Strawberry Letter

Dear Steve and Shirley my husband and I’ve been married for two years and when I met him, he came from out of nowhere. I do not know anyone that knows him and could vouch for his character. I knew he’d been married before and I found who she was and how she looked and carried herself. On social media, she was dressed ghetto and she loved multi-colored wigs but she’s a nurse so she must be professional at times................... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, my husband and I have been together for a total of 15 years. I’m 34 and he’s 42 and we have 1 child. He’s a police detective and he’s fairly short for a man, but women do not care as long as he’s in uniform. He’s got that Napoleon complex going so he acts like a badass and a know-it-all around our family and friends. When it comes to him cheating, he’s been caught in multiple situations with different women. I am at the point where I want peace and companionship................................ Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m 51 year old married woman and I’ve been with my husband for 7 years. We met at a rap concert while picking up our daughters who were both 16 at the time. He and I started talking about how we shouldn’t have let our daughters go unchaperoned. My daughter and her friends came out first and he got my number before I walked away. We instantly clicked and he proposed after a year of dating.................. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been with my man for about 5 years and he is a nice, kind hearted, Christian gentleman. We met at a work convention and he told me that he was divorced. That is all we have in common. It took me a few years to notice how he’s clingy and soft. I hate to call a man weak but he has no backbone when it comes to putting someone in their place, including me................ Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a board-certified registered nurse and I was raised in public housing by my aunt because my mother had me when she was 16. After I graduated from high school, I found out my aunt was sleeping with my boyfriend so I beat her up and spent time in juvenile detention. From that point on, I was told that I wouldn’t amount to anything. I beat the odds and I got a nursing degree..............,.,.,. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am married to a man that was my King and he messed it all up by having a female best friend. He didn’t have a physical affair with her, but he had an emotional one and he shared intimate details of our marriage, good and bad. Then he encouraged her to call me and have a talk with me about how unhappy he is in our marriage. When she called, I got so tee’d off that I invited her over................ Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been married for 2 years to a man that is 24 years older than I am. I was his side piece for the last 2 years of his marriage and he got divorced to be with me. After we got married, things changed. I had to accept that my husband was not going to be monogamous, partly because he was having sex with me while he was married. I never signed up or agreed to an open marriage, but I’m wise enough to know that he needs more than one woman to make him feel like a king...................... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, my wife and I have been together for four years and married for almost a year. I was planning to propose to her but she got pregnant and sped up the process. I’m 52 and she is 40 and is head over heels in love with our newborn. The baby is all she cares about. I overheard her telling her mother that she got exactly what she wanted, a man to take care of her and a son that looks like her..................... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been dating a very attractive woman with the perfect body and beautiful brown skin. I met her at a gym and she asked me out, which I loved because she is not afraid to go after something if she wants it. We have been dating for a little over a month and we finally had sex over the Labor Day holiday. I wasn’t expecting the performance I got................................. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been with my boyfriend for 5 years. He’s 30 years old and I’m 28. Since the pandemic hit, he’s been drinking a lot. At first it was out of boredom to pass the time and I didn’t mind it because it was just beer. Now he’s drinking at least 30 beers a week and our recycling bin stays full of beer cans each week. He’s swapped out his coffee and bagel for a beer before he heads to work..................... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, my husband and I have been together for almost 20 years. When we first started dating there was a female “friend” that was in his circle of friends. I didn’t think anything of it for a while but there were red flags that kept popping up and there was a certain vibe that I kept picking up on whenever they were in the same space............... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a flight attendant and my schedule is very demanding because I do international flights. I’m in town for a few days and I’m gone for a few days. My boyfriend hates that his goodies aren’t there for him daily. He calls it goodies and you call it the cookie. Anyway, I need him to realize that there’s more to life than his goodies. He hates the word NO so when I am not in the mood, he pouts.................... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been married for 7 years to a man that is wonderful in every way, except one. He doesn’t respect my time or my privacy. I knew him for many years prior to dating him and we would meet as friends for dinner and drinks when he was in-between relationships. He went from relationship to relationship before we started dating because he is the type of man that does not ever want to be alone............ Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am in a three-way love affair with a man that is my pastor and my marriage counselor. I went to my pastor a year ago to get spiritual guidance so I could stay on the straight and narrow in my marriage. I was thinking about cheating and had one foot out the door. My pastor is married so I meet with his wife on Wednesdays for spiritual guidance and I meet with them both once a week to overcome the boredom in my marriage.............................................. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I was married for 7 years and I’m almost divorced. My husband and I didn’t really know each other as well as we should’ve before we got married and we had arguments on a daily basis. I became bitter over his lack of attentiveness and he was tired of living with a crazy B. Those were his exact words the day he filed for divorce. He told me I am terrible in bed, teased me for gaining a few pounds and said he’s been miserable for seven years................. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 30 year old engaged female and my fiancé is 34 years old. I work as a school administrator and he is a mechanic. We met when he fixed my flat tire and then offered to detail my car for free. He is a tall, thin man with pearly white teeth and a nice afro. I could tell he was a hood dude the minute I saw him and that’s what attracted me to him. He plays basketball at a community center and he invited me to a game.............................. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been in a relationship with a woman for the past 15 years. It’s been on and off again, but she’s the one for me. She’s my everything and our kids are my world. I bet you are wondering why I haven’t married her and maybe you can help me figure it out too. For the first few years of our relationship, we kept it on the downlow because of her age. She was sixteen when I started dating her and I was 19..................... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I met my wife on an online dating site two years ago. All of the things she wanted in a mate matched mine to a tee. She had been married before and I had been engaged but I had called off my wedding in the nick of time. I shared my horrible experience with my wife and I told her that my ex had a past that I was unaware of and her own family was the one to tell me about her...................... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I really need some advice. I met this man that is 10 years older than I am and I really like him a lot. He’s still married, but he and his wife are living as roommates and he does not sleep with her anymore. I have gone to his house many nights and would leave before his wife and kids wake up. When he takes me out, we only go to the casino because I’m his lucky charm and he always wins big when I’m with him................ Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m married to one of the finest men in my whole town. We’ve been together 24 years and married for 18. He was my high school sweetheart and we married young and had 2 children early. We started having sex when we were 16 so he was the only man I’d been with, until recently. He has cheated on me and I forgave him because I had checked out of our marriage and was going through a little depression.................... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am 50 year old devoted wife with a big problem. I have been married to a great man for 23 years and we have two kids in college. He is a great provider and we both have solid careers, but, he has always had a big dream. He wants to be a big Broadway actor. My husband wants badly to an actor, but, he has never been able to make it work........................................ Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 33 year old married woman and I’ve been with my husband for 8 years, married for 5. My husband just found out that my male best friend is my ex-boyfriend. I also have a female best friend that I used to have threesomes with. We are all close and they loved my husband and he loved them. I was on FaceTime with my best friend the other night and he mentioned a tattoo on my lower back and said he remembered when I got it................. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been married to my childhood sweetheart for 8 years and we have two wonderful children. Early on, we had problems in our marriage and we were separated for a short period, but we worked things out and I thought we were back on track. My wife admitted that during our separation, she had flings with two other guys. She compared me to the guys she had the flings with and bragged about the money and nice things they had. I am an educated guy and I have a great full-time job and a part time job for extra money, but it’s not enough for my wife............. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 29-year-old man and three months ago, I started seeing a gorgeous woman in her mid-20s. She has the best body, smooth and glowy chocolate skin, the sexiest voice. She is the best that I ever had if you know what I mean. She’s very affectionate and she treats me well. But she’s missing one important thing: a brain…............ Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m married to a man that spoils me and says he loves me unconditionally. We have been married for only 3 years but we’ve been together for 7 years. I’ve never suspected him of cheating until recently. We like to have lunch and dinner on the patio at our favorite restaurant so we can people watch. He is not the type to get mad if I comment on a man that passes by..................... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 38 year old married man and I have a woman on the side that I’ve been with for about 3 months. She’s newly married but she calls me her maintenance man because of her husband’s age. He’s significantly older and she said he has a problem in the bedroom, so we hook up once or twice a week. I’m originally from Kansas and my mom and I moved to Georgia after she divorced my dad................... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been married for 14 years and I have to keep reminding my husband who’s the boss. When we met, he was unemployed and I hired him as a delivery driver. I managed a pizza place at the time and after we started dating, I had to let him go because he was always late for work. Presently, I’m a regional manager for a fast-food chain and he’s a waiter at a neighborhood restaurant................................... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am dating a beautiful, strong, talented woman and everything was okay in the beginning, until we had sex for the first time. She controlled everything from start to finish and she did not let me do anything. She got on top and that was it and it seemed to go on forever. I tried to talk to her and plead with her to let me do some of the work, but she was not trying to have it. The second time we had sex, she brought in toys.......... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 28 year old single woman and I’m involved with a man that is 31 years older than I am. He told me he was separated from his wife when we met, but that was a lie, so I set guidelines for how we conducted our affair discreetly. He is handsome and loaded, so anything I wanted or needed, he had cash. I told him I wanted a house so we’d have more privacy and he helped me buy one. I pay the mortgage from our joint account he set up............... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 38 year old married woman and we had what you’d call a whirlwind romance. We met and fell in love within 3 months and were married after only 9 months. All of my family and friends that met him, said he was the one for me and I should marry him right away. He knows how to treat a woman and he’s the best lover I’ve ever had.................... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been trying to figure out the best way to address an issue because I love my wife dearly. My wife turned 60 in May and to celebrate, I took her to Hawaii and I gave her a $5K prepaid credit card to use any way she wanted to. When we were in Hawaii, there was a photo shoot at our hotel all weekend and young, skinny models were all over the place. My wife started to feel self-conscious in her bathing suit so I made sure I uplifted her whenever I could..................... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 29 year old single woman and I’ve been dating a 29 year old man for 4 years. We had an on-and-off relationship and we broke up over a year ago and he met a chick and she fell in love with him quickly. He said it was just casual sex but when he and I decided to get back together, she wouldn’t stop bothering us. She caused problems in our relationship all the time and one night she went to his house drunk, so he made her some coffee and let her sleep on his couch.................... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Dear Steve and Shirley, a few days ago, my husband and I went to his sister’s baby shower and I found my husband in the kitchen kiki’ing with a woman and he put her number in his phone. I went and introduced myself and she said she’s an old friend and it was good to be back in town. My husband walked off but I wanted to get to know her better. She told me she’s single and she lives in Dallas now, but she’d be in town a few days..................................... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I thought I was married to the woman of my dreams. She’s 42 and I’m 38 and it didn’t matter that she was older than me or taller than me by a few inches. She’s 6’1’ and I’m 5’10”. My mother has never liked her and she said I need to watch myself around her… she also calls her my bodyguard cause she’s so big. We dated for two years before we got married and I vowed to be her protector because her ex-husband was abusive....................... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m 44 years old and I have met the love of my life but it took me 3 years to get used to him. We met in the mall 3 years ago on a Saturday. I remember the day in full detail. He was wearing a matching short set with knee socks and he had a brim on. He asked me where the Florsheim store was and I had to google it because I had never heard of it. He was an older man so I walked over to the concierge’s desk with him to see if there is such a store. The concierge said that the store closed a while ago and this man looked defeated............... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, my 46 year old wife and my 39 year old sister are up to something. My sister recently got a divorce so my wife spent a lot of time comforting her and in the process of doing that, they went on a vacation to Miami. When they got back, my sister was distant and wouldn’t come around. She said she met a great guy and was laying low and keeping her business private. My wife continued to go visit her and she even started taking her food whenever she cooked..................... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 32 year old single mom of a 16 year old and I still live at home with my 84 year old father. I have never moved out because I never wanted my daughter to suffer through any hardships or go without having the things she wants and needs. My dad takes good care of us, so that helps me save money. Here’s the problem… I’ve been dating a man for 4 years and we have a great relationship, but he is pressuring me to move in with him, with my daughter........ Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m in my mid 40s and I’ve been married for 3 years. A month ago, my husband drove me to my hometown for one of my childhood friend’s wedding. We went to visit with my parents before the festivities and then we checked into our hotel. Everything was cool and we were having a good time until later that evening. We went to the rehearsal dinner and I got to see a lot of my old friends. I look the same as I did when I was 20 years old and my friends haven’t aged well.................... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been married for exactly one year to the devil. My husband is an IT manager and I’m a veterinarian. I celebrated our one-year anniversary and then I went to visit my parents for the weekend. My visit was cut short when I got a call from my neighbor saying there were a lot of cars at my house and she knew I was out of town.................... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 44 year old married woman and my husband is incarcerated so I’m raising our two sons alone. I get a little help from my husband’s family, but they always complain so I hate asking them for anything. When my husband went in, his job paid out his severance package and that held us over for a year. I got a job but it was hard keeping up with the kids and a job, so my husband’s boss offered me another solution.................. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 31 year old man and I met a really dope woman at a house party. She’s 30 years old, no kids, with a good job and her own house. I started vibing with her at the party so I asked her out. Two days later, she picked me up for our date and she asked to use my bathroom. She left the bathroom door open and told me to come in. She sat on the counter, whispered a few words in my ear and I almost lost my mind. After a few rounds of amazing sex, we sat up talking until 5am.............. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been married for almost three years now. My husband and I are intimate at least four days every week. I like to keep things hot and spicy, nothing is ever the same in the bed or wherever we chose to do it. I do all that I can to please him and I make sure I am pleased as well. Our sex is always amazing, but, he has confessed to being unfaithful during our entire marriage................. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 55 year old divorced woman and I met a handsome, slightly older gentleman online. We have a lot of things in common and I found out we know a lot of the same folks. Since my divorce, I’ve put on a few pounds here and there but he doesn’t seem to mind it. When we first started dating in January, I had to spend a few days in the hospital and he called me daily to check on me. He’s a church going man and he’s a sharp dresser. There is just one problem that I have with him and it’s the way he eats................ Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 39 year old single mother of a 17 year old son. My son's father has never been in his life so I was blessed to have my dad to be a role model for him. My dad passed away in 2018 and since then, my mother moved in with me. She's home with my son daily while I work and she helps him with his virtual classes.................. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been with my wife for 13 years but we’ve been married for 9 years. We have three children, ages 4, 7 and 10. During our marriage, I’ve cheated and mis-managed our finances a few times. Whenever I messed up, I fessed up and she was always willing to forgive me and move on. But, when she’s angry with me, she’s just downright nasty. She’s spit on me and thrown things at me out of anger................ Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 37 year old married man with one son from a previous marriage and one son with my new wife. I’ve been remarried for almost 4 years and my life is great now. I have a great relationship with my ex-wife and my son is staying with me because he needs a strong male role model in his life. My wife is friendly with my ex-wife and that makes me love her even more. I do believe she’s what I needed in my life all along................ Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am happily married and my wife and I have two kids. The problem is I have a female friend from college. My female friend is also married with two kids and she lives in another state. We hardly ever see each other, but we do keep in touch. Over 15 years ago, she and I had sex. My wife knows we were intimate in the past because we all went to the same college. The other day I was talking to my friend on the phone, we chatted about reality TV shows, I congratulated her on her anniversary and we talked about our children............. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.