240// Parenting While Healing Trauma, Navigating Name Calling, Spitting and Punishments

We all have negative experiences that impact our mental state day to day as we parent. It can be exhausting and disheartening to attempt to parent in this state of distress. Today we tackle a listener question on parenting while healing past trauma and parenting. We also hear from a listener seeking advice about her children's name calling, spitting and general boundary pushing.

Book Mentioned:

How to do the Work // Nicole LePera

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Time Stamps

14:00 - How to deal with trauma and parent

15:58 - Big T vs little t trauma

16:30 - Repressed trauma

17:40 - Adult trauma

19:07 - Therapy is a major tool

22:00 - Give yourself extra grace and self care

24:01 - Name your trauma

31:00 - 90 second rule with stress/anxiety

34:57 - How to handle kids being unkind

38:30 - This too shall pass

42:00 - Name calling is a hard no

46:40 - A family is a good testing ground for kids to figure out social interactions

49:39 - Foster positive interactions to start a positive momentum

53:35 - Honey vs. Vinegar analogy

54:52 - Give yourself self-care so you can be your best

1:01:00 - Laughter is a pressure relief valve

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Local1st 02/10/2023

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I listen to a lot of parenting podcasts, this one is my favorite! So many topics covered and ideas discussed. I always seem to get so much out of listening. Thank you!

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