How Unresolved Trauma Prevents You from Having a Healthy Life with Dr Don Wood
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There's a stigma associated with unresolved trauma. Many people don't talk about their traumatic experiences. Unfortunately, we're only taught short-term solutions like coping with stress and managing our emotions. With these short-term solutions, the root cause remains unresolved. The trauma is still present and can affect our everyday lives.
In this episode, Dr Don Wood joins us to talk about how unresolved trauma can directly affect our health. He aims to remove the stigma around unresolved trauma, and the first step towards healing is understanding the pain we've gone through. He also talks about the power of our minds from the different stories of his past patients.
Tune in to this episode if you want to learn more about how unresolved trauma can affect your health and life.
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Here are three reasons why you should listen to the full episode:
- Learn how unresolved trauma can affect your life and compromise your health.
- Discover Dr Don's alternative ways of how he sees addiction.
- Understand the power of our minds and how it can do anything to protect us from feeling pain.
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- The Unbeatable Mind Podcast: How to Deal with Trauma with Dr Don Wood
- Brain Wash: Detox Your Mind for Clearer Thinking, Deeper Relationships, and Lasting Happiness by David and Austin Perlmutter
- Emotional Concussions: Understanding How Our Nervous System is Affected by Events and Experiences Throughout Our Life by Dr Donald Wood
Episode Highlights [05:32] What Inspired Dr Don to Start His Career
- Dr Don founded the Inspire Performance Institute because of his wife and daughter.
- Dr Don shares that he had a quiet and idyllic childhood. He didn't experience any trauma.
- His wife had a rough childhood which contributed largely to the unresolved trauma and fear she lives with today.
- His daughter also inspired his research. She was diagnosed with Crohn's disease at 14.
- He remembers he used to get bad stomach pains when he was young. They would go to their family doctor for a checkup.
- His grandfather mentioned that he has stomach pains because of the stress at home.
- Later on, Dr Don realised that he felt the pressure in their home. The stress from this manifested as stomach pains.
- Dr Don believes that unresolved trauma creates inflammation in the body. It compromises a person's immune system and neurotransmitters.
- A person gets sick and starts feeling bad because of serotonin neurotransmitters. They are affected by our guts' inflammation.
- Unfortunately, the only things taught to us are managing and coping with the stress. We do not get to the root cause of the problem.
- Dr Don has been an entrepreneur all his life. Before he founded Inspired Performance Institute, he was in financial services.
- He realised that committing to Inspired Performance Institute meant studying again.
- To add credibility to his name, he went back to school and got his Ph.D.
- Dr Don doesn't believe that addiction is caused by physical dependency. It's more about how the mind connected using drugs and survival.
- Because people feel bad, they find a way to stop the pain and feel better temporarily. Most of them find it in using drugs.
- The subconscious mind tries to find a way to feel better. The conscious mind builds a habit based on it.
- The interaction between these two memory systems is a factor in developing addictions.
- 95% of our mind works on the subconscious survival base. The remaining 5% is concerned with logic and reason.
- The 5% uses reason and logic to make brilliant things in life. However, when survival needs arise, the part dedicated to survival overrides the other.
- To learn more about Dr Don's analysis of the Time Slice Theory and how it's connected to how we respond to our day-to-day lives, listen to the full episode.
- People with repeated brain injuries might have problems with logical and survival thinking responses.
- Brain injury patients have lower blood flow in the frontal part when faced with survival situations based on brain scans.
- Dr Don's son had three head injuries since he was young. The third one affected his communication skills and emotions.
- He believes that his son has functional damage to his brain. Once they discovered that, they got him into hyperbaric oxygen therapy.
- He started getting his blood flow into the areas of his brain that process his experiences.
- Dr Don shares that fMRI can be another procedure that can help people with brain injuries.
- fMRI can detect abnormalities in your brain that other methods may not pick up.
- His daughter was diagnosed with Crohn's disease. It affected her career as an actress.
- His daughter's condition made him realise: inflammation responds to unresolved trauma.
- They managed to resolve her unresolved trauma that happened when she was six years old. Her mind understood that, and her negative response stopped.
- In cases of depression, the person's mind puts pressure on them to do something in the past.
- Depression then becomes the absence of emotion. It tries to numb you from the stress in your mind.
- When they get to the cause of what their mind needs and resolves it, their depression eases.
- Rebecca was a victim of the Boston Marathon bombing. She came to seek help from Dr Don five years ago.
- She has PTSD. Dr Don helped her realise the connection between her response to daily life and the memory she has.
- To know more about the process on how Dr Don helped Rebecca tune in to the full episode.
- Dr Don shared that he also studied EMDr
- In his practice, he used some of the techniques in EMDr He enhanced them to become quicker and more comprehensive.
- Unlike EMDR, Dr Don's approach is faster and more straightforward. The patient can choose which way they would like to do it.
- He believes that talk therapy is good. You must deal with a current problem.
- They aim to resolve the old issues that aggravate the new experiences.
- Crohn's disease is incurable. However, since his daughter underwent their program, her Crohn's didn't flare-up.
- He believes his daughter's body has more energy to do maintenance and repair issues. It's possible because her unresolved trauma has been resolved.
- The daily stress that we encounter every day might pile up and affect us in the long run.
- They might also connect and add up to our trauma, making it harder for us to cope.
- We misinterpreted experiences when we were young that still affect us as we grow older.
- Dr Don shares stories of how unresolved childhood experiences may affect a person as they grow up.
- Dr Don says that people have different atmospheric conditions they grew up in. These factors affect how they filter and deal with their everyday experiences.
- Our brain acts as the filter, and all of our experiences pass through that filter. The differences in how we operate upon those experiences are based on them.
- Dr Don proceeds to share different stories of his patients regarding the differences in people's minds.
- Dr Don says that smokers are not addicted to nicotine. They need the sensation of feeling better.
- The mind of a smoker associates feeling better to smoking. This link causes addiction.
- You can break the habit by introducing a new, healthier factor.
- Many approaches to addiction make the person feel useless. They surrender to never getting better.
- Dr Don pushes a system that empowers people. He makes them realise they can overcome their addiction by understanding the cause.
- Dr Don shares that the mind is powerful enough. It will do anything for you to stop feeling pain.
- People who commit suicide act in desperation to stop the pain they're feeling.
- He shares the story of the German sniper. It can represent the power of the mind in reaction to pain.
7 Powerful Quotes
'I really started the Inspired Performance Institute because of my wife and daughter more. Mostly my daughter than anything else.'
'So if I had been a little frustrated with something that worked that day, or is, you know, some other thing that was nothing related to her, she could pick up on that tone change. And then, in her mind, what her mind would be doing is saying, "What do we know about men when they start to get angry?" And a whole bunch of data and information about her father would come flooding in and overstimulate her nervous system.'
'And so when my daughter was 14, she was diagnosed with Crohn's. And they just told us that you just kind of have to, you know, learn to live with this.'
'And that's really what led me to develop the program, is I realised that when my daughter was 16, she disclosed to us some sexual abuse that she had had when she was like six years of age that we had no idea. So my wife was, obviously both of us were devastated, but my wife was extremely, she had experienced, you know, sexual abuse as a child and thought she would never let that happen to her child.'
'How could the body crave a substance that it doesn't know? It doesn't regulate heroin. How could it crave something that doesn't regulate? I believe it's the mind has made a connection between the heroin and survival.'
'What's happened is your mind has been calling for an action for many, many years, that was impossible to accomplish. But your mind doesn't know that and it keeps putting pressure on you. "Do it, do it, do it." And because you don't do it, it's using these emotions to call for the action, it stops calling for the action, it shuts off the emotions. And so now depression is the absence of emotion.'
'I believe in a lot of cases, that's what they're doing, are trying to desensitise you to it. You know, talk about it enough, maybe it doesn't feel as dramatic. And talk therapy has its place so I'm not against it. I think where talk therapy is really good is when you're dealing with a current problem. Where I think the difference between what we do is we're able to get the talk therapy much more effective when you take out all the old stuff that keeps aggravating the new stuff.'
About Dr Don Wood
Dr Don Wood, Ph.D., developed the TIPP method after researching how atmospheric conditions affect our minds and impact our lives. In his search for answers for them, Dr Wood connected trauma and their health issues. He also recognised the daily stress they lived with. The only solutions provided came from medications. His experience with his family provided the determination required to develop a cutting-edge neuroscience approach.
The program has benefited individuals all over the world. The results have been impressive. Dr Wood has helped trauma survivors from the Boston Marathon bombing attack and the Las Vegas shooting. He has also helped highly successful executives and world-class athletes. Marko Cheseto, a double amputee marathon runner, broke the world record after completing TIPP. Chris Nikic worked with Dr Wood and made world news by becoming the first person with Downs Syndrome to complete an Ironman competition.
The Inspire Performance Institute was built on this simple phrase, 'There's nothing wrong with you, there's nothing wrong with your mind'. Some events and experiences have created some glitches and error messages for your mind during your lifetime, and all you need is a reboot.
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Full Transcript Of The Podcast
Lisa Tamati: Welcome back, everybody to Pushing the Limits. Today I have Dr Don Wood, who is sitting in Florida. And Dr Don is a wonderful man. He is a trauma expert. He is someone who had a problem in his own family and sought about finding a solution. He is the developer of the TIPP method, T-I-P-P method. He spent years researching, and to understand how our minds affect our bodies. Dr Wood made the connection between trauma and health issues. In addition, he recognised the daily stress that people live with when they've been through trauma, and that the only solutions provided in the normal conventional world and medications. But his experience with his family provided the determination required to develop a cutting-edge neuroscience approach, a real holistic solution that provides immediate and long lasting relief for people who have been through trauma of any sort, whether it's small or large. The TIPP program developed by Dr Wood has benefited individuals all over the world. And he really wanted to create a solution that removed the stigma of trauma. Too many people are afraid to ask for help because of that stigma. And that's why he named the program around increasing performance levels. The name of his institute is the Inspired Performance Institute.
I really love this episode with Dr Don Wood, he is a lovely, amazing person with a way of helping people get rid of PTSD, get rid of trauma out of their lives. So that they can get on with being the best versions of themselves. And that's what we're all about here. He's worked with everyone, from soldiers coming back from wars to victims of the Boston Marathon bombing campaign, to highly successful executives and world-class athletes. He's been there, done that. So I really hope that you enjoy this conversation with Dr Wood.
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Hello, everyone and welcome back to Pushing the Limits. This week, I have another amazing guest for you. I've found some pretty big superstars over the years, and this one is going to be very important to listen to. I have Dr Don Wood, welcome to the show, Dr Don.
Dr Don Wood: Thank you, Lisa. I'm excited to be here.
Lisa: This is gonna be a very interesting, and it's a long-anticipated interview for me, and Dr Don is sitting in Florida, and you've got a very nice temperature of the day, isn't it?
Dr Don: Oh, absolutely gorgeous- low 80s, no humidity. I mean, you just like I said, you couldn't pick a better day, it's very fast. I would have tried to sit outside and do this. But I was afraid somebody would start up a lawn mower.
Lisa: Podcast life. I've just got the cat wandering, and so he's probably start meowing in a moment. Now, Dr Don, you are an author, a speaker, a trauma expert, the founder of the Inspired Performance Institute. Can you give us a little bit of background of how did you get to where you are today, and what you do?
Dr Don: Well it's sort of an interesting story. I really started the Inspired Performance Institute because of my wife and daughter more. Mostly my daughter than anything else. I talked about this, is that I led this very, very quiet, idyllic kind of childhood with no trauma. Never had anything ever really happen to me. You know, bumps along the way, but nothing kind of that would be considered trauma. And I lived in a home that was so loving and nurturing, that even if I got bumped a little bit during the day, you know, was I, when I was a kid, I'm coming home to this beautiful environment that would just regulate my nervous system again.
Lisa: Wow.
Dr Don: So I believe that that was critical in terms of having my nervous system always feeling safe. And that really resulted in amazing health. I mean, I've been healthy all my life. And as an adult, when things would happen, I could automatically go back into that nervous system regulation, because I had trained it without even knowing it.
Lisa: Yeah.
Dr Don: that I was able to get back into that. Well. And so when I met my wife, I realised she was not living in that world. And amazingly enough, Lisa, I thought everybody lived like, because I had no idea that a lot of my friends were being traumatised at home. That I had no idea, because everybody's on their best behaviour. If I come over, everybody's behaving themselves and you don't see it. My friends, a lot of times wouldn't share it because of either shame or guilt. I mean, my wife, nobody knew what was going on in their home.
Lisa: Yeah.
Dr Don: And she had one best friend that knew, that was about it. And if you met her father, who was really the bad guy in this whole thing, everybody thought he was the greatest guy. Because outwardly, he came across as this generous, hard-working, loving kind of guy. Loved his family, but he just ran his home with terror.
Lisa: Wow. Terrible.
Dr Don: And so, oh, it was terrible. So when I met my wife, I realised, wow, this, because we got close very quickly, because I had the chance to play professional hockey in Sweden when I was 18. So we got married at 19. So very quickly, I was around her a lot, while we were sort of getting ready for that. So I got to see the family dynamic up close very quickly. And that's when I realised, boy, she's not living in that world, which is living in fear all the time. And that's why I sat down with her one day, and I just said, 'Tell me what's going on here. Because I can sense this tension in here. I could sense that there was a lot of fear going on. What's going on?' And she started sharing it with me, but swore me to secrecy. Like I could never tell anybody because of all that shame and guilt, because nobody really outside the home would have been aware of it.
Lisa: Or probably believed it.
Dr Don: Or believed it. Right.
Lisa: Yeah.
Dr Don: And then it was again, that 'What will people think about me? What do they think about my family?' That's really common, when you have people who have experienced trauma like that. And so, I sort of follow along and said, 'Okay, this will be our secret,' but I thought to myself, 'Well, this will be great now, because I'm going to get her out of that home'.
Lisa: Yeah.
Dr Don: And she's going to be living in my world. So everything will just calm down, and she'll be feeling that peace that I've experienced all my life.
Lisa: Not quite so simple.
Dr Don: I was like, Well, how is this not helping? Like, why now? She's living in the world that I grew up in because I was very much like my father. I wasn't gonna yell at her, scream at her, do anything that would have made her feel fearful. But she was still living in fear.
Lisa: Yeah.
Dr Don: And if, yeah, and if I said something like, 'No, I don't like that.' She could tear up and start going, why are you mad at me? Yeah. And I would be like, 'Oh my God, like where did you get I was mad at you for?' I just said. That made no sense to me at the time. Now I understand it perfectly. What I didn't realise at the time was that people who have been traumatised are highly sensitive to sound—
Lisa: Hypervigilant and hyperaware of noise and people raising their voice.
Dr Don: Any kind of noise. And what she also, as a child, she had learned to listen very carefully to the way her father spoke, so that she could then recognise any kind of the slightest little change in my vocal tone. So if I had been a little frustrated with something at work that day, or, you know, some other thing that was nothing related to her, she could pick up on that tone change. And then, in her mind, what her mind would be doing is saying, 'What do we know about men when they start to get angry?' And a whole bunch of data and information about her father would come flooding in and overstimulate her nervous system.
Lisa: So then it's like they Google search, doing a Google search and going, 'Hey, have I had this experience before?'
Dr Don: Yeah.
Lisa: And picking out, 'Yeah, we've been here before. This is not good. This is dangerous. This is scary.'
Dr Don: Yep. And that's actually what led me to the research that I did, mainly because of my daughter, though. So my wife lived with that, she developed Hashimoto's. So she had this thyroid issue with, because she was constantly in a fight or flight state.
Lisa: Yeah, the cortisol.
Dr Don: More flight than anything. Yeah, cortisol. And so when my daughter was 14, she was diagnosed with Crohn's. And they just told us that you just kind of have to learn to live with this. And she's going to be on medication for the rest of her life. And we'll just continue to cut out pieces of her intestines until she has nothing left and she'd have a colostomy bag. That's just the way it is.
Lisa: Oh. And she's 14 years old.
Dr Don: She was 14. Yeah. She ended up having for resections done, she would go down to you know, 90, 85 pounds. She'd get so sick, the poor thing. No, because she just couldn't eat. Yeah. And she couldn't hold anything down. And they just told us to have no answers. My wife did unbelievable research, trying to come up with answers and really couldn't come up with anything except this management system that they've been given her. And so, I was adopted. So we didn't know my family history. Yeah. So our family doctor was my grandfather. And I didn't know this until I was 18.
Lisa: Oh wow.
Dr Don: I always knew I was adopted. But my mother shared the story with me when I was 18. That he came to my parents and said, I have a special child I want you to adopt, right. Now. I guess you just knew that my parents were just amazing people. And you know, at that time, you know, unwed mothers, that was considered a shame. Right? You didn't talk about that. So that was a quiet adoption.
Lisa: Wow.
Dr Don: In fact, his wife didn't even know about it.
Lisa: Wow.
Dr Don: Could be my grandmother. And that's, it's interesting, the story, because I should share this too. Because what happened was, is I never understood why my birth certificate was dated two years after my birthday. And what happened was, is that my parents adopted me, like immediately upon birth. But my grandmother found out about it, his wife found out about and sued my parents to get me back.
Lisa: Oh.
Dr Don: And so they had to go into this legal battle for two years.
Lisa: Oh, wow.
Dr Don: Now I remember when I was really, really young, I used to get these really bad stomach pains. And I, and they took me, I remember going to doctors, I was really young. I remember going to doctors, but my grandfather was very holistic at the time for an MD. So you know, I was on cod liver oil, and you know, all these different things like, and so what he said to me, he says, No, he's just stressed out because of the stress in the home. You have to take the stress out of this home. He's feeling it.'
Lisa: Yep.
Dr Don: Right. So it's not that my parents were yelling, screaming.
Lisa: He's ahead of his time.
Dr Don: Oh, way ahead. But what he realised was that, because it was so hard financially for them, that had a major effect on their life. So I guess I was feeling it. And so they went out of their way to take all the stress out.
Lisa: Wow. What lovely parents.
Dr Don: Oh yeah. So it created this unbelievable, unusual home life. And so I never had any real tension in the home.
Lisa: Wow.
Dr Don: Well, that was, I guess, as my wife said, we were the perfect petri dishes for this because I was living what we want to be, and she was living in the opposite world of what a lot of people do live in. And so at least I knew what the model was, what we were going for.
Lisa: And when we're exposed to trauma very early in life, it has a much bigger impact on your health and everything then when it happens later in life. Is that right?
Dr Don: Absolutely. Because we've never learned how to balance our systems, so then it stays, you know, in dysregulation a lot more than it did. And that's really what sort of led me to develop the program, is I realised that when my daughter was 16, she disclosed to us some sexual abuse that she had had when she was like six years of age that we had no idea. So my wife was, obviously both of us were devastated, but my wife was extremely, she had experienced, you know, sexual abuse as a child and thought she would never let that happen to her child.
Lisa: Yeah.
Dr Don: So now my poor wife has also got a new, you know, trauma onto her. And so that's where it really came down to, is, you know, she said to me, 'You could research this and find out what's going on, because I have no answers.' And that's when I started to research and I made the connection between trauma and these autoimmune issues, for example, that my wife had, and my daughter. And so what I discovered is that I believe that unresolved trauma creates inflammation in the body. The inflammation compromises the immune system and your neurotransmitters. So we start getting sick, and we start feeling bad because our neurotransmitter, serotonin is produced mostly in the gut. So the serotonin is affected by the inflammation, which was from my daughter, right? She's not going to feel good.
Lisa: Nope.
Dr Don: And then that just leads to a host of other problems. And it's, it's really, really sad that the only solution that we currently are using is to teach people to live and manage and cope with it.
Lisa: I think, yeah, so we, we know, which is, which is good. You know, we're learning things, how to cope with anxieties, and breath work and all that sort of good stuff. But it's not getting to the root cause of the problem and being able to to deal with it. So when we're in a heightened state of stress and cortisol, and when we're taking energy away from our immune system, and blood literally away from the gut, and and from a neurotransmitter production, and all that sort of thing, so is that what's going on, and why it actually affects the body? Because this mind body connection, which we're really only in the last maybe decade, or 15 years or something, really starting to dig into, isn't it? Like there's and there's still a massive disconnect in the conventional medical world where this is the mind, and this is the body. And you know, from here, up and here, and it's separate.
Dr Don: And so on and so forth? Yeah.
Lisa: Yeah. And it we're one thing, you know. And so this has a massive effect on our health, and it can lead to all sorts of autoimmune diseases, or even cancers, and so on. So you were at this time, so you didn't have the Inspired Performance Institute at this stage? What were you doing professionally? And then, did you go back and do a PhD? And in...? Wow.
Dr Don: I've always been an entrepreneur all my life. So I was in financial services, we did a number of different things. We, my son and I, still have an energy business, we do solar energy and stuff like that.
Lisa: Oh wow.
Dr Don: I decided if I was going to do this, I needed to go back and really study. So I went back and got by, went back to school, got my PhD.
Lisa: Wow.
Dr Don: And, you know, to truly, to try to add credibility, number one, to what I was doing. Because, you know, people are gonna say, 'Well, who are you? Yeah, you know, why should we listen to you? You never had any trauma and you're supposed to be an expert? Like, how does that work?' You know, it's the same thing with addiction. You know, I help people with addiction. I've never had a drink in my life, never touched a drug in my life. Now that I say, but I know what addiction is.
Lisa: Yeah.
Dr Don: I don't believe addiction is a disease. I believe it's a code that gets built from pain.
Lisa: Yeah, let's dig into that a little bit. And then we'll go back to your daughter's story. Because addiction, you know, it's something I know from a genetic perspective. I have a tendency towards, towards having addictive nature, personality traits. I chase dopamine a lot. I have a deficit of dopamine receptors. And so I'm constantly going after that reward. Now that's worked itself out in my life, and in running ridiculous kilometres and working ridiculous hours, and not always in negative things. Luckily, I've never had problems with drinking or drugs, but I know that if I had started down that road, I would have ended up probably doing it, you know, very well.
Dr Don: You'd be a star as well.
Lisa: I'd be a star in that as well. And luckily, I was sort of a little bit aware of that and my parents never drank and they, you know, made sure that we had a good relationship with things like that, and not a bad one. Have struggled with food, though. That's definitely one of the emotional sort of things. And I think a lot of people have some sort of bad relationship with food in some sort of way, shape, or form on the spectrum, so to speak. What is it that causes addiction? And is it a physical dependency? Or is there something more to it?
Dr Don: Yeah, that's why I don't believe it's a physical dependency. Because here's the way I look at it is, people will say to me, 'Well, if I stopped this heroin, the body's going to crave the heroin, and I'm going to go into withdrawal.' And my response to that is, 'How could the body crave a substance that it doesn't know? It doesn't regulate heroin. How could it crave something that doesn't regulate?' I believe it's the mind, has made a connection between the heroin and survival. Because you have felt bad, right? Because of trauma, or whatever it is, whenever you took the heroin, you felt better.
So I had a lady come in who had been on heroin. And she said to me, she's, 'Well, I told my therapist, I'm coming to see you. And he told me, I had to let you know upfront and be honest and tell you I have self-destructive behaviour.' And I just smiled at her. And I said, 'Really? What would make you think you're self destructive?' And she looked at me, because this is what she's been told for a year.
Lisa: Brilliant.
Dr Don: She says, 'Well, I'm sticking a needle in my arm with heroin, don't you think that's self destructive?' And I said to her, I said, 'No, I don't think it was self destructive. I think you're trying to feel better. And I bet you, when you stuck the needle in your arm, you felt better.' That nobody had ever said that to her before. And so I said, 'Now, the substance you're using is destructive, but you're not destructive? What if I could show you another way to feel better, that didn't require you having to take a drug?'
Lisa: Wow.
Dr Don: And I said, 'You're designed to feel better. And I believe that the brain, what happened is, is it because you felt bad, you found a resource that temporarily stopped that pain.' And you see your subconscious mind is fully present in the moment. So when does it want pain to stop? Right now. And if that heroin stops the pain right now, then what happened was, is that system, you have two memory systems, you have explicit memory system that records all the information in real time. So it records all the data, and stores. No other animal does that. We're the only animal that stores explicit details about events and experiences. We also have an associative procedural memory that we learned through association and repetition over time. So, because the explicit memory kept creating the pain, because we kept thinking about it, and looping through this pain cycle, you started taking heroin, then you engage your second associative memory, which learns through repetition and builds, codes, habits, and behaviours.
Lisa: Wow.
Dr Don: Because you kept repeating it your mind built a code and connected up the pain being relieved by the substance.
Lisa: Wow.
Dr Don: Now, your subconscious mind is literal. So it doesn't understand negation. It only understands what's happening now. And so if your mind says that substance stops the pain, it doesn't look at the future and consequences of it. It only looks at what's happening. It's only our conscious mind that can think of consequences. Your subconscious mind, which is survival-based only understands. That's why people at 911 would jump out of the buildings. They weren't jumping to die, they would jumping to stop from dying. Yeah, if they didn't jump, they would have died right now. So even if they went another two seconds, they weren't dying now.
Lisa: Right? So it's really in the right now, there's really no right now. It's really in the seconds.
Dr Don: And the very, very milliseconds of what's happening now. And there's no such thing as consequences, it's basically survival. So now, if you keep repeating that cycle over and over using heroin, and then somebody comes along and says, 'Lisa, you can't do that. That's bad for you. I'm going to take that away from you.' Your survival brain will fight to keep it because it thinks it'll die without it.
Lisa: Yeah. Makes a glitch.
Dr Don: It's an error message.
Lisa: Have you heard of Dr Austin Perlmutter on the show last week, David Perlmutter's son and they're both written a book called Brain Wash. And there they talk about disconnection syndrome. So the disconnection between the prefrontal cortex in the amygdala and the amygdala can be more powerful when we have inflammation in the brain. For example, like inflammation through bad foods, or toxins, or mercury, or whatever the case may be. And that this can also have an effect on our ability to make good long-term decisions. It makes us live in the here and now. So I want that here and fixed now; I want that chocolate bar now. And I know my logical thinking brain is going, 'But that's not good for you. And you shouldn't be doing that.' And you, you're trying to overcome it. But you're there's this disconnect between your prefrontal cortex and your amygdala. And I've probably butchered that scenario a little bit.
Dr Don: No, you got it. But 95% of your mind is working on that subconscious survival base. It's only about 5% that's logical.