The Clifton Brantley Podcast

It's a new season! We are kicking off with one of my random rants that turned into something really helpful. If you like this episode, share with the people who you thin would like it too!

It's been a minute! I needed to get back to it and what better way than to talk about God's love.

Before you start searching for “the one,” there’s a more important question to ask: Am I ready to choose the right mate? In this episode, we’re looking at the emotional, spiritual, and relational readiness needed to choose well. If you’ve ever wondered why your past relationships didn’t work—or how to avoid repeating the same patterns—this conversation is for you.Follow me on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@cbrantleyNeed help? Schedule a consultation: https://cliftonbrantley.as.me

Have you ever said something that you wish you could take back? Have you ever lashed out in anger and hurt the people you love? This episode is for you.The bible says that we will have to answer for every idle word we utter. When I think about that I shutter. Don't be the person who is always saying hurtful things.If you are struggling to heal infidelity, join the Healing After Infidelity Workshop: https://cliftonbrantley.com/healinginfidelity

If you’ve ever looked back and finally understood why it had to happen the way it did, this episode is for you. What once felt like failure may turn out to be the foundation for your future.In this heartfelt reflection, Clifton Brantley shares how hindsight revealed God’s hand in even his most painful seasons. From walking through eight years of personal wilderness to discovering purpose on the other side, Clifton talks about regret, growth, and the way God shapes us in pain so He can use us through it.🔸 Key insight: Don’t get stuck expecting God to move the same way He did before.🔸 Reminder: What the enemy meant for evil, God still means for good.Have you ever looked back on your life and been surprised by what God used to shape you?

In Isaiah 6:1 it says, "The year that king Uzziah died, I saw the Lord..." Sometimes, it takes a certain event to help shift our thinking. In this episode I want to encourage you to tie a knot at the end of your rope and hang on...God is not done. If you are struggling with life and could use some guidance, if your marriage is struggling or if you want to work on your spiritual development, you can schedule a consultation at: https://cliftonbrantley.as.me  

At some point you are going to have to trust God or lose your mind.

I just wanted to encourage you with something that was on my mind.

In this little mini series called "Marriage Secrets" I am currently talking about things in marriage that people are seemingly clueless about. Let me know what you think about the things I mention in this episode.

What is the purpose of pain and how do we know when to embrace it or let it go? Let's talk about it.

In this episode I talk about what I used to think was real love. I also talk about what it looks like to be more supportive to your man.

In this opening episode to the new season I interviewed my son. God has been doing a great work in his life and he stopped by to share it with me.

Sometimes, we need our 'village' to speak a word to remind us of who we are. Life will make you forget that you are more than a conqueror.

Have you ever decided to stop taking your medicine once you started to feel better even though the doctor said to make sure you take it all? Well I want to encourage you to NOT do that with your mental and emotional health. There are things that you have been dealing with for years and you think "that's just how I am." But in reality, it is not who you are, it is who you've learned to be. God has more for you! In order to get it, you have to become the person God created you to be when he sent you to the planet. Let's get active! Also, if you are looking for a place where you can grow and be challenged as a man...if you are looking to take your life to the next level, then you should join The Man Hood! We meet live virtually on 2nd and 4th Saturday mornings. There is also a community where we can connect and talk. The best part is that it is 100% risk free for 30 days! That's right, you can join The Man Hood and the first 30 days is on me. After that, it's only $67 / month. You get to try before you actually buy. Come on to The Man Hood where you can become the man God created you to be! https://www.cliftonbrantley.com/thehood

How can the world recognize the real church of Christ? The answer is in John 13. Let's talk about it.

Fellas, sometimes we have to encourage ourselves. Your lady may not be able to see what you see, so you may have to go alone at times...but be encouraged.

In this episode, I share some hard truths that women don't want to hear and men need to recognize.

Eugene stopped by the studio.

A special Thanksgiving message for you men. Keep looking ahead.

Why do the things matter that matter to you? Do you know where you are going? If so, who's guiding you? Listen up! Healing After Infidelity Workshop, a virtual event: https://www.cliftonbrantley.com/healinginfidelity

In the story of Joseph we can see how forgiveness can only happen when you have a God-perspective. If you or a couple you know is dealing with infidelity, I am having a workshop. HEALING AFTER INFIDELITY is the workshop. Learn more about it here: https://www.cliftonbrantley.com/healinginfidelity

Starting a new series! Check it out and tell me what you think!

I have a lot of thoughts to share. About politics, marriage, and God's idea of marriage.

Welcome to The Man Hood! A place where men can learn and grow to become better all around. If you are interested in learning about The Man Hood Mentoring and Coaching Program, follow this link: https://www.cliftonbrantley.com/inthehood Also, check out Man Hood Mondays on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cbrantleylmft  

When you get married, your life becomes interwoven with someone else. Your choices become their consequences.

In life, you will work for someone. I don't mean on your job, I mean to be approved by them. It is not something you can escape...the only thing you can do is choose the right person to work for. And your spouse is not the right person.

We often blame our partners for not loving us the way we love them, however the rubric that we use to measure their love is faulty. In this episode I help you see how you may be treating your partner unfairly for no reason. If you would like to work on your relationship and establish a solid foundation on which you can build an amazing marriage / relationship you can schedule a consultation with me to see if we are a good fit: https://cbrantleylmft.as.me Or, if you need individual coaching to help you lay aside every weight that so easily slows you down, then we should do a consultation also: https://cbrantleylmft.as.me

The reason that "pride goes before destructions" is because when you are engulfed in pride you are not aware of it. "Pride" dresses itself up to look like righteousness. You won't know that you are going the wrong way until destruction shows up...OR until God's Grace & Mercy let you see the destruction they saved you from. This episode was personal...I pray that it will help you become a better you!

Trauma will absolutely affect every part of your life including marriage. You need to know the extent of your partner's trauma and they need to know yours. in this episode I share my story of self-discovery. I hope it helps you.

Sometimes we think that the we have been dealt an unfair hand or perhaps we are experiencing things in life that we do not deserve. Well, I want to challenge that belief and give you a new perspective. *Trigger Warning* You may hear some things in this episode that upset you. That is never my intent. Listen to the whole episode for it to all make sense.

New season kick-off! Talking about love and how to stop blaming your partner for you feeling unloved.

Sometimes God will speak to you in the most unusual ways. In this episode I talk about a random phone call I received. I also talk about living for your future.

As I was trying to prepare to teach, I had a block...as I processed my way thru it, I discovered a question that I think you would do well to include in the way you approach life.

Do you really believe what you think you believe about you? In this episode I share some insight on how you can know whether you truly believe what you say. Also, I have some insight on 'love actually.'

Happy Mother's Day to all of the mothers out there. A special happy mother's day to my mom.

Infidelity is an epidemic in today's culture. If you are dealing with this problem, please get some professional help. Watch my video on this topic at https://youtube.com/@cbrantleylmft

Many married people are married to strangers. The reason for this is because they never divorced the "idea" of their spouse in their head which then prevents them from learning to love their spouse who has become a stranger in their bed. So let's talk about dreams vs. reality.

We all need people in our lives that can mirror for us who we are and help us be more authentic.

It's Good Friday. Let's talk about that...

In this episode I tell you THE secret ingredient to a healthy marriage. Once you fix this, everything else will pretty much fall into place. Tell me what you think!

This is part two of the 2-part mini series about the men who have impacted my life over the years. If you are a young man under the age of 35, I am especially talking to you in this episode. Schedule a consultation: https://cbrantleylmft.as.me

I was thinking about how God has sent different men at different times of my life to help me to go further down the road of my journey. I hope this little mini-series will inspire someone.

In this episode I share my thoughts on men's need for men, advice for young men and grown kids.

Marriage can be difficult, but there are things that we do that make it even more difficult. In this episode I share with you some of those things. Don't forget to subscribe to my YouTube channel for more amazing content: https://youtube.com/c/cbrantleylmft

There are times in life when there is no other explanation for what happens other than "God did it." I want to encourage you to remember what the Lord has done.

Have you ever read the book of Hosea? Wow!

I was thinking about marital growth and how much it has shaped me. I want to encourage you to have a different perspective on your marital pain as well.

Choosing who to spend your life with is one of the most important decisions you will ever make. But too often people make these choices based on things that do not matter while ignoring things that do. Let's talk about it.

Welcome to another season with your favorite therapist and marriage coach!

Lament: to express sadness and feeling sorry about something. Life Happens, but so does God's grace. I hope this helps you become a better you!