Strawberry Letter

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 29-year-old man and three months ago, I started seeing a gorgeous woman in her mid-20s. She has the best body, smooth and glowy chocolate skin, the sexiest voice. She is the best that I ever had if you know what I mean. She’s very affectionate and she treats me well. But she’s missing one important thing: a brain… Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I met and older guy and I was attracted to him, but played hard to get. He begged me for a first date and I eventually agreed to go out with him. He asked to pick him up and I didn’t think much about it since his house was on the way to the restaurant. When I got to the house, he came out and so did a much older lady. He got in my car and told me that was his mom and that he lived with her…... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley,I’ve been married for 10 years. We don’t have any children together, but my husband has two grown kids and another “play daughter.” Before we got married, he had an ex-girlfriend and started dating her when her daughter was only two-years-old, so he became really close to the little girl. The girl even calls him “daddy.” When she was younger, he taught her how to ride a bike, they went bowling often, school shopping and he’d help her mom out financially with things the child needed.... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, Two years ago I met a guy on an online site for dating and we became close. In the beginning, he told me that he was in an open relationship with a woman and he wanted me to meet her. I agreed, since I wasn’t looking for anything serious. I met the girl and she and I have become the best of friends. When I’m hanging out with her guy, she’s okay with it because she has another special friend that she kicks it with.... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am 57 years old and have been married to an intelligent, extremely good looking 60 year old man for ten years. We’re admired by friends and family because we seem to have the perfect marriage. At home and in public, we act like two teenagers in love. We send each other silly texts all day and we play all kind of silly games at home.............. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 50 year old devoted wife with a big problem. I've been married to a great man for 23 years and we have two kids in college. He is a great provider and we both have solid careers, but he has always had a big dream… He wants to be a big Broadway actor. My husband wants badly to be an actor but he's never been able to make it work. He’s auditioned for a lot of commercials, he’s taken acting classes and he has wasted our money on hustling his way into some big auditions, but each time he was rejected........... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 30-year old man and I love working out. I started a new, very intense workout routine last month and my trainer suggested I get a good deep tissue massage to get out the kinks. So, I scheduled a 90-minute deep tissue massage with a massage therapist. It’s an in-home massage service that came highly recommended by my trainer. A day later, a female therapist showed up at my house and I was surprised at how beautiful and in shape she was.............. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 32 year old man and I just started a job teaching adults that are getting a GED. I'm loving it so far, but I need advice on how to handle a very aggressive female student in her early 60s. At the end of one of my lectures, she approached me and asked what gym I go to because I have a very nice body. I blushed and didn't know what to say! She winked at me and left................. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I love myself very much and I love most of my family but I developed this deep dark hatred for my sister. You see, my sister has the life I prayed for. I turned to God and asked God to bless me with a husband with all the qualities her husband has. God gave this wonderful man to my sister and my sister has never prayed for anything! She did not even want to be in a relationship when she met her husband............. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 22 year old college student and I just started my senior year at a new school. I've joined a frat and met an awesome girl and it was all going great until last week. We threw a party to kick-off the semester and when my frat brothers saw my girlfriend they all got awkward and quiet. She didn’t stay long after that and when she left, I called them out for acting weird and ignoring my girl........... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 40 year old man and my wife and I have a strong marriage and a great life together. We just have one little problem in our home. It’s my wife’s sister. My wife’s sister has been living with us for the past 7 years since she got a very nasty divorce. She said it would be temporary until she got on her feet, but she is still here. I do love my sister-in-law and she contributes to the household as much as possible, but she should have moved out years ago.......... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, my friend hooked me up with a great guy and before I met him, we had great conversation and he seemed to be a cool guy. He sent me a picture of himself and I sent him a picture too. He had a beautiful smile and I commented that he had perfect teeth. He told me that he had false teeth. I asked him why he chose false teeth over implants and he said that implants were too expensive. It was no biggie, so we continued to get to know each other.......... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 29 year old single woman with a great job, but I have an issue with a co-worker. I went to a local bar a couple of weeks ago and had a few drinks. I noticed a man and woman in the corner cuddling and didn’t think anything of it at first. Later on, I went to the bathroom and passed the couple and realized it was two of my co-workers in the corner boo’d up. Both of them are married and when they saw me, they instantly took their arms off each other and separated........... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been worrying about my marriage and how my past actions may threaten it. A few months ago, my friends and I went on a guy’s trip. We always go on trips together and the wives get together and take trips too. While I was on the trip, I ate good and drank a lot. We went clubbing and since I love to dance, I was salsa dancing with the ladies and may have been a little too close to one particular lady that danced very sensually. I didn’t make out with her or anyone else, but my body language was inappropriate for a married man............ Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I met the love of my life. This beautiful woman was so perfect I could not believe she was still single. Well after dating her for six months I figured out exactly why she is not married. She has a bizarre nasty habit. It all started to go downhill when I took her around my friends for the first time. We went to a house party and had a good time eating and drinking. The next day my friend called me upset because someone had relieved themselves in his bathroom drawer. To put it politely, it was not urine. He thought someone had had too much to drink and made a mistake............ Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, thirteen years ago I became friends with a newly-married, young couple at church. They have two children and they are good God-fearing people with large hearts. The only problem is that they are not book smart and the wife is lacking in the common sense department too. They both speak terribly and their subject and verb agreement is always off. Their spelling is even worse............... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I recently started a new position as an assistant to the office manager. On my first day at work, I noticed that everyone in the office was looking at me and whispering. I thought that they were just checking me out because I was the new girl. Silly me! When my new boss got in, I went and greeted him. Everyone was still looking at me but now they were laughing. And then it happened! The odor that came out of my boss’ mouth damn near knocked me out.......... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 27 year old married woman with a two year old son that won’t stop cussing. Recently, whenever he gets frustrated or upset, he starts cussing. If he falls down and hurts himself, he cusses. If I tell him no, he cusses! I assumed he was hearing these cuss words from my husband, because I don’t cuss in front of him, so he is not hearing it from me. My husband swore to me that he has not been cussing in front of him either.......... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, my husband and I have been together for ten years and he has the biggest heart. His empathy towards his fellow man is what made me fall in love with him. However, his big heart has been a big problem lately. He does community outreach for struggling adults and last year he met a guy that was trying to get his life back on track, so my husband helped this man get a job and a apartment. The problem is, now this man is one of my husband’s best friends and I can’t stand him.............. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been married to my husband for 8 years and we have a 5 year old and a 2 year old daughter. My husband has 5 other kids, not including the two we have together. Yes, I know that is a lot of kids, however, I want to try for another baby next year. I am 32 and he is 40 and he says he is too old to have more kids. I don’t have a son and would like to try for a son. I always told him I wanted to have three children. We don't have sex because he says he doesn't want to get me pregnant and if we do have sex, he buys me the Plan B pill to avoid any possible pregnancies............... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 60 year old man and I have been married for 16 years. My wife is 13 years younger than I am and we don't see eye to eye on a serious issue. In the beginning our sex life was great but over the years we simmered down a bit. A year ago I went through a very serious health issue and during that time our sex life suffered. I made a full recovery and when I was ready for some action my wife was acting like she was afraid to touch me. I had to beg for sex and when we did do it, it wasn't very exciting. One day I just told her that I was not being satisfied and she told me that while I was sick she found other ways to get a little pleasure............. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 33 year old single woman and my best friend is a 32 year old wild woman. She works as a bartender and she uses her job to as a way to hit on guys and most of them are in their mid-twenties. She also has sex with these guys. She says that guys our age can't keep up with her so she sticks with the twenty-somethings because they are great in bed. I try not to judge her, but her sex life is a big problem for me, because she always uses my guest room to hook up with these random men............... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 70 year old woman with raging hormones like a 30 year old. I love making love to a man that knows what he is doing between the sheets. I met this man about a year ago from an online dating site. After 5 months of talking on the phone, we decided to get together. Now I’ve always thought of love-making as an art and if you are not an artist, I am not looking for a painter. I know my performance is very artistic… or so I have been told. I like variety. Nothing too kinky, but a little variety. I told my boyfriend that he will get quality if he gives quality............... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, let’s get right to it. Here's my dilemma… I’m a 38 year old woman and I've never wanted to have children. Five years ago, I was in a great relationship and we were talking about getting married, but he wanted children and I did not. So we mutually decided to end our relationship. We could not deny that we were still in love with each other, so two years after we broke up, we reconnected and have been seeing each other off and on since then.......... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a very happily married woman in my early 50s and I have an issue with my husband’s long-time friend and fraternity brother. My husband’s friend lives in another state for work, but he loves to come visit all his buddies in the city that my husband and I live in. When he comes to town, he would take turns staying at different friends’ houses. His first visit to our new home was earlier this year and he stayed the entire weekend and that was okay, as a one-time deal.......... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley. I'm a 29 year old married woman. My husband and I have been married for almost three years. We met at work and we fell for each other rather quickly. We also began to have sex early on in our relationship. At first the sex was ok. It was what I needed then, but as time went on our encounters started to be a problem because he could not last long at all. He was getting all of the pleasure and I wasn't getting any. Well, we eventually got married.......... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been married over 20 years and thought everything was going well in my marriage. My husband and I are in our late 50s and our children are finally grown so we have more time to focus on each other. We are getting along well and our sex life is the best it has been in years. The other day I checked my husband's email to follow up on jobs he is applying for. He knows I have access to his email. A couple of weeks ago he went to get a complete physical and I noticed an email from his doctor, with lab results........... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 34 year old male who is currently dating a female that lives 200 miles from me. We make an effort to meet 3 times a month, mostly on weekends. I do love her, but I have a big problem that will interfere with the progression of our relationship. You see, I deal with multiple girls on the side during the weekdays. The girls come to my place and we keep it strictly sexual and nothing more. The girls are not the problem, they all know that I have a girlfriend and they are okay with it............. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, recently, I've noticed that there are lots of women that think they got it going on and don’t mind bragging on how fine they are. There is nothing that turns me off more than a woman that thinks she is God’s gift to the world. You know who I am talking about, the ones that walk around like their ish doesn’t stink. I was married to a gorgeous sister and the best thing about her was the fact that she wasn't stuck on herself and she always had a great attitude. Women don’t realize that looks will fade and in the long run, it’s a great personality and brains that will matter most............. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 27 year old college graduate and I recently moved back in with my mother to save some money and get my own place. My parents were high school sweethearts but they never got married. For over 30 years, they’ve been hooking up whenever they were single. They go on dates, vacations and they attend family gatherings, but they refuse to get married. I’ve asked my dad why he won’t marry my mom and he said, “Son, a house is much better than an apartment,” whatever that means! My dad comes over to my mom’s house all the time and watching the two of them is like watching soft core porn............... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley I met a gentleman seven months ago. I'm 45 and he's 37 when we met he lived 3 hours away so he decided to move to my area. It's been four months now since we've been in the same city and I'm starting to see issues with him. He didn't have a plan in place when he moved to my city and now he's living in a shelter because I told him he cannot live with me. He doesn't have a car and I refuse to drive him around. He does have a job. In fact he's had three different jobs since he's been here............ Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I recently found out that my 17 year old son had sex for the first time. He's entering his senior year in high school and his girlfriend graduated last year. I overheard my son telling his friend about the whole thing and I was devastated. But there is another level to this story. I read my son’s texts and found out that his girlfriend’s mother knew about them having sex and allowed them to have sex in her home. I asked my son about it and apparently, the girlfriend’s mom was part of the plan all along and “counseled” them beforehand.......... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been married for the past 5 years to a very controlling man. He worked offshore so he was gone from the home a lot and I was not allowed to work, so I was left home with nothing to do. I started getting more involved in the church and one evening after a stewardship meeting, I met a handsome man in the parking lot of the church. He was in town visiting his mother and had brought her to the meeting. One thing lead to another and we exchanged phone numbers and secretly talked whenever we could........... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a single 46 year old, 6 foot tall black woman. I became single about 4 years ago and until recently, I’ve been enjoying dating and meeting new guys. I don’t look my age and I attract a lot of men that are in their twenties. With heels on, I’m taller than a lot of the guys I date, but they don’t seem to mind. I dated a few of the younger guys but mostly men my age, and I even gave it up to a few of them. That’s when the problems start. After a few rolls in the hay, they roll away. When I ask them what happened to run them away, they all have the same answer................ Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am 29 year old newly engaged mother of 2. My fiancé is smart, loving, caring and crazy, just how I like it. The problem is he doesn't care for himself at all. He has a great job but he doesn’t have to dress up for work, so he puts little to no effort in his daily appearance. I am not sure how I overlooked this when we were dating, but now it’s getting on my nerves. He walks around with holes in his socks and raggedy underwear. I buy him new boxers and socks and tees, but he likes to wear the old stuff........... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley as Nephew Tommy would say buckle up and hold on tight. There is no easy way to explain my situation. I am a 28 year old married woman. I married my high school sweetheart and we have six kids, but I'm not sure who my kid's father is. Here's why. Ten years ago I lost my parents in a bad accident and living without them was unbearable for me. I started drinking partying and having sex all of the time with different men. I was a mess. My boyfriend had no idea about my secret sex life. One night when I was drunk I went to my boyfriends house looking for him and ended up having sex with his father............. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, my best friend and were really close for 10 years. We were more like sisters and we told each other all of our secrets. Last year, she played cupid between me and one of her male friends. The guy and I have been together since then and we are very happy. I never let my new relationship affect my friendship with her. Everything was great between my best friend and I until a few months ago. She randomly stopped answering my calls and her excuse was that she was going through some things. I explained to her that I was there for her if she needed to talk............... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 40 year old mother of an eighteen year old son and I need your opinion. We have a computer in our den and recently, I came home from work early and my son was acting weird. He had grabbed a pillow from the couch and he was clutching it, trying to hide himself. It was a very awkward moment. I knew what was going on, but I asked if he was okay. He said he was fine and he was going to head out to work a little early. When he left, I noticed that the computer was on and the speakers were knocked over....... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 58 year young woman and I have been involved with this man since 2007 and he is a lying cheating thot! We are not together right now but I can’t get rid of him. When we were together, he cheated on me over and over and the worst part was when he got addicted to smoking weed. We stayed together and tried to work it out because I loved him. I’m dating again and I am happy, finally. He is dating a 27 year old girl and he is doing her the same way he did me......... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley I am a 32 year old newly divorced mom of a one year old. I haven’t dated in a long time, so I decided to join an online Christian dating site instead of suffering through blind dates and meeting losers whenever I’m out with my girlfriends. I have been on the Christian dating site a few months and I met a nice 39 year old man. We’ve been chatting and talking for the last month. We have exchanged several pictures since we met and he has yet to compliment me on my looks. I am not sure if there is a physical attraction for him because he hasn’t said anything................ Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley. Hey Tommy. My mom is 52 years old and she's been dating this guy for ten years. It's very good to her He wines and dines her and spoils her with gifts and money. He also attends our family events and holiday celebrations with her. Whenever I need anything, he's been there for me. So here's my issue. He lives three hours away and when he comes to visit my mom he rarely stays a full weekend with her at our at her house. He has two children but my mother has never met them. He says he is divorced but I don't believe him............ Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 27 year old single mother of two beautiful girls and I’m in the US Army. I’ve been casually dating a gentleman for 2 years now. We are not exclusive, but he’s met my kids and my family and our bond is incredible. I have never been in love like this and I want more than he’s willing to offer. He’s the one that doesn’t want to be in a monogamous relationship but he makes a way to see me once a week, even though we live over 300 miles away from one another......... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 40 year old man and my wife is 36. After my wife had our two sons, she gained a lot of weight. I love her so much and I’ve tried to encourage her to lose weight by working out and eating right, but she won’t stick to a diet and exercise plan. I was honest with her and let her know that I was not sexually attracted to her anymore. She promised to work harder to lose the weight. Our youngest son is six years old now and she has not lost any of the weight she gained during the pregnancy.............. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, my lady and I have been dating for three years. We met at work… She’s a nurse and I am an administrator. We love working together because we get to eat lunch together several days a week. Back in June, we were headed to lunch and I was dying to try this new BBQ food truck that was parked in the courtyard of the hospital. You could smell that good hickory wood smoke smell from a mile away. My girl was reluctant to eat there but I begged her so we went to order our food........... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, my boyfriend and I have been living together for three months. He prides himself on being the man of the house and he enjoys paying all of the bills. I handle all of my personal bills and I buy the groceries. Shortly after we moved in together, he started flexing and setting rules, saying he needed to run his household in his way. We have a one year old child and he said that it’s my responsibility to drop the child off and pick her up from daycare........... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Miss strawberry. I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year and I love him so much. We hardly ever argue or fight because we live an hour away from each other so when we are together we make the best of our time. We do everything together except one big thing when we do see each other. I always find a way to avoid having sex with him. He is very handsome but when it comes to the bedroom he just doesn't have it. I hardly ever get in the mood with him. He doesn't complain much but I can tell he gets frustrated sometimes I just lie there and fake moan and lie about how good he is in bed............ Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 31 year old white female and I am proud to say that I am still a virgin. Five months ago, I met a very nice 33 year old black man through an online dating site. We’ve been inseparable since we met and he’s so perfect for me. I have decided that I want to make love to him and he promised to take care of my heart and make it a memorable experience for me. I’m not sure if he’s “the one” but I’ve fallen in love with him and I want him to be my first. Here’s the problem… I suffer with anxiety and it is getting in the way of us having sex................. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have heard Steve Harvey and an elder in my family say that you can train a man to do anything you want him to do. Well, I have tried it and it’s not true. I have been dating a really great guy for 3 years and as time goes on, it’s becoming clear that he has an issue with contributing financially to whatever we’re doing. He tries to do sweet things for me, but he does them in his own little cheap way. It’s never up to my expectations, but I always act like I love it. He always takes shortcuts and he finds a cheaper way to get things done............ Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 27 year old woman and I've been dating a 29 year old man for a year. We met in graduate school and immediately hit it off. He wants to start a business and I'm in the medical field, so we both have big dreams and aspirations. We have talked about a future together and I can see myself with him forever. But there’s a big part of my life that I’ve been keeping from him. It’s my ghetto family! I grew up in the hood and when I went to college, I promised myself that I was going to do better for myself and have a different kind of life. All of my family still lives in the hood and have no goals or plans to leave............. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm in my late 40s and I’m married to a wonderful man.We had a very normal sex life until he had a car accident and became disabled. We haven’t had sex in almost two years now. We have tried everything, but nothing has worked for us. I am suffering, but I do not want to cheat on him. One night we were watching a strange movie where a man in the movie did not want to have sex with his wife anymore, so he paid a man to have sex with her and he would watch them. Since I saw that movie, I couldn’t get this idea out of my head.......... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.