The Birth Lounge Podcast

Today, Mandy Rempfer-Kuncio joins HeHe to get real about perineum Massage as prep for childbirth. Mandy is sharing her tips for pelvic floor health, incontinence, pelvic organ prolapse, painful sex, and menopausal hormone changes. Mandy has created a program that is focused on perineum massage and she's sharing some pretty scary stats that are behind her drive to change the world of pelvic floor education! Happy Tuesday, yal! Shownotes: Chekc out the blog!

HeHe is diving into what it's like to work with her as your doula. She loves to tell people about birth and educating people so they can take control of their own birth. She talks about why each piece of the puzzle in important when preparing for your birth. She's sharing her secret formula of wedding planner + physical trainer + hiking guide to create the perfect balance to the TBH approach! Shownotes: Check out the Blog!

Description: HeHe is sitting down with Carli Blau, aka The Sex Doc Carli, to talk about all things endometriosis, the impact of mindset on your health, the emotions that arise for so many people plus the perspective that your partner might be experiencing! Carli shares about her own infertility struggles and what it's like to face the highest highs, but also the lowest lows. We are also diving into how sex therapy can be an amazing support and resource for couples or people experiencing infertility. She bring honest truth, hilarity, and an edgy energy to an otherwise heavy topic! Happy Tuesday, yal! Huge congrats to Carli and her husband on their newly announced pregnancy! Ps. She was pregnant when we recorded and I had to hang on to that big secret! So excited for you, friend! Shownotes: Blog: honestlynaked.com Website: carliblau.com Instagram: @sexdoccarli Email: [email protected]

WARNING: Talk about traumatic birth In this episode, HeHe gets down and dirty with manipulation in the birth world. She sheds light on toxic relationships and the impact they can have on someone's birthing experience. She will also share her favorite resources to help you get honest, evidence-based information and practices, plus she shares stories that she has witnessed of parents facing unacceptable care. Before you walk away, she will tell you the 5 most important things to do to advocate for yourself and stay in control of your birth. Happy friday,yal!

Finding the right style for your ever-changing body can be hard. From trying to conceive to dressing the bump to your postpartum body, fashion can have a profound impact on the way that you feel and take on each day! HeHe is chatting with Helena Grant, founder of HGrant Style, and the creative genius behind the Wardrobe Capsule! She is here to give you all the in's and out's, how-to's, and yummy goodness concerning style for all stages of being a mom! Helena's energy will come bursting through your speakers and light your life up in a way that you didn't know was possible! Shownotes: Check out the blog!

WARNING: Talk of suicide HeHe has been building her Tranquility Tribe and #tbhbirthing since 2016! But, it wasn't always rainbows and butterflies. HeHe has been bullied by a doula right here in the city of Boston--a doula in her own community! That's right, today HeHe is diving into the harassment and online abuse that she has endured and is sharing a glimpse into other stories of doulas being bullied. Through sharing her story, she is raising awareness to an all too common problem, plus helping you prepare to set boundaries and stay in control of the energy surrounding your pregnancy and birth. Join HeHe as she uncovers and shines light on bullying happening the birth world and in her own backyard of Boston! She's sharing her raw thoughts in this one! Shownotes: Check out the blog!

n this episode, HeHe sits down with Danielle Engel, founder of For The Love Of Paws Boston, to discuss how to prepare your fur children for the birth of your baby. It is easily forgotten that a new baby will disrupt your pet's life, too. Danielle tells her tips and tricks for helping your cats and dogs with the transition even before the baby arrives. From setting boundaries to cleaning out cat litter, we chat about it all! See ya there! Happy Tuesday! Shownotes: Check out the blog!

Transition to life with a newborn can be a challenging one! HeHe dives into her role as a postpartum doula to help you ease bringing your newborn home. She is sharing the top 4 things she has learned while supporting new parents with overnight care. From sleep deprivation to life lessons she has learned along the way, HeHe is spilling the beans on what the first few nights at home after having a baby might look like for you!

Having a baby changes your body, this is true. But what doesn't have to be true is having a negative relationship with your body image. Today I am sitting down with Katherine Henry to talk about boudoir photography. I have always loved the idea and thought I would explore the option of boudoir pictures as a well of healing and learning to love your trying to conceive, pregnant, or postpartum body. Katherine tells us all about what to expect from her during a shoot and how to find the confidence to be photographed in your knickers! Shownotes: Check out the blog!

What you wear to your birth should be intentional and I'm here to tell you why! "What should I wear?" is a question I get all the time from expectant parents preparing for their birth experience and I always tell them to give it some thought based on a few factors. I'm giving you all my tips of putting together the perfect birth outfit. I'm also giving you the lowdown on what I wear to births! Believe it or not, my uniform is very intentional. From my head to my toes, I'm dishing the details on the energy that each piece of my birth outfits brings to the experience.

This week, I am diving into the differences between the care options you have during pregnancy. I'm sitting down with a hospital Midwife to chat about why someone might choose midwifery care over traditional OBGYN care when it comes to having a baby. There are also "different kinds" of midwives with varying credentials and backgrounds. If you have wondered about care options or considered midwifery care for your birth, this is a must-listen-to episode for you! Shownotes: Check out the blog!

Whether you remember your first time reclaiming your sex life after a baby as intense, or you've just had a baby and are terrified to try, or you're pregnant and wondering what it will be like, I made this episode for you! It can be intimidating and challenging to begin having sex after having a baby, that's true. In today's episode, I am taking you down the road of what to expect. I even created a freebie for you that has all this for you ready to download! From postpartum bleeding and healing to the hormonal side and how breastfeeding impacts that, we cover it all. Happy Friday and I can't wait to see you there! Shownotes: Download the Sex After Baby freebie!

Today, we are diving into Diastasis Recti. I'm sitting down with Lisa Marie Ryan who is awaiting surgical correction for her severe DR after having her two children and continuing to participate in intense work outs during pregnancy. We are talking all about the causes of her DR as well as what she has learned along the way. We also give away tips of how you can prevent damage and protect your body in pregnancy and postpartum. Lisa Marie also shares her insight on athleticism during pregnancy and why pain (or lack there of) isn't the greatest indicator of healing. If you are a cesarean birth parent thinking this doesn't apply to you, think again! Today's episode is a blast and you will leave with so much new information! See ya there! Shownotes: Check out the blog!

Description: Is lightening crotch ruining your life? Are you wondering why you have random shooting pain down your leg? Let me tell ya! That's your body getting ready to have a baby! I'm diving into what SPD is and what it happens during pregnancy? I'll also tell you how likely it is to continue into postpartum and what you can do to support your body. I'm here to help you alleviate your PS pain! Grab your freebie below for exercises that can help! ​ Shownotes: Download Attached Check out the blog!

Today, Lisa Malmgren, the founder of Classified Image Consultant, is here to tell us all about finding yourself again after having a baby…with fashion! We talk routines, easy wardrobe changes, and practical clothing options. We also talk about the science behind the color of your clothing and how it can affect your moods. I talk about my “boss babe” outfit and what my closet looks like! She tells us how to achieve that balance of sustainable beauty and finding confidence everyday. This is an episode that is guaranteed to bring a smile to you face! See ya there! Shownotes: Check out the blog!

Are you a chronic squatter? Do you realize how much you hover to avoid touching a public toilet seat? I get it. I noticed my own habit and decided that I needed to take initiative to be more aware of protecting my pelvic floor muscles. Today, I'm sharing the damaging impacts that squatting to pee can have on your PF and what you can do to keep yourself safe from germs in public restrooms! Oh, and Happy Friday!

Have you ever wondered if a "side hustle" was meant for you? Have you been exploring your options and don't know which is the best for you? Megan Loftin shares her nap time job that she has built from the ground up and it isn't what you think! She also has a youtube channel where she supports, teaches, and inspires thousands of other parents just like you to start their own small businesses! We chat about how she manages to juggle being a mother, wife, small business owner, and work a corporate job, too. Plus, she tells who is in her village and how she balances all the moving puzzle pieces. Shownotes: Check out the blog! The Bootstrap Boutique Youtube Channel Instagram

Another Friday Free Talk and today I'm talking all about mindset shifts when you find yourself in a space of needing a reset! I give away what I do when I find myself in that space as well as the 4 most helpful shifts that I use. Make sure you are headed into the weekend with the perfect headspace! Download the Parent and Mindset Guide Shownotes: Check out the blog!

Do you know how the three P's impact your daily life? Today, Jill Miller is here to chat all about bringing the massage experience into your home and focus on connecting with your body at the same time! Just in time for Mother's Day, we are diving into the perfect gift for that special person who is impossible to buy for because nothing seems to do it justice! We chat about all things pregnancy, pain, postpartum, healing, yoga, and self-care in this episode! Shownotes: Check out the blog! Download the freebie

Happy Friday! Today, I’m exploring the importance of the village after having a baby and how to successfully build your tribe. I dive into why we can’t seem to ask for help these days and give the steps you can take to help prepare for your postpartum period. I even share a secret of how you can join The Tranquility Tribe! See ya there! Small Group SignUp Shownotes: Check out the blog!

Fear based care in America has been dictating women’s births for years. Healthcare professionals are fearful of repercussions and this leads to the use of fear based education when providing care to patients. Ergo, birthing people often feel pressured into making decisions because they are scared or concerned about something. This can leave new parents, especially women, feeling out of control and taken advantage of. HeHe sits down with Shana Dewitt who has had two very different birth experiences. Shana walks us through her birth stories and the feelings of being pressured into . She gets down right and dirty about all the feels, but instead of grabbing your tissues, I urge you to grab your books to educate yourself on the choices you have when it comes to your birth experience. Shownotes: Check out the blog!

Today, I'm sharing a bit about my path with the energy piece of Tranquility by HeHe and how it shapes the approach we use. I'm diving into the energy of birth and how to shift your mindset to set you up for your ideal birth. Today, I will give away my top three secrets to think about when shifting your mindset. I give you solid action steps to walk away with and I can promise you will leave empowered to explore yourself a little deeper! Happy Friday, let's dive in! Shownotes: Head to Tranquility by HeHe to check out the freebie!

Milk baths are often thought of as either aesthetics for pictures or maths made of breastmilk for babies. Today, HeHe sits down with Carli Ambrose, Founder of Milk Bath Goddess, to discuss the benefits for adults and particularly women to soak in milk. Milk Bath Goddess focuses on self-care and overall well-being. They pride themselves on using all-natural and chemical free ingredients and Carli warns listeners of the dangers of an unregulated industry. Join us to learn all about the benefits of herbs, oils, and ingredients in milk baths that can help you achieve a better balance in life. Shownotes: Check out the blog! Helpful links: Follow us on Instagram @milkbathgoddess Facebook @milkbathgoddess Shop at MilkBathGoddess.esty.com Use the code: milkbathmama to receive special savings on any MBG products!

Happy Friday! Let's dive into choosing the perfect birth support for you! Have you considered having a doula at your birth? ..but have no clue how to choose a "good one." In this episode, I share my formula of questions that you can ask to help you find the perfect match. I also share my thoughts on characteristics of the perfect doula. You don't get any do-overs in birth, so be picky and be intentional! Grab your freebie here. Shownotes: Check out the blog!

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In this episode, HeHe chats with Kelly Agnew all about hormones, nutrition, and infertility. We discuss what foods can help with balancing hormones and setting your body up for pregnancy. Kelly gives away her thoughts about fats in your diet and we talk about how fascinating the female body is and how everything in our body is intricately connected. Kelly also shares how holistic care changed her life and ultimately led to her decision to become a nutritionist. Join us to discuss how to support your body and balance your hormones with every day foods. Shownotes: Check out the blog!

In this episode of Friday Free Talk, I'm talking about why I support parents with anixiety. It is something that I come across often so I decided to sit down to think about why and what made me so organically prepared for this. It was something I had never sat down to dive into before, but now that I have I want to share it with you! Shownotes: Check out the blog!

Today we are taking a stroll down mindfulness lane. HeHe and Sarah dive into what self-care looks like in motherhood. We talk about why it's so important to set time aside for yourself, why communication can make or break a system, and how you can start your journey of finding "balance." Parenting and being a partner can be challenging, so what happens when your cup is empty and there's nothing left to give? Join us as we talk about the not-so-pretty moments of filling so many roles and how to find a place in your life that you want to relish in every single last moment! ​ Shownotes: Check out the blog!

In this episode of Friday Free Talk, I dive into the stigma that in order to be a good doula, you must have children yourself. "Do you have children?" is a questions that is often asked in the birth world and there can definitely be some judgment attached. I get down to the nitty gritty and pretty raw about what makes a good doula, how to put together your birth team, and why you should be selfish during pregnancy! I even dive into the social construct of how gender plays a role among the birth community. Let's dig into a double standard that I love discussing! Shownotes: Check out the blog!

In this episode, HeHe sits down with Sara Reardon, The Vagina Whisperer, to get a closer look at the pelvic floor. We dive into maternity belts, painful sex, and general vaginal care. Sara spills the beans on prenatal preventative care to be proactive with the health of your pelvic floor and her thoughts on perineum massages. We talk about how to support your body and perineum, pushing properly, and the use of epidurals and your pelvic floor. She tells what you should be looking for if certain symptoms don’t go away and what a reasonable healing period looks like. Finally, we chat about the age old question: To Kegel or Not To Kegel? This episode is jam packed with information that you will want to know if you have a vagina or know anyone who does. Shownotes: Check out the blog!

In this episode, I get real about how society has taught us it's okay to talk about expectant parents' bodies and why your postpartum body is none of anyone else's business. I also talk about why I think some people are hurtful and what they might actually be saying. After this episode you will have solid steps of action to take to combat body shakers everywhere! Get ready for an empowering episode that may leave you how you've never thought of this before! Shownotes: Check out the blog!

Amber is the mom of 5 children and the owner of Mom After God's Own Heart which is quickly growing every day! She is responsible for my signature look when I attend births! Today, I chat with her all about how to find that balance of being a business owner and a mom. We jump into her faith, her village, and her struggles. She also shares some advice for all the parents out there who are thinking about starting their own business. Shownotes: Check out the blog! A big thank you to Meghan for allowing me to take a peak into her life and her parenting and practicing the vulnerability that she talks about! You can also find her on Facebook or her website.

This is an episode of Friday Free Talk- Where I freely talk about something I want you to know or what ever has been on my mind lately. Today, I dive into the question of "Are you certified?" I explain the range of care you might receive from doulas, the education required, and who accredits this certification. I also dive into my own background and how the unique path my career has taken has prepared me to serve you in a multifaceted approach. Join me for this in-depth look into the nuts and bolts of Tranquility by HeHe and the approach that is empowering so many birthing people across the nation. Shownotes: Check out the blog! Don’t forget to join our private Facebook, The Tranquility Tribe Podcast, and follow us on Instagram at @tranquilitybyhehe!

They say habits that are formed while you're pregnant are more likely to stay around! What better time to implement exercise into your life than when you are growing a tiny human! Erika is a ACE certified Pre and Postnatal personal trainer. In this episode, we dive into the exercising during pregnancy, postpartum fitness, and body-shamers! Join us in this exclusive conversation all about staying fit while being an expectant and new parent! Shownotes: Check out the blog! Don’t forget to join our private Facebook, The Tranquility Tribe Podcast, and follow us on Instagram at @tranquilitybyhehe!

In this episode, HeHe sits down with Audra Smith, an expectant mom who has Type 1 Diabetes. She shares her story and how the disease has affected her pregnancy. She and her husband, Brian, struggled to get pregnant and Audra dives into how she believes her T1D played a role in that. For any mom out there who is experience complications in your pregnancy, this episode is for you! She spits truth about keeping it real and also showing people the struggles of battling a life-threatening disease while growing a tiny human. She truly understands the meaning of the villages and believes in doing this together! Shownotes: Check out the blog! If you want to learn more about Audra and follow along with her journey, you can find her on Instagram at @audrashoupesmith. Don’t forget to join our private Facebook, The Tranquility Tribe Podcast, and follow us on Instagram at @tranquilitybyhehe!

Alyssa Blask Campbell is a lover of all things tiny humans. She has spent years studying the science behind our tiny human's brain development and is here to spill the beans! Join us as we dive deep into your child's sleep, including newborns sleeping through the night! Hear Alyssa's explanation of sleep pressure and how a simple equation may be a game-changer in your sleep routines with your kids! You won't want to miss this episode if you are a sleep diva like me and need those solid 8 hours of beauty rest! Shownotes: Check out the blog here! If you want to learn more about Alyssa and Seed and Sew, visit seedandsew.org or check her business out on Facebook or on Instagram at @seed.and.sew. And if you want to hear more from Alyssa, stay tuned - she will be starting her own podcast soon! Don’t forget to join our private Facebook, The Tranquility Tribe Podcast, and follow us on Instagram at @tranquilitybyhehe!

Madison White is a Pelvic Floor Therapist and a member of the Tranquility Team. She is a holistic practiioner in healing women with energetic and physical healing support. She is the founder of God(us) Circles and practiced as a nurse for many years before finding her passion for women's health, specifically women's sexual health. Join us as we tackle the sticky questions of painful sex, the inpact of birth on the pelvic floor, and how to best heal after having a baby! Shownotes: Check out the blog here! If you are interested in learning more about Madison’s work and how she can help you, you can find more information on her website at www.madisonwhite.net or you can contact her via email at [email protected] or via phone at (339) 201-1346. Madison offers exclusive discounts for Tranquility by HeHe clients to ensure you are pampered in your journey to parenthood! Don’t forget to join our private Facebook, The Tranquility Tribe Podcast, and follow us on Instagram at @tranquilitybyhehe!

Nicole Brown is an acupuncturist in the Boston area and specializes in Women's Health. She is honest about what she thinks will help and has so many remedies. She is part of the Tranquility Team and believes in the power of mindset. Nicole has studied chinese medicine and encourages women to focus on themselves by eating right, exercising, and building in self-care time. Join in as we talk about acupuncture as labor prep, in labor, and as birth recovery support. We also dive into mood disorders. If you are thinking about making acupuncture your prenatal-self care splurge, this is the episode for you! Shownotes: Check out the blog here! Nicole is located in Brookline, MA. If you would like to learn more about her practice, you can contact her or sign up for her newsletter on her website or you can follow her on Facebook. Nicole offers exclusive discounts for Tranquility by HeHe clients to ensure you are pampered in your journey to parenthood! Don’t forget to join our private Facebook, The Tranquility Tribe Podcast, and follow us on Instagram at @tranquilitybyhehe!

Have you ever considered maternity photos? Do you wonder why on earth you would want to document your pregnant body? Maybe you want to save the money and put it towards newborn photos? In this episode, I dive deep into newborn photography including newborn safety and posing as well as why printed pictures may be one of the most valuable investments you can make when it comes to having a baby. Malka has been on the Tranquility Team from the very beginning and loves to pamper parents just as much as I do! Join us as we talk about all the things you should know about capturing these once in a lifetime moments and being able to remember them as such happy times. Shownotes: Check out the blog here! For more information about Malka’s photography and how she can help you capture life’s moments, go tohttp://malkaahmedphotography.com/about/. Malka offers exclusive discounts for Tranquility by HeHe clients to ensure you are pampered in your journey to parenthood! Don’t forget to join our private Facebook, The Tranquility Tribe Podcast, and follow us on Instagram at @tranquilitybyhehe! Check out the episode here!

Welcome to The Tranquility Tribe Podcast! Dive into the first episode to find out why I started this podcast and how I came to own a multifaceted practice of women's help. From trying to conceive to planning for a baby, to exploring your birth options and kowingyour rights, to advocating for yourself and transitioning to postpartum life, we dive into it all. I am so excited to share these experts and special guests with you. We will bust fear-based practices out of the park and dig deep to find options along the spectrum from silky to crunchy and eveything in between. From Mississippi to Massachusetts, I'm here to empower you!