
Thats my Time with Tolu Afilaka
35 episodes
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Science, Atheism & Hearing God – Deep Conversation with Pastor Ayo Ajani (Part 2)
How God Really Speaks – No Audible Voice Needed | Pastor Ayo Ajani (Part 2)In this powerful Part 2 conversation, Pastor Ayo Ajani (Senior Pastor of Petra Christian Centre) shares practical and eye-opening wisdom on how God actually speaks to us in everyday life.He explains why many Christians are being led by God but don’t realize it, the danger of waiting for perfect clarity, and how to move forward even when you’re not 100% sure.Pastor Ayo also addresses:How to hear God while living a very busy lifeHandling personal pain and still showing up with faithLiving fully in the moment as a leaderHis strong, intelligent response to atheism and scienceHis honest and balanced take on women in ministryThis episode is filled with clarity, depth, and actionable insight for anyone who wants to grow in hearing God’s voice and walking in purpose. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S3 Ep 5PASTOR AYO AJANI: Why Gifted People Still Fail Pt1
Pastor Ayo Ajani: The Brutal Truth About Work Ethic Most Christians IgnoreSenior Pastor of Petra Christian Centre and one of Africa’s most charismatic faith teachers opens up like never before.In this powerful long-overdue conversation, Pastor Ayo Ajani shares raw wisdom on faith, leadership, family, and the seasons of life. From his dramatic journey growing up in a Muslim home to becoming a globally respected pastor, he reveals the hard truths about discipline, vision, and why many gifted young people still fail.Pastor Ayo Ajani explains:Why most people waste their best years and how to stop itThe dangerous cost of relying on talent without structure and systemsHow to build real work ethic that lasts in a distracted worldThe power of vision and why seasons in life are unforgivingWhy love is the most powerful force for genuine changeHow to balance family, marriage, and high-demand ministry without burnoutThe biggest mistake Gen Z is making with their gifts and potentialWhy he’s never afraid to start all over again (Lagos → Abuja → Lagos)What true success really means (it’s not buildings, money or fame)Biblical divine direction for purpose, career, marriage and callingHonest thoughts on honor, questions, and the generation gapThis is Part 1 of a powerful two-part conversation. Part 2 drops soon.👉 Drop your biggest takeaway in the comments below!Which part spoke to you the most — the work ethic, the Gen Z advice, or the story of starting over?🔔 Turn on notifications so you don’t miss Part 2.Connect with Pastor Ayo AjaniInstagram: @officialayoajaniYouTube: Search “Pastor Ayo Ajani” or Petra Christian CentreFollow the host: Tolu Afilaka (@toluafilakaa) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S3 Ep 5#27 - Gloria Babarinde : Communication Expert From Loss to Confidence & Finding Your Voice
In this powerful episode, Gloria Baba opens up about her journey through fear, faith, loss, and transformation. From conquering public speaking anxiety to navigating marriage, career shifts, and deep personal grief, this conversation delivers raw insight and practical wisdom.You’ll hear how life’s toughest moments can shape purpose, how to rebuild after loss, and what it takes to grow a personal brand while staying true to yourself. This episode is for anyone seeking strength, clarity, and direction in the middle of life’s transitions.What you’ll gain:• Confidence in public speaking and self-expression• Lessons on marriage, growth, and identity• Strength through grief and personal loss• Guidance on building and rebranding your personal brand• Inspiration to pursue purpose beyond setbacks Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S3 Ep 4#26 - AYO AKINOLA : on PiggyVest, Sales Psychology, and Why Most Businesses Don’t Convert
In this episode with Tolu Afilaka, Ayo Akinola, co-founder of PiggyVest and CEO of PocketApp, shares the real lessons behind building one of Nigeria’s most trusted fintech companies.This is not just a startup success story. It is a conversation about failure, trust, team dynamics, mentorship, relationships, sales, consumer psychology, and what it really takes to build a business that Nigerians believe in.Ayo reflects on the early years before PiggyVest, the failed ventures that shaped his thinking, the co-founder relationships that kept the team going, and the role mentorship played in helping them navigate regulation, uncertainty, and growth.He also explains why PiggyVest’s biggest edge was not just technology, but trust, transparency, and relatability, and how understanding how Nigerians think about money became central to the product’s success.The conversation expands into PocketApp, pricing, packaging, sales, marriage, family support, and how founders can think more clearly about business growth.In this episode:Why growth mindset and environment matter in businessThe role of mentors in navigating business and relationshipsHow Ayo thought about marriage, friendship, and choosing a partnerThe support and tension that came from family while buildingHow PiggyVest measured success in the early yearsWhy trust became the real unique selling pointThe thinking behind PocketApp and how it complements PiggyVestWhy many businesses have a selling problem, not a product problemWhat Nigerians really respond to when they spend moneyWhy packaging, pricing, visibility, and relatability matter in salesAyo’s advice for creators, founders, and anyone trying to grow a productIf you are building a startup, growing a brand, or trying to understand how successful Nigerian businesses are built, this episode is packed with practical insight. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S3 Ep 3#25 - Laju Iren: Apostle Iren's Influence, Faith-Driven Films & The Making of ONOBIREN
Tolu sits down with Laju Iren, a filmmaker with a passion for creating impactful and faith-driven films. Together, they delve into Laju’s childhood, artistic beginnings, and how her faith plays a pivotal role in her filmmaking process. From her early life to her journey as a filmmaker, this episode provides an intimate look at her story. The episode also covers Laju’s new project ONOBIREN, a Christian film that's set to break new ground in the industry.Episode Breakdown:00:00:00 – Unveiling Laju Iren's Faith-Driven Filmmaking Principles The episode kicks off with Laju sharing her core principles that guide her filmmaking. Faith-driven and intentional, her approach aims to blend deep storytelling with Christian values.00:02:08 – Laju Iren’s Childhood, Family, and Artistic Beginnings Laju opens up about her upbringing, family influences, and how her artistic inclinations took root at an early age. This section sets the stage for understanding the foundation of her creative journey.00:08:24 – Why Laju Iren Prefers Directing Over Acting In this segment, Laju reflects on her experiences with both acting and directing. She reveals why directing speaks to her soul more deeply and how it allows her to tell the stories that truly matter.00:10:48 – Laju Iren’s University Life and Career Shifts Laju shares how her university years shaped her career decisions, including the turning point when she transitioned from other paths to filmmaking. The story behind this shift sheds light on her true calling.00:16:34 – Laju Iren’s Evolution from Blogger to Filmmaker A fascinating segment about Laju’s journey from being a successful blogger to becoming a full-fledged filmmaker. Her evolution highlights the importance of embracing new opportunities and staying true to one’s creative instincts.00:19:18 – Unpacking 'ONOBIREN' and Laju’s Foundational Faith Laju takes us behind the scenes of ONOBIREN, unpacking its themes, vision, and how her foundational faith is woven into the fabric of the film. She discusses the challenges and triumphs of bringing this project to life.00:21:46 – Insights into Apostle Iren’s Work Ethic and Character Laju opens up about her relationship with her father, Apostle Iren, and the lessons she’s learned from his work ethic and character. This section provides an intimate look at how family and faith are intertwined in her professional life.00:30:15 – Laju Iren’s Vision for Relatable Christian Films Laju shares her vision for Christian films that resonate with people from all walks of life. She discusses how faith-based films can break barriers and speak to a broader audience without compromising on their message.00:39:42 – What to Expect from the Artistically Excellent 'ONOBIREN' A sneak peek into ONOBIREN, with Laju offering insights into what audiences can expect from this groundbreaking project. The artistic vision and attention to detail make this a must-watch for fans of Christian cinema.00:44:30 – Navigating the Business and Challenges of Christian Films Laju dives into the business side of filmmaking, including the unique challenges faced by Christian filmmakers. She provides valuable advice on navigating the industry's complexities while staying true to one’s creative and faith-driven values.00:51:25 – How to Champion and Support Christian Storytelling In the final segment, Laju shares actionable advice on how individuals and organizations can support Christian storytelling. She calls on others to join the movement and champion films that inspire faith, hope, and change in society.Laju Iren, ONOBIREN, Christian Filmmaking, Filmmaking Principles, Faith and Film, Tolu Afilaka, Apostle Iren, Christian Cinema, Storytelling, Filmmaker Interviews, Inspirational Films, Filmmaking Journey, Behind the Scenes Filmmaking Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S3 Ep 2#24 - KEMI OYEDEPO: The Secrets Behind a Perfect Marriage, Faith, and Family Life with Pastor David Oyedepo Jnr
In this in-depth conversation on That’s My Time Podcast, Dr. Kemi Oyedepo, the wife of Pastor David Oyedepo Jnr. (son of Bishop David Oyedepo), opens up about her remarkable journey. From growing up in Zimbabwe as a diplomat’s daughter and her international travels, to finding love with Pastor David Oyedepo Jnr., their story is full of faith, perseverance, and incredible experiences.In this episode, Dr. Kemi shares the struggles with low self-esteem, how she found her true purpose in Christ, and how she met Pastor David. She reveals her transition into the Oyedepo family and how she prepared herself to be a pastor's wife at a young age. From overcoming witchcraft attacks in the Winner’s Chapel UK Church to facing media scrutiny, Dr. Kemi discusses the challenges of being in the public eye and her journey of faith through it all.She opens up about her personal life, including her weight loss journey, the importance of physical and spiritual fitness, and her thoughts on Christian marriage. From communication in marriage to divorce, Dr. Kemi shares her wisdom on how couples can thrive in their relationships with God at the center. The episode touches on practical advice for inter-tribal marriages, family dynamics, and much more.Tune in to hear Dr. Kemi’s heartwarming story, as she discusses family, faith, and life as a high-profile pastor’s wife.#DrKemiOyedepo #PastorDavidOyedepoJnr #BishopDavidOyedepo #MarriageAndFaith #PastorsWife #ChristianMarriage #ChristianLife #FaithJourney #WomensHealth #RelationshipGoals #CommunicationInMarriage #SpiritualGrowth #WeightLossJourney #InterTribalMarriages #DivorceIsNotAnOption #RelationshipAdvice #FamilyWisdom #WifeGoals #LoveAndMarriage #PowerCouple #LifeInMinistryDr. Kemi Oyedepo, Pastor David Oyedepo Jnr, Bishop David Oyedepo, relationship advice, Christian marriage, pastors wife life, weight loss journey, faith journey, communication in marriage, marriage is for life, inter-tribal marriages, family and faith, relationship struggles, marriage counseling, marriage tips, divorce in Christianity, family wisdom, life as a pastor's wife, relationship red flags, spiritual fitness, health and marriage, overcoming witchcraft in church Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S3 Ep 1#23 - Government Uses Religion to Control People” 2 Former Christians Clash Over History, Power, and Faith
In this episode of That’s My Time Podcast, Tolu Afilaka hosts a deep, no-holds-barred conversation with guests from different belief systems. The discussion moves from Chioma’s experiences of spiritual sensitivity and her connection to water, to portals, altars, and why blood magic is rejected. The table debates whether Jesus is the only way, the role of religion in power and control, and how people hide traditional practices while still attending church. From there it goes into God’s nature, Noah’s flood, “we are gods,” reincarnation, Ogbanje, Akashic records, and dreams that leave marks. A tense section follows on T.B. Joshua and SCOAN, deliverance, fear, and prayer water. The final stretch challenges listeners with words as spells, psalms as spell words, money and protection psalms, return to sender, hellfire, and the idea that love is the real solution. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S2 Ep 22#22 - The #1 Thing You Must Do NOW to Change Your Life in 2026 ft OluwaTunmise & Adeppoju
In this heartfelt Christmas special episode of That’s My Time Podcast, Tolu Afilaka sits with Tunmise and Adepoju for an honest, soul-searching conversation about faith, devotion, and the realities of walking with God in 2025.This episode is not about perfection. It is about process.Tunmise reflects on a faith journey rooted in her youth and shaped by intentional growth, personal encounters with God, and a genuine hunger for intimacy with Him. She shares how her devotion evolved beyond routine into a lived, experiential relationship built on understanding and surrender.Adepoju opens up about the highs and lows of his Christian walk, revealing how ministry, service, and life pressures tested and refined his faith. He speaks candidly about balancing responsibility with relationship, navigating seasons of distance, and finding strength in God through uncertainty.Together, they explore what it truly means to reconnect with God after spiritual burnout, how to heal from church hurt, and why structured scripture study, prayer, and community are essential for spiritual renewal. The conversation also challenges listeners to reflect deeply on one defining questionWho is Jesus to you really?This episode doubles as a Christmas reflection and a 2025 spiritual wrap up, offering listeners a moment to pause, reset, and realign their hearts for the year ahead.If you are questioning, rebuilding, or seeking a deeper walk with God, this conversation will meet you exactly where you are.TIMESTAMPS00:00 – 01:30 Introduction02:27 – 16:15 Tunmise’s Christian walk in 202516:15 – 22:35 Adepoju’s Christian walk in 202522:35 – 25:31 Tolu Afilaka’s Christian walk in 202525:31 – 27:07 Having people praying for you27:07 – 34:57 Stirring up devotion with God34:57 – 50:45 Prayer life and relationship with God50:45 – 1:11:06 Who is Jesus to you#ThatsMyTimePodcast#ToluAfilaka#ChristianPodcast#FaithJourney#WalkingWithGod#christianlife Christian podcast, That’s My Time Podcast, Tolu Afilaka, Christmas special podcast, faith in 2025, Christian walk 2025, walking with God, knowing Jesus, relationship with God, prayer life, devotion to God, spiritual growth, faith journey, Christian youth podcast, Nigerian Christian podcast, church hurt healing, spiritual burnout recovery, reconnecting with God, Christian conversations, prayer and scripture study, devotional podcast, Christian reflection, Christmas faith reflection, 2025 spiritual wrap up, personal faith stories, Christian lifestyle podcast, ministry and faith balance, rebuilding faith, intimacy with God, Jesus Christ discussion, prayer community, Christian mental and spiritual health, end of year faith reflection, Christian growth podcast, faith based conversations Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S2 Ep 21#21 - Olushola Olaleye: The Silent Pressure Men Face, Emotional Maturity, and Why Purpose-Driven Leadership is Essential for Success in 2025 and Beyond
In this deeply introspective and emotionally charged episode of That’s My Time Podcast, Tolu Afilaka sits with Olushola Olaleye for a profound conversation about masculinity, vulnerability, spiritual responsibility, success, pain, leadership, and the silent emotional battles men fight daily.From the first moment, it becomes clear that this episode is not entertainment it's therapy, mentorship, and revelation wrapped into one. Whether you’re a man trying to understand yourself or a woman trying to understand men, this conversation will shift your mindset forever.Olushola Olaleye takes us through the story of his calling, the spiritual nudges that shaped him, and the mentorship of Pastor Emmanuel Iren that grounded and refined his purpose. He speaks openly about his mother’s sacrifice after losing his father, the humility she instilled, and how her resilience became the foundation of his emotional and spiritual maturity.This episode explores childhood wounds, the pressure of parental expectations, how success is actually maintained, and why self-leadership not talent—is the true mark of greatness. We dive into masculinity, male emotional repression, why men struggle to open up, and the staggering reality of suicide among men worldwide.The conversation goes deeper into relationships, marriage preparation, adulthood, societal pressure, and the burden many African men carry. Pastor Olaleye confronts cultural misconceptions, unlearning toxic masculinity, empathy for men, and how emotional maturity is essential for building healthy homes.We also touch on AI’s disruption of jobs, what young Nigerians need to survive the future, and the kind of leadership he would implement if he were president.This episode is raw, insightful, confronting, and healing. Share it with every man and every woman who loves a man.TIMESTAMPS 00:00 – 15:00 The Calling, The Presence & Early Spiritual Nudges• Introduction to Pastor Olushola Olaleye• Tolu reflects on his grace, presence, and spiritual weight• How Olaleye knew he was called from childhood15:00 – 30:00 | Childhood Pain, His Mother’s Strength & Foundations of Masculinity• Losing his father and watching his mother carry the family• Lessons of humility, tenderness, compassion• How pain shaped his emotional intelligence• Accepting spiritual responsibility early• How upbringing prepared him for deeper leadership• The moment he realized he was born different30:00 – 45:00 | Convincing Parents, Building Track Record & Understanding Real Success• How to make your parents trust your choices• Why many young adults fail at communicating with parents• Track record: the language parents understand45:00 – 60:00 | Male Vulnerability, Emotional Repression & Suicide Awareness• Where men’s emotional pain comes from• Why the pain of men is invisible in society• Emotional maturity: can women handle the truth?• Why we MUST be kinder to men• Men vs women: emotional processing differences• SLK being underrated & men who feel unseen• Why men should cry more—even if not as much as women1:00:00 – 1:39:00 | Brotherhood, Marriage Pressure, AI Disruption & Hope for Nigeria• Why every man needs a brotherhood circle• What it means to “chest" things as a man• Teasing SLK about never dating• Financial pressure of marriage preparation for men• How to prepare for marriage the smart way• Major on the minor: principles for adulthood• AI disruption and job loss—how to survive it• Why AI is about knowledge application• Is there hope for Nigeria?• What Pastor Olaleye would do if he were president• Final thoughts & blessingsQUESTION FOR YOU:What’s the most misunderstood thing about men today?Comment below we read everything.If you found this powerful, LIKE, SHARE & SUBSCRIBE.Turn on notifications for weekly conversations that shift your mindset.mens mental health, emotional maturity, masculinity podcast, self leadership, AI and future of work, purpose and calling#PastorOlaleye#MensMentalHealth#Masculinity2025#NigerianPodcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S2 Ep 20#20 - The RAPTURE Is Closer Than You Think | Ebuka Mic on God’s Judgment, Prosperity & the Last Days
In this gripping continuation of That’s My Time Podcast, host Tolu Afilaka and co-host Daeola sit down once again with the dynamic Ebuka Mic, comedian and youth pastor at Christ Embassy, for a conversation that delves deep into the heart of the Christian faith, spirituality, and the power of the Holy Spirit.In this second part of their conversation, Ebuka takes us on a journey through powerful themes of judgment, spiritual maturity, and the truth about prosperity. He challenges listeners to reflect on the deep complexities of Christian life, touching on topics that often get overlooked or misrepresented. Ebuka shares his thoughts on why Christians should never judge men of God, emphasizing the fact that God’s anointed cannot be touched by mere humans. He uses powerful examples, including the words of Papa Adeboye, to remind us that there is a higher divine system of justice at play. This part of the conversation will leave you reflecting on the maturity needed to understand God’s judgment and what it means to truly walk in faith.Ebuka also tackles the issue of the victim mindset, a mentality that holds many Christians back from experiencing true spiritual freedom. He encourages believers to reject the mindset of being a victim and reminds us all that everything is working for our good – even the challenges and struggles. As he discusses the importance of choosing God over personal losses, Ebuka inspires us to see our lives through the lens of divine purpose, showing us how even the most difficult circumstances can be opportunities for growth and transformation.As the conversation moves forward, Ebuka dives into the topic of prosperity and the dangers of materialism. He shares his thoughts on what it means to walk in dominion and how prosperity isn’t just about accumulating wealth, but about reflecting God’s glory in every area of life. He talks about his own experiences, including how his father was arrested and later released by Obasanjo with just a letter – a powerful example of divine intervention. Ebuka urges listeners to rethink the prosperity gospel and to focus instead on the glory that manifests on the inside – a glory that brings true transformation, not just temporary material success.The episode also takes a personal turn as Ebuka opens up about the challenges and experiences of the comedy industry. He talks about why it’s essential for comedians to create structure and make bold statements with their work, giving advice to those who are called to ministry in the entertainment world. He also shares his proudest moments in comedy and how he uses his platform to impact lives in a meaningful way.Finally, the discussion turns to the much-debated topic of the rapture and the end times. Ebuka shares his thoughts on whether Jesus’ return is imminent and reflects on significant global events, like Queen Elizabeth’s death, and their potential connection to biblical prophecies. This conversation will make you think deeply about the trajectory of the world and your role in preparing for the coming of the Lord.This episode isn’t just for pastors or churchgoers—it’s for anyone who wants to understand the deeper meanings of faith, calling, and how to live with purpose. Whether you’re questioning your place in the world or seeking to live a more impactful life, Ebuka Mic’s powerful insights and bold statements will inspire you to examine your relationship with God and your mission on earth. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S2 Ep 17#19 - Ebuka Mic Unfiltered: Navigating Controversy in Gospel Music & The Burden for souls
In this powerful and spirit-filled episode of That’s My Time Podcast, host Tolu Afilaka and co-host Daeola welcome back Ebuka Mic — comedian, youth pastor at Christ Embassy, and passionate soul winner — for a raw, convicting, and transformative conversation about evangelism, the Holy Spirit, and the true heart of ministry.Ebuka opens up about his divine burden for souls and the encounters that have shaped his ministry — from reaching drug addicts to leading cultists to Christ. With unfiltered honesty, he shares how the cry of people should move every believer, and why if you’re not preaching, you may not truly believe.This episode dives deep into what it means to be filled with the Holy Ghost, to walk in boldness, and to live a life fully surrendered to God’s call. Ebuka confronts the misconceptions around ministry, challenges the culture of commercialization in the church, and reminds believers that ministry isn’t about fame — it’s about sacrifice and transformation.Together, Tolu, Daeola, and Ebuka unpack vital questions:Should Christians charge gate fees for ministry events?Why do we have “gospel musicians” but not “gospel doctors”?What’s the difference between success with men and success with God?How can worship stay rooted in reverence, not just vibes?From deliverance stories to revelations about purpose, calling, and obedience, this conversation will stir your faith and reignite your passion for the gospel. Whether you’re a pastor, creative, or believer, you’ll be reminded that ministry begins with compassion — and ends with transformation.Guest: Ebuka Mic — Comedian, Youth Pastor (Christ Embassy) 📸 Instagram: @ebuka_micHosts: Tolu Afilaka — @toluafilaka Daeola — @daeola🎧 Tune in, be stirred, and share with someone who needs this truth.#EbukaMicOn #PastorChrisOyakhilome #ChristEmbassy #SoulWinning #Evangelism #ChristianFaith #HolySpirit #PurposeAndCalling #MinistryNotMerchandise #ChristianPodcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S2 Ep 18#18 - The Hidden PAINS Behind Nollywood’s $6.4B Movie Industry | Olumide Oworu, Treasure Chikwendu, Adegoke Adelusi
In this unfiltered and powerful episode of That’s My Time Podcast, host Tolu Afilaka sits down with Nollywood stars Olumide Oworu, Treasure Chikwendu, and Adegoke Adelusi for a raw, inspiring, and eye-opening conversation about acting, fame, Nollywood’s billion-dollar growth, the painful truth about auditions, stage vs screen performance, and the future of Nigerian cinema.From Olumide’s journey as a child star at 6, to Treasure’s breakout role as Ujunwa in Showmax’s Chet’M, to Goke’s classical theatre training at Covenant University, this episode goes beyond the surface to reveal the untold truths of Nollywood — the discipline, sacrifice, hustle, and resilience it takes to survive in an industry worth over $6 billion yet still struggling with structure and protection for its actors.If you’re passionate about film, theatre, auditions, Nollywood storytelling, acting careers, or the grind behind the glam, this episode will challenge your perspective and give you insider knowledge from three actors who live it daily.⏰ Timestamps & Topics00:00 – 05:50 – Olumide the Child StarHow Olumide Oworu became a successful child actor at 6, starting with jingles, radio commercials, and Nollywood auditions. He reflects on balancing school, fame, and childhood — and why being in front of the camera felt natural.05:51 – 15:00 – First Acting BreaksTreasure Chikwendu recalls her first audition and how her cousin led her into acting. She relives the intensity of her first stage role where she almost fainted, and why stage acting demands endurance. Goke explains how theatre shaped him, the importance of training, and why “less is more” on screen.15:01 – 22:00 – Nollywood Then vs NowThe trio compare Nollywood’s early days with today’s billion-dollar market. They discuss improvements in production quality, but ongoing issues with weak storylines. They debate cinema culture, the beef between old and new Nollywood generations, and what audiences now demand.1:05:01 – 1:14:00 – Life Beyond ActingOlumide talks about overworking himself, only taking his first vacation in 2024, and how fame comes with hidden sacrifices. Goke stresses the importance of balance, finding purpose outside acting, and building a life not solely defined by roles.1:14:01 – End – Politics, Legacy & Giving FlowersOlumide shares his interest in politics and the challenges of balancing public service with acting. The trio discuss why Nollywood actors must give each other flowers while alive, and the kind of legacy they want to leave. 🎤 GuestsOlumide Oworu — Nollywood actor (The Johnsons, A Tribe Called Judah, Shuga), model & politician.Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/olumideoworu/Treasure Chikwendu — Actress, known for her breakout role as Ujunwa in ChetaM on Showmax.Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_threashure/Adegoke Adelusi — Thespian, stage & film actor, Covenant University graduate with strong theatre background.Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/goke___/🎙 HostsTolu Afilaka — Host of That’s My Time PodcastInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/toluafilaka/#OlumideOworu #TreasureChikwendu #AdegokeAdelusi #Nollywood #That’sMyTimePodcast #NollywoodActors #ChildActor #TheJohnsons #ChetM #ATribeCalledJudah #StageVsScreen #AuditionStories #FilmSchool #NollywoodNow #ActingJourney #BehindTheScenes #NigeriaCinema #ActorLife #NollywoodLegends Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S2 Ep 17#17 - Pastor Lokachi on Purpose, Sexual Purity & Singlehood | Pastor Iren & Celebration Church
In this powerful episode of That’s My Time Podcast, host Tolu Afilaka and co-host Daeola sit down with Pastor Lokachi of Celebration Church International (CCI) for a raw and inspiring conversation on purpose, purity, singlehood, relationships, honor, and spiritual growth.From his remarkable story of being a stillborn baby resuscitated through prayer, to discovering his calling to ministry as early as Primary 1, Pastor Lokachi shares how passion can point to purpose and how God redirected his journey even after facing rejection at Covenant University.We dive into real issues many Christians wrestle with today:Purpose & Passion: How to discover what God has called you to do.Spiritual Fathers vs Idolatry: The “Daddy” culture at Celebration Church and how Pastor Emmanuel Iren shaped his walk.Church Culture & Gen Z Faith: From Christ Embassy to Celebration Church, and dealing with slangs like “Christocentric Baddie.”Singleness, Love & Sexual Purity: Why love isn’t only logical, enjoying singlehood, and whether Christians should be on dating apps.Money & Ministry: Should music ministers be paid? How to balance God and mammon.Accountability & Friendship: The role of friends in calling out bad behavior and helping pastors through depression.This episode isn’t just about theology — it’s about living out faith in real life. Whether it’s setting high Christian standards, navigating ups and downs in devotion, or enjoying relationships the right way, Pastor Lokachi’s story will inspire you to walk in purpose with purity and confidence.🎧 Don’t just listen — join the conversation in the comments. Share your thoughts on dating apps for Christians, spiritual fatherhood, or singleness in today’s culture.00:00 Intro – Is Pastor Lokachi single?06:58 Stillborn story & early calling to ministry15:12 Idolizing men of God vs real honor18:25 Encounter with Pastor Iren & transition to CCI25:01 Gen-Z church slangs: “Christocentric baddie”30:15 High Christian standards & spiritual growth37:55 Depression, accountability & friendship45:28 Love, relationships & enjoying singlehood1:05:12 Should Christians be on dating apps?1:09:40 Should music ministers be paid? God vs mammon1:14:10 Sexual sin & the value of friendshipGuestPastor Lokachi — Celebration Church InternationalInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thelokachi/HostsTolu Afilaka — Host of That’s My Time PodcastInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/toluafilaka/Daeola — Co-hostInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/daeola/ If you loved this conversation, hit LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and SHARE this episode with a friend who needs clarity on purpose, purity, and relationships.Drop your thoughts in the comments: Should Christians use dating apps in 2025?#PastorLokachi #PastorIren #CelebrationChurch #ChristianPodcast #ThatsMyTimePodcast #Purpose #SexualPurity #Singlehood #ChristianRelationships #ChristianFaith #ChristianDating #RealHonor #FaithAndCulture Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S2 Ep 7#16 - How Meshkiey Broke Through in Nigeria’s ₦50 Billion Skit Industry: From Loss to Purpose
Meshkiey lost his dad and turned that pain into purpose. In this unfiltered conversation, he breaks down how he found his voice, built momentum while keeping a 9–5, and carved a lane in Nigeria’s ₦50 billion skit industry. We cover idea generation, characters, the money math behind skits, handling hate, faith, family, and the move toward film. If you’re a creator trying to grow without the hype, this is the blueprint.What you’ll learn:• Skits vs stand-up: why he chose short-form and how he writes fast• The creative system: characters, sourcing ideas, weekly workflow• Money talk: revenue streams, rates, and what actually pays• Mental game: handling comments, staying underrated, consistency• Life behind the lens: losing his dad, healing, work–faith balance• Next moves: films, judging videos, and long-form strategyChapters:00:00 Why skits, not stand-up; the early style10:00 Films next, is there money in skits, keeping a 9–5, social-media drama20:00 Faith, loss, working in a restaurant, living with ulcer, isolation and healing30:00 Name origin, getting into skits, how he judges videos, closing lessonsIf this helped, subscribe for creator-grade interviews every week. Comment “Meshkiey” if you want the notes and resource list, and I’ll send them.Links:• Watch more episodes: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FDQV1oFep7I&list=PLUQKZaVlpq4l2Thtevz-CTWWcaPa4FDfb&pp=gAQB• Follow Meshkiey: https://www.instagram.com/meshkiey/• Follow Tolu Afilaka: https://www.instagram.com/p/DOx9ioECMqS/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S2 Ep 6#015 - ADULTING 101: Real Talk on Relationships, Lagos Hustle & Growing Up
🎙️ EPISODE 4 – ADULTING 101: Real Talk on Relationships, Lagos Hustle & Growing UpIn this deeply personal and hilarious episode of That’s My Time, I’m joined by three amazing guests who represent different parts of my journey:Modupe Cole – my cousin, whom I haven’t seen in 18 years!Increase – my university classmate from our Civil Engineering days.Favour Nelson – a top productivity expert with gems for navigating life and work.Together, we dive into what no one really prepares you for — ADULTING. From choosing where to live (Kwara vs Lagos), to food struggles, navigating NYSC, dating in your 20s, and figuring out if work-life balance is even real — this episode is a raw and relatable look at growing up in Nigeria.We talked about:The shock of responsibilities and managing life aloneMaking important life decisions, including relationships and marriageMy cousin dating my close friend 😅The painful lessons I learned in a past relationshipHow many kids we each want 😂Lagos traffic and housing madnessModupe’s inspiring entrepreneurship journey with her crocheting businessIf gospel artistes should charge for ministrationOur future plans, personal growth, and moreIt’s funny, emotional, honest, and full of life lessons you didn’t know you needed. Whether you're 18, 25, or 30+, you’ll find yourself in this episode.📌 Timestamps: 0:00 – Intro 2:00 – The struggles of adulting 10:00 – Family, relationships & unexpected confessions 20:00 – NYSC, work-life chaos & productivity 35:00 – Entrepreneurship as a young Nigerian 41:00 – Gospel music, controversy & future plans 47:00 – Outro & final thoughts💬 Drop a comment – What’s been your biggest shock about adulthood? 📢 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and turn on the notification bell for more real, raw and refreshing conversations!📌 Follow us on Instagram for BTS & more: @ThatsMyTimePodcast | @ToluAfilaka#Adulting101 #NigerianPodcast #ModupeCole #LagosLife #That’sMyTime #WorkLifeBalance #FavourNelson #GospelArtistes #LifeTalk #CrochetBusiness #NYSC #Relationships #ToluAfilaka Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S2 Ep 5#014 - The SPEC Debate: What Do Men Really Want? (MEN'S MENTAL HEALTH SPECIAL)
Welcome back to another explosive episode of That’s My Time Podcast with your host Tolu Afilaka and i have my amazing brothers — Increase, AYK, Awa Victor, Fulfillment, and Gini.In honor of Men's Mental Health Awareness Month, we went all in: from relationship standards, cheating, ego, money, and masculinity, to how men really process emotions. You don’t want to miss this honest, funny, and at times, very raw conversation.📍 Timestamps & Topics Breakdown:00:00 - Intro & Welcome02:00 - Should a Christian Man Have a Spec?We debate the "spec" culture — what kind of women each of us actually like.Gini drops his love for deep conversations.Increase opens up about how his girlfriend wasn’t originally his "spec".Fulfillment wants good English + pedigree.Awa Victor and Gini clash with hilarious disagreements.Fulfillment drops: "What happens to the dumb babes?"Gini: "I like to feel underrated and then get the babe."20:00 - Hot Seat: Cheating, Forgiveness & LoyaltyFulfillment gets grilled on the hot seat!Gini breaks down why your girlfriend shouldn't stop you from finding your wife 😮.Tolu explains why cheating is never okay.AYK declares: "I don’t even have the capacity to cheat."The panel explores the question: Should cheaters be forgiven?Tolu shares his own real-life cheating temptation story.Awa drops deep relationship wisdom.40:00 - When The Lady Initiates CheatingAwa Victor shares powerful wisdom on how men should handle cheating temptations.Tolu reports his cheating experience to Ebuka Mic.Should men give women money? What happens when a lady asks for wig money?Fulfillment shares his story about dating a celebrity's daughter.The crew discusses men’s ego, finances and how "money makes love sweeter."60:00 - Outro & Final Gems👉 LIKE | COMMENT | SUBSCRIBE | SHAREThis is one of the most REAL, UNSCRIPTED, and POWERFUL episodes on men’s struggles, relationships and navigating love in today’s world.#MensMentalHealth #RelationshipPodcast #BlackMenTalk #ChristianDating #PodcastAfrica #ThatIsMyTimePodcast #MenTalkReal #ThinkLikeAMan #LoveAndEgo #CheatingCulture #MasculinityIn2025 #ViralPodcast #NigerianPodcast #DatingPodcast #ModernLove #HotSeatPodcast #RelationshipAdvice #ThatsMyTimePodcast #MensMentalHealth #MensMentalAwarenessMonth #ThinkLikeAMan #ChristianDating #RelationshipPodcast #BlackMenTalk #PodcastDrama #HotSeatPodcast #RelationshipAdvice #LoveAndMoney #ForgivingCheating #ModernMasculinity #AfricanPodcast #NigerianPodcast #MoneyMakesLoveSweeter #MenTalkReal #RealTalkPodcast #DatingAdviceForMen #ViralPodcast #PodcastClips #LoveAndEgofemi lazarus, Bola Tinubu appointments 2025NDIC new MD Oludare SundayUniversity Governing Council reshuffleMinimum wage increase Nigeria 2025AMVCA 2025 winnersDavido & Chioma wedding 2025 rumors (this one's always hot 🔥)Wizkid new album 2025BBNaija 2025 housematesSuper Eagles World Cup Qualifiers 2025Victor Osimhen transfer newsAFCON 2025 qualifiersEPL fixtures Nigeria timeTikTok Nigeria trendsNigerian skit makers 2025NaijaNoDeyCarryLastFunny TikTok audios Nigeria 2025Property prices in Lagos 2025Lekki new estate projects 2025How to start real estate business in Nigeria 2025JAMB results 2025WAEC 2025 answers (trust Nigerians 😅)Scholarships for Nigerians 2025Study visa Canada, UK, USA 2025 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S2 Ep 4#013- Joshua’s Back for Q&A! — Once Saved Always Saved? Tithing, Justification by Faith & Tower of Babel Mystery
Once Saved Always Saved? Tithing? Prosperity Gospel? Speaking in Tongues? We answer the BIG questions Christians are searching for right now.In this powerful episode of That’s My Time Podcast (Season 2, Episode 4), Joshua Tanimowo (@jay_posi) returns for a no-holds-barred Q&A on salvation, giving, spiritual warfare, prosperity gospel, mental health, and deep biblical truth.🎯 We break down:Is "Once Saved Always Saved" really biblical?What the Bible says about tithing (Old Testament vs New Testament)The truth behind the prosperity gospel teachingSpeaking in tongues: Is it proof of salvation?Justification by faith vs worksHow Abraham’s faith shows God’s graceThe Tower of Babel, tongues, and the language of heavenDemon possession vs oppressionWhy some prophecies failMental health & trauma inside the church💡 Key Bible topics covered:Hebrews 7Romans 4Genesis 12John 10:282 Corinthians 5:19PLUS: Healing testimonies, spiritual trauma recovery, and practical advice for growing in faith.👉 If you're tired of confusing theology and want to hear biblical teaching on salvation, tithing, prosperity, speaking in tongues, and Christian mental health — THIS IS FOR YOU.✅ Subscribe✅ Share with a friend✅ Comment your questions below🎙 Host: Tolu Afilaka (@toluafilaka)🎙 Guest: Joshua Tanimowo (@jay_posi)#OnceSavedAlwaysSaved #Tithing #ProsperityGospel #SpeakingInTongues #ChristianPodcast #BibleStudy #Faith #SpiritualWarfare #MentalHealth #Healing #JustificationByFaith #Salvation #ThatsMyTimePodcastWhat now with trevor noah, loose talk, i said what i said, so nigerian podcast, to my sisters,road to 30, modern wisdom, blackflame pod, toni told me, i get gist for you, menism,femi lazarus, Bola Tinubu appointments 2025NDIC new MD Oludare SundayUniversity Governing Council reshuffleMinimum wage increase Nigeria 2025AMVCA 2025 winnersDavido & Chioma wedding 2025 rumors (this one's always hot 🔥)Wizkid new album 2025BBNaija 2025 housematesSuper Eagles World Cup Qualifiers 2025Victor Osimhen transfer newsAFCON 2025 qualifiersEPL fixtures Nigeria timeTikTok Nigeria trendsNigerian skit makers 2025NaijaNoDeyCarryLastFunny TikTok audios Nigeria 2025Property prices in Lagos 2025Lekki new estate projects 2025Abuja land salesHow to start real estate business in Nigeria 2025JAMB results 2025WAEC 2025 answers (trust Nigerians 😅)Scholarships for Nigerians 2025Study visa Canada, UK, USA 2025How to make money with AI in NigeriaChatGPT business ideas NigeriaCrypto trading platforms Nigeria 2025How to start tech career Nigeria Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S2 Ep 3#012- Roseline Orji on Working with Wizkid, Davido, Modelling Hacks & Becoming Miss Grand | FT Gini & Dera
🎙️ In this inspiring episode of That’s My Time with Tolu Afilaka, we sit down with Nigeria’s fast-rising model Roseline Orji — from regular student to sharing screens with Wizkid, Davido, Olamide, and repping 🇳🇬 as Miss Grand Nigeria in Thailand!Roseline opens up on:Working with Wizkid on Kese (yes — the cobweb moment 😳)Shooting Davido’s Awuke video & why she prefers himThe discipline of Nigeria’s biggest artistsFacing rejection, male advances & staying groundedRepresenting Nigeria globally & battling language barriersLosing her bags & sleeping at the airport for 2 daysHer support system, family reactions & finding graceHonest advice for aspiring models: auditions, safety, & legacy🔥 Whether you're a model, creative, dreamer or fan of Afrobeat legends — this one’s for YOU.🔔 Like, share, comment & subscribe for more real convos with culture-shapers.📲 Follow host @toluafilaka & guest @roselineorji for more behind-the-scenes content.#RoselineOrji #Wizkid #Davido #MissGrandNigeria #ModelLife #TMTpodcast #NigerianModels #EntertainmentIndustry #WomenWhoInspireWhat now with trevor noah, loose talk, i said what i said, so nigerian podcast, to my sisters,road to 30, modern wisdom, blackflame pod, toni told me, i get gist for you, menism,femi lazarus, Bola Tinubu appointments 2025NDIC new MD Oludare SundayUniversity Governing Council reshuffleMinimum wage increase Nigeria 2025AMVCA 2025 winnersDavido & Chioma wedding 2025 rumors (this one's always hot 🔥)Wizkid new album 2025BBNaija 2025 housematesSuper Eagles World Cup Qualifiers 2025Victor Osimhen transfer newsAFCON 2025 qualifiersEPL fixtures Nigeria timeTikTok Nigeria trendsNigerian skit makers 2025NaijaNoDeyCarryLastFunny TikTok audios Nigeria 2025Property prices in Lagos 2025Lekki new estate projects 2025Abuja land salesHow to start real estate business in Nigeria 2025JAMB results 2025WAEC 2025 answers (trust Nigerians 😅)Scholarships for Nigerians 2025Study visa Canada, UK, USA 2025How to make money with AI in NigeriaChatGPT business ideas NigeriaCrypto trading platforms Nigeria 2025How to start tech career Nigeria Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S2 Ep 1#011- SLK: From School Dropout to Netflix Comedy Star | TMT S2 EP2
🎙️ In this powerful episode of That’s My Time, Tolu sits with SLK (Olu Salako Blessing) — Nigeria’s first comedian to land a solo Netflix special (Teetotaler). Beyond the spotlight is a raw story of pain, purpose & persistence.What you’ll hear:Comedy as calling — why SLK sees stand-up as spiritualGrowing up with theatre in his bloodEarly days: notebooks full of jokes & Covenant University hustleAcademic collapse & family pressureMoments of rejection, sacrifice & divine encouragementThe rise of Teetotaler & Nigerian stand-up’s new chapterFame vs. contentment: choosing purpose over popularityHis top 5 Nigerian comedians of all timeThis isn’t just jokes — it’s a brutally honest look at chasing dreams, creative struggles & breaking barriers in Nigeria’s comedy scene.🎧 Watch, share, comment & subscribe:🔗 Watch Episode 1📲 Follow: @toluafilaka | @slkomedy#SLK #TeetotalerNetflix #ThatMyTimePodcast #StandUpComedyNigeria #NetflixAfrica #ComedyPodcast #NigerianCreatives #FailingForward #PurposeDrivenWhat now with trevor noah, loose talk, i said what i said, so nigerian podcast, to my sisters,road to 30, modern wisdom, blackflame pod, toni told me, i get gist for you, menism,femi lazarus, Bola Tinubu appointments 2025NDIC new MD Oludare SundayUniversity Governing Council reshuffleMinimum wage increase Nigeria 2025AMVCA 2025 winnersDavido & Chioma wedding 2025 rumors (this one's always hot 🔥)Wizkid new album 2025BBNaija 2025 housematesSuper Eagles World Cup Qualifiers 2025Victor Osimhen transfer newsAFCON 2025 qualifiersEPL fixtures Nigeria timeTikTok Nigeria trendsNigerian skit makers 2025NaijaNoDeyCarryLastFunny TikTok audios Nigeria 2025Property prices in Lagos 2025Lekki new estate projects 2025Abuja land salesHow to start real estate business in Nigeria 2025JAMB results 2025WAEC 2025 answers (trust Nigerians 😅)Scholarships for Nigerians 2025Study visa Canada, UK, USA 2025How to make money with AI in NigeriaChatGPT business ideas NigeriaCrypto trading platforms Nigeria 2025How to start tech career Nigeria Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S2 Ep 1#010- God is not a man, Is God Partial? Tongues, Pain & Hearing God ft. Josh, Faithful & Ify | TMT S2 EP1
🎙️ Welcome to Season 2 of That’s My Time — where unfiltered truth meets real-life faith. Hosted by Nigerian storyteller Tolu Afilaka, this is your space for bold, vulnerable conversations that go deeper than church clichés.In this powerful premiere, Tolu sits with Joshua Tanimowo, Faithful Ifedolapo & Iffy for a soul-stirring talk on real spiritual identity:🕊️ Speaking in tongues at 11 but meeting Jesus later💭 Giving your life vs receiving His life🙇🏽♀️ God’s silence & perceived unfairness🧠 African traditions, superstition & Scripture📖 Navigating Bible truth in a noisy digital ageYou’ll hear raw stories of encounters with Jesus, the struggles of Gen Z believers, church hurt, tithing debates, misunderstood Bible characters, and how real purpose often rises from pain — not prosperity.Whether you’re all-in, deconstructing, or just curious — this episode will meet you where you are.📅 New episodes: Saturdays, 9 AM (WAT) — YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts.📌 Subscribe: @ThatsMyTimePodcast🎤 Guests: @jay_posi | @faithful.ifedolapo | @ifyyezee👤 Host: @ToluAfilaka🔖 #ChristianPodcast #FaithTalks #ThatsMyTime #GenZFaith #RealFaithConversations #HealingFromReligionWhat now with trevor noah, loose talk, i said what i said, so nigerian podcast, to my sisters,road to 30, modern wisdom, blackflame pod, toni told me, i get gist for you, menism,femi lazarus, Bola Tinubu appointments 2025NDIC new MD Oludare SundayUniversity Governing Council reshuffleMinimum wage increase Nigeria 2025AMVCA 2025 winnersDavido & Chioma wedding 2025 rumors (this one's always hot 🔥)Wizkid new album 2025BBNaija 2025 housematesSuper Eagles World Cup Qualifiers 2025Victor Osimhen transfer newsAFCON 2025 qualifiersEPL fixtures Nigeria timeTikTok Nigeria trendsNigerian skit makers 2025NaijaNoDeyCarryLastFunny TikTok audios Nigeria 2025Property prices in Lagos 2025Lekki new estate projects 2025Abuja land salesHow to start real estate business in Nigeria 2025JAMB results 2025WAEC 2025 answers (trust Nigerians 😅)Scholarships for Nigerians 2025Study visa Canada, UK, USA 2025How to make money with AI in NigeriaChatGPT business ideas NigeriaCrypto trading platforms Nigeria 2025How to start tech career Nigeria Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S1 Ep 9#009 - Ayomide Bango - LIFE AFTER SCHOOL : Is School a Scam?, Life Hacks, NYSC, Tithing/Savings | Ft. Daeola & Foyin
It's Episode 9 of That's My Time podcast, and it's a full house yet again, as Tolu Afilaka & The Gang is Joined by a First Class Graduate of Covenant University Oluwabango Ayomide David, one of Tolu's Old Time friends.Conversations Range from the Idea of School being a Scam, The demand for First class Graduates in the labor market, decisions we made after leaving school, Things We Wished We Did Better in School, Growth Hacks and The Subject of Savings & Tithing, Nysc Experiences & whether we will be better ParentsListen to the full episode, and you’ll definitely love it. Remember to like, share, and subscribe." https://pod.link/1509581257Connect with us:Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/toluafilaka/X (Twitter) : https://twitter.com/toluafilakaaFollow That My Time https://www.instagram.com/thatsmytimepod/Follow Daeola https://www.instagram.com/daeola/Follow Grace https://www.instagram.com/foyinsayemi.ii/For Feedback and enquires [email protected]:00 Is School a Scam?8:00 First Decision After Graduation14:14 If you could go back to school?19:30 When Tolu was in school20:30 Personal Hacks for Growth24:45 When to SAVE29:40 Tithing38:00 Our NYSC experience41:50 Should parents give us space to think?43:55 Do you think we will be better parents?45:39 You're Getting closer to marriage, are you scared?52:18 Should everyone be an entrepreneur57:30 Nigerians are not very consistent58:40 ConclusionSo Nigerian i said what i saidMadam Joyce Cocktails & TakeawaysMenism Honest bunch podcast 234 essentials abel daminaloose talk Nysc life after school tithinguniversity nigeria graduate university of nigeria covenant university growth hackingnysc camp nysc camp experience nysc orientation nysc experience nysc ppasavings nysc yearnysc registration money tips on maximizing your nysc yearmake money as a corper what to do during nyscwhat to expect in nysc nysc in abuja back to schoolschool hacks back to school advice Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S1 Ep 8#008 - Chidera Onuoha - THINK LIKE A WOMAN : Heart Break stories, What Cheating is, Billing a man, Biggest Fears as a woman +MORE | Ft. Daeola, Foyin |
It's Episode 8 of That's My Time podcast, and it's a full house as Tolu Afilaka hosted three ladies in the studio. June is Men’s Mental Health Awareness Month, and we decided to take a deep dive into the minds of our biggest blessing and problem—women!Conversations range from why women can’t ask a guy out, what a man can do that a woman can do better, who moves on faster, what you’ll do when you find your boyfriend cheating, whether you think the Bible is biased against women, the pink tax, love at first sight, why women do better in academics, and many more!Get ready for a roller coaster as Tolu Afilaka goes head to head with three women. Let’s see who wins! Listen to the full episode, and you’ll definitely love it. Remember to like, share, and subscribe." https://pod.link/1509581257Connect with us: Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/toluafilaka/X (Twitter) : https://twitter.com/toluafilakaa Follow That My Time https://www.instagram.com/thatsmytimepod/ Follow Chidera Onuoha https://www.instagram.com/the.chideraonuoha/ Follow Daeola https://www.instagram.com/daeola/ Follow Grace https://www.instagram.com/foyinsayemi.ii/ For Feedback and enquires [email protected] Timestamps 5:00 Can you ask a guy out 10:19 What a man can do 13:14 Who moves on faster ? 16:30 If you catch your boyfriend cheating? 23:00 Bible biased to women ? 27:45 Love at first sight 34:50 Can you bill a man? 42:00 Dissappointment 46:50 Women in Academics 53:55 This generation knows God 55:39 I've not fallen sick since 2019 58:18 can you do best friends ?relationshipheartbreakcovenant universitysaida bojso nigeriantea with taykanayo o kanayoHonest bunch,--- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thatsmytimepod/support Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S1 Ep 7#007 - Ifeanyi Amayo - Producing SLK's "NETFLIX" Special, Talent Management 101, Top 5 Comics, Joke Theft, Her Insane Work Ethic, Battling Depression & Anxiety Disorder +MORE
On this episode, Tolu Afilaka hosted Ifeanyi Amayo, An esteemed Nigerian female serial entrepreneur boasting numerous accolades, hailing from Delta state, she commands a distinguished reputation within the entertainment and management sectors. Her illustrious journey began during her undergraduate tenure at the esteemed Babcock University, where she showcased exceptional talent in orchestrating comedy shows and concerts. This early success laid the foundation for her future endeavors.In October 2018, she boldly ventured forth to establish Iplanwonders Event Productions, swiftly ascending to the forefront of Nigeria's event production landscape. Today, she stands as a beacon of excellence, revered as one of the most sought-after event planners and production managers within Nigeria's vibrant comedy industry.Listen to the full episode, and you’ll definitely love it. Remember to like, share, and subscribe." https://pod.link/1509581257Connect with us:Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/toluafilaka/X (Twitter) : https://twitter.com/toluafilakaaFollow Ifeanyi Amayohttps://www.instagram.com/ifeanyiamayo/For Feedback and enquires [email protected] StampsMeeting Slk : 5:00Talent Management : 10:00Same Job Description with her husband : 15:00Stumbling into Event Planning : 20:00Top 5 Comedians : 22:00Joke Thieves : 30:00The Growing Comedy culture : 35:00Ifeanyi Work Insane Work ethic : 36:00How ifeanyi Relaxes : 40:00Overcoming Depression : 45:00Anxiety Disorder & Blood pressure : 50:00Giving Ifeanyi Her flowers : 53:00--- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thatsmytimepod/support Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S1 Ep 6#006 - Forever Comedian - How to Produce a Comedy Special, Joke Writing, Advice to Comedian & The Comedy Culture in Nigeria
On this episode, Tolu Afilaka hosted Forever, his mentor, role model, and a man whom he greatly admires.During this episode, they went deep into the remarkable story of how Forever healed a blind lady during his time as a youth pastor. They discuss the vision the lady saw that caused her blindness, his experiences touring with Basketmouth, and the strategic relationships he has cultivated with Moses Bliss, Mercy Chinwo, and Josh Talker.They also touch on unexpected moments, such as Forever applying for the job of a sales girl, and the amusing anecdote of how he met his wife, who initially denied his proposal. Love at first sight, early struggles, and his first introduction to comedy are explored, along with the surprising memory of serving jollof rice at a show that left him utterly shocked.Listen to the full episode, and you’ll definitely love it. Remember to like, share, and subscribe." https://pod.link/1509581257Connect with us:Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/toluafilaka/X (Twitter) : https://twitter.com/toluafilakaaFollow Foreverhttps://www.instagram.com/forevercfr/For Feedback and enquires [email protected] Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thatsmytimepod/support Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S1 Ep 5#005 - Forever Comedian - Touring With BasketMouth, Opening Blind eyes, Love at First Sight, Applying to be a Sales Girl, Early Housing Struggles & Money
On this episode, Tolu Afilaka hosted Forever, his mentor, role model, and a man whom he greatly admires.During this episode, they went deep into the remarkable story of how Forever healed a blind lady during his time as a youth pastor. They discuss the vision the lady saw that caused her blindness, his experiences touring with Basketmouth, and the strategic relationships he has cultivated with Moses Bliss, Mercy Chinwo, and Josh Talker.They also touch on unexpected moments, such as Forever applying for the job of a sales girl, and the amusing anecdote of how he met his wife, who initially denied his proposal. Love at first sight, early struggles, and his first introduction to comedy are explored, along with the surprising memory of serving jollof rice at a show that left him utterly shocked.Listen to the full episode, and you’ll definitely love it. Remember to like, share, and subscribe." https://pod.link/1509581257Connect with us:Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/toluafilaka/X (Twitter) : https://twitter.com/toluafilakaaFollow Foreverhttps://www.instagram.com/forevercfr/For Feedback and enquires [email protected] Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thatsmytimepod/support Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S1 Ep 4#004 - Mc Monica - Standup Comedy In Nigeria
In this episode, Tolu continues his conversation with MC Monica, a rising star in the comedy world. Building on our discussion from Part 1, MC Monica shares his advice for young comedians and seasoned colleagues alike.We digged deeper into several topics, including why comedians need to be tipped on stage, the perception that AY isn't funny, and the challenge of driving long distances for gigs only to return empty-handed. MC Monica also reflects on his experience performing at AY Live, giving his take on why comedians shouldn't complain, and shares some of his favorite jokes.As we wrap up, he discusses the importance of posting content for viral success. Tune in to hear MC Monica's insights and stories that will make you laugh and think.Listen to the full episode, and you’ll definitely love it. Remember to like, share, and subscribe." https://pod.link/1509581257 Connect with us: Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/toluafilaka/ X (Twitter) : https://twitter.com/toluafilakaa Follow Mc Monica https://www.instagram.com/mcmonicacfrn/ For Feedback and enquires [email protected], relationship, heartbreak, covenant university, standupcomedy jokes interview nigeria podcast yoruba film comedy yoruba nollywood saida boj so nigerian tea with tay kanayo o kanayo, Honest bunch, Call her daddy, diary of a ceo, i get gist for you, --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thatsmytimepod/support Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S1 Ep 3#003 - Mc Monica - Battling Low self esteem, Risk Taking, Rising to stardom, Friendship with Sabinus
Welcome to this episode of the podcast, where I, Tolu Afilaka, hosted Nigeria’s hottest comedian, MC Monica, the man everyone's talking about right now. He just wrapped up his first-ever show in Lagos, aptly titled "Bayelsa to Lagos."In this first part of a two-part interview, MC Monica opens up about his journey to success. He shares his struggles with low self-esteem and talks about his first time performing on stage. We also went into his early days singing in the church choir, his connection with his mentor, MC Shakira, and his friendship with the ever-loyal Austin.MC Monica's story is truly inspiring, especially since he became the first college graduate in his family. He also reveals his relationship with popular skit-maker Sabi US, offering insights into their creative collaborations.Tune in to hear all this and more in part one of our conversation with the one and only MC Monica.Listen to the full episode, and you’ll definitely love it. Remember to like, share, and subscribe." https://pod.link/1509581257 Connect with us: Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/toluafilaka/ X (Twitter) : https://twitter.com/toluafilakaa Follow Mc Monica https://www.instagram.com/mcmonicacfrn/ For Feedback and enquires [email protected], relationship, heartbreak, covenant university, standupcomedy jokes interview nigeria podcast yoruba film comedy yoruba nollywood saida boj so nigerian tea with tay kanayo o kanayo, Honest bunch,--- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thatsmytimepod/support Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S1 Ep 2#002- Ebuka Mic & Ose - 3 vices of Comedians, Science of Relationships, Wrong narratives about Pastor Chris, Understanding Gods plan
In this episode, Tolu Afilaka hosted both Ebuka Mic and Ose.His old school friend from Covenant University, Ebuka, pursued a career in comedy before gradually transitioning into another phase of his life.Another guest, Ose, began his comedy journey a bit later, but he has quickly risen to become one of the promising young stars in the industry. Ose, too, is involved in youth ministry, reflecting the diverse paths these individuals have taken.The conversation covers a range of topics, including their early days in comedy, why Ose started late, and how he overcame his fears. The conversation also touches on misconceptions about Pastor Chris, Ebuka's journey into ministry, lazy parenting, the three vices that comedians should avoid, and more.The episode wraps up with a discussion about their favorite comedians and the recent trend of our generation criticizing religious leaders.Listen to the full episode, and you’ll definitely love it. Remember to like, share, and subscribe." https://pod.link/1509581257Connect with us: Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/toluafilaka/ X (Twitter) : https://twitter.com/toluafilakaaFollow Ebuka Mic https://www.instagram.com/ebuka_mic/Follow Osehttps://www.instagram.com/ose_certified/ For Feedback and enquires [email protected] - 2:24Covenant University Top Comedians - 5:50Ebuka Extra terrestrial forces that help him on stage - 9:30Ebuka's First performance - 10:02Why Ose started late - 10:46The plan of God for Ose - 14:45Wrong perceptions of Pastor Chris growing up - 20:05Wrong Narratives - 26:00No one comes close to Pastor Chris in Healing ministry -- 26:22Pastor Chris Jerry Curls - 27:30What Defiles a man - 28:24People using instagram as their source of truth - 30:42Ebuka's Gratitude to Pastor Chris - 31:00Upcoming Atheist - 31:43Righteousness by faith - 32:21Ebuka is not afraid to be wrong - 33:33What was real to Ebuka - 35:40Lazy Parenting - 36:16Comedy, A calling or Art? - 39:00Joke writing - 42:00Consecration - 47:00Ebuka's special and his mums reaction - 48:223 vices of comedians - 50:00Adam and his act of worship to God - 50:28Ebuka is not single - 53:33Feelings - 54:34My Ex/Breakup - 57:00Feelings are transient - 58:22Dragging men of God - 1:01:20You cant judge a man - 1:04:20podcast, relationship, heartbreak, covenant university, standupcomedy jokes interview nigeria podcast yoruba film comedy yoruba nollywood saida boj so nigerian tea with tay kanayo o kanayo, Honest bunch, Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S1 Ep 1#001 - Damola Comedian - Cost of Getting Married, Beyond Being Funny, Fall of Naira, Destalker as One of His Favorite Comedians.
"On this episode of the 'That's My Time' podcast, Tolu Afilaka is joined by Damola, a comedian and first-class graduate of Political Science. He is one of Nigeria’s most sought-out comedians and compères for high net worth individuals. Damola takes us through his early days, financial prudence, having a symbiotic wife, the cost of getting married, going beyond being funny, and his admiration for Destalker as one of his favorite comedians. He also discusses the fall of the Naira. Listen to the full episode, and you’ll definitely love it. Remember to like, share, and subscribe." https://pod.link/1509581257Connect with us: Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/toluafilaka/ X (Twitter) : https://twitter.com/toluafilakaa Follow Damola comedian https://www.instagram.com/damolaismyname/ For Feedback and enquires [email protected] Notes 0:10 - Intro0:56 - Do you remember how we met? 4:41 - The second event he sent me to. 8:20 - What marriage has done to him 9:49 - Financial Prudence 11:53 -Discipline of Money 12:05 - Planning for Marriage 12:44 - Making my wife comfortable 14:29 - Damola's wife 15:42 - The flex having a wife who can afford things easily 16:00 - Marry someone that's not parasitic 21:00 - Damola on his wedding day 21:56 - Cost of getting married in Nigeria of Today 23:23 - Rough estimate of a high society wedding 26:20 - Decoration 27:08 - Traditional and white wedding 27:20 - Event planners 28:08 - Bridal Outfit 29:06 - Pursuing a masters degree 31:05 - Its beyond being funny 38:27 - Role models & Mentors 39:00 - His Mentor Saco 42:26 - Fall of Naira 49:05 - Damola's top 5 comedians 54:12 - His style of writing 56:28 - Giving Damola his flowers 58:33 - My favorite Damola jokepodcast, relationship, heartbreak, covenant university, standupcomedy jokes interview nigeria podcast yoruba film comedy yoruba nollywood saida boj so nigerian tea with tay kanayo o kanayo, Honest bunch, Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.