The Patrick Madrid Show

Listeners are treated to a rich discussion about the traditional Latin Mass, the relevance of Tesla's current issues, and an engaging dialogue on the validity of sacraments across different Christian traditions. Patrick responds to insightful calls from listeners, addressing everything from the spiritual allure of specific Mass traditions to the theological questions posed by non-Catholic Christians. Join Patrick for thought-provoking insights that explore faith, tradition, and the beauty of liturgical expressions, all within the context of real-life listener experiences.   Mike - Traditional Latin Mass: I came to it during Covid. (01:35) Vee – What is the Church’s view of Christians who are not Catholic? Can they be saved or not? (10:26) Marci - Can a Catholic spread the ashes of a non-Catholic? (21:36) Candace - I came across a passage in 1 Cor about speaking in tongues and praying that we interpret what they say. Is that what the Novus Ordo is all about, interpreting the Mass so we understand it? (23:42) Michael (email) – I’ve heard Patrick Madrid speak of the schism between the East and West Churches.  My question is, since the East has separated from the West and no longer look to or follow the Pope, but rather have their own “Patriarch,” how can we still view their sacraments as being valid? (33:26) Tony - I need an implant, and they are using the bones from a cadaver. (41:09) Mary Ann – What does the Church teach about donating your body to science? (42:15) Damon - How can you get dispensation to eat meat on Friday? (44:51)

A caller named Mike from Jacksonville asks the big question: Should Catholics receive Communion on the hand or on the tongue?    Here's Patrick's response...   What the Church Says:   -Traditionally, Communion has always been received on the tongue in the Western Church.   -After Vatican II, some people started receiving on the hand as a kind of liturgical trend. At first, the Church said, “No, you shouldn’t do that.” Yet people just kept doing it, and it became so widespread that eventually, St. Pope John Paul II permitted it to avoid constant conflict.   -In the Eastern Churches (e.g., Byzantine Rite, Eastern Orthodox), receiving in the hand is unthinkable. Communion is always spooned directly into the mouth, and the idea of touching the Eucharist with your hands is considered outrageous.   What’s Allowed Now:   -The Church officially permits receiving Communion on the hand, but the preferred method is still on the tongue.   -If you choose to receive in the hand, it’s recommended to make an extra sign of reverence, like a bow or making the Sign of the Cross.   -Standing is the norm in the U.S., but kneeling is also allowed if you prefer it.   Why Patrick Thinks Communion on the Tongue is Better:   -Hands Matter: Priests’ hands are consecrated as part of the Sacrament of Holy Orders. The rest of us? Not so much. So, there’s a reverence factor there.   -Tradition Matters: For about 1,500 years, the standard practice was to receive on the tongue, kneeling if possible. Sure, there were some places in the early Church where Communion in the hand happened, but that was far from the norm.   -Personal Conviction: Patrick admits he’s in the minority here, but he thinks the traditional way is better because it emphasizes reverence and respect for the Eucharist.   The Bottom Line:   Yes, you can receive Communion in the hand, but if you ask Patrick: on the tongue is better. He thinks most people just automatically receive on their hands because that's how they were raised.

Patrick addresses the complex moral issues surrounding IVF, including a recent legal case from Virginia that raises questions about embryo rights. Patrick discusses the Catholic stance on these matters, emphasizing the importance of understanding and educating others about the Church's views. He reflects on the influence of radical changes within religious communities and their impact on growth. Plus, Patrick answers listener questions on topics ranging from religious practices during Lent to interfaith relationships.   Judge finds frozen embryos are not divisible property in cancer survivor's case against ex-husband Benedict - A friend keeps on leaving and then coming back to the Catholic faith. How can I help him to make the faith stick? (13:24) Email – Is getting married after 2 months too soon? (19:51) Lauren - My old Catholic nun teachers post prochoice things on social media. What should I do? (26:27) Is the Pyramid story trending real? Who knows. (37:19) Janice - I was born and raised Catholic but I was never into my faith until the last few years. My understanding of Lent is that we shouldn't eat meat on Friday's is that true? My dad says otherwise. (39:42) Kathleen - IVF: A family adopted an embryo. It seemed like a good thing which people could do for those embryos. (47:18)

Patrick tackles an array of engaging topics, from the theological significance of Jesus' unfiltered temple moment to whether Mary opens the gates of heaven. He discusses data privacy—highlighting how data brokers have a keen eye on individual habits—and even shares listener stories to bridge gaps in spiritual misconceptions. Plus, Patrick touches on the charismatic gifts beyond religious figures.   Patrick responds to an email from Dennis who makes some false claims about what’s been said on the show (01:07) Rhonda - Was no one allowed to enter heaven until Jesus died on the Cross? (04:52) Kim - Because of the fall of Adam and Eve there had to be a blood sacrifice. Did Jesus do it because he had to, or out of love? (09:03) Jim - What are your thoughts on the Garabandal apparitions? (20:35) Steve - When we say the Rosary, what are the promises of Christ we are praying for? (25:32) Mike - Is my analogy of a smudge for Purgatory and using a spray bottle to wipe it off be a good analogy for Purgatory and Confession? (29:29) Christopher - I am reformed Baptist. You referred to people who don't venerate Our Lady as 'Flat Earthers. I want to defend our view. (34:24) Devin (12-years-old) - If Jesus wants us to love our enemies, why did he destroy merchandise of sellers outside of the Temple? (40:44) Sharlin – My Church had a healing service with a Catholic mystic performing a healing service. (43:33)

Patrick engages in compelling conversations and uncovers the truths that matter as he tackles big questions from faith perspectives on cremation within the Catholic Church to unraveling complex geopolitical issues in the Middle East. He addresses the controversial narratives surrounding Israel and Palestine.   Patrick from Newton Falls, OH – How do I reconcile the Body being a temple of the Holy Spirit with Cremation? (00:38) Joseph - How much detail should I get into when talking about hell with young kids? (08:08) Anna Lisa - My sister wants to become a Muslim. How do I handle this and stay positive? (14:16) Audio: Bill Maher to Chappell Roan – He completely dismantles the superficiality and ignorance of pro-Palestinian supporters and the useful idiots in America (22:08) Audio: Brigitte Gabriel on Piers Morgan: The Truth about Israel and Palestinians (31:42) Audio: An Arab citizen of Israel tells exactly what happened in 1947 (37:15) Audio: Assita Kanko just dropped the Mic big time at the European Parliament. Assita was born a Muslim and has been fighting against Radical Islam and Terrorism for a long time (39:15) Audio: Palestinian Ahmed Fouad Alkhatib explains Gaza situation CBS News (41:19) Darmen - Is it okay to go to a Protestant Bible Study? Is there an online resource about the Bible? (43:40) James - I received a statue of St. Joseph lying down. What does that mean? (47:38)

Patrick Madrid explained why Purgatory is actually a very biblical doctrine, even though the word itself isn’t spelled out in Scripture (kind of like the word "Trinity"... but we all believe in that, right?).   Step 1: Bible Alone? Not So Fast!    Patrick started by calling out the big assumption that everything has to be proven from the Bible alone (Sola Scriptura). That idea is actually unbiblical... and even anti-biblical!    🔹 2 Thessalonians 2:15: St. Paul says to hold fast to both written and oral tradition. 🔹 The Bible itself doesn’t say “go by the Bible alone” (kind of a problem for that argument, huh?). 🔹 Even the list of books in the Bible (the Canon) comes from Church tradition, not from the Bible itself! So, if you believe in the Bible… well, you’re already trusting the Church.   Now that we’ve settled that, let’s talk Purgatory!    Step 2: Purgatory in the Bible? Yup. Right Here.    Patrick points straight to 1 Corinthians 3:10-15: which, when you really read it, sounds exactly like what Catholics describe as Purgatory:   After death, your works will be tested by fire. Some people will suffer loss but will still be saved... but only as through fire. This happens to those who die in God’s grace but still have some 'wood, hay, and straw' (aka, imperfections) that need to be burned away before they enter heaven.   Sounds a lot like purification after death, doesn’t it? That’s Purgatory!   Step 3: What About Judgment?    Some people think we’re only judged at the Second Coming. Nope. The Bible teaches two judgments: Particular Judgment: (Hebrews 9:27): Right after death, you’re judged. Heaven or hell? That’s decided immediately. If you’re saved but still need purification, that’s Purgatory. Final Judgment: At the end of time, everyone gets the final big picture judgment.   Step 4: If I Go to Confession, Do I Still Go to Purgatory?    Hopefully not! But maybe, yes. Why? Because…   Confession removes the eternal penalty of sin (hell). But it doesn’t necessarily remove the effects of sin.   Example: If you rob a bank and later repent, God forgives you. But guess what? You still gotta return the money and maybe serve time in jail. Same with sin... it leaves effects on the soul that need to be purified.   That’s why penance, fasting, and acts of charity are so important! They help purify us now, so we need less purgation later.    Final Thoughts: Purgatory = God’s Mercy    Purgatory isn’t a “second chance”; it’s God’s final cleanup crew to get us spotless before we enter heaven (Revelation 21:27: "nothing unclean shall enter it").   Even St. Augustine and the Early Church Fathers pointed to 1 Corinthians 3 when talking about Purgatory! So, next time someone says, “Purgatory isn’t in the Bible!”: just smile and say, “Let’s read 1 Corinthians 3 together, shall we?”    If you die in God’s grace but aren’t perfect yet, God finishes the job before you enter heaven. That’s Purgatory, and it’s straight from the Bible.

On The Patrick Madrid Show, Cyra from Alberta called in with a tough but crucial question: who should she and her husband pick as legal guardians for their kids in their will? Her top choice is her sister and brother-in-law: loving, family-oriented, and nearby. But there was a hitch: they’re not practicing Catholics.   Her husband, Sebastian, was especially concerned that if their kids ended up in their care, the faith might slowly fade out of their lives: not because of bad intentions, but just because, well, life happens. Cyra, on the other hand, struggled with the idea of choosing someone outside the family.    Patrick’s Advice? Faith Comes First!   Patrick said that faith should be the number one priority when picking guardians. Sure, family closeness and emotional stability are important, but if the guardians don’t actively practice and prioritize the Catholic faith, then there’s a real risk that the kids could drift away from it over time.    Even with the best of intentions, a non-Catholic couple might start strong in raising the kids Catholic, but when it comes to the daily grind: Sunday Mass, sacraments, religious education... things could start slipping. It’s not about doubting their love, but about recognizing human nature.    So, What’s the Best Plan?   If Catholic family members aren’t an option, Patrick suggested looking for strong Catholic friends or community members who would make raising the kids in the faith a true priority. It’s a big decision, but ultimately, the goal is to ensure that the kids grow up knowing, loving, and practicing their Catholic faith.    Get Your Will in Order, For Free!   Patrick gave a super useful tip: check out CatholicLegacy.com, a free service from Relevant Radio that helps Catholics create airtight wills that align with their faith. Because let’s be real: none of us like thinking about wills, but it’s way better to be prepared than to leave things to chance.   If you’re picking legal guardians, don’t just think about love and familiarity... think about who will make sure your kids get to Heaven. 

Patrick tackles the sobering story surrounding Saint Padre Pio and the unsettling rumor about a man’s destiny in the afterlife. He provides clarity, debunking the myth with well-researched facts, and offers guidance on making a proper and sincere confession. He also covers the international crime headlines and warns about the smishing scams spreading across the states.   Patrick starts the show with reading an email with the startling subject line, "Padre Pio said “Your Husband Is In Hell". (00:41) Patrick comments on the 300 deported members of the notorious Venezuelan gang Tren de Aragua into custody of a Venezuela prison (09:53) Southern Baptist denomination is shrinking across the country (20:23) FBI Warns Of Road Toll Text Scam (34:55) Elon exposes 398 million social security numbers — 57 million more than U.S. Population (37:48) Rick - I don’t feel sorry for those who lost their job because of DOGE. I think they are helping our country come back from a bad place. What do you think? (40:48)

Patrick covers an array of topics, from the joys and considerations of adoption to the ongoing debate about the Beatles' influence in music. He addresses listener questions on moral decision-making in music preferences and offers practical advice for handling family challenges. Additionally, he discusses current events, like the effects of federal workforce reductions.   Jude (email) – Is it okay to listen to the Beatles since some of their songs are not in line with church teaching? (03:04) Patricia - How soon should a couple discern adoption? What should they do to take the first steps? (18:35) Lynn - Most people being laid off are getting an eight-month severance pay and Trump is making more jobs for people, so I don't think it is as bad as it seems. (24:05) Mike (email) – DOGE: I think it’s important to actually read about how the firings went down. (35:03) Diego - My 23-year-old brother in the army is deploying soon. We want to visit them but found out that his girlfriend will be going there a day early, should we be concerned that they will be alone together for a day before we get there? (37:37) Pamela – My 41-year-old-son has Asperger’s. He usually loses his job, and when he does he asks me for money. Should I keep giving him money or let him move in if he asks? (41:24)

Patrick gets into a wide range of topics, from personal finance wisdom to the power of prayer in times of adversity. Sharon brings in wisdom from her conservative banker father on financial stewardship. Patrick tackles complex questions on religious practices and highlights the profound impact of patience and prayer in guiding wayward loved ones back home through Juanita's heartfelt story. Plus, he explores the nuances of family planning within a faith-based framework.   Krishna (email) - When we were first married, we conceived right away but just the baby in a motor accident. We failed to conceive after that. (00:32) Sharon - DOGE: It’s about time our government is audited. (02:21) Debbie – The Jimmy Kimmel show posted an offensive video on the Crucifix. What can we do about the video? I wrote to him already and think we should write to people who we know not to watch it. (10:43) Juanita - I waited 18 years for God to return my son after I turned him away. He finally turned his life around. (13:14) Daniel – Why does the Gospel of Matt say, “call no man Father”? (18:40) Chris (email) – Are their spiritual dangers at stadium events? (32:48) Tiffany - Is it licit to fast during NFP? (35:33) Rae - I told my son that I couldn't support him anymore, and he said okay and he did really well for himself. (46:01) Edwardo (email) – I was told my vasectomy reversal was going to cost $200,000. (47:49)

Patrick celebrates St. Patrick's Day by focusing on the life and legacy of St. Patrick himself. Patrick highlights the facts and dispels the myths, emphasizing that St. Patrick was indeed a Catholic. He shares how St. Patrick played a crucial role in bringing Christianity to Ireland. He also addresses misconceptions about St. Patrick's teachings and his connection to the authority of the Church in Rome. In addition, Patrick engages in a discussion on the start of life, considering both philosophical and scientific perspectives with callers.   Patrick shares Saint Patrick’s Prayer and the history of Saint Patrick (3:58) Brad – Does life begin at implantation or conception? (27:28)

Patrick engages in enlightening conversations about faith, life, and the intricacies of human beliefs. He explores how to tackle arguments with philosophical insights, discusses theological nuances like the beginning of life, and interacts with callers dealing with personal and spiritual questions. From revelations and spiritual signs to the importance of maintaining faith when raising children, Patrick covers it all with depth and clarity.   Patrick share’s Barb’s email and reiterates that every effect has a cause (0:32) Ronnie - What Brad is saying is true and not true. We all come from God from beginning of time. We were loved before we were born. (3:22) Audrey - Can people that go to Heaven come back to say goodbye, or is that satanic? (9:14) Cyra - How do we choose proper caretakers from among our children to put in our will? (19:57) Tom - If you commit no mortal sins, do you still have to confess during Lent? (34:00) Eric - Stairway to heaven: You said this song promotes Satan if you listen in reverse. Does this song stain the rest of their music? (38:55)

Patrick kicks things off by exploring the life and legacy of St. Patrick on his feast day, clearing up some common misconceptions about this famous saint. He engages in conversations with callers like Pete from Chicago, who shares his thoughts on rock legends like Ted Nugent and Led Zeppelin, leading to a deeper discussion on faith and music. Patrick offers insightful advice to Ethan from Maine, who is working through the complexities of a mixed marriage while wanting to return to his Catholic roots. Plus, enjoy the humorous take on explaining the Blessed Trinity.   Pete - What about Ted Nugent as a replacement for Led Zeppelin? He has underlying religious messages. (01:15) Rebecca - God can read our minds, but Satan can't. Do we need to pray out loud to the saints? (13:30) Patrick recommends the new movie, “The Count of Monte Cristo” (20:58) Ethan - I am in mixed marriage with Protestant wife. Can I have a dispensation and have my marriage blessed? She doesn’t want to be Catholic. (25:29) Albert - How do I not be judgmental about others? (31:38) Patrick shares a St. Patrick’s X post from Mr.Casey32 (36:27) Audio: St. Patrick's Bad Analogies (40:44) Martha – Is it true that St. Patrick is not Irish? (44:32) Jay – How do I explain to someone that their baby wasn’t really baptized? (46:28)

Patrick explores deep, thought-provoking questions about God's nature, with listeners like Joe and John asking complex theological questions. He also shares heartfelt moments with callers seeking solace after tragic losses, reminding everyone of the power of prayer and community. Plus, he takes a nostalgic look back at past political efforts to streamline government efficiency, sparking lively debate.   Katrina - Could God change the past so that a current addict never did drugs in the past so that person would never have become an addict? (00:56) Audio: 2011 - Obama announces a DOGE department and puts Joe Biden in charge of it (11:30) Dennis - Was God with my son right at the moment of his passing? (22:02) Dave - Is going to a Protestant men's group? What is my responsibility? (33:02) Robert - I also lost my older son. I always pray that the Lord came to him at his passing. (46:16)

Patrick addresses the pressing concerns of education gaps in U.S. eighth graders, highlighting the benefits of Catholic schooling and homeschooling. He examines the moral complexities surrounding sterilization and contraception within Catholic marriages and offers insightful resources that are free to download. Additionally, Patrick explores how social media can rewire your brain and discovers how parenthood can keep it young and agile.   8th graders struggling in reading & math (00:43) John - Can you elaborate on 'being who you are'? How can I know 'who I am'? (06:40) Brian - Is Confiteor optional during the Mass? Is it okay to clap after the choir sings at Mass? (10:07) Study: young parenthood helps the brain stay young (20:02) Sharon - Invalid Baptism: both my daughters baptized in Presbyterian Church. Do they need to be baptized again? Vasectomy: my daughter's husband had a vasectomy. Should I try to educate him on the Church’s teaching? (23:14) Study: Social Media Rewires Your Brain (32:54) Scott – Is there a practice of only saying Sorrowful Mysteries during Lent? (35:01) Tina - How can I present NFP to my husband who has a lot of anxiety issues? (38:39)

Patrick explores the importance of traditional practices, such as the rosary and receiving Holy Communion on the tongue, and how these shape the Catholic faith experience. He also addresses questions about purgatory, discussing its biblical basis and its significance for Catholics. Plus, Patrick shares real-life stories from listeners about living out their beliefs, like finding priests for last rites and dealing with medical ethics in marriage.   Terry (email) - According to a priest friend of mine, it used to be customary to pray the sorrowful mysteries on Sundays during Lent but is not required. (00:40) Gerard - Wife and I had a pretty heavy discussion about conceiving by age of 50. She is still open to life. She is worried about conceiving. Is there reason to abstain from sex after 50? (05:22) Teresa - Is there a priest that you could recommend in Surprise, Arizona? (14:10) Olivia (email) - I thought Holy Water could only be poured directly into the soil. Could you clarify how to dispose of Holy Water when necessary? (18:49) *Anna Marie - Where can we find Purgatory in the Bible? People are saying there is no word 'Purgatory' in the Bible? (20:27) *Mike - Is it improper to receive the host on the hand? (35:49) Kaylee – NFP: I recommend Marquette Method or Sensiplan (41:39) Rita - Purgatory question. How does plenary indulgence fit in with what you are saying? (43:59)

Patrick discusses insights about faith, focusing on miraculous events in Acts chapter 8 and addressing questions on Catholic practices like choosing sponsors at Confirmation. He shares a compelling story of angels assisting St. Isidore and highlights the importance of standing firm in one's faith at work. Plus, Patrick emphasizes how Relevant Radio serves as a unifying resource for Catholics.   Isidore (email) - What does Luke mean when he says the spirit of the Lord snatched Philip away. Did Philip just disappear into thin air? (0:54) Zach (email) – Confirmation and sponsor question (9:24) Sheila (email) – Why did Adam and Eve sin? (13:26) Audio: Sen. Marco Rubio responds to a question about revoking Visas. (25:00) Mary - I have been asked to leave the Adoration Chapel because the space is needed for a meeting. (28:20) LtCol Dan (email) - If I have my niece be the Godmother, and my brother be a witness, it’s not ideal but I believe I’m still following the Church's guidelines on Godparents. If he comes back to the Catholic Church, does he then become the Godfather retroactively? As a witness, does he make the same verbal commitment that a Godparent makes? (37:08) Bob (email) - If Angels are pure spirit with no bodies, how are they doing hard manual labor on farms and plowing fields? (43:23) Jackie (email) - Coworkers mock my faith and I’m not sure how to handle it (45:00)

Patrick talks about the importance of baptism in the Catholic faith, addresses misconceptions surrounding church teachings, and explores the essence of trusting in divine providence when faced with life's toughest challenges.   Anna - Why is the Catholic Church so strict about having godparents and baptism? (3:24) Email - Can a Catholic marriage couple engage in erotic words, looks, gestures, and bodily contact without planning to have marital intercourse? (20:34) Wendy - How did Jesus survive for 40 Days without food and water? (24:46) Joseph – If a priest is unaware that he was not validly baptized, would his priestly functions be invalid? (29:27) Nicole – Our deacon approved that my husband could have a vasectomy. (34:43)

Callers share powerful personal transformations and how faith provided hope in difficult situations. From stories of overcoming crisis pregnancies and medical challenges to relationships marred by betrayal, callers share deeply moving experiences. Patrick emphasizes the importance of trusting God's plan, seeking forgiveness, and finding healing through faith.   Sue - I had cancer and got pregnant (00:58) Andy - I got married to a sex addict and feel betrayed by her and priests who tell her not to tell me about numerous indiscretions. (04:55) Cody - If a person had a vasectomy before marriage, can he get validly married or not, especially if the vasectomy is non-reversible? (09:24) Lucy – Why do older kids have to go through RCIA to be baptized? (13:53) Martha - Abstinence in marriage: before I was Catholic, I had hysterectomy. Should I confess this? (19:44) Mike - I had vasectomy after having 5 children. Do I need to confess every time I’m intimate with my wife? (26:38) Eduardo - I am having a vasectomy reversal. I hope it will come out ok. (33:40) Juanita - What is the book you recommended on the sacraments? Patrick recommends, “The Sacraments and Their Celebration”. What makes something valid? (35:13) Philomena – If a man and his wife are beyond the age of having children, is a vasectomy reversal required? (45:41) Rob - I got a vasectomy reversal. We had two kids which are such a blessing. (47:18)

Patrick explores the captivating area of space exploration and its impact on our everyday lives, from satellite technology to advancing medical equipment. He also touches on the exciting, rapidly evolving developments in AI and how it shapes our future. Plus, Patrick discusses how government efficiency could potentially free up funds to address pressing social issues.   Patrick talks about asteroids. Email – Jordan – I am exploring the priesthood and am attracted to the Father’s of Mercy. Can you tell me more about them? (04:48) Patrick provides an Examination of Conscience for Adults and Teens Patrick talks about DOGE (10:30) Email – Maria asks Patrick to get to different questions. (18:23) Jerry - Wasteful spending on the government: Just like any business you need to make ends meet (23:14) Andrew - Cost of space program: I think you glossed over the number 194 billion dollars. That is a lot of money. (44:28)

Patrick tackles deep questions about the rapid advance of technology and its implications on faith and society. He explores whether our quest with AI is inadvertently trying to play God, discusses the moral dilemmas of scientific advancements, and examines how continuing to trust in divine guidance brings both caution and hope for the future. Plus, he engages with wonderful callers on topics from church wealth to finding a spiritual home.   Email – Meredith - Your discussion about Artificial Intelligence makes me wonder if all of this is about trying to become God. I am impressed but also unsettled about what the real ultimate goal is. (00:47) Anna - I think AI is probably going to cause more problems than benefits. (08:48) Mark - NASA giving money to the poor is as if the Church sold everything and gave it to the poor. It wouldn't help in the long run. (19:03) Billy - My wife has become more devout in the last year or so. we would like to become Catholic. As the husband do I decide which parish we are confirmed in? We have different preferences. (29:22) Nicole - I attended a wedding of a non-Catholic to a Catholic. I assumed there would be a Mass, but there wasn't. Did I do something wrong by going? (39:47) Tim - Selling off items in the Church. My son won a scout badge and we went to the Cathedral. If there wasn't a Cathedral, we would have had no place to go. (44:26) Ezekiel - Can I choose two different Saints for Confirmation? (46:02)

Patrick shares a heartfelt email from a listener grappling with the moral implications of in vitro fertilization and seeking hope and forgiveness within the Catholic faith. This hour also features an engaging discussion with Alicia from Chicago, who faces challenges in a mixed-faith relationship and is contemplating the future of her marriage. Patrick offers fatherly advice, providing insights into the potential hurdles and heartaches of such unions while encouraging listeners to consider the long-term impacts on family and faith.   Susie (email) – I had children using In Vitro Fertilization (IFV) before I knew it was a sin. I love my kids, but I feel guilty over what I did. (00:39) Alicia - I am 24 and in a relationship with a non-Catholic. I asked him if he would come to church with me. He said that he didn't want to be part of my religion. (07:48) Ada (email) - Would the advice you gave to Alicia also apply for a non-practicing Catholic? (21:32) Richard - My wife was a practicing Catholic, and she told me that I need to be a strong Catholic if we were to marry. I would say she should give him that ultimatum. (26:36) Anonymous email - Why did God design it so that we fall in love based mainly on hormones when in the long run our hormones have nothing to do with marital success? (29:11) Michael - My stepdaughter married an atheist man, and they have issues in the marriage and neither go to church anymore. (36:16) Marie - I have been married for 30 years to a non-Catholic, and it is the loneliest I have ever been (43:31)

Patrick explores some compelling topics like the big $400 million funding cancellation for Columbia University due to alarming anti-Semitic activities on campus. He also discusses the importance of receiving grace, even in times of mortal sin, and the nuances behind Catholic traditions like receiving communion while kneeling. This hour focuses on understanding faith, maintaining moral integrity, and standing firm in your beliefs.   Trump administration cancels $400 million in federal dollars for Columbia University (00:51) Rich - If you are in mortal sin, can you receive God's grace? (10:56) Mike (email) - What's the maximum number of times a person can be excommunicated? (14:43) Carol (email) Do you need Retrouvaille? Has your romance faded? Do you argue without reaching resolution? Are you more like roommates than soul mates? Have you grown apart? Is your marriage in crisis? Why wait for a better marriage? (24:25) Linda – Can words manifest into the real world? (27:43) Margaret - Are we allowed to receive communion by kneeling down if everyone else is receiving standing up? (38:40)

Patrick explores the spiritual journey of the Walk to Mary pilgrimage, talks about memorable World War II-themed movies such as 'Little Boy' and 'The Boy in the Striped Pajamas,' and answers questions related to marriage. He discusses the complexities of Mormon and Catholic beliefs and highlights the significance of Catholic Church marriage tenets.   Barbara - Moving Mountains with prayer. Little Boy is one of my favorite movies that talks about this. (01:30) Charlotte (email) – What can I say to your children if they don’t want to get married in the Catholic Church? (07:13) If you are a young person contemplating marriage, Patrick has some words of advice Laurie (email) - My sister has fallen in love with a Mormon guy. Could she get a dispensation to get married in the LDS Church? Patrick explains a little about what Mormons believe. (19:41) Patrick talks about how the Council of Gods in the Mormon belief has nothing to do with Christianity Kim - If you forgive someone who said something rude to you do you need to tell them that you forgive them or can you forgive in your heart. (37:12) Melissa - My daughter is marrying someone who wants to convert. They need to get married quickly. What is the time it would take him to come into the Church? (39:20) Claudia - I am in a group about preventing drug addiction. They always say they want to have a Catholic person to represent. How can I represent the Catholic Church in the terms of drug use. (41:04) Robert - What do you think about the accuracy of the apocryphal writings outside of what the Church Father's wrote. (43:14) David - Why does the Catholic Church promote having a bunch of kids if it doesn't say that in the bible? Why doesn’t the government stop Catholics from having a bunch of kids like they stopped Mormons marrying a bunch of wives? (46:01)

Patrick discusses the Catholic Church's teachings on birth control, focusing on the importance of understanding God's plan for marriage and family. Callers share their thoughts on polygamy, the history of the Mormon Church, and early controversies surrounding these practices. He also highlights the significance of historical context and how it shapes understanding of these issues.   Patrick continues his conversation with David - Why does the Catholic Church promote having a bunch of kids if it doesn't say that in the bible?  (00:30) Maria - Mormons and multiple wives started around the same time as Knights of Columbus was started - joseph smith allowed multiple wives to take over widows. (18:14) Liz (email) – I pray more and more couples learn more about the beauty of NFP. Listen to Janet Smith’s talk, “Contraception Why Not?” (30:54) Henry - Becoming Catholic - What does it mean in a state of grace to make sure prayers are answered? (32:35) Junior - Does the law of the Old Testament still apply since Jesus did not abolish it?  How does that connect to grace? (39:54) Debbie - I received an old Pascal candle - it was donated to thrift episcopal church- is this a problem? (43:13)

Okay, this was an important one on The Patrick Madrid Show. Molly from Tampa called in with an admission: she secretly baptized her niece and nephew because their parents weren’t raising them Catholic. Now she’s wondering: Does she need to go to confession?   Let’s unpack it.     Right Intentions, Wrong Move    Patrick immediately reassured Molly that her heart was in the right place. She wanted her niece and nephew to receive the grace of baptism, which is huge. After all, baptism: -Washes away original sin -Makes us part of Christ’s Church -Gives us rights to the other sacraments   But, and it’s a big BUT: She shouldn’t have done it.    Why Not?   -It went against the parents’ wishes. Parents have the God-given right to raise their kids in the faith (or sadly, not). -It put the kids in a tricky spot. They’re now baptized Catholics but won’t be raised in the Church, won’t receive the sacraments, and won’t have any record of their baptism. -Future complications. If they later want to become Catholic or even marry a Catholic, their missing baptismal record will cause issues.     What’s Next? Damage Control.    So, what should Molly do now? Patrick laid out a game plan:   Step 1: Go to Confession. She should bring this to a priest: not because she was being malicious, but because it wasn't her duty. Jesus knows her heart, and confession will bring peace.   Step 2: Talk to a Priest About Documentation. She needs to speak with her parish priest and explain exactly how she performed the baptism. If it was valid (water + the correct words), the priest might record it in the Church so there’s a record if the kids ever need it.     When Is a Secret Baptism Okay?    Patrick did say there’s one exception: If these kids were in immediate danger of death, she would have been totally right to baptize them, no questions asked. In extreme situations (think: war zones, life-threatening illness), baptism is an emergency action. But in ordinary circumstances? It’s not our call.     Final Thoughts: Trust in God’s Timing    If you’re ever tempted to do a secret sacrament… don’t. (Unless it’s life or death.) Instead, pray for the kids, be a strong Catholic witness, and trust that God’s got this.   

From discussing the essence of sacrifice and good deeds during Lent to exploring unique insights about Daylight Saving Time and health impacts, Patrick covers a variety of topics. He addresses listener questions about spiritual growth and family dynamics, providing heartfelt advice on the path to rediscovering faith.   Patrick from Albuquerque (email) – Comment about sacrificing or taking on something during Lent (00:46) The ‘spring forward’ of daylight-saving time comes with health concerns (07:16) Kyle - There was a tabernacle off to the side in a Church I went to. I talked with the priest about it. What should I have said? (18:30) Molly - I secretly baptized my niece and nephew, now I realize that wasn't the right thing to do. What should I do now? (21:58) Joshua - Lenten sacrifice being different from adding to good things: I feel selfish when I am feeling down because I pray, and it helps. Is that okay? (28:27) The story of Ignaz Semmelweis (37:10) Tony – If Adam and Eve were the first humans, how were more babies made? Why did people live so long back then? (46:45)

A listener shares how embracing traditional marriage roles rooted in scripture has transformed her family life. Patrick discusses the Catholic Church's perspective on these roles amidst cultural shifts and modern feminism. He also offers heartfelt advice for couples seeking to conceive and emphasizes the transformative power of prayer.   Christi - What is the Catholic Church's advice for women being stay at home moms? (01:26) Angela - A friend told me that her parents didn't get married in the Catholic Church and don’t receive communion. What can they do? (10:43) Maryanne - My grandson and his wife are trying to conceive. I can't do the Walk to Mary but is there anything else I can do to help them conceive? (15:02) Juanita - What is the husband’s role and what should he do and not do? (24:41) Richard - Story about Conceiving: After a couple stopped drinking diet products, they got pregnant right away. There are many other things that are unhealthy to take which makes having babies difficult. (36:08) Jeff - What is a good book to give my son to help with Revelation? (37:10) Will - My son wants to live with his girlfriend as brother and sister in our basement. Is that okay? (45:11)

Patrick discusses compelling topics like the challenges of using study Bibles, understanding moral teachings on contraception, and the rising cost of eggs. He addresses the complexity of gender identity in the workplace and the impact of public-school agendas on families. Tune in for Patrick's insightful discussions, listener calls, and practical advice on living a Catholic life in today's world.   Email – You often recommend that Saint Ignatius Study Bible. What about the Navarre Study Bible? (00:35) Amy (email) - No one ever told us that contraception was a serious sin. (02:03) George - What does it mean in the bible when Jesus says, 'I don't know you'? (12:16) Egg prices nearly doubled last year (18:03) Mary - Co-worker is transitioning to a woman and not sure how to approach him (22:03) Carol (email) - I fully agree with the Church's approval and teaching on NFP, but I believe that couples have tended to use NFP when not actually necessary (37:09) Diane - Public school and private schools in MN are indoctrinated due to the governor, and the teachers will lose their license if they don't comply (41:51)

Patrick explores marriage hurdles when your preferred priest isn't available and discusses the power of offering up sufferings in line with Catholic teaching. He shares insights on the role of Our Lady's sinlessness in her merit and addresses debates on overpopulation myths, featuring a surprising take from Elon Musk. Plus, he shares heartwarming listener stories that highlight the joys and trials of living out the faith.   David (email) – My priest is really hard to get in touch with. What would happen if we got married in her Lutheran Church? (00:45) Robert - Since Mary had no sin was her suffering more powerful since she didn't have to suffer for herself. (04:35) Theresa - We lived in Australia when I was getting married, so we got married at a Cathedral since we weren't parishioners at any place in the USA. (13:32) Desmond (email) - Is all seafood okay to eat on Fridays in Lent? (20:02) Bryan - Mary's immaculate conception: Analogy could be, if you are on a ship and you are up against a railing which gives way, and someone reaches out and grabs you before you fall into the water. (22:44) Jessica - I just bought breakfast with meat in it but forgot it was Friday. I am also pregnant, so does the fasting and no meat rules apply to me? (28:01) Trump: U.S. will fast-track citizenship for south African farmers fleeing land seizures (34:15) Audio: Elon: make babies in whatever way possible, including IVF – The planet is not overpopulated, we're underpopulated. (39:21) Sylvia - If I broke a Lenten penance, is that considered a sin? (47:35)

Patrick discusses the spiritual significance of Lent practices, debates the complexities of relationships when faith isn't shared, and shares heartening stories of faith-led decisions.   Cyrusette - Since I don't like meat, wouldn't it actually be a greater Lenten practice to eat it rather than to not eat it? (00:37) Alex - I am on fire for God and I feel like my wife is not so on fire for God even though she brought me into the Church. What can I do for her? (03:01) Randy - How does a Catholic get his marriage validated? (06:25) Carol - Can I make the sign of the cross with my left hand? (12:31) Audio: Reparations: CNN presenter asks British guest about reparations for slavery. She responds by saying YES, Africans enslaved those people so let’s go and get reparations from them and also give some money to the British people who abolished slavery. (17:39) Josephine - Have you seen the movie, “Somebody Like You”? It is about a family that used IVF. What do you think of it? (23:17) Amy - I thought there was supposed to be Holy Water in the Churches during Lent (33:33) Heidi - Getting engaged to a non-Catholic: I broke off an engagement 2 months before the wedding and lost thousands of dollars. I ended up marrying a good Catholic man and have been married for 25 years! (41:17)

Patrick begins by addressing an email inquiry about the significance of having holy water at home, emphasizing its spiritual benefits and symbolic power against evil. Annie seeks advice on whether to support Target during a boycott related to changes in their DEI policies, while Trish inquires about the meaning of a particular Luminous mystery in the Rosary. Young caller Isaac poses earnest questions about self-defense, the timeline of dinosaurs in relation to biblical stories, and ancient civilizations. Patrick provides thoughtful and faith-based insights, making complex topics accessible and relevant. With a blend of scripture and modern-day applications, this hour fosters a deeper understanding of Catholic beliefs and practices.   Trisha (email) – Should we have Holy Water at home? (00:41) Annie - Is it a good idea to shop at Target since the LGBT community is having a 40-day protest against Target? (04:15) Trish - What does the 3rd Luminous Mystery of the Rosary mean? (08:36) Isaac (11-years-old) - Is killing in self-defense a sin? When did dinosaurs show up in Bible. When did people start believing in other gods? (12:22) Ann - I sent my brother “Surprised by Truth” to get him back in the faith. How should I respond if he finds out it was me? (22:46) Bernard (email) - Numerous parishes offer Friday Fish Fry at the buffet level, which makes me think, “shouldn’t we fast today?” (28:05) Nathan - I have a protestant girlfriend and want to understand her perspective better. What can I do? (29:49) Mark - Can you explain Pope Benedict XVI’s interpretation of God’s love for us? (38:11) John - What is the proper way to have a funeral? My stepson is not Catholic and committed suicide. The Family wants to bury his ashes with our mother who was buried in a Catholic cemetery. (44:31)

Mark from Honolulu called into The Patrick Madrid Show with a Lent question that you might have wondered about:   "Can I add something extra for Lent (like good deeds or ministry work) instead of giving something up?"   Sounds appealing, right? You don’t have to suffer through black coffee and no streaming services... just do extra good stuff!    Patrick’s take? Not so fast. (no pun intended)   He explains that this whole "just add something" idea actually became trendy in the ‘90s. Lent is about self-denial; just like Jesus said: "If you wish to be my disciple, deny yourself."    Giving something up is about: Mastering our bodily appetites (self-control) Learning to detach from things we like Deepening our dependence on God   So, bottom line? Adding good deeds = Good  Skipping self-denial = Not so good    You can add something extra, but don’t skip the sacrifice. Time to say goodbye to that daily coffee run (or, you know, whatever your comfort is) and embrace the Lent struggle. 

Okay, let’s get real about fasting. Patrick Madrid explains in this episode, and honestly? It’s not as scary as it sounds, especially compared to Jesus’ 40-day fast in the desert. Like, can you imagine?    So, What’s the Deal with Catholic Fasting?   First, fasting isn’t some random rule the Church made up. It’s an ancient discipline that goes all the way back to Jesus Himself. And if He did it, even though He didn’t need to... then yeah, maybe we should take notes.   Fasting is about gaining control over our appetites before they control us. Let’s be honest: we live in a world where skipping one meal feels like the end of civilization. But fasting teaches self-mastery and unites us to Christ in His suffering.   What Are the Actual Fasting Rules?   Ash Wednesday & Good Friday Fasting → One full meal, plus two smaller snacks that don’t add up to a second meal. (No, you don’t need to weigh your food like a bodybuilder.) Abstinence from meat → No steak, no chicken, no bacon.    Fridays in Lent   No meat → But you don’t have to eat fish. (Seriously, where did that myth come from?)   Wait… Can I Have That Lobster Dinner on a Friday?    Technically? Yes. Spiritually? Ehhh. The whole idea is to keep it simple, not turn abstinence into an excuse for a five-star seafood feast.    Why Does This Matter?   Because it’s a tiny sacrifice to remind ourselves that we are not slaves to our desires. It’s a way of saying, “Lord, I want to unite my small suffering with Yours.”   So yeah, fasting isn’t easy. But it’s worth it; if nothing else, it makes you appreciate that Easter ham a whole lot more.      -Fasting = 1 full meal + 2 small snacks (Ash Wed & Good Fri).   -No meat on Fridays in Lent.   -Fish is allowed but not required.   -Keep it simple; don’t turn “sacrifice” into a seafood buffet.   Now, go forth and fast… but maybe don’t plan a Costco trip on an empty stomach.   

Patrick brings attention to the health risks and addiction issues linked to vaping. Patrick shares firsthand accounts from those affected by vaping-related health problems such as collapsed lungs. He explores the appeal of vaping among young adults and highlights marketing strategies that target them.   A new study flags vaping as a bigger health hazard than cigarettes, linking it to dementia, heart disease, and organ failure (00:51) Daylight saving falls out of favor with most Americans (12:57) Karen - Vaping: I own a vape shop. I want to make the public aware that there are a lot of deaths through smoking. I think vaping is a good way to get off of cigarettes. (19:13) Elizabeth - I had a collapsed lung twice in my life, but the doctor was able to fix it both times. (32:16) Mari - I am 21 and all of my friends are addicted to vape, and they also do other drugs. (41:38) Ruben - Can a Deacon say Mass without a priest present? (46:21)

Patrick shares a heartfelt email from a listener grappling with the moral implications of in vitro fertilization and seeking hope and forgiveness within the Catholic faith. This hour also features an engaging discussion with Alicia from Chicago, who faces challenges in a mixed-faith relationship and is contemplating the future of her marriage. Patrick offers fatherly advice, providing insights into the potential hurdles and heartaches of such unions while encouraging listeners to consider the long-term impacts on family and faith.   Susie (email) – I had children using In Vitro Fertilization (IFV) before I knew it was a sin. I love my kids, but I feel guilty over what I did. (00:39) Alicia - I am 24 and in a relationship with a non-Catholic. I asked him if he would come to church with me. He said that he didn't want to be part of my religion. (07:48) Ada (email) - Would the advice you gave to Alicia also apply for a non-practicing Catholic? (21:32) Richard - My wife was a practicing Catholic, and she told me that I need to be a strong Catholic if we were to marry. I would say she should give him that ultimatum. (26:36) Anonymous email - Why did God design it so that we fall in love based mainly on hormones when in the long run our hormones have nothing to do with marital success? (29:11) Michael - My stepdaughter married an atheist man, and they have issues in the marriage and neither go to church anymore. (36:16) Marie - I have been married for 30 years to a non-Catholic, and it is the loneliest I have ever been (43:31)

Patrick explores the challenges and complexities of mixed marriages, highlighting poignant stories from callers who share their personal experiences. From feelings of loneliness and longing for spiritual unity to inspiring conversions into Catholicism, Patrick examines the profound impacts of sharing or not sharing faith within a marriage. By listening to heartfelt advice and powerful lessons from those who have lived through these situations, Patrick shows the role faith has in fostering strong, united families.   Veronica (email) - So lonely. Being married to a non-Catholic. If only someone had told me (00:42) Karen (email) - My husband was Catholic but never went to mass. I found out the hard way, if the father doesn’t go to mass, more than likely neither will the children. (01:54) Jared - I converted to Catholicism for my marriage (08:18) Mike – Mixed marriages are very difficult, and it’s gets lonely (13:55) Ally - Being married to someone of another faith was very lonely and now my kids don't follow the faith. (19:24) Allyn (email) – Sometimes your show makes me sad. I can’t go back and change what I’ve done, but I’m not sure I can listen anymore. (23:46) Mike (email) - It seems you are foreclosing on a chance to save the soul of the non-practicing spouse. (27:24) Eileen – I married an agnostic. I feel like I became more Catholic having a spouse of another faith because of prayer. (31:18) Rita - My understanding of Serbian Orthodox is that there was a split, but they were still in Sacramental communion with the Catholic Church. Why is something wrong with those Churches? (35:57) Linda - Picking the right person in the same faith is really important to the success of that relationship and overall happiness. God should be in the marriage (40:49) Deanne – The Salt and Light Book that helped me. It’s about a Saint who converted her husband after death through her diary. (43:59) Dave - I was a Jehovah's Witnesses, and I converted. I will be married in a couple months! (46:10)

Patrick explores the traditions and disciplines of Ash Wednesday, and he highlights the significance of the day and its connection to ancient practices rooted in the time of the apostles. With engaging insights and relatable anecdotes, Patrick discusses the biblical basis for fasting, drawing parallels between Jesus' 40 days in the desert and his listeners' own Lenten journeys. He highlights the importance of mastering bodily appetites and embracing the spirit of mortification through abstinence. Patrick also addresses various inquiries from listeners, including questions about Communion, fasting while sick, and the tradition of giving something up for Lent.   Today is Ash Wednesday. Remember you are dust, and to dust you shall return. (00:33) What does Fasting mean for Catholics? (04:46) Thomas - I can't go to confession on a regular basis. Can I make an act of contrition and take communion if I resolve to go to confession when I can? (06:02) Sebastian (email) – Is it okay to have protein powder during days of abstinence? (19:37) Michael - Does someone who is sick still need fast today? (30:28) Richard - I stopped going to Communion because I got married to someone else after divorcing a woman. How can I get back to communion? (34:39) Mark (email) – Can I add things, instead of abstaining from something, during Lent? (46:26)

Beginning with enlightening listeners about the traditions and flexibility related to fasting on Ash Wednesday, Patrick addresses common misconceptions and encourages personal devotion. The conversation shifts towards a debate surrounding the relaxing of Lenten disciplines on Sundays, offering clarity and dispelling misunderstandings tied to the observance of Lent. Patrick then discusses social media commentary from a religious individual who expresses divisive views on Catholicism and nationalism, offering a measured response and providing understanding on misconceptions about Catholic traditions. Additionally, the episode explores a recent initiative by evangelical Protestants to create a counter-strategy in response to a rise in conversions to Catholicism, where Patrick shares his thoughts on the effectiveness of Catholic apologetics and emphasizes the natural draw of Protestant seekers to the rich theological depth within the Catholic Church.   Don - What does fasting entail for today? Do I need to go the whole day without food? (01:13) Melody - Can you relax your penances on Sundays in Lent? (02:29) Patrick responds to a viral X post that states: “America is a Protestant nation… If you don’t like this, leave our country.” (07:08) Evangelicals call for strategy to counter rising Protestant conversions to Catholicism (20:48) Ben - Should I remove the ashes I received this morning if I go to another Mass on later today? (36:47) Felipe - Where do we get the ashes for Ash Wednesday? Why do we have the dating system that we have? (38:49) Mary – Is it okay for a lay person to administer the Ashes? (47:00)

Patrick addresses a range of topics and heartfelt stories from callers around the country. The episode kicks off with Stuart from Bakersfield sharing his transformative journey from Protestantism to Catholicism, encouraged by influential Catholic literature and figures like Patrick Madrid himself. Later, a perplexed godfather, David, seeks Patrick's advice about his godson's planned wedding in a non-Catholic church. This conversation leads to a discussion about the significance of maintaining Catholic traditions and understanding invalid marriage. Amid these spiritually enriching stories, Patrick also answers listeners' questions about the meaning of Ash Wednesday, the differences between sacraments and sacramentals, and resources for teaching young children about Lent.   Stuart - Thank you Patrick for helping me come into the Catholic Church! (00:36) David - My godson is getting married in an Episcopal Church by a Presbyterian minister. How can I convince him to get his marriage blessed by a priest? (08:52) Leeann – The Scott Hahn video converted me and I read Surprised By Truth. I'm Catholic now! (20:38) Patrick answers a bunch of emails questions, including Bridget’s question: Can I throw away last years’ palms? (25:03) Marissa (email) – How should I explain to my 9-year-old about how babies are born? (36:21) Michael – Shroud of Turin Jessica - What book or website would be good for my 5-year-old about Lent? (42:01) Will - What do you know about the two prophets in Canada?

Patrick engages with a variety of fascinating topics, starting with his responses to listener emails, where he discusses the implications of Christian nationalism and the allure of communism, particularly among young students. Patrick addresses the false promises of communism and shines a light on the pervasive influence of media messaging, with a focus on historical context and current social media trends. The episode also features discussions on ideologies, media manipulation, and dynamics within the Church.   Mary (Email) - Do you think The Communist Manifesto is appropriate for a 13-year-old to read? (00:40) Audio: KGB defector Yuri Bezmenov's warning to America (1984) (11:16) Audio: This is Dangerous to our Democracy (17:29) Audio: Brought to you by Pfizer (24:01) Greg - What is a good book about Confession? I bring Communion to nursing homes and one of the residents is a fallen away Catholic. (27:42) Carmen - I worked for mainstream media and left it about 4 months ago. It is funny because everything is scripted by the producer. We HAVE to follow the script. (36:32) Margaret – I disagree with you. I think the priest should have given her communion. Why does Biden get communion if women in nursing homes don’t get to receive Jesus? (42:59) Kim - If you have been annulled in the Catholic Church 4 times, can you be a Eucharistic minister? (49:02)

Patrick shares the heartfelt journeys and challenges faced by callers who are seeking guidance and wisdom from the Catholic faith. Listen as Patrick addresses Hannah's family's decision to join a more traditional parish and their quest to find a godparent for their son. Meanwhile, David explores the responsibilities that come with being a godfather to a catechumen in a challenging situation. This episode also covers various inquiries about spiritual struggles, vocations, and the impact of curses.   Hanna - Should we continue with OCIA where we are at? We don't want our child to be assigned a godparent from that Church. (00:35) David - Can I be the godfather for a Catechumen who is living with his girlfriend? (08:57) Michelle - My daughter can't eat meat so what should she give up on Fridays in Lent? She has depression and gets depressed during lent. How can she look at it with more joy than sorrow? (17:40) Kip - I think that the person who is inviting people to Mass to take communion should tell them what will happen and why it will happen. (27:24) Mary (email) - I am a widow and am dating a widower. He has invited me to travel with him. All accommodations would be separate. Would we be committing a sin of scandal to travel together? (32:22) John - I was recently asked to be a lector for Mass in the morning. If I am not in the state of Grace, can I still be a lector? (38:27)

Patrick addresses various emails and callers' questions, exploring nuanced topics such as the complexities of ADHD medication in schools, the morality and ethics regarding cosmetic surgeries, and the challenges surrounding marriage and family life. Among the various topics, this hour covers issues of parental responsibilities, the emotional aftermath of divorce, and the impact of societal norms on individual faith journeys.   Joe (email) - Why you don't give equal time to parents whose children were HELPED by ADHD meds? (00:47) Jose - Is it okay to do cosmetic surgeries? Is it okay to marry someone who is unable to have children? (03:51) Audio: Gene Hackman still gets choked up 65 years after his dad left the family (18:39) Ann – I was baptized Catholic but walked away from the faith and had a revenge pregnancy. Can I go to confession? (25:55) Hal - I work in law enforcement and transgenderism has impacted my work and the environment (35:48) Carol – How can you deal with people who say, 'you're not a real Christian'? (43:41) Tom - Can the devil get to you in purgatory or torment you there? (49:52)

Patrick tackles pressing issues impacting our world. From the rising costs in healthcare and the challenges of understanding insurance to the complex dynamics of immigration in Sweden and societal shifts in Europe—Patrick covers it all. Plus, he shares inspiring stories of religious growth among college students and discusses how grassroots change is making waves. Stay informed and inspired through these compelling conversations.   Audio: Gov. Ron DeSantis on ending property taxes statewide (01:48) Audio: Having health insurance makes an ambulance bill twice as expensive (06:13) Elizabeth - Pediatricians require that 14 years old children keep their medical information confidential from parents. (15:38) Andrew - I think the answer for the insurance being more expensive is that hospitals need to charge more for people who are insured. (21:26) Faith - I don't have insurance because I am not able to afford it with my retail job. (29:33) Audio: Ayaan Hirshi Ali says, "Sweden had this wonderful experiment of becoming a moral superpower" (35:02) Audio: Jordan Peterson - "I don't know if you guys in the UK understand how sad it is for us in Canada and the US to watch what you're doing to yourself" (45:32) Richard - In Indiana, we had a Republican who had a bill to stop the death penalty.  (47:34)

Patrick explores insightful questions from callers about preparing for Lent, the sanctity of marriage in the Catholic Church, and discovering joy during life's challenges. Patrick addresses how to reconnect with faith after being away and examines the spiritual significance of choosing between a priest or deacon to officiate a wedding. He warmly approaches the complexities of faith, community, and personal growth with hope and encouragement. Patrick guides listeners on a journey filled with understanding and inspiration.   Hugo (email) - What can I do to get myself in the headspace of penance, fasting, and almsgiving and not feel the sorrows of preparing to enter our Lord’s suffering? (00:27) Sam - How can I come back into the Catholic Church after being away for many years? The Church Fathers helped me to come back. (04:27) Jimmy - I was at a couples retreat and they asked us if we wanted a priest or a deacon to marry us? What is the difference between a priest doing the ceremony and a deacon doing the ceremony? (13:07) Sex Change Surgery Linked To Higher Risk Of Suicidal Ideation And Depression (22:03) Lawrence - I am conflicted about giving to my bishop’s annual appeal because of the immigration services in it. I think there is already enough aid to them. How else can I support my diocese? (25:27) Helen - If two Catholics get married outside the Catholic Church are they excommunicated? (28:21) Nina - Why do you have to say or 'Pray for us' in the litany with all of Mary's titles? Can you pray the Rosary without saying a litany? (30:48) Patrick shares an article about thieves in the UK stealing the 10 Commandments. (36:27) Wayne (email) – My reason for not attending mass regularly is that I don’t share the same political views as the priest. (42:35) Cyrus shares a Twitter post from a Protestant about centering our Christian views on preparing for the Christ instead of the Antichrist. (44:42)

Patrick explores the challenges of facing opposing ideologies about transgenderism. Patrick discusses military policies on transgender service and hears from Anne in Phoenix, who courageously shares her personal story. He wraps up by addressing historical church doctrines and a thought-provoking call about Christian nationalism.   Audio - Michael Knowles on trans insanity (00:38) Audio - You can’t change your sex (05:55) Audio - U.S. Army Bans Transgenders from service (09:22) Ann - My daughter's last wish is to be cremated and wants her ashes to be dropped in the ocean. Is it a sin to follow her wishes even if I know it is? (15:38) Rhonda - Can I receive a dispensation for a wedding outside of the Church? AND can we go to the reception? (23:03) Kathy - My grandfather married his dead wife's sister. Can you help me explain if that was wrong and if you can get married in the church under that circumstance? (29:36) Rob - I disagree with you about the Founding Fathers agreeing on Christianity. (33:52) Bridget (email) – Patrick, I am surprised and saddened that you haven't talked about the Trump/Vance/Zelensky thing. (43:45) Rydan - Why was Christ crucified and if he was killed differently what would our symbol of redemption be? (45:01)

Patrick addresses the serious shortage of air traffic controllers, the fascinating possibility of a supernova, and answers listener calls on spiritual and theological questions. From the challenges of attending Mass at 93 to understanding the misconceptions of penal substitution, Patrick's discussions are both enlightening and heartwarming. Keep the faith and remain curious as Patrick explores these topics and more.   The U.S. faces a severe shortage of top air traffic controllers, with only 70% of positions filled and major airports like Miami, Philadelphia, and D.C. struggling below 60%. (1:40) WOH G64, one of the largest red super-giants known, is undergoing an unusually fast transformation, hinting at an impending supernova. (2:44) Estella - Is it ok for me to abstain from Sunday Mass because I’m 93 years old. (9:38) Steve – Does the Catholic Church teach penal substitution? (18:36) Anna – I have a cousin who is going to get married in the Church. Her boyfriend is considering the Catholic Church, and I want to help him know more. What is the best book? (27:32) Sarah (email) - God says He wants us to be happy. Most of us would say that suffering does NOT make us happy, but should it make us happy? (34:15) James – Can demons enter a church or holy ground by if they are inhabiting a person, or will they be rejected either way? (40:27)

Patrick explores complex questions from listeners about faith, marriage, and Catholic teachings. He discusses understanding the validity of marriage, the scriptural foundations of the Rapture, and the deep theology of purgatory and fasting. Patrick provides insightful clarity rooted in tradition, offering wisdom for personal and spiritual challenges.   Joe - If a Catholic couple knows the birth control rules yet decides to use it anyway, does this make the marriage invalid? (0:38) Jim - How do my prayers help the Holy Souls in Purgatory? (4:18) Chandler (email) – How does 1 Thessalonians 4:16-17 not allude to the rapture? (8:49) John - Can people with Alzheimer’s be dispensed from Confession? (17:34) Susan - Have you ever talked about Myers Briggs testing? (21:35) Santiago - What happens to babies who are not baptized before they die? (27:38) Tom (email) – Comment about Our Lady of Knock (35:30) Sharon - Why do we fast before Communion? (36:55) Araceli - What are your thoughts about the Litany of Trust? (48:30)

Patrick explores profound questions about Our Lady's sinlessness, addresses concerns about Catholic education, and tackles issues surrounding ADHD diagnoses in children. Through stories from listeners who've faced these challenges head-on, Patrick reminds everyone of the power of faith and perseverance.   Regina (email) - How can Mary be 100% human and never EVER sin? (00:36) Joe – My daughter’s teacher is asking children to pray for the Church to change its stance on same sex marriage. (04:10) Jack – Did Jesus have siblings? (14:05) George – Who are your favorite 3 Catholic Apologists? (20:17) Nicole – Is Waldorf education, ok? (Patrick gives his thoughts on young boys being diagnosed with ADHD and the drugs they are given) (23:40) Annie - My son suffered from exactly what Nicole’s son is going through. Everyone wanted to put my kid on drugs, but I didn’t. Now he flies for the Fed-Ex! (36:38) Maria - My son was labelled with ADHD in 3rd grade. I put him in a STEM school. He got through this and graduated with honors. (40:28) Christine - Had my husband been young in this age he would have been diagnosed with ADHD. It’s a cross for parents, but I think it can be a blessing too. (42:50) Jim - It seems that Church frowns on senior marriage if you can't procreate. (46:39)

Okay, so on this episode of The Patrick Madrid Show, we get a look into the virtue of hope. A caller named Matt from Columbus, NJ, kicks things off by saying that a lot of Catholics don’t really get what hope actually is. Honestly, he’s onto something.   What’s Hope, Really?    Most people think of hope like: I hope the weather’s nice tomorrow, or I hope my team wins. But biblical, theological hope is different. The Catechism (CCC 1817) lays it out:   Hope is the virtue by which we desire heaven, trusting not in ourselves, but in God’s promises and His grace to get us there.   Basically, it’s not a shaky, fingers-crossed kind of thing; it’s a confident expectation in God’s faithfulness.    So… Can Catholics Be Sure They’re Going to Heaven?    Matt brings up a great point here. He adds that if you ask a Catholic, “Are you going to heaven?” they’ll respond with, “Uh… I hope so?”, but with a tone of doubt. That’s a problem. Because hope isn’t uncertainty; it’s trust.   Patrick brings in St. Paul as Exhibit A. Paul talks about winning the race and fighting the good fight; he expects heaven, but he also knows he has to persevere to the end. We don’t “earn” salvation (we need grace!), but we cooperate with it.   So, the Catholic answer isn’t “I know I’m going to heaven, no doubt” (we’re not into that Once Saved, Always Saved mindset), but it’s also not “I have no idea”. Instead, it’s:   -I trust in God’s promises   -I know He’ll give me the grace to get there   -But I also know I have free will and need to stay faithful   Hope vs. Despair & Presumption    Patrick also covers the two big dangers that wreck hope:   Despair: Thinking, I’m too far gone, I’ll never be saved. That’s a lie; God’s mercy is bigger than any sin. Never stop hoping! Presumption: Thinking, I don’t need to do anything, I’m automatically saved. This is also wrong; Jesus literally tells us to persevere to the end (Matt 24:13).   Hope Is Non-Negotiable.    Patrick ties it all together with St. Thomas Aquinas, who says hope is necessary for salvation. You have to desire heaven and expect God’s help. No hope? No heaven.    Moral of the story: Hope is trust in God’s love and promises. So next time someone asks if you’re going to heaven, don’t say “I don’t know” ... say, “I trust in God to get me there.”    Want to level up your hope? Pray for the grace of perseverance, dive into Scripture, and never stop trusting in God’s goodness!