The Niche Is You

In this episode, I talk about tackling your present state, understanding what you need to presently change, showing up even when you're not that person yet, self-care needs to be part of your mission, the process of refining and optimizing all of the areas of your life, 1% improvements, understanding your current habits so you can make shifts in them and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352FREE Reverse Engineer Your Life (Clarity Crash Course): Time, Energy, Money, Creativity, Work, Rest & Play - https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-life

In this episode, I talk about shifting the perspective of treating your life like your art, having a better relationship with your work, deepening yourself into the details, being more than one thing, being in the "game" versus playing from the sidelines, reinventing yourself daily, developing your own freedom, having more discipline, not being in a rush and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352FREE Reverse Engineer Your Life (Clarity Crash Course): Time, Energy, Money, Creativity, Work, Rest & Play - https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-life

In this episode, I talk about redefining the word success to the individual, removing the external when thinking about what you really want, how society defined success versus a new perspective on it, trusting yourself, having a relationship with yourself, cultivating more freedom for yourself and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352FREE Reverse Engineer Your Life (Clarity Crash Course): Time, Energy, Money, Creativity, Work, Rest & Play - https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-life

In this episode, I talk about your circumstances not being perfect to start, when you have nothing than everything is something, stepping into your journey so the people who are waiting to help you can find you, tying yourself to a mission even if that mission is you, not attaching yourself to outcomes and why they could be better than your own expectations, having grace with timing, not worrying about being "overlooked" and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352FREE Reverse Engineer Your Life (Clarity Crash Course): Time, Energy, Money, Creativity, Work, Rest & Play - https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-life

In this episode, I talk about dealing with overwhelm, where does it come from, how do we mitigate it, what do we need to focus on, what do we need to remove, what's stealing from our joy, how to return back to the things and people who bring us joy, tools and habits that we can instill to become presently aware of the overwhelm for removal and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352FREE Reverse Engineer Your Life (Clarity Crash Course): Time, Energy, Money, Creativity, Work, Rest & Play - https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-life

In this episode, I talk about overcoming our minds when we need to act on something, figuring out why we're not executing on something we want to do right now, creating micro habits and actions that are easy to do and repeat, gaining clarity & direction from our actions, not seeking answers but receiving them from simply executing next steps, creating our identity from our actions and behaviors, having grace for ourselves and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352FREE Reverse Engineer Your Life (Clarity Crash Course): Time, Energy, Money, Creativity, Work, Rest & Play - https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-life

In this episode, I talk about the differences between fear and our natural state of abundance, being in our value, the importance of patience and timing, receiving instead of chasing, operating from our gifts, where our confidence really comes from and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352FREE Reverse Engineer Your Life (Clarity Crash Course): Time, Energy, Money, Creativity, Work, Rest & Play - https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-life

In this episode, I talk about the effects of multi-tasking, overthinking and procrastination have on us, how to solve them, questions to ask ourselves in any given moment to make immediate but simple changes, narrowing our focus to one thing at a time, how to manage multiple projects or ideas, how to stop overthinking & procrastination and move into action and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352FREE Reverse Engineer Your Life (Clarity Crash Course): Time, Energy, Money, Creativity, Work, Rest & Play - https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-life

In this episode, I talk about the different affects fear and love have on the body, what a calm mind, a connected heart and clear vision look like, some ways to combat anxiety to keep a clear head, why love transcends everything, what love really is, the importance of dealing with distractions, bringing more discernment into your life, managing yourself in every situation, dealing with the external world's energy and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352FREE Reverse Engineer Your Life (Clarity Crash Course): Time, Energy, Money, Creativity, Work, Rest & Play - https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-life

In this episode, I talk about the 6 best pieces of advice I received from consulting with a billion dollar brand at Louis Vuitton Moet Hennessy, trusting yourself, connection is what brings people together, humility is what drives the mission forward, what you know is more than what others may know, not doing a job to fail but doing it to serve and make it better, your mission is you and how that affects others, putting yourself first makes you more reliable to the people who need you and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352FREE Reverse Engineer Your Life (Clarity Crash Course): Time, Energy, Money, Creativity, Work, Rest & Play - https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-life

In this episode, I talk about saying no and how that leads to bigger and better opportunities, winning with integrity, mastering yourself is good business, business is spiritual, making your soul the CEO of you, not doing things or business when it's out of alignment, being who you already are and receiving what's for you, why to avoid the arrogance of titles, labels, status and position, not being fooled by appearances, becoming more self-reliant and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352FREE Reverse Engineer Your Life: Time, Energy, Money, Creativity, Work, Rest & Play - https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-life

In this episode, I talk about tackling the fear of being seen trying, flipping the perspective to reality versus the fear we make up in our heads, dealing with the fear of how we are viewed by others in the process of doing something new, what failure really is versus what society has made it out to be, why being seen keeps you in receptivity mode and allows the world to help you versus hiding and no one finding you and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352FREE Reverse Engineer Your Life: Time, Energy, Money, Creativity, Work, Rest & Play - https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-life

In this episode, I talk about why you don't always need to feel "good" but you do need a mission, happiness is more than just a feeling, the difference between pleasure and pursuit, how do you find a mission/purpose or get into the pursuit of your highest self, why discomfort is not as bad as you think, how to move past discomfort to enjoy the destination and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352FREE Reverse Engineer Your Life: Time, Energy, Money, Creativity, Work, Rest & Play - https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-life

In this episode, I talk about designing our average perfect day (template at website link below), living our future self now, creating our own path, having more freedom and the responsibility that comes with it, how to use our time better, how to slow down so we can create a life, developing more clarity and trust for ourselves and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352FREE Reverse Engineer Your Life: Time, Energy, Money, Creativity, Work, Rest & Play - https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-life

In this episode, I talk about the why we never seem to have enough time, how to get more of it back, how to mitigate giving away too much of ourselves at the cost of our time and energy, how having a schedule makes us honest, how a vision brings us clarity, donating time versus depleting ourselves, what to do when we don't know what to do and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352FREE Reverse Engineer Your Life: Time, Energy, Money, Creativity, Work, Rest & Play - https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-life

In this episode, I talk about the beauty of free will, understanding the differences between our soul and our body, becoming more aware of our choices, making decisions that give us better outcomes instead of making them from fear, living for ourselves instead of society and others, aligning the body and the soul to work together, bringing more life into our world instead of escaping and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352FREE Reverse Engineer Your Life Workshop - https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-life

In this episode, I talk about creating better communication between you and your partner, why the best answer could be a good question, what we discover in listening, why we're more similar than we know, similar needs but different in communication styles, respecting and being responsible for each other's souls, not judging each other, what we really want to hear from each other and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352FREE Reverse Engineer Your Life Workshop - https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-life

In this episode, I talk about the importance of never following the crowd, how trends can be fleeting, your soul versus collective energy, popularity versus your peace, being misunderstood is a sign you're doing something right, being different makes you luckier and wealthier, sticking to your vision, independence and critical thinking and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352FREE Reverse Engineer Your Life Workshop - https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-life

In this episode, I talk about imposter syndrome, scarcity and worthiness issues, as well as how authenticity + creativity combat all three, reframing your perspective on opportunities and abundance, refining your focus on you so you're not comparing to an external world, using your realness to be the representative of you (your passions, your business, everything) to the world and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352FREE Clarity Workshop - https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-life

In this episode, I talk about why we are unclear, how we gain more clarity for what we want in life, understanding the systems or habits that are governing our decisions, auditing our time, getting rid of the unimportant things that waste our time, using our time better with things that matter that support our clarity and direction and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352FREE Clarity Workshop - https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-life

In this episode, I talk about the power of creating as a team, getting to know yourself through teamwork, getting to know your soul and God in a team dynamic, why teams topple individual raw talent, love, honesty & respect and how they ultimately conquer fear, doubt and power control and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352Reverse Engineer Your Life - FREE Workshop - https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-life

In this episode, I talk about cultivating strong energy, your soul is always guiding you, your creativity is building the world around you, your trust surrenders you to your uniqueness, your gifts make you wealthy, your authenticity is your greatest move, not chasing the external but creating from the internal and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352Reverse Engineer Your Life - FREE Workshop - https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-life

In this episode, I talk about giving to yourself the same as you give to others, viewing your life as art and how to create exactly what you want, removing the harsh critic and turning into the composed artist of your own life, having a better relationship with the work that goes into creating yourself and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352Reverse Engineer Your Life - FREE Workshop - https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-life

In this episode, I talk about what is divine timing, how do we align with it, why do some things take time while others come quickly, our relationship with ourselves and our soul, the responsibilities we must take on for acquiring what's for us, being intentional and honest, respecting the process and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352Reverse Engineer Your Life - FREE Workshop - https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-life

In this episode, I talk about what does it mean to have an empty cup, why does our cup get empty and how do we keep it from getting empty, what putting ourselves first does to everything else in our lives, how do we make more time for ourselves, how do we govern the outside world and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352Reverse Engineer FREE Workshop - https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-life

In this episode, I talk about dealing with overthinking, procrastination & overanalyzing, what being of service does for our momentum in life and business, how serving answers a lot of our life's questions, how serving keeps us present versus being all over the place, examples of how service helps our life and business and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352Reverse Engineer FREE Workshop - https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-life

In this episode, I talk about Malcolm Gladwell's 10,000 hours theory, talent versus long-term practice, becoming the best at anything takes time, understanding your worth and value from the start and then building upon it from there, repetition and consistency make predictable outcomes, understanding who you become in the process of building in 10,000 hours and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352Reverse Engineer FREE Workshop - https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-life

In this episode, I talk about why commitment isn't boring or restrictive, but honest and attractive, commitment to yourself, commitment to your purpose, commitment to your partner, commitment to your business, commitment to your body, commitment to your soul & God, how commitment is expansive in every area of your life and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352Reverse Engineer FREE Workshop - https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-life

In this episode, I talk about the importance of making decisions, how to make key decisions faster and more intentionally will yield you more predictable outcomes, gaining clarity and direction so you can make more decisions that align with your future self, deciding on what your future self really wants, slowing down the nervous system, what key internal questions to ask yourself daily, reverse engineering your life (see link below👇🏼)and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352Reverse Engineer FREE Workshop - https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-life

In this episode, I talk about some of the most important areas we should focus on that will lead us to better outcomes such as purpose over validation, integrity over instant gratification, transcendence over trends, God over people, consistency over chaos, soul over society, yourself over the competition and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about whether or not our prayers are always being answered, the power of prayer when we connect from our truth and sincerity, prayers aren't always an affirmative yes but a protective no, how miracles happen even if you don't believe, why we really play, who is it for and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about whether or not you are stealing time from God, are you giving away too much of your time by doing the work for others instead of doing the work for you and your purpose, using time in your favor, putting the most important things to the top of your priorities, reverse engineering your life to create the exact one you're here to create and more!Reverse Engineer Resource - mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-life Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about the life that is happening for you that you may not realize, the bigger picture we cannot see sometimes, the experiences we encounter that shape our future, the soul's purpose, how some unfortunate events can actually be a part of our bigger vision and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about the power of one more, the compound effect of doing one more calculated daily, weekly and monthly and what that looks like at the end of the year, the dopamine of the journey versus the destination, how one more affects our present reality and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about the difference between saying you're committed and being committed, how commitment is contagious, why commitment is so attractive and magnetic as a personality, how commitment shows the world our character and what it reveals about ourselves, our worthiness and our value and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about the 7 most important areas that should be non-negotiable to you, your peace, your happiness, your value, your talents & gifts, your health, your discipline and your life, as well as how to navigate them and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about the importance of staying focused on what you really want, energy deficits and surpluses, what sparks your creativity and vitality versus decreases it, places and environments that contribute or remove energy, where do you feel invigorated or drained, distractions, ways to enjoy the process over the outcome and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about how routine creates clarity, direction and predictability of the outcomes you want, the compound effect of reaping huge rewards from small, seemingly insignificant actions, repeated, the disciplined pursuit of less, one decision that makes a thousand others and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352Book Recommendations:The Compound Effect - https://amzn.to/3PXBMoNThe Slight Edge - https://amzn.to/3GqA247Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less - https://amzn.to/3WUbN3V

In this episode, I talk about how vulnerability is real not an excuse, how it makes us more authentic and honest instead of closed off and elusive, how vulnerability is something that we can all connect to, the responsibility and relatability of being our truest selves and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about knowing your worth, understanding your value, how that relationship with yourself reflects the outside world, an exercise on where to give more time and energy, why we must operate from our worthiness and value and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about how we're wasting time trying to be perfect, how people would rather the real you than the perfect you, how honesty creates many more opportunities, how striving for perfection is slowing you down, how to overcome perfectionism and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about why what happens when we put health and soul first before everything else, how those two affect our entrepreneurial journey as well as our personal one, optimizing what we build from better health and having faith, learning to prioritize so we can go further from doing less and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about why we judge, how it affects men and women, how men and women can judge less and communicate more, what behaviors evoke more trust and less judgment between men and women, communications styles that work on bringing each other closer instead of pushing each other away and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about why some things take longer than expected, how the longer it takes the bigger it is, what you learn in the process of getting there, the leverage and advantages you have with it taking longer, dealing with doubts and limiting beliefs throughout the journey and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about preparing before receiving, cultivating an environment that's receptive of gifts and what you want, how to get rid of resistance, having a relationship with what you want before it's here, aligning future you and present you, observing your habits and behaviors to make them more receptive to your future and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about the power of a woman's prayer for us men, what it means for us men to connect to ourselves more and God, what I've learned from more intentionally connecting to myself and from connecting to God, being prayed for is a gift, how prayers not only help us men get more of what we need and want, but it helps what we bring to the rest of the world especially in partnership and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about how honesty brings people closer together, the attractiveness of being yourself, letting down your guard is letting down the masks, when you're honest you're in your heart and that creates receptivity, bonds are built from trust and respect, honesty opens the floodgates for everything else and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about not having it all figured out and you want it that way, connecting the dots you haven't looked further at, purpose is created not found, developing answers instead of waiting for them, making room to receive and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about the people who want to see you win, the right people aren’t interested in what you can do for them but devoted to your purpose, these people are windows to your path if you pay close enough attention, these people are deliverers of messages when you need them most, they’re stakeholders in the game of your life… they’re connected to you at all times and seemingly know what you need when you need it and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352

In this episode, I talk about embracing your whole story... especially the tough parts, the dark nights and the heavy days that people don't see, as well as why our "full story" is so much more important than the wins people see, how our story makes us a real person and authentic, how our story demonstrates leadership and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352