Shark Theory

I always thought a prenup was just for people who got married and didn't think it was going to work out. However, my great friend Tyler Berger, who has a company called Prenup Specialist, helped clear my false assumptions about Prenups and in doing so helped me consider other false assumptions I had in life. In this episode, we'll discuss: The danger of unchallenged assumptions Why leaders should protect all involved Clear Cut Expectations

As a speaker and author on the topics of adversity and opportunity, I always seek to find a link between the two. A recent visit to SweatHouz to visit the Infrared Sauna and Cold Plunge offered insight into how we can turn adversity into opportunity. In this episode, we'll discuss: Creating experience through energy Viewing life from the inside out instead of the outside in How to attack adversity

I've always loved Honey Buns (shhh, don't tell my nutritionist), but a recent experience involving honey buns and my friend Mike Salerno taught me a lot about Success. In this episode, we'll discuss: Going out of our way for someone How to Pay Attention The secret trait of the ultra successful

A common friendly argument I often have with my friends is over which brand of Golf Clubs is best? Obviously, most are similar, but it's fun to argue about. Ultimately in golf, and life, the answer to "what's best" comes down to "what works." In this episode, we'll discuss: The right feeling Success based on successful recipes Eliminating Bias It's your choice

If I were into shock titles, I would have named this "How to avoid a long life," however that has a negative connotation, but an impactful meaning. In this episode, we'll discuss: Identifying long aspects of our days How to shorten your day Maximizing Life by eliminating dead time

At church the other day during, "great your neighbor," an elderly man responded to my "how are you" question in such a manner that I instantly wanted to know his life story. His answer is based in a mentality we can all develop to become more magnetic to opportunity. In this episode, we'll discuss: How our aura affects our lives The three types of People How to graduate to "never better"

Today we discuss an incident that happened when I played football at Baylor University, and the decade's long lesson it taught me about loyalty. In this episode, we'll discuss: Would you recommend yourself? The litmus test of loyalty How to develop loyal habits

4000 Years ago the ancient Babylonians came up with "national quit day" to address those who started resolutions and failed to execute. They also did so to help others restart and achieve the goals. Today in America, 80% of people will have given up on their goals for the year, don't be one of them. In this episode, we'll discuss: Recommitting Yourself Plus/Minus actions Doing what's boring

Everytime I buy bananas, I do so with the false belief that I'm actually going to eat them all. If you're like me, you eat one then watch them turn "bad." But I learned that overripe bananas offer the most benefits... In this episode, we'll discuss: Being not ripe enough to win (and what you can learn from failure) Why we SHOULD judge a banana by it's peel Why it's never "too late"

So many people live far below their potential because they're afraid of their skeletons being exposed...but what if you named the skeletons yoursself? It's time to put the past behind you, for good. In this episode, we'll discuss: A Sad truth about your importance Lessons from Dr. Frankenstein How to name Skeletons (and why you should)

My two friends, Tyler and Lisa, are two of the hardest working (and successful) women I know. Recently, I was with them and learned about their new venture, PhlebotomyNow, and learned a few takeaways that apply to our lives and careers as we seek to grow and find new opportunities in 2023. In this episode, we'll discuss: Discovering a Need (and filling the void) How to become irreplacable through the work you do Opening the door for others Check them out if you're looking for a new career path >> Phlebotomynow.co

My good friend Mike asked me, "what did you do growing up?" I replied, "sports, video games, chase tumbleweeds." He asked me where tumbleweeds came from....and my lack of an answer inspired today's episode. In this episode, we'll discuss: Knowing the history of what you chase How to keep rolling Never stop pursuing

I'm appreciative of everyone who has taken the time to listen or share any of the last 700 episodes! Today we discuss the question I was recently asked, "what is the most important skill to develop in order to succeed in life." In this episode, we'll discuss: Never Letting Go Clear Cut Expectations What's more important than "being the best"

Do you want to become wealthy this year? The solution is simpler than you think and not at all what you think. In this episode, we'll discuss: Striving for something versus "means to an end" Where are you bleeding time? Why you should say No unless it's an abosulute Yes Organize It

The number one resolution most people have is to take care of their health, watch their diet, and for most...trim the fat. That is a philosophy we should take to all areas of our lives. In this episode, we'll discuss: Why smaller is better How to get results quicker by removal Why you should trim the fat but not remove it

A recent experience with a bad alignment in my car taught me about when we're aligned as people. In this episode, we'll discuss: Recognizing the signs of stress Getting off the Road Getting better alignment

My brother spent 40 hours over the course of Decemeber on a rowing machine rowing 500,000 meters, or 312 miles. There's nothing exciting about a rowing machine or the monotony of rowing but it gives us insight on the trait we need, consistency. In this episode, we'll discuss: Trial and error Surrounding yourself with consistency Plus/Minus Moves Stability and then growth

I have friends who are big believers in saving their homes to ward off negativity. The art of saging or smudging is thousands of years old and the concept behind it is one we should all embody. In this episode, we'll discuss: Setting Intentions Addition by Subtraction Let it Go

2023 will only be different if you are. Today I break down how to set your goals and intentions for 2023 in a productive manner. In this episode, we'll discuss: Major Goals Micro-habits and To-Lives Mantras and Experiences That'd Be Cool's

It's almost the time of year for people to start working on their New Year's Resolutions...but do you know what resolution truly means? In this episode, we'll discuss: What you need to release in 2023 Why you should make it simple Breaking Goals into Parts Who are you becoming?

During Christmas Break, I got a chance to visit my parent's church with my dad and join the Door Greeting operationt that my dad start. What I observed is something that can help us all win in 2023. In this episode, we'll discuss: Showing up with a Smile The advantage of showing you care Consistency and the finish line The value of showing Love

A recent debate over Macarons vs Macaroons shed some light on the importance of surrounding yourself with knowledgeable people. In this episode, we'll discuss: The Untrained Eye Learn through your Circle How to increase your Value

My brother's conditioning coach told him about a Budhist Concept known as Impermanence when it comes to dealing with the loss of a loved one. Today we explore how this concept can help us live more fuller lives. In this episode, we'll discuss: Accepting that nothing lasts forever What the Stoics teach us about life Staying Consistent, not Fast

A search for those Christmas Tree Little Debbie Snacks resulted in a lesson on taking small things for granted. In this episode, we'll discuss: Remembing the small things can be gone tomorrow Finding appreciation in adversity How to live a Big LIfe

Yesterday, I had the privelege of speaking to the great team at Cin7 in both America and New Zealand. Leading up to that talk, I got a chance to talk to the CEO David Leach about the company's vision and values. What I obsereved from him on that call and during the talk yesterday was a masterclass in great leadership. Today, i share some of those lessons. In this episode, we'll discuss: Being there Before Your People Living your Values Being there WITH your People The ultimate mark of great leadership

This past saturday was our 4th Annual Holly Jolly Giveaway where we give 400 brand new bikes and coats to local children. I sat back and reflected on the event and what it means to have so many people come together for a good cause. In this episode, we'll discuss: What you get by giving Why it takes the right village Putting Smiles on Faces

Yesterday I was having an espresso martini and it was brough to my attention that ALL espresso martini's have three coffee beans as garnishes on top...and there's meaning behind that. In this episode, we'll discuss: Developing a Curiosity for LIfe The Toppings of life that give it meaning Creating Tradition

Last night I was thinking about my Birthday, looking at all the well wishes and Happy Bday's that people sent and pondering the question I got asked alot, "What do you want for your birthday?" In this episode, we'll discuss: Becoming the Gift What Money can't buy Showing Appreciation Living in the Now

I've never really been a big fan of birthdays, but on this one, I've reflected on what I want out of myself this next year. In this episode, we'll discuss: Less, But Better Less Access Less Emotion and Wasted Energy The Meaning of Shark Theory Thanks for all the Birthday Wishes and Support!

Recently, I have become a cigar aficionado to celebrate the wins in life. In learning more about cigars, I've learned the type of butane you need to have a great cigar. I searched local stores for a particular type of butane and met an amazing individual. In this episode, we'll discuss: Your Energy Sets the Tone Removing Impurities from your Life Celebrate Life

I went to an epic Christmas Party this weekend and left with a lot of new friends and more importantly a lot of new life lessons. In this episode, we'll discuss: The importance of Quality in your Circle Why You shouldn't get Greedy The Parable of the Grinch

During my stay in Mexico, I spent a lot of time simply watching birds and their patterns of hunting for food, flight, and how they lived their lives. In this episode, we'll discuss: The different paths to the same result Not making it complicated on yourself Appreciating our different pursuits of different goals

While staying at a Resort in Playa Mujeres Mexico last weekend, the thing that impressed me most was house CLEAN it was. The housekeeping staff was top notch and shed light on what we can apply to our careers. In this episode, we'll discuss: Excelling at whatever it is you do The goal of doing EXTRA Finding Joy in the task

While attempting to buy somne M&M's in the Mexican airport, I saw a huge white label slapped on every piece of candy, it said, "Calorias excesivas" or excessive calories. As a result I didn't get the candy, but changed how I operate in my life. In this episode, we'll discuss: Slapping Labels on our vices Remembering Tomorrow The ultimate Accountabilyt Email

This weekend while at a resort in Mexico, I got jumped by an Iguana who wanted my french fries. My soul left my body and everyone else laughed. In this episode, we'll discuss: The power of being underestimated Confidence beats size Giving your All to what you want

There's something soothing about Ocean Waves. After being in Mexico for a few days, I had a chance to reflect and watch waves. In this episode, we'll discuss: Finding Peace in the Noise Understanding the Flow of life Finding Your Place in the World

In Mexico, I changed Dollars to Pesos. Since the exchange rate is different, my dollar has more buying power simply by changing location. In our lives, moving around can help us increase our value. In this episode, we'll discuss: Changing your Percieved Value Raising Standards and never falling beneath them How to determine your worth

A conversation with my Great Friend Rachel and something she shared with me shaped my whole day...and perhaps my entire 2023. Today I share what she said and how it can help us all dominate 2023. In this episode, we'll discuss: Playing Offense in 2023 Giving yourself Grace in Stagnant areas Finding your Personal Success Recipe

I'm preparing to go to Mexico tomorrow for 4-5 days and I was involved in my least favorite part of travel...packing. I learned a lot from YouTubers on how to pack properly for trips and how we can apply these techniques to our lives. In this episode, we'll discuss: Getting a Plan Keeping Staples Fitting it all in Why you shouldn't over prepare

I had a race against a stranger on a treadmill yesterday. Well, he might have known we were racing, but we were and I won...here's how you can win too. In this episode, we'll discuss: Unlocking your "other side" Creating non-toxic wars in your mind how to DO more Intentionality

I recieved an email this morning asking if my books would be on sale for Cyber Monday. My response triggered today's topic of discounted lives. In this episode, we'll discuss: Cutting Corners in Life Improving Our Value Consistency and Persistency

Typically on Thanksgivng I run in a turkey trot with other runners. I decided to switch it up this year and do something even more meaningful... In this episode, we'll discuss: Mental Medals Creating momentum How to become resilient Have a happy Thanksgiving!

I came across a man at a convenience store who was overly ecstatic about the live Lobsters he was on his way to purchase...and learned some things about passion. In this episode, we'll discuss: Unbridled Passion Finding what lights your fire Knowing where to look for passion Sharing your passion

This time of year is ironic. We stop working out and we eat bad as we plan a "great" next year. We have a day of thanks on thursday followed by a war during black friday as we fight over things. Retailers shove sales down our throats, if we're not careful, we can lose all of our momentum. In this episode, we'll discuss: Why "act now" offers are bad for your life Holding Your Space Navigating the correct path for yourself How to keep momentum or get ahead

It's that time of the year again.... a time where companies honor people with awards and apprecation. It's also that time of the year when many hard workers get slighted for bonuses, awards, acknowledgements, and promotions. How do we handle being slighted? In this episode, we'll discuss: The truth about how others view you Not judging success by applause Why you're going to be ok

Yesterday, while speaking to elementary students about career day, we discussed a myriad of topics and the ultimate topic of "happiness" vs "rich". In this episode, we'll discuss: Life lessons from young kids How to make people believe in you Happy vs Rich

I'm preparing to speak to some elementary kids about "what I do" at career day. Too often, we mistake what we do for who we are. Today we discuss the fallacies of that belief. In this episode, we'll discuss: Who Am I? What you do versus how you operate Disconnecting to put yourself back together

Yesterday, a friend called and asked how I'm doing and I told her the truth, "today's not really my day." In this episode, we'll discuss: Optimism versus Positive Self-Analysis to thwart long-term problems Compartamentalizing Hurt

During a workout yesterday, I saw two things that were definitely out of place....a coyote walking through a neighborhood, and a buttefly in the cold all by itself. It had me thinking...how howften have we felt out of place ourselves? In this episode, we'll discuss: Keep on Keepin On Don't change who you are because of where you're at Staying focused on your Main Thing

In preparing for a golf tournament this morning, I was cleaning my clubs to remove debris that could affect ball flight. We have to do the same thing with our minds to get "max distance" in our careers. In this episode, we'll discuss: Evaluating our Skills (clubs) Identifying Distractions in your life How "to play it as it lies" Build a clean slate