The Patrick Madrid Show

Patrick celebrates St. Patrick's Day by focusing on the life and legacy of St. Patrick himself. Patrick highlights the facts and dispels the myths, emphasizing that St. Patrick was indeed a Catholic. He shares how St. Patrick played a crucial role in bringing Christianity to Ireland. He also addresses misconceptions about St. Patrick's teachings and his connection to the authority of the Church in Rome. In addition, Patrick engages in a discussion on the start of life, considering both philosophical and scientific perspectives with callers.   Patrick shares Saint Patrick’s Prayer and the history of Saint Patrick (3:58) Brad – Does life begin at implantation or conception? (27:28)

Patrick engages in enlightening conversations about faith, life, and the intricacies of human beliefs. He explores how to tackle arguments with philosophical insights, discusses theological nuances like the beginning of life, and interacts with callers dealing with personal and spiritual questions. From revelations and spiritual signs to the importance of maintaining faith when raising children, Patrick covers it all with depth and clarity.   Patrick share’s Barb’s email and reiterates that every effect has a cause (0:32) Ronnie - What Brad is saying is true and not true. We all come from God from beginning of time. We were loved before we were born. (3:22) Audrey - Can people that go to Heaven come back to say goodbye, or is that satanic? (9:14) Cyra - How do we choose proper caretakers from among our children to put in our will? (19:57) Tom - If you commit no mortal sins, do you still have to confess during Lent? (34:00) Eric - Stairway to heaven: You said this song promotes Satan if you listen in reverse. Does this song stain the rest of their music? (38:55)

Patrick kicks things off by exploring the life and legacy of St. Patrick on his feast day, clearing up some common misconceptions about this famous saint. He engages in conversations with callers like Pete from Chicago, who shares his thoughts on rock legends like Ted Nugent and Led Zeppelin, leading to a deeper discussion on faith and music. Patrick offers insightful advice to Ethan from Maine, who is working through the complexities of a mixed marriage while wanting to return to his Catholic roots. Plus, enjoy the humorous take on explaining the Blessed Trinity.   Pete - What about Ted Nugent as a replacement for Led Zeppelin? He has underlying religious messages. (01:15) Rebecca - God can read our minds, but Satan can't. Do we need to pray out loud to the saints? (13:30) Patrick recommends the new movie, “The Count of Monte Cristo” (20:58) Ethan - I am in mixed marriage with Protestant wife. Can I have a dispensation and have my marriage blessed? She doesn’t want to be Catholic. (25:29) Albert - How do I not be judgmental about others? (31:38) Patrick shares a St. Patrick’s X post from Mr.Casey32 (36:27) Audio: St. Patrick's Bad Analogies (40:44) Martha – Is it true that St. Patrick is not Irish? (44:32) Jay – How do I explain to someone that their baby wasn’t really baptized? (46:28)

Patrick explores deep, thought-provoking questions about God's nature, with listeners like Joe and John asking complex theological questions. He also shares heartfelt moments with callers seeking solace after tragic losses, reminding everyone of the power of prayer and community. Plus, he takes a nostalgic look back at past political efforts to streamline government efficiency, sparking lively debate.   Katrina - Could God change the past so that a current addict never did drugs in the past so that person would never have become an addict? (00:56) Audio: 2011 - Obama announces a DOGE department and puts Joe Biden in charge of it (11:30) Dennis - Was God with my son right at the moment of his passing? (22:02) Dave - Is going to a Protestant men's group? What is my responsibility? (33:02) Robert - I also lost my older son. I always pray that the Lord came to him at his passing. (46:16)

Patrick addresses the pressing concerns of education gaps in U.S. eighth graders, highlighting the benefits of Catholic schooling and homeschooling. He examines the moral complexities surrounding sterilization and contraception within Catholic marriages and offers insightful resources that are free to download. Additionally, Patrick explores how social media can rewire your brain and discovers how parenthood can keep it young and agile.   8th graders struggling in reading & math (00:43) John - Can you elaborate on 'being who you are'? How can I know 'who I am'? (06:40) Brian - Is Confiteor optional during the Mass? Is it okay to clap after the choir sings at Mass? (10:07) Study: young parenthood helps the brain stay young (20:02) Sharon - Invalid Baptism: both my daughters baptized in Presbyterian Church. Do they need to be baptized again? Vasectomy: my daughter's husband had a vasectomy. Should I try to educate him on the Church’s teaching? (23:14) Study: Social Media Rewires Your Brain (32:54) Scott – Is there a practice of only saying Sorrowful Mysteries during Lent? (35:01) Tina - How can I present NFP to my husband who has a lot of anxiety issues? (38:39)

Patrick explores the importance of traditional practices, such as the rosary and receiving Holy Communion on the tongue, and how these shape the Catholic faith experience. He also addresses questions about purgatory, discussing its biblical basis and its significance for Catholics. Plus, Patrick shares real-life stories from listeners about living out their beliefs, like finding priests for last rites and dealing with medical ethics in marriage.   Terry (email) - According to a priest friend of mine, it used to be customary to pray the sorrowful mysteries on Sundays during Lent but is not required. (00:40) Gerard - Wife and I had a pretty heavy discussion about conceiving by age of 50. She is still open to life. She is worried about conceiving. Is there reason to abstain from sex after 50? (05:22) Teresa - Is there a priest that you could recommend in Surprise, Arizona? (14:10) Olivia (email) - I thought Holy Water could only be poured directly into the soil. Could you clarify how to dispose of Holy Water when necessary? (18:49) *Anna Marie - Where can we find Purgatory in the Bible? People are saying there is no word 'Purgatory' in the Bible? (20:27) *Mike - Is it improper to receive the host on the hand? (35:49) Kaylee – NFP: I recommend Marquette Method or Sensiplan (41:39) Rita - Purgatory question. How does plenary indulgence fit in with what you are saying? (43:59)

Patrick discusses insights about faith, focusing on miraculous events in Acts chapter 8 and addressing questions on Catholic practices like choosing sponsors at Confirmation. He shares a compelling story of angels assisting St. Isidore and highlights the importance of standing firm in one's faith at work. Plus, Patrick emphasizes how Relevant Radio serves as a unifying resource for Catholics.   Isidore (email) - What does Luke mean when he says the spirit of the Lord snatched Philip away. Did Philip just disappear into thin air? (0:54) Zach (email) – Confirmation and sponsor question (9:24) Sheila (email) – Why did Adam and Eve sin? (13:26) Audio: Sen. Marco Rubio responds to a question about revoking Visas. (25:00) Mary - I have been asked to leave the Adoration Chapel because the space is needed for a meeting. (28:20) LtCol Dan (email) - If I have my niece be the Godmother, and my brother be a witness, it’s not ideal but I believe I’m still following the Church's guidelines on Godparents. If he comes back to the Catholic Church, does he then become the Godfather retroactively? As a witness, does he make the same verbal commitment that a Godparent makes? (37:08) Bob (email) - If Angels are pure spirit with no bodies, how are they doing hard manual labor on farms and plowing fields? (43:23) Jackie (email) - Coworkers mock my faith and I’m not sure how to handle it (45:00)

Patrick talks about the importance of baptism in the Catholic faith, addresses misconceptions surrounding church teachings, and explores the essence of trusting in divine providence when faced with life's toughest challenges.   Anna - Why is the Catholic Church so strict about having godparents and baptism? (3:24) Email - Can a Catholic marriage couple engage in erotic words, looks, gestures, and bodily contact without planning to have marital intercourse? (20:34) Wendy - How did Jesus survive for 40 Days without food and water? (24:46) Joseph – If a priest is unaware that he was not validly baptized, would his priestly functions be invalid? (29:27) Nicole – Our deacon approved that my husband could have a vasectomy. (34:43)

Callers share powerful personal transformations and how faith provided hope in difficult situations. From stories of overcoming crisis pregnancies and medical challenges to relationships marred by betrayal, callers share deeply moving experiences. Patrick emphasizes the importance of trusting God's plan, seeking forgiveness, and finding healing through faith.   Sue - I had cancer and got pregnant (00:58) Andy - I got married to a sex addict and feel betrayed by her and priests who tell her not to tell me about numerous indiscretions. (04:55) Cody - If a person had a vasectomy before marriage, can he get validly married or not, especially if the vasectomy is non-reversible? (09:24) Lucy – Why do older kids have to go through RCIA to be baptized? (13:53) Martha - Abstinence in marriage: before I was Catholic, I had hysterectomy. Should I confess this? (19:44) Mike - I had vasectomy after having 5 children. Do I need to confess every time I’m intimate with my wife? (26:38) Eduardo - I am having a vasectomy reversal. I hope it will come out ok. (33:40) Juanita - What is the book you recommended on the sacraments? Patrick recommends, “The Sacraments and Their Celebration”. What makes something valid? (35:13) Philomena – If a man and his wife are beyond the age of having children, is a vasectomy reversal required? (45:41) Rob - I got a vasectomy reversal. We had two kids which are such a blessing. (47:18)

Patrick explores the captivating area of space exploration and its impact on our everyday lives, from satellite technology to advancing medical equipment. He also touches on the exciting, rapidly evolving developments in AI and how it shapes our future. Plus, Patrick discusses how government efficiency could potentially free up funds to address pressing social issues.   Patrick talks about asteroids. Email – Jordan – I am exploring the priesthood and am attracted to the Father’s of Mercy. Can you tell me more about them? (04:48) Patrick provides an Examination of Conscience for Adults and Teens Patrick talks about DOGE (10:30) Email – Maria asks Patrick to get to different questions. (18:23) Jerry - Wasteful spending on the government: Just like any business you need to make ends meet (23:14) Andrew - Cost of space program: I think you glossed over the number 194 billion dollars. That is a lot of money. (44:28)

Patrick tackles deep questions about the rapid advance of technology and its implications on faith and society. He explores whether our quest with AI is inadvertently trying to play God, discusses the moral dilemmas of scientific advancements, and examines how continuing to trust in divine guidance brings both caution and hope for the future. Plus, he engages with wonderful callers on topics from church wealth to finding a spiritual home.   Email – Meredith - Your discussion about Artificial Intelligence makes me wonder if all of this is about trying to become God. I am impressed but also unsettled about what the real ultimate goal is. (00:47) Anna - I think AI is probably going to cause more problems than benefits. (08:48) Mark - NASA giving money to the poor is as if the Church sold everything and gave it to the poor. It wouldn't help in the long run. (19:03) Billy - My wife has become more devout in the last year or so. we would like to become Catholic. As the husband do I decide which parish we are confirmed in? We have different preferences. (29:22) Nicole - I attended a wedding of a non-Catholic to a Catholic. I assumed there would be a Mass, but there wasn't. Did I do something wrong by going? (39:47) Tim - Selling off items in the Church. My son won a scout badge and we went to the Cathedral. If there wasn't a Cathedral, we would have had no place to go. (44:26) Ezekiel - Can I choose two different Saints for Confirmation? (46:02)

Patrick shares a heartfelt email from a listener grappling with the moral implications of in vitro fertilization and seeking hope and forgiveness within the Catholic faith. This hour also features an engaging discussion with Alicia from Chicago, who faces challenges in a mixed-faith relationship and is contemplating the future of her marriage. Patrick offers fatherly advice, providing insights into the potential hurdles and heartaches of such unions while encouraging listeners to consider the long-term impacts on family and faith.   Susie (email) – I had children using In Vitro Fertilization (IFV) before I knew it was a sin. I love my kids, but I feel guilty over what I did. (00:39) Alicia - I am 24 and in a relationship with a non-Catholic. I asked him if he would come to church with me. He said that he didn't want to be part of my religion. (07:48) Ada (email) - Would the advice you gave to Alicia also apply for a non-practicing Catholic? (21:32) Richard - My wife was a practicing Catholic, and she told me that I need to be a strong Catholic if we were to marry. I would say she should give him that ultimatum. (26:36) Anonymous email - Why did God design it so that we fall in love based mainly on hormones when in the long run our hormones have nothing to do with marital success? (29:11) Michael - My stepdaughter married an atheist man, and they have issues in the marriage and neither go to church anymore. (36:16) Marie - I have been married for 30 years to a non-Catholic, and it is the loneliest I have ever been (43:31)

Patrick explores some compelling topics like the big $400 million funding cancellation for Columbia University due to alarming anti-Semitic activities on campus. He also discusses the importance of receiving grace, even in times of mortal sin, and the nuances behind Catholic traditions like receiving communion while kneeling. This hour focuses on understanding faith, maintaining moral integrity, and standing firm in your beliefs.   Trump administration cancels $400 million in federal dollars for Columbia University (00:51) Rich - If you are in mortal sin, can you receive God's grace? (10:56) Mike (email) - What's the maximum number of times a person can be excommunicated? (14:43) Carol (email) Do you need Retrouvaille? Has your romance faded? Do you argue without reaching resolution? Are you more like roommates than soul mates? Have you grown apart? Is your marriage in crisis? Why wait for a better marriage? (24:25) Linda – Can words manifest into the real world? (27:43) Margaret - Are we allowed to receive communion by kneeling down if everyone else is receiving standing up? (38:40)

Patrick explores the spiritual journey of the Walk to Mary pilgrimage, talks about memorable World War II-themed movies such as 'Little Boy' and 'The Boy in the Striped Pajamas,' and answers questions related to marriage. He discusses the complexities of Mormon and Catholic beliefs and highlights the significance of Catholic Church marriage tenets.   Barbara - Moving Mountains with prayer. Little Boy is one of my favorite movies that talks about this. (01:30) Charlotte (email) – What can I say to your children if they don’t want to get married in the Catholic Church? (07:13) If you are a young person contemplating marriage, Patrick has some words of advice Laurie (email) - My sister has fallen in love with a Mormon guy. Could she get a dispensation to get married in the LDS Church? Patrick explains a little about what Mormons believe. (19:41) Patrick talks about how the Council of Gods in the Mormon belief has nothing to do with Christianity Kim - If you forgive someone who said something rude to you do you need to tell them that you forgive them or can you forgive in your heart. (37:12) Melissa - My daughter is marrying someone who wants to convert. They need to get married quickly. What is the time it would take him to come into the Church? (39:20) Claudia - I am in a group about preventing drug addiction. They always say they want to have a Catholic person to represent. How can I represent the Catholic Church in the terms of drug use. (41:04) Robert - What do you think about the accuracy of the apocryphal writings outside of what the Church Father's wrote. (43:14) David - Why does the Catholic Church promote having a bunch of kids if it doesn't say that in the bible? Why doesn’t the government stop Catholics from having a bunch of kids like they stopped Mormons marrying a bunch of wives? (46:01)

Patrick discusses the Catholic Church's teachings on birth control, focusing on the importance of understanding God's plan for marriage and family. Callers share their thoughts on polygamy, the history of the Mormon Church, and early controversies surrounding these practices. He also highlights the significance of historical context and how it shapes understanding of these issues.   Patrick continues his conversation with David - Why does the Catholic Church promote having a bunch of kids if it doesn't say that in the bible?  (00:30) Maria - Mormons and multiple wives started around the same time as Knights of Columbus was started - joseph smith allowed multiple wives to take over widows. (18:14) Liz (email) – I pray more and more couples learn more about the beauty of NFP. Listen to Janet Smith’s talk, “Contraception Why Not?” (30:54) Henry - Becoming Catholic - What does it mean in a state of grace to make sure prayers are answered? (32:35) Junior - Does the law of the Old Testament still apply since Jesus did not abolish it?  How does that connect to grace? (39:54) Debbie - I received an old Pascal candle - it was donated to thrift episcopal church- is this a problem? (43:13)

Okay, this was an important one on The Patrick Madrid Show. Molly from Tampa called in with an admission: she secretly baptized her niece and nephew because their parents weren’t raising them Catholic. Now she’s wondering: Does she need to go to confession?   Let’s unpack it.     Right Intentions, Wrong Move    Patrick immediately reassured Molly that her heart was in the right place. She wanted her niece and nephew to receive the grace of baptism, which is huge. After all, baptism: -Washes away original sin -Makes us part of Christ’s Church -Gives us rights to the other sacraments   But, and it’s a big BUT: She shouldn’t have done it.    Why Not?   -It went against the parents’ wishes. Parents have the God-given right to raise their kids in the faith (or sadly, not). -It put the kids in a tricky spot. They’re now baptized Catholics but won’t be raised in the Church, won’t receive the sacraments, and won’t have any record of their baptism. -Future complications. If they later want to become Catholic or even marry a Catholic, their missing baptismal record will cause issues.     What’s Next? Damage Control.    So, what should Molly do now? Patrick laid out a game plan:   Step 1: Go to Confession. She should bring this to a priest: not because she was being malicious, but because it wasn't her duty. Jesus knows her heart, and confession will bring peace.   Step 2: Talk to a Priest About Documentation. She needs to speak with her parish priest and explain exactly how she performed the baptism. If it was valid (water + the correct words), the priest might record it in the Church so there’s a record if the kids ever need it.     When Is a Secret Baptism Okay?    Patrick did say there’s one exception: If these kids were in immediate danger of death, she would have been totally right to baptize them, no questions asked. In extreme situations (think: war zones, life-threatening illness), baptism is an emergency action. But in ordinary circumstances? It’s not our call.     Final Thoughts: Trust in God’s Timing    If you’re ever tempted to do a secret sacrament… don’t. (Unless it’s life or death.) Instead, pray for the kids, be a strong Catholic witness, and trust that God’s got this.   

From discussing the essence of sacrifice and good deeds during Lent to exploring unique insights about Daylight Saving Time and health impacts, Patrick covers a variety of topics. He addresses listener questions about spiritual growth and family dynamics, providing heartfelt advice on the path to rediscovering faith.   Patrick from Albuquerque (email) – Comment about sacrificing or taking on something during Lent (00:46) The ‘spring forward’ of daylight-saving time comes with health concerns (07:16) Kyle - There was a tabernacle off to the side in a Church I went to. I talked with the priest about it. What should I have said? (18:30) Molly - I secretly baptized my niece and nephew, now I realize that wasn't the right thing to do. What should I do now? (21:58) Joshua - Lenten sacrifice being different from adding to good things: I feel selfish when I am feeling down because I pray, and it helps. Is that okay? (28:27) The story of Ignaz Semmelweis (37:10) Tony – If Adam and Eve were the first humans, how were more babies made? Why did people live so long back then? (46:45)

A listener shares how embracing traditional marriage roles rooted in scripture has transformed her family life. Patrick discusses the Catholic Church's perspective on these roles amidst cultural shifts and modern feminism. He also offers heartfelt advice for couples seeking to conceive and emphasizes the transformative power of prayer.   Christi - What is the Catholic Church's advice for women being stay at home moms? (01:26) Angela - A friend told me that her parents didn't get married in the Catholic Church and don’t receive communion. What can they do? (10:43) Maryanne - My grandson and his wife are trying to conceive. I can't do the Walk to Mary but is there anything else I can do to help them conceive? (15:02) Juanita - What is the husband’s role and what should he do and not do? (24:41) Richard - Story about Conceiving: After a couple stopped drinking diet products, they got pregnant right away. There are many other things that are unhealthy to take which makes having babies difficult. (36:08) Jeff - What is a good book to give my son to help with Revelation? (37:10) Will - My son wants to live with his girlfriend as brother and sister in our basement. Is that okay? (45:11)

Patrick discusses compelling topics like the challenges of using study Bibles, understanding moral teachings on contraception, and the rising cost of eggs. He addresses the complexity of gender identity in the workplace and the impact of public-school agendas on families. Tune in for Patrick's insightful discussions, listener calls, and practical advice on living a Catholic life in today's world.   Email – You often recommend that Saint Ignatius Study Bible. What about the Navarre Study Bible? (00:35) Amy (email) - No one ever told us that contraception was a serious sin. (02:03) George - What does it mean in the bible when Jesus says, 'I don't know you'? (12:16) Egg prices nearly doubled last year (18:03) Mary - Co-worker is transitioning to a woman and not sure how to approach him (22:03) Carol (email) - I fully agree with the Church's approval and teaching on NFP, but I believe that couples have tended to use NFP when not actually necessary (37:09) Diane - Public school and private schools in MN are indoctrinated due to the governor, and the teachers will lose their license if they don't comply (41:51)

Patrick explores marriage hurdles when your preferred priest isn't available and discusses the power of offering up sufferings in line with Catholic teaching. He shares insights on the role of Our Lady's sinlessness in her merit and addresses debates on overpopulation myths, featuring a surprising take from Elon Musk. Plus, he shares heartwarming listener stories that highlight the joys and trials of living out the faith.   David (email) – My priest is really hard to get in touch with. What would happen if we got married in her Lutheran Church? (00:45) Robert - Since Mary had no sin was her suffering more powerful since she didn't have to suffer for herself. (04:35) Theresa - We lived in Australia when I was getting married, so we got married at a Cathedral since we weren't parishioners at any place in the USA. (13:32) Desmond (email) - Is all seafood okay to eat on Fridays in Lent? (20:02) Bryan - Mary's immaculate conception: Analogy could be, if you are on a ship and you are up against a railing which gives way, and someone reaches out and grabs you before you fall into the water. (22:44) Jessica - I just bought breakfast with meat in it but forgot it was Friday. I am also pregnant, so does the fasting and no meat rules apply to me? (28:01) Trump: U.S. will fast-track citizenship for south African farmers fleeing land seizures (34:15) Audio: Elon: make babies in whatever way possible, including IVF – The planet is not overpopulated, we're underpopulated. (39:21) Sylvia - If I broke a Lenten penance, is that considered a sin? (47:35)

Patrick discusses the spiritual significance of Lent practices, debates the complexities of relationships when faith isn't shared, and shares heartening stories of faith-led decisions.   Cyrusette - Since I don't like meat, wouldn't it actually be a greater Lenten practice to eat it rather than to not eat it? (00:37) Alex - I am on fire for God and I feel like my wife is not so on fire for God even though she brought me into the Church. What can I do for her? (03:01) Randy - How does a Catholic get his marriage validated? (06:25) Carol - Can I make the sign of the cross with my left hand? (12:31) Audio: Reparations: CNN presenter asks British guest about reparations for slavery. She responds by saying YES, Africans enslaved those people so let’s go and get reparations from them and also give some money to the British people who abolished slavery. (17:39) Josephine - Have you seen the movie, “Somebody Like You”? It is about a family that used IVF. What do you think of it? (23:17) Amy - I thought there was supposed to be Holy Water in the Churches during Lent (33:33) Heidi - Getting engaged to a non-Catholic: I broke off an engagement 2 months before the wedding and lost thousands of dollars. I ended up marrying a good Catholic man and have been married for 25 years! (41:17)

Patrick begins by addressing an email inquiry about the significance of having holy water at home, emphasizing its spiritual benefits and symbolic power against evil. Annie seeks advice on whether to support Target during a boycott related to changes in their DEI policies, while Trish inquires about the meaning of a particular Luminous mystery in the Rosary. Young caller Isaac poses earnest questions about self-defense, the timeline of dinosaurs in relation to biblical stories, and ancient civilizations. Patrick provides thoughtful and faith-based insights, making complex topics accessible and relevant. With a blend of scripture and modern-day applications, this hour fosters a deeper understanding of Catholic beliefs and practices.   Trisha (email) – Should we have Holy Water at home? (00:41) Annie - Is it a good idea to shop at Target since the LGBT community is having a 40-day protest against Target? (04:15) Trish - What does the 3rd Luminous Mystery of the Rosary mean? (08:36) Isaac (11-years-old) - Is killing in self-defense a sin? When did dinosaurs show up in Bible. When did people start believing in other gods? (12:22) Ann - I sent my brother “Surprised by Truth” to get him back in the faith. How should I respond if he finds out it was me? (22:46) Bernard (email) - Numerous parishes offer Friday Fish Fry at the buffet level, which makes me think, “shouldn’t we fast today?” (28:05) Nathan - I have a protestant girlfriend and want to understand her perspective better. What can I do? (29:49) Mark - Can you explain Pope Benedict XVI’s interpretation of God’s love for us? (38:11) John - What is the proper way to have a funeral? My stepson is not Catholic and committed suicide. The Family wants to bury his ashes with our mother who was buried in a Catholic cemetery. (44:31)

Mark from Honolulu called into The Patrick Madrid Show with a Lent question that you might have wondered about:   "Can I add something extra for Lent (like good deeds or ministry work) instead of giving something up?"   Sounds appealing, right? You don’t have to suffer through black coffee and no streaming services... just do extra good stuff!    Patrick’s take? Not so fast. (no pun intended)   He explains that this whole "just add something" idea actually became trendy in the ‘90s. Lent is about self-denial; just like Jesus said: "If you wish to be my disciple, deny yourself."    Giving something up is about: Mastering our bodily appetites (self-control) Learning to detach from things we like Deepening our dependence on God   So, bottom line? Adding good deeds = Good  Skipping self-denial = Not so good    You can add something extra, but don’t skip the sacrifice. Time to say goodbye to that daily coffee run (or, you know, whatever your comfort is) and embrace the Lent struggle. 

Okay, let’s get real about fasting. Patrick Madrid explains in this episode, and honestly? It’s not as scary as it sounds, especially compared to Jesus’ 40-day fast in the desert. Like, can you imagine?    So, What’s the Deal with Catholic Fasting?   First, fasting isn’t some random rule the Church made up. It’s an ancient discipline that goes all the way back to Jesus Himself. And if He did it, even though He didn’t need to... then yeah, maybe we should take notes.   Fasting is about gaining control over our appetites before they control us. Let’s be honest: we live in a world where skipping one meal feels like the end of civilization. But fasting teaches self-mastery and unites us to Christ in His suffering.   What Are the Actual Fasting Rules?   Ash Wednesday & Good Friday Fasting → One full meal, plus two smaller snacks that don’t add up to a second meal. (No, you don’t need to weigh your food like a bodybuilder.) Abstinence from meat → No steak, no chicken, no bacon.    Fridays in Lent   No meat → But you don’t have to eat fish. (Seriously, where did that myth come from?)   Wait… Can I Have That Lobster Dinner on a Friday?    Technically? Yes. Spiritually? Ehhh. The whole idea is to keep it simple, not turn abstinence into an excuse for a five-star seafood feast.    Why Does This Matter?   Because it’s a tiny sacrifice to remind ourselves that we are not slaves to our desires. It’s a way of saying, “Lord, I want to unite my small suffering with Yours.”   So yeah, fasting isn’t easy. But it’s worth it; if nothing else, it makes you appreciate that Easter ham a whole lot more.      -Fasting = 1 full meal + 2 small snacks (Ash Wed & Good Fri).   -No meat on Fridays in Lent.   -Fish is allowed but not required.   -Keep it simple; don’t turn “sacrifice” into a seafood buffet.   Now, go forth and fast… but maybe don’t plan a Costco trip on an empty stomach.   

Patrick brings attention to the health risks and addiction issues linked to vaping. Patrick shares firsthand accounts from those affected by vaping-related health problems such as collapsed lungs. He explores the appeal of vaping among young adults and highlights marketing strategies that target them.   A new study flags vaping as a bigger health hazard than cigarettes, linking it to dementia, heart disease, and organ failure (00:51) Daylight saving falls out of favor with most Americans (12:57) Karen - Vaping: I own a vape shop. I want to make the public aware that there are a lot of deaths through smoking. I think vaping is a good way to get off of cigarettes. (19:13) Elizabeth - I had a collapsed lung twice in my life, but the doctor was able to fix it both times. (32:16) Mari - I am 21 and all of my friends are addicted to vape, and they also do other drugs. (41:38) Ruben - Can a Deacon say Mass without a priest present? (46:21)

Patrick shares a heartfelt email from a listener grappling with the moral implications of in vitro fertilization and seeking hope and forgiveness within the Catholic faith. This hour also features an engaging discussion with Alicia from Chicago, who faces challenges in a mixed-faith relationship and is contemplating the future of her marriage. Patrick offers fatherly advice, providing insights into the potential hurdles and heartaches of such unions while encouraging listeners to consider the long-term impacts on family and faith.   Susie (email) – I had children using In Vitro Fertilization (IFV) before I knew it was a sin. I love my kids, but I feel guilty over what I did. (00:39) Alicia - I am 24 and in a relationship with a non-Catholic. I asked him if he would come to church with me. He said that he didn't want to be part of my religion. (07:48) Ada (email) - Would the advice you gave to Alicia also apply for a non-practicing Catholic? (21:32) Richard - My wife was a practicing Catholic, and she told me that I need to be a strong Catholic if we were to marry. I would say she should give him that ultimatum. (26:36) Anonymous email - Why did God design it so that we fall in love based mainly on hormones when in the long run our hormones have nothing to do with marital success? (29:11) Michael - My stepdaughter married an atheist man, and they have issues in the marriage and neither go to church anymore. (36:16) Marie - I have been married for 30 years to a non-Catholic, and it is the loneliest I have ever been (43:31)

Patrick explores the challenges and complexities of mixed marriages, highlighting poignant stories from callers who share their personal experiences. From feelings of loneliness and longing for spiritual unity to inspiring conversions into Catholicism, Patrick examines the profound impacts of sharing or not sharing faith within a marriage. By listening to heartfelt advice and powerful lessons from those who have lived through these situations, Patrick shows the role faith has in fostering strong, united families.   Veronica (email) - So lonely. Being married to a non-Catholic. If only someone had told me (00:42) Karen (email) - My husband was Catholic but never went to mass. I found out the hard way, if the father doesn’t go to mass, more than likely neither will the children. (01:54) Jared - I converted to Catholicism for my marriage (08:18) Mike – Mixed marriages are very difficult, and it’s gets lonely (13:55) Ally - Being married to someone of another faith was very lonely and now my kids don't follow the faith. (19:24) Allyn (email) – Sometimes your show makes me sad. I can’t go back and change what I’ve done, but I’m not sure I can listen anymore. (23:46) Mike (email) - It seems you are foreclosing on a chance to save the soul of the non-practicing spouse. (27:24) Eileen – I married an agnostic. I feel like I became more Catholic having a spouse of another faith because of prayer. (31:18) Rita - My understanding of Serbian Orthodox is that there was a split, but they were still in Sacramental communion with the Catholic Church. Why is something wrong with those Churches? (35:57) Linda - Picking the right person in the same faith is really important to the success of that relationship and overall happiness. God should be in the marriage (40:49) Deanne – The Salt and Light Book that helped me. It’s about a Saint who converted her husband after death through her diary. (43:59) Dave - I was a Jehovah's Witnesses, and I converted. I will be married in a couple months! (46:10)

Patrick explores the traditions and disciplines of Ash Wednesday, and he highlights the significance of the day and its connection to ancient practices rooted in the time of the apostles. With engaging insights and relatable anecdotes, Patrick discusses the biblical basis for fasting, drawing parallels between Jesus' 40 days in the desert and his listeners' own Lenten journeys. He highlights the importance of mastering bodily appetites and embracing the spirit of mortification through abstinence. Patrick also addresses various inquiries from listeners, including questions about Communion, fasting while sick, and the tradition of giving something up for Lent.   Today is Ash Wednesday. Remember you are dust, and to dust you shall return. (00:33) What does Fasting mean for Catholics? (04:46) Thomas - I can't go to confession on a regular basis. Can I make an act of contrition and take communion if I resolve to go to confession when I can? (06:02) Sebastian (email) – Is it okay to have protein powder during days of abstinence? (19:37) Michael - Does someone who is sick still need fast today? (30:28) Richard - I stopped going to Communion because I got married to someone else after divorcing a woman. How can I get back to communion? (34:39) Mark (email) – Can I add things, instead of abstaining from something, during Lent? (46:26)

Beginning with enlightening listeners about the traditions and flexibility related to fasting on Ash Wednesday, Patrick addresses common misconceptions and encourages personal devotion. The conversation shifts towards a debate surrounding the relaxing of Lenten disciplines on Sundays, offering clarity and dispelling misunderstandings tied to the observance of Lent. Patrick then discusses social media commentary from a religious individual who expresses divisive views on Catholicism and nationalism, offering a measured response and providing understanding on misconceptions about Catholic traditions. Additionally, the episode explores a recent initiative by evangelical Protestants to create a counter-strategy in response to a rise in conversions to Catholicism, where Patrick shares his thoughts on the effectiveness of Catholic apologetics and emphasizes the natural draw of Protestant seekers to the rich theological depth within the Catholic Church.   Don - What does fasting entail for today? Do I need to go the whole day without food? (01:13) Melody - Can you relax your penances on Sundays in Lent? (02:29) Patrick responds to a viral X post that states: “America is a Protestant nation… If you don’t like this, leave our country.” (07:08) Evangelicals call for strategy to counter rising Protestant conversions to Catholicism (20:48) Ben - Should I remove the ashes I received this morning if I go to another Mass on later today? (36:47) Felipe - Where do we get the ashes for Ash Wednesday? Why do we have the dating system that we have? (38:49) Mary – Is it okay for a lay person to administer the Ashes? (47:00)

Patrick addresses a range of topics and heartfelt stories from callers around the country. The episode kicks off with Stuart from Bakersfield sharing his transformative journey from Protestantism to Catholicism, encouraged by influential Catholic literature and figures like Patrick Madrid himself. Later, a perplexed godfather, David, seeks Patrick's advice about his godson's planned wedding in a non-Catholic church. This conversation leads to a discussion about the significance of maintaining Catholic traditions and understanding invalid marriage. Amid these spiritually enriching stories, Patrick also answers listeners' questions about the meaning of Ash Wednesday, the differences between sacraments and sacramentals, and resources for teaching young children about Lent.   Stuart - Thank you Patrick for helping me come into the Catholic Church! (00:36) David - My godson is getting married in an Episcopal Church by a Presbyterian minister. How can I convince him to get his marriage blessed by a priest? (08:52) Leeann – The Scott Hahn video converted me and I read Surprised By Truth. I'm Catholic now! (20:38) Patrick answers a bunch of emails questions, including Bridget’s question: Can I throw away last years’ palms? (25:03) Marissa (email) – How should I explain to my 9-year-old about how babies are born? (36:21) Michael – Shroud of Turin Jessica - What book or website would be good for my 5-year-old about Lent? (42:01) Will - What do you know about the two prophets in Canada?

Patrick engages with a variety of fascinating topics, starting with his responses to listener emails, where he discusses the implications of Christian nationalism and the allure of communism, particularly among young students. Patrick addresses the false promises of communism and shines a light on the pervasive influence of media messaging, with a focus on historical context and current social media trends. The episode also features discussions on ideologies, media manipulation, and dynamics within the Church.   Mary (Email) - Do you think The Communist Manifesto is appropriate for a 13-year-old to read? (00:40) Audio: KGB defector Yuri Bezmenov's warning to America (1984) (11:16) Audio: This is Dangerous to our Democracy (17:29) Audio: Brought to you by Pfizer (24:01) Greg - What is a good book about Confession? I bring Communion to nursing homes and one of the residents is a fallen away Catholic. (27:42) Carmen - I worked for mainstream media and left it about 4 months ago. It is funny because everything is scripted by the producer. We HAVE to follow the script. (36:32) Margaret – I disagree with you. I think the priest should have given her communion. Why does Biden get communion if women in nursing homes don’t get to receive Jesus? (42:59) Kim - If you have been annulled in the Catholic Church 4 times, can you be a Eucharistic minister? (49:02)

Patrick shares the heartfelt journeys and challenges faced by callers who are seeking guidance and wisdom from the Catholic faith. Listen as Patrick addresses Hannah's family's decision to join a more traditional parish and their quest to find a godparent for their son. Meanwhile, David explores the responsibilities that come with being a godfather to a catechumen in a challenging situation. This episode also covers various inquiries about spiritual struggles, vocations, and the impact of curses.   Hanna - Should we continue with OCIA where we are at? We don't want our child to be assigned a godparent from that Church. (00:35) David - Can I be the godfather for a Catechumen who is living with his girlfriend? (08:57) Michelle - My daughter can't eat meat so what should she give up on Fridays in Lent? She has depression and gets depressed during lent. How can she look at it with more joy than sorrow? (17:40) Kip - I think that the person who is inviting people to Mass to take communion should tell them what will happen and why it will happen. (27:24) Mary (email) - I am a widow and am dating a widower. He has invited me to travel with him. All accommodations would be separate. Would we be committing a sin of scandal to travel together? (32:22) John - I was recently asked to be a lector for Mass in the morning. If I am not in the state of Grace, can I still be a lector? (38:27)

Patrick addresses various emails and callers' questions, exploring nuanced topics such as the complexities of ADHD medication in schools, the morality and ethics regarding cosmetic surgeries, and the challenges surrounding marriage and family life. Among the various topics, this hour covers issues of parental responsibilities, the emotional aftermath of divorce, and the impact of societal norms on individual faith journeys.   Joe (email) - Why you don't give equal time to parents whose children were HELPED by ADHD meds? (00:47) Jose - Is it okay to do cosmetic surgeries? Is it okay to marry someone who is unable to have children? (03:51) Audio: Gene Hackman still gets choked up 65 years after his dad left the family (18:39) Ann – I was baptized Catholic but walked away from the faith and had a revenge pregnancy. Can I go to confession? (25:55) Hal - I work in law enforcement and transgenderism has impacted my work and the environment (35:48) Carol – How can you deal with people who say, 'you're not a real Christian'? (43:41) Tom - Can the devil get to you in purgatory or torment you there? (49:52)

Patrick tackles pressing issues impacting our world. From the rising costs in healthcare and the challenges of understanding insurance to the complex dynamics of immigration in Sweden and societal shifts in Europe—Patrick covers it all. Plus, he shares inspiring stories of religious growth among college students and discusses how grassroots change is making waves. Stay informed and inspired through these compelling conversations.   Audio: Gov. Ron DeSantis on ending property taxes statewide (01:48) Audio: Having health insurance makes an ambulance bill twice as expensive (06:13) Elizabeth - Pediatricians require that 14 years old children keep their medical information confidential from parents. (15:38) Andrew - I think the answer for the insurance being more expensive is that hospitals need to charge more for people who are insured. (21:26) Faith - I don't have insurance because I am not able to afford it with my retail job. (29:33) Audio: Ayaan Hirshi Ali says, "Sweden had this wonderful experiment of becoming a moral superpower" (35:02) Audio: Jordan Peterson - "I don't know if you guys in the UK understand how sad it is for us in Canada and the US to watch what you're doing to yourself" (45:32) Richard - In Indiana, we had a Republican who had a bill to stop the death penalty.  (47:34)

Patrick explores insightful questions from callers about preparing for Lent, the sanctity of marriage in the Catholic Church, and discovering joy during life's challenges. Patrick addresses how to reconnect with faith after being away and examines the spiritual significance of choosing between a priest or deacon to officiate a wedding. He warmly approaches the complexities of faith, community, and personal growth with hope and encouragement. Patrick guides listeners on a journey filled with understanding and inspiration.   Hugo (email) - What can I do to get myself in the headspace of penance, fasting, and almsgiving and not feel the sorrows of preparing to enter our Lord’s suffering? (00:27) Sam - How can I come back into the Catholic Church after being away for many years? The Church Fathers helped me to come back. (04:27) Jimmy - I was at a couples retreat and they asked us if we wanted a priest or a deacon to marry us? What is the difference between a priest doing the ceremony and a deacon doing the ceremony? (13:07) Sex Change Surgery Linked To Higher Risk Of Suicidal Ideation And Depression (22:03) Lawrence - I am conflicted about giving to my bishop’s annual appeal because of the immigration services in it. I think there is already enough aid to them. How else can I support my diocese? (25:27) Helen - If two Catholics get married outside the Catholic Church are they excommunicated? (28:21) Nina - Why do you have to say or 'Pray for us' in the litany with all of Mary's titles? Can you pray the Rosary without saying a litany? (30:48) Patrick shares an article about thieves in the UK stealing the 10 Commandments. (36:27) Wayne (email) – My reason for not attending mass regularly is that I don’t share the same political views as the priest. (42:35) Cyrus shares a Twitter post from a Protestant about centering our Christian views on preparing for the Christ instead of the Antichrist. (44:42)

Patrick explores the challenges of facing opposing ideologies about transgenderism. Patrick discusses military policies on transgender service and hears from Anne in Phoenix, who courageously shares her personal story. He wraps up by addressing historical church doctrines and a thought-provoking call about Christian nationalism.   Audio - Michael Knowles on trans insanity (00:38) Audio - You can’t change your sex (05:55) Audio - U.S. Army Bans Transgenders from service (09:22) Ann - My daughter's last wish is to be cremated and wants her ashes to be dropped in the ocean. Is it a sin to follow her wishes even if I know it is? (15:38) Rhonda - Can I receive a dispensation for a wedding outside of the Church? AND can we go to the reception? (23:03) Kathy - My grandfather married his dead wife's sister. Can you help me explain if that was wrong and if you can get married in the church under that circumstance? (29:36) Rob - I disagree with you about the Founding Fathers agreeing on Christianity. (33:52) Bridget (email) – Patrick, I am surprised and saddened that you haven't talked about the Trump/Vance/Zelensky thing. (43:45) Rydan - Why was Christ crucified and if he was killed differently what would our symbol of redemption be? (45:01)

Patrick addresses the serious shortage of air traffic controllers, the fascinating possibility of a supernova, and answers listener calls on spiritual and theological questions. From the challenges of attending Mass at 93 to understanding the misconceptions of penal substitution, Patrick's discussions are both enlightening and heartwarming. Keep the faith and remain curious as Patrick explores these topics and more.   The U.S. faces a severe shortage of top air traffic controllers, with only 70% of positions filled and major airports like Miami, Philadelphia, and D.C. struggling below 60%. (1:40) WOH G64, one of the largest red super-giants known, is undergoing an unusually fast transformation, hinting at an impending supernova. (2:44) Estella - Is it ok for me to abstain from Sunday Mass because I’m 93 years old. (9:38) Steve – Does the Catholic Church teach penal substitution? (18:36) Anna – I have a cousin who is going to get married in the Church. Her boyfriend is considering the Catholic Church, and I want to help him know more. What is the best book? (27:32) Sarah (email) - God says He wants us to be happy. Most of us would say that suffering does NOT make us happy, but should it make us happy? (34:15) James – Can demons enter a church or holy ground by if they are inhabiting a person, or will they be rejected either way? (40:27)

Patrick explores complex questions from listeners about faith, marriage, and Catholic teachings. He discusses understanding the validity of marriage, the scriptural foundations of the Rapture, and the deep theology of purgatory and fasting. Patrick provides insightful clarity rooted in tradition, offering wisdom for personal and spiritual challenges.   Joe - If a Catholic couple knows the birth control rules yet decides to use it anyway, does this make the marriage invalid? (0:38) Jim - How do my prayers help the Holy Souls in Purgatory? (4:18) Chandler (email) – How does 1 Thessalonians 4:16-17 not allude to the rapture? (8:49) John - Can people with Alzheimer’s be dispensed from Confession? (17:34) Susan - Have you ever talked about Myers Briggs testing? (21:35) Santiago - What happens to babies who are not baptized before they die? (27:38) Tom (email) – Comment about Our Lady of Knock (35:30) Sharon - Why do we fast before Communion? (36:55) Araceli - What are your thoughts about the Litany of Trust? (48:30)

Patrick explores profound questions about Our Lady's sinlessness, addresses concerns about Catholic education, and tackles issues surrounding ADHD diagnoses in children. Through stories from listeners who've faced these challenges head-on, Patrick reminds everyone of the power of faith and perseverance.   Regina (email) - How can Mary be 100% human and never EVER sin? (00:36) Joe – My daughter’s teacher is asking children to pray for the Church to change its stance on same sex marriage. (04:10) Jack – Did Jesus have siblings? (14:05) George – Who are your favorite 3 Catholic Apologists? (20:17) Nicole – Is Waldorf education, ok? (Patrick gives his thoughts on young boys being diagnosed with ADHD and the drugs they are given) (23:40) Annie - My son suffered from exactly what Nicole’s son is going through. Everyone wanted to put my kid on drugs, but I didn’t. Now he flies for the Fed-Ex! (36:38) Maria - My son was labelled with ADHD in 3rd grade. I put him in a STEM school. He got through this and graduated with honors. (40:28) Christine - Had my husband been young in this age he would have been diagnosed with ADHD. It’s a cross for parents, but I think it can be a blessing too. (42:50) Jim - It seems that Church frowns on senior marriage if you can't procreate. (46:39)

Okay, so on this episode of The Patrick Madrid Show, we get a look into the virtue of hope. A caller named Matt from Columbus, NJ, kicks things off by saying that a lot of Catholics don’t really get what hope actually is. Honestly, he’s onto something.   What’s Hope, Really?    Most people think of hope like: I hope the weather’s nice tomorrow, or I hope my team wins. But biblical, theological hope is different. The Catechism (CCC 1817) lays it out:   Hope is the virtue by which we desire heaven, trusting not in ourselves, but in God’s promises and His grace to get us there.   Basically, it’s not a shaky, fingers-crossed kind of thing; it’s a confident expectation in God’s faithfulness.    So… Can Catholics Be Sure They’re Going to Heaven?    Matt brings up a great point here. He adds that if you ask a Catholic, “Are you going to heaven?” they’ll respond with, “Uh… I hope so?”, but with a tone of doubt. That’s a problem. Because hope isn’t uncertainty; it’s trust.   Patrick brings in St. Paul as Exhibit A. Paul talks about winning the race and fighting the good fight; he expects heaven, but he also knows he has to persevere to the end. We don’t “earn” salvation (we need grace!), but we cooperate with it.   So, the Catholic answer isn’t “I know I’m going to heaven, no doubt” (we’re not into that Once Saved, Always Saved mindset), but it’s also not “I have no idea”. Instead, it’s:   -I trust in God’s promises   -I know He’ll give me the grace to get there   -But I also know I have free will and need to stay faithful   Hope vs. Despair & Presumption    Patrick also covers the two big dangers that wreck hope:   Despair: Thinking, I’m too far gone, I’ll never be saved. That’s a lie; God’s mercy is bigger than any sin. Never stop hoping! Presumption: Thinking, I don’t need to do anything, I’m automatically saved. This is also wrong; Jesus literally tells us to persevere to the end (Matt 24:13).   Hope Is Non-Negotiable.    Patrick ties it all together with St. Thomas Aquinas, who says hope is necessary for salvation. You have to desire heaven and expect God’s help. No hope? No heaven.    Moral of the story: Hope is trust in God’s love and promises. So next time someone asks if you’re going to heaven, don’t say “I don’t know” ... say, “I trust in God to get me there.”    Want to level up your hope? Pray for the grace of perseverance, dive into Scripture, and never stop trusting in God’s goodness! 

Ever wonder why Catholics seem to talk about Mary a lot? That’s exactly what Brandon from San Diego asked Patrick Madrid. And wow, did Patrick deliver a solid, scripture-packed response!   Brandon’s Big Question    Brandon is exploring the Catholic faith but has been wrestling with devotion to Mary. He’s come to terms with the idea of praying with saints, but the amount of Marian prayers has him a little uneasy. He described it as a "food pyramid of prayers" where Mary seems to take up, like, 90% of the plate.    Patrick’s Response    Patrick assured Brandon that Catholics do focus way more on God, but Mary has a unique and biblical role. He laid it out like this:   The Bible Is All About Mary She’s everywhere in the Gospels! From the Annunciation to the Visitation to Jesus' childhood, His first miracle (yep, at her request), and standing at the Cross. Even at Pentecost, she’s there. God clearly wanted her to play a huge role in salvation history.    Jesus Honored Mary, So We Do Too Jesus spent 30 years with Mary before even starting His ministry. In John 17, Jesus talks about sharing His glory. If He honors His mother, shouldn’t we?    Catholics Aren’t Worshipping Mary Big misconception. Catholics honor her, just like the angel Gabriel did ("Hail, full of grace!"). Asking for her prayers is like asking your mom for help. Except she’s literally the Queen Mother of Heaven.    Your Perception Might Be Skewed Brandon mentioned hearing a lot of Marian prayers on Relevant Radio, and Patrick gently pointed out that’s just one slice of Catholic prayer life. The Mass, the Divine Mercy Chaplet, personal prayer: all of it is way more focused on God. But Mary has her rightful place too!   Final Takeaway   Mary isn’t competition for God. She’s His masterpiece. If God chose her to be the mother of Jesus, protected her from sin, and made her central to salvation history… well, maybe she’s worth a few extra prayers.    Want to dig deeper? Patrick recommended two books: 📖 Hail, Holy Queen by Scott Hahn 📖 Behold Your Mother by Tim Staples   Brandon left the conversation with a lot to think about, and so do we! If you’ve ever wrestled with this question, what’s your biggest hang-up?   

Patrick discusses compelling insights, such as the big move by In N Out Burger from California to Tennessee and what that means for burger enthusiasts across the nation. He addresses the sorrowful news of Gene Hackman's passing, offering reflections on life, legacy, and true treasures. Further, Patrick explores questions about faith, marriage, and religious devotions, providing clarity and encouragement to those seeking spiritual guidance.   In-N-Out Closing California Office, Opening New Tennessee HQ (1:00) Oscar-winning actor Gene Hackman, wife found dead in Santa Fe home (7:08) Maria Christina – What is Opus Dei? (12:40) Jerry - In Persona Christi. how does the priest become a stand-in for Christ? (23:07) Kevin (email) - Is there a difference in praying, “Father help President Trump make America a Great Again’” and “Father, help President Trump use his power and influence to pass Christ-like policies to solve our complicated issues to restore America to its greatness?” (23:07) MJ (email) – Tithing - Is if it is acceptable to give 5% (net or gross income) to our Parish and 5% to other ‘needs’ like family, St. Vincent DePaul and Pro-life organizations or is the 10% meant to go completely to our Parish? (26:31) Florence (email) – What good news did Jesus proclaim? (29:49) Lauren (email) - How is it fair that a devout Catholic spouse who did not want a divorce, but was not granted an annulment, cannot get remarried in the Catholic Church? (38:13) Osrick - Where is the evidence for Mary's perpetual virginity? (46:10)

Patrick discusses the significance of baptism, the Catholic understanding of sin and confession, and the profound role of the Blessed Virgin Mary. He explores the essentials of these key spiritual themes while seamlessly weaving biblical context and Catholic doctrine. Whether you're curious about religious traditions or exploring the depths of faith, this episode provides encouragement and clarity to enrich your day.   Nicholas – What can I say to a person saying I need to get re-baptized and recommit to Jesus because I didn’t have faith as a baby? (0:42) Scott - How long should I wait to go to Confession if you want to get an indulgence? (17:41) Meredith - What does God think about a priest being gay? (Patrick plays back a call from yesterday’s show after an unfounded accusation about what he said) (24:34) Brandon - You recommended a book, “Rome Sweet Home” a couple of months ago. I have gotten through most of the book, but it seems to gloss over Mary. Can you help? (37:24)

JP courageously shares her experience of being forced to have an abortion when she was 14-years-old. Patrick provides compassionate guidance, emphasizing the value of post-abortion healing resources like Rachel's Vineyard and Project Rachel. This conversation reveals the strength and hope that can be found through empathy and understanding.   J.P. – As a teenager, my mom took me, against will, to get two abortions. Does God understand this? (00:42) Rebecca – How can I help my Lutheran husband convert? (11:06) Miliani - Protestant friend inviting me to a Bible study. Should I go? (15:41) John – My friend is Catholic and has not been to Church in long time. She went to Confession and the priest refused her sacrament and told her to leave. (23:41) Rosa - Is it a sin to get divorced? When Jesus said carry cross does that mean we have to endure a certain situation? (37:49) Megan - Thank you, Patrick, for all the wonderful and compassionate things that you have said. (47:43) Susan - I wanted to encourage JP. I work with Rachel's Vineyard. We will not try to convert her but talk about the mercy of God. (50:21)

Patrick explores the significance of the sign of peace in the Catholic Mass and how it evolved over time. He also discusses the impact of technology on daily life and the novelty of screen-free gatherings. Plus, Patrick addresses ethical considerations surrounding vaccines and their implications for Catholics.   Health and Human Services releases a statement confirming human life begins at conception (01:05) Londoners embrace $12 screen-free nights at offline club? (03:30) Marty - Why did the Angel say that John the Baptist shouldn't drink any strong drink? (12:12) Joann Fabrics, 80-Year-Old Crafts and Fabrics Retailer, Will Close All Stores (18:22) Osrick - When the Bible refers to Jesus’ brethren, they mention James. Who is this James and is he the same one mentioned in Galatians? (25:16) Sydney - The Glory Be prayer: What does it mean 'as it was in the beginning now and ever shall be world without end'? (34:25) Jillian - If there are aborted fetuses used in vaccines? Can Catholics get vaccinated? (36:17) Henry (email) - Is it acceptable and safe to participate in Tai Chi exercises? (43:50) Lisa (email) – Why and when was the Sign of Peace introduced? (45:28)

Patrick explores real questions and offers insightful answers to life's complex topics. In this hour, he examines martial arts in Catholicism, the nuances of Tai Chi and Tai Gong, and how they align with faith. Listeners share their journey, highlighting the importance of aligning spiritual practices with truth.   Alex - Is Tai Chi okay for Catholics to practice? (01:25) Liz - Why do we use lemons to clean our hands from ashes but hand sanitizer before distributing the Eucharist? Our priest prepares the gifts before washing his hands, is that okay? (09:19) Sam - What is a good resource about the Mass and liturgy in relation to the Church Fathers and their teaching? (21:55) Latasha - My friend is studying something like vibrations but I don't know if it is in line with Church Teaching. (26:42) Jerry - Why do Catholics believe the priest is in persona Christi during Mass? Is there a reference and I go to? (39:02) Joshua - Is Aristotelian distinction between substance and accidence related to the gender issue today? (42:33)

Patrick explores deep theological and philosophical questions and has discussions that range from the Aristotelian concepts of substance and accident in relation to gender, to the moral implications of vasectomy and its impact on marriage. A visitor to an Episcopal church raises questions about the church's stance on homosexuality, and Patrick offers a perspective grounded in scripture. Additionally, blending faith with science is addressed, highlighting how they can coexist harmoniously.   Patrick continues his conversation with Joshua from the end of the last hour: Is Aristotelian distinction between substance and accidence related to the gender issue today? (01:00) Katie - What is a good resource for arguing against getting a vasectomy? (11:47) Meredith - What does God think about a priest being gay? (27:58) Joseph – Comment about Dana’s call from yesterday’s show (40:08) Antonio - Did Jesus ask the apostles to bring weapons with him into the Garden? If so, why? (48:55)

Patrick discusses the latest advancements in technology with Elon Musk's Starlink, which promises to improve the FAA networks and enhance air travel safety. Patrick examines the complexities of ethical concerns in religious contexts, like IVF, and how to approach sensitive conversations. He also highlights the variety of religious music, from traditional Gregorian chants to modern praise, while appreciating the taste of Guadalupe Gold coffee that supports communities in Nicaragua.   Starlink Set To Upgrade America's Air Traffic Control System (00:37) Email: I have a godchild who was conceived through in vitro fertilization (IVF). Am I morally obligated to talk to my cousin about this and let her know of the Church's teaching on IVF? (04:48) John - I sing at my parish. What do you think about this song that has a verse 'as Jesus died the wrath of God was satisfied'? (09:33) Harold - I tried the coffee from the Relevant Radio store, and it was super delicious! (19:14) Jillian - Are there other options like 'Catechesis of the Good Shepherd' for younger kids? (26:38) Keaton - Is there ever going to be a push for more modern music in the Church to attract younger people? (30:48) Audio: Is your church Contemporvant? (39:14) Ricardo - Some people like Gregorian Chant, but there needs to be a balance.  It's not that we need certain types of music to be brought in.  We need to create a welcoming environment and put focus on Catechesis. (42:54) Mary Ann - Mass is our worship of God and therefore we have specific masses.  You could have praise/worship outside of mass. (47:48)

Patrick has a spirited debate with Dana, a caller who challenges the historical evidence of Jesus' resurrection. Dana questions the accounts of the apostles and doubts these pivotal historical events. Patrick guides Dana toward the truth by drawing from historical texts and theological insights, offering a well-founded defense of the resurrection's validity. Through this engaging exchange, Patrick encourages listeners to deepen their understanding and reaffirm the foundational beliefs of the Christian faith.   Jayna - Thanks to Patrick and Relevant Radio for helping me become Catholic. (00:54) Marisela - I'm in favor of solemn traditional music, as opposed to guitar and maracas, especially when we're taking the Eucharist. When we're at Mass, I want to feel like I’m at Mass. I’m not there to be entertained. (08:32) Rosy (email) – Going to Mass for the music is demeaning to God (16:15) Jesus (11-years-old) - What happens when you drop the Holy Eucharist? (18:48) Dana - Did Jesus’ apostles doubt his resurrection? (22:59) Maria - I was hospitalized, and the only thing that got me through was Patrick Madrid praying the Memorare (40:49) Josh - What do you think about men having long hair and Church teaching? (45:45)

Patrick explores the mystery of the Eucharist and the nature of transubstantiation. Joined by insightful callers, he discusses how Christ's presence in the Eucharist transcends physical perception, touching on His body, blood, soul, and divinity. Patrick also shares inspiring stories of faith journeys, discusses the role of music in worship, and answers questions on theological nuances.   Glen - Protestants are missing the body/blood and Eucharist. Their altar is simply a stage, and unfortunately, Catholics don't know the difference. (01:24) Rob - I've heard that if you take out the Eucharist from someone's throat that it would not actually be flesh/blood? (06:09) Dan - Why should the devil have all the good music? (11:00) Tom (email) – Is leaving the Catholic Church a mortal sin? (16:31) Teresa (email) – IVF: When does God assign a soul to an individual? Katie - The Director of Faith Formation at my parish is teaching that Jesus is not physically present in the Eucharist. He clarifies that Jesus is substantially present but not physically present. I am struggling to understand his point. (22:58) Carmen - Did Jesus have a Guardian Angel? (37:57) George – How did Jews during Jesus’ time think about reincarnation? (43:12) Susan - When you encourage people to come to the Catholic Church, you use a phrase that goes like this: “Come on in, the water is terrible”. Is that how you phrase it? (48:38)