The Niche Is You

In this episode, I talk about whether or not our prayers are always being answered, the power of prayer when we connect from our truth and sincerity, prayers aren't always an affirmative yes but a protective no, how miracles happen even if you don't believe, why we really play, who is it for and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about whether or not you are stealing time from God, are you giving away too much of your time by doing the work for others instead of doing the work for you and your purpose, using time in your favor, putting the most important things to the top of your priorities, reverse engineering your life to create the exact one you're here to create and more!Reverse Engineer Resource - mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-life Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about the life that is happening for you that you may not realize, the bigger picture we cannot see sometimes, the experiences we encounter that shape our future, the soul's purpose, how some unfortunate events can actually be a part of our bigger vision and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about the power of one more, the compound effect of doing one more calculated daily, weekly and monthly and what that looks like at the end of the year, the dopamine of the journey versus the destination, how one more affects our present reality and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about the difference between saying you're committed and being committed, how commitment is contagious, why commitment is so attractive and magnetic as a personality, how commitment shows the world our character and what it reveals about ourselves, our worthiness and our value and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about the 7 most important areas that should be non-negotiable to you, your peace, your happiness, your value, your talents & gifts, your health, your discipline and your life, as well as how to navigate them and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about the importance of staying focused on what you really want, energy deficits and surpluses, what sparks your creativity and vitality versus decreases it, places and environments that contribute or remove energy, where do you feel invigorated or drained, distractions, ways to enjoy the process over the outcome and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about how routine creates clarity, direction and predictability of the outcomes you want, the compound effect of reaping huge rewards from small, seemingly insignificant actions, repeated, the disciplined pursuit of less, one decision that makes a thousand others and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352Book Recommendations:The Compound Effect - https://amzn.to/3PXBMoNThe Slight Edge - https://amzn.to/3GqA247Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less - https://amzn.to/3WUbN3V

In this episode, I talk about how vulnerability is real not an excuse, how it makes us more authentic and honest instead of closed off and elusive, how vulnerability is something that we can all connect to, the responsibility and relatability of being our truest selves and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about knowing your worth, understanding your value, how that relationship with yourself reflects the outside world, an exercise on where to give more time and energy, why we must operate from our worthiness and value and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about how we're wasting time trying to be perfect, how people would rather the real you than the perfect you, how honesty creates many more opportunities, how striving for perfection is slowing you down, how to overcome perfectionism and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about why what happens when we put health and soul first before everything else, how those two affect our entrepreneurial journey as well as our personal one, optimizing what we build from better health and having faith, learning to prioritize so we can go further from doing less and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about why we judge, how it affects men and women, how men and women can judge less and communicate more, what behaviors evoke more trust and less judgment between men and women, communications styles that work on bringing each other closer instead of pushing each other away and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about why some things take longer than expected, how the longer it takes the bigger it is, what you learn in the process of getting there, the leverage and advantages you have with it taking longer, dealing with doubts and limiting beliefs throughout the journey and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about preparing before receiving, cultivating an environment that's receptive of gifts and what you want, how to get rid of resistance, having a relationship with what you want before it's here, aligning future you and present you, observing your habits and behaviors to make them more receptive to your future and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about the power of a woman's prayer for us men, what it means for us men to connect to ourselves more and God, what I've learned from more intentionally connecting to myself and from connecting to God, being prayed for is a gift, how prayers not only help us men get more of what we need and want, but it helps what we bring to the rest of the world especially in partnership and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about how honesty brings people closer together, the attractiveness of being yourself, letting down your guard is letting down the masks, when you're honest you're in your heart and that creates receptivity, bonds are built from trust and respect, honesty opens the floodgates for everything else and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about not having it all figured out and you want it that way, connecting the dots you haven't looked further at, purpose is created not found, developing answers instead of waiting for them, making room to receive and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about the people who want to see you win, the right people aren’t interested in what you can do for them but devoted to your purpose, these people are windows to your path if you pay close enough attention, these people are deliverers of messages when you need them most, they’re stakeholders in the game of your life… they’re connected to you at all times and seemingly know what you need when you need it and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about embracing your whole story... especially the tough parts, the dark nights and the heavy days that people don't see, as well as why our "full story" is so much more important than the wins people see, how our story makes us a real person and authentic, how our story demonstrates leadership and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about being in the game of life (and business) with people you can not only win with, but lose with, the importance of knowing this dynamic with a spouse, what losses teach us about ourselves and another, what true championships look like, building our character, self-love and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about knowing what your needs are, why they are important, how they get supported by another and how you support another's needs, as well as why knowing your needs makes you clearer, more directional, more communicative, makes you have a better relationship with yourself and others and much much more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about having a championship mindset in everything that you do, how to get out of your head and be in the game full time, how to gain confidence in your choices, having a team to run with, becoming more reliable and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about is whether or not what we see in others teaching us about us or presenting an opportunity for us to help them, what does it mean when we judge, assume or have an emotional reaction to others, what does it mean when we're calm, grounded and not affected, when are we judging and when are we able to support and why is this all important for our lives and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about consistency, how it's assuring and not boring, how it creates a predictable future for you, how it gives you momentum and direction, how it creates new habits and outcomes, how it let's others know exactly where you're coming from and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

in this episode, I talk about the 8 ways to restore more balance in your life as outlined by Robin Sharma from The Mastery Manual:Take a 60 minute Holy Hour at the beginning of each day and nourish your mind, body, emotions and spirit.Spend some time in nature on a weekly basis.Write "love letters" to those who need to be appreciated.Experience silence, solitude and stillness for at least 10 minutes each dayDo the things that made you happy as a kidGet serious about exercise because nothing is more important than your health.Write in a journal to promote clarity of thought and deepen your insightFind a cause larger than yourself and give back to othersFollow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about listening versus asking, connecting to ourselves and God in a way where we can "hear" instead of "control," becoming a better listener makes us more connected, when we're connected we move different as do our choices and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about the dynamics between men, women and partnership, how men can become more reliable, that surrendering is about expansion not taking away individuality, consistency and commitment isn't boring but assuring, personal autonomy, leadership, direction and clarity and A LOT more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about walking into the things we want most, answer the call and opportunities of those things vs. self-sabotage, our responsibilities to grow into the person that can handle our blessings, praying for it and being it are two different things, respecting our blessings, upping our level of play and moreFollow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about the relationship between love, honesty and respect, how these three affect us and our relationships with others, the real meaning of love and more.Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about why we worry, control issues, fear of letting go, past experiences coming up, what happens when we "worship" a problem, reconnecting to ourselves, praying as a form of surrendering our problem, creating more trust.Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about managing your expectations of others, understanding that no one will do what you want them to do for you like you'll do for you, build self-reliance and trust with yourself and then aligning with others who can support, understanding your soul's way of doing things, designing before delegating and more.Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about boundaries...why you may lack them, why you need them and how to create them. The irony of boundaries is that often people feel they're "restrictive" when in fact, they allow for more limitless opportunities. I explain why in this episode.Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about following your intuition... with your dreams, career, business idea, relationships or your life. I discuss how your intuition is never wrong, there's a reason for your calling, why people may not understand you or your calling, wanting more for yourself and the discomfort that comes with that sometimes and what to do when you're misaligned from where you are to where you want to go.Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about dealing with things as a means to becoming a better communicator... how to become clearer, have more understanding (of yourself and others), deal with conflict, be more curious, get out of your mind and make decisions faster.Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanIf you're not on the weekly texts, sign up here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about finding yourself in the contrasts of life and 4 things you want to consider...1 - The fastest way to figure out who you are is to know who you are not2 - What you don’t like, doesn’t belong to you, it just reminds you more of what you are… it’s opposite3 - When something comes up in your personal lives… don’t get defensive or strike back… learn to listen on multiple levels4 - What you see in others could be telling you something you need to deal with in yourselfFollow me on Instagram: @mattgottesmanJump on my TEXT List... you won't regret it - 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about how nobody wants to tell you why discipline is so important and that it's the strongest form of self-love... it’s loving yourself enough to give yourself everything you’ve ever wanted.Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesman If you're not on the weekly texts, sign up here - (480-530-7352)

In this episode, I talk about our obsession with outcomes and how we might already be successful when we step back to see what's really going on. I talk about a story between my father and I when he was in the hospital and I was at my lowest point from "losing everything" and rebuilding my life. In that moment, he gave me some of the greatest advice on..."Success"Why getting back up is the single most important thing we can doHow parents may view success of their children differently from the children themselvesBeing in the game is where the success is, not the endingIf you're not on the weekly texts, sign up here - 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about not letting the human in you talk you out of the soul in you. I then go over 8 observations you can use on yourself.8 ObservationsYou’re not uncertain, but you might need practice.When you’re honest, things move faster for you.When you don’t know if you’re reading the “signs” right from God, ask for the “billboard.”Developing trust with ourselves is a marathon, not a sprint.We have to detach from “needing” anything so we can learn to “be.” Allow people into your life who hold you accountable to your purpose.Don’t let the limits of being a human stop you from the limitlessness your soul can provide.Spend 5 days in your purpose, even if it’s a vacation from your other life, and the contrast will be so great that the choice will be made for you.If you're not on the weekly texts, sign up here - 480-530-7352

In this 1st intro episode I talk about why the Niche is You... not being defined by external roles and titles, understanding our purpose, gifts and talents, and how your soul is here to be so much more.Follow me on Instagram: @mattgottesman https://instagram.com/mattgottesman