SightShift with Chris McAlister

I created a little free mini course at chrismcalister.com/toughconversations This is just a short part of the advanced module. Questions reveal hunger:How did that feel? See if they want more. (Did you feel misjudged or misunderstood by anything I said?) Notice their questions and avoid getting hooked to share. Tell a story and see if they ask a followup question. What did you hear me say?

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I put a call out in the podcast to see if someone would like to go through our initial 12 week coaching program live and on air. I was looking for someone new to SightShift and hungry to grow. Props to Eric for jumping in. I loved how he voiced his skepticism that we could do this in 12 weeks. These aren't pre-recorded. I have no idea if it will work but I'll load each week's episode as it gets recorded.

These 9 actions reveal what you do that keep you from moving forward.

Write yourself a permission slip to enjoy that ice cream. links that were mentioned: 1. Help me have awesome meetings! 2. What 5 actions unleash an engaged team?

David puts Chris on the hot seat. 2 questions. No prep.

Another fun interview with Adam on 4 key actions to ride the crazy and stay energetic.

Adam does a fun interview with Chris as they discuss critical components of leading well and one action all leaders need to force. CLICK HERE TO DOWNLOAD THE FREE GUIDE FROM THIS EPISODE!

Interviews with folks who have been impacted by SightShift.

I heard those painful words, "You got the job done but you burned me out doing it." Whether you’re building a family or a team or an organization…. I’ve watched leaders make 1 blunder that blocks their ability to build the people around them: They judge when they need to UNDERSTAND OR ADJUST.

When you are stuck or blocked and out of creativity make sure you don't miss this clue. (short epsd)

Mistake #7 : I repeat self sabotaging choices. Learn how to replace distractions with desires that are true to who you are. You can relax your way into transforming your life.

Mistake #6 : I insecurely try to be accepted by others and as a result I push them away.

Mistake #5 : I make myself responsible for the choices of other people. You can only attract and grow your most important relationships when you give up control. You're not responsible for the choices and behavior of others.

Mistake #4 - When you're blindly focused on the goal you won't enjoy the process. When you learn to be centered and focused you can regain lost motivation.

Sometime last night we broke 20K feed hits. Thank you! Special short episode to commemorate.

Mistake #3 - I am internally distracted. You can be here. now. You can notice the important signals.

Mistake #2 : I am unknowingly driven by fear. This episode is part of the 7 piece series, "Mistakes everybody makes but few learn from"

Starting a 7 part series on mistakes everybody makes but few learn from. Mistake #1 : I don't live from a secure identity.

Escape the "should".

I want to live life with the appreciation of a recovered addict.

A matter-of-fact approach to analyze a person's growth trajectory.

Unblock the flow

Behavior can be explained without being excused.

Let's jam. Want a secure core (identity)? In just a few minutes I break down how we can work together.

When you're insecure you fall prey to the 4 part process of manipulation. Stunned -> Influenced -> Mass Hysterics -> Numb

Enjoy hearing Blaine's perspective as an actor, artist, leader on being human. (Excuse a few tech difficulties.)

Am I too late? Have I failed too much? Is anybody noticing? And one more lie that drives the rest.

A great idea from a listener to enhance the SightShift: Lead process. And some q/a.

Figure out your fear with precision. This episode has to credit this book for sparking my thinking on this years ago: Riso, Don Richard and Russ Hudson. 1999. The wisdom of the enneagram. New York City: Bantam.