The Patrick Madrid Show

It All Started at a Tea Party... Rosalie from Chula Vista calls in after attending a “Deanery Tea Party” (which, btw, sounds like something Jane Austen would've loved) where a little girl asked a whopper of a question: “Is everyone going to die?”  Rosalie’s friend was troubled that the adult nearby didn’t offer any spiritual explanation... just the cold, hard facts. So, Rosalie did what any good Catholic would do: she called Patrick Madrid.  How Do You Tell a Child About Death Without Freaking Them Out? Patrick, being the dad of 11 kids and a wise Catholic thinker, totally gets it. We live in a culture that avoids death like kale at a kid’s birthday party. We want youth, health, and Instagram filters, not funeral talk.  But here’s the truth from Patrick: 🕊️ “It’s actually good for children to understand death... in a gentle, age-appropriate way, because it opens the door to talking about hope, eternity, and Jesus.”  So, Here’s the Game Plan, Catholic Parents & Godparents: Age-Appropriate Honesty Don’t lie or pretend death isn’t real. Patrick suggests saying something like: “Yes, everyone dies eventually. But we don’t need to be afraid, because Jesus came to save us and bring us to Heaven.”  Frame Death Through the Lens of Salvation Patrick reminds us: God didn’t want death. Death entered the world through sin. But Jesus became one of us, died for us, and rose again so we could have eternal life. That’s the real focus, not death itself. Describe Death as a Portal Don't mention it as a scary monster but explain it as a doorway to being with God. That shifts the narrative entirely. “We hope Grandma is in Heaven now because she loved Jesus. And if we love Jesus too, He’ll bring us there one day.” Great advice from Patrick!  Takeaway for You, Friend: If a child ever asks, “Is everyone going to die?”, don’t panic. Don’t brush it off. And definitely don’t just say, “Yep” and walk away.  Instead, use it as a sacred opportunity: to speak truth wrapped in love, hope, and the greatest promise ever: “Jesus loves you, and He wants to be with you forever.” That’s beautiful. Need to Hear It Again? Share this with a fellow Catholic parent, godparent, or that friend who just survived a toddler asking the "Big Questions" at bedtime. Jesus isn’t afraid of death. And thanks to Him... we don’t have to be either. 

This episode of The Patrick Madrid Show is tender, raw, and packed with grace. It all starts with an email from Aaron, a Catholic school teacher who teaches grades 2–8. His school just suffered a devastating tragedy: a young boy — just about to enter sixth grade — was killed in an accident. Aaron, heartbroken, is reaching out for help. He's thinking ahead: how do I help my students process this? What do I say when they ask, “Why did God allow this?” What Patrick Said: “Words can only go so far.” He starts there — with brutal honesty. When your heart is shattered, “God is with you” can feel... empty, even if it’s true. Patrick encourages him to use the moment as a “Catechetical Popcorn Trail” Start small and lay the groundwork. Help kids understand why death even exists by going back to Adam and Eve, the Fall, and the entrance of sin into the world. This tragedy, as awful as it is, becomes a gateway into the bigger story of salvation.  “Death is not natural. It’s not how we were meant to live.” God created us for life, forever, with Him. Death entered through sin. That helps kids understand their instincts are right — this feels wrong because it is wrong. But that’s not the end... Jesus didn’t just die — He conquered death. Kids can look at the crucifix with new eyes. He chose to suffer, chose to die, so that death wouldn’t be the final word for us. But Also... Teach Them This: Original Sin is not the same as personal sin. Patrick offers a great analogy: Imagine your billionaire parents lose all their wealth due to a crime. You didn't do anything, but you still lose the inheritance. That’s original sin. Through baptism, God gives it all back, and more. This boy might be in heaven. Patrick encourages Aaron to comfort the students with hope — if the boy was in 5th grade, it would make sense that he probably never committed a mortal sin. That’s theologically solid hope.  Teach them how to pray for him, through offering Masses and praying the Chaplet. Let them participate in his journey to Heaven. The Most Beautiful Part At the end of the show, Aaron calls in; he just wants to say thank you. You can hear how much he loves his students and how much he’s leaning on the Holy Spirit. It’s one of those quiet holy moments that makes you realize the Church is so alive in people like him. If You’re a Teacher, Parent, or Just a Catholic Who Cares… This episode is worth your time. It reminds us that grief is the place faith speaks loudest. Our job isn’t to “fix” grief. It’s to walk through it with others, pointing to the Cross... and beyond it, to the Resurrection. Eternal rest grant unto him, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon him.

Patrick reads a heartbreaking email from Aaron, a Catholic school teacher shattered by loss, and shares how to talk honestly with children about death, original sin, and God's love without shrinking from their pain. He encourages Vivian as she wrestles with unending prayers for her son, blending stories of faith, persistence, and humility in the face of unanswered questions. When young Guadalupe calls in, Patrick breaks down the substance and words behind each sacrament, meeting curiosity with clarity and warmth, giving listeners both comfort and challenge as the morning unfolds.   Aaron (email) – A young boy was just tragically killed. Why does God allow this? (00:52) Jocelyn - How long should I pray for any prayer intention? (17:44) Aaron – Thank you for responding to my email. I appreciate your comments. (30:56) Amanda (email) – There was a wandering dog at Mass (38:14) Guadalupe (11-years-old) - What are the sacraments made out of? (42:21)

Patrick opens the hour turning his attention to a recent Stanford study suggesting COVID-19 vaccine benefits might have been overstated, sparking a raw and honest exchange about public trust, mandates, and the fallout on those who refused the shot. As calls come in, Patrick listens to a moving story from a lifelong Mormon feeling pulled towards Catholicism, then offers heartfelt, practical direction to Jenny, a convert wrestling with obstacles on her path to the Church. Conversations zigzag between faith and personal struggle with a sincerity that refuses to gloss over the hard parts.   Stanford-led study finds COVID vaccines saved far fewer lives than previously reported (00:36) Todd - The Holy Spirit is alive and well in Relevant Radio. (12:26) Email - I've been listening to you and Relevant Radio daily for about 3 months and have been feeling a swelling desire to become part of the great Catholic family but have no idea how to start. (18:13) Jenny - I am not Catholic and have been seeking the faith since 2022. I have an annulment, but I am told that my Catholic husband must come back to the faith. Is this true? (32:45)

Patrick fields heartfelt questions from callers wrestling with faith and real-life dilemmas, offering practical Catholic wisdom for tangled family issues, temptations, and honest living. Unfiltered stories pour in—uncertainty about sending a child to Catholic school, the weight of confessing real sins, confusion about purgatory in scripture—sparking advice that’s candid and immediate. Every answer, shaped by deep faith and a dash of humor, brings both clarity and encouragement to listeners craving guidance.   Ruby - How do I handle when my husband wants me to sign something that would be dishonest (00:51)  Clifton - Why did Jesus only spend 2 nights in the tomb instead of 3 nights? (07:38) Lorraina - I have a 6-year-old daughter, and my sister is willing to pay for the first year of Catholic school. I am still not sure if I should send her to Catholic or a public school. (12:19) Peter (14-years-old) - How has God been in existence forever? (21:15) Danny - 7th Day Adventist and Calvary Chapel denominations: What are their objections to Catholicism and how do we overcome them? (37:18) Luisa - How can we avoid falling into sin? (45:11)

Whew! This episode of The Patrick Madrid Show is thought-provoking, a little scary, and very relevant for every Catholic parent, teacher, and really anyone who knows a teenager.  Patrick and Producer Cyrus tackle a recent report showing that a third (yes, 1 in 3!) of American teens aged 13–17 say they prefer chatting with AI bots over actual humans.  “AI is just a tool” – Patrick’s Perspective Patrick makes it clear that he's not afraid of AI, just like he’s not afraid of a knife or the internet. Tools can be dangerous or useful; it depends on how you use them.  While he’s not panicking, he is sounding a big ol’ warning bell for parents.  He compares AI today to the early days of the internet in the ‘90s — when no one really understood what it was going to become. (Anyone else remember dial-up modems?) He believes AI may be even bigger in terms of its impact on society. The Report That Got Everyone Talking The big story they discussed came from a study called “Talk, Trust, and Trade-Offs”. It reveals that: -A full third of teens say they’d rather talk to AI than to friends or family  -Many use AI for emotional support, friendship, and even immoral content -Teens are sharing personal details with these bots -Many of them think the bots are better listeners than their actual human companions Let that sink in: teens are calling these things “companions” — human-sounding language for a non-human tool. Parents, This Is Your Cue! Patrick and Cyrus both open up about their own experiences as dads. Cyrus mentioned how his 18-year-old son spent most of his social time during high school in the gaming world, chatting online with friends instead of hanging out in person.  They reminisce about the days when “socializing” meant actually being in the same room. Remember those? Board games, backyard baseball, pizza parties. Good times. Patrick’s challenge to parents is to step up, be aware, and be involved. Parents, here’s what Patrick recommends you should do: -Start the conversation. Ask your kids if they’re using AI and how. -Teach them discernment. They need to know that not everything AI says is true or safe. -Remind them of real connection. Face-to-face friendship > artificial conversations -Watch the privacy risks. Nothing shared with AI is truly private. Those convos can be hacked, stored, and sold.  The Bottom Line AI is becoming a counterfeit friend for kids who are struggling with loneliness, anxiety, and identity.  But the Church — and real, healthy human relationships — are where true healing and connection happen.... not in a chatbot pretending to care. Question for YOU:Have you noticed teens in your life relying more on tech than actual friendships? What are you doing to keep real connection alive?

Patrick opens the hour reflecting on late-night television’s shift from the genial wit of Johnny Carson to what he sees as the harsh, politicized comedy behind Stephen Colbert’s cancellation. He shares how digital life devours nearly half the waking day for most Americans and shares research revealing one-third of teens now turn to AI chatbots for emotional support rather than real people. A call from physicist Tom throws open the gates on AI’s privacy pitfalls and ethical quicksand, urging parents to recognize just how quickly children can slip away into digital intimacy with machines.   ‘We’re With Colbert’ rally draws just 20 protesters. (00:58) Audio: Johnny Carson on why he doesn’t get into “serious” issues on The Tonight Show (05:45) Americans spend nearly half their day online — whether it’s work or play — ‘eye-opening’ poll shows (12:49) A 3rd of U.S. teens now say they prefer talking to AI companions over real friends (24:23) Tom - I am a physicist and AI pioneer. What you are discussing is super important. It promotes your confirmation bias just like humans do. Everything modern or recent takes precedence. I am dedicated to developing ethical AI. (39:21)

Patrick opens the phones to callers wrestling with Catholic parenting, tech boundaries, and choosing family-friendly shows like “The Waltons,” reflecting on the hard lessons and simple wisdom he’s gained. Listeners press him on tough issues such as guiding resistant teens in matters of faith, shifting family dynamics after conversion, and responding to Church disputes over controversial topics, especially where tradition and current culture conflict. With each exchange, Patrick moves between encouragement, practical advice, and sharp caution—challenging both assumptions and methods, whether it’s dealing with fee-charging healing ministries or understanding biblical language about the heavens.   Jenny - Have you ever considered writing a parenting book? (00:36) Susanne - Can I attend a Protestant Church as a Catholic? My husband and I are converts to Catholicism, but our children did not convert, and they are still minors. (10:27) Michael - How do we reconcile Pride Masses with our Catholic beliefs? (19:53) Allison - My parish is having healing ministry classes, and I am not sure if they are Catholic. (27:07) Kevin - What is the history of the Tabernacle? How did we end up with it in Christianity? (33:54) Dana - You just mentioned Dr. Peter Kreeft. I feel like his arguments are not convincing in making the case for Catholicism. (36:23) Heather - What is the best way to read the Catechism? (49:19)

Patrick fields heartfelt and challenging questions from listeners, offering practical insight on topics like guardian angels, Catholic parish life, and faith-filled responses to healing ministries outside the Church. He shares personal anecdotes, guides listeners through nuanced teachings on prayer, Mass intentions, and the ethics of birth control, all while weaving in stories of hidden holiness and real-world struggles.    Allison (email) - I just got off the phone with you about the healing ministry school at the parish. My main concern was because the ministry is not specifically Catholic, is it ok to do? (00:32) Zachary - Do guardian angels hear our prayers to them if we mumble? Are we supposed to meditate on what is in the mystery of the Rosary? (06:04) Laurie - You praise the Walton's a lot, but they don't go to Catholic Church. Is it still ok to watch them? (12:16) Pat - A woman my son knows wants to become a Bride of Christ. What does this mean? (19:40) Tom – I am physically disabled and people ask to pray with me, but I find it annoying that they can’t accept the fact that I’m in a wheelchair. Do you have any advice? (24:40) Charlotte (email) – I am considering changing parishes from the Military Diocese (I am retired military) to a parish in my community and I have a child that is 12 and will need to receive Confirmation (28:45) James (email) - I was reflecting on Sunday’s first reading, Genesis 18:20–32, where Abraham pleads with God to spare Sodom and Gomorrah if even ten righteous people can be found. It made me wonder—could it be that in our own time, it’s just a small number of truly holy people who are holding back God’s justice? (31:13) Jackie - Can evil control or hear our thoughts? (35:53)

Patrick discusses how Christians should approach the trans issue, a non-Catholic being a principal at a Catholic school and did God destroy Sodom and Gomora because of a lack of hospitality or was it something else?  Email – How is a Christian to approach the trans issue?   Maria - What do you think about non-Catholics being principal at Catholic schools?   Peter - Did God destroy Sodom and Gomora because of in hospitality or homosexuality?   Jay - What is the Pope's authority in regards to non-religious issues like Politics?    Juan - If I previously confessed my sin to a priest do I have to present them again at the last rites?

Patrick answers a question from Ann: Why do some people write the word God without the "O" and they replace the "O" with a hyphen? and how can we guide our children to choose Catholic partners for marriage instead of partners from other faiths?   Email – Abby – I am around Cyrus’s age and was taught that the Israelites and the Jewish people have continued to be persecuted. Is God still angry with the Israelites?   Anna - Why do some people write the word God without the "O" and they replace the "O" with a hyphen?   Ann - I got invited to a baby shower for my nephew's Girlfriend who is pregnant. Can I go?   Julia - How do you keep your kids Catholic in this woke world we live in? Also how can we guide our children to choose Catholic partners for marriage instead of partners from other faiths?  

Patrick discusses why the Catholic Church doesn't do altar calls, can people that have near death experiences become like a healer, and I go to a doctor that practices traditional Chinese medicine. She is the only one that could help me when I was sick. She does have a gift, but in her consolatory she has Buddha and other images. Should I continue going to her?   Theresa - When a young couple is expecting a child there is an assumption that they would be good for each other, but I don't think that is necessarily true.   Doreen - Why when you go to the Catholic Church, don't they do altar calls? Why don't they get people filled with the Holy Spirit and speaking in tongues? (She is non-denominational)   Email – Lana: I had no mother when I was 13 and had no Catholic friends to guide me and am so grateful for what you do on your show.   Claudia - Can people that have near death experiences become like a healer...Is this true? Would it be okay as a Catholic to see this healer?   Judy - Litany of Loreto, any book or source to identify what all of those titles mean?   Luisa - I go to a doctor that practices traditional Chinese medicine. She is the only one that could help me when I was sick. She does have a gift, but in her consolatory she has Buddha and other images. Should I continue going to her?

Patrick starts the hour off reading an email from Richard responding to yesterday's caller Michael about praying to Mary, Michael wants to now he can pray the Rosary while running or walking on the treadmill at his gym, and is it ever ok to lie? Plus, make sure to catch when Patrick and his wife shared about having their 11th child.   Richard – In response to yesterday’s caller who was asking about the Memorare and praying to Mary. I have told people it is like asking someone to help you lift a couch.   Michael – Can I pray the Rosary while on the treadmill?   James – Is it ever ok to lie?   Jillian - When is it necessary to advocate for our faith and when do we let it go?   Patrick shares about the time he and his wife went to a restaurant where they shared with the waitresses they had an 11th child.   Mary - What does "give us this day our daily bread" mean? It seems redundant to say day twice.   Ron - Would you be able to lie if your life was in danger? It seems like you could.

Patrick shares a story about a time he went to Mass and had to leave during the homily, plus Joseph asks about public parish meals on Sunday, Sherry shares about her experience of God after cancer, Tracy has a question Jesus coming to judge the living and the dead and more. Ron -  I wonder if there is a connection between mother and child is that allows the mom to hear her children in a crowded area?   Joseph - is it wrong to have a public parish meal on Sunday?   Sherry - I am 10 year cancer free. I used to curse God but my suffering brought me closer to Mary and God.   Tracy - Why does Jesus have to come again to judge the living and the dead?   Paul – Are the sins that you confessed brought up in the last judgement?

Patrick answers questions from Paul and Alex who emailed in. Paul wants to know if it is ok to lie about the ice cream truck music and Alex is wondering if lay people are held to the seal of Confession? Patrick answers these questions and tells about a time when he encountered a Jehovah's Witness at a donut shop. Email – Paula asks if it is ok to lie about the ice cream truck music.   Email – Alex asks: Are we as lay people held to the seal of confession if we hear someone’s sins?   Patty - How is it that when women are pregnant the child can heal them? What are the implications for women who had an abortion or miscarriage?   Carol - Give us this day our daily bread: I think that it is more like asking God to give us what we need.   Patrick shares about his experience talking to a Jehovah’s Witness when Patrick and his wife were at a donut store.   Larry - I am an Ex Jehovah's Witness. Now that I am Catholic I want to fight against it.   Suzie - My daughter is considering becoming a nun. How do we address this?  

Patrick reflects on his 1993 debate on Sola Scriptura that he had with Protestant apologist James White and also takes calls from listeners discussing getting their children baptized in the Byzantine Rite, rapture and revelation, and more. Patrick talks about a previous debate of his with James White that Christian Wagner reviewed on his X channel Andrea - I saw a Youtube video about 14 changes which Pope Leo is doing in the Church. Is that True? Justin - Rapture and revelation: People left here on earth, do they have a second chance to repent? Omar - I am thinking about getting my child baptized in the Byzantine rite since she would get all of her sacraments right away. Nick - You really spoke to me with this topic. It brought up great memories of me calling Carl Keating when I was a kid.

Patrick discusses a question from Nicole about whether growing a specific culture at Mass divides the parish, is the Bible ok with getting your ears pierced?, Alfredo wants to learn more about studying the Catechism plus other interesting and engaging topics. Email – Do you think we can make inroads to mass attendance if we continue to press the Eucharist and the Real Presence? Cindy – On serving the needs of both the Spanish speaking and English speaking communities at Mass. Kathleen – What are Patrick’s thoughts on how the Blessed Sacrament is to be reserved in the Tabernacle? Nicole - What if the pastor is being told to grow specific cultures in their parish? I think it is dividing the parish. I think we should go back to the Latin Mass to unify people. Mary Grace - Is there anything against getting your ears pierced in the bible? Alfredo - 1849 CCC: Do I need other books that Saint Augustine wrote in order to study the CCC?

Patrick talks to Nathan concerning selling religious artwork to feed the homeless and the classic question, where is praying to Mary in the Bible. Patrick makes it clear that Catholics do not replace God with Mary, but that Our Lady intercedes to God on our behalf. Nathan - why doesn't the church sell priceless works of art to feed the homeless?     Wayne - we have a parish near me with multiple languages and dialects. It’s beautiful to see how God reaches to everyone. Michael - Why do Catholics pray to Mary in prayers such as the Memorare?

If you've ever wondered why the Church requires a Sunday obligation to attend Mass—even when you're doing other good things like feeding the poor or being kind—this conversation is for you. On The Patrick Madrid Show, Michelle from Kentucky calls in with a question: “If someone skips Mass but still does works of mercy, are they still in mortal sin? That just seems... harsh.” Patrick responds with some Holy Spirit–fueled clarity and compassion.  According to Church teaching (and backed up by Scripture), deliberately missing Sunday Mass without a serious reason (illness, caring for someone sick, dangerous travel, etc.) is a grave sin. Why? Because it’s saying "no" to a relationship. You're choosing to ignore Jesus' invitation to the most important family gathering of the week: the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass. But What If You're a Really Nice Person? Michelle asks, “What about people who are super kind and charitable but don’t go to Mass?” Patrick said: Being nice is good—but it’s not salvific.  If goodness alone could save us, Jesus wouldn’t have needed to die on the Cross. Works of mercy done in a state of grace (in union with Christ) are eternally meritorious. Apart from grace, they’re nice, not saving.  Jesus Was Pretty Clear “If you love me, you will keep my commandments.” (John 14:15)“He who hears you hears me; he who rejects you rejects me.” (Luke 10:16)“No one comes to the Father except through me.” (John 14:6) Jesus established His Church with real authority. When the Church says, “Go to Mass every Sunday,” you're being obedient to Christ’s own command. The Family Dinner Analogy (So Good) Patrick compares Sunday Mass to a family dinner: Imagine your parents say, “Everyone needs to be at the table at 6pm.” If one kid says, “Eh, I’ll just eat in my room,” they're disconnecting from the family. That’s what skipping Mass does. It breaks the spiritual family bond. God's Not Looking to Smite You Patrick explains that God isn’t standing there like, “Ha! Gotcha!” In fact, He’s constantly pouring out grace, constantly inviting us back—especially through Confession and the Eucharist.  Patrick reminds you that Jesus said some hard truths, but He says them out of love. He wants you home for dinner, forever. Real Talk: If you’ve been skipping Mass... come home. Go to Confession.Get back in the pew.And the Father is always watching for the prodigal child to return. 

Patrick shares a moving story about the Amish lending hands in the aftermath of Hurricane Helene, expands on their traditions and roots, and invites listeners into a swirl of candid faith questions. He fields calls ranging from the hurdles foreign priests face to the trickiness of family support at interfaith weddings, circling around to a child’s simple but profound wonderings about God’s presence everywhere and the mystery of the Trinity. Inside every exchange and reflection, Patrick draws out what it means to live Catholic faith in the mess and beauty of ordinary days.   Good News Story to start your day: Amish community becomes part of Chimney Rock's comeback story (01:17) Patrick gives a quick overview of Amish history (08:08) Joan - What do you think about the status of foreign priests having to leave the country? What can we do to help with this? (15:07) David - My wife worked with the Amish, and they can't have power lines but can have generators and solar cells. It is up to their bishop how much they can have. Most of them keep the cell phone in an outhouse. (23:08) Mary - If a couple got married in a Catholic Church where one is Catholic, but the other is not. Was the mother right in not attending the reception? (27:39) Gordon (6-years-old) - How is it that God can be everywhere at one time and how is it that God is three persons? (33:55) Sean - That Western Music you just played was from the movie Big Country (41:06) Joe - Can you receive grace from the Eucharist even if you are not a good Catholic? (42:06) Michelle - How is someone who doesn't go to Church still capable of doing good works? (45:41)

Patrick wrestles with the tough question of why intentionally skipping Sunday Mass lands with the same seriousness as much graver sins, drawing thoughtful exchanges from listeners like Kate in Milwaukee, who struggles to see the fairness, and Maria Christina, who sees the Church’s call as a reminder to put God first. He pulls from lived experience, Scripture, and honest caller questions, building a conversation that challenges, unsettles, and reassures all at once. The hour brims with debate, vulnerability, and moments that unsettle certainty, never shying away from discomfort or hope.   Patrick continues his answer to Michelle’s question from the end of the last hour: How is someone who doesn't go to Church still capable of doing good works? (01:27) Kate - A lot of people have a problem of making a moral equivalent of missing Mass with murder or fornication. (09:40) Alicia - I am so thankful for your gift of patience. (22:53) David - I want to thank Patrick for having Kate speak. I think she was right. (32:16) Maria Christina - There is no comparison with what Jesus is asking us to do. (38:31) Bernadette - It is a sin against the 1st and 3rd Commandment (41:24)

Patrick answers heartfelt questions from callers wrestling with faith, loss, and daily morality, shifting from clever family stories to deep, practical Church teachings on marriage, organ donation, and the importance of Sunday Mass. Conversations are honest and gritty, everything from childhood memories of ice cream trucks to the raw reality of homelessness, and through it all, Patrick’s guidance flows directly from the Catechism, personal experience, and genuine care. Listeners hear moments of laughter, regret, confusion, and hard-won clarity all in one episode.   Yvonne - Billboards popping up that say Jesus is not God. What do you think of this? Also, an organization has contacted us to see if they can come in and take tissue from loved ones. (02:10) Joan - An elderly couple is in their late 70s and wants to get married. He is Jewish and she is Catholic. They have looked into getting permission from the bishop. Is this ok? (07:40) Marisela - I have been on both ends of the spectrum where I didn't care. Now I wouldn't miss Mass for anything. (11:19) James - When Patrick Madrid talks about what the Church teaches, what reference should I go to show people what he is saying is true? Is Romans 9:22 referring to predestination? (20:24) Michael - I appreciate all that you do and love you and Relevant Radio very much (27:01) Shirley - My husband was in mortal sin before getting married. Do we need an annulment? Do we both need to go to Confession? (32:52) Jackie - I am almost 75 and had it not been for Relevant Radio, I would not have appreciated my Catholic faith. There was so much I did not know. (39:46) Anna - I think we are forgetting that the first commandment is to love God. Going to Church, we receive Christ and this is connected to honoring God above all things. (49:07)

The History of the Brown Scapular Way back in the 1200s, in Aylesford Priory, England... St. Simon Stock, a Carmelite monk, had this famous encounter: Our Lady of Mount Carmel appeared to him and showed him the Brown Scapular. For religious folks, the scapular is part of their habit. For laypeople, it’s the mini version: two little squares of cloth, connected by strings, worn under your clothes. Important to remember: Wearing it is not a magic ticket to heaven. Patrick really hammers this home. What’s the Point of Wearing It? Patrick explains it this way: It’s like a wedding ring.→ The ring doesn’t literally make you married, but it’s an outward sign of an inward reality. The scapular is an outward sign that you’re asking Our Lady to pray for you, to help you love Jesus more, and to remind yourself to live for God. The Big Misunderstanding There’s a lot of rumors floating around:“If you wear the Brown Scapular, you’re guaranteed heaven.”"You’ll skip purgatory and go straight up the Saturday after you die!” Patrick is super clear here: -The Church does not teach that. -There’s no record of Our Lady promising that to St. Simon Stock. - Patrick says that salvation depends on dying in a state of grace, loving God, repenting from sin, not on religious accessories. Why Still Wear It, Then? Because: -It’s a beautiful sign of devotion to Mary. -It reminds you daily to love God and neighbor. -Our Lady does intercede for those who ask. -It helps you stay close to Jesus, but it’s not a magic amulet.  Bonus: Does Patrick Wear It 24/7? Yep... under his shirt, like most folks.He takes it off for showers or swimming (no, you’re not spiritually vulnerable if it’s not on — again, not magic!). Bottom Line (aka “What You Tell Your Friends”) The Brown Scapular is:-A beautiful, centuries-old Marian devotion.-A reminder to live for Jesus.-Not a spiritual hack or shortcut to bypass repentance and grace. Love Our Lady, trust in her prayers, and keep your eyes on Jesus.

Image via Joan Sutter / Shutterstock. Here’s the rundown from this great moment on The Patrick Madrid Show. So, a young caller named Ezra from Naperville, Illinois, jumps on the line and asks: “Um, hi, Mr. Madrid… Did Jesus ever have a last name?” Great question, Ezra! Patrick jumps in with his usual mix of smarts and warmth. Short answer: No, Jesus didn’t have a last name like we do today. Longer answer: Back in Jesus’ time, people were identified by who their dad was or where they were from. So instead of “Jesus Christ” like it’s a last name, He might’ve been called “Jesus bar Joseph” — which literally means “Jesus, son of Joseph.”(Bar means “son of” in Aramaic.)

Patrick opens with heartfelt listener emails, sharing stories about visits to St. Michael’s Abbey and the Mission Hotel, weaving in his own childhood memories. Throughout the episode he fields questions on topics from holy water and pro-life engagement to cremation, offering answers both practical and compassionate while responding to callers exploring faith, grappling with funeral wishes, and seeking a way back to the Catholic Church.   Justin - I am not Catholic. Is it ok for me to use Holy Water? (05:23) Email - My Catholic father wrote in his will that he wants his ashes scattered in the ocean (14:18) E-Frank - Should ministries in the Church support the prolife movement? (20:06) Bruce - My wife and I are both blind and want to come back to the Catholic Church. How can we be useful? (25:06) Dominic - What is the status of Fulton Sheen canonization? (34:05) Court upholds male-only draft registration, dealing a major blow to feminist movement (44:57)

Patrick fields listener questions ranging from whether a child conceived through IVF can be baptized to when righteous anger is justified, drawing deeply on Catholic teaching and scripture. He unpacks the nuances of salvation, clarifies misunderstandings about purgatory, and listens to callers wrestling with heavy choices, including grave illness and faith’s demands. Moments of empathy, debate, and practical advice land side by side, as Patrick guides callers through the messiness of real Catholic life.   Priest told my friend that because her daughter was conceived through IVF that she can't be baptized. Is this true? (00:38) Robert - Women are not permitted in combat and so a new draft would face new legal issues because the rule has changed. (04:21) Art - Bishop Fulton Sheen: When I was a young boy, my mother used to watch his show. I think that was the Holy Spirit. I think the devil tries to smear holy men and women. (07:26) April - How is it that Jesus lost His temper? (09:09) Enrique - In order to be off birth control, the doctor advised my sister to get her tubes tied. She doesn’t know what to do and any advice you can give will be much appreciated. (18:29) Salvador - Is it ok for a sick person to say no to a treatment if he wants to die? (22:21) Henry - I need the quintessential Patrick answer. If God is all- forgiving, does that mean everyone is going to heaven? (34:48) Judy - The listener who is sick should go to palliative care first and they will guide him to the next step. There is hope for him. (48:30)

Patrick answers practical questions about Catholic marriage, restitution for old wrongs, and the real meaning of faith in tough times. He listens to callers voicing struggles with family choices and personal guilt, then offers down-to-earth Catholic wisdom. Moments of warmth surface when young Josie wonders if she should pray for her brother after a mishap, alongside heavier questions about supporting a spouse with ALS and grappling with faith under pressure.   Jay (email) - In the traditional Catholic prayer before meals, why, do you suppose, is there no "thank you"? (00:31) Maureen - What happens when a Catholic marries a Jewish person? What kind of marriage is this considered? (01:25) Josh - What does the Church teach on restitution? (17:23) Juan - My wife is terminally ill with ALS. What do I say to her, when she says it is hard to believe and trust in God when she is in such a poor condition? Does doubt keep us from salvation? (27:50) Jose (7-years-old) - I hit my brother, what should I do? Should I forgive him and say sorry? Or should I pray for him? (38:11) Jean - I thought your response was perfect. I had MS diagnosed 20 years ago and didn’t have Catholic Radio. (42:13) Teresa (email) - My husband of 43 years, who is in his mid-60's, is having trouble with the very personal issue of ED. We are past child bearing years. Is it immoral for him to use ED medication? (48:10)

Patrick opens with stories from listeners in the trades, questioning if hands-on jobs like garbage collection and machining could outlast the AI boom, all while sprinkling in sharp humor about robot insurance and future-proof careers. He tackles Catholic faith topics head-on, from unpacking the nature of God’s love, to candidly weighing the pros and cons of attending Society of St. Pius X Masses, laying out the deep tensions between tradition and Church unity. In a personal turn, Patrick reflects on raising eleven children, offering raw, practical encouragement about family life and sacrifice, before fielding questions both philosophical and delightfully mundane.   Jorge – A.I. will not be taking the garbage jobs (00:41) Rosie - What do you think about the Neo Catechumenal Way? (02:30) Email – Are there any good Star Trek series anymore? (04:05) Brother John - I don't think God loves us unconditionally, I think there are conditions for God's love. (06:00) Stuart - I teach Tai Chi and there is nothing wrong with it. There is no spiritual aspect to it. There are branches that are more spiritual but don't have to be. (10:39) Ken - I am a machinist and wanted to talk about working in a trade. The threat in my field is 3D printing. (17:39) Theresa - Are we allowed to go to the SSPX mass? (23:28) Richard - You still need human beings to fix AI. (35:08) Thomas - How did you and Nancy parent so many children? (39:29) Matt - Does God love everyone equally or does he love some more than others? (48:32)

Patrick threads through cultural questions about Disney fatigue, the surprising streaming stats of Gunsmoke, and the endurance of classic TV, weaving in Mike Rowe on the urgency for trades as tech transforms jobs. The episode weaves callers’ real-life faith, parenting, and ethical dilemmas, while Patrick fields everything from baptism validity to feng shui for nurseries and warnings about dubious online miracle prayers, keeping the conversation unpredictable and lively throughout.   Audio: Jerry Seinfeld on Marcus Aurelius (02:12) Steve Miller Band cancels all tour dates due to bad weather (04:59) 50-year-old ‘Gunsmoke’ Reruns More Popular than Disney’s Star Wars/Marvel Trash (08:40) Mike Rowe: We need 500,000 welders, plumbers, and electricians (18:01) Christine - How can I avoid liberal Catholic schools? (28:19) Todd - Gun smoke did have an 'A' list Star. Kurt Russell was on when he was a kid. (35:34) Linda - My Grandchildren are getting baptized in a non-Catholic Church. Is that a valid baptism? (37:27) Billy (email) - A priest told me the other day that God loves us unconditionally, but he damns us to hell if we don’t love him back. How is that unconditional? (40:11) Shannon - Is feng shui compatible with Catholics? (43:41) Bob - Can I do tai chi for health purposes and to lose weight? (46:37) Rosalie - During the Carter administration I was an apprentice for the federal Government. We were trained how to be mechanics. They canceled the program though but now we are needing these jobs. (49:09)

Patrick takes listeners through the meaning and history of Catholic devotions like the brown scapular and the miraculous medal while addressing common myths with clear, practical explanations. Calls spark discussions about the canon of Scripture, the early Church, apocryphal texts, and living authentic faith without superstition. Expect honest answers, a touch of humor, and insights for Protestants curious about Catholicism as well as lifelong Catholics.   Sal - Can you explain the Brown Scapular? (00:45) Lynn - Why is the book of Judas not in the Catholic Bible? (08:31) Roxanna (email) - A few weeks ago, you made a comment that Catholicism is not a denomination. Can you expand/clarify what you mean by that? (17:27) James - Where does the promise of the Brown Scapular come from? (21:13) Tessa - What about metal scapulars or medals that have scapular built in? Is there a difference between these and other scapulars? (27:46) Gabriel - I am a Protestant wanting to enter the Church. Can you explain what the miraculous medal is? My wife and I are confused about this and other devotions. (36:19) Ezra (10-years-old) - Did Jesus have a last name? (43:03) Mark - I affirm what you are saying about the trades. I am a semi-retired drywall contractor. This has been a good life for myself. I want to encourage others to consider it. (44:32) Kate - Where was it understood that after Peter the other Popes would have the same power? (46:56)

On The Patrick Madrid Show, a caller named Connie asked Patrick how to explain to her uncle away from the Faith why Catholics pray to Mary and the saints—aren’t they passed away? Doesn’t the Bible say Jesus is the only mediator?  Mary & the Saints  Patrick pulls out Mark 12:27 where Jesus says: “He is not the God of the dead but of the living.” Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, Mary—they’re alive in God. Mary isn’t just a memory or some dusty relic in a tomb. She was assumed body and soul into heaven and is gloriously alive in God’s presence.  We’re asking living members of Christ’s body to pray for us. But Doesn’t the Bible Say Jesus Is the Only Mediator? Yes! 1 Timothy 2:5 says: “There is one mediator between God and man, the man Christ Jesus.” Right before that, Paul tells us to: -offer prayers -intercede for each other -give thanks for everyone, even kings  In other words, Jesus is the bridge that makes it possible for us to pray for each other. When we ask Mary or the saints to pray for us, we’re not replacing Jesus. We’re joining the family prayer chain.  Picture the Prayer Triangle Patrick gave this helpful visual:-You ask your friend to pray for you (left point)-Friend brings your prayer to God (top point)-God answers with blessings (back down to you) Same thing when we ask Mary or a saint:We’re just asking a friend of God—someone already perfected in love and close to His heart to join us in prayer. We’re not treating Mary or saints like gods. We’re asking them to pray with us and for us because we’re all part of the Body of Christ, across heaven and earth. It’s relational, not competitive. Want to go deeper? Patrick has a free article called Any Friend of God’s Is a Friend of Mine. It’s packed with biblical examples and clear explanations.

Patrick moves straight into a discussion about unconventional practices at Eucharistic adoration, insisting on reverence and tradition. He fields heartfelt listener questions about mystical dreams, the relationship between God’s providence and free will, the role of prayer when God already knows everything, and how to respond to troubling news like the church strike in Gaza, while mixing in advice about personal boundaries, parish relationships, and the current state of the Jesuits.   Trish (email) - Our pastor hosts Praise and Worship services which have praise and worship music. He then has Eucharistic Adoration during this service. Music is being played and he allows the people to touch the monstrance and sit or lay in front of it which has been brought down off the altar to a small table. Is he wrong to do this? (01:51) Emily (email) - I had a dream/vision where I saw Jesus. Was this actually Jesus or not? (05:33) John - Is there such a thing as predestination or can prayer change the outcome of the path that the world is on? (10:18) Gaza's Catholic Church has been hit by Israel missiles (20:45) Peggy - How is it that God has a plan and that I have free will? These seem to contradict each other. (23:40) Delores - How can I go about being respectful to someone after having a bad interaction with them at Church? (38:05) Chris - How do you feel about the Jesuits and their teachings? (46:11)

Patrick explores Charlie Kirk’s surprising comments urging Protestants to embrace greater reverence for Mary while pushing back on Catholic teachings like the Immaculate Conception and Assumption; audio clips and sharp reactions from both Protestant and Catholic perspectives tumble out as Patrick brings biblical and historical insight, citing even reformers like Luther, in thoughtful response. Vivid stories from callers swirl in, including modern accounts of extraordinary events and personal encounters with Marian devotion. The conversation turns candid and sometimes challenging as Patrick questions assumptions and connects these issues straight to faith’s daily impact.   Robert - In 2007, something happened to image of Our Lady of Guadalupe in Mexico City. Did you hear about this? (02:24) Patrick shares and comments on Charlie Kirk’s talk about our Blessed Mother (21:20) Audio: reaction to Charlie Kirk (38:41)

Patrick opens the conversation by examining Catholic and Protestant interpretations of sinlessness in Adam and Eve, Mary, and the saints, responding directly to Charlie Kirk’s recent take on Catholic dogma. Throughout the episode, he answers callers, addressing everything from Mary’s role as mother to the Biblical timeline, salvation outside the Church, and the foundations of faith, bringing Scripture, personal insight, and Church teaching together in surprising ways. Expect moments of challenge, warmth, and clarity as Patrick moves from theological explanation to heartfelt listener engagement.   Robert (email) - Of course Adam and Eve were sinless before the fall. That does not contradict what Charlie Kirk said Paul wrote about nobody being sinless. (00:40) Robert - I am not impressed with what Charlie Kirk is saying. As Catholics, we have to have faith and Protestants don't have faith. He has no faith. (07:46) Ann - The Blessed Mother: She was not chosen by God. She was created for the position. (11:42) Emily - I am a convert. The humanization of Mary changed my mind about her. We should remember that the hidden years of God were a real thing, and Mary had a real role in raising Jesus. (17:16) Jim - Would Charlie Kirk go to heaven? (23:26) Richard - What time were Adam and Eve at in history? How does this square with prehistoric humanity? (32:13) Chris - Protestants seem to fail at looking at the entire landscape of the Catholic Church (39:19) Ben - My uncle is married to a woman who hasn't received an annulment. How should I approach him to help him validate his marriage? (44:49) Nancy - Why was it essential that Jesus was conceived in a pure environment yet was born in a dirty filthy stable? (49:02)

Patrick answers heartfelt calls about the consequences of receiving sacraments outside a state of grace, wrestles with the pain families feel when a loved one chooses a same-sex relationship, and gives honest, practical counsel rooted in Catholic faith. He fields questions on validity, fruitfulness, prayer, and offers resources for thorny issues like annulments, all while addressing the unexpected—national identity, shifting language, and the ache of parental guilt. The conversations shift quickly: comfort for a mother in turmoil, a puzzled listener’s questions on sacramental grace, a candid discussion about maintaining conviction in a culture where words keep changing.   Bree (email) - Yesterday’s show you mentioned it’s a mortal sin to receive the sacrament of marriage in the state of mortal sin. Is my marriage valid? (00:40) Mary - Our 30-year-old daughter just announced she is gay and in a relationship. She doesn't want any comments from us. What can we do? (04:00) Diane - What is the difference between surrendering your problems vs offering them up? Also, I want to know more about the treasury of grace. (11:55) Mike - Should I seek annulment for my ex-wife? My ex-wife married and maybe if I got an annulment it would help her. (19:54) Miles - Can we come up with a new name for the United States? United States of Mexico is South of us. Also we have the nation of Columbia, which is another problem. (26:26) Fred - I requested Intinction of the Eucharist at my parish but the Bishop does not allow it. Do I have any other options? (34:33) Tom – Thinking the name of our country being offensive is a very spoiled position to take. (39:41) Mary - My daughter was in a gay relationship. What changed everything was when I started fasting along with prayers. (47:13)

Patrick explores the odd world of online witchcraft trends on Etsy, then moves thoughtfully through listener questions about sacramentals like the brown scapular, fertility awareness methods, and even the acceptability of acupuncture for Catholics. He addresses the Church’s preference for burial over cremation with a personal perspective and takes time to comfort a grieving mother returning to faith.   Etsy Witches Charge for Curses (00:55) Andrew - I can't remember if I was enrolled in the brown scapular or not. Can I be re-enrolled? (10:09) Kayla - Is acupuncture an okay medical practice? Is this occult? (18:19) Cindy - Thank you Patrick! I am in the Lutheran Church and have learned so much about the Lord and the Bible because of you! Should I be buried or cremated? (24:26) Annie - My daughter passed away and they cremated her. Will a person who is cremated not go to heaven? I never baptized my daughter. My mother said she baptized her. (37:29 Kurt - How do we juggle what the Church teaches about committing a sin and meeting the conditions of mortal sin? Is this a relativist way of thinking? (49:37)

Patrick fields pressing questions about Catholic teaching on mortal sin, moral relativism, and what truly counts as grave matter. A caller describes a broken family tie, seeking insight into relational pain, while another wrestles with the moral weight of honesty during life-or-death situations. He shares practical resources and scriptural foundations, responding to heartfelt struggles with faith, obligation, and complex family burdens.   Patrick continues his conversation with Kurt from the end of the last hour asking about the conditions of mortal sin and the “grey line” of relativism. (01:03) Enrique - Is there moral grounds for my brother to abandon our family and not have any conversations with them? (17:55) Angel - My family member declined to go to Mass with us this Sunday. Is there anything I can do to talk to her? (26:02) Vance casts tie-breaking votes to move forward $9.4B rescissions package — which would defund PBS, NPR and Planned Parenthood (36:41) America's dairy farmers and ice cream producers agree to quit using artificial colors Patrick in Monterey - I was not aware that the Blessed Mother had a sister. How is this possible? (39:41) Maureen - My daughter is having a difficult time with a recent divorce. Does her ex-husband need to agree to get an annulment? (41:32) Jared - I want to work in health insurance. The government mandates that insurance covers abortion. Some even cover gender therapy. Is it wrong to be an insurance salesman and sell these things? (47:20)

Patrick answers a caller’s anxious question about the validity of a Catholic wedding when a bride voices doubts about having children—offering frank, pastoral advice rooted in Church teaching. He turns to practical matters, discussing fasting before Communion, the line between venial and mortal sins, and recommending ways to engage the Bible more deeply with Catholic study tools. Lighter moments surface too, as Patrick weighs in on movie suggestions, responds warmly to handwritten letters, and addresses the challenges of faith in mixed marriages, all while weaving genuine encouragement and wit throughout.   Lisa – I know someone who told me they did not want to have children and then told the priest during the wedding that she is open to having children. (00:47) Christopher (email) - I have recently purchased the Ignatius Catholic Study Bible, but I’m overwhelmed as to where I should start. (11:53) Judy – Can Patrick recommend some good movies? (17:59) David – What does fasting for Holy Communion include? How do you determine if a sin is mortal or venial? (24:41) Email – Is it possible to lust after your wife? (40:01) Joseph - How do marriage dispensations work for someone who is not Catholic? (42:59) Rita (letter) – Is it bad that I yawn when I pray the Rosary? (48:18)

Patrick takes listeners’ questions head on, offering practical guidance through everything from spiritual crises and Catholic teaching to thorny family disputes. He peppers in book suggestions, advice on prayer, and clarity about sacramental life, constantly weaving lived experience with Church wisdom. Calls about strained relationships, conversion, and faith struggles spark honest, sometimes deeply moving conversation.   Gwen (email) – When our son died, it devastated our lives, and my husband stopped going to church.  My husband now has bone cancer and I need help getting him back to confession. (1:08) Lisa - My daughter is going out with illegal immigrant and not talking with me. The boy's dad died and she believes it is ICE's fault. What should I do? (07:19) St. Augustine and St. Mary of The Desert struggled with lust. Why didn't they get married? (12:56) Dylan (email) - I am wondering that if we live our faith on our own power and our own will strength, how we can get out of that and live the faith with God and rest in Him? (22:31) Maryanne - Can you recommend a book for my granddaughter who is going to a Christian teen group? (26:30) Chandler (email) - Does the church teach that the Eucharist is absolutely necessary for salvation? Gabe (email) - I have heard that wearing a metal scapular doesn't carry the same promises (specifically that someone who wears it devoutly won't go to hell). Can you explain the specifics? (36:39) Pat - What do you think about the SSPX and are they in union with the Catholic Church? (39:32) Jessica - Is it my responsibility for me to facilitate a relationship between my kids and their grandparents? (44:53)

Patrick tackles honest questions from listeners, one moment offering a gentle approach for keeping Sundays sacred, the next delivering direct counsel to couples about marriage and faith, with stories of moral challenges like IVF and cohabitation woven in. He shares encouragement with aspiring apologists, breaks down tough Protestant questions about Catholic teaching, and draws from decades of wisdom, stringing together lively moments, deep insights, and authentic connection. With warmth, occasional humor, and frankness, Patrick keeps each moment real.   Jean - What would you advise a couple to do who are living together but want to marry in the Church? (03:24) Peter (9-years-old) - If there is no evil in heaven, how did Satan turn away? (12:16) Lydia - My family friend did IVF and had 6 eggs fertilized. She has 5 left. What should she do with these eggs? (14:48) Mario - I want to be a Catholic Apologist. What is the best way to do this? (22:43) *Connie - Why do we Catholics pray to Mary and the Saints? They are dead already. (28:37) Jake – The word “Pope” isn’t in the bible. (37:40) Tom (email) - Why do we not refer to Moses and Elijah as Saints? (27:12)

Patrick fields concerns about affording Catholic school, whether papal visits carry hidden costs, even the morality of war—never shying away from callers wrestling with their family’s reactions to Catholic teaching. In the mix: humor, candid advice, and a refusal to gloss over the tough stuff.   Simone (email) - I saw a timely meme yesterday......it shows Jesus saying, "Love your neighbor as yourself," and somebody saying to Jesus, "But, who is my neighbor?" And Jesus responds with "Whoever you were hoping I wouldn't say." (03:41) Mary (email) – Can a priest add a Hail Mary after the Mass is over? (07:30) Vinny - I was the last person in the Communion line. I tried to receive on my tongue. The Eucharistic minister said, 'Can I please put this in your hand?' (13:00) John – There are 4 Eucharistic prayers available at Mass. (22:38) Victoria (email) - My husband refuses to send kids to catholic school due to cost. I’m desperate and don’t want my kids to continue in public school. Any recommendations if home schooling is an option. (25:09) Maura (email) - Does the Pope usually only visit countries that pay millions for his visit? How does the Pope decide which countries to visit? (28:17) Lucia (email) - I know that killing people is a sin. But, how about when you are in the military fighting in war, would that be a sin? (36:25) Jan - Receiving Communion on the tongue: shouldn't Eucharistic Ministers have a program to show them how to administer the Eucharist? (43:59) Preston - I am a Protestant looking into Catholicism. Catholics on the Walk to Mary told me that I have to be clean before I go to Mass. Is that correct? Are Catholics elitist? (47:50)

Patrick tackles the thorny divide between Catholics and Protestants on faith and works, pulling from Scripture while fielding heartfelt listener questions—everything from tricky family dynamics and workplace dilemmas to discerning adoption and skepticism about viral miracle stories. This episode weaves honest confrontation of doubts with direct, faith-driven answers on real-life moral scenarios.   Patrick continues to answer Preston’s question from the end of the last hour. Preston had asked, “Are Catholic’s elitists?” (01:05) Marie - There is a lesbian couple with a baby that is going to be in my inner-circle for a year. As Catholics, we don't celebrate those things, but how can I be professional about this? (21:30) Email – Is God telling us to adopt? (32:53) Adam - Would you classify as good works things like attending Mass every Sunday, frequenting confession, and receiving the Eucharist? Would those moments in which we choose not to sin be considered good works? (38:34) Kat (email) - Viral Video of Boy Seeing Father and Jesus (44:56) Gloria (email) – I didn’t marry in the Church. Can I still take Holy Communion? (49:13)

Patrick has a heated discussion about giving wealth to the Church and family fallout, honest confusion over DNR orders, and the raw tension stirred when priests wade into politics from the pulpit. Advice ricochets from inheritance disputes to hospice ethics and right back into the storm of faith meeting messy, everyday life.   Domingo - Would donating lands or vineyard give you credit to enter heaven? If you give more money can you get out of Purgatory? (01:22) Patricia - Do Not Resuscitate orders. Should we approve DNR for a family member? (17:51) Tim - My neighbor wanted to give me a Book of Mormon, and I told him that I am a practicing Catholic. Is 'practicing Catholic' and appropriate term? (29:13) Nina - Domingo was saying the people were blaming the Church and wanted to know why this happened. (35:43) Mary - Priest at Church was very political and lectured the people about the President's policies. How do I handle this? (39:15)

Here’s the scoop from this powerful episode of The Patrick Madrid Show. Patrick gives you a message a lot of us need to hear, even if it stings a little.  Meet Delia Delia calls in from L.A.; she’s been living with her boyfriend for over 10 years.They have a child together; he’s helped raise her other kids, but… they’re not married.She’s Catholic, goes to Mass, and she doesn’t receive Communion because she knows something’s not right. Her big question: “Should I go to confession even though I’m still living this way?” Patrick’s Loving (but direct!) Wake-Up Call Patrick’s response was compassionate but crystal clear: "Yes, you need confession... but confession only works if you’re ready to repent." (i.e., change your life). Right now, Delia is living in a state of mortal sin. Why Moving Out Matters Patrick explains: Jesus calls us to radical decisions: “If your eye causes you to sin, pluck it out.”Translation: Cut off anything dragging you away from God. So, What Should Delia Do? Here's Patrick's advice: Pray for courage.Get on your knees before the crucifix and beg Jesus for help. Patrick recommends the "Prayer Before a Crucifix" on the Relevant Radio app.  Make the hard break.You don’t have to hate him or abandon him as the father of your child, but you can’t live as husband and wife when you’re not. Then go to confession.But only after you’re ready to leave the sinful situation. Why This Matters Patrick leaves her with this stunning line:“You’re a daughter of the King. You’re royalty. But you’re living in the worst kind of peasant squalor.”  Delia (and all of us in sinful situations) are made for more.God isn’t trying to ruin our fun; He’s calling us to freedom, peace, and true love.  Real Talk Takeaway: If you’re stuck in a sinful situation and wondering, “Can’t I just go to confession and keep doing this?” ... the hard truth is: NO.Confession without repentance is like trying to shower in a mud pit. Here’s the good news from Patrick:"You’re one good confession away from becoming a saint." Final encouragement from Patrick:Ask Jesus for help. Put first the Kingdom of God, and everything else will be added unto you. (Matthew 6:33)

Patrick explores listener questions prompted by an email on liturgical shifts—why some find deeper connection in traditional Catholic practices, and what’s really at stake when Mass customs change. He fields honest concerns about the experience of Eucharist, gives straight answers on receiving communion, challenges listeners with the "cannibalism" objection, and throws in practical advice for those struggling to defend their faith with confidence.   Dave (email) – Can you tell me why there are liturgical changes happening in my diocese? (02:05) Kristy - Can you go to two Masses and receive communion twice in one day? (24:06) Paola – How can I adequately defend my faith? (25:40) Chris - How can I explain the Eucharist to a buddy of mine? He thinks it is cannibalism. (30:11) Angie – Question about the Bread of Life Discourse. (48:15)

Patrick pulls listeners into a spirited hour, fielding tough questions on the Bread of Life discourse and the Eucharist’s real presence while addressing everything from early Church tradition and the logic of St. Ignatius to the thorniest objections from evangelical friends. In fast-paced exchanges with callers, he moves from scriptural argument to real-life dilemmas—like whether to confront family about uncomfortable truths or respond to bishops’ dispensations on Mass—never shying away from controversy or complexity. Recommendations, personal anecdotes, and sharp-witted rebuttals pour out, making the faith both challenging and deeply immediate.   Patrick continues his conversation with Angie about the Bread of Life Discourse (01:53) Barbara - When Jesus says this is my body and blood in the synoptic Gospels, it is connected with John 6. (11:13) Lisa - Bread of Life discourse: Was it not possible that the people who did not believe did not believe because Jesus was alive in front of them? Charles - Bishops in CA have told their parishioners not to come to Mass because of the ICE raids. What do you think of that? (18:18) Tim – Transubstantiation: Jesus showed us in His miracles that He was capable of anything. (24:18) Max - My wife's uncle is into trans ideology and has been posting inappropriate messages. Should my mom talk to her uncle? (27:21) What about the Bread of Life Discourse in regard to John 6:66? (36:56) Trevor - In the Bread of Life Discourse, what does it mean that the flesh is of no avail? (39:25) Andy - Is the Episcopal Church Eucharist the same as Catholic Eucharist? (46:41)

Maria’s marriage is teetering under the weight of her husband’s drug use, secrecy, and abuse, and she’s torn about whether to alert authorities or the church. Listeners weigh in, sharing wisdom about shame, forgiveness, and hope, while Patrick threads hard questions—parental fear, legal complications, marital fidelity—into a conversation that refuses to flinch.   Maria - My husband is using drugs and stealing. Do I need to do something legally? (00:54) Susan - My daughter is expecting a baby and about to be engaged. How do we deal with this? (18:38) Sandra - This really touches me because I was in a similar situation. I hope she will focus on the sacrament of Confession and believe and live it. Let it go, and celebrate the new life. (30:02) Chris - It is reprehensible that ICE is going on Church property. If they do that they need a warrant. Otherwise, this is a 4th Amendment violation. (38:19) Sarah - How long should someone hold onto shame after confession? (42:18) David - I think we need to stop interchangeably using the words 'sin' and 'mistake'. (46:10)

Patrick opens with a timely update on the IRS shifting its stance toward churches and political endorsements and brings listeners the bishops’ decision to maintain neutrality, regardless of the new government position. Calls from listeners spark heartfelt discussion: Patrick consoles a struggling convert torn between his faith and his family, suggests practical resources for pro-life conversations, and offers comforting scripture for those on lonely roads. A burst of everyday reflections, personal stories, and unexpected commentary on everything from local Catholic life to pop culture threads through it all.   Catholic Church will NOT promote political candidates, despite possible IRS change (01:08) Josh - I was talking to my younger daughter about abortion. How can I handle these conversations? (03:46) Robert - Reading from Galatians: did Paul have the first stigmata? (19:10) Ellen - How do I raise a Catholic daughter and teach her about the Sign of the Cross? My parents are Protestant, and I feel like we can't make the Sign of the Cross at their house. (22:43) Angie - For Joshua: Actress I know was a product or rape and wouldn’t it be a shame if she was aborted. (31:35) Laurie - I love your super nice station. What is the best prayer or scripture to say if you are being targeted by satanic groups? (35:31) 6 Secret Service Agents Suspended After Trump Assassination Attempt (43:09)

Patrick fields heartfelt listener calls with questions about praying the Rosary, Mass tradition, and whether to reconcile after betrayal while offering sharply practical pastoral advice. One moment he’s sharing encouragement for public acts of faith at restaurants; the next, he’s talking through the details of canonical separation and the real cost of letting hurting people back into your life.   Ruby - My husband is now out of prison and doing well. He wants to reconcile. What should I do? (06:49) Vince - I try to pray the Rosary every day, and I don't understand why we mediate on the mysteries while praying? How do you multitask? (15:54) Bea - We pray when we go out to dinner. Should we ask permission to pray when going over to someone else’s house? (22:30) Mark - Trump assassination: We were watching it live. I was also watching Reagan live. I noticed the drastic difference between what happened with Reagan and what happened with Trump. (28:51) T-Mobile kills DEI (35:25) Jeanie - Dating this man but his adult daughter calls the shots. What should I do? (38:45) Patrick shares the tragic story of his friend, Manuel, who just suffered a devastating stroke, and he asks for prayers for his family. (45:23) Barbara - Saying the Rosary with a picture book helps me not be distracted (47:27) Jackie - How did the Holy Spirit come to the Apostles after the Resurrection? Can you explain this? (49:01)

Patrick welcomes listeners into conversations that cut straight to the heart of Catholic living: real confessions, confusion about receiving the Holy Spirit, the tension of relationships outside of marriage, and the struggle for hope while wrestling with sin. His advice never pulls punches, he speaks plainly about Church teaching yet manages warmth, compassion, and challenge, sparking moments of both humor and deep reflection. Each call brings out raw honesty about faith, forgiveness, and the daily choices that either carry us closer to grace or pull us further away.   Patrick continues his conversation with Jackie from the end of the last hour. She asks, how did the Holy Spirit come to the Apostles after the Resurrection? (00:55) Kathy - How I do I respond to someone who wants you to go to a gay marriage? (05:36) Michael - Church teaches that even one unconfessed mortal sin will cause you to go to hell. What if I don't remember everything? (08:22) Cynthia (email) - My husband, Tom, suffered a stroke in Nov 2019.  He is paralyzed on his left side. (13:17) Robert (email) - When penitents enter the Reconciliation Room, are they supposed to have the option of (1) kneeling behind a screen to confess anonymously or (2) sitting in a chair across from the priest to confess face to face? (15:20) Joseph - If Christ died and is full atonement for our sins, then why do Catholics teach we can lose salvation and that we have to confess sins? (20:05) Delia - I have been living with my boyfriend for over 10 years. Should I go to Confession knowing that I will be still living with my boyfriend? (27:38) Linda - A person at my parish is habitually late for mass. I don't know why others are judging her. What should I say to them? (39:23) Yolanda - Delia is being a bad witness to children by living with a man. I will be praying for her. (46:24) Jalen - I think Delia is underestimating the power of God and what He can do for her. I think she needs to have faith and trust in God. (48:01) Dominic - How did population increase from Adam and Eve? (49:52)