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EP. 198 🚨 Big announcement: The farewell to "Breakthrough with Brig"

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As we hit Episode 198 of "Breakthrough with Brig," we find ourselves at a crossroads of emotions and excitement. This episode marks the end of an era, as Brig announces the retirement of this beloved podcast. For many listeners, "Breakthrough with Brig" has been a beacon of inspiration, growth, and empowerment. But as they say, when one door closes, another opens. This farewell is not an end but a transformation. It's a celebration of growth, change, and the courage to embrace new beginnings. As Brig aptly puts it, "Sometimes it's okay to say I don't want to do that no more. And it doesn't mean we have to stop. We just get to reinvent." And so, in Episode 200, a brand new podcast will be unveiled, complete with a fresh look, sound, and vibe. But don't worry, the core essence of Brig—her authenticity, passion, and unfiltered wisdom—remains unchanged. To celebrate the end of "Breakthrough with Brig," Brig has planned a grand finale that you won't want to miss. Tune in to hear more! RESOURCES — Join my Newsletter, Unlearn and Unleash Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here Register for the Next Melanin Hour here Book a Breakthrough Call here Share Your Takeaways With Me at [email protected] LET’S GET SOCIAL — Website - http://brigjohnson.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/johnsonbrig/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachwithbrig

Sep 23, 20248 min

EP. 197 [Women Winning Series] How To Grow Your Side Hustle Without Burning Out With Million Dollar Expert Sales Strategist Dielle Charon

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Our special guest, a familiar voice, a client, friend, and trailblazer Dielle Charon, Million Dollar Expert Sales Strategist for women of color and author of "Don’t Call It a Side Hustle," shares her journey from a social worker earning $2,500 a month to a side hustler who built a $300K coaching business. But she didn't just hustle; she redefined hustle. Her story is about more than just making extra cash; it's about creating a life of freedom, choice, and empowerment. And this is possible for you too! Listen in as Brig and Dielle uncovers the raw truths about the systemic challenges faced by black women in the workforce, the ingenious ways to tackle the stress of juggling multiple roles, and the transformative power of seeing your side hustle as a vehicle for freedom. If you're ready to embrace the multiplicity of your passions, harness the skills you've honed in your career, and step into the entrepreneurial identity that awaits, this episode is a goldmine of wisdom. Tune in and let this episode be your guide to reimagining the side hustle as your path to freedom. GUEST CONTACT — Dielle Charon, Author and Million Dollar Expert Sales Strategist | Website | Instagram | The WOC Sales Show | Book: Don't Call It A Side Hustle: Why WOC Should Be Full Time Entrepreneurs And The Practical Steps On How To Get There MENTIONED — EP. 75 They Don’t Get Me! EP. 101 The Value of Coaching Series with Dielle Charon RESOURCES — Join my Newsletter, Unlearn and Unleash Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here Register for the Next Melanin Hour here Book a Breakthrough Call here Share Your Takeaways With Me at [email protected] LET’S GET SOCIAL — Website - http://brigjohnson.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/johnsonbrig/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachwithbrig

Sep 16, 202446 min

EP. 196 [Women Winning Series] From Visibility to Victory: Nana Crawford's Journey Through Stress, Self-Love, and Defying Societal Expectations using Samba!

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In this episode, Brig welcomes Nana Crawford, a marketing maven, mother, wife, and self-love advocate, to share her journey of self-discovery, from questioning her identity beyond societal labels to finding solace in dance and solitude. Born in Ghana and raised in the UK, Nana has crafted a life that transcends the societal boxes often imposed upon black women. If you've ever felt boxed in by expectations or feared the repercussions of stepping into your light, this episode will resonate deeply. Nana's insights on building mental resilience, setting boundaries, and finding joy in the present moment offers a blueprint for anyone looking to break free from the constraints that dimming your light. Join Brig and Nana for a conversation that's as much a celebration of black womanhood as it is a cry for authenticity and self-love. They dive into the complexities of being seen and heard without succumbing to stereotypes. They discuss the strength in vulnerability, the power of asking oneself the hard questions, and the courage it takes to redefine one's narrative. It's time to dance to the rhythm of your own drum and let your presence be your superpower. Press play to join the celebration of self-discovery and boundless empowerment. GUEST CONTACT — Nana Crawford, Dance Wellness Instructor | Instagram | Free Online Classes MENTIONED — Episode 98: Visibility Capacity RESOURCES — Join my Newsletter, Unlearn and Unleash Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here Register for the Next Melanin Hour here Book a Breakthrough Call here Share Your Takeaways With Me at [email protected] LET’S GET SOCIAL — Website - http://brigjohnson.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/johnsonbrig/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachwithbrig

Sep 9, 202454 min

EP. 195 [Women Winning Series] Learning How to Say NO! with Robyn Spens

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In the hustle of everyday life, we often find ourselves saying "yes" more than we'd like, leading to overwhelm, stress, and dissatisfaction. But what if the power to change that lies in two simple letters: N-O? In our latest episode, we dive deep into the art of setting boundaries with Robyn Spens, a therapist and coach who has transformed from a gemologist to a guardian of personal space and self-respect. Robin's journey is as sparkling as the diamonds she once dealt with. She fought her way through a masculine-dominated industry to find her true calling in helping others reclaim their voices. Her story is not just inspiring; it's a roadmap for anyone feeling trapped in the cycle of people-pleasing. Brig and Robin explore the societal pressures that condition us to please others at the expense of our own needs, and the resulting stress and resentment that builds up when we can't say no. Listen in to discover how saying no can actually lead to more respect and authenticity in relationships, and why it's a critical skill for stress relief and emotional well-being. As Robin eloquently puts it, "It's okay that your no is a whisper and then it becomes a roar." Let this conversation guide you there. GUEST CONTACT — Robyn Spens, Therapist, Coach and Founder of The Boundary Club | Website | Instagram RESOURCES — Join my Newsletter, Unlearn and Unleash Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here Register for the Next Melanin Hour here Book a Breakthrough Call here Share Your Takeaways With Me at [email protected] LET’S GET SOCIAL — Website - http://brigjohnson.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/johnsonbrig/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachwithbrig

Sep 2, 202434 min

EP.194 [Women Winning Series] Turning Workplace 'No's Into Wins: Velera Wilson on Navigating Rejection and Rising Above

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Are you ready to break through the barriers of self-doubt and command your worth with unshakeable confidence? Then this episode is for you. In this special edition of the Women Winning Series, Brig sits down with Valera Wilson, the author of "You Are Absolutely Worth It" and a seasoned marketing strategist. Her journey from grappling with self-doubt to becoming a beacon of empowerment for others is not just inspirational—it's a roadmap for anyone ready to own their value in every space they occupy. Valera's insights into the common swirl of self-doubt among women, especially women of color, are eye-opening. She reminds us that questioning our worth is not unique to us; it's a shared experience that we can overcome together. With practical advice and relatable anecdotes, Valera guides us through the process of peeling back the layers of our fears to find the root causes of our limiting beliefs. And she shares her wisdom on how to assert your worth in the workplace, negotiate salaries with confidence, and speak up with conviction—even when it's uncomfortable. Press play to join in on this discussion about overcoming imposter syndrome, mastering negotiation, and leading with confidence. GUEST CONTACT — Velera Wilson, Speaker, Author and Consultant| Website | Instagram | Book: "You Are Absolutely Worth It" RESOURCES — Join my Newsletter, Unlearn and Unleash Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here Register for the Next Melanin Hour here Book a Breakthrough Call here Share Your Takeaways With Me at [email protected] LET’S GET SOCIAL — Website - http://brigjohnson.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/johnsonbrig/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachwithbrig

Aug 26, 202444 min

EP. 193 [Women Winning Series] "Rising from Betrayal - Cledra Gross on Transforming Pain into Power After Infidelity"

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Join Brig as she engages in an authentic conversation with life coach and business strategist Cledra Gross, who shares her personal trials from the loss of a marriage to the rebirth of her purpose. Cledra reveals the profound impact of her experiences, from the sting of infidelity to the silent struggle with infertility, and the resilience it took to navigate through the pain of a crumbling marriage. Whether you're weathering the storm of a relationship in flux, stepping into a new chapter post-divorce, or simply seeking wisdom on how to thrive in the face of adversity, this conversation is a testament to the fact that while our plans may fracture, our spirits can emerge stronger. Don't miss this inspiring discussion on the trials of divorce, the power of personal growth, and the unspoken stress of societal expectations. Topics discussed: The emotional toll of infidelity and divorce The journey of self-discovery and healing post-separation The importance of self-compassion and professional support during tough transitions Embracing the unpredictable nature of life and relationships Finding happiness and purpose regardless of relationship status GUEST CONTACT — Cledra Gross, Life Coach and Business Strategist | Website | Instagram MENTIONED — EP. 121 Bad Things Happen To Good Girls RESOURCES — Join my Newsletter, Unlearn and Unleash Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here Register for the Next Melanin Hour here Book a Breakthrough Call here Share Your Takeaways With Me at [email protected] LET’S GET SOCIAL — Website - http://brigjohnson.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/johnsonbrig/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachwithbrig

Aug 19, 202446 min

EP. 192 [Women Winning Series] Rekindling Romance Keeping the Spark Alive in Long-Term Relationships with Relationship Expert Maggie Reyes

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On this episode, Brig is joined by Maggie Reyes, Master Certified Life Coach and Modern Marriage Mentor who specializes in helping driven, ambitious women create their best marriages, without waiting for their partners to change or adding more work to their lives. Maggie brings her wealth of knowledge and personal insights to the table, sharing the concept of "sexy besties" and the importance of being both passionate lovers and supportive friends. Listen in as Maggie and Brig explore the nuances of communication beyond words, the significance of intimacy that transcends the physical, and how creating new experiences can reignite the flame in your partnership. They also tackle the impact of stress on relationships, especially for those with marginalized identities, and discuss strategies for building psychological safety and maintaining emotional well-being. Whether you're looking to enhance your marriage, navigate the complexities of dating, or simply understand the dynamics of a successful relationship, this episode has lots of gems and practical advice you can draw from. Topics include: The "sexy besties" concept and its role in sustaining romance The power of new experiences in rekindling relationships Effective communication and intimacy beyond the physical The influence of stress and psychological safety in partnerships Maggie's journey to becoming a marriage and relationship expert GUEST CONTACT — Maggie Reyes, Life Coach + Marriage Mentor | Website | Instagram | The Marriage Life Coach Podcast | Questions for Couples Journal: 400 Questions to Enjoy, Reflect, and Connect with Your Partner (Relationship Books for Couples) RESOURCES — Join my Newsletter, Unlearn and Unleash Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here Register for the Next Melanin Hour here Book a Breakthrough Call here Share Your Takeaways With Me at [email protected] LET’S GET SOCIAL — Website - http://brigjohnson.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/johnsonbrig/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachwithbrig

Aug 12, 202451 min

EP. 191 {Throwback} Stop Playing Squirrel with Your Decisions

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In a world where we're constantly bombarded with advice and opinions, it's easy to lose sight of our own inner wisdom. Today Brig dives deep into a subject that touches every aspect of our lives—decisions. Brig explores the frequent coaching topic of decision-making and how we often undermine our own choices by constantly seeking external validation. She emphasizes the importance of trusting your own decisions and going all in, instead of playing the "squirrel" game—jumping from one method to another without fully committing. Brig also shares practical strategies for honoring your decisions, including setting a specific timeframe for evaluation and managing the discomfort that comes with sticking to your choices. Whether it's your career, relationships, or personal goals, this episode will empower you to reclaim your authority and trust your inner wisdom. If you're tired of second-guessing yourself and ready to make empowered decisions, this episode is a must-listen. Tune in to break free from confusion and step into your power. RESOURCES — Join my Newsletter, Unlearn and Unleash Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here Register for the Next Melanin Hour here Book a Breakthrough Call here Share Your Takeaways With Me at [email protected] LET’S GET SOCIAL — Website - http://brigjohnson.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/johnsonbrig/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachwithbrig

Aug 5, 202428 min

EP. 190 The Value of Coaching with Tawny Ann De La Peña

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In this eye-opening episode, Brig sits down with Twany, a client and fellow coach, to discuss the intricacies of coaching across different marginalized identities. Twany shares her transformative journey, revealing how coaching helped her navigate complex family dynamics and uncover hidden strengths. Despite not being a black woman, Twany found immense value in Brig's coaching, which underscores the universality of certain struggles among marginalized communities. They explore the concept of the "marginalized brain" and how deeply ingrained cultural complexities shape our responses to life's challenges. Twany opens up about her initial resistance to coaching on family issues, believing she had already dealt with them through therapy. However, Brig's unique approach helped her see the broader impact of these unresolved issues on her personal and professional life. Through candid conversations and real-life examples, they explore the importance of setting boundaries, maintaining self-worth, and finding empowerment in seemingly powerless situations. If you've ever felt trapped by familial expectations or societal norms, this episode offers valuable insights into reclaiming your power and living authentically. Tune in to discover how coaching can illuminate hidden paths and create lasting change. GUEST CONTACT — Tawny Ann De La Peña, The Messaging Expert For Life Coaches | Website MENTIONED — Life Coach School Mamma Mia! (musical) WorldStarHipHop RESOURCES — Join my Newsletter, Unlearn and Unleash Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here Register for the Next Melanin Hour here Book a Breakthrough Call here Share Your Takeaways With Me at [email protected] LET’S GET SOCIAL — Website - http://brigjohnson.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/johnsonbrig/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachwithbrig

Jul 29, 202456 min

EP. 189 {Throwback} What’s In The Way Of You Creating Your EPIC-NESS

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What's holding you back from achieving your epic-ness? In this episode, Brig dives into the critical elements of decision making, self-trust, and overcoming distractions for high achieving black women. She emphasizes that creating a fulfilling life isn't just about financial success; it's about nurturing relationships and building a strong support system. Brig also highlights the unique challenges faced by black women, including mental fatigue and distractions that can hinder progress. She offers practical advice on minimizing these distractions and fostering an environment of self-trust and intentional decision-making. If you're ready to overcome what's holding you back and create a life filled with epic achievements, this episode is a must-listen. Join Brig as she provides valuable insights and actionable steps to help you on your journey. RESOURCES — Join my Newsletter, Unlearn and Unleash Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here Register for the Next Melanin Hour here Book a Breakthrough Call here Share Your Takeaways With Me at [email protected] LET’S GET SOCIAL — Website - http://brigjohnson.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/johnsonbrig/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachwithbrig

Jul 22, 202430 min

EP. 188 The Value of Coaching with TaVona

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Ever wondered what it's like to have a friend who's also your coach? In this heartwarming and insightful episode, Brig welcomes her bestie and fellow coach, TaVona, to dive deep into the unique dynamics of their “froach” relationship. From the highs and lows of their coaching journey to pivotal moments of personal growth, this episode is a candid look at how having a friend who’s a coach can transform your life. TaVona shares her experience of navigating through life’s challenges with Brig by her side, discussing the importance of being ready for deep, transformational work. They explore the nuances of readiness, the impact of consistent support, and how coaching can help you tackle life's biggest hurdles. If you've ever felt stuck or wondered about the power of having a “froach”, this episode is a must-listen. Grab your tea and join Brig and TaVona as they spill the tea on coaching, friendship, and the journey to self-discovery. GUEST CONTACT — TaVona Denise, Master-Certified Life And Business Coach | Website RESOURCES — Join my Newsletter, Unlearn and Unleash Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here Register for the Next Melanin Hour here Book a Breakthrough Call here Share Your Takeaways With Me at [email protected] LET’S GET SOCIAL — Website - http://brigjohnson.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/johnsonbrig/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachwithbrig

Jul 15, 202447 min

EP. 187 Health Setbacks: Building Strength From The Ground Up: A Intimate Discussion Of Triumph With IFBB Pro Figure Felicia Cox

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In this empowering episode of Women Winning Series, we explore the resilience of the human spirit with the remarkable Felicia Cox, also known as the Iron Diva. As a renowned IFBB Pro bodybuilder, fitness expert, and survivor, Felicia shares her harrowing experience of a medical setback that nearly stripped her of her identity and vitality. Her story is a testament to the power of movement, the necessity of stress recovery, and the undying strength we possess even in the face of adversity. Whether you're a CEO, a parent, or someone who's simply trying to make it through the day, Felicia's insights on movement and stress recovery are invaluable. You’ll hear us explain the physical effects of stress on the body and why we must prioritize our health to be ready for life's unexpected moments. Tune in, be inspired, and remember that no matter the setback, the capacity to recover and thrive is within all of us. GUEST CONTACT — Felicia Cox, Business owner, Author and Fitness Expert | Instagram | Book: "I Am Worthy" | Email: [email protected] RESOURCES — Join my Newsletter, Unlearn and Unleash Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here Register for the Next Melanin Hour here Book a Breakthrough Call here Share Your Takeaways With Me at [email protected] LET’S GET SOCIAL — Website - http://brigjohnson.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/johnsonbrig/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachwithbrig

Jul 8, 202456 min

EP. 186 How To Stop Caretaking And Why We Must Do This For The Culture

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Are you constantly putting others' needs above your own? It's time to reclaim your worth and set boundaries. In this powerful episode, Brig tackles the deeply ingrained issue of caretaking, especially among black women and marginalized identities. Raised to believe that our worth is tied to taking care of others, we often find ourselves prioritizing everyone else's needs above our own. Brig explores how this conditioning affects our intimate relationships, parenting, and overall mental health. She challenges us to question the societal norms that dictate our roles as caretakers and the emotional toll it takes on us. Brig emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries and allowing others to face the consequences of their actions. By doing so, we not only free ourselves from unnecessary stress but also give others the opportunity to grow and take responsibility for their own lives. If you're tired of the endless cycle of caretaking and ready to reclaim your value, this episode is a must-listen. Tune in to learn how to break the cycle of caretaking and focus on your personal growth. RESOURCES — Join my Newsletter, Unlearn and Unleash Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here Register for the Next Melanin Hour here Book a Breakthrough Call here Share Your Takeaways With Me at [email protected] LET’S GET SOCIAL — Website - http://brigjohnson.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/johnsonbrig/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachwithbrig

Jul 1, 202423 min

EP. 185 Challenging Comfort: Struggling To Get Out Your Comfort Zone? This Is For You

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In this thought-provoking episode, Brig explores a concept inspired by Nicholas Taleb's book, "The Bed of Procrustes" where Taleb uses the metaphor of living in a box to illustrate how modern civilization confines us in ways that are far from natural or comfortable. But what if everything you thought about your "comfort zone" was actually a lie? Listen in as Brig passionately argues that our true comfort zone lies outside these boxes, where we can live boldly, create, take risks, and experience life to the fullest. If you've ever felt trapped by societal norms or wondered why you numb yourself with overeating, over-drinking, or binge-watching TV, this episode is for you. Discover how to break free from the discomfort of the so-called comfort zone and embrace a life filled with passion, creativity, and genuine joy. It's time to reclaim your natural state and start living boldly. RESOURCES — Join my Newsletter, Unlearn and Unleash Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here Register for the Next Melanin Hour here Book a Breakthrough Call here Share Your Takeaways With Me at [email protected] LET’S GET SOCIAL — Website - http://brigjohnson.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/johnsonbrig/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachwithbrig

Jun 24, 202433 min

EP. 184 An Interview with Simone Williams: Shortening The Gap

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In this special episode, Brig welcomes back a truly inspiring guest for her third appearance. This episode is a deep dive into the journey of resilience, healing, and self-acceptance with Simone Williams. Join the conversation as Simone shares her transformative story, from being physically and mentally exhausted to mastering her stress responses and narrowing the gap between incident and recovery. Learn how she overcame grief and embraced her authentic self, and discover the importance of having a safe space to be vulnerable. If you've ever felt paralyzed by grief, stress, or the pressure to perform, this episode will resonate deeply with you. Discover how to embrace all aspects of yourself, manage your stress responses, and ultimately, master the art of living authentically and resiliently. RESOURCES — Join my Newsletter, Unlearn and Unleash Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here Register for the Next Melanin Hour here Book a Breakthrough Call here Share Your Takeaways With Me at [email protected] LET’S GET SOCIAL — Website - http://brigjohnson.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/johnsonbrig/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachwithbrig

Jun 17, 202436 min

EP. 183 When Other People Don't Like Your Choices: How To Protect Your Dreams

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Are you tired of feeling stressed when others don't agree with your choices? In our latest episode, Brig dives deep into the emotional turmoil that comes from seeking validation and how to break free from it. She also addresses the societal conditioning that makes us crave approval and how it stifles our potential. If you’ve ever felt paralyzed by the fear of judgment, this episode will empower you to reclaim your freedom and live authentically. Tune in to learn why we seek validation for our choices, and how we can overcome it, protect our beliefs, build self-authority, and pursue our epic goals. RESOURCES — Join my Newsletter, Unlearn and Unleash Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here Register for the Next Melanin Hour here Book a Breakthrough Call here Share Your Takeaways With Me at [email protected] LET’S GET SOCIAL — Website - http://brigjohnson.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/johnsonbrig/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachwithbrig

Jun 10, 202443 min

EP. 182 Are Your Problems Paralyzing You? (Problem Series Part 2)

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If you're stuck in a state of perplexity that has left you paralyzed, then this episode is a must-listen. In this follow-up to episode 181, What To Do If You’re Perplexed By Your Problems (Problem Series Part 1), Brig introduces us to the transformative PARTS method – a solution for when your problems feel paralyzing. Brig breaks down the acronym PARTS: Problems as Road to Success, and guides us through each step with her signature blend of insight and creativity. The approach is a practical, actionable method that can be applied to any problem, big or small, to help us transform our relationship with our problems Press play now to understand how to pinpoint your issues, acknowledge your fears, and create a plan that tackles problems with confidence. Plus, learn to set up the support and safeguards you need. And don't forget, if you know someone who's struggling, share episodes 181 and 182 with them. RESOURCES — Join my Newsletter, Unlearn and Unleash Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here Register for the Next Melanin Hour here Book a Breakthrough Call here Share Your Takeaways With Me at [email protected] LET’S GET SOCIAL — Website - http://brigjohnson.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/johnsonbrig/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachwithbrig

Jun 3, 202423 min

EP. 181 What To Do If You’re Perplexed By Your Problems (Problem Series Part 1)

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Are you feeling overwhelmed with the problems life keeps throwing at you? In our latest episode, Brig dives deep into the nature of problems and why they're not as daunting as they seem. She shares that problems are not just obstacles but questions that beg for solutions. They are a natural part of the human experience, yet we often find ourselves stumped, unable to understand or accept why things happen the way they do. She also explores the cultural and societal norms that shape our understanding of what's 'normal.' More importantly, she uses the parts method – problems as a road to success to offer a fresh perspective on how to approach problems, not as punitive tests, but as opportunities for growth and learning. If you've ever felt trapped by your challenges, this episode will provide you with the tools to break free and find success on the other side. Tune in now and start seeing your problems not as dead-ends, but as pathways to personal growth and success. RESOURCES — Join my Newsletter, Unlearn and Unleash Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here Register for the Next Melanin Hour here Book a Breakthrough Call here Share Your Takeaways With Me at [email protected] LET’S GET SOCIAL — Website - http://brigjohnson.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/johnsonbrig/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachwithbrig

May 27, 202434 min

EP. 180 How to Actually Follow Through: Setting Commitments You'll Keep

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Are you familiar with the concept of 'bright lines'? These are the clear, non-negotiable boundaries that can be the game-changer you need for personal development and achieving your goals. Whether you're struggling to stick to a health regimen, maintain work-life balance, or enhance your relationships, Brig's discussion on Bright Lines offers a no-nonsense approach to setting firm boundaries. She gets real about the struggles we face when we don't set clear boundaries for ourselves. From decision fatigue to indecision, Brig doesn't shy away from discussing the obstacles that keep us from sticking to our commitments. If you're ready to stop the endless renegotiation with yourself and start living with increased confidence, better stress management, and a clear path to your goals, then tune in, take notes, and embark on a journey to becoming truly unfu*kwithable. RESOURCES — Join my Newsletter, Unlearn and Unleash Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here Register for the Next Melanin Hour here Book a Breakthrough Call here Share Your Takeaways With Me at [email protected] LET’S GET SOCIAL — Website - http://brigjohnson.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/johnsonbrig/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachwithbrig

May 20, 202437 min

EP. 179 Stop Overcommitting! Learn to Say "No" at Work

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Are you caught in the endless cycle of overcommitting at work? Get ready to dive deep into the pitfalls of being a "yes machine" at work and how it can sabotage not only your success but also your well-being. In this episode, Brig challenges the notion that saying yes is the only path to success, and instead, Brig explores the stereotypes and expectations that trap black women in a cycle of overcommitment. She helps you identify the problem and offers a solution with her opt-out blueprint, sharing practical strategies for saying no with confidence, articulating your workload, and aligning tasks with your core values. But she doesn't stop there. She also digs into the root causes that make saying no so challenging, offering introspective questions to help you understand and overcome your internal barriers. If you're ready to leave the office on time, enjoy your personal life, and show up as your best self in all areas, this episode is for you. Share this episode with a fellow corporate baddie then press play to get started with taking the first step towards a more unfuckwithable you! RESOURCES — Join my Newsletter, Unlearn and Unleash Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here Register for the Next Melanin Hour here Book a Breakthrough Call here Share Your Takeaways With Me at [email protected] LET’S GET SOCIAL — Website - http://brigjohnson.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/johnsonbrig/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachwithbrig

May 13, 202422 min

EP. 178 Why You Need To Do This Now To Survive A Health Crisis!

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Have you ever thought about your health as a bank account? In this episode, you’ll learn why your health is a form of wealth that requires careful investment and saving. Join in as Brig introduces the life-changing concept of a Health Emergency Fund – a strategic reserve of health and resilience to draw from when faced with life's inevitable health crises. As we navigate the complexities of our lives, stress often sneaks up on us, masquerading as a swan that's serene above the surface but paddling furiously below. Tune in as Brig discusses not just the emotional or financial stressors, but the physical ones that accumulate and sometimes catch us off guard with a health crisis. Whether it's an unexpected diagnosis, an accident, or the strain of becoming a caregiver, having a health emergency fund is about preparing your body to withstand the shock. Press play as Brig guides us on where to start with building your health reserve and understanding how to not only improve our current health but also fortify ourselves for future challenges. And join in next week for all the details on specific strategies and tools that can empower your journey to robust health. RESOURCES — Join my Newsletter, Unlearn and Unleash Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here Register for the Next Melanin Hour here Book a Breakthrough Call here Share Your Takeaways With Me at [email protected] LET’S GET SOCIAL — Website - http://brigjohnson.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/johnsonbrig/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachwithbrig

May 6, 202423 min

EP. 177 Struggling with Loneliness? Find Out How 8 Minutes Can Help

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As high achieving black women, we're no strangers to stress, and it's vital we're prepared for those inevitable moments when we're at our wit's end. In this episode Brig dives into a pressing issue that's often whispered about but rarely confronted head-on: the loneliness epidemic. Despite the bustling world around us, loneliness doesn't discriminate, affecting us in our homes, communities, and especially in workplaces where we often stand alone. This episode is all about building bridges during these times, armed with just a simple, transformative question: "You got eight minutes?" Tune in to discover the "Eight-Minute Catch Up", a powerful tool inspired by thought leader Simon Sinek, and learn how this strategy can create a lifeline in times of need without feeling burdensome. Share this episode with your network and start the movement. Implement the "Eight-Minute Catch Up"strategy and send Brig a DM letting her know how it goes - your stories of success and support are what drive this community forward. Together, we can combat loneliness and stress, paving the way for healthier, happier lives. MENTIONED — Simon Sinek's, Building Better Bonds Through The "Eight-Minute Catch Up" RESOURCES — Join my Newsletter, Unlearn and Unleash Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here Register for the Next Melanin Hour here Book a Breakthrough Call here Share Your Takeaways With Me at [email protected] LET’S GET SOCIAL — Website - http://brigjohnson.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/johnsonbrig/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachwithbrig

Apr 29, 202427 min

EP. 176 How to Stop Shutting Down When The Stakes Are High: Navigating Stress to Reach Your Full Potential

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In this episode Brig is diving deep into the ways stress acts as an invisible barrier for high-achieving black women, blocking our path to success and leaving us exerting effort without the payoff. Tune in to learn the difference between stress and stressors, understand why our baseline stress levels are higher, and why that makes us more susceptible to feeling overwhelmed by our big dreams and goals. Discover why attempts to control our environment may actually increase stress and how to navigate the three C's of the nervous system: collapse, conflict, and coherence. Stress isn't merely a personal inconvenience; it's a systemic issue rooted in societal roles, expectations, and the unique pressures faced by black women. Brig is here to shatter the illusion that stress is something we just have to deal with and instead, offers a revolutionary way to manage, master, and even harness it as a tool for growth. MENTIONED — EP. 171 From Stuck to Stellar: How to Leveraging Your Nervous System for Breakthrough Success RESOURCES — Join my Newsletter, Unlearn and Unleash Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here Register for the Next Melanin Hour here Book a Breakthrough Call here Share Your Takeaways With Me at [email protected] LET’S GET SOCIAL — Website - http://brigjohnson.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/johnsonbrig/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachwithbrig

Apr 22, 202427 min

EP. 175 Women Winning Series with Kirsten Roldan - Mastering Remote Work: Productivity and Presence from Afar

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As we kick off our Women Winning series, I am joined by Kirsten Roldan, the million-dollar email and systems coach for coaches. Join in as Kirsten shares her transformation journey, scaling her business to new heights while maintaining a work-life balance that many dream of. She also dismantles the myth of the never-ending to-do list, teaches us the importance of environment and routine for our nervous system, and shares her non-negotiable rule of not trying to get ahead - a principle that fosters peace and efficiency. Whether you're a coach, a corporate professional, or an entrepreneur, this episode is a revelation. Discover how to navigate the remote work landscape, create systems tailored for women of color, and harness the power of productivity without the chains of a traditional office setting. Kirsten's journey is not just about the success she's achieved; it's about the mindset shifts, the nervous system regulation, and the actionable strategies that have allowed her to build an empire from the comfort of her home. Grab your tea, settle in, and let us guide you through the strategies, struggles, and success stories that connect personal growth with professional triumph. Topics include: Kirsten’s journey to becoming a systems and productivity expert Why having a routine is important when you're working from home Challenges women of color face in remote work settings Actionable steps to enhance productivity while working remotely Regulating your nervous system with remote work GUEST CONTACT — Kirsten Roldan, Million Dollar Operations + Email Expert | Website | Instagram | Million Dollar Peace Podcast | Million Dollar Inbox Agency MENTIONED — EP. 141 Increasing Capacity With Kirsten Roldan RESOURCES — Join my Newsletter, Unlearn and Unleash Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here Register for the Next Melanin Hour here Book a Breakthrough Call here Share Your Takeaways With Me at [email protected] LET’S GET SOCIAL — Website - http://brigjohnson.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/johnsonbrig/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachwithbrig

Apr 15, 20241h 6m

EP. 174 Stop Beating Yourself Up: Find Freedom with Self-Compassion- My journey to Gentleness

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As black women, we're often our own harshest critics, and it's time to break that cycle. Join me as I introduce you to a powerful framework that will guide you on how to incorporate self-compassion into your life, challenging you to recognize when you're not being kind to yourself and teaching you how to change that pattern. Discover why self-compassion is not just about feeling better but about establishing a foundation of self-respect that will fuel better decision-making, enhance relationships, and lead to more authentic life experiences. We'll explore the neurobiology of safety and how self-compassion can activate calming systems in your body, reduce stress responses, and enhance emotional regulation. Emotional resilience is the key to unlocking your full potential. Tune in to learn why and let's ​embark ​on ​this ​journey ​together ​and ​explore ​how ​self ​compassion ​can ​unlock ​new ​levels ​of ​personal ​growth ​and ​well ​being. RESOURCES — Join my Newsletter, Unlearn and Unleash Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here Register for the Next Melanin Hour here Book a Breakthrough Call here Share Your Takeaways With Me at [email protected] LET’S GET SOCIAL — Website - http://brigjohnson.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/johnsonbrig/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachwithbrig

Apr 8, 202443 min

EP. 173 The Maybe Trap: Confronting the Urge to Quit on Your Big Dreams

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Are you stuck in the "maybe" mindset, teetering on the edge of your dreams but never fully committing? In this eye-opening episode, we're tackling this subtle but deadly trap of "maybe" – the one word that slowly drains life out of our dreams and goals. As black women, we often find ourselves wrestling with the idea of quitting our goals, not realizing that we're caught in a cycle of indecision fueled by cultural expectations and internalized beliefs. I'll guide you through the origins of this pattern, exploring whether it's fear of failure, success, or an ingrained sense of obligation that's holding you back. We'll dive into the concept of self-determination and how years of marginalization have chipped away at our ability to trust ourselves and make empowered choices. This isn't about shaming or changing your thoughts; it's about recognizing the mental exhaustion of indecision and how it saps the energy that could be used for productive work. Get ready to confront the "maybe" mindset head-on, and embrace the freedom of self-permission to pursue your goals relentlessly. And stay tuned until the end for an exciting announcement! MENTIONED — EP. 31 Stop Having One Sided Conversations with Your Brain EP. 37 Worry Window RESOURCES — Join my Newsletter, Unlearn and Unleash Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here Register for the Next Melanin Hour here Book a Breakthrough Call here Share Your Takeaways With Me at [email protected] LET’S GET SOCIAL — Website - http://brigjohnson.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/johnsonbrig/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachwithbrig

Apr 1, 202433 min

EP. 172 The Safety Illusion: Why We Crave Those Who Don’t Choose Us

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Have you ever found yourself questioning why you choose partners who don't choose you? If you're nodding along, this episode might just have the answers you've been seeking. With a blend of neuroscience and compassionate coaching, we decode the collapse state of the nervous system and its impact on our relationship dynamics, especially as women of color. This episode isn't just about identifying patterns; it's about shifting them with grace and intention. As your guide, I'll walk you through the curiosity loops that lead to profound self-awareness and the steps to break free from the cycle of seeking external validation. Listen, you are not alone in this. You're a queen, and it's time to claim your throne. Share this journey with a friend in need of a breakthrough, and together, let's rewrite the narrative of our lives. RESOURCES — Join my Newsletter, Unlearn and Unleash Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here Register for the Next Melanin Hour here Book a Breakthrough Call here Share Your Takeaways With Me at [email protected] LET’S GET SOCIAL — Website - http://brigjohnson.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/johnsonbrig/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachwithbrig

Mar 25, 202434 min

EP. 171 From Stuck to Stellar: How to Leveraging Your Nervous System for Breakthrough Success

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Prepare to unlock the mysteries of your nervous system and journey from feeling stuck to absolutely stellar! We're diving into the power of leveraging your nervous system for breakthrough success. With over two decades of experience as a nurse anesthesiologist, I've honed the art of regulating the nervous system under the most stressful conditions. Now, I'm bringing that expertise to you. We'll explore the three C's of nervous system states—Collapse, Conflict, and Coherence—and how understanding and mastering these states can be your superpower in overcoming life's hurdles. Discover how to transition from a state of numbness and disconnection to one of focused action and empowerment. Learn to identify when you're in a state of collapse, and why creating safety is your first step toward transformation. This episode isn't just about coping with stress; it's about rewiring your response to it. We'll discuss practical strategies to reduce baseline stressors and increase your capacity to handle life's pressures, aligning your ambitions with your ability to thrive. I'll also introduce you to the Daily Diagnostic, a simple yet powerful tool to help you monitor your patterns and focus your energy where it matters most. So, if you're ready to transform your goals from distant dreams to your lived reality, this episode is a must-listen. Tune in and share this episode with anyone who's ready to navigate life with more grace and intention. RESOURCES — Join my Newsletter, Unlearn and Unleash Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here Register for the Next Melanin Hour here Book a Breakthrough Call here Share Your Takeaways With Me at [email protected] LET’S GET SOCIAL — Website - http://brigjohnson.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/johnsonbrig/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachwithbrig

Mar 18, 202442 min

​​EP. 170 Hustling To Heal? There's A Penalty: Introducing The S.L.O.W. Principle For Mindful Healing

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We're nearing a podcast milestone, and I've got a special request for you, my loyal listeners. As we approach the 200th episode, I'm thinking of featuring a panel of you – yes, YOU – to share your favorite moments and what keeps you tuning in. If that piques your interest, drop me a line at [email protected] or [email protected]. But for now, let's delve into the essence of today's conversation: the rush to heal and why we need to slow it down. As high-achieving black women, we're often caught in the whirlwind of societal expectations to be strong and healed on a strict timeline. But in this episode, I'm challenging that narrative with the S.L.O.W principle for mindful healing, sharing the four problems with rushing your healing, how it can be more detrimental than beneficial and the importance of embracing every part of yourself, understanding that you are not broken and do not need fixing. So, if you're ready to change the narrative and embrace a more compassionate approach to your healing journey, this episode is a must-listen. Tune in to understand why slowing down can be your greatest strength, and how the slow principle can guide you through life's beautiful journey. RESOURCES — Join my Newsletter, Unlearn and Unleash Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here Register for the Next Melanin Hour here Book a Breakthrough Call here Share Your Takeaways With Me at [email protected] LET’S GET SOCIAL — Website - http://brigjohnson.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/johnsonbrig/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachwithbrig

Mar 11, 202431 min

EP. 169 Beyond The Pain: Co-Parenting With An Ex-Partner Who Hurt You

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Buckle up for a raw and honest discussion in this episode, where we address the challenges of co-parenting. With 70% of us black women being single and many also navigating single parenthood, this conversation is not only necessary but long overdue. In this episode, we’ll explore the power of setting clear boundaries, finding healthy outlets for frustration, and actively engaging in the healing process. And trust me, healing isn't just a byproduct of time; it's an active journey we embark on. So, if you're in the mud of co-parenting with someone who once broke you, you're not alone. Tune in as we unpack the journey, find common ground, and seek joy and justice in every step. Feel free to share this episode with those who may benefit from it, and subscribe for more genuine discussions about navigating life's toughest challenges. Together, we'll find our way to firmer ground. RESOURCES — Join my Newsletter, Unlearn and Unleash Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here Register for the Next Melanin Hour here Book a Breakthrough Call here Share Your Takeaways With Me at [email protected] LET’S GET SOCIAL — Website - http://brigjohnson.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/johnsonbrig/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachwithbrig

Mar 4, 202434 min

EP. 168 Are You Spending Time Reacting To Or Solving Your Problems?: Embracing The Core Solutions Framework

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Today we're diving deep into the core solutions framework. I crafted this framework because, let's be real, how often do we find ourselves reacting to problems instead of solving them? As high-achieving black women, we've been conditioned to believe that every problem is our fault, and we're expected to dot every I and cross every T. But what if having a problem isn't the problem at all? In this episode, we unpack the natural tendency to react, explore the historical beliefs and societal pressures that shape our behavior, and introduce the revolutionary Core Solutions Framework – a three-step process to shift from reaction to solution. Join me as we break free from the blame game, foster a growth mindset, and transform the way we navigate challenges. Let's spend less time reacting and more time solving, because that, Queens, is our path to epic living. RESOURCES — Join my Newsletter, Unlearn and Unleash Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here Register for the Next Melanin Hour here Book a Breakthrough Call here Share Your Takeaways With Me at [email protected] LET’S GET SOCIAL — Website - http://brigjohnson.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/johnsonbrig/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachwithbrig

Feb 26, 202439 min

EP. 167 How To Make Goal Achieving Ez!

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I'm coming to you straight from my post-run endorphin high, feeling inspired and ready to share some powerful insights. As I hit the milestone of turning 60 this year, I embarked on the challenge of running the Brooklyn half marathon, a symbolic journey back to my birthplace. While reflecting on my run with the Nike Run coach app, I delved into the real challenge – not just setting goals, but daily recommitment. Join me in this episode as I explore the internal dialogue during goal pursuit, emphasizing the importance of process-oriented thinking and celebrating every step of the journey. Trust me; celebrating small wins is the secret to staying on the right path. So, lace up your metaphorical running shoes, let's embrace the process, recommit daily, and celebrate every victory, no matter how small. RESOURCES — Join my Newsletter, Unlearn and Unleash Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here Register for the Next Melanin Hour here Book a Breakthrough Call here Share Your Takeaways With Me at [email protected] LET’S GET SOCIAL — Website - http://brigjohnson.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/johnsonbrig/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachwithbrig

Feb 19, 202417 min

EP. 166 Winning Don't Owe You Shyt!: How To PERSIST ANYWAY!

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Today's podcast episode is a game-changer. I stumbled upon a powerful message from Coach Schuman, the strength and conditioning coach at Georgia Tech, and had to share it with you. Winning, he says, doesn't owe you a thing. No matter how hard you work, how little you sleep, or how unfair it may seem, winning operates on its own terms. But here's the kicker: our journey, especially as marginalized individuals, is often hindered by the mental game that winning plays. I agree that winning doesn't owe you a thing, but staying in the game is where the magic happens. As your life coach, my mission is to keep you in the game emotionally, physically, spiritually, and mentally. In this episode, I dig deep into the concept of active persistence versus inactive persistence– engaged and experimenting, or just going through the motions. Join me in this raw and honest conversation about shaking off the distractions, questioning the narrative in our minds, and embracing the active persistence that leads to real transformation. Stay unstoppable, queens! MENTIONED — Georgia Tech’s Strength Coach Clip on Winning https://youtube.com/shorts/ExAkkAbwLHY?si=Sp5j4jC88PSEcQ5p RESOURCES — Join my Newsletter, Unlearn and Unleash Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here Register for the Next Melanin Hour here Book a Breakthrough Call here Share Your Takeaways With Me at [email protected] LET’S GET SOCIAL — Website - http://brigjohnson.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/johnsonbrig/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachwithbrig

Feb 12, 202432 min

EP. 165 An interview with Ashley Jargon: My Journey to Empowering Marginalized Voices

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In this episode, I am being interviewed by Ashley Jangro, life and marketing coach. Tune in as we explore my journey of overcoming challenges and building a thriving coaching business through connection, safety, and belonging. The episode offers a roadmap for high-achieving black women, focusing on personal growth, community and addressing internal obstacles for success. Topics include: My journey to becoming a life coach Overcoming discomfort Embracing purpose and making a difference The importance of facing internal struggles, breaking patterns, and solving for safety to achieve success Fostering belonging and taking bold risks GUEST CONTACT — Ashley Jangro, Certified Life Coach YouTube: Ashley Jangro Coaching Website: https://AshleyJangro.com Instagram: instagram.com/ashleyjangro Facebook: facebook.com/AshleyJangro RESOURCES — Join my Newsletter, Unlearn and Unleash Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here Register for the Next Melanin Hour here Book a Breakthrough Call here Share Your Takeaways With Me at [email protected] LET’S GET SOCIAL — Website - http://brigjohnson.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/johnsonbrig/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachwithbrig

Feb 5, 20241h 6m

EP. 164 How To Guarantee That This Year Is Better Than Last

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In this episode, I delve into the impact of recency bias on high-achieving black women in leadership positions. Navigating the delicate balance of success and the desire for more, I share my personal experiences to highlight the unique struggles faced by this demographic. Throughout our discussion, I emphasize the importance of stepping out of comfort zones and reveal a little-known fact to help overcome fears and stagnation. I encourage you to recognize recency bias in your life, offering strategies and actionable tips for building successful habits and leaving room for self-compassion. My hope is to inspire you to reprogram your brain for success and embrace a future filled with growth, fulfillment, and limitless possibilities. RESOURCES — Join my Newsletter, Unlearn and Unleash Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here Register for the Next Melanin Hour here Book a Breakthrough Call here Share Your Takeaways With Me at [email protected] LET’S GET SOCIAL — Website - http://brigjohnson.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/johnsonbrig/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachwithbrig

Jan 29, 202443 min

EP. 163 They Don't Teach Us This In Biz School And They Should

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Join me on a captivating journey as I recount a pivotal moment from the year 2000. At the age of 36, I found myself facing a chaotic situation that posed a threat to my career in anesthesia. I’ll explore the intricate workings of the brain's response to threats, shedding light on why safety takes precedence over success and delve into the science behind our brains, the societal pressures we confront, and the empowering impact of prioritizing safety on the path to the success we rightfully deserve. I'll also take you through my solution – the Black Woman's Safety Audit and Checklist – a simple yet powerful tool designed to address the safety challenges that impede progress. Tune in to discover with me the key to overcoming self-sabotage and unlocking our true potential. MENTIONED — Learn more about the Black Woman's Safety Audit and Checklist RESOURCES — Join my Newsletter, Unlearn and Unleash Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here Register for the Next Melanin Hour here Book a Breakthrough Call here Share Your Takeaways With Me at [email protected] LET’S GET SOCIAL — Website - http://brigjohnson.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/johnsonbrig/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachwithbrig

Jan 22, 202427 min

EP. 162 Half In Vs. All In: How To Get Yourself To Be All In!

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I thoroughly enjoyed last week's episode, delving into the dynamics of being "all in" versus "all consumed" and exploring the reasons behind our hesitation to fully commit. Upon reflection, I've identified another aspect to this discussion – the contrast between being "half in" and "all in." Have you ever found yourself only partially committed to your goals, merely going through the motions without genuine engagement? Today's episode delves into the nuances between these states, unraveling the reasons for getting stuck in the half-in zone. We'll examine various factors, ranging from a lack of clarity to issues with expectancy, and even the differentiation between intrinsic and extrinsic motivation. Join me as we analyze the mindset shifts and actionable steps required to transition from being half in to truly embracing an all-in mentality. Don't miss this in-depth exploration with actional able steps of what it genuinely means to be all in and pursue your goals with passion and purpose. Let's dive in! MENTIONED — EP. 161 All-In Vs. All Consumed: The Difference Is Costly RESOURCES — Join my Newsletter, Unlearn and Unleash Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here Register for the Next Melanin Hour here Book a Breakthrough Call here Share Your Takeaways With Me at [email protected] LET’S GET SOCIAL — Website - http://brigjohnson.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/johnsonbrig/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachwithbrig

Jan 15, 202439 min

​​EP. 161 All-In Vs. All Consumed: The Difference Is Costly

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Welcome back to the podcast, and Happy New Year to each of you! It is a new month and a new year and we’ve got big goals yet there may have been some goals that you didn't write down because you're afraid that you're not going to be all in. If that's you, I want to talk about this. I want to help you understand the difference between being "all in" and being "all consumed". Many of us confuse “all in” with “all consumed” and when it comes to your goals, I don't want you being “all consumed”, but I do want you being “all in”. So tune in as I explore this distinction. Whether you're navigating a career change or striving for personal growth, this episode offers valuable perspectives that you can implement in pursuit of your dreams. MENTIONED — EP. 37 Worry Window RESOURCES — Join my Newsletter, Unlearn and Unleash Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here Register for the Next Melanin Hour here Book a Breakthrough Call here Share Your Takeaways With Me at [email protected] LET’S GET SOCIAL — Website - http://brigjohnson.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/johnsonbrig/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachwithbrig

Jan 8, 202457 min

EP. 160 Throwback Most Downloaded Episode For 2023: Value Of Coaching With Shiro Bergbauer Listen In To Find Out Why...

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In this episode of the Breakthrough with Brig Podcast, I'm chatting with Shiro Bergbauer, one of my coaching clients in both private and group sessions. Shiro wears many hats - she's a wife, mom, certified registered nurse anesthetist, and a Life Coach. As a Life Coach, her mission is to guide women in overcoming overwhelm and mom guilt, establishing healthier boundaries, and fostering thriving relationships. Join us as we dive into the world of coaching, exploring the practical tools within Deeply Rooted that Shiro used to elevate her relationship with herself. Discover how these tools empowered her to focus on creating her own epic journey. I am also sharing some exciting news about how I've burned down my coaching business and am gearing up for an epic 2024. Big changes are coming, so get ready for major breakthroughs. Merry Christmas! GUEST INFO— Shiro Bergbauer, Mindset and Life Coach For Moms Website - https://www.stethoscopestoswaddles.com/ Instagram - @stethoscopes.to.swaddles Podcast - Stethoscopes To Swaddles RESOURCES — Join my Newsletter, Unlearn and Unleash Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here Register for the Next Melanin Hour here Book a Breakthrough Call here Share Your Takeaways With Me at [email protected] LET’S GET SOCIAL — Website - http://brigjohnson.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/johnsonbrig/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachwithbrig

Dec 25, 20231h 21m

EP. 159 The Top 5 For 59 Years Of Living - Key Lessons From Each Decade

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Guess what? It's my birthday episode! Join me as I celebrate another trip around the sun, reflecting on the top five lessons from each decade of my life. As we approach a new year, share your thoughts on how this podcast has served you. Drop me a message at [email protected] and suggest ideas for future episodes. And one-on-one slots for deeper work are open – book a Breakthrough Call here. RESOURCES — Join my Newsletter, Unlearn and Unleash Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here Register for the Next Melanin Hour here Book a Breakthrough Call here Share Your Takeaways With Me at [email protected] LET’S GET SOCIAL — Website - http://brigjohnson.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/johnsonbrig/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachwithbrig

Dec 18, 202334 min

EP. 158 Not Happy With Your Progress In 2023: This Episode Was Made Specifically For You! ~ Invisibile Growth!

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In today's episode, we're diving deep into the end-of-year reflection game. As we approach the close of another year, it's easy to get caught up in measuring our progress with the usual suspects – money, title, position, and numbers. But what if there's more to growth than that? Listen in as I share some powerful questions and alternative measurements to guide your reflection, from personal growth to relationships and tangible achievements. Trust me; this isn't your typical year-in-review spiel. It's about recognizing the badass that you are, embracing the journey, and setting yourself up for an epic 2024. If you're feeling inadequate, if you're feeling hopeless, like you should just give up on my goals, this episode is for you. So, let me know what you think, drop your feedback at [email protected], and hey, if you're up for some deeper work, one-on-one slots are open and don't forget to check out my bi-monthly newsletter, "Unlearn and Unleash". MENTIONED — EP. 03 Playing Fetch RESOURCES — Join my Newsletter, Unlearn and Unleash Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here Register for the Next Melanin Hour here Book a Breakthrough Call here Share Your Takeaways With Me at [email protected] LET’S GET SOCIAL — Website - http://brigjohnson.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/johnsonbrig/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachwithbrig

Dec 11, 202333 min

EP. 157 She Looked Goodt On The Outside, BUT…How Did Dr. Kimmy Use Coaching To Create A Life Of Purpose

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In this episode, Dr. Kimmy, one of my remarkable clients, shares her life before and after coaching. We explore her coaching journey, the role of safety for black women in success, bouncing back from failures, and a profound insight from Dr. Kimmy: our brains prioritize safety over success. Dr. Kimmy is the CEO and founder of The Doctor Coach School™ which specializes in helping women doctors of color make their first $100k in their coaching business. Dr. Kimmy was a double Board-Certified Pediatric Hospitalist working full-time when she started her coaching business. And in just 2 years, she was able to raise her prices and hit 6-figures in 6 months. Dr. Kimmy is now on track to make $1M in her business. Listen in as we discuss: Understanding oneself, embracing vulnerability, and cultivating compassion Recognizing and addressing internal blocks for a powerful shift Bouncing back from setbacks and building mental fortitude The impact of childhood trauma on scaling and the importance of intentional relationships Applying coaching principles to enhance life The freedom and purpose coaching provides Ready to experience your own transformation, reach out for One-On-One Coaching. Book a Breakthrough Call here. Talk soon! GUEST INFO — Dr. Kimmy, CEO and founder of The Doctor Coach School™| Website | Instagram | Podcast RESOURCES — Join the Deeply Rooted Group Coaching Waitlist here Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here Register for the Next Melanin Hour here Register for the Newsletter here Book a Breakthrough Call here Share Your Takeaways With Me at [email protected] LET’S GET SOCIAL — Website - http://brigjohnson.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/johnsonbrig/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachwithbrig

Dec 4, 20231h 4m

EP. 156 The Value of Coaching With Marlene McNally

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Join me in this eye-opening episode featuring Life and Mindset Coach, Marlene McNally, as we dive deep into breaking societal norms for Black women. Marlene shares her journey of self-discovery, challenging the expectations of perfection and embracing vulnerability. We explore the transformative power of community and the necessity of seeking support, debunking the myth of the "magical black woman." Marlene advocates for expanding our capacity by decluttering our minds, shedding light on the importance of interconnectedness, and supporting Black businesses. As we discuss the conditioning that inhibits self-love, Marlene leaves us with a powerful question: "If you are truly being loving to yourself, would you get support?" This episode is a profound exploration of empowerment, community, and the uncharted strength within the Black woman's experience. Listen in as we discuss: why we sometimes resist investing in ourselves when we readily invest in our homes, families, and children realizing the importance of self-investment and shedding the myth that supporting ourselves is somehow selfish the layers of masks we wear as black women the transformative power of vulnerability the value of recognizing shared conditioning within a community and more! And if you need support with this work, reach out for One-On-One Coaching. Book a Breakthrough Call here. Talk soon! GUEST INFO — Website: Marlene McNally | Instagram: @McNallyMarlene RESOURCES — Join the Deeply Rooted Group Coaching Waitlist here Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here Register for the Next Melanin Hour here Register for the Newsletter here Book a Breakthrough Call here Share Your Takeaways With Me at [email protected] LET’S GET SOCIAL — Website - http://brigjohnson.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/johnsonbrig/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachwithbrig

Nov 27, 20231h 2m

EP. 155 How I’m Breaking Through My RUT

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Last week, I spilled the tea about being knee-deep in a rut, and today, I'm sharing how I'm clawing my way out. I've cooked up a secret sauce, a formula that's turning my rut into a runway for success. It's not about forcing change but about rewriting the script in your brain, breaking those old habits, and stepping into a life of fulfillment and triumph. This episode is your backstage pass to transforming your life, one mindset shift at a time. Hit play and let the journey begin. If you're ready to take the leap, book your Breakthrough Call here. Talk soon! MENTIONED — EP. 154 How To Know When You're In A RUT! RESOURCES — Join the Deeply Rooted Group Coaching Waitlist here Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here Register for the Next Melanin Hour here Register for the Newsletter here Book a Breakthrough Call here Share Your Takeaways With Me at [email protected] LET’S GET SOCIAL — Website - http://brigjohnson.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/johnsonbrig/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachwithbrig

Nov 20, 202330 min

EP. 154 How To Know When You’re In A RUT!

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In this episode, we explore ruts as essential components of our lives, representing those phases when life seems uninspired and monotonous. Ruts are a part of life, and finding ourselves in them is normal. However, they can impact our sense of purpose and vitality. The pandemic, for example, drastically altered our routines, possibly leading to prolonged ruts. Inspired by Mary J. Blige's song "Good Morning, Gorgeous," we explore the emotional struggle described in the lyrics, feeling stuck, second-guessing, and battling inner demons. It's a journey of trying to protect one's peace in the face of relentless challenges. Listen in as I share how we can identify these ruts and work our way out. Join me in unpacking these societal patterns and reclaiming our power in relationships and life. And if you need support with this work, reach out for One-On-One Coaching. Book a Breakthrough Call here. Talk soon! MENTIONED — Good Morning Gorgeous, song by Mary J. Blige EP. 149 Honoring Our Grieve Within Our GROWTH RESOURCES — Join the Deeply Rooted Group Coaching Waitlist here Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here Register for the Next Melanin Hour here Register for the Newsletter here Book a Breakthrough Call here Share Your Takeaways With Me at [email protected] LET’S GET SOCIAL — Website - http://brigjohnson.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/johnsonbrig/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachwithbrig

Nov 14, 202347 min

EP. 153 When They Moved On And You Haven’t

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Past traumas or events - such as a devastating breakup, have created memories - conscious and subconscious, which have imprinted themselves in our brain, body, and nervous system. That’s why it can feel impossible to move on from because they all feel like an innate part of us. Whether in relationships or work, one of the things that we tend to do is fixate on the notion that "they've moved on." This can be paralyzing. Listen in as I invite you to question society's deeply ingrained tendency to place blame, particularly when it comes to the end of relationships. Through real-life examples and coaching experiences, I illustrate how this fixation can hinder personal growth and earning potential. We uncover the root of the issue, our self-narration, and how we can break free by accepting our current state, offering ourselves grace, and reframing our perspective to avoid labeling others as villains or victims. Join me in unpacking these societal patterns and reclaiming our power in relationships and life. And if you need support with this work, reach out for One-On-One Coaching. Book a Breakthrough Call here. Talk soon! MENTIONED — EP. 25 Wrestling With a Thought RESOURCES — Join the Deeply Rooted Group Coaching Waitlist here Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here Register for the Next Melanin Hour here Register for the Newsletter here Book a Breakthrough Call here Share Your Takeaways With Me at [email protected] LET’S GET SOCIAL — Website - http://brigjohnson.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/johnsonbrig/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachwithbrig

Nov 6, 202345 min

EP. 152 Are You Struggling To Make A Decision?: Here’s How We Get In Our Own Way- A Behind The Scenes Peak Into The Melanin Coaching Hour

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In this episode, I dive deep into the factors that often hold us back from making decisions and taking action, especially as women of color. We explore the three critical elements: belief, authority, and impact, that can paralyze us with indecision. I challenge the notion that you need to believe in something to take action and explain how it's okay not to believe right away. I emphasize the importance of reclaiming our authority and giving ourselves permission to believe in our dreams and goals, no matter how audacious they may seem. Finally, we confront the fear of impact and the burden of representation, encouraging you to choose yourself and love yourself no matter the outcome. By addressing these three elements, we can overcome indecision, embrace failure, and move closer to our goals, making more informed and impactful decisions. Tune in to gain insights that can help you overcome indecision and take control of your life. And if you need support with this work, reach out for One-On-One Coaching. Book a Breakthrough Call here. Talk soon! RESOURCES — Join the Deeply Rooted Group Coaching Waitlist here Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here Register for the Next Melanin Hour here Register for the Newsletter here Book a Breakthrough Call here Share Your Takeaways With Me at [email protected] LET’S GET SOCIAL — Website - http://brigjohnson.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/johnsonbrig/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachwithbrig

Oct 30, 202315 min

EP. 151 Navigating Changing Or Difficult Relationships: A Conversation With One Of My Besties

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In this episode, I sit down with my dear friend Angela West to explore the intricacies of human relationships and the art of supporting our loved ones on their individual life journeys. We discuss the significance of allowing our friends and family to navigate their processes at their own pace, emphasizing the importance of trust, boundaries, and the profound act of holding space. We also delve into the idea of respecting our loved ones' unique processes, rather than expecting them to change according to our desires. The episode concludes with a thought-provoking quote that challenges our perceptions and sheds light on the role of childhood experiences in shaping our expectations within relationships. It's a journey of self-discovery, empathy, and learning to embrace and support our loved ones for who they are.If you've been contemplating your own journey of self-discovery and transformation, remember that there's no better time to start than now. Don't wait for the perfect moment; take the courageous step towards a better version of yourself. Join us on this incredible journey of self-growth and empowerment. Reach out for One-On-One Coaching for more details. Book a Breakthrough Call here. Talk soon! GUEST INFO — Angela West, Fashion Stylist | Instagram: @fabraquel MENTIONED — EP. 03 Playing Fetch RESOURCES — Join the Deeply Rooted Group Coaching Waitlist here Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here Register for the Next Melanin Hour here Register for the Newsletter here Book a Breakthrough Call here Share Your Takeaways With Me at [email protected] LET’S GET SOCIAL — Website - http://brigjohnson.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/johnsonbrig/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachwithbrig

Oct 23, 20231h 12m

EP. 150 ”Give Yourself Time, Queen’: The Power Of Patience In Process

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In this episode, we explore the profound concept of self-compassion. We'll discuss the art of being kind to ourselves, acknowledging our flaws, and embracing our imperfections. Throughout the episode, I share personal anecdotes and offer practical tips on how to nurture self-compassion in our everyday lives. Join me on this journey of self-discovery as we learn how extending the same kindness to ourselves that we often give to others can lead to greater happiness and fulfillment. Reach out to me with your thoughts, feedback. And if you want support with this work, book a Breakthrough Call here. Talk soon! MENTIONED — EP. 31 Stop Having One Sided Conversations with Your Brain RESOURCES — Join the Deeply Rooted Group Coaching Waitlist here Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here Register for the Next Melanin Hour here Register for the Newsletter here Book a Breakthrough Call here Share Your Takeaways With Me at [email protected] LET’S GET SOCIAL — Website - http://brigjohnson.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/johnsonbrig/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachwithbrig

Oct 16, 202327 min

EP. 149 Honoring Our Grieve Within Our GROWTH

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In this episode, we're taking a deep look into a topic we often shy away from—grief. You know, sometimes our need is simply to grieve, and that's perfectly okay. We'll explore the different facets of grief, from understanding involuntary grief, like unexpected losses, to embracing voluntary grief, where we choose to make changes but still feel the loss. I'll also touch on the importance of recognizing and honoring our need to grieve, no matter the circumstances. Whether it's feeling lost in your own success story, outgrowing certain relationships, or questioning your decisions, your feelings are valid. Grief is a natural part of the human experience, and we should embrace it. So, join me as we explore the depths of our emotions, recognize our needs, and keep building that breakthrough, brick by brick. Thanks for tuning in! Reach out to me with your thoughts, feedback. And if you want support with this work, book a Breakthrough Call here. Talk soon! RESOURCES — Join the Deeply Rooted Group Coaching Waitlist here Join the Next Breakthrough Master Class here Register for the Next Melanin Hour here Register for the Newsletter here Book a Breakthrough Call here Share Your Takeaways With Me at [email protected] LET’S GET SOCIAL — Website - http://brigjohnson.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/johnsonbrig/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachwithbrig

Oct 9, 202322 min