The Niche Is You

In this episode, I talk about being in the game of life (and business) with people you can not only win with, but lose with, the importance of knowing this dynamic with a spouse, what losses teach us about ourselves and another, what true championships look like, building our character, self-love and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about knowing what your needs are, why they are important, how they get supported by another and how you support another's needs, as well as why knowing your needs makes you clearer, more directional, more communicative, makes you have a better relationship with yourself and others and much much more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about having a championship mindset in everything that you do, how to get out of your head and be in the game full time, how to gain confidence in your choices, having a team to run with, becoming more reliable and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about is whether or not what we see in others teaching us about us or presenting an opportunity for us to help them, what does it mean when we judge, assume or have an emotional reaction to others, what does it mean when we're calm, grounded and not affected, when are we judging and when are we able to support and why is this all important for our lives and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about consistency, how it's assuring and not boring, how it creates a predictable future for you, how it gives you momentum and direction, how it creates new habits and outcomes, how it let's others know exactly where you're coming from and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

in this episode, I talk about the 8 ways to restore more balance in your life as outlined by Robin Sharma from The Mastery Manual:Take a 60 minute Holy Hour at the beginning of each day and nourish your mind, body, emotions and spirit.Spend some time in nature on a weekly basis.Write "love letters" to those who need to be appreciated.Experience silence, solitude and stillness for at least 10 minutes each dayDo the things that made you happy as a kidGet serious about exercise because nothing is more important than your health.Write in a journal to promote clarity of thought and deepen your insightFind a cause larger than yourself and give back to othersFollow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about listening versus asking, connecting to ourselves and God in a way where we can "hear" instead of "control," becoming a better listener makes us more connected, when we're connected we move different as do our choices and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about the dynamics between men, women and partnership, how men can become more reliable, that surrendering is about expansion not taking away individuality, consistency and commitment isn't boring but assuring, personal autonomy, leadership, direction and clarity and A LOT more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about walking into the things we want most, answer the call and opportunities of those things vs. self-sabotage, our responsibilities to grow into the person that can handle our blessings, praying for it and being it are two different things, respecting our blessings, upping our level of play and moreFollow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about the relationship between love, honesty and respect, how these three affect us and our relationships with others, the real meaning of love and more.Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about why we worry, control issues, fear of letting go, past experiences coming up, what happens when we "worship" a problem, reconnecting to ourselves, praying as a form of surrendering our problem, creating more trust.Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about managing your expectations of others, understanding that no one will do what you want them to do for you like you'll do for you, build self-reliance and trust with yourself and then aligning with others who can support, understanding your soul's way of doing things, designing before delegating and more.Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about boundaries...why you may lack them, why you need them and how to create them. The irony of boundaries is that often people feel they're "restrictive" when in fact, they allow for more limitless opportunities. I explain why in this episode.Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about following your intuition... with your dreams, career, business idea, relationships or your life. I discuss how your intuition is never wrong, there's a reason for your calling, why people may not understand you or your calling, wanting more for yourself and the discomfort that comes with that sometimes and what to do when you're misaligned from where you are to where you want to go.Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about dealing with things as a means to becoming a better communicator... how to become clearer, have more understanding (of yourself and others), deal with conflict, be more curious, get out of your mind and make decisions faster.Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanIf you're not on the weekly texts, sign up here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about finding yourself in the contrasts of life and 4 things you want to consider...1 - The fastest way to figure out who you are is to know who you are not2 - What you don’t like, doesn’t belong to you, it just reminds you more of what you are… it’s opposite3 - When something comes up in your personal lives… don’t get defensive or strike back… learn to listen on multiple levels4 - What you see in others could be telling you something you need to deal with in yourselfFollow me on Instagram: @mattgottesmanJump on my TEXT List... you won't regret it - 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about how nobody wants to tell you why discipline is so important and that it's the strongest form of self-love... it’s loving yourself enough to give yourself everything you’ve ever wanted.Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesman If you're not on the weekly texts, sign up here - (480-530-7352)

In this episode, I talk about our obsession with outcomes and how we might already be successful when we step back to see what's really going on. I talk about a story between my father and I when he was in the hospital and I was at my lowest point from "losing everything" and rebuilding my life. In that moment, he gave me some of the greatest advice on..."Success"Why getting back up is the single most important thing we can doHow parents may view success of their children differently from the children themselvesBeing in the game is where the success is, not the endingIf you're not on the weekly texts, sign up here - 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about not letting the human in you talk you out of the soul in you. I then go over 8 observations you can use on yourself.8 ObservationsYou’re not uncertain, but you might need practice.When you’re honest, things move faster for you.When you don’t know if you’re reading the “signs” right from God, ask for the “billboard.”Developing trust with ourselves is a marathon, not a sprint.We have to detach from “needing” anything so we can learn to “be.” Allow people into your life who hold you accountable to your purpose.Don’t let the limits of being a human stop you from the limitlessness your soul can provide.Spend 5 days in your purpose, even if it’s a vacation from your other life, and the contrast will be so great that the choice will be made for you.If you're not on the weekly texts, sign up here - 480-530-7352

In this 1st intro episode I talk about why the Niche is You... not being defined by external roles and titles, understanding our purpose, gifts and talents, and how your soul is here to be so much more.Follow me on Instagram: @mattgottesman https://instagram.com/mattgottesman