
Queer Collective Podcast
Queer Collective
Show overview
Queer Collective Podcast has been publishing since 2020, and across the 6 years since has built a catalogue of 148 episodes. That works out to roughly 120 hours of audio in total. Releases follow a fortnightly cadence.
Episodes typically run thirty-five to sixty minutes — most land between 32 min and 1h 2m — though episode length varies meaningfully from one episode to the next. It is catalogued as a EN-US-language Society & Culture show.
The show is actively publishing — the most recent episode landed 2 weeks ago, with 8 episodes already out so far this year. The busiest year was 2021, with 34 episodes published. Published by Queer Collective.
From the publisher
The Queer Collective Podcast is a bi-weekly queer podcast that takes a deep-dive into every subgroup of the LGBTQ2S+ community. Co-hosts Emily and Karbon, the dynamic duo navigating their own relationships and gender identities, invite guests to provide detailed perspectives on a specific topic. Whether you're interested in bisexuality, queer sex-ed, compulsory heterosexuality, or any facet of LGBTQ+ life, we cover it all with a unique blend of casual conversation and deep journalism. For advertising opportunities please email [email protected]
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Ep 145Most People Are Dating on Autopilot
You think your dating choices are yours… but there's invisible rules shaping your sex, love, and identity. However, there is a disruption that queer, kinky, and non-monogamous people are leading, exposing amatonormativity, and the fantasy of desire that isn’t actually yours. To break down how to unlearn, rebuild, and finally choose yourself, we put Feeld’s new Reflections tool to the test; because self-discovery shouldn’t feel like homework. The script stopped working. Now what? Download FEELD: https://feeld.onelink.me/TRZt/queer Join Our Patreon: https://patreon.com/QueerCollective?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink CONTACT AIANO Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aiano_/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@queer_homemaking CONTACT US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@queercollectivepodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: [email protected] 00:00 intro 00:54 Do we make our own choices? 07:44 The bedroom crossover 16:54 Subliminal beliefs we hold 25:50 social rewards and punishments 34:01 ananormativity 29:44 grow out if it 44:49 compulsory heteronormativity 46:43 can't name it can't claim it 50:31 finding your true desires 53:11 scary things that won't kill you 57:39 are you happy? Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 144Why the Church Makes People Kinky
The Church might be one of the gayest institutions in history and no one’s talking about it. We’re diving into the hidden queer and kinky world inside religious life. From lesbian nuns to closeted clergy, and how centuries of repression shaped it all. Connecting history, theory, and lived experience to ask: does religion suppress desire, or secretly create it? Because once you see it, you can’t unsee it. Join Our Patreon: https://patreon.com/QueerCollective?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Download FEELD: https://feeld.onelink.me/TRZt/queer CONTACT RYLAN Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rylanstreight/ Salem: https://www.instagram.com/salemburns_/ CONTACT US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@queercollectivepodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: [email protected] 00:00 Intro 00:59 Growin up with gay clergy? 06:00 Deep in it 11:45 All priests are gay 17:19 The nuns are gay too 21:25 All falling apart 33:08 The shame is too strong 40:53 What religion teaches us about sexuality 48:40 Saying goodbye to Jesus 53:19 Kink will save us 1:00:34 Morality is in question 1:08:02 Religion is Kink in cosplay Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 143Men Are Losing Women (And They Don't Know Why)
Vox crowned 2025 the year of decentering men. But lesbians were doing it first. We’re unpacking whether “man-hating” is a dead-end, a coping mechanism, or a misread of a much older feminist strategy, with Olivia (aka Olisunvia). Join Our Patreon: https://patreon.com/QueerCollective?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink CONTACT OLIVIA: Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@olisunvia Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/olisunvia/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@olisunvia CONTACT US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@queercollectivepodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: [email protected] 00:00 Intro 01:00 Man-hating vs de-centering 05:39 Choice vs radical feminism 11:27 the real hate for men 24:13 Second wave feminism 34:15 The feminist manifesto 48:07 Ideal vs reasonable change 57:29 What's in our best interest? 1:07:39 Are women healthier without men? Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 142The Identity Even Progressive Spaces Get Wrong
Studs aren’t a vibe, they’re a lineage. We’re unpacking the history, politics, and lived reality of Black masculine lesbians at the crossroads of race, gender, and desire. From the swagger and softness, Harlem Renaissance sapphics, stud vs butch, AGs, Stud4Stud discourse, toxic masculinity, and why Black masculinity plays by different rules. Joined by Elisabeth Clarke, Nadine Wiltshire, and Kiké, we dig into stereotypes, erasure, dating myths, and the radical tenderness at the core of stud identity. oin Our Patreon: https://patreon.com/QueerCollective?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink CONTACT US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@queercollectivepodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: [email protected] 00:00 What is a stud? 05:00 The toxic expectations 12:11 Recreating masculinity 19:12 It's because you're black 24:31 Stud on stud clash 35:03 Who can be a stud? 1:03:04 Know your stud history 1:16:04 Black vs white lesbian division 1:31:21 What can femmes do better? Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 141The Gender Mystery Historians Still Can’t Explain
EThe feral, gender-defiant life of a Canadian WWI veteran who ditched a wealthy upbringing, lived alone in the woods, enlisted three times, fought on the Serbian front as a man, got captured as a prisoner of war, fell in love in a prison camp, and spent decades confusing barbers and bureaucrats alike. We’re queering the Great War, unpacking gender outlaw survival, and asking the spicy question: early non-binary icon or radical dissident woman? Join Our Patreon: https://patreon.com/QueerCollective?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink CONTACT US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@queercollectivepodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: [email protected] 00:00 Intro 01:19 Our hero's early life 07:27 The radical of it all 13:52 What was it like for women in 1900s? 21:00 How did a woman get into war? 27:54 Enlisting as a man 36:37 First love interest (as a man?) 43:43 Actually non-binary? Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 140Stone Top And Pillow Princess: The Lesbian S*x Dynamic People Don’t Understand
Stone butch lesbians. Pillow princesses. An erotic dynamic that fits like a deviant little puzzle and has been wildly misunderstood ever since. Syd and Addy give us all the details from their own personal experiences, tackle myths and misconceptions, and get radically honest about desire, boundaries, and sexual alignment. Join Our Patreon: https://patreon.com/QueerCollective?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink CONTACT ADDY Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/princesslezbian/ CONTACT SYD Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hotboysyd/ CONTACT US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@queercollectivepodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: [email protected] 00:00 intro 00:49 what's a stone top? 07:41 what's a pillow princess? 13:33 can straight girls be a pillow princess? 20:59 myths and misconceptions 25:33 when it's used as an insult 30:35 are they asexual? 34:40 exploring outside the dynamic 42:34 melt the stone? 49:04 finding a partner 51:13 stone butch history 1:01:05 stone butch blues 1:08:22 pillow princess history 1:10:41 all about dating 1:18:31 is it viewed as negative? Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 139The History and Secrets of How Lesbians Have S*x
EWe’re cracking open the secret, censored, and wildly creative history of lesbian sex. We’re digging through ancient poems, forbidden medical texts, barroom gossip, queer zines, and the techniques they definitely didn’t teach in sex ed. Tracing sapphic desire from Sappho’s bedroom to modern queer culture and exposing just how inventive lesbians have always been. Foxers: https://bekomando.com/ Download FEELD: https://feeld.onelink.me/TRZt/queer Vizzy Hard Seltzer: https://www.vizzyhardseltzer.ca/en-CA CONTACT US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@queercollectivepodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: [email protected] 00:00 intro 01:05 Why is lesbian research scarce? 06:25 do men have higher libido 21:05 ancient greece lesbians 27:24 ancient india lesbians 29:46 medieval lesbos 37:36 is using a dildo phallocentric? 41:21 sexy reddit strap stories 45:42 the arabs had the right idea 48:58 the "itch" 54:04 early modern lesbos 1:02:03 lesbian nuns 1:09:41 modern lesbians 1:12:32 birth of the leather dyke 1:20:49 bdsm kinky lesbians 1:23:11 prison dykes 1:29:15 crafty prison pleasure toys Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 138The Queer Community Is Tearing Itself Apart (Here’s Why) ft. Taha
Every corner of queer TikTok is on fire. Hot takes, call-out wars, and “LGB without the T” chaos, and suddenly the biggest culture war isn’t left vs. right, it’s inside our own community. We’re diving into the history of queer infighting, from Stonewall splits to homonormativity, moral panics, tender-queer discourse, and why assimilation vs. liberation is the eternal gay cage match. Use code QUEERCOLLECTIVE for 4 months FREE Surfshark: https://surfshark.com/queercollective Vizzy Hard Seltzer: https://www.vizzyhardseltzer.ca/en-CA CONTACT TAHA Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tahalikesyou/ CONTACT US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@queercollectivepodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: [email protected] 00:00 Intro 00:52 What is causing the divide? 07:19 Are we taking it too far? 11:50 The moral panic 16:51 Am I the problem? 23:31 The worst it's ever been 31:23 Save the children 41:44 Assimilation vs abolition 50:23 Which strategy will win? 57:38 This time is different 1:03:53 How tf do we move forward 1:13:14 What can I do today? Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 137The Bisexual Man’s Field Guide to Dating Men ft. Mark and Bobby Box
You’re bi (or gay), and honestly? You’ve got no idea what to do with your hands. We got you. Sex columnist Bobby Box and bi icon Mark Erenberg join us for a crash course in gay sex 101. From flirting with men and building confidence to actually being good in bed. We’re talking imposter syndrome, gay panic, and the do’s and don’ts of bottoming… all with a wink, a giggle, and a lube bottle. Think of it as your guide to queer pleasure, power, and sweaty first kisses. Use code QUEERCOLLECTIVE for 4 months FREE Surfshark: https://surfshark.com/queercollective Download FEELD: https://feeld.onelink.me/TRZt/queer Vizzy Hard Seltzer: https://www.vizzyhardseltzer.ca/en-CA CONTACT BOBBY Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bybobbybox/ CONTACT MARK Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mark.erenberg/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ensider.mp3/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/disgustingparty/ CONTACT US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@queercollectivepodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: [email protected] 00:00 Intro 01:11 First time with a man 10:42 Realizing you like men 16:07 Imposter syndrome for bi men 21:59 How do Gay men feel about bi men? 25:46 Will he leave you for a woman? 30:25 Gay vs straight dating 37:36 Consent in gay men spaces 43:06 You're getting more attention now 47:47 How to hit on a guy 56:24 Hard skills 1:00:08 Bottoming 1:07:40 What is side? 1:12:29 How about group sex? 1:15:00 Giving great BJ's 1:18:26 What if it's too big? 1:21:36 First time prep 1:25:41 Sexy smut Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 136Is Bisexuality The Same As Pansexuality? ft. Leo And Taty
Pansexuality: it’s not just bisexuality with extra glitter. We’re tracing its wild origins from the BDSM underground to the free love 70s to the nonbinary explosion of the 2010s, because this label has range. We’re unpacking the bi vs. pan debate, the pan pride flag’s secret meanings, and why pansexuality has always been the sexy rebel of the LGBTQ+ alphabet. Use code QUEERCOLLECTIVE for 15% off Aisle: https://periodaisle.com/ Download FEELD: https://feeld.onelink.me/TRZt/queer Vizzy Hard Seltzer: https://www.vizzyhardseltzer.ca/en-CA CONTACT LEO 1st Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/anne__alien/ 2nd Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/polterguy666/ CONTACT TATY Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taty.wab/ CONTACT US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@queercollectivepodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: [email protected] 00:00 Intro 01:34 Bi or pan? 10:26 Pan is the umbrella 14:55 What is a lesbian? 19:55 What does attraction look like for pansexuals? 24:02 History of pansexuality 31:38 Early examples of pansexuality 35:45 The kinky history 39:41 The evolution of pan 48:55 Sexuality is not fluid? 56:08 Pan challenges 01:05:37 Is pansexuality inherently political? Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 135The Lesbian Relationship Myths We Can’t Kill ft. Shannon
Do all lesbians think the same? We’re digging into the big three stereotypes. Emotional intensity, U-Hauling, and lesbian bed death, to see if Sapphics really do relationships differently. We’re breaking down where these tropes come from, what’s rooted in history, and what’s just straight-up lesbophobic myth. Joined by hopeless romantic & poet lesbian play boy poetry, we’re asking: are lesbians too intense, too fast, and too sexless, or just misunderstood? Use code QUEERCOLLECTIVE for 15% off Aisle: https://periodaisle.com/ Banff Pride: https://banffpride.ca/ Vizzy Hard Seltzer: https://www.vizzyhardseltzer.ca/en-CA CONTACT SHANNON Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/lesbianplayboypoetry/ CONTACT US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@queercollectivepodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: [email protected] 00:00 Intro 01:28 Are we more intense? 07:11 It's the hormones 17:20 Good or toxic? 28:35 U-hauling 44:18 Lesbian bed death 01:02:50 Frequency is the key Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 134Bisexuality Isn’t 50/50 - It’s a Bi-Cycle ft. Kelc And Joe
Sexuality isn’t static, it’s a shuffle. Sometimes you’re feeling super gay, sometimes a little straight, sometimes both at once, and that ebb and flow is what we’re calling the Bi-Cycle. We’re breaking down why attraction shifts over time, the label confusion that comes with it, and how to navigate relationships when your desires don’t sit still. Download FEELD: https://feeld.onelink.me/TRZt/queer Vizzy Hard Seltzer: https://www.vizzyhardseltzer.ca/en-CA FOLLOW JOE Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/princemannydingo/ FOLLOW KELC Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mixt.paints/ FOLLOW US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@queercollectivepodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: [email protected] 00:00 intro 01:19 What is the bi-cycle? 01:50 First time experiencing it 09:38 Why does the cycle happen? 17:04 Are you confused? 25:03 Can you choose it? 31:12 Navigating it in relationships 39:30 Bi-cycle while monogamous 45:09 Are you missing out? 48:30 What's the hardest part? 01:02:38 Explain yourself Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 133How to Hook Up With Your Friends ft. Syd And Zhané
Is sleeping with your friends a queer love language or just lesbian chaos theory? We’re spilling on crushes, cuddle hookups, and why queers can’t stop blurring the friendship line. With Zhané and Syd, we talk jealousy, intimacy, ENM vs monogamy, and every messy “oops, I made out with my bestie” scenario. Gay disasters, incoming. Use code QUEERCOLLECTIVE for 15% off Aisle: https://periodaisle.com/ Download FEELD: https://feeld.onelink.me/TRZt/queer Vizzy Hard Seltzer: https://www.vizzyhardseltzer.ca/en-CA FOLLOW ZHANE Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ziosaaa/ FOLLOW SYD https://www.instagram.com/hotboysyd/ FOLLOW US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@queercollectivepodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: [email protected] 00:00 intro 01:44 Have you hooked up with friends? 09:20 Pros and cons of hooking up 25:39 What about the friendship? 40:10 Is it inevitable? 49:15 Making the first move 57:56 Intoxicated consent 01:04:18 Keeping a platonic vibe after 01:10:38 How to avoid problems 01:16:52 Role playing scenarios Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 132The Epidemic of Masc Fragility ft. Ms. Myles And Danielle Lastres
Femininity: feared, fetishized, and slapped with a “no fems” dating bio. We’re pulling femmephobia apart with Ms. Myles and Danielle. From its colonial, patriarchal origin story to the high school boys who think they have to one-up each other in a contest to sound the most heterosexual. CONTENT WARNING: This episode contains mentions of SA. Please take care of yourself while listening, and feel free to skip to the next episode if it’s not the right time for you. Download FEELD: https://feeld.onelink.me/TRZt/queer Vizzy Hard Seltzer: https://www.vizzyhardseltzer.ca/en-CA CONTACT DANIELLE Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/danielle.lastres/ CONTACT MS MYLES MUA IG: https://www.instagram.com/ms.mylesmua/ DJ IG: https://www.instagram.com/madame.myles/ CONTACT US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@queercollectivepodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: [email protected] 00:00 Intro 02:25 Define femmephobia 05:28 How does society treat femmes? 15:06 Being a trans femme is something else 23:32 Origins of femmephobia 31:09 The misogyny mask 43:11 No femmes allowed 48:37 Unwavering queerness 53:23 Do you wanna be a boy? 58:15 Protect the dolls Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 131“I’m Not a Lesbian Anymore, I’m Queer” ft. Tyra Blizzard And King
From Oscar Wilde to JoJo Siwa, the word queer has been called a slur, a theory, an aesthetic, and a whole damn vibe. We’re diving deep into the messy, sexy, defiant legacy of queerness with icons Tyra Blizzard and King a.k.a DJ Soundboi. Why are so many ex-lesbians saying “I’m queer now”? Can cis-hets be queer? Is “queer” just bisexuality in a trench coat?? We’re reclaiming, unpacking, and stirring the pot. Use code QUEERCOLLECTIVE for 15% off Aisle: https://periodaisle.com/ Download FEELD: https://feeld.onelink.me/TRZt/queer Vizzy Hard Seltzer: https://www.vizzyhardseltzer.ca/en-CA CONTACT TYRA Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/tyrablizz/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tblizzy CONTACT KING Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/king.charming9/ Barber IG: https://www.instagram.com/kingscuts99/ CONTACT US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@queercollectivepodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: [email protected] 00:00 Intro 02:26 Queer as gender and sexuality? 10:04 Is queer just too vague? 21:21 The ex-lesbians 28:26 Can you be culturally queer? 41:26 History of the word queer 52:12 How has queer evolved? 01:00:08 Is gender queer just non-binary? 01:06:05 Do you need to question your sexual attraction? Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 130You’re Not Gay, You Struggle With Same-Sex Attraction ft. Luke Wilson
What do electric shocks, shame sermons, and fake science have in common? They were all used to “pray the gay away.” We’re diving into the twisted world of conversion therapy with survivor and scholar Lucas Wilson. From evangelical trauma to the ex-gay movement’s most delulu masc villains, we’re unpacking the pseudoscience, propaganda, and lifelong scars of this deadly practice, and how survivors are reclaiming their stories. Vizzy Hard Seltzer: https://www.vizzyhardseltzer.ca/en-CA FOLLOW LUKE Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lukeslamdunkwilson/ FOLLOW US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@queercollectivepodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: [email protected] 00:00 Intro 01:46 Did you grow up religious? 08:23 being gay AND christian? 19:03 Discovering conversion therapy 35:40 The indoctrination is strong 44:14 The science is clear 57:36 Should DL folks be outed? 01:02:49 But the bible says 01:07:11 rejecting religion's teachings 01:10:53 The long term harm Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 129Relationship Anarchy Changed How I Love ft. Pat
Monogamy is optional. Hierarchies are fake. And ‘the one’ doesn't exist? We're diving headfirst into the world of Relationship Anarchy with queer academic and certified hottie Pat. From dismantling the dating rulebook to navigating multiple partners without losing your mind, this episode unpacks radical love, intimacy without ownership, and why friendship might just be the new forever. Queer Poverty Project: https://smuniversity.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_3ZO1JLxkZZC5E46 Download FEELD: https://feeld.onelink.me/TRZt/queer Vizzy Hard Seltzer: https://www.vizzyhardseltzer.ca/en-CA FOLLOW PAT Therapy: https://allofyou.ca/Events Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allofyouwellnesscentre/ FOLLOW US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@queercollectivepodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: [email protected] 00:00 Intro 01:32 What is relationship anarchy? 10:50 How do you get into RA? 20:34 Positive impact of RA 27:20 Why choose RA? 41:45 Can it get more radical? 53:28 Building your own RA model 01:06:13 Dating challenges within RA 01:12:26 Creating clarity with multiple partners 01:19:06 Negotiating hierarchies Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 128Is Black Masculinity Feared in Queer Spaces? ft. Haviah Mighty And DJ Blackcat
Black masculinity is feared, fetishized, and fiercely policed; so what happens when queerness enters the chat? We’re talking masc performance as survival, straight Black men’s discomfort with queerness, and why traditional masculinity is flopping in 2025. With Haviah Mighty and DJ Blackcat, we’re queering the blueprint and dragging patriarchy by the lacefront. Queer Poverty Project: https://smuniversity.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_3ZO1JLxkZZC5E46 Download FEELD: https://feeld.onelink.me/TRZt/queer Betterhelp: https://www.betterhelp.com/collective Vizzy Hard Seltzer: https://www.vizzyhardseltzer.ca/en-CA FOLLOW HAVIAH Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/haviahmighty/ FOLLOW BLACKCAT Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/djblackcatt/ FOLLOW US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@queercollectivepodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: [email protected] 00:00 Intro 02:33 Black masculinity from childhood 11:18 Highschool scripts and stereotypes 16:03 Black masc women 21:52 Black women's standards 27:56 Black masculinity in queer spaces 39:38 Cis straight black men 50:59 Loving men 01:03:43 What is masculinity? 01:10:36 What is healthy masculinity? Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.