Don Miguel Ruiz on Why Your Beliefs About Yourself Are Sabotaging Your Sobriety (And You Don’t Even Know It)

What if your drinking habits have less to do with stress—and more to do with the invisible agreements you made as a child?

In this powerful new episode of Sobriety Snippets, Becca opens our book study of Don Miguel Ruiz’s The Four Agreements. She unpacks how “domestication” — the quiet conditioning that teaches us to seek approval, fit in, and follow the rules — still shapes how we live, work, and even drink today.

In this episode, you'll

• see how unconscious agreements from childhood still run your thoughts, choices, and coping mechanisms.
• recognize how the inner judge and victim keep you stuck in shame, guilt, and self-sabotage.
• learn why courage — the same courage sobriety demands — is the key to breaking free from the dream of the planet and creating your own dream of heaven.

Press play now to uncover how The Four Agreements can help you break invisible patterns, release self-judgment, and start living your truest, sober life.

And if you’re ready to go deeper, tap the link to share your story through The Sacred Mirror—you’ll receive a personal audio reflection from Becca herself.

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This podcast explores the journey of sober living and sobriety, highlighting how health, mindset shifts, and overcoming regret from binge drinking and drinking can lead to powerful habits that support an alcohol-free lifestyle, especially for professionals and business women seeking self-improvement, confidence, clarity, and lasting empowerment.