my children's attention. (46:30)

Special Guest Host Cale Clarke dived deep into the topic of anxiety, both in our kids and us adults. Cale shared some incredible insights on how smartphone addiction and social media impact our lives, and recommended Father Jacques Philippe’s book, "Searching for and Maintaining Peace." This gem offers profound guidance on finding inner tranquility by turning everything over to God. Remember, apart from Him, we can do nothing. If you're looking to reduce anxiety and embrace peace, this episode is a must-listen. The anxious generation isn’t just kids (17:26) Eduardo – I recently lost my wife and I need help giving her to God. (38:31) Stuart - Trying to find a sense of peace and trust to let it go and let it take its time. (48:19)

Patrick delves deep into the topic of transgender identity, exploring the philosophical and logical nuances behind it. He tackles common rhetorical sleights of hand, discusses the significance of scientific reality, and debates the fluidity of truth versus factual reality. His conversation underscores the importance of grounding beliefs in coherent, tenable philosophies. Cyrus and Dr. Patrick share emails in regards to Gabe’s call from the previous hour (00:42) Nicole’s Mom – Why would man’s word supersede God’s word? (05:13) Colin - Can you explain how to handle the argument that 'trans people exist'? (11:22) Ulises - Can you recommend a retreat center for my mom to heal from physical and spiritual abuse? (20:55) Linda - I am glad you brought up The Walton’s. My kids are raised on them. (24:21) Ruben - Do we need a dispensation for not going to church during a trip or travel? (30:46) Edward - Why didn't John mention the assumption of Mary in scripture? (35:54) Vance - How much reverence do we need to be given to Mary? (40:56) Grizzy - The conversation with the transgender guy reminded me of the time when you were in line and a woman said to you 'abortion is legal, get over it' and you turned her very nicely.

Patrick has a heated debate with a caller who challenges the compatibility of religious beliefs within government and society, especially concerning trans issues. Patrick tackles a myriad of contentious issues, including transphobia, religious beliefs, and the role of these beliefs in government policy. AI can turn your WiFi router into a “camera that can work in the dark attuned for tracking living beings.” (43:00) Dave - I think a good perspective is that we have a lot of wealth and freedom now in work and in our society. I would go to games because of the social element. (08:50) Dave - I would like to plug the Walton’s who you turned me on to and how great of a family they life they have. (12:14) ***Gabe – Your anti-trans messaging is wrong (21:31) Heidi - I think you could have made a few points with Gabe that could have helped. There are many countries that are not backing up trans. (42:38) Paola - Could you talk about how you handled that last call and what debate tactic you used? (46:11)

Patrick delves into a humorous but thoughtful satire that questions the atheist viewpoint on the resurrection of Jesus Christ. He explores why this theory of a hoax falls apart, highlighting the immense risks and gruesome sacrifices the apostles face to spread the word. Even if you're skeptical, understanding these perspectives can enrich your critical thinking. Audio: This is how atheists think Christianity started (03:33) George - The problem with the satire is that the Apostles would have needed to know in advance that they would be killed. (14:48) Email – Why are parents afraid to be parents? (21:06) Piedad – I think parents are attending more games because they are more aware of the need for their kids to have them there, not because of guilt. (39:32) Email – Daycare centers are raising children, so the parents feel the need to go to every concert or game (44:26)

Patrick Madrid had such a touching moment on his show when a sweet little girl named Emily from Texas called in with a really deep question. She asked, "Do babies who die in their mommy's tummy go to purgatory because of original sin?" You could just hear the innocence and sincerity in her voice, and Patrick's response was so kind and thoughtful. He gently explained that no, those babies don’t go to purgatory. Purgatory is a place where souls go to be purified from sins they've committed during their lives, but unborn babies haven't had a chance to commit any sins at all. So, it wouldn’t make sense for them to be there. Patrick then broke down the idea of original sin in a way Emily could understand. He used this really simple analogy: imagine your parents were billionaires (how fun would that be?!) and you were supposed to inherit all that money. But then, because of something your parents did, they lost it all, and even though it wasn’t your fault, you miss out on the inheritance. That’s kind of what original sin is like—it’s something we inherit from Adam and Eve, but it’s not because of anything we personally did. What about those babies who don’t get a chance to be baptized? That’s where the Church trusts in God’s mercy. Patrick explained that while the Church doesn’t have an exact answer, it hopes and prays that God, in His love, gives those babies the grace they need to enter heaven. And he reminded Emily that God loves those babies even more than their parents or siblings ever could, so we trust that they’re safe with Him. Patrick's ability to take such a big, complicated question and make it so clear and comforting was really beautiful. Bottom line: We don’t know exactly what happens to miscarried babies, but we have every reason to hope that God, in His infinite love and mercy, welcomes them into heaven. And we can trust that one day, their families will be reunited with them in God’s embrace. If you've suffered a miscarriage, the pain is real, and Relevant Radio is always here to pray with you and support you through the journey of grief. You are not alone.

Patrick answer phone calls about novenas, balancing Catholic life, complying with office pronoun requirements and more. Steve - How do you pray the Surrender Novena Correctly? Can a Protestant pray a novena? Billy email – Trying to discern the balance of Catholic life and include fun? Patrick - You were speaking with the woman whose daughter was dating a girl, and you told her that praying 'extra hard' doesn't make God answer them better. Is that true? Can you clarify? Christopher email – Is it worth debating or following someone on X that sometimes bashes the Church but is mostly a good Christian? Emily -How do I approach a coworker who takes the Lord's name in vain a lot? Marisela email – Do I have to comply with using pronouns at work? Patrick responds to listener about parishes charging a large fee for services like weddings and funerals

Patrick talks about how to respond when someone takes the Lord's name in vain and continues the discussion as to how to best serve parents in CCD classes without mandatory meetings or high payments. Zach - Advice for those who say the Lord's name in vain - I will make the sign of the cross whenever it happened, I would tell them why, and then they would stop using the language in front of me Rosa - I feel like I am burdening God too much with my things. What should I do? Jeff - Kids in CCD class. Where are the thank you to the people who are teaching these kids. I would do CCD for years and got very little thanks. We need more appreciate. Nancy - I have taught CCD for 15 years and I don't understand why we don't look at this from an educational perspective. CCD should include the parent instead of charging the parents. Pat - Fees for Sacraments: I don't think you have it right. I think the fees are low compared to other things like kid’s sports. Joseph - At the end of the Mass before the final blessing there are announcements. That bothers me so what should I do? Crystal email – My kids are in faith formation. Paying fees are okay with me and shows that these programs have value but mandatory parental classes for parents are not okay. Sharon - I am a CCD teacher, and we were given a packet about protecting God's Children. But we find some of it questionable. What should we do about this?

Patrick continues his discussion with callers about the appropriate way to encourage generosity when it comes to covering expenses for sacraments that doesn't turn people off. He also helps explain where unbaptized babies go and the existence of God to kid callers. Emily (8year old)- When babies die in the tummy do they go to purgatory since they couldn't be baptized? Chris - I have encountered Simony myself. I wanted to offer 5 Masses, and they Charted me 50 dollars. I told them that they couldn't 'charge' that it was supposed to be a donation. This is a problem all over the place. Lorenzo - Do you think that people should be able to use the Church Hall for free? Lori - I found out that my 15-year-old daughter thinks she is gay. What should I do? Deacon Tony - People don’t seem to want to donate to the Church but they are willing to spend money on other things. It seems to be a problem brought on by people not wanting to donate. Bob - If you're middle class, why is it okay to stiff God, in terms of payments. We don't do that w/waiters and waitresses? I've been in a finance committee at Church. Ed - What is the definition of the Doctors of the Church? Michael - On the youth formation safe child requirement; I’m a first-time youth minister, did it last week; There’s a basic 12 questionnaires you go through, and it gets through the point across. It was done in 10 minutes. Martha - For the Quinceanera mass, at my parish they charge $500, and there's four of them at the same time. And my grandkids did 1st holy communion, they didn't give certificate until paid $280. Sophia (7-year-old) - How did God exist or came to be?

So, Patrick Madrid dives into an important distinction that sometimes gets people confused: divine revelation versus private revelation. Think of divine revelation as the non-negotiables—what God has revealed through Scripture and apostolic tradition. This stuff is mandatory for us Catholics. You can’t pick and choose. You’re obligated to believe and obey it all because it’s literally God telling us what to believe and how to live. Now, private revelation is different. It’s not required for everyone. It’s like when something supernatural happens to a few people, and it’s legitimate for them, but not binding on the rest of us. For example, Our Lady of Fatima appearing to the three shepherd kids in 1917. That’s a private revelation, even though it was eventually approved by the Church (and hey, that miracle of the sun? 70,000 people saw it!). Patrick emphasizes that while Fatima is approved, it's still not on the same level as divine revelation. You don't have to believe in it, and you certainly don’t need to go on a pilgrimage to Fatima to be a good Catholic. Same goes for Medjugorje—while it seems to be moving towards Church approval, it's not there yet. You can visit, but don’t feel pressured to. You’re not required to follow these private revelations, no matter how devoted some people might be to them. In a nutshell, Patrick warns against making private revelations bigger than they are. They're meaningful, but divine revelation—Jesus, the Bible, tradition—is the main thing. Stay grounded in that!

Patrick tackles an intriguing and often overlooked concept called "custody of the eyes," which is all about training yourself to develop virtues like purity and chastity. Patrick offers personal anecdotes and practical advice. Plus, we'll uncover the unexpected spiritual wisdom tucked away in our show's theme song, "Move," by Saint Motel. Whether you're wrestling with temptations or just curious about how to strengthen your willpower, this episode offers insightful and encouraging guidance. Patrick comments on covenant of the eyes and avoiding temptation (00:44) Shannon - What do you think about the 40-hour work week? Does it take away from family time? (09:47) Barbara - What are your thoughts on Medjugorje? (18:11) E-Frank - Is it okay to marry someone in the Catholic Church if they don't believe in the Catholic faith? A protestant girl wants to marry me but says that my pastor won't let us get married. (37:01) Megan - Should I rebuke someone who sinned or should I be gentle with them? They just left a marriage without good reason. (41:15)

Patrick clarifies the essential distinction between divine and private revelation. Divine revelation—God’s word through the Bible and apostolic tradition—is mandatory for all Catholics. Private revelation, like the apparitions at Fatima, is personal and not required for belief, though church-approved apparitions hold great value. Remember, while pilgrimages can be enriching, your faith doesn’t hinge on visiting such places. Patrick shares the latest news out of Lebanon (00:26) Kip - 40-hour work week: I think 40 hours goes by fast if you are doing what you love! (06:40) Diana - My 15-years-old granddaughter was baptized but didn't make her first communion. There are things that spark her interest, and she told me that she wants to receive communion. I was told it was a three-year process to make first Holy Communion. What can we do? (12:58) John - Medjugorje promoted great things including adoration. (21:59) Patrick explains the difference between Private Revelation and Divine Revelation (38:31) John - I am an Apache, and I wanted to talk about the terrible things going on in the southwest reservations. They are trafficking drugs and hurting the Native American youth. Satan is alive and well in a lot of these places that don't practice the Catholic faith (45:10)

Patrick talks with a caller who shares her story about her daughter leaving the church after a heated confrontation over a medical treatment. He delves into the church's stance on using medical therapies that might also serve as contraception and explores ways to bridge the gap with loved ones who've drifted away. Joshua - Surprise AZ had a council meeting that shut down a mom who was trying to make her case. I thought it was wrong for the mom to keep talking. (01:49) Joe - I am a catechist for teens and we have a church in Mission TX that helps kids who want to do the class in their teen years. It takes about 6 six months. (13:10) Kaden - My CCD program has some requirements which I am not sure about and I am wondering what your take is on it? (17:30) Marsha - A daughter's religion teacher told her she's going to hell because she's taking birth control pills that help with her control her uterus bleeding (35:15) Tom - Is there a requirement of required number of confirmation hours to get confirmed? (44:42)

Patrick Madrid had a great chat with Thomas from Providence, Rhode Island, who was on the fence about joining the Relevant Radio Parish Ambassador program. Of course, Patrick was all-in on helping him out! So, what’s the deal with being a parish ambassador? It's pretty simple. As an ambassador, your main mission is to raise awareness about Relevant Radio at your parish. Maybe that’s putting an ad in the bulletin, hanging a poster, or passing out bumper stickers —you get the idea! Don’t worry, you won’t be left hanging. Relevant Radio gives you everything you need: materials, graphics, you name it. Plus, it’s completely FREE. Yup, no hidden costs. And signing up? Piece of cake. Just head over to relevantradio.com/ambassador, fill out your name and email, and boom—you’re in! So, if you’re feeling called to be a part of it, Thomas (and anyone else listening), go for it!

Patrick dives into an insightful conversation with Pablo, who bravely opens up about his struggles with pornography addiction. Patrick discusses practical steps for finding freedom, including making an act of contrition, frequenting confession, attacking the sin ruthlessly, and practicing custody of the eyes. Remember, overcoming addiction is possible with prayer, perseverance, and the right support. Nancy (email) – A simple trick to boost evangelization (01:22) Patrick can’t drive 55 Pablo - What are some resources to help with sexual addictions? (10:03) Fr. Bill – www.Roadtopurity.com has some great resources to help with porn. (24:54) Jodi - Is Mary allowed to be designated as someone's confirmation saint? (36:31) Michael - When Elijah was taken up in the fiery chariots, where did he go since heaven was not open to us yet? (46:51)

Patrick shares his top recommendation for teenagers seeking a reliable Bible—the Revised Standard Version, Catholic Edition, also known as the Ignatius Bible. Unlike the New American Bible, which has some problematic footnotes and explanations that can introduce doubt, the Ignatius Bible offers a clear, accurate, and modern translation without unnecessary confusion. Remember, having the right tools is key to deepening one's faith. Bridget (email) – What is the name of the drug and rehab center in Florida? (00:35) Kailin (email) – My little sister asked me to be her confirmation sponsor. Do you have any tips on how to be a good sponsor? 06:09) What Bible is best for a teenager? (13:03) Could anyone have committed the sin of gluttony from eating the bread that Jesus gave? Jack - Should we chew the Eucharist or let it dissolve? (45:33) Hour 3 Patrick has a fantastic call from Thomas about becoming a Relevant Radio Parish Ambassador. He discusses the ease and joy of spreading the word about Relevant Radio at your parish, how to sign up, and the supportive materials you receive. It's a fulfilling way to give back and be part of a larger community. If you're passionate about Relevant Radio, head over to relevantradio.com/ambassador to get started.

Patrick has a fantastic call from Thomas about becoming a Relevant Radio Parish Ambassador. He discusses the ease and joy of spreading the word about Relevant Radio at your parish, how to sign up, and the supportive materials you receive. It's a fulfilling way to give back and be part of a larger community. If you're passionate about Relevant Radio, head over to relevantradio.com/ambassador to get started. Viola - Matt 19: 10-11. Why does it say not all can accept this word? What does it mean that you are incapable of marriage because you were born so? (00:49) Audio: Totalitarianism is here. A lady was arrested in front of her 10-year-old daughter for criticizing the mayor of Surprise, Arizona. Free speech is on life support in America. (08:05) Audio: The totalitarian tiptoe with David Icke (14:49) Audio: Reparations - Every white company on Earth owes Black people 5% (23:37) Audio: If you were to give reparations to everyone whose ancestors had been slaves, I suspect that you would have to give reparations to more than half the entire population of the globe. Slavery was not confined to one set of races. (24:58) Mark - There's a common expression in our language about the frog in a pot of water, increasing the temperature bit by bit. This is the totalitarian tiptoe. (29:56) Richard - Following the money was dead on (34:08) Jasmine - I'm a first-generation Latina woman and the fact that the real problem is the root of victim mentality being pushed upon us. (36:34) Thomas - What is a Parish Ambassador? (41:13) Dennis - What do you think about the rainbow flag? (46:44)

Patrick examines the growing trend of young men living lonely lives in our society. He speaks of the terrible impacts of social isolation, the dangers of endless online swiping, and the urgent need for fathers to be proactive in their sons' lives. Audio: Professor Galloway from NYU - The systematic demoralization of young men explained (01:46) Tommy - What should young Catholic men do in this world of online dating? What do you think about adventure being stripped from the modern world? (18:25) Isela - I teach first year confirmation. How can I teach them the importance of receiving confirmation? They only want to get confirmed to get married. (30:38) Bill (email) – Catholic Match is where I met my wife! Virginia 6th grader suspended because he waited too long to report classmate who brought bullet to school (39:32) Nancy - Timmerie said that a lot of the mass shooters were watching porn (49:00)

Patrick talks with a caller with concerns about the act of contrition being discouraged in confession. Patrick emphasizes the importance of reciting the act within the confessional, despite some priests suggesting otherwise. He reassures listeners about the sacrament's validity, explaining the essential elements of a proper confession. Finally, Patrick reminds priests that the penitent's confession is paramount, urging them not to rush this sacred moment. Anna - When do you need to say the Act of Contrition during confession? (02:01) Jose - I was addicted to video games and porn. But now I am married and have a family and was able to overcome the addiction (11:25) Elena - I know I was baptized as a child and confirmed, but I don’t' have proof so I can't receive communion. What should I do? (18:43) Maria - My husband and I hosted a boy from a different country who is feminine. We are having a hard time accepting this. (26:11) Ruth - Are you morally obligated to have a trichotomy? (35:12) Tanya - My daughter was told by one of the boy's at her school that he is gay. I am concerned about the other boys who share a locker room with him. What should I do? (46:59)

Patrick hears heartfelt stories from callers who share their personal experiences about loved ones on respirators and with tracheotomies. Their testimonies remind us of the importance of cherishing additional time with family and the spiritual benefits of being prepared for the end of life. These experiences underscore the value of extending life thoughtfully and compassionately. Rose - My father was on a respirator for 3 months and he was weaned off of the trichotomy. So it can be done. (00:53) Ann - My mother had a trichotomy, and she lived for another 3 years. (05:30) George - Jesus saying who rejects you rejects me seems to be an argument to the magisterium? (07:14) Lebanese hospitals overwhelmed as hundreds upon hundreds of Hezbollah terrorists arrived with critical injuries after Israel allegedly hacked their pagers and blew them up remotely in an incredible operation never seen before (19:21) Donna - My husband and I adopted kids as pre-teens. It was very difficult to work with them because of all of the things they went through in the foster care. I wouldn't change it but it was much harder than we thought it would be. (27:09) Claire - On cell phone blowing up story: You need to make sure this isn't fake news; So many fake news stories against Israel; Be careful what you say, as it may not be true. (35:55) John – What did Pope Francis mean when he said all religions lead to God? (39:05) Vanessa - I'm really frustrated that the LGTBQ element is even in the Catholic Schools

Patrick tackles a heart-wrenching issue: A mother shares the pain of her college-aged daughter showing interest in a same-sex relationship. His advice centers on love and compassion, while standing firm in truth and faith. Kathleen – My daughter is in college and seems to have maintained her faith, but she told us she dated a woman. What should we do or say next? (03:52) Laura (email) – Story about Pearl Harbor Jocelyn (11-years-old) - I have a report about the Catholic Church and one of my goals is to convert my atheist teacher. Can you help give some advice? (24:27) Stephanie - I have a small elementary school and we would like to plan a vacation to Disney Land. However, we are concerned about Satanists who seem to do more things in the month of October. What do you think? (43:43)

Patrick tackles a big question from a concerned mom, Stephanie, about taking her kids to Disneyland amidst the company's controversial issues and the spiritual concerns around October. He discusses whether it makes a difference going another month and the importance of following your conscience in making family decisions. Patrick shares insights on how to navigate these tough choices while maintaining spiritual integrity. Patrick continues his conversation with Stephanie from the end of the last hour. She wants to give her kids the experience of going to Disney Land, but Patrick warns about the LGBTQ agenda the company pushes in its movies and theme parks (00:40) Audio: Disney’s Karey Burke said, "as the mother of one transgender child and one pansexual child," she wants "many, many, many LGBTQIA characters in our stories" and wants 50% of characters to be LGBTQIA and minorities (18:46) AOL’s blatant promotion of the occult (26:02) Raul - Did Jesus ever sin? (29:24) Edgar - What natural sleeping pills do you use? (44:08) Ronnie - When we say the Rosary, we also say the Apostles Creed. Why do we say He rose 'Again' in the creed? (46:56)

Patrick tackles some fascinating questions about attending a Maronite Mass and the validity of their sacraments. He also delves into the history of the Church of England and King Henry VIII's departure from the Catholic Church. Betty - Can I go to a Maronite Mass? (00:35) Barb (email) – My stream got cut off while you were talking about 9/11 Michelle - I came across a Satanist at my Walgreens. (09:45) Paul – Is the location of the tabernacle in a church important? (20:20) Lydia - What does 'Blessed' mean for someone in the process of canonization? (32:19) John – How can I help my friend who is skeptical about the Ascension? (43:01)

Do you have a Miraculous Medal? Do you keep it close by? On The Patrick Madrid Show, Helene from Arizona called in with a great question that you might have wondered too: What makes the Miraculous Medal so miraculous? Here's Patrick's response. A Brief History: It all started with St. Catherine Labouré, a French nun who received a private vision of the Blessed Virgin Mary back in the 1800s. An angel led her to a chapel where Our Lady asked for a medal to be created, showing her image on one side and powerful symbols on the other. This medal was meant to be a sign of love for God and Mary, and a way to ask for graces that people often miss out on simply because they don’t even ask! Countless Miracles: Since then, there have been countless stories of miracles linked to the Miraculous Medal—healings, conversions, and dramatic transformations. The stories are too many to count now, but they all share something in common: this simple devotion has led people to deeper faith in Jesus and His Mother. What's It For? Think of the medal like a wedding ring—a visible reminder of your love and devotion. When you feel it or see it, you’re reminded of your connection to God. Plus, it's a conversation starter! If someone asks, you get to share your faith. That's always a good thing, right?! Want to Learn More? Patrick recommends checking out The Miraculous Medal: Stories, Prayers, and Devotions by Donna-Marie Cooper O'Boyle for some inspiring real-life miracles connected to this devotion. And in case you’re wondering—yes, Patrick wears one too! It’s a simple, powerful way to keep your heart close to Our Lady and Jesus. ⛪

Patrick is our spiritual trainer helping to strengthen our Catholic faith through scripture studies. He talks about effective approaches for addressing atheist challenges, including key books like "Handbook of Catholic Apologetics" and "The Godless Delusion." Equip yourself with solid apologetics and watch your understanding and confidence soar. Cindy - I am looking for a good bible study on apologetics against atheists. (07:24) Patrick recommends “Handbook of Catholic Apologetics: Reasoned Answers to Questions of Faith” Claudia - What weddings can Catholics go to, and which ones can't you go to? (18:39) Lily 6-years-old - We should love everyone right? So, should we love the devil? (38:09) Elizabeth - My friend believes that no one besides Jesus in is heaven. (42:45)

Patrick dives into the miraculous stories behind the revered Miraculous Medal, explores the power of blessed sacramentals, and reinforces the duty of godparents to guide their godchildren in faith. He shares invaluable insights on maintaining devotion and explains why certain prayers should be reserved for priests. Gabriel – Do you think it’s a good idea not to vote in the upcoming election? (00:42) Helene - What makes the Miraculous Medal so miraculous? (19:34) Brian - What is the significance of getting something blessed by a priest? (22:57) Ricky - I have a nephew who was baptized Catholic. Now he is getting “re-baptized” in college at a Protestant Church. (32:22) Portia - In the Bible, it says Jesus rose from the dead. The Creed says He rose 'again'. What does that mean? (43:11) Thomas - Are Catholic marriages that didn’t have a valid priest still valid? (44:19)

Patrick speaks with Claire from St. Louis who shares her journey back to the Catholic faith after years of feeling lost. Together, they explore steps like going to confession, finding support through Relevant Radio, and trusting in God's endless forgiveness. Claire's story is a powerful reminder that no matter where you've been, it's never too late to come home. Claire - "I was baptized Catholic, but I have been away from the Church for a long time. I feel like I have been gone for so long, and I have made so many mistakes that I don't know what I to do. I haven't even been confirmed in the Catholic Church." (04:14) Beth - There is a Protestant pastor who comes to pray at abortion clinics, and he argues with us about the Catholic Faith when he comes by. (17:49) Chris - Is it permissible for a priest to deny a person a Mass? (25:28) Kevin - Why do we pray to the Virgin Mother and the saints? (32:30) Mary - What is the definition of “lesser of two evils”? (42:36)

So, on The Patrick Madrid Show, Jodi from Las Vegas calls in with a burning question about defending the papacy. She's been chatting with her Protestant friend, and he kept throwing objections about the Catholic Church, especially about the papacy. You know, the classic stuff like, "Peter wasn’t really the rock," "The Catholic Church isn’t the true Church," and so on. Jodi, trying to keep her cool, said something like, "If you’re looking for the real Church that Jesus started, shouldn’t it at least be 2,000 years old?" Nice! So, Jodi asks Patrick, "Can we trace all the Popes back to St. Peter?" Patrick explains that there’s a well-documented list of popes stretching all the way back to St. Peter. You could literally just hop on Wikipedia (or a more professional resource like the Catholic Encyclopedia) and check it out. Patrick then briefly mentions some of the common objections about the papacy that Jodi’s probably facing. Stuff like, "Oh, Peter was just a pebble, not the rock," or "What about those bad popes?" He’s heard it all! Yet, he reassures her that these arguments are easy to refute, especially with facts from Scripture and history. He even wrote a whole book on it called Pope Fiction, which tackles 30 of the most common myths about the papacy. Long story short, Patrick’s advice to Jodi? Get the facts straight, whether from his book, online resources, or history, and the arguments will crumble. As Patrick says, if her friend really wants to know the truth, well, there's 2,000 years of Church history waiting for him to explore.

With his extensive experience, Patrick uncovers the historical and biblical foundations of the papacy, emphasizing the unbroken lineage of popes from St. Peter to the present day. He also introduces his book, "Pope Fiction," which addresses 30 prevalent myths and misconceptions about the papacy in detail. As the conversation unfolds, Patrick sheds light on the significance of the printing press, its impact on Protestant disunity, and the accessibility of the Bible throughout history. It's an enlightening discussion designed to equip listeners with robust, well-rounded answers to common challenges against the Catholic faith. Patrick shares emails responding to yesterday’s show dedicated to the memory of 9/11 (03:57) Terry - My daughter has been asked to be in a wedding at an SSPX church. Can she be a witness to that wedding? (11:57) Jodi – Can we trace the popes all the way back to Saint Peter and where is that list? (24:40) Steve - Do you think that it was a mistake to try to win the abortion issue via legislation instead of winning the hearts of America? (38:52) Marie - How can we as Catholics avoid self-righteousness? (48:00)

We hear from Cynthia who shares her family's distressing experience with a serious threat to her grandchildren’s Catholic school in Texas. Patrick Madrid offers compassionate advice, discussing the unsettling state of school safety and suggesting viable solutions such as increasing law enforcement presence and considering homeschooling. Cynthia - My son has 4 children and the 2 oldest go to Catholic school. Right before Labor Day, a former student posted something on Facebook about killing all of the students at the school. He is now out on bail and the school is closed. How can we protect our kids? (03:12) Audio: Springfield, Ohio woman says homeless Haitians are trying to camp out on her front yard, says she “wants out of this town. I have men that cannot speak English in my front yard, screaming at me, throwing mattresses in my front yard.” (15:23) Audio: Heartbreaking testimony from a Springfield, Ohio resident reflects on how the city she knew as a little girl has changed, now feeling overrun by Haitian immigrants who, she says, show little respect for American customs or culture (17:33) Christine - Catholic Charities contributes to the migration surge. Minnesota had issues with Samoans who moved to the area. They are trying to make us assimilate to their culture. (41:42)

Patrick navigates complex moral issues, unpacks theological questions, and offers practical guidance for everyday life—all through the lens of Catholic teaching. Whether delving into scripture or discussing modern societal dilemmas, each episode invites listeners to deepen their understanding and grow in their spiritual journey. Tune in and be inspired to live a faith-filled, impactful life. Sharon – There is a solution to what’s happening in Ohio. We need to be able to communicate with them. (02:11) Tom - In order to save the nation, we should pray 54-day Rosary Novena Larry - Abortion: There are consequences for our choices and responsibility. (08:27) Kate - I called in last week about a coworker considering surrogacy. I told him your arguments, and he denied everything and said that Patrick's arguments weren't scriptural. Do you have any Bible quotes to help with this? (12:40) Patrick shares a batch of emails that have come in during the show (20:06) George - The scale of the refugees is not about the refugees; it is about bringing so many people to the US. A conservative will never win an election if this happens. (24:25) Mike - Does the Catholic Church recognizes the Egyptian Coptic Church, and is it okay to go to one of their Masses? (31:24) Patrick responds to an email in favor of women having the right to choose to abort their babies (40:22) Tom - I am specialist of immigration and work for the US government. What they are doing is illegal; they are not sticking to the by-laws, and they are totally being ignored. (48:15)

Honoring the Memory While Embracing the Present Today marks the 23rd anniversary of the tragic events of September 11, 2001. As we remember the bravery and loss experienced that day, it's essential to acknowledge how it reshaped our lives and perspectives. Today, The Patrick Madrid Show reflects on the enduring impact of 9/11 through heartfelt personal accounts and solemn remembrances. Here are three key takeaways from this deeply moving episode: Resilience in the Face of Fear: Multiple callers spoke about the immediate fear that followed the attacks, yet highlighted the strength they found in their faith, family, and community. The Value of Remembrance: Guests emphasized that remembering 9/11 isn’t about lingering in sadness but honoring the victims and ensuring such events are never forgotten—paralleling how other historical tragedies are commemorated to educate and unite us. Embracing the Present: Reflective stories shared by callers revealed a newfound appreciation for daily life and family. Many adopted practices of regularly expressing love and gratitude, understanding the fragility and preciousness of each moment. Join us in remembering and reflecting. Show Notes for today: Audio: 9/11 montage (from Glenn Beck) (00:35) John (email) - If, when after reading the 911 Commission Report you felt something did not seem right. you were correct. Steve - Thank you for devoting some time to keeping things solemn and united today. (25:01) Audio: Flight 93 call from flight attendant CeeCee Lyels (30:31) Jude - How do we take the events of 9/11 and not have hatred in our heart? It is a struggle. (32:52) Mary – I worked in the Wall Street area and was often in the World Trade Center (45:56) Cynthia - I was living in New York when the towers went down. We knew one of the people who died in 9/11 and some other friends dodged being in the towers by happenstance. (48:26)

Honoring the Memory While Embracing the Present Today marks the 23rd anniversary of the tragic events of September 11, 2001. As we remember the bravery and loss experienced that day, it's essential to acknowledge how it reshaped our lives and perspectives. Today, The Patrick Madrid Show reflects on the enduring impact of 9/11 through heartfelt personal accounts and solemn remembrances. Here are three key takeaways from this deeply moving episode: Resilience in the Face of Fear: Multiple callers spoke about the immediate fear that followed the attacks, yet highlighted the strength they found in their faith, family, and community. The Value of Remembrance: Guests emphasized that remembering 9/11 isn’t about lingering in sadness but honoring the victims and ensuring such events are never forgotten—paralleling how other historical tragedies are commemorated to educate and unite us. Embracing the Present: Reflective stories shared by callers revealed a newfound appreciation for daily life and family. Many adopted practices of regularly expressing love and gratitude, understanding the fragility and preciousness of each moment. Join us in remembering and reflecting. Show Notes for today: Glen Lewerenz shares where he was on 9/11 (04:15) Fr. Rocky shares where he was on 9/11 (10:26) Sarah - Thank you for playing the clip today. I am 21 and I have never heard anything like that from 9/11 (20:29) Connie - I was a volunteer at Ground Zero to help. (25:01) Shirley - My husband and I had plane tickets to go on vacation to the East Coast. We flew out on the 10th. The hijackers were in the same airport that we went through. (31:45) Preston – I was only 6 years old. It was a scary time. I always thought planes might crash and I was afraid of Muslims (34:41) Muriel - I was in downtown NY and on my way to work (39:57) Alexis – 9/11 caused a huge conversion for me. I worked down at Ground Zero. My brother also was at Ground Zero and it was providential that he was not in the buildings. I got breast cancer later that was related to what happened on 9/11. (45:41)

Honoring the Memory While Embracing the Present Today marks the 23rd anniversary of the tragic events of September 11, 2001. As we remember the bravery and loss experienced that day, it's essential to acknowledge how it reshaped our lives and perspectives. Today, The Patrick Madrid Show reflects on the enduring impact of 9/11 through heartfelt personal accounts and solemn remembrances. Here are three key takeaways from this deeply moving episode: Resilience in the Face of Fear: Multiple callers spoke about the immediate fear that followed the attacks, yet highlighted the strength they found in their faith, family, and community. The Value of Remembrance: Guests emphasized that remembering 9/11 isn’t about lingering in sadness but honoring the victims and ensuring such events are never forgotten—paralleling how other historical tragedies are commemorated to educate and unite us. Embracing the Present: Reflective stories shared by callers revealed a newfound appreciation for daily life and family. Many adopted practices of regularly expressing love and gratitude, understanding the fragility and preciousness of each moment. Join us in remembering and reflecting. Show Notes for today: Audio: 9/11 montage (from Glenn Beck) (02:05) Patrick shares a couple of emails from listeners about their experience that fateful day (05:46) George – 9/11 changed me. I am a Catholic from the Middle East. It confirmed what I already knew about Middle Eastern Muslims (09:52) John - I was at my Job in NJ when 9/11 happened. Several parishioners in our parish died that day. The hijackers had their last dinner at a steak house in our area which is always difficult to pass. (12:33) Thomas - I was 8 years old when it happened. I could see the smoke from NJ when they pulled us out of school. (17:11) Holly – My dad was stationed at the Pentagon, but he was not working that day. (20:19) Audio: CJ Pearson with PragerU about 9/11 (25:03) Joshua - I was in High School, 16-years-old, and I was walking to my biology class. The teacher had the TV on, and she had a son in one of the towers. Because of 9/11, I decided to enroll myself to the military at 17-years-old and then served in Iraq. (31:15) Mike – 9/11 affected the abortion industry. Abortions stopped for the first few weeks. Planned Parenthood had to pay people to get abortions (33:42) Ray - Why are you talking about 9/11 the whole show? (37:19) Paul - I was working in Honolulu during 9/11. I had a colleague who was very happy about 9/11, and it disturbed me. (42:01) Joe - I was living in London at the time. I had just left the Trade Center a few weeks earlier and several people I knew died but others lived (45:32) Cecilia - We arrived from another country that week. It is very important that we keep these memories in our mind. John - I was in Guam at the time and the entire island was shut down for several months. (48:59)

Ever wonder if the Catechism of the Catholic Church is inspired by the Holy Spirit like the Bible? Patrick breaks down the distinction between divine inspiration in scripture and the wisdom found in the Catechism. Get clarity on how God breathes his Word through the apostles, while still allowing their personalities to shine. James (email) – Your advice is so bad that people can take legal action against you. I also think Relevant Radio pays actors to call into the shows (01:36) Dawn (email) – Is the Catechism of the Holy Church inspired by the Holy Spirit? (14:16) Todd - I really appreciate this dialog you are having! We need to pray for this person who emailed in. Mary - My friend's husband has family who are babying and enabling him. (23:37) Mike - How can I talk about the Catholic prohibition against gay marriage to my son? (44:42)

Patrick has a profound discussion about the sacred bonds of marriage and the divine role of Mary as the spouse of the Holy Spirit. He distinguishes doctrines from customs in the Catholic faith, highlighting their significance and divine origin. For an insightful dive into this theological topic, he recommends exploring Pope John Paul II’s encyclical, Redemptoris Mater. Mary - What do you know about the group called Pax Christi? (03:05) Tony - Can I walk my bicycle inside the Church, so it doesn't get stolen? (12:53) John - What are the ramifications of Mary being the spouse of the Holy Spirit? (15:30) James Earl Jones was Catholic (23:17) George - Can you talk about tonight’s debate and the values we should look for as Catholics? (33:35) Jackie - Can a Catholic attend a Jewish Chabad ceremony? (41:56)

Patrick examines life's unexpected blessings with caller Elise. Elise opens up about her emotional journey as a mother of three, soon to be four, and the challenges she’s facing. Together, they explore the beauty and grace in being open to life, despite the trials and societal pressures. Embrace the divine plan, even when it's tough. Your rewards will be great, here and in heaven. Patrick Madrid reminds you to keep faith at the center and see every moment as a part of God’s greater plan. Rachel – James’ email from the first hour has inspired me to donate more to Relevant Radio! I feel like the callers are all part of our extended family. (00:49) Elise - My husband and I have 3 children, and we are going to be having our 4th child. We are scared about how we will juggle this additional member of our family (02:56) Greg - Where does the Catechism address salvation outside the Church? Is Christ the only person who claimed to be God? Is there a consensus to the prophecies that Christ fulfilled? (28:01) Chinto – I praise my wife for being at home raising our seven children and I sell tacos for a living! (37:49) Mike - I just started teaching CCD and I have a bunch of 6th graders. How can I connect with them? I was thinking about an analogy with baseball to help them understand the importance of obedience, which I wanted to run by you first? (42:57) Bob - Back in the 60’s, it seemed birth control was okay. How does one deal with the guilt of using birth control now that we know more about it? (48:25)

Patrick has an insightful conversation with Cheryl, who's looking for resources to help a loved one struggling with addiction. Patrick recommends HopeReborn.org and the Comunità Cenacolo community, a faith-based program offering free support to individuals battling substance abuse. This could be a game-changer for families in need. Cheryl - I have a family member who is dealing with drug problems and needs help. What resource can I point her to? (00:43) Howard - I was in my Church during adoration. I looked up at the crucifix and it was moving slightly. When I looked at Jesus, I saw Him clearly breathing. What do you think it was? (08:53) Patrick shares a couple of times in his life when it felt like he was getting a message from God, but in retrospect he thinks it was just his imagination (15:13) Iram – I became part of a Comunità Cenacolo and it was so helpful for me! Ray - I am struggling with alcohol and going through some bad family issues. How can I stop drinking and deal with depression and family issues? (38:35)

Tracy shares a distressing story about his young daughter's exposure to explicit content sent by an 11-year-old. Patrick explores the ramifications of kids having smartphones, the importance of strong parental controls, and resources like 'Good Pictures, Bad Pictures.' Stay vigilant, aware, and always prioritize your children's safety in this digital age. Deborah - My son is at a rehab center and there isn't a Catholic Church in the area. He says he understands it better than the Catholic Church. What should I do? (00:38) Darren – I travel a lot and sometimes I see people standing when we should be kneeling and the wrong Creed being read (05:32) Kathryn - My daughter is engaged. They are trying to choose a venue that doesn't accommodate the size of the families so they don't want to invite children to the wedding. What should I do? (23:32) Patrick shares an email explaining that there are legitimate reasons for people to remain standing when everyone else is kneeling during Mass (35:18) Tracy - My 11-year-old daughter, who is in a group text, had graphic images of a male on her phone. He kept sending photos on spam. We can press charges on him and I am not sure what I should do? (40:31)

Lucy from San Antonio called in with an inspiring story about the power of prayer and the importance of staying calm in dire situations. Patrick discusses how to offer support to those struggling, including a caller from the first hour named Ray, who is seeking help. Judy - I was pregnant with my 4th baby and I had a nightmare of the devil trying to claim my baby. I was able to keep my baby and built a ranch for others with Down Syndrome. (01:14) Bella - When you were speaking with Ray, I was thankful you had the patience to speak with him even though he was drunk. I have a sister whom I don't know how to help. (10:29) Lucy - Thank you for taking with Ray. I started praying and crying as soon as he got on air. You did a great, I was so impressed! (24:03) Monica - My adult daughter is addicted to prescription drugs. I called a rehab center but my daughter wants to go by herself, but I don't think that will happen. What should I do? (35:20) Ashley - What is the church stand on ESP (Extra Sensory Perception)? Is it okay or bad? (42:23)

Patrick on why confession to a priest is essential, tracing its roots back to Jesus bestowing this power upon the apostles in John 20. He explores the beautiful parallels in Mark 1 with the healing of the leper, underscoring how confession is a means to cleanse our souls and reconnect with the Church community. It's a thought-provoking conversation on faith, love, and the transformative power of forgiveness. Javier – Did Adam and Eve need to eat before the fall? (05:34) Danny - Why do we need to confess to a priest? (08:22) Jared – When God commanded us to honoring our father and mother, was he really saying we need to honor God our Father and Mary our Mother? (22:02) Yesenia - If our parents need to live with us for medical reason, at what point does putting yourself first not honor them because they are difficult to live with? (41:04)

Patrick explores how to honor our parents, heal, and find lightness in letting go.Dealing with difficult parental relationships can be tough, but honoring your father and mother doesn't mean putting them on a pedestal. It's about giving the due respect they deserve, even if your parents have hurt you or done wrong. Forgiveness is key. Release that emotional baggage and find peace. Even if you don't feel the warm and fuzzies, praying for them can be enough. Don't stay in toxic or dangerous situations, but know that honoring them can also mean setting boundaries. Joan - How do you know if a marriage is valid or could be annulled? (00:52) Tom - What if you were the child of Hitler/Mussolini, should you honor them? I say no. Regardless of where you came from, the best way to honor parents is to live a Godly life and bring honor to the family. (22:55) Patrick talks with Cyrus about forgiveness and not carrying the weight of anger and resentment with you (30:58) Diane - Because of Patrick's show, I’m getting married again to my husband in a Church! (40:42) Job - There was a tremendous amount of infidelity on my wife part (who's in the public eye) and I slapped her. My children hate me. We don't have an annulment. I don't know how to approach her. How do I get through to my kids that I'm the good guy? (47:58)

Patrick dives deep into a real-life story of heartbreak, family dynamics, and difficult boundaries. He hears from Mary in Chicago, who shares her emotional journey dealing with an unfaithful ex-husband and the impact on her children. Patrick talks about forgiveness, self-respect, and the importance of maintaining boundaries, especially when dealing with toxic behaviors and difficult relationships. Patrick continues his conversation with Job from the end of the previous hour. He tells Patrick, “There was a tremendous amount of infidelity on my wife part (who's in the public eye) and I slapped her. My children hate me. We are separated but we don't have an annulment. I don't know how to approach her. How do I get through to my kids that I'm the good guy?” (00:38) Mary - My son is cut off from his father. We've been divorced for 30 years. I've not dated, but my ex-husband was a repeat adulterer. How could my son honor his father in this situation? (11:29) Don - I've read recently that many Catholics are not registered to vote in the elections and those registered don't bother to vote. I heard from a priest that it's an obligation for Catholics to vote. Where does this come from? (17:38) John - The NAVY Seals are hunting drug cartels in Venezuela and they withheld last rites from a drug dealer unless he gave up important information. (21:04) Monica - My ex-husband turned 3 of my 4 kids against me. How often does that happen? (31:30) Lynette – My husband wants to separate. He’s not interested in counseling. What can I do? (38:58)