Strawberry Letter

Dear Steve and Shirley, I need some real advice here. I've been married for a year and my wife recently started a new job... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley I am a 40 year old female no kids and never been married. I've been dating a man for two months and he's a great guy that's consistent, thoughtful, and a hard worker. He has all of the qualities I'm looking for in a mate. But here's my problem... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley I want your honest opinions. I'm young and I have a great job, my own place and I'm happily single for now. Here's my issue... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley I met the love of my life. This beautiful woman was so perfect. I could not believe she was still single. Well after dating her for six months I figured out exactly why she is not married... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Hello Shirley and Steve I'm 29. I'm a 29 year old Hispanic woman just recently married. I love my husband with all of my heart and soul. We've been together for going on two years married two months and we get along great. The problem is his son's mother... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steven Shirley this past Valentine's Day started out as the most amazing day with the man of my dreams. We planned to go out to dinner. So after work I went to his condo and waited for him to get home. The moment he walked through the door we got busy quick and Wild Style... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Shirley. I listen to your show all the time and I laugh at some of the letters I hear. However looking at my own life I realize that I need to write a letter my damn self. I'm a married man of six years. I love my wife. I have since we both said I love you for the first time I made a promise to her and myself that I would never betray her. Well I did anyway several times... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Hello Steve, Shirley, Tommy, and crew. Good morning. I'm a 32 year old female who married at the age of 19. My husband was 22. We've been married for least 13 years. Anyway, we've been separated for six months. We have two children. My husband is divorcing me... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband is 71 years old and he loves to watch porn. I sometimes watch it with him just to please him. Recently things have gotten out of hand... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

I'm in love with a man who loves me. We've been dating for 14 months. However, four months ago I decided to further my career and take a job 3000 miles away. I made sure to let my boyfriend know that I was not leaving him, but trying to obtain a better life for me and my daughter. Well he was devastated... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, Greetings from the dirty south. I have this dilemma that I've dealt with for twenty one years and I finally had enough. My problem is that I'm married to three people... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have a problem. I met a guy and I consider him a good friend and I want to get to know him better. He has taken me on a few dates and all went well at first. The problem arose after one of our recent dates. After a really good date, we decided we'd pick up some food and go back to his house to chill and eat our food. Well, when we got to his house with our food and he turned the lights on. Boom bam boom roaches.... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Hi Steve and Morning Crew, I am writing this letter because I am in total disbelief. My son who is 18 knows no limit. My husband and I had built quite a collection of porn... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Good morning everyone, I really enjoy listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. My problem is this, the other day while in my bedroom changing my 3 month old daughter's diaper, my husband's cell phone had rang twice. He was sleeping... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Good morning Steve Harvey and crew, I am writing because I have I am having a major dilemma, my husband and I have been together for about 11 years and have two children. We are currently separated and have been going through some things for the last few years. We've been on and off again. We can't seem to get along... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been married for five years but my husband moved out three years ago and moved in with my brother... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Shirley and Steve, I'm hoping that you will choose this letter because at this point I really don't know what to do. I've been married for close to nine years to a wonderful man. I have one child and another child that will be born in about two weeks. When my husband and I were dating, I did notice... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Good morning Steve Harvey and crew, I'm writing this letter because I'm a 30 year old single mother of one who finally decided to be in a committed relationship after being married before divorced and in the dating game for a few years. So, I've had a little time to free myself. The man I am seeing... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am damn near 50 years old and my wife is 40. We’ve been married for almost 10 years and have two children, both under the age of 5. I want to make sure you have all the details. First off, I love my wife, BUT... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been best friends with someone for 18 years. This relationship was strictly platonic for this period, until I finally gave in year 19 to become more than just friends. After two years of this, I realize.... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley. Hey Tommy. My mom is 52 years old and she's been dating this guy for ten years. It's very good to her He wines and dines her and spoils her with gifts and money. He also attends our family events and holiday celebrations with her. Whenever I need anything, he's been there for me. So here's my issue.... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Steve and Shirley, First let me clarify the title. I am a girlfriend and I'm the one with less than perfect credit. I met a man last year, who appeared in my life just two weeks after I got down on my knees and prayed.... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Steve and Shirley, I am a 25 year old woman. I married my husband when I was 19 years old and I am starting to believe that it was a mistake... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Morning Show, I am sick and tired of this man, but more importantly I'm sick of myself. Here it is, I'm in love with the man that I'm sure doesn't love me... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and friends my husband and I have been together for four years and married for one year. Now we're raising three young children with one on the way. I am taking part time classes at a local college and work part time. My husband... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 25 year old college student. I plan to go to medical school and become a doctor someday. After my last relationship went sour, I didn't think I was going to fall in love ever again. To my surprise... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, my wife and I have allowed our friend and his girlfriend to stay at our apartment for a few weeks. They just bought a condo and they are waiting for a few repairs to be finished before they move in. I don't mind them staying with me, but there's one big problem. They are too darn loud too loud. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Is there really a signal that women put off that tells a man that she only dates married men because that's all I seem to pull, since I was 16 and now I'm 28. If so, let me know so I can clear it off my face. I always thought it was because I was mature for my age, but..... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I met a gentleman seven months ago. I'm 45 and he's 37 when we met he lived 3 hours away so he decided to move to my area. It's been four months now since we've been in the same city and I'm starting to see issues with him. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Hello Steve Shirley Tommy and Carla, I'm a 23 year old college student living with my uncle in South Carolina. He is providing for my room and board while I attend school and I really appreciate him. I love my uncle dearly but he is simply crazy and needs help. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Miss strawberry, I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year and I love him so much. We hardly ever argue or fight because we live an hour away from each other so when we are together we make the best of our time. We do everything together except one big thing when we do see each other. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I begin this letter by saying I hate my husband of 12 years. I feel as though he has made a fool of me and I feel stupid. The thought of him makes me sick to my stomach. When he says I love you. I want to say kiss my butt. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, My man is so handsome sexy very smart and loved by everyone. He is so patient with me and he spoils me rotten. I love this man and I want to be more affectionate with him but I can't because it's darn breath stinks. We have been off and on for two years and his breath is a part of the reason the sex is great but I have to keep my head on the pillow because of his breath. He kisses and leaves a smell on my neck. He won't go get his teeth checked even though he's got good insurance. I mean the odor is bad and it hits you hard especially in the morning. Oh boy. My 3 year old daughter has even asked him to brush his teeth. Now don't get me wrong I have brought this up numerous times and I'm about to make him a dental appointment. I'm about to let it all out and say baby your breath is terrible and you know it. Please help. I love this man, but this odor is tearing our relationship apart. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Good morning everyone, Steve Shirley Carla and Tommy I'm having some issues. My mother in law is going through some problems financial and needs some support. Now let's start from the beginning Steve. I married my wife in 92 back from the first war in the desert. Since then I've been the Nine one one of her family. My father in law broke camp and told me, Son in law you better leave while you got the chance. I didn't understand what was going on or what he meant then. My wife has four younger sisters and she's the only one that's married and stable. I've heard it all and yes even seen it too. I'm a strong man and grew up without a father. I have three beautiful babies ranging from 13 to 9 by my wife. I love her to death and I'll tell you why Steve. I was a dog when she met me and married me. It took me about two years after marriage to realize what I had. She stuck by me. I got myself together and devoted myself to her forsaking all others. Now I've put up with the in-laws thinking that this was punishment for all my infidelities. I've helped out with cars rent house payment bills bankruptcies and even gotten apartments in my name. Now my wife will probably hear this. She listens to you also. But I married her not her family. My God. Haven't I suffered enough? Brett can't do it anymore. I've considered running away but can't leave my babies don't want to leave her. What should I do? Dazed and Confused. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Dear Steve, I'm a 38 year old lady. I am a successful lady with a number of degrees, own my own home and car. I guess none of that really matters when it comes to love. My problem is I know this guy who wants to get back with me. We were together a long time ago. We attend the same church and have the same friends. My friends keep telling me that I should give the brother a chance. Now Steve he doesn't have a car nor a place to call his own. He is 40 years old no steady job because of health problems health issues. He will work. I do love him but Steve I want someone who can bring something to the table. I know love is important but Steve a little security will help a little bit more. What do you think I need to do. Marriage is a serious step and I've got to be sure. Prayer is the only way I know. Just wanted to get a male point of view. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

I am 25 years old and just graduated from college and just started my career in August with a great company. I've only been with a company for five months and just found out that I'm pregnant. My boyfriend of three years is currently living out of state but has just accepted a position with an equally great company near me. We have already been discussing him moving up here and us getting married in the future. But now that I'm pregnant we decided to move the wedding date up to next year. Now here's the issue. He wants me to move in with him since I'm pregnant. He is very adamant about having his family all under one roof. My family is telling me not to move in with him because we are not yet married. His family on the other hand is saying we should move in together because we're going to be a family now. I do not doubt for a minute that he is going to marry me. I have known him for four years now and I know him to be a man of his word. He said to me if I'm asking you to move in with me it's because I am ready to make that next step and I truly believe that he is. But we have still decided to wait until next year to make that next step. Some of my family said that we should go to the courthouse, but I feel like we will be doing that just so I can move in with him. And we already decided to wait until next year. We have a place set up and we have been looking at rings and discussing our budget for everything. Also I do not want to rush to do everything at once. He's starting a new job moving to a new area and we're having a baby. Been adding getting married and moving in together all at the same time. I know we already have three out of five going on but I am afraid of adding more stress because we really do not know what we're getting into. We're only 25 years old. I'm stuck at a crossroads because no matter what decision I make I will be disappointing someone. I know it's my life and I have to make my own decisions. But all my life I have been the good one. I've always done what I was told always strove to make everyone around me happy with my actions and decisions. I do not want to begin feeling like me getting pregnant is destroying everyone else's life. This is truly a blessing even though it was not done the traditional way. I know he still plans on marrying me either way but I will cause a lot of strain but it will cause a lot of strain in our relationship if I do not move in and thinking about our future. I do not want to cause any extra stress on a relationship. I think we have enough as it is right now with distance pregnancy marriage and soon a baby so my question is should I move in with him and upset my family or not move them with him and upset my soon to be family? Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

About two months ago my wife asked me what I wanted for my birthday and I told her my biggest fantasy was to have a threesome. It took some persuading and finally she gave in. Let's just say the best birthday present I have had in a long time until the lights came on. To my surprise lying next to my wife was her mother. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Hello. Morning Crew. So I've been in a relationship with my fiance for seven years now and I can't trust him. He's never done anything for me not to trust him. But looking at all the men in my family and knowing that they cheated I can't trust him because I feel there is no way he's faithful. I have the mindset that all men cheat. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Good morning Steve and Shirley. I have a 32 year old pastor with somewhat of an issue. My wife and I are happily married and we have the typical issues like the next couple. Here is the situation. There was one particular lady in my church who really freaks me out and rubs my wife the wrong way. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

First, let me say that I love the advice that you and Steve give to those with dilemmas. I've tried to ask for advice from others. But those shy and backed away but I'm at the point where I need answers. I'm not sure where to begin. But here I go. I'm head over heels for this guy and has straight affection problems. He says that he loves me once in a while but it's like pulling teeth from his mouth. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley. I've been married for a year and I'm the breadwinner of my family. We have a great lifestyle because of my income. My husband works for a cable company and he gets paid 400 dollars a week and that just takes care of the car note. So let me tell you how I'm the breadwinner. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Hello Steve and Shirley. I'm a 43 year old female and I've always dated older men. Well about eight months ago I started dating a 36 year old man and after seven months of dating we decided to be intimate. Now here's the problem I guess since he's younger than me he wants to have sex or make love three to four times a night seven days a week. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Hello Steve and Shirley. I just found out that my husband has a two year old child with his ex-wife. When I confronted him about the child he told me it wasn't his child. It was a tube baby. He says she is a product of IVF and that he has documentation to prove it. When I ask him why with his ex wife he just said she asked him to donate his sperm and that she was his first wife and never been with no other man but him so he agreed. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

I date both single men and married men. I find nothing wrong dating them. Most of them need love too. The man that’s married made the agreement with someone else not me. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Hello Steve Shirley Tommy and Carla. I'm a 30 year old woman who recently left my children's father. I left because it seems as though we don't want the same things in life. Let's start by saying in the beginning of the relationship things were great, as you know the beginning is always the best. He asked me to move in with him so that we can save money and get a house together. Mind you I was fine living alone with my 2 year old daughter at the time. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Steven Shirley I'm a divorced mother of twins that runs a successful business. Due to the fact that my company requires a lot of my time. I spend all of my free time with my twin boys both my sons participate in team sports and I am at all games and practices as well as very active in their school and educational process. This leaves no time for a real relationship right now. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Good morning Stephen Shirley. I am here in Vegas alone and there is something weighing on my heart. So I decided to write. I've been talking to a man for about a month. I really like this guy and we connected immediately. I am 53 and he is 47. Getting to know us face has turned up some issues but since they won't harm or hurt me I can compromise. The thing that brought us to a halt is his refusal to be tested for HIV. He says he never has and never will. How are some of us still stuck on stupid and afraid of being tested? Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.