School of Self-Image

Spirituality isn't only found in shrines and silence. It can be found while searching for that coveted "luxury" item you can't stop thinking about. Materialism gets such a bad rap. Yes, things won't give you permanent happiness. And yes, our society is obsessed with constant consumerism. But, when we French Kiss life, we choose to look at all things through the eyes of spirituality. Everything we purchase, including a handbag, is energy. And, what we consume, carry and converse about is creating our lives. No, you don't have to renounce consumerism to be a spiritual person. Not when you're French Kissing Life, at least. And in Tonya's case, God tapped her on the shoulder in Paris and led her straight out of Chanel and into the most unexpected place to find her perfect handbag. If you want to learn the questions to ask when making purchases (or any decision for that matter), tune into this episode. Get full show notes and more information here: https://frenchkisslife.com/101

The simple luxuries of life are often neglected when you're in a state of scarcity and lack. If you're not mindful, you'll deny yourself of the very things that will help you reach your goals by inspiring you to feel better. In this episode, Tonya shares her personal journey of becoming a rich woman by purchasing a bouquet of flowers after being inspired by a dinner at Madame Clement's home in the South of France. Discover why acting poor keeps you poor and simple steps to become a rich woman from the inside out. Get full show notes and more information here: https://frenchkisslife.com/100

Do you live in constant anxiety that you're missing out on life? Maybe you're triggered by an Instagram pic or that voice in your head that is always telling you that you should be doing more with your life. This is called FOMO — fear of missing out. It's become such a huge epidemic in our society that the acronym earned a place in the Oxford dictionary. The problem with FOMO is that it's not only exhausting, it can be paralyzing and lead you further away from a truly well-lived life. In this episode, you will learn 6 mantras to turn your FOMO into something much more rewarding: JOMO — the joy of missing out. Are you ready to live with more elegance and joy in your everyday? This episode is for you. Get full show notes and more information here: https://frenchkisslife.com/99

Of course, it's important for you to learn how to love yourself, but what if trying to do so actually leads you further away from self-love? In this episode, we explore why trying to love yourself can lead to a life of self-obsession and away from cultivating self-love. What if there's a much more fun approach? There is. Listen to this episode to discover the conversation Tonya had with a friend that changed how she approaches self-love. Download the playsheet "Je t'aime, La Vie! (I love you, my life):" www.frenchkisslife.com/love Get full show notes and more information here: https://frenchkisslife.com/98

Most of Tonya's work is about beautifying your "inner world" — your thoughts and emotions. But, she's often asked about her favorite beauty secrets. While she's not a beauty expert, she believes that health & beauty begins on the inside. Along with style and make-up, she has been studying, researching and applying a more holistic approach to beauty and health, and in this episode, she's sharing her top 10 beauty secrets….cultivated from the inside out. Get full show notes and more information here: https://frenchkisslife.com/97

What if you could create what you want NOW? The good news is you can! In this episode, Tonya shares how the old way of chasing success only made her more miserable. When she started to apply an ancient teaching to create her life, everything began to change … with ease. If you are a woman who has dreams and wants to discover a new approach to cultivating success, from the inside out, this episode is for you. Did you enjoy this episode? Then you'll LOVE Tonya's upcoming free French Kiss Life LIVE soiree where she'll dive deeper into the concept of creating what you want. To grab your seat, go here: http://frenchkisslife.com/sweetspot Get full show notes and more information here: https://frenchkisslife.com/96

SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT - Live Soirée | How to Master Your Emotions. Au revoir struggle. Bonjour success. Register here to claim your complimentary ticket: http://frenchkisslife.com/sweetspot Tonya is hosting a Live Soirée where she will unveil a simple process to master your emotions so that you can stop sabotaging your success.

Elegance is at the core of living a French Kissed Life. However, if it's a word that you've been turned off by (or you think it's unobtainable in this lifetime), this episode will challenge you to reconsider that it's not only available to every woman, it's necessary to living a well-lived life. At its core, elegance is all about simplicity and effectiveness, from the thoughts you think to the actions you take. Tune in and be inspired to live more elegantly. Get full show notes and more information here: https://frenchkisslife.com/95

The end of a year and the beginning of a new year is a natural time for self-reflection. In this episode, Tonya reveals her 2018 Word of the Year, and shares ideas to help you find yours. French Kissing Life is all about living in the possibilities and seeing the world as your playground. In order to do that, you must chisel away all that keeps y0u shackled. Get full show notes and more information here: https://frenchkisslife.com/94

Another New Year is around the corner. And, you know what that means? Time for resolutions... or not! Let me give you some startling statistics. 42% of us make New Year's resolutions. 9% actually keep them. Think about that: Out of almost half our humankind, only 9 out of 100 people actually follow through on their goals. Pretty startling, right? All I can think about is how many people end the year feeling super disappointed and like they've wasted another year. The worst part of this whole fiasco is that when you say you're going to do something and then don't show up for yourself, you lose trust in yourself. So what's a women to do? Try the French Kiss Life approach to starting the New Year. Get full show notes and more information here: https://frenchkisslife.com/93

Instead of dragging across the finish line of 2017 with yet another holiday of exhausting hustle, absolute regret, and being completely drained..... Let's make sure that you Sparkle Bright this Holiday Season. These Mind Makeover audios are yours to keep.... forever! It's Tonya's no strings attached Holiday Gift to You! Pick up your gift at http://frenchkisslife.com/sparkle

Tonya moved in with her man in his "little cabin in the woods." She recalls the day she started packing up my things to move in. It didn't feel so heavenly in her head. In fact, her mind went a wee bit insane. Tune in to find out how to she overcame her fear, and how you can French Kiss Life anywhere. In a little cabin in the woods. Or in a penthouse on Madison Avenue. Get full show notes and more information here: https://frenchkisslife.com/92

People love to talk about the past. The downside is that it holds you back. You cannot create a new future while also hanging out in the past. In this podcast, Tonya shares her attitude when it comes to the past and the only thing you need to know about it. Get ready to be inspired to let go of "past thinking" so that you can create a future full of joy and abundance. Get full show notes and more information here: https://frenchkisslife.com/91

There is something magical about our American tradition of gathering for a day to give gratitude with the air starting to chill and the scents applex of spices in the air. Unfortunately, far too many women approach the holidays the way they go about their lives – hurried, pressured and overwhelmed. I know, because I used to be one of them. I want to make sure that this year, your Thanksgiving holiday is filled with elegance, style and joie de vivre. So I have put together a list of 22 ideas just for you. Get full show notes and more information here: https://frenchkisslife.com/90

You're invited! Chocolate, Chanel, & Champagne: How Indulging in Parisian Hedonism Creates Lasting Personal Success

Ever wonder why French women can eat rich food, drink wine every day, and still stay slim and elegant? It's a paradox that perplexes most Americans. But the answer isn't about how many calories or what types of food they consume, how much they walk or whether they smoke cigarettes! Listen to Tonya sharing the story of her revelation about why French women can stay so slim and elegant while eating croissants and drinking wine, how it completely changed her life, and how it can change yours! Ever wonder why French women can eat rich food, drink wine every day, and still stay slim and elegant? It's a paradox that perplexes most Americans. But the answer isn't about how many calories or what types of food they consume, how much they walk or whether they smoke cigarettes! Listen to Tonya sharing the story of her revelation about why French women can stay so slim and elegant while eating croissants and drinking wine, how it completely changed her life, and how it can change yours! Get full show notes and more information here: https://frenchkisslife.com/89

There are lessons in everything. In this podcast, Tonya shares the tough lessons she learned from a very interesting time in her life: as a Pageant Queen. She also discusses the discomfort we feel when we go after our dreams, the fears that pop up along the way, the jealousy that we feel or that may be directed towards you and so much more. These life lessons are what she applies every single day to live fully and on purpose. Get full show notes and more information here: https://frenchkisslife.com/88

Confession time (especially from you that work from home): do you ever spend all day in your pajamas or sweatpants because no one sees you? We've all done it. It's easy to become lazy and create a habit of dressing like a homeless woman when you've got so many other things to do. But, what if dressing with intention would positively impact your life? Your clothes speak your story. What story do you want to tell, most importantly when no one's watching? Listen to Tonya sharing her chic awakening years ago and how it's impacted her life. Get full show notes and more information here: https://frenchkisslife.com/87

In a world that is going harder and faster, a proper dinner party seems to have become a thing of the past. In this podcast, Tonya shares the stories of inspiring dinner parties in Paris and South of France that left a huge impression on her and why she's made a commitment to bring back dinner parties to her modern life. She debunks many of the excuses that people have as to why they don't make time to host and entertain and why you may want to reconsider not making room for such a fun and elegant, yet non-essential affair. Get full show notes and more information here: https://frenchkisslife.com/86

While I am deeply grateful for what technology allows us to do, it's not how a true bon vivant thrives. (FYI: a Bon Vivant = one who knows how to live well.) In the French Kiss Life community, we adore face to face interaction fueled by luxurious surroundings. We want our creative flutes to be filled to the rim with possibility, beauty and love. We deeply desire to transcend the ordinary and tap into something greater. For these very reasons, I am SO excited to present. The French Kiss Life 2017 World Tour! Go to tonyaleigh.com/experience to see what city is near you.

Are you afraid of not being liked? Do you try to win people's affection? In this podcast, I share the shift I made that released me from the need to be liked and the reason why this is the best way to operate in the world. What if you just walked away from people who you have to work hard to convince? Get full show notes and more information here: https://frenchkisslife.com/85

If you're struggling or feel like you can't create results in your life, learning to cultivate elegance is key, because elegance is a mindset. Learn 3 truths that Tonya learned from women who came into her life at the right time to teach her core principles that changed her life. Go to frenchkisslife.com/elegant to gain instant access.

Do you ever feel like your clothes don't match the woman you've become? Does it feel difficult to wear things that you're not accustomed to seeing yourself wearing? It's so easy to get in a style rut (or any life rut for that matter) and just continue to do and wear the same things day after day. If you want to get out of any life rut, you must be willing to shake things up and be uncomfortable. In this podcast, Tonya tells the story of how one outfit began to change how she saw herself as a woman, and ever since that day, she's been pushing her style and life edge. Ready to get out of a rut? This podcast is for you! Get full show notes and more information here: https://frenchkisslife.com/84

You can start creating an elegant mindset right now regardless of the balance in your bank account, the number on a scale or your relationship status. Get full show notes and more information here: https://frenchkisslife.com/83

How do I combine ambition with ease? This is a question I've been asking for almost a decade, experimenting with creating a mindset, along with inspired actions to create a life that is truly fulfilling. I don't think we were born to just work, pay bills and die. Yet, far too many people go through life, doing the same things day after day and wondering, "Where did my life go?" In this podcast, I turn to the French for inspiration on practical tips for living a passionate, driven life while not forgetting to enjoy it. And get an insider's view to learn the secrets of living the French lifestyle that are almost never talked about in my complimentary book, "An Insider's Guide to the French Way of Life" and learn how you can incorporate the best of the French way of life into yours. https://frenchkisslife.com/french Get full show notes and more information here: https://frenchkisslife.com/82

Travel is one of the greatest gifts we can give ourselves. To travel alone is an even greater gift. In this podcast, Tonya shares the 8 exuberant and heart wrenching ways that traveling solo made her a better woman. If you are a woman seeking to evolve, you may find yourself booking that ticket after listening to Tonya's story of how solo travel changed her life for the better. Don't forget to grab her free travel audio guide at frenchkisslife.com/solotravel Get full show notes and more information here: https://frenchkisslife.com/81

Join my free video program: The 3 Truths of Elegant Women. Elegance isn't about how much money you have in the bank or the clothes you wear. It's a state of mind. Learn 3 mindset shifts you can practice to go from struggling to creating your life. JOIN HERE: www.frenchkisslife.com/elegant

Do you obsess over your weight? Do you pinch, obsess over and curse your fat? That was me years ago. When I looked in the mirror, there I stood 75 pounds more than my ideal weight. That's when I went on a mission to get rid of my fat. For the next decade, I dieted, exercised and went to even more extreme measures to lose weight. Yet, the harder I tried, the harder it became. Finally, I tried something different, something that radically changed not only me weight, but my life. I listened to what my fat was really telling me and started approaching my life with elegance. Register for my free video course, "The 3 Truths of Elegant Women" here: www.frenchkisslife.com/elegant Get full show notes and more information here: https://frenchkisslife.com/80

All too often, women give all of their time, energy and resources to others and leave nothing for themselves. Then, we wait for someone else to rescue us or give us the things we deeply want. When others don't read our minds, we can become resentful and bitter. In this podcast, Tonya tells the story of the Christmas gift that inspired her to stop waiting for others to give her the life she wanted. Plus, grab The French Kiss Life Holiday Guide, all hand curated picks by Tonya herself. Enjoy! Get full show notes and more information here: https://frenchkisslife.com/79

Santa's been listening. And, he's bringing you more love, joy & style.

Can we "create more time"? Of course not. We all have the same 24 hours a day. But a few years back, after completing a (disturbing) in-depth analysis of how I was spending my time, I made a startling discovery and came up with a simple workaround. In this podcast, I will share the things that I have discovered are not worth my time, plus offer you a tool to help you discover where you may be wasting time and what to do about it. Get full show notes and more information here: https://frenchkisslife.com/78

Sweet music wafting over the Seine, a balmy Parisian night, and a glass of Bordeaux. Why, merci, don't mind if I do. Everyone should make a trip to the City of Light and Love, but not to see the sights (although they are gorgeous). "Doing Paris" is about more than finding a great cheese place – it's about finding yourself. I went in with some serious preconceived notions about who I was and how much better I would be if I could be more continental (the oh-la-la kind of continental). In that respect, my journey to become French was a fiasco. I learned that I will never be French. What surprised me however, is why that's a good thing. What surprised me even more is how we can all take a page out of the book of being French, without being French. Or definitely not French in my case. Still visit Paris though. Because…Paris. Get full show notes and more information here: https://frenchkisslife.com/77

Are you exhausted from this political season and all of the hate, fear and personal attacks? Do you have family members or friends who see things very differently? Are you personally angry and scared about what's happening in the world? If so, Tonya has finally given in to her commitment to NOT talk about this political season after being asked by so many people, "How are you handling these emotional times with a positive attitude?" In this podcast, Tonya shares the 8-steps she's taking to remain calm, joyful and passionate even when she's surrounded by what feels like such opposite states. They are practical and life-changing practices that can be applied to all areas of life, not just this presidential election. Get full show notes and more information here: https://frenchkisslife.com/76

Life can get hectic. There are deadlines to meet. Children to raise. A job to show up for. Business to run. Bills to pay. We live in a society that drives ambition and success over time and quality, which can make a woman afraid to stop for five seconds to appreciate a sunset, much less an entire day at the beach. Our feminine hearts crave everyday beauty, yet we don't take the time or create the space to tend to this need. The result is stress, boredom, frustration and all sorts of other negative emotions that deprive us even more of experiencing the beauty of our everyday lives. In this podcast, Tonya turns to one of her sources of inspiration, France, to share a French feminine secret that guides how she lives her days and has helped her thrive in all areas of her life. It's these small simple actions paired with awareness that will certainly elevate the quality of an ordinary day. Get full show notes and more information here: https://frenchkisslife.com/75

Do you constantly pressure yourself to be happy? Do you avoid uncomfortable emotions? Are you feeling like you'll never "be there?" If so, it's time to get some French inspiration and discover why chasing happiness is the worst advice ever, and what to do instead. Get full show notes and more information here: https://frenchkisslife.com/74

Do you constantly feel overwhelmed? Is time something you never seem to have enough of? Are you not taking care of yourself? In this episode, Tonya shares how the French culture inspired her to start taking time for leisure. And, when you do, the world doesn't fall apart. If anything, it becomes more rich and full. Ready to take the challenge? Get full show notes and more information here: https://frenchkisslife.com/73

Have you created a vision board, only to find that your vision is still just a dream? While it's fun to cut and paste your dreams onto a sheet of paper, vision boards are a waste of time if you don't do show up for your vision. While Tonya does firmly believe in the law of attraction, she equally believes in the law of action. Listen to this episode to hear Tonya's story of her first and last vision board. You'll gain inspiration about how to take your vision and make it a reality. Get full show notes and more information here: https://frenchkisslife.com/72

If you don't like standing in long lines with a big group of other tourists, discover ways to experience Paris like a local. Get full show notes and more information here: https://frenchkisslife.com/71

There's so much written and taught about the concept of self-love. But, have you stopped to consider why it's so important? In this powerful podcast, Tonya explains why cultivating self-love is the most determining factor in a person's success. She shares not only the internal aspect of cultivating self-love, but also gives you samples of way you can treat yourself as your own lover. And, when you do, life becomes so much more fun! Get full show notes and more information here: https://frenchkisslife.com/70

Have you ever tried to put on your favorite jeans and find that they no longer fit? If so, do you, like many women spiral into doom and gloom? Tonya shares her story of tight jeans and how she was able to find her "sweet spot" that allowed her to slide back into them with ease without dieting or drama. In this podcast, you'll learn what the "sweet spot" is and why it's so important for a woman to be able to clearly know how to get back into hers when things don't go right. As Tonya says, "The worst thing that can happen with tight jeans is what happens in your own mind." Get full show notes and more information here: https://frenchkisslife.com/69

The word bikini can bring up feelings of anxiety, dread and hopelessness. Each year, women around the world try and fix their bodies so that they can feel worthy of enjoying their summer. In this podcast, Tonya shares how a summer in St. Tropez inspired her to create the perfect bikini season. Get full show notes and more information here: https://frenchkisslife.com/68

In this podcast, Tonya describes what she is fiercely committed to. There are two "F" Words, she believes, which embody what the French Kiss Life-style is all about. In a world that tells women to go harder and faster, Tonya relies on these two words to entice us to slow down, touch pause and inject our everyday lives with a little more...listen to find out. Get full show notes and more information here: https://frenchkisslife.com/67

Is your life lacking passion? Are you constantly looking for your passion? In this podcast, Tonya reveals how a dinner party in the South of France changed the way she thought about passion. She reveals why searching for your passion is not the answer, and what to do instead. Get full show notes and more information here: https://frenchkisslife.com/66

Do you have those days when life feels out of control? You're not alone. In a world that pushes us to go harder and faster, women are so overwhelmed and frustrated with their own lives. However, Tonya has discovered the secret to taking that control back. The answer is simple: elegance. In this podcast, Tonya will dive into 6 reasons why elegant women rarely feel out of control. Get full show notes and more information here: https://frenchkisslife.com/65

Do you secretly wish that you could live more like a Parisian — with style, elegance and joie de vivre? Are you ready to let go of the constant overwhelm, chaos and living life like a race? If you, you will enjoy this podcast where Tonya shares 25 ways to infuse an ordinary day with more of the exquisite. It doesn't matter if you live in a highrise in Brooklyn or a farmhouse in Nebraska, you can cultivate a Paris state of mind. Access the show notes and other information about the French Kiss Lifestyle here: Get full show notes and more information here: https://frenchkisslife.com/64

In this podcast, Tonya tells the story of how she liberated herself by cleaning out her closet. A woman's closet says a lot about who she is and who she's becoming. If you think cleaning your closet is just about organizing, this podcast will demonstrate how this home project is about so much more. With 2 specific questions and the courage to face her fears, a woman can begin to liberate herself with one dress, pair of shoes and accessory at a time. Get full show notes and more information here: https://frenchkisslife.com/63

In a world of vulgar, excess and rudeness, Tonya exposes the belief that elegance could be in the answer to a more beautiful life. However, she debunks that elegance is about wearing pearls and fancy clothes. It's much deeper. In this podcast, she'll share the 12 things elegant women don't do so that you can create more joy, beauty and meaning in your life. Get full show notes and more information here: https://frenchkisslife.com/62

Each day, we have a choice to meticulously choose what we allow into our lives, from the food we eat to the people we surround ourselves with. Most importantly, we can decide what we consume mentally. Your mind is your greatest commodity; treat it exquisitely. If you want to live a beautiful life, you must put effort into cultivating a beautiful mind. In this episode, Tonya reveals one of the easiest ways to cultivate a beautiful mind (hint: you're doing it the moment you press play). Get full show notes and more information here: https://frenchkisslife.com/61

While Americans are busy writing out their 5-year visions and checking off their to-do lists, the French culture places a lot of value on the details of life. More specifically, they focus on 3 areas of their daily life. My experience has been that when you pay attention to these 3 areas, everything else in your life works so much better. What are these 3 areas? Check out this episode to find out. Get full show notes and more information here: https://frenchkisslife.com/60

Description: Why do we fill our calendars with so many obligations? Why do we kill ourselves to try and reach goals? Why do we try to be everything to everyone? Why do we resist enjoying beautiful moments? Why do we cram our lives with excess? Years ago, I was an overwhelmed mess, filling my calendar and life with excess. It was exhausting and I couldn't keep up. Then, I went to Paris, and I discovered how I wanted to feel in my daily life. In this episode, I'm sharing 6 ways that you can go from an overwhelmed mess to calm sophisticate. Get full show notes and more information here: https://frenchkisslife.com/59