Strawberry Letter

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Steve and Shirley please help. I have a best friend with whom I've been friends for many years. We've gone through a lot of ups and downs together supported each other through hard times traveled together and I've even watched our children grow. She even gave me a baby shower for my son who is now five years old. She's been a real good friend. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Shirley and Steve I've been keeping a secret from my man and I need your advice. I joined a local swingers club a little over two years ago and my sexual appetite desires being with more than just one man. I've been with my boyfriend now for six months. I really want to tell him about my other life but I don't know how. I've hinted around at the idea of us going to the parties as a couple and the idea of us becoming swingers and for play he will say yes but on the night of a party he doesn't want to go. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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I'm a 35 year old mother single mother of three kids 16 15 and 11. I've been divorced for about five years and don't know much about the games men play. I listen to you all the time and over the last six months I have really learned a lot but I have a situation that I don't know how to handle. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Steve I met a man recently. The type that most women would love to have tall 6'3 235 pounds college professor, homeowner 41 years old. I am cute sexy 50 and enjoying my life. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Well here this crap of a son of a gun goes. I was married for six years to what I thought was a good man. Well the second year of our marriage he was in a horrible accident and was paralyzed from the neck down. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

First of all hello Steve Shirley Carla and Tommy. I live in a small Southern town in Georgia to say no more. I recently moved to Florida 10 months ago to the big city of Jacksonville for a better paying job. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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I really need your help. I'm a married mother of three. My husband and I have been together for almost 20 years. Everything is fine except the fact that my husband recently had an affair he confessed and totally regrets what he has done. However the low life homewrecker won't leave him alone. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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I am writing to get your opinion on friends dating their best friends ex. I'm a 43 year old woman who has a really good male friend of 30 years. We have always been very close and always took good care of each other. We have amazing chemistry and a very good bond very strong bond but we continue to say we are just friends. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

I'm a Midwesterner now currently residing in Memphis Tennessee. Since living here I've begun dating this guy. He's a little older. Charming smart college educated. Good job no kids no failed or current marriages and has been there for me when I've needed him with all these good qualities. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

I've been with my boyfriend for six years living together he bought a house and we started going to church. He and I got married and were married in that church to a Luther song, so amazing. Three months into the marriage my husband started to cheat on me with a 24 year old woman who is the same age as his daughter. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

I was at a gathering and was introduced to this couple that has kids the same age as mine. We had good conversations set up play dates and our kids play very well together. Then while hanging out one night playing games the woman of the couple asked me a woman if I have ever been with a woman. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

I am a middle aged single female who has been dating a man about five years my junior. He's a great guy has great values is a family man. But here's the problem. He can't afford to buy a ring. I'm not materialistic at all. However... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Hey Steve I am a 20 year old online student and I live with my lesbian mother and little brother. I have been living with her for almost a year now and before that I had not stayed with her since I was I think 16 but even then I did not stay with her but only a couple of months. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Currently I am separated and over 40 can't have any children. Main reason for my divorce anyway. I met a man Mr. Man who was also separated and we became very close. It was great after a year. Mr. Man has his divorce. Once my divorce was final this summer I thought Mr. Man and I would be together. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

I am happily married and my wife and I have two kids. The problem is, I have a female friend from college. My female friend is also married with two kids and she lives in another state. We hardly ever see each other but we do keep in touch. Over 15 years ago, she and I had sex. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

My dear friend has been married for over 20 years. I have been married and I’m divorced. She was a great supporter throughout my whole mess. When I started dating again, she made sure she knew who I was going out with and where I was going, just so I was safe on my dates. She was a really good friend. Now that I've been in an exclusive relationship for the past 5 years, she has started telling me that I can do better. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years and I love him so much. I'm 25 and he is 30. He has promised me that one day we will get married, but there are just a few problems that I need to handle first. About a year ago, he lost his job and he took it pretty hard. The first month he wouldn't shower or brush his teeth. I told him that if he didn't shower, I would bust the windows in his car! Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

I have a problem with my husband's ex-wife not respecting my place as his new wife. We got married a few months ago and his ex-wife needs to respect me as the boss of this family now. She has never liked me because I dated my husband while he was still married to her. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

My husband and I have been married for 21 years. When we first met, we were intimate a couple of times, but we decided not to have any more sex until we were married. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

First off I want to say that I love my husband. He is the most kind and gentle man I have ever known. When we met we dated for a year without having sex. We had never seen each other naked until marriage. After we got married and before we started having sex my husband admitted to me that he was smaller than normal if you know what I mean. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

I have been dating a guy at work. After dating him for 10 months, I found out that he was married and he has three kids. I forgave him for lying because we were into each other and I wasn't about to let this minor problem mess up our relationship. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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In the past, I was a side chick and I ended up having a baby. I didn't feel like a side chick because he was at my house every day and every night and I really thought he was the one. The shocker came one night after we had been intimate... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

A year ago I began working at a new company. Two months later, my supervisor and I began flirting and texting each other during and after work. It didn’t take long for this to turn into a sexual relationship. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

My husband is a good and decent man, but he is very shy and his shyness spills over into our sex life. When we first met in college, he was great in bed and wasn’t ashamed to say what he wanted from me. Nowadays, he doesn’t show me any public displays of affection and the worst part is that he’s been acting shy in the bedroom! Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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I met a girl and moved in with her. We had 3 kids. Then my girl’s mom and her sister moved in with us. Then her uncle moved in when he is released from prison. Now we have mother, sister, uncle, and children under one roof. There are so many people in the house, that people are sleeping in the dining room on the floor. There are no house rules or discipline for our children. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Here’s my issue… I'm dating a guy that has nothing going on. We’ve been together for three years. He has four children, no car, and he used to live with me. I tried to help him get a better job but he wants to work dead end jobs. I told him he should offer to pay some of my household bills and he says I watch too much Love and Hip Hop and I want to live that kind of life. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

I once was in love with a man 20 years older than me… I was 20 years old when we met. It was supposed to be a sugar daddy, sugar baby relationship. Needless to say, the sex was awesome. Things got extremely difficult when I found out he was a family friend. We decided we would continue with our deeds and keep it a secret. We ended up catching feelings and I was head over heels for this old man and I thought he felt the same way about me. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

I was with my girlfriend for 12 years and we never got married because of her constant cheating. I tried to break up with her back in 2015, but we got back together because her car and her house are in my name. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It’s beyond being a momma’s boy! He jokes about her thinking he is her man and I repeatedly tell him it’s not funny. I feel that she is jealous of the attention he gives me. Anything I say I want to do for him, she has to piggy back and try to do it too. If he tells me I look nice, she gives me a sad look and he has to compliment her more. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

I have been married for two years. I love my wife with everything inside of me and I want to spend the rest of my life with her. She is an amazing mother and wife. We have a great sex life. My problem is that I want more. I want to be in an open relationship or at least be a swinging couple. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

I am 45 years old and have been married for 12 years. I have a very good relationship and this is the happiest I’ve ever been… except there’s one problem. My husband has issues in the bedroom and it has been going on for 5 years now. We have been to every kind of doctor and he’s tried everything. No matter what he tries, he can not last more than a minute. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.