Stuck In My Mind Podcast

In this empowering episode of the Stuck In My Mind Podcast, host Speaker A welcomes Mark Bruce and Duane Gibbs from Huddle for Success, a dynamic duo with over 70 years of combined experience in business coaching, high-performance strategies, and entrepreneurial mentorship. Their mission? To help professionals and entrepreneurs break through plateaus, rewire their mindset, and craft extraordinary results, both in business and in life. Mark Bruce, who achieved financial independence by the age of 36 via real estate and franchising, and Duane Gibbs, a veteran coach who has spent three decades guiding leaders to smash limiting beliefs, offer a practical, motivating roadmap for anyone ready to reinvent themselves or uplevel their goals. What You’ll Discover in This Episode The Power of Mindset From the start, Speaker A delves into Mark's unique journey—launching his first business at 26 and semi-retiring by 36. Mark credits his success to a foundation laid by his father, a lifelong sports coach, and the consistent influence of entrepreneurial mentors throughout his upbringing (01:42). He highlights how early exposure to personal development books like Think and Grow Rich and The Magic of Thinking Big fostered a can-do attitude and goal-oriented mindset, further amplified by the support and drive of his equally motivated wife (02:45). Duane follows up with insights from 30 years of coaching high performers, revealing that the greatest mental barrier is often a sense of urgency—"time is running out"—and the desire for true choice and autonomy in one's later career years (04:46). He points out that, for many, wealth and success are more about flexibility, fulfillment, and creating time, not just accumulating dollars. Why Success Is a Team Sport Mark and Duane passionately discuss their use of sports language—huddle, playbook—and why these metaphors are so vital. Drawing parallels between athletic and business performance, Mark stresses that, much like in sports, success is never a solo endeavor. Even "individual" athletes have an ecosystem of coaches, trainers, and supporters; similarly, entrepreneurs and professionals benefit immensely from mastermind groups and collaborative teams (05:42; 12:43). Duane relates the explosion in mastermind groups and collaborative spaces post-pandemic to the reality that collective brainstorming and problem-solving outperform even the most talented lone star. If you're the smartest person in the room, you're in the wrong room (17:44). Both guests highlight the crucial need for nurturing relationships, building networks, and never stopping learning from others. Mastering Belief and Overcoming Setbacks Drawing from Napoleon Hill’s core lesson that “belief is everything,” Duane and Mark detail their process for helping clients conquer self-doubt and limiting beliefs (06:53). By peeling back the layers, they help clients discover root pain points—which might stem from childhood programming or past failures—and then implement practical strategies to rewire for growth. They candidly share early mistakes that became life-changing lessons (such as Mark’s hard-won education in real estate cycles and Duane’s experience learning to separate emotion from investing), demonstrating that every setback is a seed for wisdom—if you’re willing to reflect and adapt (08:44; 10:29). The Truth About Real Wealth One of the episode’s standout segments tackles the misconceptions around wealth (23:43). For Duane and Mark, true wealth isn't tied to a dollar amount. Instead, "money is a result, not a cause." They urge listeners to define wealth based on what they want to experience—whether that’s more time, freedom, or the ability to take care of their loved ones. Real financial independence, they argue, comes from clarifying your personal “why,” tolerating the right level of investing risk, and building a life where work, relationships, health, and meaning are all in harmony. Goal Setting and the Power of Rituals Why do so many people set goals and never reach them? The duo breaks down common pitfalls—like setting uninspiring goals or focusing on what you think you can easily accomplish instead of aiming at big, “hairy, audacious goals” that truly ignite desire (21:13). They share techniques from Think and Grow Rich and modern coaching, such as daily affirmations, gratitude journaling, and visualizing your day each morning, to wire the subconscious for higher achievement (26:07). Reinvention at Any Age A recurring theme is that it’s never too late to reinvent yourself (30:38). Both Mark and Duane share relatable, vulnerable stories—stepping out of comfort zones, leaving lucrative careers, or launching new ventures later in life. Their message: If you listen to the inner call, silence the doubting “voice on your shoulder,” and take action before you feel ready, you’ll discover new levels of fulfillment and possibility. Audience Q&A: Investing for the Next Generation The live element of the podcast shines

In this inspiring episode of the Stuck In My Mind Podcast, host Wize El Jefe welcomes Carolyn Wilman, affectionately known as the "Contest Queen," to share her wisdom and insights on mastering sweepstakes and cultivating a winner’s mindset. Carolyn Wilman isn’t just an expert in sweepstakes—she’s a testament to the power of persistence, strategy, and believing in yourself. This memorable conversation dives deep into the world of contests, while also peppering in practical advice on mindset shifts, overcoming adversity, and building habits for long-term success. The episode opens with Wize El Jefe introducing Carolyn, highlighting her impressive credentials as an author, educator, and the founder of contestqueen.com. Carolyn’s journey into sweepstakes began not as a deliberate career move, but as a response to losing her job during the dot-com bubble. She candidly shares how stumbling upon an article about sweepstaking as a hobby changed her perspective, setting her on an unexpected path. Early on, she reveals a powerful truth: to win at sweepstakes—or anything in life—you first need to believe you can succeed. That mindset, she notes, is transferable to career, relationships, and personal growth. Listeners get a behind-the-scenes look at the realities of contesting. Carolyn recounts trying to win prizes as a child at office parties, then as a teenager dialing into radio shows—all precursors to her sweepstaking passion. She explains how entering sweepstakes turned from a hobby into a supplemental means of providing for her family, especially when traditional marketing roles became scarce. The heart of the episode delves into the strategies and discipline required for consistent wins. There's a common misconception that people who win contests are simply lucky. Carolyn debunks this notion, likening the process to starting a gym routine or, as Wize El Jefe adds, launching a podcast. Success, she emphasizes, isn’t instant or random—it’s a result of showing up every day, developing systems, and being consistent. Carolyn, for example, describes her daily sweepstakes process, including setting aside dedicated time, using specific email accounts, and leveraging sweepstakes aggregate sites. For those interested in sweepstakes, Carolyn shares actionable advice on getting started, including focusing initially on local contests, which often have better odds, and progressing from single "one and done" entries to more frequent, engaged participation. She breaks down the nuances of reading contest rules, understanding odds, and avoiding common rookie mistakes—like doom scrolling on social media instead of entering efficiently. The conversation broadens to encompass much more than winning material prizes. Carolyn and Wize El Jefe connect the dots between a success mindset in sweepstakes and in other areas of life—including podcasting, publishing, and personal development. Both recount the effort and setbacks involved in building something meaningful—be it writing and publishing books (complete with editorial hiccups and translation adventures) or launching and growing a podcast audience from scratch. Carolyn shares numerous anecdotes, including how some friends and family initially dismissed her hobby, only to change their tune once the prizes started rolling in. She highlights the value of community, mentioning sweepstake clubs—both in-person and virtual—where enthusiasts cheer one another on and share strategies and support. Practical tips abound, such as dedicating an hour a day to sweepstakes (and acknowledging it takes extra time as a beginner), the critical importance of reading the fine print in contest rules, and the value of investing in reputable sweepstakes sites. Carolyn also gives listeners a glimpse at her own multi-faceted business ventures—including her book publishing endeavors, her work helping companies design effective contests, and her impressive goal to publish a book a month. Mindset, however, is the golden thread running through the episode. Carolyn offers profound yet accessible advice on embracing change, persistence, and audacity—the "audacity to start a podcast, write a book, or believe in yourself." Wize El Jefe echoes these themes with reflections on his own podcasting journey, reinforcing the universality of these principles. Carolyn also introduces listeners to the Silva Method, a powerful tool for subconscious retraining, and encourages anyone feeling “stuck” to remember that all situations are temporary—good or bad, things will change. This episode is not just for would-be sweepstakes champions—it’s for anyone questioning whether they can achieve something big or break through a mental block. Carolyn and Wize El Jefe offer a relatable, motivational blueprint for transforming setbacks into victories, whether your goal is to win a car, start a podcast, publish your story, or simply move forward in life. In closing, Carolyn marks the 20th anniversary of Contest Queen and enumerates the exciti

On this deeply moving and transformative episode of the Stuck In My Mind Podcast, host Wize El Jefe welcomes world-renowned life coach, best-selling author, and two-time Emmy winner Rhonda Britten . Widely considered one of the leading experts on fear, Rhonda shares her extraordinary story and unpacks her unique wisdom on healing trauma, mastering fear, and reclaiming self-worth. This conversation – heartfelt and honest – is not just about understanding fear, but about finding freedom from its grip. A Brave Beginning: Trauma, Grief, and the Split Self The episode opens with Wize El Jefe setting the stage, introducing Rhonda with well-earned accolades, and preparing listeners for a deep dive into the nature of fear and personal transformation. Rhonda’s story begins with a tragic event that shaped her life forever: as a 14-year-old, she was the sole witness to her father’s murder of her mother followed by his suicide. This unimaginable trauma led Rhonda to live in a state of guilt and shame for decades, feeling as though happiness was permanently off the table because she “did nothing heroic.” She describes splitting into two selves—the “Outside Rhonda,” who appeared fine and accomplished, and the “Inside Rhonda,” burdened with pain. Despite external success as a straight-A student, internally Rhonda wrestled with addiction and suicidal ideation. She candidly shares her struggle: three suicide attempts, alcohol abuse, and countless workshops and therapy sessions in search of a way out. Ultimately, a humble approach—giving herself gold stars for any tiny positive action—provided her a sense of hope and the realization that she could change. This process marked the beginning of her journey to truly understanding and mastering fear. Fear: What It Is, What It Isn’t, and How It Operates Throughout the episode, Rhonda challenges the common misconceptions about fear. She emphasizes that thinking, while not inherently bad, becomes problematic when driven by fear, as it keeps people stuck in their minds, ruminating and replaying the same worries over and over. One of her central messages is: “There’s nothing wrong with you, it’s just fear.” If this idea could pierce every listener’s heart, she believes compassion and courage would naturally emerge. Rhonda explains her groundbreaking model—the “Wheel of Fear” and the “Wheel of Freedom.” She describes fear as a four-part mechanism that is hardwired into us, intended to keep us safe. However, what is safe can also be small, familiar, and ultimately limiting. The Wheel of Fear is activated as we move into the unknown, uncertainty, or risk, leading to responses like procrastination, people-pleasing, perfectionism, resentment, bitterness, and more. She introduces a quiz she created to help identify each person’s “core trigger” that drives their specific fear responses—often something deeper than the common, surface-level fears of rejection or failure. One of the episode’s powerful moments is Rhonda’s quiz: she lists a series of fear responses and asks listeners to honestly admit how many they relate to. The vast majority nod their heads to over 90% of them, revealing the pervasive, often unseen impact of fear on day-to-day living. She encourages reframing these behaviors as “fear responses” rather than personal flaws, creating space for change: “Just relabeling them, reframing them, naming them properly will start creating space between you and it…” This shift opens up new possibilities for healing and freedom. Vulnerability, Shame, and Healing The conversation takes an intimate turn as Wize El Jefe shares his own story of loss—his wife’s passing, followed by the loss of his mother, father, brothers, and others in close succession. He speaks about years of anger, guilt, and feeling punished by life, and how self-development books introduced by his wife laid the groundwork for his eventual healing. Rhonda responds with empathy, acknowledging how admitting guilt or shame, as Wize El Jefe does for the first time publicly, is a heroic act that heals the soul: “Every time we admit something, we heal. Every time we transcend our shame…that is what heals trauma.” Both speakers reflect on the importance of honest, vulnerable self-expression and the courage it takes to move through pain, process feelings, and eventually reclaim happiness. Rhonda recalls keeping her trauma a secret for years, constructing impenetrable walls to protect herself but also preventing her from receiving love and help. She highlights how keeping secrets and repressing shame hold people back from true self-fulfillment. The act of telling the truth, especially to someone trustworthy and without judgment, is identified as a central step toward healing. Transformation: Choosing Who You Want to Be Rhonda and Wize El Jefe discuss the power of choice in personal transformation. Rhonda explains that, for years, she felt constrained by her past, unable to imagine that she could choose who she wanted to be. Only afte

Welcome to another impactful episode of the Stuck In My Mind Podcast, where Wize El Jefe sits down with resilience coach Genevieve Skory for a conversation that digs deep into the mental hurdles and mindsets that shape entrepreneurial journeys. If you’re building something that matters be it a thriving business, a podcast, or a passion project—this episode is packed with real talk, personal stories, and actionable insights designed to help you push past self-doubt and setbacks. Episode Overview: From the outset, Wize El Jefe sets the tone by sharing his own vulnerabilities the self-doubt and internal narratives that nearly kept his podcast from ever launching. Genevieve Skory matches his honesty, opening up about her journey from a C-suite executive to becoming her own boss, and what she learned about the power (and limitations) of control, grit, and self-made success. They both agree: entrepreneurship is more about mastering your mindset than nailing perfect strategies. Key Topics Covered: 1. The Truth About Mindset and Success Genevieve Skory breaks down why so many promising entrepreneurs and creators burn out or quit before they see results. It’s rarely a lack of skills or even opportunity instead, it’s the stories we tell ourselves during challenging moments. She explains how our brains are wired for safety, not growth, and how this “safety programming” often sabotages our risk-taking and perseverance. 2. From Self-Talk to Self-Coaching The hosts touch on the universal internal critic, that little voice that says, “Who wants to hear from you?” or “You’re not cut out for this.” Wize El Jefe reveals how “Stuck In My Mind” literally originated from his struggles with negative self-talk. Genevieve Scorie offers tangible advice for reframing these thoughts—such as her “Who cares?” theory—and discusses the importance of learning to talk back to your doubts with humor, candor, and compassion. 3. Navigating Setbacks and the 'Messy Middle' Both guests share stories of challenges and mini-failures—from technical blunders to moments of wanting to give up. Genevieve Skory insists that setbacks are not stop signs, but feedback. They highlight how those who succeed simply stay in the game long enough to learn from mistakes and adapt. 4. The Power of Community and Accountability Another standout theme is the necessity of having a “posse”—a supportive network that offers honesty, perspective, and accountability. Whether it’s fellow podcasters from live events like Podfest or trusted friends who tell you to “suck it up,” building genuine relationships is critical for resilience and growth. 5. Implementing, Not Just Learning Genevieve Skory notes the difference between attendees who leave conventions inspired but stagnant and those who implement one new idea right away. Success, she says, is about focusing on daily, manageable goals—like having three meaningful conversations per day—instead of aiming for distant, abstract outcomes. 6. Redefining Failure and Celebrating Wins The conversation digs into why it’s crucial to celebrate small wins and treat mistakes as learning opportunities, not personal flaws. Wize El Jefe shares how even bloopers and technical fumbles turn into moments of growth, both personally and for his audience. Genevieve Skory recommends keeping a “success journal” as proof that progress is happening, even when big results lag behind. 7. The Reality of Work-Life Balance and Values Rather than chasing perfect balance, Genevieve Skory encourages listeners to stay aligned with their core values, which naturally guides their priorities and helps prevent burnout. She advises regular self-assessment to ensure your work and life still match what’s meaningful to you, rather than someone else’s dreams or expectations. 8. Authenticity and Community: The Future Trends Looking ahead to 2026 and beyond, Genevieve Skory urges entrepreneurs to double down on authenticity and personal connection. In an era of automation and digital overload, trust and meaningful communities will be the differentiators for sustainable businesses. She foresees a comeback for in-person events, retreats, and collaborations that go deeper than surface-level networking. 9. Advice for Those Near Quitting If you’re feeling one setback away from giving up, Genevieve Skory offers a powerful reminder: feelings of defeat are often a sign that you’re closer to a breakthrough than you realize. She encourages listeners to push through, invest in ongoing learning and self-improvement, and reach out for help when needed. Why You Should Listen: If you’re burned out, close to quitting, or just need a motivational reset, this episode will remind you that all successful creators have navigated self-doubt, mistakes, and slow progress. If you want actionable strategies, you’ll discover the value of reframing failure, building supportive communities, and focusing on meaningful, daily actions. If you’re curious about the future of entrepreneurship, you’ll he

In this insightful episode of the Stuck In My Mind Podcast, host Wize El Jefe welcomes Shirley Hayden, founder and president of Aspire Sales Management Solutions, for her very first podcast appearance. Drawing from over 25 years of executive sales leadership experience and Harvard Business School strategy training, Shirley Hayden shares her expertise on what it takes to build sales systems that not only drive growth, but also endure. The conversation, both conversational and deeply practical, begins with Shirley Hayden recounting her journey from sales representative to executive leader. She discusses how natural leadership tendencies and a keen eye for systems propelled her career, and shares lessons often missed by others—including the importance of speaking up, asking for help, and maintaining open communication with those she leads. Throughout the episode, Wize El Jefe and Shirley Hayden unravel the nuanced relationship between personalities and systems in sales teams. Shirley Hayden emphasizes that while likability and interpersonal skills matter, the foundation of sustainable sales is process-driven. She notes that effective salespeople whether extroverts or introverts succeed by asking the right questions, genuinely seeking to solve customer pain points, and engaging deeply in the mental game of sales. Listeners gain valuable insights into the real-world challenges faced by sales leaders. Shirley Hayden describes turning around an underperforming New England sales team by introducing structured onboarding and operational processes, dramatically reducing the time it took for new hires to become profitable. This experience sets the stage for a broader discussion about the universal need for systems, illustrated not only in sales but also through Wize El Jefe's own experience structuring his podcast for greater efficiency and growth. The episode dives into the continuous evolution of leadership philosophies. Shirley Hayden advocates for ongoing education, firsthand customer interaction, and persistent exposure to current industry trends—especially the transformative role of AI and new technologies in sales acceleration. Both speakers highlight the power of attending summits and conferences for networking, education, and staying ahead in a fast-moving landscape. One of the most resonant themes is the challenge of strong products underperforming due to weak sales processes. Shirley Hayden systematically breaks down common pitfalls: poor onboarding, lack of infrastructure, mismatched sales personalities, and absent assessment tools. She explains the importance of identifying whether a salesperson is a hunter, farmer, or account manager, and ensuring roles align with individual strengths. The episode explores what separates teams that merely survive from those that scale. Shirley Hayden stresses the necessity of a buildable, scalable, and repeatable sales process. She introduces the concept of a customized sales playbook, recounting a case study with a law firm where lack of process led to inefficiency and redundancy. Her discovery approach focuses on streamlining systems to increase efficiency and communication, and reduce errors. Accountability and data-driven decision-making emerge as cornerstones of successful sales leadership. Shirley Hayden details how key performance indicators tracked in a CRM system empower organizations to manage, coach, and forecast effectively. Weekly one-on-one meetings, structured feedback, and clear benchmarks keep teams on track and motivated. As the episode delves into scaling sales teams from small businesses to national organizations, Shirley Hayden emphasizes the engine-like importance of sales, the limits of relying solely on marketing, and the advantages of hiring fractional leaders for specialized expertise without the high cost of full-time executives. She outlines the significance of sustainable, repeatable growth: proper forecasting, data-driven strategy, ongoing training, weekly troubleshooting, and competitor awareness. Addressing common blind spots among founders, Shirley Hayden observes that founders often promote trusted associates into sales roles without proper assessment or process, leading to mismatches and inefficiencies. She warns that 80% of small to mid-sized businesses lack a documented sales process, hampering their ability to scale. The episode offers advice for struggling businesses especially those plateaued or stalled in growth. Shirley Hayden recommends starting with a sales assessment, reaching out to a fractional VP for a complimentary evaluation, and evaluating compensation structures to ensure that sales teams remain incentivized and motivated. Culture, compensation, and legacy are tackled head-on. Shirley Hayden talks about cultivating A-players not just through money, but by providing pathways for advancement and a positive workplace environment. She underlines the essential role of organizational culture in attracting and retaining top ta

Welcome to the latest episode of the Stuck In My Mind Podcast, where host Wize El Jefe welcomes guest Steven Puri a man whose career has spanned Hollywood blockbusters, tech startups, successful exits, and daring entrepreneurial attempts. This episode is a masterclass in finding fulfillment, reclaiming focus, and redefining success amidst the noise and distraction of our modern world. A Journey from Blockbusters to Purpose Steven Puri opens up about his high-profile career, giving listeners a candid look at life behind the scenes. He’s worked as an executive in major studios, produced well-known films, and raised millions for tech ventures. But rather than resting on these laurels, Steven Puri brings refreshing honesty about the realities of so-called "success": the burnout, the unfocused hustle, and the underlying unhappiness that often comes with chasing external achievements. His decision to pivot from Hollywood, where he ran iconic franchises like Die Hard and Wolverine, to founding a platform dedicated to flow states and true fulfillment marks a turning point: “I reached a point where I wanted to do something where people came to me and said, 'Hey man, because of what you did, I was able to actually do the thing I was meant to do.'” The Battle for Your Attention and Your Life In one of the episode’s most thought-provoking segments, Steven Puri and Wize El Jefe dissect the ways major tech companies and apps have mastered the art of distraction, essentially making it their business model to "steal your life." From endless scrolling to addictive dopamine hits, we're reminded just how easy it is to lose hours—or even years—to platforms designed to capture our attention, often at the expense of our deeper goals. Unlocking Flow States and Redefining Success What’s the antidote? Steven Puri shares his deep dive into the concept of "flow state" those rare moments when we’re fully immersed, productive, and genuinely satisfied. Inspired by psychologist Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi’s seminal work, Steven Puri explains the science and spirit of flow, revealing how artists, athletes, and inventors across disciplines describe these states in strikingly similar ways. He delivers actionable advice: forget multitasking (a myth sold by hustle culture), embrace monotasking, and begin each day by identifying the one thing that will move your life forward. These practical steps, backed by his tech platform the Suka Company, help listeners shift from depletion and regret (“Where did the day go?”) to empowerment and joy (“I crushed it today and can spend time with my family.”). Podcasting, Creativity, and the Power of Community In a touching exchange, Wize El Jefe shares his own journey from a furloughed casino pit boss to a podcaster investing in quality and community. The hosts discuss how investing in yourself and your craft pays dividends—not just in the quality of your work, but in the connections and impact you create. From networking at Podfest to collaborating with his nephew, Wize El Jefe highlights how stepping outside your comfort zone can ignite creative energy and open new doors. Their conversation explores how creativity and focus aren’t rivals they feed each other, and nurturing both is essential for success in the AI age. Steven Puri draws on neuroscience to explain the balance between free association and executive function, sharing anecdotes from film and tech about how the best ideas often come when you're not directly engaged with the task. Challenges of the Future—and Reasons for Hope Not shying away from the big issues, Steven Puri expresses concern about the rise of AI and large language models, warning that jobs centered on rote pattern-matching are vulnerable, and urging listeners to double down on distinctly human strengths: creativity, strategic thinking, and community. While his views on the economy and tech landscape are sobering, his faith in people’s innate potential remains strong. Takeaways for Anyone Who Feels Stuck Ultimately, the episode is an invitation to reflect, recharge, and recalibrate. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, overworked, or disconnected, Steven Puri offers clear guidance: each morning, identify the one thing that will genuinely advance your life, and let that guide your focus and energy for the day. Reclaim control from the apps, demands, and distractions; invest in yourself and your relationships; and don’t die with your greatness left inside you. Connect and Continue the Conversation As the episode closes, listeners are invited to reach out directly Steven Puri makes his email public and welcomes questions from anyone interested in learning more about flow states or focus. For those ready to put the tools and mindset into practice, his Suka Company website offers resources and community to help you start building the life you actually want. Why You Should Listen This episode is a must-listen for anyone who wants to break free from the cult of busy, escape the digital vortex, and

In this powerful episode of the Stuck In My Mind Podcast, host Wize El Jefe welcomes visionary entrepreneur Greg Selkoe, best known for founding the influential streetwear brand Karma Loop, leading the esports powerhouse Faze Clan, and now steering the cutting-edge gaming lifestyle brand XSET as CEO and co-founder. This honest, inspiring conversation is a masterclass for creators, culture builders, and anyone pursuing a dream against the odds. From the jump, Wize El Jefe sets the stage, giving listeners a glimpse into Greg Selkoe’s cultural impact—from collaborations with icons like Lil Wayne, Osuna, and Pharrell’s camp, to partnerships with brands like the Boston Red Sox and HyperX. But as the episode unfolds, it’s clear this story goes much deeper than flashy names and million-dollar deals—it’s about authentic passion, grit, resilience, and growth. The Roots of Culture Building The episode kicks off as Greg Selkoe traces his journey from Boston’s vibrant street culture to global entrepreneurship. He reveals how an early obsession with breakdancing, graffiti art, skateboarding, punk rock, and hip hop influenced his worldview. Rather than seeing these movements as separate lanes, he felt at home in all of them—setting the stage for Karma Loop, which wasn’t just about selling clothes, but celebrating the energy and diversity of urban culture. Greg Selkoe describes how this merged into his approach at XSET, aiming to build “a media company” that puts culture first, amplifies creators, and tells compelling brand stories. Resilience Through Setbacks One of the episode’s major themes is resilience. Both Greg Selkoe and Wize El Jefe reflect on their entrepreneurial journeys, emphasizing that setbacks and failures are inevitable. Greg Selkoe shares candidly about Karma Loop’s highs and lows—from its $150 million peak to private equity challenges that forced him to rebuild from scratch. He offers hard-earned lessons: “Don't think someone's going to come along and save you if you're having trouble in your business, you got to rely on yourself.” The best way not to fail? Keep going. Wize El Jefe reciprocates, sharing his own risk-taking path in podcasting, internet radio, and launching a media company. The key takeaway is treating each setback as a learning experience—a stepping stone rather than an endpoint. Business Lessons That Transcend Formal Education Unlike many entrepreneurs, Greg Selkoe didn’t start with a business degree—he studied urban planning at Harvard, inspired by his mother’s work. But he credits this background for shaping his community-first approach. “Passion for what I was doing came from another part of me than what normally would be... I think that authenticity came through everything we did.” Rather than targeting a market, he built organically around what he loved—and learned the other business skills on the job and through mentorship. This authenticity, he believes, gave his brands a unique edge and fostered community. Building XSET and Shifting Strategies When it came to launching XSET, Greg Selkoe and team faced fresh challenges: securing investment, building a fanbase, and educating skeptical investors about the true scale of gaming and streaming culture. Greg Selkoe recognized a major opportunity—gaming needed a lifestyle brand that felt as dynamic as Overtime, Complex, or Barstool. The vision from day one: XSET would be a lifestyle media company at the crossroads of gaming, music, fashion, entertainment, and traditional sports. However, this path wasn’t linear. Initially, XSET tried to replicate Karma Loop’s retail-first model, but the lack of an established fanbase made traction difficult. After two years, they made a pivotal shift—refocusing on media, content, and creator empowerment. This willingness to pivot, rather than stubbornly sticking to a plan, is a recurring lesson for entrepreneurs highlighted in the episode. Collaboration, Community, and Advice for Creators Both host and guest agree: entrepreneurship is not a solo sport. Greg Selkoe stresses the importance of asking for help, seeking mentorship, and learning from those who have traveled similar paths: “If you don't know something... that's power to say you don't know it.” He shares stories of leaning on collaborators and mentors—even in public adversity—while cautioning against burning bridges or stepping on others to succeed. Public Challenges, Private Pain, and the Power of Community The episode delves into the emotional toll of public failure. Greg Selkoe recounts the fallout from Karma Loop’s bankruptcy, facing media scrutiny and industry criticism. Yet, a pivotal moment at a high-powered Silicon Valley barbecue hosted by Steve Stout and Ben Horowitz transformed his outlook. Instead of derision, he found encouragement and solidarity from fellow entrepreneurs—reminding him that to build is to stumble, but also to rise again. This network of support propelled him towards new ventures, from consulting gigs with Pharrell a

In this inspiring episode of the Stuck In My Mind Podcast, host Wize El Jefe welcomes his longtime friend and special guest, Dorian Stewart, for an uplifting and honest conversation about purpose, self-confidence, and making a difference for the next generation. With a bond stretching back to their high school days in Brooklyn, the two share laughs, wisdom, and real-life stories that resonate with anyone seeking purpose—whether as a parent, educator, or someone just trying to figure out their own calling. Right from the start, Wize El Jefe paints a picture of Dorian Stewart’s accomplishments: entrepreneur, motivational speaker, author of 19 books (many for children and parents), and the founder of Dorian Inspires, LLC. But what truly sets her apart is not just her professional resume, but her deep dedication to building confidence, character, and clarity in children, parents, and educators. A 20-year veteran in healthcare, leadership, and HR, Dorian Stewart has unique insights into what it takes to prepare people not just for success, but for life itself. The conversation starts in Dorian Stewart’s childhood, where she grew up surrounded by a loving, multi-generational family in Brooklyn. She reflects on how being the oldest among her cousins and participating in youth activities at church naturally fostered her love for mentoring children and sharing the timeless wisdom passed down by her elders. This early responsibility planted the seeds for her passion for empowerment and guiding others. As the episode unfolds, Dorian Stewart reveals how her career in healthcare management and HR opened her eyes to the ways people—especially young people—lack preparation and confidence for adult life. Her humorous (and occasionally exasperating) experiences as an interviewer, from outlandish resumes to ill-prepared job seekers, inspired her to start writing practical, empowering books for teens and young adults entering the work world. Instead of mocking those who simply didn’t know the right steps, she chose to become a guide, sharing the “how not to get hired” pitfalls and offering real solutions to succeed. Yet Dorian Stewart’s journey extends far beyond career advice. She candidly shares how her calling evolved through personal stress, faith, and the life-changing experience of adopting her daughter. What began as daily devotionals for friends ballooned into a movement as her messages of encouragement reached hundreds. Through the adoption journey and required trainings, Dorian Stewart discovered gaps in how children’s emotional needs—especially for adoptees—are met. This prompted her to write children’s books that emphasize being chosen, cherished, and unstoppable. She passionately describes her mission to arm both kids and their families with the confidence they need to handle life’s ups and downs. A critical part of this episode centers on affirmations and self-talk, both for children and adults. Wize El Jefe and Dorian Stewart swap personal stories of overcoming self-doubt, the importance of not “locking the door” on one’s dreams, and how negative self-talk can limit potential. Their honesty is refreshing: neither imagined themselves as authors, and both openly struggled with English in school. Yet, they chose not to let those early setbacks define them—proving that your past does not have to dictate your future. The discussion delves into the unique confidence crises facing today’s youth. Dorian Stewart points out that children confront overwhelming external pressures, from unrealistic portrayals in media to the devastation of relentless cyberbullying. She speaks vulnerably about building her daughter’s self-worth through morning affirmations, affirmation jars, and real conversations about individual gifts—methods that go far beyond empty praise and instead focus on cultivating and supporting authentic strengths. A powerful thread running through the episode is the idea that adults often protect children so much that they don’t give them space to learn resilience. Both speakers question the culture of participation trophies, emphasizing that it’s okay, even essential, for children to experience both wins and losses. These lessons build character, adaptability, and a realistic view of life. The episode also explores: The role of faith in finding and teaching purpose, with Dorian Stewart sharing her journey to a faith that’s truly her own, and how it anchors her teaching, parenting, and writing. The significance of grief in children’s lives and the importance of giving language to their big feelings—especially when facing loss. Dorian Stewart ’s book on grief illustrates the crucial role adults play in guiding kids through these complex emotions. How helping others, whether through publishing, podcasting, or daily encouragement, is a form of living out one’s purpose and leaving a meaningful legacy. Throughout the episode, Wize El Jefe reflects on his own transformation—how podcasting unveiled his true calling to

On this thought-provoking episode of the Stuck In My Mind Podcast titled “The CFO Whisperer on Authentic Leadership and Navigating Change in High Stakes Environments,” host Wize El Jefe sits down with renowned leadership advisor Kenneth Merritt, a figure known for guiding CFOs and financial executives through the complexities of transformation, growth, and leadership for nearly three decades. The conversation takes listeners far beyond the usual leadership buzzwords, tackling the realities of authentic connection, adaptability, and the evolving demands placed on executives in today’s business climate. From the first moments, listeners are invited to think deeply about what it truly means to lead—not just in theory, but in the kinetic, unpredictable markets that define our era. Kenneth Merritt shares candidly about the pivotal moments in his career that shattered his early notions about traditional leadership playbooks. He recounts witnessing layoffs early in his career, serving as a wake-up call about the volatility of the corporate world and the importance of agility. Further, mergers, acquisitions, and shifting economic conditions taught him that leadership is less about static rules and more about reading and meeting the moment, no matter the cost. As the conversation unfolds, Wize El Jefe draws out Kenneth Merritt’s insights on what truly shapes a leader. It’s not just technical prowess or knowing the right answer; it’s about understanding people, building trust, and fostering authentic relationships. Especially for financial leaders, this means going beyond the spreadsheets and transactions to become a trusted advisor and a catalyst for change. Kenneth Merritt emphasizes that trust and relationship-building only become more critical the higher one rises on the corporate ladder. The ability to guide others depends heavily on interpersonal skills, transparency, and the readiness to bring people along—even when decisions are tough or unpopular. Listeners will appreciate Kenneth Merritt’s vulnerability as he shares mistakes he made early on. He admits to once believing that having the “right answer” was enough, only to later realize the necessity of persuasion, empathy, and selling a vision. Leadership requires buy-in, not just intellectual correctness. In practical terms, Kenneth Merritt describes his leadership identity as embodying “gravitas”—the balance between confidence, capability, and understanding of expectations. He shares that gravitas isn’t innate or automatic; it’s developed through self-awareness, continual learning, and alignment between what a situation demands and what a leader can deliver. The episode dives deeply into the realities of the AI-driven world and the future of work. Kenneth Merritt and Wize El Jefe discuss how executives often remain behind the curve, not because of technology itself but due to a disconnect between AI providers, decision makers, and those who use the technology daily. The lesson: leaders must continually ask questions, demand real-world utility, and integrate AI as a tool—rather than as a buzzword or afterthought. Offering a blueprint for transformational leadership, Kenneth Merritt outlines three essential behaviors: acceptance of necessary change, clear definition of target outcomes, and the assembling of high-caliber teams, tools, and processes. In his view, change isn’t incremental, but quantum—requiring leaders to genuinely step outside comfort zones. Authenticity, particularly in finance, is examined in a fresh light. Kenneth Merritt breaks down relationship-building into three types of conversations: sharing the story of performance, candidly communicating risks and failures, and, most importantly, forging real, everyday connections that promote a sense of partnership well beyond financial analysis. These subtle, human actions form the bedrock of trust in environments where skepticism and caution typically reign. The episode also tackles the future of finance and executive leadership. Kenneth Merritt predicts volatility and rapid change will only escalate in coming years, requiring finance professionals to develop agile teams and systems capable of handling shifting economies, competitive pressures, and constant disruption. The wisdom here is clear—resilience and adaptation are no longer optional, but essential parts of an executive’s toolkit. Personal growth and wellness get heartfelt attention in the latter half of the conversation. Both Wize El Jefe and Kenneth Merritt share their own journeys of health, mindset, and spirituality, underlining how well-being and professional success are irrevocably intertwined. The advice is straightforward: personal alignment, whether physical, mental, or spiritual, empowers leaders to show up at their best, at work and in life. For those aspiring to executive leadership, Kenneth Merritt shares concrete guidance. Performance is paramount, but so is a commitment to ongoing learning. He cautions against stagnation and

Welcome to a vibrant and inspiring episode of the Stuck In My Mind Podcast with your host, Wize El Jefe, as he welcomes powerhouse entrepreneur, coach, and podcast host Sasha Eburne to the show. This compelling conversation is a must-listen for anyone navigating career transitions, overcoming self-doubt, or seeking the courage to step fully into their potential—especially women with ambitions of entrepreneurship and leadership. The episode kicks off with Wize El Jefe introducing Sasha Eburne as a living example of stepping into your power: after the devastation of losing her hospitality career during the COVID pandemic, Sasha Eburne pivoted to launch her own venture as a solo mom. Within just 24 hours, she secured her first client, and, driven by relentless resourcefulness, she was fully booked with clients within three weeks. Her journey didn't stop there—she skyrocketed her business to a national level, leading a team of 15 and building a company that supported her life as a devoted mother. Listeners are given an authentic look at Sasha Eburne’s life before entrepreneurship—a 25-year journey in hospitality management, working in hotels across Australia, the Middle East, and Vanuatu. Everything changed in 2020 when the pandemic hit, forcing her to reevaluate her career path. After a stint in real estate left her unfulfilled, a conversation with a friend introduced her to the virtual assistant industry—a critical turning point that sparked her entrepreneurial leap. In a candid discussion, Sasha Eburne dismantles myths around "breaking the rules" or pursuing a nontraditional career. Instead, her story is about listening to intuition and seizing opportunity with no roadmap but total commitment. She discusses overcoming fears of judgment, financial instability, and the naysayers who projected their limiting beliefs onto her. Sasha Eburne emphasizes how support systems—a network of people who “see what you see”—are crucial for entrepreneurial resilience. Both Wize El Jefe and Sasha Eburne resonate on the impact of overcoming self-doubt, sharing personal anecdotes of pushing past internal voices saying, “Who do you think you are?” A highlight of this episode is the emphasis on action over waiting for external validation. Sasha Eburne “left no stone unturned,” leveraging every network and social platform to announce her new business and connect with clients. Her boldness proved contagious, leading to rapid business growth and continuous opportunities for expansion. The conversation evolves into the power of mindset: the dangers of taking on other people’s limiting beliefs and the necessity of aligning with one’s own vision. Sasha Eburne reflects on how many women (and entrepreneurs in general) struggle with feelings of "asking for too much" or fall into the trap of “hustle equals worth.” She explains that true transformation and momentum stem from clarity, not chaos—a philosophy that underpins her approach to coaching women to scale businesses without sacrificing wellness or personal freedom. Another fascinating thread in this episode is Sasha Eburne’s embrace of personal growth tools, including breathwork, sound healing, and neuro-linguistic programming. She shares how these practices have not only improved her own well-being but have become essential resources that she teaches to clients worldwide. Sasha Eburne describes the evolution of her coaching business—now supporting both women and men globally, running retreats, and certifying others in healing practices. It's an inspiring lesson in weaving together business, spirituality, and global community. For listeners interested in practical wisdom, Sasha Eburne lays out the essential strategies that led to her success: the importance of investing in coaches/mentors, hiring and trusting teams, leveraging automation and AI, and not shying away from outsourcing what you’re not an expert in. She and Wize El Jefe discuss how AI has been a powerful tool for scaling, reducing burnout, and freeing up creators and business owners to focus on what truly matters. The episode culminates with messages of encouragement for all ambitious women: if Sasha Eburne can do it, so can you. There’s no secret ingredient—only a willingness to ask for help, invest in learning, surround yourself with allies, and remain bold in the face of fear and judgment. As Wize El Jefe puts it, “If you want to start something, don’t wait for permission. Just start. Your story is proof that your circumstances don’t get the final word—your choices do.” Listeners will leave this episode motivated by Sasha Eburne's remarkable path from adversity to abundance, equipped with insights to turn setbacks into setups for their next big leap. Whether you’re launching a business, exploring new income streams, or simply seeking fresh inspiration, this conversation will remind you that greatness is accessible to everyone with the courage to claim it. Tune in, and let Sasha Eburne and Wize El Jefe energize your journ

Welcome to an eye-opening episode of the "Stuck In My Mind Podcast," hosted by Wize El Jefe, featuring a profound conversation with the multi-faceted Angel Howard—professional dancer, corporate executive, somatic movement therapist, and founder of Wild Heart Expressive and the Chakra Mental Method. This episode, rich with authentic reflection and practical wisdom, is a heartfelt exploration into the power of embodiment, the challenges of high achievement, and the essential role of communication in well-being and leadership. The Body Never Lies: A Journey from Burnout to Alignment The episode begins with Wize El Jefe reflecting on his own journey to meaning through podcasting, setting the stage for Angel Howard's transformative story. Angel Howard candidly shares her corporate beginnings in the high-pressure world of 1980s business culture. She describes the physical and emotional toll of burnout—“the day I couldn’t get off the couch”—and how this was a wake-up call to attend not just to outward success, but to inner fulfillment. Through firsthand anecdotes, she illustrates how the relentless pursuit of “more” is often empty, driving individuals away from their true needs and into exhaustion. What makes Angel Howard’s narrative compelling is her recognition that the body holds and expresses our deepest stories, even when words fail us. She unpacks the dynamics of corporate posturing, the “peacocking” of success, and how the disconnect between words and bodily signals breeds mistrust. The somatic awareness she brings is not only insightful but actionable, offering listeners a lens to examine their own lived experiences of stress, ambition, and authenticity. Cross-Cultural Discoveries & Reclaiming Joy A pivotal moment in Angel Howard’s journey was her time studying and living in Europe, where she discovered cultures that prize communal meals, relaxation, and appreciation for life beyond work. The contrast between European and American work cultures highlights the importance of self-care and the integration of play and rest into daily life. Wize El Jefe resonates with this, contemplating how fear and lack of courage can hold people back from living more joyfully and authentically. The episode finds its emotional center when Angel Howard asks Wize El Jefe what feeds his soul—a question that opens up a vulnerable, honest discussion about finding purpose through podcasting, self-growth, and spiritual practice. Both speakers share how intentional reflection, affirmations, and connecting to a higher purpose have brought them greater alignment and joy. The Healing Power of Movement Angel Howard delves deeper into how movement became her lifeline during personal crisis, notably in the aftermath of a traumatic marriage experience. She recounts lying in fetal position, paralyzed by grief, and discovering that simply moving her body—even a finger—helped her process pain and reclaim her sense of self. This raw story exemplifies the essence of somatic healing: expressing and releasing emotions through embodied practices. She explains the foundations of her work with Wild Heart Expressive and the Chakra Mental Method, integrating yogic principles, elements like fire and water, and the understanding of how emotional states manifest physically. Her approach helps individuals locate sensations in the body, connect them with emotions and stories, and begin the process of conscious, embodied leadership. Success, High Achievement, and Why “More” is Never Enough The conversation turns to why high achievers—especially those shaped by achievement-oriented families and demanding career environments—often feel unfulfilled despite their visible success. Angel Howard shares her personal struggle with always feeling she must do better, never being “enough,” and how this internalized pressure can become like an addiction to achievement itself. Crucially, she encourages listeners to celebrate every milestone and practice gratitude, rather than relentlessly chasing external validation. The pair discuss the pernicious effects of social comparison, particularly in the era of social media, and how true fulfillment requires shifting focus from external accomplishments to internal motivations. Angel Howard suggests practical self-inquiry questions for listeners who sense something missing beneath their success: Why do you feel unfulfilled? Are your motivations driven by genuine internal desires or by societal expectations and comparison? Communication: The Foundation of All Relationships One of the most powerful themes of the episode is communication—both internal (with oneself) and external (with others). Angel Howard reveals that 93% of communication is nonverbal, consisting of body language, eye contact, and gestures. This insight becomes crucial in the realm of leadership, where congruence between words and embodied presence breeds trust and inspires teams. As she prepares for her next chapter—writing her forthcoming book “What’s Messing

In this transformative and deeply personal episode of the "Stuck In My Mind Podcast," host Wize El Jefe welcomes Georges Córdoba, a former chief technology officer turned holistic health coach, functional nutritionist, energy healer, speaker, and founder of Qualavita. Georges brings a remarkable story of survival, healing, and paradigm-shifting perspective on health—one forged through climbing life's toughest mountain: surviving stage 4 melanoma with brain metastasis. The conversation begins with Wize El Jefe setting the stage, introducing Georges as someone who didn't just survive a decade-long battle with cancer marked by 10 surgeries—including multiple brain operations—but completely transformed his life thereafter. Georges Córdoba shares heartfelt gratitude for the chance to tell his story, marking this July as his 13th year cancer-free—a journey that ultimately led him into holistic health coaching. Listeners are taken through the specifics of Georges' battle, starting as a CTO suddenly diagnosed with advanced melanoma, facing eight brain tumors, two of which were deemed inoperable. With Western medicine running out of answers, Georges describes reaching a pivotal breaking point—when the conventional treatments and financial strains became unbearable. Georges details his leap of faith into holistic modalities, from acupuncture to energy work, navigating doubt and surrender through faith and a search for discernment. The emotional depth comes alive as he describes moments of spiritual resilience in a chapel, praying for guidance amidst recurrence and uncertainty. Conversation shifts to the big picture: the current health crisis in the United States. Drawing upon his speaking engagements and research from the American Cancer Society and Harvard School of Health, Georges offers sobering statistics—66% of US adults have at least one chronic disease, and obesity rates are soaring. He calls out the systemic issues, from the food industry’s questionable practices to the entrenched financial incentives in healthcare, arguing that the nation is plagued not only by poor nutrition and lifestyle, but also by a lack of preventative initiatives. Wize El Jefe and Georges trade personal anecdotes about changes in society, food culture, and the normalization of processed foods. Their frank discussion exposes the convenience trap and its severe health consequences, comparing the eating habits of past decades with the fast-food norm of today. Georges passionately explains his holistic health philosophy, which now encompasses functional nutrition, emotional healing, hypnosis, and energy work. He reflects on the hardest and most impactful practices to master, such as hypnotherapy, and debunks pervasive myths about disease and heredity. Drawing from the latest epigenetic science, he asserts that nearly all chronic illness originates in emotional distress, acidic/inflamed bodies, and unhealthy lifestyles—not genetics alone. A core segment explores how most Americans eat too quickly and chew too little, leading to poor digestion and chronic health issues. Georges presents vivid metaphors and practical advice—slowing down, breathing deeply before meals, and chewing food thoroughly, so digestion can happen properly and health can be restored. As Wize El Jefe shares his own journey of weight loss and improved well-being, the episode turns toward empowerment, resilience, and the actionable steps listeners can take. Georges outlines his program, Qualavita, which means “quality of life.” Through personalized coaching, group movements like his new Prevention Revolution, and forthcoming books, Georges aspires to help clients unlock vitality from within. His approach treats the whole person—physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual—drawing from wisdom traditions, modern science, and lived experience. The episode is filled with practical guidance: from nutrition tips and emotional healing practices to mindsets that foster hope and transformation. Georges illustrates how faith, purpose, and consistent action are essential to healing, sharing inspiring testimonials and anecdotes from his own family and clients. For listeners who may feel powerless battling disease, Georges delivers a powerful, compassionate message: healing happens from the inside out, and the answers for transformation are within. He shares the importance of believing in yourself, taking control of your choices, and seeking out supportive communities and resources. For those feeling lost after a diagnosis, Georges offers strategies for managing fear, advocating for yourself within the healthcare system, and using positive visualization to empower the mind and body toward healing. As the episode closes, Georges shares where listeners can find him, access his bestselling book "Beating the Odds," and join his new programs for both prevention and healing. His advocacy: take action and start the journey toward true quality of life—slow down, become present, and embrace holi

In this inspiring episode of the Stuck In My Mind Podcast, host Wize El Jefe sits down for an illuminating conversation with Suzanne Roberta Martens—entrepreneur, beauty industry veteran, and founder of the luxury clean beauty brand Adesse New York. This episode is a masterclass in resourcefulness, resilience, and the power of pursuing your dreams—no matter the obstacles. From Industry Titans to Indie Trailblazer The episode opens as Wize El Jefe introduces Suzanne Roberta Martens as someone who has not only worked for global icons like Estee Lauder, Avon, and Revlon but has also boldly stepped out to carve her own path within the competitive world of cosmetics. Listeners are treated to the backstory of a woman who dreamed of her own beauty brand since college, a vision fueled by her fascination with the ever-evolving beauty landscape. Working at the leading edge of brands reformulating their products for safety and wellness, Suzanne Roberta Martens learned every aspect of the business—from concept to market, branding to formulation, and manufacturing to positioning. She recounts how her specialty in skincare and color cosmetics paved the way for her to develop innovative approaches to product creation, especially as the industry transitioned towards clean ingredients. The Power of AI and Agility A key highlight of their discussion is the transformative role of technology. Both Wize El Jefe and Suzanne Roberta Martens share their experiences integrating AI into their creative and business processes, accelerating everything from product development to audience engagement. For Adesse New York, leveraging AI means not only tracking consumer trends but also using predictive modeling to ensure product launches meet real customer desires. Unlike larger corporations bogged down by long product development cycles, Suzanne Roberta Martens's agile team harnesses tech to innovate and adapt swiftly—something essential for indie brands seeking to disrupt established markets. Bootstrapping and Breaking In What makes Suzanne Roberta Martens’s journey particularly inspiring is her candor about starting with almost no funding. She explains that, far from being a setback, this forced her to be inventive. By identifying a major gap—clean nail care in an industry otherwise moving towards wellness—she conceptualized Adesse as a skincare-for-nails brand. Approaching contract manufacturers with a vision, not capital, she convinced partners to work in small production runs. Her unique perspective, treating nail care as skin care and using high-quality color pigments, enabled Adesse to stand out immediately. Through strategic partnerships with top beauty subscription companies, Adesse achieved massive exposure early on and quickly scaled from selling thousands to tens of millions of bottles. Suzanne Roberta Martens reflects on the exhilaration and terror of leaving the security of corporate America, betting on herself—and how the sense of truly helping people reclaim their nail health propelled her forward. Making Clean Beauty Accessible Wize El Jefe and Suzanne Roberta Martens dive deep into what sets Adesse New York apart: clinically effective, clean, and vegan nail formulas free from harmful toxins. Their conversation explores why avoiding ingredients that penetrate the body through the nails is vital, especially for conscious consumers already committed to health in other areas of life. A Pivotal QVC Moment—and the Pandemic Pivot Listeners are taken behind the scenes of Adesse’s big break: being selected as one of just 400 out of 20,000 brands to debut on QVC. Suzanne Roberta Martens recalls the grueling safety testing, the anticipation, and the heartbreak of COVID-19 shutting down the studio just as she was set to go live. Not to be deterred, she pivoted to a makeshift home studio, adjusting her expectations—and wardrobe!—and successfully launched a nail care solution exactly when the world desperately needed it. This segment is a testament to the entrepreneur’s tenacity and ability to turn setbacks into opportunity. Carving a Niche Among Giants How does an indie brand thrive in the shadow of billion-dollar conglomerates? By staying nimble, deeply tuning in to consumer needs, and using digital platforms to level the playing field. New selling channels, from Amazon Live to direct-to-consumer apps like Whatnot, allow agile brands like Adesse to reach global audiences and control their destiny, without gatekeepers. Suzanne Roberta Martens shares her excitement about the democratization of retail and how indie founders today have unprecedented potential to build relationships with customers around the world. Redefining Success and Building Community The conversation shifts to the meaning of success. Suzanne Roberta Martens admits her early ambition was all about landing major retail partners. Today, she finds fulfillment in directly serving her loyal customers—their feedback, stories, and advocacy matter more than any department s

In this insightful episode of the Stuck In My Mind Podcast, host Wize El Jefe welcomes Dr. Denise Trudeau Poskas—also known as Dr. Dee—an international speaker, leadership coach, and co-founder of Blue Egg Leadership. With over two decades of experience helping leaders thrive, Dr. Dee. draws on the powerful intersection of neuroscience, communication strategy, and positive psychology to equip others to lead bold, purpose-driven lives. Wize opens the conversation by inviting Dr. Dee to share her journey from traditional leadership to full-time coaching. Dr. Dee explains how curiosity—and even initial skepticism about coaching—sparked her academic pursuit for a PhD in leadership, eventually revealing to her the solid framework and transformative power of certified coaching. She discusses the differences between leadership and management and the pivotal role that active listening and effective question framing play in empowering others. The episode dives deep into the science behind leadership, as Dr. Dee brings neuroscience and communication strategy to the forefront. She highlights how our brains respond to "trigger words," why patterns of language can dictate behavior, and how understanding these patterns allows leaders to break free from self-limiting cycles. Wize shares his own experience discovering a trigger word after undergoing a dramatic weight loss journey, giving the discussion a personal touch. Listeners gain practical advice on building personal grit and resilience through setbacks and reinvention. Dr. Dee shares her SALC (Structures, Attitude, Leadership, Compassion) approach and the "Team Phenomenon Model," both designed to foster synergy and accountability within organizations. She underscores why emotional intelligence is foundational for any healthy team culture and offers tools for mastering time, mindset, and communication. Whether you’re an entrepreneur, corporate leader, or someone feeling “stuck” in your current role, this episode is packed with actionable strategies—including Dr. Dee's “Stuck Cycles” self-assessment—to help you diagnose your barriers and reignite your passion for authentic leadership. Dr. Dee wraps up with a forward-looking view of leadership in a fast-paced world, the importance of continual growth, and an optimistic vision for communities of support that help leaders thrive. Tune in to be inspired to lead with courage, resilience, and intention—and to discover why the journey within is just as important as the outward impact you make. Key Topics Discussed: Dr. Dee’s path from higher education to coaching The science of coaching and leadership frameworks Neuroscience insights for effective communication Handling trigger words and emotional triggers in the workplace Building grit, resilience, and self-leadership The SALC and Team Phenomenon frameworks Mastering time management and mindset Cultivating synergy, optimism, and an emotionally intelligent team culture Practical steps to overcome feeling stuck as a leader Insights into Blue Egg Leadership’s retreats, masterminds, and upcoming releases Visit BlueEggLeadership.com and StuckCycles.com for resources, self-assessments, and more from Dr. Denise Trudeau Poskas. If you’re ready to step into your boldest, wisest self as a leader, this episode is for you! https://kingsumo.com/g/m5g5vq3/win-a-copy-of-fk-love-find-purpose-unlock-your-path-to-passion-purpose https://sleek.bio/realwizeglobal

If you’ve ever felt trapped in a “bad fit” job, unsure how to pivot toward your true calling, this episode of Stuck In My Mind Podcast is the spark you need. Host Wize El Jefe welcomes coach, speaker, and podcast host Mitch Matthews—a man who’s dedicated his career to helping people dream bigger and build businesses with impact and purpose. Mitch’s story starts in small-town Iowa, sweeping floors at a bike shop at age 12. His “extreme interest” in bicycles unintentionally unlocked an even deeper fascination—the world of entrepreneurship. Through hands-on learning and mentorship, he saw firsthand how following your passions could create something meaningful. Little did he know that these formative years would lay the groundwork for launching his own six-figure business helping others pursue their dreams. Wize guides the conversation to pivotal moments, like Mitch’s climb up the corporate ladder in pharmaceutical sales, culminating in running sales training for a $2 billion company. But “success” wasn’t enough—the next promotion led to what Mitch candidly calls “the bad fit ceiling.” Despite living the so-called dream (good income, mortgage, family), his soul-crushing job became a wake-up call. The fear of leaving stability for entrepreneurship was real, especially coming from a family of non-entrepreneurs. Mitch shares how he navigated this fear—not with a blind leap, but by calculating a “leap number,” a strategy he now teaches to others, granting permission to build side businesses without jeopardizing financial security. What unfolds is a masterclass in real-life entrepreneurship. Mitch and Wize dig deep into the mistakes, false starts, and lessons learned while launching coaching and speaking careers. Mitch’s first misstep: believing big-name certifications would guarantee clients. He soon realized that competence mattered more than prestigious titles, and that most coach trainings gloss over the crucial topic of building a business. Research shows less than 15% of such programs cover the business side, leaving many new coaches floundering. That gap inspired Mitch’s own business: he helps coaches and speakers not just hone their craft but also build profitable, sustainable practices. The conversation is rich with stories—like Wize’s own journey from podcasting to launching a publishing company, helping a first-time author achieve her dream. Both men celebrate the power of giving yourself permission to experiment, learn, and fail forward. Mitch is passionate about teaching from the journey, not the destination, emphasizing that continuous growth leads to authentic impact. A major highlight is Mitch’s Six Figure Sequence, a step-by-step system designed to help aspiring coaches, speakers, and content creators launch and grow their businesses with intentionality. Mitch breaks down how the sequence was born—from a wise mentor’s advice at a busy local coffee shop (“What’s your sequence?”) to developing an actionable, repeatable system that has helped thousands worldwide. The concept is simple but powerful: every successful venture has a sequence, a path that guides customers from curiosity to commitment. For Mitch, turning this wisdom into his business’s backbone was transformative, and he now empowers others to create their own sequences for success. Wize and Mitch also explore the realities of monetizing creative work. Instead of chasing podcast sponsorships, Wize illustrates how developing skills—like book publishing and podcast setup—can become unique revenue streams. Mitch echoes this, encouraging listeners to recognize their value, lean into natural talents, and charge confidently for the transformation they offer. Another emotional thread is embracing change and personal growth. Wize reveals his own health transformation, losing over £120 in a year, and how the process reshaped his perspective and drive. These moments powerfully reinforce the episode’s central theme: teach from the journey, model vulnerability, and empower others to do the same. Mitch’s impact extends beyond individual coaching, with his mission to launch one million dreams. While quantifying such a goal is a work in progress, it’s clear his ripple effect—through coaching, speaking, and training other coaches—is multiplying exponentially. Finally, the episode covers Mitch’s acclaimed podcast, Dream. Think. Do., ranked in the top 1% globally. The show embodies Mitch’s philosophy: give yourself permission to dream, strategize with purpose, and take bold action. Podcasting becomes more than a medium—it’s a way to deepen conversations, build community, and amplify impact far beyond a single coaching session or keynote. Whether you’re a coach, entrepreneur, creative, or someone feeling boxed in by an unfulfilling job, this episode offers actionable advice, raw truth, and genuine encouragement to break out, build with intention, and help others realize their dreams. Key takeaways from the episode: How to transition from a “safe” job into inte

From the Gridiron to Growth: LaTanya Edenburghs Playbook for Life In this heartfelt and inspiring episode of the Stuck In My Mind Podcast, host Wize El Jefe sits down with LaTanya Edinburgh—a true trailblazer whose journey spans professional women’s football, empowerment coaching, and passionate advocacy for healing and growth. Together, they explore the unpredictable paths of life, the power of resilience, and what it really means to break barriers in both sports and society. A Candid Start, A Powerful Conversation Wize kicks off the episode admitting to a rare off day—lost notes and a late start—but LaTanya quickly sets the tone with compassion and grace, reminding us all to embrace life’s hiccups, breathe, and move forward with kindness toward ourselves and others. This natural and unfiltered beginning sets the stage for a discussion full of authenticity and deep insights. LaTanya’s Football Journey: Pioneering on the Field Listeners are treated to an inside look at LaTanya’s groundbreaking entry into professional women’s football at the turn of the millennium. Initially working behind the scenes in administration, her competitive spirit could not be contained—soon, she found herself donning full pads and taking the field. Her stories of playing full-contact football, choosing defense (“let me do the hitting!”), and traveling the country shed light on the challenges and triumphs of being a woman in a vastly male-dominated sport. LaTanya reflects on being a pioneer during those early days—before widespread visibility or support for women in football existed. She discusses how her league overcame significant barriers simply through unbreakable team spirit, mutual support, and a shared belief that women belonged on that gridiron. Her pride in seeing the rise of women’s flag football and ongoing progress in women’s sports today is palpable, highlighting the impact of those foundational years. From Athlete to Empowerment Coach: A Purposeful Pivot The conversation then evolves beyond athletics. LaTanya shares that her calling to empower and uplift others began as a child, long before her football days. Today, she’s a multi-certified empowerment coach specializing in everything from therapeutic art to grief coaching. Her business, Illuminate Your Journey, is dedicated to helping youth, athletes, and adults heal from trauma, embrace personal growth, and step boldly into their purpose. Through storytelling, LaTanya explains how she tailors her coaching—drawing from her various certifications and her intuitive gifts—to fit each client’s unique needs. Whether through art, life coaching, or grief work, her central mission remains the same: to guide people from loss to understanding so they can live with empowerment, purpose, and longevity. Healing, Forgiveness, and Community Uplift A critical theme in this episode is the role of healing and forgiveness. LaTanya delves deep into the concept of grief—not just related to death, but the “invisible griefs” that stem from unmet potential, transitions, or cultural and societal pressures. She passionately believes in creating safe spaces for people—especially in marginalized communities—to be vulnerable, seek support, and shed the stigma attached to therapy and emotional openness. The conversation moves into broader community issues, touching on financial literacy, the importance of life insurance, and breaking generational cycles through knowledge and support. Both LaTanya and Wize share personal stories, from loss and hardship to finding hope and purpose, underscoring how critical it is to have honest conversations about mental wellness, money, and personal growth in the Black and Brown communities. Women in Sports: Visibility, Equity, and the Road Ahead As women’s sports like the WNBA reach record-breaking attendance and national attention, LaTanya reflects on what it means to finally see the “light shining” on female athletes. She dreams of a future where women receive not just recognition and fair compensation, but real support from across the spectrum—fans, families, and fellow athletes alike. She’s candid about the double standards still present: how women are often labeled as having “an attitude” for displaying the same competitive drive admired in men, and how society must evolve to support women athletes (and women in general) without bias or belittlement. Coaching Young Athletes: On and Off the Field LaTanya brings her coach’s mentality into youth empowerment, describing her hands-on approach: meeting athletes where they are, speaking their language, and addressing the personal and practical barriers to their success. Her coaching philosophy is holistic, recognizing that athletes—especially young women—need more than just technical skills; they need tools to navigate transitions, build self-worth, and unlock their full potential at every stage of development. Purpose, Passion, and Paying it Forward As the episode moves toward a close, Wize and LaTanya reflect on

In this eye-opening episode of the Stuck In My Mind Podcast, host Wize El Jefe sits down with Michelle Boyde, a master hypnotist and human design expert, who’s on a mission to rewrite the rules around burnout, limiting beliefs, and what it really means to thrive. Michelle’s journey will resonate with anyone who’s ever ticked all the “right” boxes—career, income, status—only to find themselves burnt out and unfulfilled. Michelle opens up about the moment burnout pushed her to the brink, and how a panic attack marked her breaking point. What followed was a radical reinvention, a bold move away from the high-powered consulting world toward a career rooted in helping others find alignment and success on their own terms. Discover how Michelle stumbled into hypnosis and found it to be a powerful tool for reprogramming the subconscious—going deeper than traditional coaching ever could. She breaks down the real difference between willing yourself to change and actually rewiring your beliefs at the body level. Through stories and analogies, Michelle reveals why relying solely on conscious effort keeps us circling the same goals, and how true transformation requires working with the subconscious “liminal space” between who we’ve been and who we’re becoming. The conversation explores human design—described as your energetic blueprint for potential—and why tapping into this framework helped Michelle shift from relentless hustle to “energetically sustainable success.” Listeners learn how human design’s five types, strategies, and authorities can guide daily decisions and help individuals create lives that fit them, not societal expectations. The episode’s rich with wisdom on navigating stress, breaking the myth that more productivity equals more meaning, and why chasing purpose often backfires if it isn’t grounded in action and authentic desire. Michelle shares moving client stories, including a life-changing hypnosis session with her own father, which shattered skepticism and brought hope for relief even with conditions thought “incurable.” Listeners will take away practical tips for tuning into desires, embracing the power of rest, and finding rhythm in alignment with their true selves—plus, insights into making human design and hypnosis tangible, not just theoretical. Whether you’re deep in hustle culture or seeking a soul-level reset, this episode is a blueprint for reinvention, urging you to experiment, embody, and redefine what success—and self-mastery—can truly mean. Ready for a new perspective on transformation? Press play and start your own reinvention journey. Find all of Michelle’s free resources and her liminal archetype quiz at michelleboyde.com/start.