The Patrick Madrid Show

Ellen emailed Patrick and asked: "Is it wrong to name my guardian angel?" The Short Answer:Patrick says, “No, don’t name your guardian angel,” because the Church actually says not to. Why not? Angels are right below God in the order of creation, way above us humans. They have authority over us, not the other way around. Your guardian angel is like your heavenly bodyguard, not your pet. Naming means authority. In the Bible, Adam named the animals to show his dominion over them. Since angels have dominion over us, naming them flips the order. God already named them. He’s the Creator, so naming rights are His, not ours. Patrick’s Analogy:It’d be like your dog deciding to name you. That'd be strange!  Extra backup:Even Pope Benedict XVI said not to do it. Saints like Padre Pio, St. Teresa of Ávila, and St. John Bosco had close relationships with their guardian angels, but they never named them. What you can do: -Talk to your guardian angel every day. -Ask for guidance and protection. -Foster that friendship, but don't name them.

This episode of The Patrick Madrid Show is an exploration into one of those ouch topics: What happened to Judas? Is it possible he still went to heaven? Patrick walks us through Pope Leo’s recent catechesis, which centers on Jesus, our hope... and the betrayal at the Last Supper.  Pope Leo reflects on that haunting line from Mark 14: “Surely it is not I?” He calls it one of the most sincere questions a disciple can ask, and it’s a moment of fragile, gut-check honesty. But then the Holy Father shares this heavy truth: “If by betraying, we become unfaithful to ourselves... we exclude ourselves from salvation.” In other words, Judas didn’t get dragged to hell against his will; he chose the path. He excluded himself.  What the Church Has Actually Said: Patrick reminds us that this isn’t mere speculation: The Catechism of the Council of Trent flat-out says: “Judas has not profited from redemption and has lost his soul.” That’s the Church putting it plainly. But… What About God’s Mercy?! This is a totally fair question, but Patrick lays it out like this: -God won’t force you to love Him.  -Patrick reminds us that Judas knew Jesus. He lived with Him, ate with Him, and he saw miracles.And still... he walked away. Don't forget that Jesus said: “None of them was lost except the son of destruction…” – John 17:12 That’s Jesus talking about Judas, not a random sinner.  Jesus also said in scripture that it would have been better if Judas was never born; Patrick explains that this wouldn't make sense if Judas ended up in heaven.  Patrick reminds you that even someone that close to Jesus can fall, so how much more do we need to cling to grace? We shouldn't fear, but we need to stay close to Jesus and always choose repentance (like Peter did). Let's never take our salvation for granted.

Patrick opens with heartfelt prayer and listener calls, tackling questions about Catholic marriage, annulments, and conscience, while weaving in stories of parents facing adult children’s addiction. When John from Austin joins to share his journey to sobriety, the conversation shifts to hope and practical support. The pledge drive pulses in the background, offering gifts and a chance at a Poland pilgrimage with Drew Mariani, as Patrick reminds everyone that listener support fuels every moment.   Lisa - My cousin is divorced and dating a man whose wife is deceased. What is the situation between her and this man if they marry? She cites Matthew 5:32 in support of getting married.  (01:22) Email – My adult children are not doing well and I’m disappointed in them, even embarrassed. I know it sounds selfish, but I don’t know what to say to people when they ask how they are doing. (05:41) John - I am a son of parents that struggle with alcoholism. I notice that the power of prayer does help. (15:00) Josie (email) - One of your fellow employees said that we should NEVER ask someone to go against his or her conscience, including those Catholics who don't want to get married in the church. How can you not be on the same page for such an important issue? (27:35) Preston (email) - Over the years, I have had this increasing despondency, like a desolation of the soul. Sometimes, I wonder, “What if it’s all a lie?”  (41:39)

Patrick jumps into the summer pledge drive with a heartfelt prayer, inviting listeners to call in and share their struggles, questions, and triumphs. A call from Don in Arizona sparks a raw conversation about faith, loneliness, and returning to the Church, while Tom from Philadelphia seeks advice on discussing Catholicism with LDS missionaries using everyday encounters. Along the way, gratitude flows from listener emails and Patrick stresses the importance of supporting Relevant Radio to keep hope and honest conversation alive.   Don - I have a hard time dealing with my feelings and connecting with other people. It is just getting harder and harder. What can I do? (01:13) Hilary (email) - How fruitful is daily Mass if you can't receive the Eucharist? (19:14) Tom - I met some LDS missionaries. I think the Great Apostasy would make Jesus a liar. How can I talk to these guys about not giving up my faith? How can I be friends with them? (27:32) Ben - As a Catholic, I know I am required that I am supposed to believe in the Assumption. How was her soul reunited with her body? (39:22)

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Patrick opens the Relevant Radio Summer Pledge Drive with prayer and genuine warmth, instantly setting a supportive tone. He fields spirited calls about faith practices, Catholic marriage convalidation, and even awkward moments at Mass, while weaving in lighthearted commentary about blankets and coffee that spark a few laughs. Listeners find insight, practical advice, and honest encouragement as Patrick responds to concerns and shares community stories of faith put into action.   Laura (email) - Incorrect mass behavior: Is it okay for lay people to put their hands on children to give them blessings? (01:34) Mary - I was shopping, and the sales lady didn't understand why I didn't want to buy a piece of furniture in China. Lady told me that Communism wasn't bad in and of itself, just that some of the leaders were bad. Any advice? Should I go to her manager? (05:47) Justin – My wife and I were married in a Lutheran Church. I am Lutheran and my wife is Catholic but lapsed. Can she take RCIA with me? (15:20) Anne (email) - Is there a book about the history of the Catholic Church that you’d recommend? (22:32) Greg - My wife and I have started the process for convalidation. The priest said it would take 3 months, but it is taking longer. What should I do? (27:36) Patrick shares audio from an IVF shopper who gleefully talks about all of the babies who died (42:59)

Patrick answers questions about faith, mercy, Catholic traditions, and parish life, while pausing to celebrate generous donor milestones and highlight thank-you gifts like the anniversary blanket. He tackles subjects ranging from the value of late-life conversion to whether babies in the womb have guardian angels, even offering book recommendations and advice for adapting to priests with language barriers. Mary Graham joins Patrick to energize the pledge drive, urging support that keeps Catholic programming strong.   Kathryn (email) - Those who recognize God's grace and say yes to God experience a unique sense of comfort and certainty while they toil on earth. (01:25) Clarissa (email) - I was thinking of switching Catholic Churches. We've been members of one Parish for over 30 years. However, I feel drawn to a Church that offers a daily Latin Mass and a weekend Latin Mass on Sundays. I feel bad leaving our Church where we are established members. (05:52) Lupita (email) - Do babies in the womb have a guardian angel? (14:33) Roxanne (email) – All masses are healing masses Amy (email) - I listened to Drew’s talk on adoration and it reminded me (and inspired me) to spend more time in adoration. Should the Eucharist be exposed or locked in the tabernacle? (28:36) Jack (email) – What I have great difficulty understanding, as a faithful Catholic, is why an all-powerful, omniscient, and all loving Father would will into, and sustain, existence for a wretch who is "better if he had never been born" and known by God before they exist to be condemned forever to the painful and lonely alienation from God. (31:32) Robert (email) - How did Moses and Elijah appear at the transfiguration when the gates of heaven did not open till after the resurrection? (43:27) Jean (email) – Our new priest doesn’t speak very good English. I’ve been sad not being able to grasp the message he is delivering and wondering if it wouldn’t be possible to have his homily as a handout or even projected on the screens? (45:31)

Patrick fields thoughtful questions about what it means to “become God,” how to keep prayer intentional instead of routine, why watching Mass on TV can still foster spiritual growth, and whether abstaining from the Precious Blood at Communion is okay for those in recovery.   Patrick in Wausau, WI - Can you explain CC460 to me? How do we become God? (01:17) Matt - How do I keep prayer from becoming a checklist? (14:35) Carmen - Is it offensive to watch or listen to mass on television? (27:27) James - How do I worship God? Is it through the Eucharist? (32:45) Oscar - If I am an alcoholic. Can I receive the Precious Blood at church? (41:36)

Patrick guides a caller through a wrenching family conflict sparked by the caller’s faith and his sister’s same-sex wedding, offering both scriptural counsel and blunt honesty about painful divisions. He also draws listeners into a tough examination of Judas Iscariot’s fate, blending biblical analysis, papal teaching, and gritty discussion about grace, repentance, and God’s justice. Listeners find practical wisdom scattered throughout, whether it's about confronting tensions in church pews or finding hope within support groups for Catholics facing similar struggles.   Dave - My sister came out as gay and I don't know how to break it to my parents that I cannot stand by this. How can I deal with this? (01:29) *Was Judas saved? Patrick shares Pope Leo’s message from his General Audience. (16:04) Kathy - Is it true that St. Theresa of Avila used to pray for Judas? (31:07) Rosie - I am confused about God being merciful. Does God forgive us one last time? How do we know Judas did not get that opportunity? (32:26) Dan (email) – I’m seeing more hats inside Church. Is there anything I can do about it? (39:03) Theresa - It would be great if you mentioned Courage and Encourage International. Dave needs a support system. I go to these meetings as a parent. (43:27) Stuart - How do we attain salvation in the Passion without certain actors like Judas and St. Peter committing certain sins? (45:59)

Patrick fields questions from listeners about current headlines, like Costco’s stance against selling abortion pills, and responds with clarity to concerns about proper attire and behavior in church. He listens deeply, offering real guidance on misconceptions about the rapture, Communion, and programs like Alpha, while gently supporting those coping with loss or family difficulties. Nothing escapes his thoughtful analysis, whether it’s the meaning of suffering, handling awkward encounters at Mass, or matters of faith and conscience in everyday life.   Costco will not sell abortion pills (00:52) Raya (9-years-old) - Does God take people up to Heaven in the rapture? (02:58) Carmen - You talked about the guy wearing hats in mass. What about how people are dressing during the summer such as women who wear shorts and crop tops? (11:28) Don - This Church I know puts on the Alpha program. The pastor brought this to my church. Is this ok? (20:05) Mario - In reference to Judas, he was very steeped into his religion, and he was waiting for the warrior king.  When Jesus comes along and see Jesus with peace and harmony he was trying to bring out that power out of Jesus. (26:01) Craig (email) - I am looking for your advice on attending a "wedding" reception for a family friend who I believe was baptized Catholic and went to Catholic elementary school, but however, choose not to be confirmed and also wasn't brought up in a household that practiced the faith. (34:43) Kate - I miscarried last week ago, and my dad told my kids that the next baby that comes along will have the first baby's soul.   What do you think about his and where is he getting it from?  (38:47) Pat - How do I stop someone who wants to receive communion, but is not Catholic, and she's doing it out of anger.  (46:19)

Patrick answers pressing questions from listeners, ranging from whether Judas’ betrayal had to happen for Christ’s crucifixion to practical struggles like being distracted by phones at Mass or how to approach a parent remarried outside the Church. He mixes clear Church teaching with plainspoken encouragement, reminding callers about God’s timeless perspective, the meaning behind Catholic discipline, and how to find spiritual focus even amid modern distractions. Forgiveness, confession, feast days, and the placement of statues at church come up, each explored with real-life examples and a dash of humor.   Alex - Was Judas betrayal required for the fulfillment of the prophecies? (00:49) Elizabeth - I sometimes go to a Spanish mass, and don't understand anything.  I don't even know if it's a valid mass for me.  Is it still valid? (06:37) Eva - Some churches give out 'The Word Among Us” for Mass readings or the USCCB Website and she could follow it in English. (15:13) Elena (email) – Is it okay to ask for an anointment of the sick just in case something happened on my flight? (18:49) Adam (email) - Can we eat meat today on the Feast of the Assumption of Mary? (23:34) Juan - What does he think about Churches that, instead of having the crucifix in the center behind the altar, they have an image or statue of Mary? Why not Jesus on the side? (27:39) Christina - Do Christians forgive but not forget?  (33:15) Mary - Could you explain how are we supposed to talk to our parents who are taking the Eucharist even though they are married outside the Church? (44:29) Kathy - We have to forgive but never forget the lessons that caused the problem.  (47:01)

Patrick tackles raw questions about faith and practice, jumping from the nuances of sainthood and martyrdom to the quirks of liturgical ritual. Listeners share struggles with family rifts, spiritual confusion, and the challenges of raising children with special needs in a parish pew, all while Patrick gives perspective, sometimes practical, sometimes straight from tradition. Thoughts shift rapidly, from theological details to heartfelt encouragement, as Patrick guides each caller through the unpredictable threads of Catholic life.   Marty - Does someone have to be Catholic to be a saint if they are martyred? (00:36) Jeff - Does the priest have to be holding the bread in his hand during the Consecration? (09:24) Julie (email) – Was Jesus black? (17:36) Chinto - What is the Catholic Church's view on the Book of Enoch? Why wasn't it put into the Scriptures. (20:54) John - How do I forgive family members when they treat me poorly? (34:36) Jen - How can I talk with a friend who grew up Catholic and is not practicing her faith and tell her not to receive Communion? (46:45)

Patrick answers raw, honest questions with equal measures of wit and compassion, tackling everything from offensive billboards and noisy kids at Mass to the ethics of cash payments and the emotional turbulence families face after loss. Authentic dilemmas, like the struggle over family members consulting mediums or the complexities behind sacraments and relics, get straight talk grounded in scripture and Catholic wisdom. Real people call, Patrick answers, nothing glossed over.   Jennifer (email) – There is an offensive billboard advertisement on property that my family owns (01:32) Gayle (email) - I heard a priest tell someone who was complaining about noisy children at Mass tell them: be careful how you criticize! You are probably going to need people to pray for you in purgatory! (07:24) Anne - How can I tell my family members that going to mediums is not biblical? (13:44) Kaley (email) - The priest who baptized me was found to be a pedophile, since he was in a state of mortal sin is my baptism valid? (21:50) Angie (email) - My boyfriend is in RCIA and when filling out paperwork, one question was if he was ever married, and he was (now divorced). Will this be an issue if we want to get married even though he wasn’t married in the church? Max (email) - Is it a sin to accept a cash payment (27:24) Kat (email) - Thank you for sharing Toastmasters as a way to improve public speaking skills. (37:48) Miles (email) - What do you think of Confirmation around the age 12, before they enter the turmoil of the teenage years? Eric - How is it that the Church has acquired 1st class relics if we are supposed to respect the dead? (42:41) Kathleen - How do we know if the Saint we are praying to is in heaven? My Protestant friend is saying that person could be in hell. (48:37)

Patrick fields a mix of heartfelt and challenging questions, from the morality of taxes supporting objectionable causes to a child's wonder about heaven's joys, offering vivid analogies and scriptural grounding. He responds to doubts about Catholic miracles, addresses faith identity confusion, and walks seekers step by step toward the Church, all while making theological concepts feel immediate and deeply personal. Listeners grapple with practical advice on marriage, sacraments, and apologetics, and Patrick meets each with sharp clarity and unwavering encouragement.   David - Is paying your taxes a sin since you are willingly giving money that winds up in Planned Parenthood's hands? (01:01) Winston (9-years-old) - What do we do in heaven after we die? (07:01) Steven - There are atheists that I know who don't like the Church. Are you aware of any peer reviewed studies that prove miracles? (13:56) John - Why does God want division when we seek unity? (23:32) Norman - The majority of people that I ask who wear the cross say I am not a Christian, but a Catholic. Why is there such a separation? (27:41) Meg (email) - I was confirmed against my will, in the mid '80s. Was my confirmation valid? (36:04) Greg - I am looking forward to joining the Church. How do I start the process and how do I get over past sins? (42:53) Victor - Marital relations question (49:02)

Patrick opens the hour reading listener emails and taking calls, dissecting the real meaning of Confirmation and urging parents to focus on genuine belief rather than pressure. He fields heartfelt questions about finding purpose in retirement, reconnecting with church life, and supporting aging parents through the sacraments, all while offering blunt advice on topics from spam calls to faith challenges at the gym. The conversation zigs between spiritual depth, daily struggles, and practical Catholic wisdom, packing sincerity and sharp insight into every exchange.   Thomas (email) - I’m listening to yesterday’s podcast and as you were reading Camille’s email about her Muslim nephew you mentioned you would come back to the topic of parents forcing children to get confirmed. I’m not sure if you addressed it later in the episode but I’m interested in hearing what you have to say on that. (01:40) Brad - How can I better discern God's will in my life? (23:00) Jodi - I am going to be confirmed in the Catholic Church. I was confirmed in the SSPX over 20 years ago. I want the Woman at the Well to be my Confirmation Saint. Is this possible? (34:38) Mary - My son didn't want to be confirmed and was not sure if he believed in God or Jesus. Our Bible study leader talked with our son and persuaded him to be confirmed. Also, was the widow you talked with more vulnerable and susceptible to men? (42:11) Danny - A gentleman at my gym and I were talking about salvation. How can I share my faith with him and talk to him about the faith? (45:00)

Patrick welcomes listeners into candid discussions, moving from sign language tips for children at Mass to personal stories about public speaking nerves and faith challenges. He responds to questions on receiving Communion, proper reverence at Mass, and tricky family situations, blending advice, humor, and genuine connection. Stories range from overcoming homelessness to building bridges in a non-Catholic Bible study, with Patrick offering perspective and encouragement at every turn.   Allison - I wanted to talk about the expecting mother who called earlier this week. I think she should teach the toddler some signs for Church. I found that very helpful for my little girls. (00:35) Joseph - I need advice on public speaking. I will be giving a testimony and want to know how you can do it? I don't feel qualified. (05:37) Patrick in Chicago – I switched to Charity Mobile! (15:48) Kristy (email) – Do I have to make the Sign of Cross with holy water when leaving the church after a Mass? (21:39) Donna - My sister-in-law asked me to bring her communion, but she is living with a man outside of marriage. She doesn't want to talk with me anymore. How can I resolve this? (27:39) Gale - People feel that all Protestants are pro-abortion, but that is not true. (37:01) Mary - Some Churches whisk the vessels away. Is the purification of the vessels part of the Mass? (39:43) Dolores - I got married in the Catholic Church but was never confirmed. Was I validly married? (46:53)

Patrick fields concerns about communion, tackles biblical support for praying to saints, and answers honest doubts about faith and science, all while peppering the hour with candid exchanges that bounce from lighthearted to deeply pastoral without missing a beat. Even tricky issues like the validity of sacraments when a priest is in mortal sin or the obstacles of getting to confession spark clear, immediate answers that keep the conversation unpredictable and real.   Robert (email) – Patrick shouldn’t share his opinions, and he was wrong when he told a man in prison that he shouldn’t take communion if he hasn’t had the opportunity of going to confession (02:28) Juan - My old friend is a pastor in a Presbyterian Church and asks why do Catholics pray to the saints? (20:41) John - Has there ever been a case where the priest celebrates Mass in a state of mortal sin? (27:44) Ed - What should we believe about evolution and the history of the world as Catholics? (36:32) Isabel - Why do we have to go to Confession once a year? (49:19)

Patrick opens with Camille’s heartache over leaving an inheritance to a nephew who has left the faith for Islam and then tackles a Chicago family's turmoil as a mother-in-law rushes into remarriage after re-baptism at a megachurch, stirring up questions of faith, trust, and family unity. He then unpacks a listener’s curiosity about John Henry Newman, using mustard seeds and furniture showrooms to paint how doctrine matures through centuries without changing its core. Questions blend with stories, and Patrick moves from sorrow and worry to moments of hope and challenge, all in the space of a single hour.   Camille (email) - My nephew (and godson), was raised catholic, was baptized, received his first communion, but refused to be confirmed and has since converted to Islam. (00:53) Jamie - I need advice on how to address my husband's mom meeting a new man after her husband's death. The family is upset over the speed of it, and her leaving the Church. (13:00) Michael - What is John Henry Newman's Development of Doctrine? (28:38)

Patrick answers raw, heartfelt questions about Catholic living, how to respond when a son comes out as gay, whether revealing someone’s secret crosses into serious sin, choosing hope or despair for loved ones lost suddenly, and protecting dignity at life’s end. He offers clear guidance on prayer for the dead, the value of confession, and the spiritual dangers of gossip, threading real-life wisdom with Church teaching. One moment finds gentle encouragement, another a stern warning, and then unexpected comfort follows.   Bree (email) - Is this detraction? (01:04) Kathy - I love what you are talking about. Reminds me of John 16:12. Jesus says, 'I have much more to tell you.' (08:04) Harold – Do people in hell pray for us? (09:48) Bertha - My grandson's best friend died in a car accident. The Deacon told the sister that he was in hell because he didn't go to Church. I said he was in purgatory. Did I say the right thing? (20:00) Bolek - My son told me he is gay. What should I do? Is there a chance to help him? (29:40) Heidi - Can Bolek look into Courage and Encourage for his son? (39:44) Anna (email) - I come from a family that gossips a lot (42:16)

Patrick answers listener questions about reverence at Mass, grappling with thorny abortion conversations, and defending Catholic teaching with confidence. He weaves together candid stories from callers who once disliked his style but found conviction in his approach, mixes in a dash of Taco Tuesday cheer, and draws from personal experiences and classic Catholic resources to encourage growth in faith, honesty in disagreement, and charity in responding to cultural temptations like celebrity gossip.   Theresa - When are we supposed to genuflect at Mass? I am trying to teach my children. (00:37) Jenny - I am close with someone who is brilliant and says he is a humanist. I am praying for his conversion but how can I convince him that life begins at conception? Also, I want lead him to faith. (05:18) Phil - What is your opinion on TV and radio shows that report news about celebrities? (20:22) Cyrus shares a couple of emails in response to Jenny’s call (35:54) James - Does your book Pope Fiction counter Babylon Mystery Religion? This book makes the claim that the Mass and the Pope are pagan. (40:24) Gary - What happens when a married couple doesn't have an annulment and one of the party dies? (44:48)

Patrick opens with stories of youth forging emotional bonds with AI and explores the risks when imagination runs unchecked, especially for teens. He switches gears to offer heartfelt advice to parents wrestling with squirmy kids at Mass and takes on questions about healing through faith, recentering conversations around the Eucharist’s power. His insights stretch from digital dangers to the shockingly long reach of lightning, weaving technology, family, and unexpected science into a day’s broadcast.   AI and ChatGPT Fuels Delusional Spirals (and it’s getting worse) (00:40) Emma - My 18-month-old won't sit still in church. Do you have any advice? (17::28) Laura - What is a healing Mass? I want to go to one, but I don't understand what it means (23:41) Lightning Can Kill You (34:08) Terry - Healing Mass had a very positive effect on me. It was beautiful. I was slain in the Spirit. Does the Church do this? What do you think? (41:53)

Patrick welcomes listeners into rich conversations about faith, tradition, and the unseen presence of angels, fueled by callers’ stories and thoughtful questions. Whether responding to childhood memories of Mass with guardian angels or clarifying Catholic teaching on Mary’s perpetual virginity, Patrick moves between practical wisdom and scriptural insight, offering heartfelt guidance to those seeking clarity. A sudden story about lightning on the beach, a discussion of guardian angels’ enduring help, and plenty of listener engagement create a dynamic mix of reflection, advice, and encouragement for deepening one’s relationship with God.   Theresa - On healing Masses that I have been to there is an anointing of the sick and priest prays over you. Do you think your angel goes with you to church and ministers with other angels? (00:54) Jill - Two people in Sanibel were killed on the beach because of lightning. You are not even supposed to be in bath or take shower. We have so much lightning here. (05:35) Mary Anne - Can you explain Mary's perpetual virginity to someone who is not Catholic? (11:00) Robert - Should I pray to angels and ask them to help those who they watch over to forgive me? (20:40) Bob (email) – Is there a book that details what is contained in Sacred Tradition? (46:03)

Patrick responds to listener questions with candor, exploring why the Church discourages naming guardian angels, what makes Eastern rites distinct from the Roman tradition, and how sacramental customs like infant communion developed. He fields practical concerns about lost baptismal records, offers comfort to those struggling with fear and spiritual discouragement, and handles lighter topics such as generational misunderstandings and amusing moments from his past. Even the fate of souls at the world’s end and whether our prayers reach loved ones across eternity come up, causing thoughtful reflection and moments of genuine warmth.   Ellen (email) - Is it wrong to name our Guardian Angel? (00:52) Maria - What is the Byzantine Catholic Rite and how come they have married priests? (07:02) Joy (email) – What happens to those in purgatory if no one prays for them? (17:38) Stephen (email) – How can we talk to our deceased loved ones? How can we know that they hear us? (22:44) Nita - I received my Baptism, Confirmation, and Communion at the same time in the 1950s. (25:27) Therese - My friends have some kids born in Mexico and some born in the states. Their kids born in Mexico have been having problems getting sacraments because they can't find their baptismal records in Mexico. Do you have any advice? (34:05) Joseph (email) – I’m very aware of my personal fears and this seems an obstacle to my spiritual growth (38:49) Tom (email) - How do we bring and encourage 18 to 25-year-olds back to Mass? (45:41) Rhonda - My grandkids were wondering if they would be bored in heaven. How should I respond?

Patrick answers heartfelt questions from callers on everything from the best way to pray the Rosary and thoughts on the Knights of Malta to whether artistry can portray Jesus and Mary in different cultural identities. He tackles tough topics, like responding to friends choosing IVF or how Catholics might deal with Protestant family members, and never shies away from honest advice rooted in Catholic teaching.   Richard (email) - How should I pray the Rosary? Is focusing on something else during the prayer take away from the prayer? (00:42) Mike - What is the difference between the Knights of Malta and the Knights of Columbus? (06:13) Preston (email) – What is permissible when depicting biblical scenes or figures like Jesus, the apostles, Mary and the saints? Can you depict them as being from another race? (08:29) Doug - I am getting married today. Thank you, Patrick, for helping me (12:07) Sophia - How can I offer up my suffering meritorious? (15:51) Jane (email) - I'm sorry you think all news is propaganda and therefore not worth discussing. (22:14) Mary Ellen - What are your thoughts on non-denominational Christians? (23:47) Leah - A friend of mine told me that she and her husband were able to conceive using IVF. What’s my moral obligation to let her know that what she did was sinful? (32:27) Adam - There are Protestants in our family that are trying to convert us all the time. How can we talk with them in a good way? (40:42)

Patrick explores how souls recognize each other in the afterlife, fields questions about St. Michael’s Lent, and discusses whether prayers at Mass should be spoken out loud or kept silent. Balancing heartfelt guidance for those struggling with scrupulosity and his commitment to keeping focus on Catholic faith rather than politics, Patrick brings unpredictable insights and a personal touch throughout the episode.   Nancy (email) - Before our bodies are reconnected with our souls, what do our souls look like? Do they have any kind of appearance at all? (00:48) Carmen - What is the 40-day Saint Michael's Lent? Is it a requirement? (04:17) Jessica - Do you have to say prayers out loud at Mass? (05:34) John - What do you think about the Merry Beggars Saint Dominic shows and how the bishops started creating their own Churches. How could bishops get so far off from the Church? (16:09) Patrick shares a couple of emails in regard to yesterday’s show (23:56) Summer - I struggle with scrupulosity. How do I figure out if it is a venial vs mortal sin? (30:27) Jim (email) - At mass, aren't we joining our prayers with those in Heaven? Aren't those in Heaven praying and singing praise to God? (42:55) Larry (email) - OK Boomer & Meatless Fridays (46:13)

Patrick fields frank calls about authority in the Church, explores misunderstandings in faith, and addresses liturgical concerns with clarity sharpened by theological tradition. Patrick weaves wit, practical insight, and occasional surprises into the hour, all while rooting every conversation in Catholic teaching.   Jimmy (email) – How powerful is the St Michael Chaplet? (00:35) Michael – Our pastor says it is not a big deal to add a song after the Consecration (09:02) Joe - Can our guardian angel help us make connections with other people? (13:58) Chris - Priest during homily said women should be priests and that Jesus went outside of social norms and we should do that too. What do you think? (21:07) Lisa - I am not trained to teach the faith, but I do, and I use a Protestant Bible. Did I sin by doing this? (28:23) Steven - I was raised a Catholic but consider myself a Christian. I am more into focusing on Jesus. I believe that the Catholic Church shouldn't focus on putting Saints above other people. (34:07)

Patrick fields heartfelt questions about Catholic life: everything from dressing for Mass and whether to apply for jobs at faith-based companies, to wrestling with confession, doubts, and past mistakes. He welcomes callers young and old, offering personal stories, practical wisdom, and a bit of humor while urging listeners to keep God at the center. One moment, he’s guiding a parent through concerns about yoga in preschool, the next, encouraging a teen to treasure purity and see parents as a gift from God.   Mark (email) – I can’t work for Hobby Lobby because they aren’t Catholic (Patrick disagrees with this opinion) (04:44) Bree (email) -  I don’t see how it is possible to ever be in the state of grace. (07:43) Vittorio (14-years-old) - I just learned about the sacredness of human reproduction. How can I protect that sacredness when I enter into a relationship? How can I not fall into the fear when I am near death? (13:44) Paul - Where did Moses and Elijah come from when they met Jesus? Were they in purgatory? (25:48) Shanna (email) - When I write about Jesus or God, and my sentence includes the word "He" or "Him," I capitalize the word. In much of my research, however, I have noticed that many Catholic resources do not capitalize "he" or "him," when making this same reference. (29:46) Adam (email) - In Luke 1, we see the angel Gabriel appear to Zechariah and then to Mary. If angles are spiritual beings and don’t have bodies like we humans do, how is it then that angels appear to us? In other words, how is it that we can visually perceive spiritual beings? (33:02) Cindy - Regarding not being afraid of death: Jesus and JPII said “do not be afraid”. The caller, Vittorio, reminded me of Carlo Acutis. I started a course called Becoming a saint .com which is really helpful and I think we are all called to be saints (37:14) Nader - My son is in preschool and one of the teachers teaches yoga. Is that okay for our kid to do? How do I handle this? (43:37)

Patrick responds to practical questions from callers. He discusses concerns about yoga in preschool, music choices during Mass, when to bow during the Gloria, the proper role of Catholics at non-Catholic weddings, and even weighs in on songs like "On Eagle's Wings." Along the way, he encourages a new mom hoping to share her faith and reflects on the experience of welcoming new life into a growing family.   Patrick continues his conversation with Nader, from the end of the last hour. Nader is concerned that his son’s teacher also teaches yoga. (00:56) Virginia - During the Gloria, we bow our heads the first time we say the name of Jesus but not the second time. Why is that? (08:35) Sinia - Is there anywhere in the Catechism or the Cannon Law that explains if Catholics can attend non-Catholic weddings? (23:22) Colleen - Thank you for all of your information: Especially when you talked about “grievous”. I think of you every week at Mass now. (29:06) Evelyn - I am starting a blog about Catholic Motherhood and am not feeling worthy to share this and having doubts about it. What should I do? (38:38) Elise - I called you because we were having a hard time with a child I was pregnant with. You told me to call when he was born, so I am calling you! (44:51)

Patrick takes on bold listener questions about whether the Catholic Church is the “Whore of Babylon,” guiding a caller through scripture’s context while offering practical resources for seekers. He explores why simply being Catholic doesn’t guarantee salvation, weaving in stories of saints, sinners, and key teachings, and then fields passionate calls on faith, politics, and media manipulation, He always keeps the conversation anchored in Catholic moral principles while refusing to let emotions or propaganda set the agenda. Questions range from the fate of Sodom and Gomorrah to the challenge of discerning truth in a polarized, information-soaked world.   David - Is there a relationship between the whore of Babylon and the Catholic Church? (00:40) Dennis - Abraham interceding for Sodom and Gomora: Why did God decide not to destroy it when it actually was destroyed? (10:20) Robert - I understand you give out moral opinions about people's personal conduct but don't want to get to involved in government actions, but I think government actions have a moral dimension that affects people on a personal level. (18:53) Vince - I disagree with Robert. I don't want to hear politics on your show. (37:12) Pete - I don't see how any reasonable person can use a term like 'if'. Shame on you. (39:33) Ryan – Patrick, how do you separate the wheat from the chafe when looking at political issues? You are doing a great job!

Woven through the hour, listeners challenge Patrick with questions about manual labor versus academics, biblical interpretations of baptism, and how Catholics can defend their beliefs, while he shares personal stories and practical advice along the way. Music, laughter, and candid discussion pulse throughout with a blend of nostalgia, doctrine, and encouragement.   Patrick responds to an email asking about Dante’s Inferno (03:55) Linda - Is it necessary to say 'Bless me, Father...' in confession? (14:52) Joshua - Is it better to be an academic or a laborer in the workforce in regard to Sirach 38: 24-25 (16:47) Mark - I have been looking to avoid working on Sundays, so I'm considering applying at Chick-Fil-A and Hobby Lobby, both of who I understand are closed on Sundays (21:58) Dan - Regarding your comment about there being no place in the bible that says the bible is all you need: I think I have a bible verse that points to the bible being the only thing needed. (26:12) Patty - Wouldn't the Transfiguration of Jesus and the baptism lead to the belief of the Trinity? (43:13)

Patrick fields listener questions about unexpectedly becoming Catholic, what to do with a discovered Eucharistic host, and how to respond when approached by Mormon missionaries, all while weaving in lively banter. He addresses real-life conundrums like working on Sundays or on holy days and explains with clarity why Catholic parishes once allowed the Mormon Church to microfilm their centuries-old records. With humor, frankness, and the occasional surprising detour, Patrick offers thoughtful guidance on living out Catholic faith in the everyday messiness of life.   Brenda (email) - I know stealing is a mortal sin. I feel like "Vatican" takes it a lot more seriously than I do. What steps can be taken so I can understand better their seriousness? (00:55) Tee (email) - I found what could be consecrated hosts at my friend’s house. What should I do with them? (04:02) Ada (email) – Was I wrong for refusing to talk with Mormons who came to my door? (07:04) Thomas - What constitutes servile work when talking about resting on holy days of obligation? (18:52) Dan – Calling back after a discussion in the first hour about the Trinity (29:40) Daniel - Why does the Catholic Church allow the Mormon Church to access all the records for finding ancestry? (38:21)

Patrick fields questions from callers about the Eucharist, addressing concerns about receiving Communion and clarifying Church teaching with scripture, and history. He answers with candor on marriage, chastity, and what truly makes a marriage valid, weaving in references to St. Paul and Pope John Paul II to respond to real dilemmas. Family dynamics and practical etiquette pop up too, as Patrick responds to everything from who should serve as a godparent to whether sending early baby shower thank-yous is ever too soon.   Maria - In the bible, it says we are supposed to eat and drink the body and blood. Do we have to eat and drink at Mass? (00:47) San (email) - You know how if you misbehave aboard an aircraft, you will get banned from flying for life? You and Cyrus need to ban Dan from Las Vegas from calling into the show for life. (10:18) Daniel (email) - You mentioned those who receive communion, receive Jesus fully, whether they receive the body or the blood of Christ. Not that I would, but I assume it would be greatly frowned upon if a communicant “skipped” the body and opted for the blood only. (13:47) Ruben - Can you explain how the Catholic Church deals with the differences in theologies supported by different Popes? (18:16) Tom - Younger members of my family got married in front of justice of the peace. How do I convince my relative that marriage as a sacrament is more important than the celebration? (25:52) Mark - What is happening in the instance of Transubstantiation and when we receive the Eucharist? (34:41) Shannon - I am pregnant and having a baby shower. I got a text from a coworker who chewed me out for writing a thank you note. (43:31)

Patrick opens with the breaking news that World Youth Day 2027 will take place in South Korea, sparking conversation about the unique meaning of this event for young Catholics. Taking questions live, Patrick answers everything from defending religious images using scripture to clarifying rules about holy water bottles, marriage, and what it really means to follow Church teaching in daily life. The episode is peppered with Patrick’s spontaneous humor and real-life stories, making faith topics vivid, even as he tackles serious theological and practical concerns.   2027 World Youth Day to be in Seoul (01:07) John - My friend is a non-Catholic Christian and says things like worshiping statues and Mary being a mom is not in the Bible. How do I tell him in a loving way that what he is saying is wrong? (10:51) Jerry - The Old Testament says that a Messiah must come. Where is that first mentioned in the bible? (23:40) Dylan (email) - I feel like I’m not going to Heaven. Anna - How do you store Holy Water and can I recycle old Holy Water containers? (36:10) Nolan - Does the altering state of caffeine negatively affect how we can be receptive for Mass? (47:08) Carolyn - Can I get an annulment without getting a legal divorce? (49:12)

Patrick begins with a listener’s question about "the meek will inherit the earth," unpacking Catholic belief on the connection between heaven and earth. He examines headlines about abortion pill “safety”, offers practical suggestions for reaching out to those struggling with faith, and provides sharp, caring answers to misunderstandings about Catholic teachings like veneration of Mary or the requirements for sacraments. Mixed with calls about marriage dilemmas, family complexities, and a dose of humor, Patrick brings honest, candid guidance without sugarcoating the challenges.   Patrick in Trenton, NJ - Why do the meek inherit the earth? I thought our goal should be heaven and not Earth. (01:51) RFK Jr. just ordered a full FDA review of the abortion pill (05:01) Sebastian - The seller which we recently bought a property form, who is living a lonely life, is opening up to me. How can I help him come into the Church? (10:25) Mike - Woman who is married to a bigamist, from the first hour, doesn't seem like she would need an annulment in order to come into the Church. (19:30) Mona – Is the Sign of the Cross upside down? Do we worship saints? (24:25) Tim - My daughter's fiancé's sister is living with two other people. They don't want to invite the partners of this sister to the wedding. How do they handle this situation? (31:18) Tom - One of my nurses is a Jehovah’s witness, and you were talking about the meek going to heaven and she thinks that only a select few will go to heaven. She didn't want to call you so I wanted to ask if you could go more into if only a select number of people go to heaven? (36:50)

Patrick returns with a blend of humor and sincerity, offering prayers for listeners struggling with infertility and responding to questions about purgatory, saints, and converting to Catholicism. He gives practical advice for those wrestling with family crises, faith, and everyday Catholic living, weaving in personal stories, resources, sharp wit, and even a touch of nostalgia for classic TV. Conversation shifts in unexpected ways, from Social Security tips to the emotional impact of someone bringing an urn to Mass, showing how faith touches every corner of ordinary life. Erick - Please pray for me and my wife who are trying to have a child? I have some Protestant friends who want me to explain the Saints from the Bible? (01:10) Cindy - I am thinking about converting and am wondering what the first steps would be? (11:00) Brian - Regarding the woman about annulments: if the government gives an annulment than could the Church use that to annul her marriage? (19:22) Linda - There was a man who was holding an urn with ashes. When he received communion he took the urn with him. I wasn't sure why he brought the urn up with him. Was he seeking a blessing? (21:43) Jimmy - Why does prayer require so much repetition in the Catholic faith? Doesn't God hear us the first time? (27:29) Jean - Jubilee Year of Hope. Do I need to receive Communion two times a day to get a plenary indulgence? (30:04) Jan - The annulment caller was concerned about social security. The government rule is if you have been married longer than 10 years that you can claim an ex-spouse’s benefits. (36:43) MC (email) - How do we move forward after our adult child has told us she is gay? (38:34) Kelly – There are great resources for parents of those who have same-sex attraction (47:23) Alicia - You are a big Walton's fan. Did you know that Judy Norton has a podcast where she interviews former stars on Walton’s?

Patrick opens the show questioning the growing use of AI for deeply personal acts, like crafting obituaries, sparking a spirited exchange with Cyrus over whether technology helps or hinders heartfelt expression. News of Pope Leo gathering more than a million young people for a powerful Jubilee stirs memories and hopes for unity. Listener calls draw Patrick’s compassionate guidance, as he encourages empathy for families navigating public worship with children who have special needs, finding meaning and sanctification even within distractions.   AI now starting to write obituaries (00:53) Pope Leo brings youth jubilee to a close with mass for more than a million (18:15) Anna - A family has an autistic son at Church. He gets agitated during the High Latin Mass and makes a lot of noise. What should we do? (24:50) Michelle (email) - Do you understand where the Seventh Day Adventist believes the antichrist will come thru? (36:44) Ken (email) - It appears truly Christian Churches believe in the same Lord but differ in the exact same way of practicing their beliefs. (39:37) Kelly - Thank you for how you responded to the woman dealing with the autistic man. It meant a lot to me as someone who works with individuals like that. (44:37)

Patrick fields heartfelt questions, from whether chewing the Eucharist shows disrespect to what makes sensory-friendly Masses so vital for families with unique needs. Insights and humor mix as he brings real stories of embracing noisy pews, handling tricky conversations about livestreamed Mass, and giving practical advice for parents facing stares or family disagreements over Catholic practices. Voices from across the country weave together in a candid conversation, reflecting both the warmth and the challenges of living faith in community.   Mary Ellen - Is it okay to chew the Eucharist? (00:54) Kathleen - Our Parish has a sensory friendly Mass for people with special needs. (06:12) Susan (email) - Our Church has a quiet zone (12:41) Richard - When I hear babies cry in Church, I think it is a good thing because they didn't get aborted. (23:14) Alex - Why do we have live streamed Mass if they don't count for our Sunday obligation? (24:31) Alexis (email) - I don’t understand why someone would engage with missionaries or Jehovah's Witnesses. (26:21) Josiah – Question about the Catholic view on Papal Authority: It seems like the Church teaches that the pope doesn't have any error. So what does that say about Peter who got called out by Paul? (31:07) Carol (email) – Don’t scandalize children (41:19) George - What is origin of “Lord, I am not worthy that you should enter under my roof…” (44:57)

Patrick brings listeners right into the real decisions confronting Catholic families, including grappling with difficult family relationships and the call to protect children’s innocence. He fields blunt questions on Church authority, women and the priesthood, Holy Communion crises, and IVF, weaving in his own stories and unapologetic opinions while keeping the conversation engaging and honest.   Linda - My brother is gay, and my sister is lesbian. I confronted my sister about whether or not she was gay, she said no but she did have a woman move in with her. I couldn't raise my kids around her. (00:32) Martin - There doesn't seem to be much democracy in the Catholic Church. Why don't they ask us about our opinion of the direction of the Catholic Church? (12:44) Cecilia – I’m a Eucharistic Minister and I noticed I dropped the Precious Blood on myself. The stain disappeared. Where did it go? (25:48) Amy - What would you do if you didn't have kids and your gay friend invited you to the party? (31:11) Karen - My 28-year-old needs a suspense and mystery novel recommendation that ties into the Church (33:19) Rosalie - I went to receive Communion, and the pastor refused to give it on the tongue. I wasn't sure what to do, so I just walked away. It upset me. (38:33) Bob - You are really good at engaging other Christian faiths. How can Christians argue against the Magisterium and Scripture? (42:17)

Patrick answers heartfelt listener questions about confession, conversion, and moral choices, offering practical advice and personal anecdotes along the way; he addresses anxieties about sin and grace, helps a father concerned about his daughter’s interest in a Mormon classmate, and keeps the atmosphere lively with cheerful exchanges about music, childhood summers, humorous listener recordings, and fond remembrances of icons like Elvis and John Lennon. Unexpectedly, young Clare calls in and sparks a thoughtful yet accessible conversation about the many titles given to Mary. The episode pulses with energy, wit, and an unfiltered sincerity as Patrick moves between urgent spiritual topics and moments of genuine delight.   Travis (email) - Is it possible for me to avoid hell if I were to die unexpectedly before I'm able to make a good confession? Patrick explains how to make a good confession (and encourages folks to use Relevant Radio App’s confession helper) (00:47) Rebecca (email) – Have I have committed a mortal sin? (14:35) Joe - I have a 15-year-old daughter who is interested in dating a Mormon boy. Is this harmless? (23:05) Clare (10-years-old) - Why does Mary have so many names? (35:36)

Patrick brings listeners through childhood Beatles memories, uncanny coincidences, and the ripple effects music has on family life while fielding questions about Catholic prayer, door-to-door missionaries, and engaging stories of faith discovery. Stories move quickly from John Lennon collectibles and quirky mobile ads to practical apologetics and lively advice about handling unexpected guests intent on conversion. Humor and thoughtful insight intermingle as Patrick tackles repetition in prayer and faith journeys, giving the hour a rhythm that keeps listeners on their toes.   Glen shares his John Lennon story (00:31) Patrick shares the first time he talked with Mormon Missionaries (09:33) Aimee (email) – There was a very disturbing ad on one of the games I play on my phone (13:18) Valerie (email) – I’ve never heard anyone in the media discuss how the Beatle Invasion impacted families in this country.  (21:59) Josiah - I am not Catholic, but I am curious about Catholic prayer. Can you explain how Catholics legitimize repetitive prayer in light of Matthew 6? (37:41) Kelly - I had Mormons come to my house and I was 7th day Adventist, and I asked about the Sabbath, and they needed to bring in an elder and told me I wasn't allowed to talk to them anymore. (43:33)

Patrick rolls into conversations laced with humor, nostalgia, and unexpected listener questions. At one moment he deciphers a Beatles joke with the help of a caller, reminisces about seeing Paul McCartney live, and later fields encounters with Jehovah’s Witnesses and Mormons, addressing everything from religious debates to handling a stranger’s ashes. Unscripted, he answers difficult questions around concubines in scripture and the challenge of eternal punishment, balancing theological depth with bursts of laughter when “karaoke” performances sneak into the mix.   Susan - When the Beatles got famous, boys started not getting haircuts as often which is probably what affected that guy’s business and his family. (01:57) Calvin - The last time Jehovah’s Witnesses gave me a Watch Tower magazine, I told them to convert to Catholicism, and they ran away across the street. (06:24) Brian - I noticed that the only state with a balanced budget and a well-run government is Salt Lake City, UT. Maybe we should take some notes from UT. (09:25) Chris (email) - It seems 7th Day Adventist twist bible verses and take them out of context to fit their views. (12:25) Juan - My friend has cremated remains and I was trying to get them buried. What should we do with them? (14:31) Ron - I had an encounter with Jehovah’s Witnesses and one of them was an elder and one was an ex-catholic. I was able to debate them and then they just left. (19:50) Deacon Shawn - I am always confused by why the two people who say that Jesus is the Christ (Mary, and Peter) get different responses. (24:13) Chris - What's the difference between a concubine and an adulterer? (31:35) Peter - How can there be a loving God whose ultimate plan includes damnation? (37:03) Marie - I had a friend who came into the Church last Easter.  She has since decided to go to a Baptist church because it has a better community. What should I do? (44:44)

Patrick kicks off the show with news of Pope Leo's surprise appearance at the Jubilee of Youth and his heartfelt words to young people gathering in Rome. Shifting tone, Patrick unpacks the life of St. John Henry Newman, tracing his unexpected journey from Anglican critic to Catholic convert and soon-to-be Doctor of the Church, while listener calls spark practical wisdom about conscience, daily Catholic living, and the turmoil of scrupulosity. Pastoral advice meets snippets of history and lively conversation, leaving listeners with both fresh perspective and food for thought.   Pope Leo XIV made a surprise appearance in St. Peter’s Square on Tuesday evening to greet the thousands of participants at the welcoming Mass for the Jubilee of Youth. (00:51) St John Henry Newman set to become newest Doctor of the Church (03:51) Elizabeth - I am paying someone out of pocket for childcare. I realize this is wrong. How can I make this better? (21:22) Sean – “Lead Kindly Light” is a famous hymn that was written by Cardinal Newman (34:06) John - My son is getting married civilly but I want him to get married in the Church. You said you can do civil wedding after, but the priest is telling me we have to do civil wedding first. (39:02) Morgan (email) – Does God change his mind? (46:33)

Patrick wrestles with the rise of foul language in daily life, pulling in emails and thoughtful calls to weigh how movies and workplaces normalize swearing. Practical ideas like media filtering services and scriptural reflections tumble in, stirring lively back-and-forth about raising children and fostering respect. A sudden shift brings up deep questions about biblical history and the nature of God beyond time, all woven together in Patrick’s signature blend of candor and humor.   Karen (email) - Is St John Henry Newman the same person as St John Newman? (00:28) Jane (email) - Do people swear more at work nowadays than they did decades ago? (01:37) James (email) - I sometimes hear other Catholics say that swearing is ok.  I refer them to Col 3:8. I also tell my children that he who curses lives a cursed life. (11:23) Nicki - On the topic of movies and language, we have a special program that allows us to take out bad language. (13:26) Todd - As a Catholic man, I ignore it when people take God's name in vain. During Lent, I gave up profanity and I had a great change in my life. (22:11) Gale - There is an app called VidAngel that removes cuss words and avoids sex scenes and nudity. (26:39) Nancy - How do we know that the Jews are the Chosen people? Also how do we know that God is out of time and space in relation to Purgatory? (29:11) Patrick shares more bible versus in response to God being outside of time (39:23) Mark - I agree and have trouble with bad language. Can it be good in story telling for adults? Mark Twain used the N word sometimes. (47:45)

Patrick answers questions that range from the morality of working for an alcohol distributor to what happens to the souls of unborn babies, and whether people can become angels after death. Listeners open up about addiction, struggles with faith, and complicated religious topics like Christ’s knowledge as both human and divine; Patrick responds with a balance of candid stories and theological clarity. He moves between practical dilemmas, heartfelt stories, and doctrinal mysteries with a pace that’s anything but predictable.   Patrick continues his conversation with Mark from the end of the last hour as they talk about cursing in movies (00:33) Mike - What did Jesus know in His human nature vs what He knew in His divine nature? (05:51) Troy - I am a Christian and started working for a nationally known distribution company that ships pallets of alcohol. Is this sinful for me to engage in this? (21:02) Mary - Where do the souls of unborn babies go to? (28:47) Joe - I think, when you hit rock bottom, that is when you come to the cross. (39:34)

Patrick fields honest questions from callers about sin, suffering, and spiritual growth, and responds with scripture, stories of saints, and practical encouragement for families struggling to keep faith alive amid work and changing traditions. He slips in candid thoughts on the Traditional Latin Mass, suggests resources for Protestants considering Catholicism, and offers simple acts of charity for those encountering homelessness, letting each topic flow from personal experience and caller connection.   Marion - Does God really punish sin in our personal lives, and as a nation, like in the Old Testament? (01:39) Dennis - The Latin Mass is very holy. I want the Relevant Radio audience to know how holy it is. (12:16) Marie - How do you keep adult children Catholic when you feel them drifting away? How do you not feel resentment to your spouse? (13:16) Robert - A lot of destitute people are in my town. I am retired now and feel bad that I can't do more for these people. I always think of Lazarus and the rich man. I feel terrible. Do you have any advice? (30:30) Andrew (email) – The Walton’s was the first show I can recall on TV that brought up anti-Catholic views on TV (34:30) Steve - Does a person who knows what the Church teaches, but does not convert, be saved? (41:03) Melanie - Confession and Penance: I know a teenager forgot his penance and I also was not given a penance. What do you do when this happens? (48:28)

Patrick welcomes listeners to a hour packed with unexpected turns, heartfelt advice, and real human challenges as he answers questions about faith, the struggle of unanswered prayers, and the pain of homelessness voiced by callers like Rose. Compassion comes through as he connects people with tangible support, tackles fears of returning to confession, and genuinely wrestles with what trust in God looks like in the everyday mess.   Florence (email) - How do we know, when we don’t receive, it’s because of a lack of faith or it’s not God’s will? (01:07) Rose - There are many homeless people who are decent people who are on the streets in NJ because of tenant/landlord problems in certain areas. (07:41) Melody - My best friend didn't want to go to Communion because she was afraid as she has just returned to the faith. Should I encourage her to go? (14:31) Annabelle - We pray the Memorare to end abortion. Why don't we pray for adoption and foster care more? Is it right to pray for this person who died? (21:45) Theresa (email) - Doesn't the person who is handling the host and the monstrance have to have consecrated hands and to be a man? Can you clarify for me how and if this is acceptable to the Church's teaching, doctrine or tradition? (34:44) Ozzie - We have a mutual friend who is Pentecostal and said she would go to our service if we went to hers. Is this ok? (40:30) Jim – Confession: Those of us who go regularly, know who the good confessors are. They can make an appointment with the right priest for someone who needs it. (44:25)

Patrick brings listeners through fresh archaeological findings—could a 3,800-year-old inscription mention Moses, and what do modern discoveries say about Pontius Pilate? He tackles the perils of early smartphone access for kids, shares raw stories of faith and community resilience from callers, and offers thoughtful guidance on real-life ethical puzzles, all while weaving in personal memories, playful banter, and on-the-spot reactions.   Mysterious message 'from Moses' found in ancient Egyptian mine could prove the Bible true (00:36) Kids Who Get Smartphones Before 13 Face Skyrocketing Suicide Risk, Study Warns (09:34) Patrick finishes the “cliff hanger” from the end of the 2nd hour where he’s talking about the thorn in St. Paul’s flesh (21:59) Sean - I love your voice and mustache. I have been in the hospital for 21 days because of an automobile accident. Thank you, Patrick! (25:44) Mary Ann - What should a good Catholic do when there is an ethical mistake made on a rental/lease? (36:01) Michael - For the first Friday devotion and the First Saturday Devotion, could I go to Confession one time to serve both requirements? (45:48)

It All Started at a Tea Party... Rosalie from Chula Vista calls in after attending a “Deanery Tea Party” (which, btw, sounds like something Jane Austen would've loved) where a little girl asked a whopper of a question: “Is everyone going to die?”  Rosalie’s friend was troubled that the adult nearby didn’t offer any spiritual explanation... just the cold, hard facts. So, Rosalie did what any good Catholic would do: she called Patrick Madrid.  How Do You Tell a Child About Death Without Freaking Them Out? Patrick, being the dad of 11 kids and a wise Catholic thinker, totally gets it. We live in a culture that avoids death like kale at a kid’s birthday party. We want youth, health, and Instagram filters, not funeral talk.  But here’s the truth from Patrick: 🕊️ “It’s actually good for children to understand death... in a gentle, age-appropriate way, because it opens the door to talking about hope, eternity, and Jesus.”  So, Here’s the Game Plan, Catholic Parents & Godparents: Age-Appropriate Honesty Don’t lie or pretend death isn’t real. Patrick suggests saying something like: “Yes, everyone dies eventually. But we don’t need to be afraid, because Jesus came to save us and bring us to Heaven.”  Frame Death Through the Lens of Salvation Patrick reminds us: God didn’t want death. Death entered the world through sin. But Jesus became one of us, died for us, and rose again so we could have eternal life. That’s the real focus, not death itself. Describe Death as a Portal Don't mention it as a scary monster but explain it as a doorway to being with God. That shifts the narrative entirely. “We hope Grandma is in Heaven now because she loved Jesus. And if we love Jesus too, He’ll bring us there one day.” Great advice from Patrick!  Takeaway for You, Friend: If a child ever asks, “Is everyone going to die?”, don’t panic. Don’t brush it off. And definitely don’t just say, “Yep” and walk away.  Instead, use it as a sacred opportunity: to speak truth wrapped in love, hope, and the greatest promise ever: “Jesus loves you, and He wants to be with you forever.” That’s beautiful. Need to Hear It Again? Share this with a fellow Catholic parent, godparent, or that friend who just survived a toddler asking the "Big Questions" at bedtime. Jesus isn’t afraid of death. And thanks to Him... we don’t have to be either. 

This episode of The Patrick Madrid Show is tender, raw, and packed with grace. It all starts with an email from Aaron, a Catholic school teacher who teaches grades 2–8. His school just suffered a devastating tragedy: a young boy — just about to enter sixth grade — was killed in an accident. Aaron, heartbroken, is reaching out for help. He's thinking ahead: how do I help my students process this? What do I say when they ask, “Why did God allow this?” What Patrick Said: “Words can only go so far.” He starts there — with brutal honesty. When your heart is shattered, “God is with you” can feel... empty, even if it’s true. Patrick encourages him to use the moment as a “Catechetical Popcorn Trail” Start small and lay the groundwork. Help kids understand why death even exists by going back to Adam and Eve, the Fall, and the entrance of sin into the world. This tragedy, as awful as it is, becomes a gateway into the bigger story of salvation.  “Death is not natural. It’s not how we were meant to live.” God created us for life, forever, with Him. Death entered through sin. That helps kids understand their instincts are right — this feels wrong because it is wrong. But that’s not the end... Jesus didn’t just die — He conquered death. Kids can look at the crucifix with new eyes. He chose to suffer, chose to die, so that death wouldn’t be the final word for us. But Also... Teach Them This: Original Sin is not the same as personal sin. Patrick offers a great analogy: Imagine your billionaire parents lose all their wealth due to a crime. You didn't do anything, but you still lose the inheritance. That’s original sin. Through baptism, God gives it all back, and more. This boy might be in heaven. Patrick encourages Aaron to comfort the students with hope — if the boy was in 5th grade, it would make sense that he probably never committed a mortal sin. That’s theologically solid hope.  Teach them how to pray for him, through offering Masses and praying the Chaplet. Let them participate in his journey to Heaven. The Most Beautiful Part At the end of the show, Aaron calls in; he just wants to say thank you. You can hear how much he loves his students and how much he’s leaning on the Holy Spirit. It’s one of those quiet holy moments that makes you realize the Church is so alive in people like him. If You’re a Teacher, Parent, or Just a Catholic Who Cares… This episode is worth your time. It reminds us that grief is the place faith speaks loudest. Our job isn’t to “fix” grief. It’s to walk through it with others, pointing to the Cross... and beyond it, to the Resurrection. Eternal rest grant unto him, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon him.

Patrick reads a heartbreaking email from Aaron, a Catholic school teacher shattered by loss, and shares how to talk honestly with children about death, original sin, and God's love without shrinking from their pain. He encourages Vivian as she wrestles with unending prayers for her son, blending stories of faith, persistence, and humility in the face of unanswered questions. When young Guadalupe calls in, Patrick breaks down the substance and words behind each sacrament, meeting curiosity with clarity and warmth, giving listeners both comfort and challenge as the morning unfolds.   Aaron (email) – A young boy was just tragically killed. Why does God allow this? (00:52) Jocelyn - How long should I pray for any prayer intention? (17:44) Aaron – Thank you for responding to my email. I appreciate your comments. (30:56) Amanda (email) – There was a wandering dog at Mass (38:14) Guadalupe (11-years-old) - What are the sacraments made out of? (42:21)