#015 - ADULTING 101: Real Talk on Relationships, Lagos Hustle & Growing Up
Thats my Time with Tolu Afilaka · A3 NETWORK
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Show Notes
🎙️ EPISODE 4 – ADULTING 101: Real Talk on Relationships, Lagos Hustle & Growing Up
In this deeply personal and hilarious episode of That’s My Time, I’m joined by three amazing guests who represent different parts of my journey:
- Modupe Cole – my cousin, whom I haven’t seen in 18 years!
- Increase – my university classmate from our Civil Engineering days.
- Favour Nelson – a top productivity expert with gems for navigating life and work.
Together, we dive into what no one really prepares you for — ADULTING. From choosing where to live (Kwara vs Lagos), to food struggles, navigating NYSC, dating in your 20s, and figuring out if work-life balance is even real — this episode is a raw and relatable look at growing up in Nigeria.
We talked about:
- The shock of responsibilities and managing life alone
- Making important life decisions, including relationships and marriage
- My cousin dating my close friend 😅
- The painful lessons I learned in a past relationship
- How many kids we each want 😂
- Lagos traffic and housing madness
- Modupe’s inspiring entrepreneurship journey with her crocheting business
- If gospel artistes should charge for ministration
- Our future plans, personal growth, and more
It’s funny, emotional, honest, and full of life lessons you didn’t know you needed. Whether you're 18, 25, or 30+, you’ll find yourself in this episode.
📌 Timestamps:
0:00 – Intro
2:00 – The struggles of adulting
10:00 – Family, relationships & unexpected confessions
20:00 – NYSC, work-life chaos & productivity
35:00 – Entrepreneurship as a young Nigerian
41:00 – Gospel music, controversy & future plans
47:00 – Outro & final thoughts
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