The Aware Parenting Podcast
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Episode 87: Sleep Q and A
In this episode, we talk about sleep from an Aware Parenting perspective, which is the third way with sleep, where we can have secure attachment AND restful sleep! We answered questions on: the three things needed for sound sleep, co-sleeping, children moving to their own bed, closeness before bed, talking lots before bed, thumb sucking to sleep, waking up after one sleep cycle, waking up lots in the night, and lots more! Marion has a course called Sound Sleep and Secure Attachment with Aware Parenting at: http://www.soundasleep.me/invitation/ Please come over to our Facebook page, or find us on Instagram @theawareparentingpodcast You can find Marion at www.marionrose.net and Lael at www.laelstone.com.au And if you haven’t already, would you be willing to subscribe to the podcast so we can show up in your podcast feed? We’re sending you much love and compassion in your parenting journey. Marion and Lael xoxo

Episode 86: Partners Q and A
In this episode, we respond to listeners’ questions about their relationships with partners and exes around Aware Parenting. We offer a wider cultural perspective as well as a psychological context about why this can be so hard, and we offer both lots of compassion as well as practical suggestions. Please come over to our Facebook page, or find us on Instagram @theawareparentingpodcast You can find Marion at www.marionrose.net and Lael at www.laelstone.com.au And if you haven’t already, would you be willing to subscribe to the podcast so we can show up in your podcast feed? We’re sending you much love and compassion in your parenting journey. Marion and Lael xoxo

Episode 85: Tantrums Q and A
Episode 85: Tantrums Q and A by Marion Rose, PhD.

Episode 84: Siblings Q & A
In this episode, we talk about siblings from an Aware Parenting perspective. We offer ways to prepare a child for a new sibling, how to support the relationships between siblings, and the cause of sibling aggression. We offer ways to help siblings be naturally gentle with each other without ever asking them to "be gentle!". We also share why having our own feelings listened to is so vital if were are to be able to help our children when there is conflict. We also discuss how we can support children to repair when they've hurt their sibling. Please come over to our Facebook page, or find us on Instagram @theawareparentingpodcast You can find Marion at www.marionrose.net and Lael at www.laelstone.com.au And if you haven’t already, would you be willing to subscribe to the podcast so we can show up in your podcast feed? We’re sending you much love and compassion in your parenting journey. Marion and Lael xoxo

Episode 83: Food and feelings part two
Food and Feelings Part 2 In this episode, we talk about food and feelings for kids. We explain how babies and children learn to interpret when they are hungry and when they are upset, and how it’s never too late to help them reconnect with their natural wisdom around food. We share our own experiences with our teenagers when they were babies and children. We talk about the power of attachment play to help children when they are eating to suppress feelings, and how we can offer loving limits when a child is using food as a control pattern. Most of all, we invite you to have lots of self-compassion as you listen to this podcast! Relevant offerings: Cooperative and Connected by Aletha Solter Lael’s couples course Marion’s Attachment Play Course and Aware Parenting Babies Course Please come over to our Facebook page, or find us on Instagram @theawareparentingpodcast You can find Marion at www.marionrose.net and Lael at www.laelstone.com.au And if you haven’t already, would you be willing to subscribe to the podcast so we can show up in your podcast feed? We’re sending you much love and compassion in your parenting journey. Marion and Lael xoxo

Episode 82: Food and feelings part 1
In this episode, we talk about the relationships between food and feelings for adults. We discuss how food can be both a source of nourishment and a control pattern (way to suppress feelings) and how compassion for ourselves when we're eating for suppression makes such a difference. We share about the power of presence and pleasure with food, as well as receiving. We also include the importance of listening to how our past affects our present relationship with food, including our ancestral lineages. Part two will be about the relationship between food and feelings for children. Please come over to our Facebook page, or find us on Instagram @theawareparentingpodcast You can find Marion at www.marionrose.net and Lael at www.laelstone.com.au And if you haven’t already, would you be willing to subscribe to the podcast so we can show up in your podcast feed? We’re sending you much love and compassion in your parenting journey. Marion and Lael xoxo

Episode 81: Blame and shame
Please come over to our Facebook page, or find us on Instagram @theawareparentingpodcast You can find Marion at www.marionrose.net and Lael at www.laelstone.com.au And if you haven’t already, would you be like to subscribe to the podcast so we can show up in your podcast feed? We’re sending you much love and compassion in your parenting journey. Marion and Lael xoxo

Episode 80: Big feelings
In this episode, we talk about the causes of children's big feelings, ways we can respond helpfully and responses that aren't so helpful for children. We include the balance of attention and why it is central to Aware Parenting. We share why children expressing big feelings can be different to adults expressing big feelings, and why our own inner work is vital if we are to be able to welcome our children's tears and tantrums. Books: Tears and Tantrums by Aletha Solter Relevant offerings: Lael's Intro to Aware Parenting Aware Parenting Immersion Marion's Free Intro to Aware Parenting Making Friends with Children's Feelings Course Please come over to our Facebook page, or find us on Instagram @theawareparentingpodcast You can find Marion at www.marionrose.net and Lael at www.laelstone.com.au And if you haven’t already, would you be like to subscribe to the podcast so we can show up in your podcast feed? We’re sending you much love and compassion in your parenting journey. Marion and Lael xoxo

Episode 79: 'Sex Education'
In this episode, we talk about series three of Sex Education on Netflix. Please note, there are spoilers! We discuss how many of the characters express what they want and don't want, and about Adam, Michael and Ruby's evolution away from their childhood hurts and conditioning. We talk about the shame scene and how shame is used for power-over. We share our disappointment in how Jean's pregnancy and birth were portrayed. And Lael shares lots of important information about teaching children and teens about sex. Lael has several courses relevant to this: How to Talk to your Kids about Sex Webinar https://laelstone.com.au/courses/how-to-talk-to-your-kids-about-sex/ Aware Parenting for Tweens and Teens Webinar https://laelstone.com.au/courses/aware-parenting-for-tweens-and-teens/ Marion's offerings on power and powerlessness are relevant here: Powerlessness, Power-over and power-with in Parenting Masterclass: https://marionrose.samcart.com/products/powerlessness-power-over-and-power-with-in-parenting-masterclass/ Power and Powerlessness in Parenting Course http://www.powerandpowerlessnessinparenting.com/invitation/ Resources discussed in the Podcast : https://sexedrescue.com/ https://amaze.org/ https://www.scarleteen.com/ https://www.culturereframed.org/ https://forfoxessake.com.au/ Please come over to our Facebook page, or find us on Instagram @theawareparentingpodcast You can find Marion at www.marionrose.net and Lael at www.laelstone.com.au And if you haven’t already, would you be like to subscribe to the podcast so we can show up in your podcast feed? We’re sending you much love and compassion in your parenting journey. Marion and Lael xoxo

Episode 78: Parenting for a new paradigm
In this episode, we talk about how Aware Parenting isn't about supporting children to fit into this paradigm, but supporting them to change the paradigm. We share how Aware Parenting supports children to stay deeply connected with themselves and to be able to meet differences with compassion. We talk about the importance of our vision for our children and for the future world, and how our parenting helps them to be able to meet an uncertain future with creativity and openness. Lael’s Aware Parenting Immersion: https://laelstone.com.au/courses/aware-parenting-immersion-level-1/ Marion's relevant courses: Powerlessness, Power-over and Power-with in Parenting Masterclass: https://marionrose.samcart.com/products/powerlessness-power-over-and-power-with-in-parenting-masterclass/ Power and Powerlessness in Parenting: http://www.powerandpowerlessnessinparenting.com/invitation/ Reclaiming your power in the domination culture and True Power will both be at www.marionrose.net Please come over to our Facebook page, or find us on Instagram @theawareparentingpodcast You can find Marion at www.marionrose.net and Lael at www.laelstone.com.au And if you haven’t already, would you be like to subscribe to the podcast so we can show up in your podcast feed? We’re sending you much love and compassion in your parenting journey. Marion and Lael xoxo

Episode 77: Harsh self-talk
In our most recent episode on harsh self-talk, we discuss the disconnected domination culture and how it is based upon shame, guilt and self-judgment. We explain how children come to have harsh self-talk, and what we can do as parents to respond in helpful ways. We share the two ways that children can learn harsh self-talk from us, and what our children are inviting us to do when they are judging themselves. We also share about our own journeys from harsh to compassionate inner dialogue. You can find out more about Lael’s couple’s course here: https://laelstone.com.au/courses/aware-parenting-for-couples/ You can find out about Marion's Inner Loving Presence Process course here: http://www.innerlovingpresenceprocess.com/ Please come over to our Facebook page, or find us on Instagram @theawareparentingpodcast You can find Marion at www.marionrose.net and Lael at www.laelstone.com.au And if you haven’t already, would you be like to subscribe to the podcast so we can show up in your podcast feed? We’re sending you much love and compassion in your parenting journey. Marion and Lael xoxo

Episode 76: Extended Family
In this episode, we talk all about extended family, focussing mostly on grandparents. We share lots of different ideas about how to navigate the journey of parenting in ways that are different from our parents. This includes caring for the younger parts of ourselves, being advocates for our children, and differentiating our children's experience with our parents from what we experienced growing up in our family of origin. You can find out more about Lael’s couple’s course here: https://laelstone.com.au/courses/aware-parenting-for-couples/ You can find out about Marion's Inner Loving Presence Process course here: http://www.innerlovingpresenceprocess.com/ Please come over to our Facebook page, or find us on Instagram @theawareparentingpodcast You can find Marion at www.marionrose.net and Lael at www.laelstone.com.au And if you haven’t already, would you be like to subscribe to the podcast so we can show up in your podcast feed? We’re sending you much love and compassion in your parenting journey. Marion and Lael xoxo

Episode 75: Powerlessness
In this episode, we talk all about powerlessness, such an apt topic for these times! We discuss the sources of powerlessness in the wider culture and in mothering itself, as well as specific ways to heal old powerlessness feelings and feel more truly powerful in the present. We share about how we can tell when the feelings of powerlessness that we are feeling are from the past, and how we can support ourselves to actually feel more truly powerful in the present. Marion's relevant courses: Powerlessness, Power-over and Power-with in Parenting Masterclass: https://marionrose.samcart.com/products/powerlessness-power-over-and-power-with-in-parenting-masterclass/ Power and Powerlessness in Parenting: http://www.powerandpowerlessnessinparenting.com/invitation/ Transformation Through Mothering: https://marionrose.samcart.com/products/transformation-through-mothering-twenty-twenty-one/ The Wonder of Willingness: https://www.thewonderofwillingness.com/ You can find out more about Lael’s couple’s course here: https://laelstone.com.au/courses/aware-parenting-for-couples/ Please come over to our Facebook page, or find us on Instagram @theawareparentingpodcast You can find Marion at www.marionrose.net and Lael at www.laelstone.com.au And if you haven’t already, would you be like to subscribe to the podcast so we can show up in your podcast feed? We’re sending you much love and compassion in your parenting journey. Marion and Lael xoxo

Episode 74: Birth trauma
In this episode, there are two sections. In the first part, we talk to Sally Prinn and Sean Dixon, who share their experience of the birth trauma that they and their son Cedar experienced. They talk about how they helped their son heal from the birth trauma with Aware Parenting, and their own parallel journey. And they share about the song and video Sean created to bring awareness to birth trauma and the impact that a traumatic birth can have on an entire family's life. You can watch the video of the song Birth Trauma: A Father's Journey on YouTube here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MnvHqmOSP1c You can find Sean's website here: www.sankalpamusic.com. and on Instagram at: https://www.instagram.com/sankalpa_music/ and Sally here: https://www.instagram.com/sallyprinn/ In the second part of the episode, Lael and Marion talk about other specific ways both parents and babies (or children) can heal from birth trauma. If you’d like to learn more, Marion has some courses: Babies Have Real Feelings free ebook and audio: http://www.awareparentingbabies.com/babies-have-real-feelings/ Aware Parenting Babies Q and A Vault: http://www.awareparentingbabies.com/q-and-a-vault-invitation/ Aware Parenting Babies Course (with Helena Mooney): http://www.awareparentingbabies.com/ Please come over to our Facebook page, or find us on Instagram @theawareparentingpodcast You can find Marion at www.marionrose.net and Lael at www.laelstone.com.au And if you haven’t already, would you be like to subscribe to the podcast so we can show up in your podcast feed? We’re sending you much love and compassion in your parenting journey. Marion and Lael xoxo

Episode 73: Teens and limits
In this episode of The Aware Parenting Podcast, we discuss setting limits with teens and how we can create opportunities for healing and growth. We explored our reactions and responses and what teens might be needing when they are upset. We looked at the different reasons teens may be looking for limits and how looking behind the behaviour can be helpful. We also discussed the power of connection to elicit co-operation and how using punishments can create more unwanted behaviour. As always, we delved into our own internal stories and what could be helpful when meeting big feelings in our teenagers and what we may have wanted from the adults in our life when we were younger. It's available on all the usual podcast channels. Relevant offerings: Lael's Aware Parenting for Tweens and Teens Workshop: https://laelstone.com.au/workshops/aware-parenting-for-tweens-and-teens/ Aware Parenting Immersion (Level 2): https://laelstone.com.au/courses/aware-parenting-immersion-level-2/ Please come over to our Facebook page, or find us on Instagram @theawareparentingpodcast You can find Marion at www.marionrose.net and Lael at www.laelstone.com.au And if you haven’t already, would you be like to subscribe to the podcast so we can show up in your podcast feed? We’re sending you much love and compassion in your parenting journey. Marion and Lael xoxo

Episode 72: Healing trauma through play
In this episode, we talk about how attachment play can help children heal from trauma as well as daily stresses. We include ways that play can help healing from: Birth trauma; Separations; Fears and phobias; Dentist and doctor experiences. We also share about how play can help prevent trauma from happening in the first place. Relevant offerings: Lael’s Aware Parenting Immersion: https://laelstone.com.au/courses/aware-parenting-immersion-level-1/ Marion's Attachment Play Course: http://www.attachmentplaycourses.com/join-in Aletha Solter's book Attachment Play: www.awareparenting.com Please come over to our Facebook page, or find us on Instagram @theawareparentingpodcast You can find Marion at www.marionrose.net and Lael at www.laelstone.com.au And if you haven’t already, would you be like to subscribe to the podcast so we can show up in your podcast feed? We’re sending you much love and compassion in your parenting journey. Marion and Lael xoxo

Episode 71: 'Bullying'
Our latest podcast is on 'bullying'. We talk about: The cause of these behaviours. How we can respond most helpfully both to the child who is being harsh, as well as to the child on the receiving end. Why we value looking at the cultural and systemic bigger picture. What this can bring up in parents. How parents can navigate this with their children. Policies that Lael's school have put into place to respond to these behaviours. Relevant offerings: Lael’s Aware Parenting Immersion: https://laelstone.com.au/courses/aware-parenting-immersion-level-1/ Marion's Attachment Play Course: http://www.attachmentplaycourses.com/join-in Aletha Solter's book Cooperative and Connected: http://www.awareparenting.com/cooperative.html Please come over to our Facebook page, or find us on Instagram @theawareparentingpodcast You can find Marion at www.marionrose.net and Lael at www.laelstone.com.au And if you haven’t already, would you be like to subscribe to the podcast so we can show up in your podcast feed? We’re sending you much love and compassion in your parenting journey. Marion and Lael xoxo

Episode 70: The Wisdom of Trauma Talk Series part 2
In this episode, we talk about: How trauma can show up in the body and how we can listen to it; Listening to symptoms; The relationship between supported crying and illness; Stanislav Grof’s work on the impact of birth on babies; How babies can show their birth experience to us and how we can listen; How trauma gets released from the body; The power of attachment play to help children heal from birth experiences; The importance of the therapeutic relationship; How children internalise presence with their feelings; The normalisation of trauma healing and feelings and how Sia showed that. Relevant offerings: Marion’s online workshop on helping children heal from stress and trauma with Aware Parenting: https://marionrose.samcart.com/products/helping-children-heal-from-stress-and-trauma-with-aware-parenting/ Marion's Aware Parenting Babies Q and A Vault http://www.awareparentingbabies.com/q-and-a-vault-invitation/ Aware Parenting with Babies Course with Marion Rose, Ph.D. and Helena Mooney: Lael’s Aware Parenting for Couples Program: https://laelstone.com.au/courses/aware-parenting-for-couples/ Lael’s Aware Parenting Immersion: https://laelstone.com.au/courses/aware-parenting-immersion-level-1/ Please come over to our Facebook page, or find us on Instagram @theawareparentingpodcast You can find Marion at www.marionrose.net and Lael at www.laelstone.com.au And if you haven’t already, would you be like to subscribe to the podcast so we can show up in your podcast feed? We’re sending you much love and compassion in your parenting journey. Marion and Lael xoxo

Episode 69: The Wisdom of Trauma Talk Series
In this most recent episode, we talk about The Wisdom of Trauma Talk Series that followed The Wisdom of Trauma Documentary with Dr. Gabor Maté. We discussed: How a quote by Gabor about peace in the world relates exactly to the causes of a child hitting, biting or being harsh to others; How Thomas Hūbl's discussion on individual, collective and intergenerational trauma helps us be more compassionate with ourselves as parents; How the conversation with V and Esther Perel can inform parents about the impact of their relationship together on their children; How Aware Parenting deeply values the wisdom of the body and feelings and how that relates to the work of Peter Levine and Stephen Porges; The antidote to suppression and dissociation in ourselves and our children. We are going to record a part 3 in this Wisdom of Trauma series! Please come over to our Facebook page, or find us on Instagram @theawareparentingpodcast You can find Marion at www.marionrose.net and Lael at www.laelstone.com.au And if you haven’t already, would you be like to subscribe to the podcast so we can show up in your podcast feed? We’re sending you much love and compassion in your parenting journey. Marion and Lael xoxo

Episode 68: The Wisdom of Trauma
In the latest episode of The Aware Parenting Podcast, we discuss Dr. Gabor Maté’s documentary, The Wisdom of Trauma. You can find out more about the documentary here: https://thewisdomoftrauma.com/ We discussed: How Aware Parenting is in alignment with the documentary; Painful experiences and trauma as a spectrum; What Aware Parenting can add to the conversation; How babies and children come to suppress their feelings; What we’re called to do as parents to heal intergenerational trauma; Tangible ways that we can help babies and children heal from daily stresses and trauma. Relevant offerings: Lael’s Aware Parenting for Couples Program: https://laelstone.com.au/courses/aware-parenting-for-couples/ Lael’s Aware Parenting Immersion: https://laelstone.com.au/courses/aware-parenting-immersion-level-1/ Marion’s online workshop on helping children heal from stress and trauma with Aware Parenting: https://marionrose.samcart.com/products/helping-children-heal-from-stress-and-trauma-with-aware-parenting/ Marion has two 1-1 places available and her Aware Parenting Instructor Immersion is opening soon. Message her on FB or IG for more details. Please come over to our Facebook page, or find us on Instagram @theawareparentingpodcast You can find Marion at www.marionrose.net and Lael at www.laelstone.com.au And if you haven’t already, would you be like to subscribe to the podcast so we can show up in your podcast feed? We’re sending you much love and compassion in your parenting journey. Marion and Lael xoxo

Episode 67: Q & A 3
In this Q and A, we talked about: Helping children with feelings when they’re not yet able to do something; Supporting boys in a competitive world; Understanding children’s play with toy weapons; What we can do when with other parents who want an immediate apology; Supporting children around sharing; How Aware Parenting differs from other parenting styles; What the term ‘holding space’ means; and Balancing reducing overwhelm for babies with meeting our own needs. Please come over to our Facebook page, or find us on Instagram @theawareparentingpodcast You can find Marion at www.marionrose.net and Lael at www.laelstone.com.au And if you haven’t already, would you be like to subscribe to the podcast so we can show up in your podcast feed? We’re sending you much love and compassion in your parenting journey. Marion and Lael xoxo

Episode 66: Hitting and biting part 2
Our first hitting and biting podcast was cut short at the end, so we decided to come back and create this one! In it, we talk about: Why and how Aware Parenting is so different to behaviourism; How our core beliefs about human beings affects our response to hitting; The cause of hitting and biting; How we can offer Loving Limits in response to hitting; How we can move in with attachment play in response to hitting; How we can prevent hitting from happening in the first place; Our own invitation to do our own inner work so we’re more likely to be able to respond in these ways; The importance of self-compassion. For more: Aletha Solter - Tears and Tantrums, Cooperative and Connected Lael’s Course - https://laelstone.com.au/courses/aware-parenting-for-couples/ Marion’s Courses - Aggression and Aware Parenting video | audio | PDF https://marionrose.samcart.com/products/aggression-and-aware-parenting/ Making Friends with Children’s Feelings http://www.makingfriendswithchildrensfeelings.com/course/ Power and Powerlessness in Parenting http://www.powerandpowerlessnessinparenting.com/invitation/ Please come over to our Facebook page, or find us on Instagram @theawareparentingpodcast You can find Marion at www.marionrose.net and Lael at www.laelstone.com.au And if you haven’t already, would you be like to subscribe to the podcast so we can show up in your podcast feed? We’re sending you much love and compassion in your parenting journey. Marion and Lael xoxo

Episode 65: Staying Calm
In this episode, we talked about the three key ways we can support ourselves to be able to stay calm as parents more of the time. We hope you find it helpful! You can find out more about Lael’s couple’s course here: https://laelstone.com.au/courses/aware-parenting-for-couples/ You can find out about Marion’s Helping Ourselves Respond Helpfully to Our Child’s Behaviour offering here: https://marionrose.samcart.com/products/helping-ourselves-respond-helpfully-to-our-childs-behaviour-with-aware-parenting/ and Making Friends with Children’s Feelings Course here: http://www.makingfriendswithchildrensfeelings.com/course/ Please come over to our Facebook page, or find us on Instagram @theawareparentingpodcast You can find Marion at www.marionrose.net and Lael at www.laelstone.com.au And if you haven’t already, would you be like to subscribe to the podcast so we can show up in your podcast feed? We’re sending you much love and compassion in your parenting journey. Marion and Lael xoxo

Episode 64: Motherpower
Wow! This was a powerful episode, all about mother power. We talk about why we believe it is time on a planetary level for mothers to relaxin our power. We share our own stories of reconnecting with our power. We explain why having deep compassion for our experiences of powerlessness is so vital. We invite you to connect with your power in service of your love for your child/ren and what you want for them. We support you in connecting with your yeses and noes. And we share power portals ~ ways to connect with your power. Please come over to our Facebook page, or find us on Instagram @theawareparentingpodcast You can find Marion at www.marionrose.net and Lael at www.laelstone.com.au And if you haven’t already, would you be like to subscribe to the podcast so we can show up in your podcast feed? We’re sending you much love and compassion in your parenting journey. Marion and Lael xoxo

Episode 63: Our teenage selves
In this episode, we talk about the teenage parts of us, when they can show up (eg. with our teenagers, friends and colleagues), and how we can listen lovingly to them in ways that support healing to happen. If you'd like to dive deeper into this work, Marion has an Inner Loving Presence Process Course at: http://www.innerlovingpresenceprocess.com/ And if you've already done Lael's Level One Immersion, she has a Level Two Immersion to explore your own teenage years here: https://laelstone.com.au/courses/aware-parenting-immersion-level-2/ Please come over to our Facebook page, or find us on Instagram @theawareparentingpodcast You can find Marion at www.marionrose.net and Lael at www.laelstone.com.au And if you haven’t already, would you be like to subscribe to the podcast so we can show up in your podcast feed? We’re sending you much love and compassion in your parenting journey. Marion and Lael xoxo

Episode 62: Feeling loved
In this moving episode, we talk about the ways that we can help our children actually experience being loved. We explore the gap that can happen between knowing that we love our children and them having a felt sense of being loved. We invite lots of compassion and share ways we can repair through offering loving and listening experiences - and remind you that it is never too late to do any of these things! Please come over to our Facebook page, or find us on Instagram @theawareparentingpodcast You can find Marion at www.marionrose.net and Lael at www.laelstone.com.au And if you haven’t already, would you be like to subscribe to the podcast so we can show up in your podcast feed? We’re sending you much love and compassion in your parenting journey. Marion and Lael xoxo

Episode 61: Trusting our children and ourselves
In this episode, we talked about cultural conditioning which has often led to parents not trusting their children, and how we can free ourselves up from that to redevelop our capacity for trust. We discussed trusting our children around: Their needs; Their food choices; Their capacity to heal from stress and trauma; Their knowing how to feel relaxed before sleep; Their intuition; Their individuation and Their learning. We also included experiences of how we’ve learnt to trust our children and ourselves. We hope you love it! We trust you! Please come over to our Facebook page, or find us on Instagram @theawareparentingpodcast You can find Marion at www.marionrose.net and Lael at www.laelstone.com.au And if you haven’t already, would you be like to subscribe to the podcast so we can show up in your podcast feed? We’re sending you much love and compassion in your parenting journey. Marion and Lael xoxo

Episode 60: Tantrums, part 2
In this episode, part 2 on tantrums, we talk about: What causes tantrums; Why we might have big reactions when our child has a tantrum; The cause of tantrums; How the healthy expression of feelings, such as in tantrums, helps a child; The difference between tantrums and aggression; How we might respond most helpfully when our child has a tantrum; What we need to be able to respond helpfully. If you’re wanting to dive in deeper, Lael is running another live round of her Aware Parenting Immersion: https://laelstone.com.au/courses/aware-parenting-immersion-level-1/ And Marion has a few courses on this, eg: https://marionrose.samcart.com/products/tears-and-tantrums-children-expressing-big-feelings/ http://www.makingfriendswithchildrensfeelings.com/course/ We also recommend Tears and Tantrums by Aletha Solter. Please come over to our Facebook page, or find us on Instagram @theawareparentingpodcast You can find Marion at www.marionrose.net and Lael at www.laelstone.com.au And if you haven’t already, would you be like to subscribe to the podcast so we can show up in your podcast feed? We’re sending you much love and compassion in your parenting journey. Marion and Lael xoxo

Episode 59: Babies, part 2
In this episode, we return to talking about babies (Episode 3 was on attachment and tears!) Lael shares about how she helped her daughter heal from birth trauma with Aware Parenting, and the tangible signs in her baby’s behaviour that showed her that the trauma was being released. Marion talks about her academic and psychotherapeutic background before becoming a mother, and how Aware Parenting resonated with all that she’d learnt. Lael talks about the clear differences she saw between her two older children and her youngest child, related to Aware Parenting. Marion shares about how she realised that her daughter had feelings to express, and how she knew that her daughter’s expressing her feelings in her arms was helpful. We talk lots about the huge leap that Aware Parenting with a baby is, the importance of self-compassion and going slowly. We also talk about how Aware Parenting is the third way with sleep, and the three things that babies and children need for sound sleep. We talk about the spectrum of practicing Aware Parenting, and what happens to the feelings that we aren’t able to listen to in our babies. If you’d like to learn more, Marion has some courses: Babies Have Real Feelings free ebook and audio: http://www.awareparentingbabies.com/babies-have-real-feelings/ Aware Parenting Babies Q and A Vault: http://www.awareparentingbabies.com/q-and-a-vault-invitation/ Aware Parenting Babies Course (with Helena Mooney): http://www.awareparentingbabies.com/ Lael is running another live round of her Aware Parenting Immersion: https://laelstone.com.au/courses/aware-parenting-immersion-level-1/ Please come over to our Facebook page, or find us on Instagram @theawareparentingpodcast You can find Marion at www.marionrose.net and Lael at www.laelstone.com.au And if you haven’t already, would you be like to subscribe to the podcast so we can show up in your podcast feed? We’re sending you much love and compassion in your parenting journey. Marion and Lael xoxo

Episode 58: Q & A 2
In this podcast, we responded to questions about: apologies; punishments and rewards; 'strong will'; supporting our children when we’re going through a hard time; differentiating a control pattern from lowering sensory overload; finding our child’s behaviour challenging; making a decision about school or homeschooling; balancing time with friends and time at home. Please come over to our Facebook page, or find us on Instagram @theawareparentingpodcast You can find Marion at www.marionrose.net and Lael at www.laelstone.com.au And if you haven’t already, would you be like to subscribe to the podcast so we can show up in your podcast feed? We’re sending you much love and compassion in your parenting journey. Marion and Lael xoxo

Episode 57: Archetypes
In this podcast, Lael talks with her mother, Barbara Stone, about archetypes. After our last podcast on The Crown and Aware Parenting, we talked about archetypes and we had lots of requests from you, our listeners, to hear from Lael’s mum. At the beginning of the conversation, Barbara shares about being a grandmother and what she has learnt in her journey as a grandparent and what she has learnt from Aware Parenting. In this beautiful mother-daughter, grandmother-mother conversation, Lael and Barbara talk about parenting, healing, archetypes and lots more. You can find out more about Barbara's work at: https://www.archetypechartreadings.com/ Please come over to our Facebook page, or find us on Instagram @theawareparentingpodcast You can find Marion at www.marionrose.net and Lael at www.laelstone.com.au And if you haven’t already, would you be like to subscribe to the podcast so we can show up in your podcast feed? We’re sending you much love and compassion in your parenting journey. Marion and Lael xoxo

Episode 56: Aware Parenting and The Crown
his episode, we look at Netflix's new Season of The Crown from an Aware Parenting perspective. We discuss attachment, feelings and suppression, family stories, colonisation, archetypes, and a whole lot more! Please come over to our Facebook page, or find us on Instagram @theawareparentingpodcast You can find Marion at www.marionrose.net and Lael at www.laelstone.com.au And if you haven’t already, would you be like to subscribe to the podcast so we can show up in your podcast feed? We’re sending you much love and compassion in your parenting journey. Marion and Lael xoxo

Episode 55: Disappointment
In this episode, we talk about disappointment - including how it is often seen as a ‘lesser’ feeling, differentiating the feeling from the judgment, and offering helpful ways we can be with our own disappointment and that of our child/ren. We share about our own experiences of disappointment and how we came to embrace it in ourselves and our children, and discovered the gifts that it brings. You can find out about Lael's Aware Parenting for couples course here: https://laelstone.com.au/ You can find out about Marion's Inner Loving Presence Process course here: http://www.innerlovingpresenceprocess.com/ Please come over to our Facebook page, or find us on Instagram @theawareparentingpodcast You can find Marion at www.marionrose.net and Lael at www.laelstone.com.au And if you haven’t already, would you be like to subscribe to the podcast so we can show up in your podcast feed? We’re sending you much love and compassion in your parenting journey. Marion and Lael xoxo

Episode 54: Q & A 1
In our most recent podcast, we answered three questions from listeners. One on resentment. One on children not wanting to spend time with certain family members, and one when children only want to be cared for by one parent. We really loved answering these and will be recording more Q and A’s, so let us know on our IG or FB pages if you have a question! You can find out about Lael's upcoming Aware Parenting for Couples course on her website, www.laelstone.com.au You can find out more about Marion's Attachment Play Course here: http://www.attachmentplaycourses.com/join-in Please come over to our Facebook page, or find us on Instagram @theawareparentingpodcast You can find Marion at www.marionrose.net and Lael at www.laelstone.com.au And if you haven’t already, would you be like to subscribe to the podcast so we can show up in your podcast feed? We’re sending you much love and compassion in your parenting journey. Marion and Lael xoxo

Episode 53: Transitions through Parenting
In this episode, we talk about the transitions we are invited to go through in parenting, as we reflect back on our own parenting journeys so far. Please come over to our Facebook page, or find us on Instagram @theawareparentingpodcast You can find Marion at www.marionrose.net and Lael at www.laelstone.com.au And if you haven’t already, would you be like to subscribe to the podcast so we can show up in your podcast feed? We’re sending you much love and compassion in your parenting journey. Marion and Lael xoxo

Episode 52: Loss and death
Episode 52: Loss and death by Marion Rose, PhD.

Episode 51: Boundaries
In today’s episode we talk about boundaries, or what Marion calls “saying no.” We explain the innate capacity we all have to know when we feel a ‘yes’ and when we feel a ’no,’ and how growing up in a colonised culture disconnects us from easily knowing and expressing our “no’s.” We share about how experiences of having love removed when we said “no”, or being shamed or punished, lead us to feel uncomfortable with clearly speaking our “no” as adults. Lael talks about inviting parents to reflect on their imprints from what happened in their families growing up, and how that is impacting them now. Lael also shares reasons why parents can be reluctant to say, “no” to their children, which can include knowing that saying “no” will help children connect with either disappointment about not getting their needs met, or bigger feelings that were causing unenjoyable behaviour in the first place. We both talk about how reconnecting with and befriending our childhood experiences of powerlessness and outrage is an important stage of the journey. Marion talks about the difference between when we simply don’t want to do something and when we want to stop something unenjoyable from happening, either with a child or an adult. In the first scenario, we might simply say “no” to our child or another adult when we don’t want to do something. In the second scenario, we can set a Loving Limit with a child who is hitting, biting or throwing - (saying “no” to the behaviour and “yes” to the feelings that are causing the behaviour), and we can express a Neo No to an adult. As we were talking, we both get really passionate about how important it is for mothers to reclaim our capacity to say a Neo No within the domination system, particularly in birth and parenting. We LOVED recording this and wonder if you love it too! Lael's upcoming offerings: Aware Parenting Course for Couples - coming October laelstone.com.au/online-courses/ 8 Week Aware Parenting Immersion starts 12th October laelstone.com.au/courses/aware-parenting-immersion-level-1/ Marion's relevant offerings: Making Friends with Children's Feelings Course (includes Loving Limits): www.makingfriendswithchildrensfeelings.com/course Powerlessness, power-over and power-with in parenting Masterclass: https://marionrose.samcart.com/products/powerlessness-power-over-and-power-with-in-parenting-masterclass/ Power and Powerlessness in Parenting Course: http://www.powerandpowerlessnessinparenting.com/invitation/ The Wonder of Willingness: https://www.thewonderofwillingness.com/course/ Psychospiritual Parenting Online Workshop: https://marionrose.samcart.com/products/psychospiritual-parenting-online-workshop/ Please come over to our Facebook page, or find us on Instagram @theawareparentingpodcast You can find Marion at www.marionrose.net and Lael at www.laelstone.com.au And if you haven’t already, would you be like to subscribe to the podcast so we can show up in your podcast feed? We’re sending you much love and compassion in your parenting journey. Marion and Lael xoxo

Episode 50: Anxiety
In this podcast, we talk about understanding the three causes for fear and anxiety, and how we can address each of those causes, whether that’s for our child or ourselves. We share stories about our own experiences with fear, anxiety and terror, and how we’ve helped ourselves and our children through experiences where fear and anxiety have showed up. Understanding fear and anxiety, and changing our relationship to it, can transform our experience with it. Likewise, knowing how we can help our children, both preventatively, in the moment and afterwards, can help us feel more relaxed and centred, which is exactly how we need to be to support our children when they’re feeling anxious. Lael's upcoming offerings: Aware Parenting Course for Couples - coming October https://laelstone.com.au/online-courses/ 8 Week Aware Parenting Immersion starts 12th October https://laelstone.com.au/courses/aware-parenting-immersion-level-1/ Marion's relevant courses: Attachment Play Course: http://www.attachmentplaycourses.com/join-in Making Friends with Children's Feelings Course: http://www.makingfriendswithchildrensfeelings.com/course Please come over to our Facebook page, or find us on Instagram @theawareparentingpodcast You can find Marion at www.marionrose.net and Lael at www.laelstone.com.au And if you haven’t already, would you be like to subscribe to the podcast so we can show up in your podcast feed? We’re sending you much love and compassion in your parenting journey. Marion and Lael xoxo

Episode 49: Fathers (part two)
In this episode, Marion has a conversation with the father of her children, Michael, about fathering and Aware Parenting. Michael talks about his experiences before becoming a father, of being involved in ritual work with the MythoPoetic men’s movement with Malidome Some, and how that supported him in practising Aware Parenting with his four children. Michael also talks about martial arts and fathering and Aware Parenting and their interconnectedness. Most of all, he shares his thoughts on the importance of dads being in communities with other dads. Please come over to our Facebook page, or find us on Instagram @theawareparentingpodcast You can find Marion at www.marionrose.net and Lael at www.laelstone.com.au And if you haven’t already, would you be like to subscribe to the podcast so we can show up in your podcast feed? We’re sending you much love and compassion in your parenting journey. Marion and Lael xoxo

Episode 48: Fathers (part one)
In this episode, Lael talks with her husband, Mike, about fathering and Aware Parenting. Please come over to our Facebook page, or find us on Instagram @theawareparentingpodcast You can find Marion at www.marionrose.net and Lael at www.laelstone.com.au And if you haven’t already, would you be like to subscribe to the podcast so we can show up in your podcast feed? We’re sending you much love and compassion in your parenting journey. Marion and Lael xoxo

Episode 47: Aggression
In this episode, we explain why aggression happens, and how we can respond to that root cause in ways that are both effective and empathic. We differentiate between expression, regression and aggression, and we talk about how we can support our children to move from aggression to healthy expression. We discuss how important it is for us to do our own inner work so that we have the capacity to be with our child’s feelings of powerlessness, frustration and outrage. We describe Loving Limits in detail and explain why the language we use in Loving Limits is so important. We hope you enjoy listening to this as much as we enjoyed recording it for you! Recommended reading: Aletha Solter - Tears and Tantrums Aletha Solter - Cooperative and Connected Offerings from us: Marion Why is My Child? Series: https://marionrose.samcart.com/products/why-is-my-child-series/ Powerlessness, Power-over and Power-with in Parenting Masterclass https://marionrose.samcart.com/products/powerlessness-power-over-and-power-with-in-parenting-masterclass/ Making Friends with Children’s Feelings Course http://www.makingfriendswithchildrensfeelings.com/course/ Lael Aware Parenting Immersion: To explore the deeper imprints from our childhoods and how they turn up in our parenting. Aware Parenting for Couples: Coming Soon! You can find all the details at www.laelstone.com.au Please come over to our Facebook page, or find us on Instagram @theawareparentingpodcast You can find Marion at www.marionrose.net and Lael at www.laelstone.com.au And if you haven’t already, would you be like to subscribe to the podcast so we can show up in your podcast feed? We’re sending you much love and compassion in your parenting journey. Marion and Lael xoxo

Episode 46: Parenting is activism
In this episode, we discuss why parenting can be one of the greatest forms of activism. If we realise the power we have as parents and how that can help us reconnect with a sense of agency. Your parenting makes a difference. Your parenting is social change. You are co-creating a new cultural paradigm. We talk about politicians and the little children inside them, and what a huge difference your parenting is making as you choose to come from connection and compassion, instead of powerlessness and pain. This week’s invitation: 1. What have you done differently with your child, that wasn't done or held for you? 2. What do you want your activism in life to look like, especially in your family? Resources Robin Grille - Parenting for a Peaceful World. As always, you can head over to the Aware Parenting Podcast Facebook group and join in the discussion, or you’ll find us on Instagram @theawareparentingpodcast You can find Marion at marionrose.net and Lael at laelstone.com.au And if you haven’t already, make sure you subscribe to the podcast so we can pop into your podcast feed. Sending you much love, compassion and grace in your parenting journey. x Lael and Marion

Episode 45: Teenage edges
In this week's episode we talk all about raising teenagers and the edges they may explore as well the edges we may need to feel into in raising them. We look at how our own imprints in our teenage years can affect how we parent and what teenagers are asking for as they grow. [2.20] How raising teens can ask us to look deeply into our own stories [5.25] The cultural lens around teenagers [8:50] Teenagers finding their purpose [10.42] What are your fears around raising teens? [13.35] What did you need as a teen and can you give that to your children? [17.04] Raising children who have tools to navigate life [20.00] Having difficult conversations around sex and drugs [22.00] Are we placing expectations on our children? [26.40] Trusting teenagers' autonomy and timing [29.40] How do you want you teenager to feel about you and your support? [31.10] Taking a pause when we don’t know how to navigate things [33.00] Our base guide for raising teens This week’s invitation: 1. Do you have a charged phrase around your teen and would you like to listen into where that comes from? 2. What did you need when you were a teen and can you bring that to yourself and your teen? Resources Lael’s course : https://laelstone.com.au/courses/aware-parenting-for-tweens-and-teens/ 8 week Immersion : https://laelstone.com.au/courses/aware-parenting-online-immersion/ As always, you can head over to the Aware Parenting Podcast Facebook group and join in the discussion, or you’ll find us on Instagram @theawareparentingpodcast You can find Marion at marionrose.net and Lael at laelstone.com.au And if you haven’t already, make sure you subscribe to the podcast so we can pop into your podcast feed. Sending you much love, compassion and grace in your parenting journey. x Lael and Marion

Episode 44: Mothering Unveiled
In this week's episode we talk all about mothering, the imprints we receive, and the influence society has on us. We explore guilt in parenting and how we can reclaim who we really are as women and mothers. [2.20] Our subconscious stories around being appreciated as a mother [3.55] The impact of history on modern day mothering [7:00] Our beliefs around being a ‘good mother’ [10.40] Changing the cultural ideas around behaviourism and cooercion [14.15] What do we want our children to believe about themselves? [18.44] Working through the imprints of parenting and parenting with awareness [24.10] Unpacking guilt and our belief around feeling guilty [29.20] Feeling into our true power as mothers [35.00] Being curious about the stories we tell ourselves [36.40] The belief that guilt will make us change [39.40] Listening compassionately to the painful feelings creates change [47.19] Joy and flow, grief and mourning This week’s invitation: 1. If you were free from guilt, what are you scared of happening? 2. What would it feel like to feel a sense of empowerment in your core as a mother? Resources Marion's courses and trainings: Get Free From Guilt For Good: https://marionrose.samcart.com/products/get-free-from-guilt-for-good/ Helping Mothers Develop True Self-Love: https://marionrose.samcart.com/products/helping-mothers-develop-true-self-love/ Love Being a Mother ebook and meditations: http://www.lovebeingamother.net/ebook/ Transformation Through Mothering: new live round coming soon on: http://www.marionrose.net/which-course-is-for-you/ Lael’s course : https://laelstone.com.au/online-courses/ As always, you can head over to the Aware Parenting Podcast Facebook group and join in the discussion, or you’ll find us on Instagram @theawareparentingpodcast You can find Marion at marionrose.net and Lael at laelstone.com.au And if you haven’t already, make sure you subscribe to the podcast so we can pop into your podcast feed. Sending you much love, compassion and grace in your parenting journey. x Lael and Marion

Episode 43: Resilience
In this week's episode we talk all about resilience. We explore how the essence of Aware Parenting is deeply linked with resilience. We talk about how we can help our children become resilient beings, and how we can navigate our past experiences to build resilience within ourselves. [1.42] The definition of resilience [3.15] Our inbuilt mechanism to be resilient [7:00] The old perception of resilience [10.15] Our own imprints around resilience [13.30] Protecting children from hurt [18.04] How we create stories based on our childhood experiences [21.40] The impact of judgement on resilience [25.20] Embracing trust and painful feelings [31.15] Identifying our inner child and repressed feelings [34.03] The empowerment in overcoming challenges [37.05] Trusting timing in our children This week’s invitation: 1. Can you feel in your body the strength and flow (ie. be the Sunflower)? 2. Is there a story in your past where you didn’t feel heard and it created shame or embarrassment and you need support to gain resilience? Resources Aletha Solter's books - Co-operative and Connected and Tears and Tantrums The Resilience Project - https://theresilienceproject.com.au/ As always, you can head over to the Aware Parenting Podcast Facebook group and join in the discussion, or you’ll find us on Instagram @theawareparentingpodcast You can find Marion at marionrose.net and Lael at laelstone.com.au And if you haven’t already, make sure you subscribe to the podcast so we can pop into your podcast feed. Sending you much love, compassion and grace in your parenting journey. x Lael and Marion

Episode 42: Home School
In this week's episode we talk all about learning at home, particularly in the current world climate. This is a special episode, which has 2 parts. In part 1, Marion and Lael discuss the history of education and the bigger picture of learning, and in part 2, Lael chats with Tony Vallance, a seasoned teacher and father who shares many insights into how we can make the most of this connected learning time. [3.07] Modern schooling and the Industrial revolution [6:00] An opportunity to question what we learn and how we learn [8.43] Trusting our children’s learning [12.30] Is our curriculum relevant and does it support our children? [17.04] The impact of learning that doesn’t engage us [23.19] Valuing EQ as much as IQ and creative learning [19.00] The true nature of human beings [26.55] What have your learned about your child by witnessing them learning? [29.10] Supporting teachers and the joy of learning [31.15] Prioritising connection above learning [33.45] Exploring many pathways to success [36.15] Introducing Tony Vallance and his insights into teaching [38.30] Trying to stay present and accept what is [41.40] The wisdom of being curious [43.50] Connection and voice and choice [47.05] How we can get the best from our kids [50.10] Why boredom is so important [52.15] You don’t have to be the teacher [54.40] Tips to navigate all getting our needs met [1.00.20] Modeling mistakes [1.02.20] What is resilience with life and learning? [1.05.40] Get tactile in your learning Resources Peter Gray - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-OMYesA1nQo Sir Ken Robinson - https://www.ted.com/speakers/sir_ken_robinson The Element by Sir Ken Robinson - https://www.amazon.com.au/Element-Finding-Passion-Changes-Everything/dp/0143116738 You can find Tony Vallance at: https://buildingbetterbrains.com.au/ and: https://open.spotify.com/show/5IdHn06GRKgzQ23g3GdCMj?si=93vtizUJSw-qcNdmpoT9oQ As always, you can head over to the Aware Parenting Podcast Facebook group and join in the discussion, or you’ll find us on Instagram @theawareparentingpodcast You can find Marion at marionrose.net and Lael at laelstone.com.au And if you haven’t already, make sure you subscribe to the podcast so we can pop into your podcast feed. Sending you much love, compassion and grace in your parenting journey. x Lael and Marion

Episode 41: Nature and Nurture
In this week's episode we talk all about nature and nurture. We explore the imprints we receive in our childhoods and how we can shift and change what we have been shown, as well as the labels we use for ourselves and others. [2.10] Our tendency to label our children and who they really are [3:00] There is no such thing as perfectly happy humans [6.11] Labelling our children or seeing them as complete [9.00] Looking deeper into why our children are the way they are [13.00] Seeing unexpressed behaviour instead of labels [17.00] Our children reminding us of our past and family members [19.00] The true nature of human beings [24.15] Family lineage and carrying on hurts [27.30] Acknowledging the courage to change the past [33.00] Being the change for our children [35.40] Historical events and core beliefs around our nature [40.50] Doing our work to support our children This week’s invitation: 1. What do you believe your child's true nature is? 2. Do you label your children in any way? Do you also label and limit yourself in any way? As always, you can head over to the Aware Parenting Podcast Facebook group and join in the discussion, or you’ll find us on Instagram @theawareparentingpodcast You can find Marion at marionrose.net and Lael at laelstone.com.au And if you haven’t already, make sure you subscribe to the podcast so we can pop into your podcast feed. Sending you much love, compassion and grace in your parenting journey. x Lael and Marion

Episode 40: Screens
In this week's episode we talk all about screens and how we use them in our families. We explore our own unique relationship with technology and our feelings towards our children and screens. [2.00] Compassion for our relationship towards technology [4:17] How screens can meet our needs [6.01] Repression mechanisms [8.05] Screens can facilitate connection [12.25] The magic of technology [14.03] What we model to our children [16.35] Boundaries, limits and listening to feelings [18.45] Connection as a bridge to transitions [21.25]What stories do we tell ourselves about screens [23.15] Open conversations with our children about screens [30.00] Meeting children needs whilst using technology [32.50] Teaching boredom [34.35] Attachment play to assist with technology [37.40 ] Connection is the antidote to repression [38.35] Holding boundaries and listening to feelings [39.45] Age appropriate movies and information [44.45] Using screens to help us as parents [47.15] Using technology consciously This week’s invitation: 1. What do you make screens mean in your life and with your kids? 2. Can you enquire into guilt around screens and can you use them consciously? Resources https://www.commonsensemedia.org/reviews Marion's Kids, Screens and Aware Parenting Course: http://www.kidsscreensandawareparenting.com/invitation/ As always, you can head over to the Aware Parenting Podcast Facebook group and join in the discussion, or you’ll find us on Instagram @theawareparentingpodcast You can find Marion at marionrose.net and Lael at laelstone.com.au And if you haven’t already, make sure you subscribe to the podcast so we can pop into your podcast feed. Sending you much love, compassion and grace in your parenting journey. x Lael and Marion

Episode 39: "I'm Scared!"
In this week's episode we talk all about fear, and being scared in our current reality. We explore the roots of our fears, and offer ideas for how we can support ourselves and our children. [1.50] Feeling into our own fears [2:50] Fear has an adaptive value [9.00] Understanding our fight, flight, freeze, fawn response [10.05] Breathing techniques for fear [13.00] Welcoming our fear [15.03] Modelling to our children [17.38] Being authentic in our current reality [19.45] Transgenerational fear and trauma [24.10] Fear responding to our needs, the past or our thoughts [28.15] What do we know to be true right now [31.00] Seeing the joy and making choices [34.50] The potential for love through change [36.20] Reaching out for support [39.10 ] Releasing rage and anger that can shift fear [42.20] Tools to help shift fear This week’s invitation: 1. Keep checking in with each other and be mindful of the energy you are bringing to this experience. 2. The more we can release from the past, the more we can stay present now. Resources The Opposite of Worry - https://www.bookdepository.com/Opposite-Worry-Lawrence-J-Cohen/9781452665290 Trauma Release Exercise - https://traumaprevention.com/what-is-tre/ Some joy and laughter (the Pluto dog video we talked about) - https://www.facebook.com/nanciewight/videos/10158289063493653/ Choosing loving energy - https://www.facebook.com/1604597862905560/posts/3016531095045556/?d=n Empathy Buddies / Listening Partnerships - https://www.facebook.com/groups/2562318203992646/ Sessions with Lael - [email protected] Marion's courses - https://www.marionrose.net/which-course-is-for-you/ Marion's 1-1 packages - http://www.marionrose.net/packages/ As always, you can head over to the Aware Parenting Podcast Facebook group and join in the discussion, or you’ll find us on Instagram @theawareparentingpodcast You can find Marion at marionrose.net and Lael at laelstone.com.au And if you haven’t already, make sure you subscribe to the podcast so we can pop into your podcast feed. Sending you much love, compassion and grace in your parenting journey. x Lael and Marion

Episode 38: "I'm Angry!"
In this week's episode we talk all about anger, outrage, aggression and their causes and manifestations. We explore healthy ways to navigate these, both as a parent and within ourselves. [1.20] Differentiating between anger, outrage, and frustration [4:15] The repression of anger and frustration [7.07] Cultural imprints around anger for girls and boys [10.34] How anger can support us [13.40] Staying connected to our power [15.15] Helping children stay connected to their intuition [20.00] Releasing healthy anger [21.45] Holding space for our children's anger [24.20] Doing our own work around anger [29.00] Compassion for ourselves around how we respond to anger [31.00] Feeling, thinking and needing [36.35] Parallels between children and parents [40.00] Meeting children's anger with presence and compassion [44.10 ] The movement and flow of feelings [46.32] What can we do when we have moved into anger [50.20] Setting loving limits for ourselves This week’s invitation: 1. How do you feel right now? Do you need to connect in with yourself or someone else? 2. Can you recall your imprint around anger as a child? Do you know anyone who expresses their anger in a healthy way? Resources: Powerlessness, power-over and power-with in parenting Masterclass: https://marionrose.samcart.com/products/powerlessness-power-over-and-power-with-in-parenting-masterclass/ Power and Powerlessness in Parenting Course: http://www.powerandpowerlessnessinparenting.com/invitation/ As always, you can head over to the Aware Parenting Podcast Facebook group and join in the discussion, or you’ll find us on Instagram @theawareparentingpodcast You can find Marion at marionrose.net and Lael at laelstone.com.au And if you haven’t already, make sure you subscribe to the podcast so we can pop into your podcast feed. Sending you much love, compassion and grace in your parenting journey. x Lael and Marion