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232 // When You Feel Like You're Drowning and Siblings Won't Stop Fighting

232 // When You Feel Like You're Drowning and Siblings Won't Stop Fighting

Sol Movement & Ritual

May 9, 202343m 52s

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Show Notes

In today’s episode we talk about how to deal with your children squabbling repeatedly and what to do when you feel like you just can’t get it together. 


Time Stamps



  • 13:42 - How to help our kids have a positive sibling relationship



  • 19:17 - Sibling situation is working out a social dynamic for the real world



  • 21:50 - We learn in families how to read people



  • 21:21 - Emotional Preparing



  • 25:00 - Code words



  • 27:30 - Beware of comparison



  • 31:48 - I feel like I’m drowning



  • 37:43 - Life is a balancing act



  • 40:40 - Be kind to yourself and others




Books & Related Episodes


How to do the work // Nicole Le Pera


HOW TO Prepare Children for a New Sibling: a Conversation with Upbringing 


Systems and Values for Easier Days and Stronger Family Connections (Entitlement Trap by Linda Eyre and Richard Eyre)


Understanding Praise and How We Can Use It to Give Our Kids Confidence Instead of Insecurity


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